Toxic GIRLFRIEND

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2020
  • Meet toxic girlfriend. She likes to make her boyfriend cry. She sees no problem with her behavior. Years of not bearing responsibility for her actions shaped her strange personality. Everyone knows her, everyone warned you about her. Despite this, you are with her. You feel that this relationship is slowly destroying you but you cannot imagine your life without her.
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  • @thegaspoweredjohnnyjohn3972
    @thegaspoweredjohnnyjohn3972 3 года назад +24544

    Ohh, so if she sits on some dude's lap, it's called, just "toxic"
    But when I do it, they call me "gay"

  • @MillenniaThinker
    @MillenniaThinker  3 года назад +7393

    She is drunk at every party ✅
    She does not answer calls from You when she go out with her girlfriends ✅
    She is 20+ years old and mentally behaves like a child ✅
    Her ex is your best friend from elementary school ✅
    It is never her fault ✅
    What did I missed?

    • @Insky_
      @Insky_ 3 года назад +544

      she doesn't exists

    • @pretzel4805
      @pretzel4805 3 года назад +662

      She doesnt show much affection

    • @serbianbro5322
      @serbianbro5322 3 года назад +734

      She's a femminist

    • @aaravsingh3027
      @aaravsingh3027 3 года назад +224

      Sheeeeeee iiiiiiiiiissssss aaaaaaaaaaaa badddddddddd girl.

    • @canaldecasta
      @canaldecasta 3 года назад +92

      dad is mean

  • @KDizzy6
    @KDizzy6 2 года назад +2890

    "I'm a bad girlfriend" isn't an acknowledgement of poor behavior. It's bait to see if you'll disagree with her.

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 2 года назад +180

      my ex used to do this all the time. "I'm a horrible person, I don't deserve you." after we broke up, I woke up and thought why the hell he kept saying that when he wasn't even willing to change. he wanted me to tell him no, hes a good person (which I did), or maybe he wanted me to settle for the piece of crap he really was.
      I was in love with a version of him I made up in my head, a version that actually respected me as a person and wasn't manipulative, and selfish. the illusion was shattered. I got over him pretty quickly because of that.

    • @hugolc8351
      @hugolc8351 2 года назад +20

      @@larsswig912 i live that now... I can relate all of what you said...

    • @milvilleromain57
      @milvilleromain57 2 года назад +33

      I like the infamous variation of this : "one day, you will break up with me to go with another woman because you love me less than I love you"
      2 birds 1 stone as you end up telling her that she's wrong so get the validation she wanted but she also has an excuse to separate you from your female friends

    • @lucialight2002
      @lucialight2002 2 года назад +16

      When I was a shitty teenager I used to do shit like that but my BF wasn't like "oh no babe you're fine" he was like "Yeah that was pretty shitty" and it really helped me grow, it stung but I needed that and we're still together after 4 years. We criticize each other but never gave up, I feel like a lot of my old friends needed this but couldn't take it.

    • @lab_leo8
      @lab_leo8 2 года назад

      (This doesnt imply to all girls btw)
      Girl tactics to see what you believe about them:
      -asking obvious and idiotic questions
      -faking shit
      -saying things that are very idiotic
      What girls do after none of these work:
      -cry
      -cry
      -*cry*

  • @schwarg
    @schwarg 2 года назад +1194

    My girlfriend of 7 years started acting like this about 5 years in. Was too hard to fathom cutting her loose, but the psychological torture of seeing this pattern over and over became too great. If I was to begin having respect for myself, I couldn't continue to tolerate her disrespect towards me. That was 4 years ago and I haven't dated anyone since, but I'm okay with it. Lonliness is much easier to emotionally withstand than that kind of abuse.

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 2 года назад +52

      damn, 5 whole years... I don't blame you for not being able trust anyone again. I wouldn't either

    • @aryansharma2237
      @aryansharma2237 2 года назад +5

      Dodged a bullet right there

    • @laneboys3492
      @laneboys3492 2 года назад +26

      They’ll promise to change and actually do so for about a month. Get your hopes up and then go back to their old ways. A vicious cycle I had to escape from as well.

    • @lifelyricsnofansub
      @lifelyricsnofansub 2 года назад +8

      Take the blackpill

    • @Eargesplitten-Loudenboomer
      @Eargesplitten-Loudenboomer 2 года назад +11

      Mine of 6 started after 4 to 5, then I walked in on her messing around with another guy. Also 4 years ago and haven't dated since.

  • @totorofosho
    @totorofosho 3 года назад +4039

    She isn't yours.
    It's just your turn.

    • @danielgorzel7222
      @danielgorzel7222 3 года назад +146

      deep and true.

    • @totorofosho
      @totorofosho 3 года назад +95

      @@danielgorzel7222 It's an old MGTOW proverb.

    • @yanesrosenskrabe1724
      @yanesrosenskrabe1724 3 года назад +147

      HURRRRR
      “ShE IsN’t YoUr’S iS jUsT yOuR tUrN”
      If she left is because something happened... you learn, heal, move on and next time you should be more prepared to a new rs until you find someone who is worth while being with
      First of all, be a real MAN, have a job, take care of yourself and respect yourself (REGARDLESS OF WOMEN)
      Second of all, if you end up with a toxic relationship like that is entirely YOUR FAULT, you’re choosing to be with someone that is not good for you
      To complete my point,
      this saying means that girls don’t care about guys, but I know couples that have been together a lifetime
      Women love just like we do, having good relationships are a skill
      Men and women are NO DIFFERENT from each other,
      there are good girlfriends and bad girlfriends out there
      Just as There are good boyfriends and bad boyfriends out there too
      MGTOW is just sad
      My tip -
      Learn about Stoicism and become the best version of yourself

    • @mileschow5961
      @mileschow5961 3 года назад +1

      Too true

    • @blacksage205
      @blacksage205 3 года назад +2

      I'm good, next!

  • @anapple.4338
    @anapple.4338 3 года назад +9838

    I’ve never had a toxic relationship, I’ve never been in a relationship

    • @sami_got_vibes
      @sami_got_vibes 3 года назад +349

      same shit, 24 now. Hope i never get in a relationship. And even if, i hope we get married afterwards

    • @migosdownthetrack938
      @migosdownthetrack938 3 года назад +29

      Tuff.

    • @thinkmarkthink7963
      @thinkmarkthink7963 3 года назад +48

      @@sami_got_vibes im sorry...

    • @krispy_kornflake
      @krispy_kornflake 3 года назад +64

      @@sami_got_vibes based robot
      same

    • @dudeguyrockfan
      @dudeguyrockfan 3 года назад +84

      @@sami_got_vibes trust me man it's un fun 2 of my 3 relationships were toxic. Hooked me in with sex and kind words then after a month mooched off me for everything and if I said no she told her "friends" other guys she was sending nudes to we broke up and she's with them now just to buy her stuff (a lot of these guys were in a whole other state she would never go to)

  • @tragictoast2956
    @tragictoast2956 3 года назад +380

    I’m so glad I have a loving and caring fiancé. Men, go and find a girl who loves you sacrificially, and go and love her the same back. Sacrificial love is how you keep your relationship together. You may not be perfect, but you both need to sacrifice to make the relationship work. Sacrifice your lust for other women, sacrifice your time, sacrifice your grumpy attitude, sacrifice your pity party… etc. love her how you want to be loved. Be a leader and serve her and your family. Lead by example and teach your kids how to be leaders people want to follow.

    • @brusineta
      @brusineta 2 года назад +5

      Best comment on whole youtube! God bless your relationship and family, Toast!

    • @Chironex_Fleckeri
      @Chironex_Fleckeri 2 года назад +3

      Legendary comment 🙌

    • @thirdworldneet923
      @thirdworldneet923 2 года назад +3

      He's gonna get blackpilled hard

    • @Chironex_Fleckeri
      @Chironex_Fleckeri 2 года назад +25

      @@thirdworldneet923 Nah. Sometimes things really do work out. People get over wanting to fuck other people and realize they have a partner in life that they should never betray. It's rare but probably 10-15% of marriages are like this

    • @rodrigosalvez250
      @rodrigosalvez250 2 года назад +2

      Wisest man

  • @rainmanslim4611
    @rainmanslim4611 3 года назад +495

    Used to date a girl like this.
    Had enough.
    Dumped her.
    Few months later she told me she wanted me back.
    She assumed i'd just say yes.
    I said no.
    She was mortified.

    • @jasongibson1225
      @jasongibson1225 2 года назад

      She doesn't love you, she loves the werewolves who haunt her believing they protect her.
      Oh they protect her, like a piece of meat. They hate (envy) gentleman who have her for any time. They'll rip him to shreds to ensure she never leaves their pack.
      They don't know love, and this is the closest they get. A piece of meat they rip to shreds daily.
      Don't follow her, all her paths lead to death.

    • @emiliajeanelle3286
      @emiliajeanelle3286 2 года назад +21

      She deserved it. Hope for the best. Just hold on. There is someone or something out there for you. It doesn't have to be a partner since it can come in different forms.

    • @Krishnarastogi_7
      @Krishnarastogi_7 Год назад

      king💪

    • @harleyspeedthrust4013
      @harleyspeedthrust4013 Год назад +13

      i did something similar. it took a couple tries to cut her loose but about two months ago i did it - i had started seeing someone new and i told the toxic girl that it was over for good. i told her we would never be friends out of respect for the new girl. she made a fuss, threw a tantrum, and since then has been bothering me. i had blocked her on everything and did not give her a lick of attention since she threw her tantrum - it feels good to be free of that mess and to be with someone who i can actually feel at peace with.

    • @Pro9pix
      @Pro9pix Год назад +1

      King 👑

  • @druidicnorse9
    @druidicnorse9 3 года назад +3630

    "I know a lot of people"
    That's deadly my dudes, stay away from that.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 3 года назад +192

      I can confirm, stay away from this shit.

    • @Albus_Rex
      @Albus_Rex 3 года назад +180

      I've only ever heard that line from single mothers.

    • @monster-tc1nz
      @monster-tc1nz 3 года назад +147

      That basically translates to "a lot of dudes hit on me but i think theyre just trying to be friends"

    • @imnobodyanon9430
      @imnobodyanon9430 3 года назад +40

      Been with a tinder date like that, saw similar shit, bailed 10 minutes in.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 3 года назад +6

      @@monster-tc1nz man this is so true.

  • @187onaPigeon
    @187onaPigeon 3 года назад +8635

    She is never yours, it's just your turn. If she knows everyone at a club, she's for the streets. Trust me, I am a nightclub photographer.

  • @The2984
    @The2984 3 года назад +67

    If my gf sat on her ex's lap, she would've ended the relationship without a word needed to be said. Period.

    • @kacperzimowski4626
      @kacperzimowski4626 Месяц назад +1

      for polish girlfriends this is not so obvious... they would just tell you that you have "jealousy issues" and you need to work on yourself

  • @midnightswami5582
    @midnightswami5582 7 месяцев назад +2

    i had a relationship like this a few months ago... She was always "not in the mood" to talk and everything... She would get mad at me for no reason and then come back saying "sorry i shouldn't disrespect you like that bla bla bla" (same shit from the video, she was doing it only for me to disagree with her and tell her how beautiful she is) After a few months of gaslighting i decided that it was enough and i left her... She was always saying she loved me but when i dumped her she didnt even try to stay, she just said "Take care, [my name]" and that was all... i guess i dodged years of unsatifaction, overthinking and anxiety

  • @ivanleech8499
    @ivanleech8499 3 года назад +7429

    This is terrifyingly accurate, even the way she looks

  • @jeranorton1252
    @jeranorton1252 3 года назад +4925

    "If a guy cheats on a girl, they're awful. If a girl cheats on a guy, then the guy isn't giving her the support she needs"

    • @c4lic0
      @c4lic0 3 года назад +127

      I smell ✨incel✨

    • @jeranorton1252
      @jeranorton1252 3 года назад +400

      @@c4lic0 I don't think the person who said that was, actually. Just stupid

    • @Micro13bk
      @Micro13bk 3 года назад +86

      @@jeranorton1252 As much as I hate the word "simp", I think it suits that quote

    • @saulesalejos4483
      @saulesalejos4483 3 года назад +426

      Cool I have another quote.
      "If a girl has sex with manny men, She is called a Hoe...
      If a man does it...
      He gay Lol"

    • @prettz9742
      @prettz9742 3 года назад +109

      @@c4lic0 that's some lazy logic you have there.

  • @rival4228
    @rival4228 2 года назад +128

    After revisiting this video after a whole year, i began to see parallels in roughly every aspect of this video to my own relationship. I was basically dating this woman. This video, along with the comments attached to it, gave me enough courage and willpower to finally break free. I ended my 10 month long relationship a hour after viewing this video. It’s now been roughly 20 hours since, and i feel awful but i know it’s going to look up. Thank You, Millennial Thinker.

    • @via7779
      @via7779 Год назад +6

      Hi. How are you doing now?

    • @rival4228
      @rival4228 Год назад +24

      @@via7779 hey! doing good now lol. took me awhile to move on but i finally did. things always get better broski.

    • @rival4228
      @rival4228 Год назад

      @Elf i encourage you to do it, it was the right call my friend.

    • @patchesthepirate5435
      @patchesthepirate5435 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@rival4228hope it's even better now a year later

  • @quarthbutteryant6859
    @quarthbutteryant6859 2 года назад +38

    Shit really changes you. I've matured alot from the relationship, the break up, and the aftermath. Lost everybody who I thought were my friends because they simp over her. Needless to say, I'm kind of glad I was in that relationship. If not, then I would still be a child.

  • @chknsoupcalypso2850
    @chknsoupcalypso2850 3 года назад +6167

    This guy genuinely has a fantastic grasp on human nature

    • @TheMV1992
      @TheMV1992 3 года назад +55

      That's what I was thinking as I watched this video

    • @dianef617
      @dianef617 3 года назад +75

      ... RUclips keeps recommending them to me. The only one that’s realistic so far is the incel one. Ngl I see where he’s coming from, but it kinda,, has a lot of projecting, or misplaced blame sometimes. He needs to try to separate himself (his hurt, desires, etc) from his perceptions... These videos show more a mentality, than actual reality.... Lowkey a victim mentality tbh. It’s not easy tho, I don’t blame him, the world is shitty & extremely unfair. But the truth is, that doesn’t absolve u from the responsibility of working on yourself. To a certain extent, life **is** what you make of it...

    • @dianef617
      @dianef617 3 года назад +9

      @Avatar Ang There’s def women that r this toxic, I agree. In this video tho, it seems a bit exaggerated or one-sided (I say this cus I’ve noticed it’s a pattern in the videos, so it’s clear who the audience should sympathize with, or dislike). Idk I just think this perspective is very... limited.. Like were we supposed to agree with the doomer at the end when he got uncomfortable that the girl had slept with other people? 💀 Sorry but that part was just awkward. Like I know part of it is that the dude is kinda insecure too, so I guess it’s understandable he’ll doubt if she really cares about him?? But... damn dude that was so,, judgemental & questionable (I didn’t wanna say this, cus I know how it sounds, but it’s lowkey sexist 😅). Idk... there’s just a lot to work through here, lots of layers. Anyways, I genuinely hope ppl who relate can find peace & grow tho, the sadness is what I’ve taken most from this :(
      (Sorry for writing so much, this is just really interesting to think about haha)

    • @wylser
      @wylser 3 года назад +67

      @@dianef617 Check the Toxic Boyfriend video and it's the same. It's showing the most common traits that such people use and applying them to one person for the maximum effect so I can't agree with your assessment of it being sexist or one-sided at all.

    • @ProjectUnsoundDineen
      @ProjectUnsoundDineen 3 года назад +8

      Nah this is text book grasp at most

  • @Gaphalor
    @Gaphalor 3 года назад +4027

    This is literally my little sister... i tried to warn her boyfriend but he didnt want to listen.. now she took over his friend cycle, dumped him and sleeps with his best friend... I feel bad for this guy, i think ill invite him for a drink!

    • @rikai5344
      @rikai5344 3 года назад +172

      What did he say? Did you do it? I'm genuinely curious!

    • @Gaphalor
      @Gaphalor 3 года назад +560

      @@rikai5344 no, he moved to another city and is studiing there now, i think he is doing alright and he moved on so i dont want to remember him of that and leave him alone.

    • @rikai5344
      @rikai5344 3 года назад +157

      @@Gaphalor Alright man, makes sense. Thanks for responding :)

    • @richardevans8908
      @richardevans8908 3 года назад +156

      You’re a good man, respect brother

    • @fellipedasilva99
      @fellipedasilva99 3 года назад +132

      Damn, you should tell your sister to stop being toxic. She’s going to end up alone and unhappy if she doesn’t change.

  • @ntrooper06
    @ntrooper06 Год назад +4

    I was in a relationship like this, she dated many people and is even dating someone else now but tries to get with me again by saying that I was “Her first true love.” I keep rejecting her now and even try to make as little to no contact with her ever. Before I used to cave in and get back with her out of fear that she might make up a fake story about me saying that I did something bad to her or something in order to ruin my life, I am okay now and don’t fear that as much, for the people who are in these relationships, do not be afraid to leave, you will find someone better and it will get better. I’ve been there and you are not alone.

    • @ghostmetal6251
      @ghostmetal6251 Год назад

      Bro, same. I fear the same f thing. But thank god I discovered stoicism. Makes me happy to know that I'm not the only one fearing that

  • @TrickTails
    @TrickTails 3 года назад +57

    That quote at the end hit hard. Even if the person isn't toxic, your relationship could still be toxic and unhealthy for you and your partner. Do not be afraid to change: it does not mean you don't love them any less, because you, in fact, love them enough to put an end to what would end up hurting you both.

  • @kasp9290
    @kasp9290 3 года назад +2272

    toxic girlfriend: *dies of intoxication*

  • @thedisturbingartist7224
    @thedisturbingartist7224 3 года назад +10795

    Loneliness is nothing compared to the daily agony of being emotionally dependent on someone like this.

    • @venexbot4120
      @venexbot4120 3 года назад +149

      This could be my ex. She was very manipulative and cheated several times in a Week.

    • @guragat2
      @guragat2 3 года назад +40

      I'd die homeless

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 3 года назад +181

      But the worst part is that if you just say "we're done" and leave her, you'll be the *toxic* one on her perspective and that's the way she'll tell the stories... You're screwed in the very moment you just met someone like this.

    • @radisha1745
      @radisha1745 3 года назад +5

      +1

    • @Food4Cats
      @Food4Cats 3 года назад +79

      Loneliness is happiness compared to this

  • @t.m.5004
    @t.m.5004 2 года назад +150

    I once met a girl in the club and i brought her to my room after 1 hour. She did the kinkiest, naughtiest and dirtiest things i won't even explain which ones, then the day after she contacted me saying that she has a boyfriend and that she was drunk. Moral of the story Never ever trust a toxic girlfriend, especially the ones who like partying.

    • @windows96-formerchannel3
      @windows96-formerchannel3 Год назад +30

      Keep fantasizing bro

    • @jamaicanball6285
      @jamaicanball6285 Год назад +8

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 damn 😂

    • @yoba867
      @yoba867 Год назад +8

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 In younger years I was dumb enough to look for gf in the clubs (yeah-yeah, whatever). I've been told "uuh I was drunk and actually have a boyfriend" more than I'd like to remember. Highest priority in the partner after this streak became not liking to party.

    • @moresarmsmorearms6380
      @moresarmsmorearms6380 Год назад

      @@windows96-formerchannel3 Lmaoo

    • @macaryl95
      @macaryl95 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@windows96-formerchannel3 Chad exists whether you wanna believe or not

  • @ChosenPlayer100
    @ChosenPlayer100 2 года назад +16

    2:30 bro i just laughed my ass off because i thought he was sitting in the fire

  • @jacobwelling1100
    @jacobwelling1100 3 года назад +12669

    The scariest part isn't the abuse itself, it's how she acts like she recognizes it and wants to change afterwards to rope him back in.

    • @manthisjarisbroke9273
      @manthisjarisbroke9273 3 года назад +124

      This

    • @yagorbelfor9133
      @yagorbelfor9133 3 года назад +266

      A parasite...

    • @Lily-gz3ip
      @Lily-gz3ip 3 года назад +9

      @@yagorbelfor9133 🦆

    • @Godvoker
      @Godvoker 3 года назад +267

      Exactly, once you start recognising and calling out their abuse they say they will change but it always continues.

    • @jesusfchrist8479
      @jesusfchrist8479 3 года назад +106

      The push pull game was super effective on me. But i also had kids I was trying to be there for. Makes it alot harder to just leave.... Be careful fellas. Dont let yourselves be trapped.

  • @cascadecruiser101
    @cascadecruiser101 3 года назад +12302

    I convinced myself she wasn't abusive, and that I loved her. I don't think I'd still be alive if we stayed together.

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 года назад +503

      Me too. Mine tried to actually kill me.

    • @user-xr6gx3mk8b
      @user-xr6gx3mk8b 3 года назад +400

      @@GSCSTRYDER damn you should probably report her to the police then

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 года назад +384

      @@user-xr6gx3mk8b did but the case was dropped after I kicked her out my apt

    • @henrykwieniawski7233
      @henrykwieniawski7233 3 года назад +243

      @@GSCSTRYDER Damn. Don’t worry, karma will catch up to her soon enough. It did for my emotionally abusive ex and it’s sweet

    • @DrMan-nh3bg
      @DrMan-nh3bg 3 года назад +50

      @@henrykwieniawski7233 what happened to your ex brutha?

  • @MegaMan-bs3oy
    @MegaMan-bs3oy Год назад +4

    Its scary how they say "sorry" just to justify their shit actions and then go. "WHAT I SAID SORRY". I sat a girl down and explained to her how i had been used badly in past relationships and how it really scared me to try again. legit days later she started the SAME behavior the ex showed 6 years earlier. She gets mad says stop comparing me to the ex. THEN she finally gets it after i spill my whole case...says sorry. Then later on that night goes right back to pretty much demanding things with zero realization. When she doesn't get it she pouts then pretends thats just her "messing with me or being silly". They are some evil wicked people out there. Do not let them take advantage of you HAVING a soul.

  • @bconroy328
    @bconroy328 2 года назад +6

    Thank you bro got out of this... this video sparked the change. It was lonely at first but then found my self worth. better... rewatching this almost 2 years later brings back these memories. All the anger all the inferiority. All the self reassurances. All the sweet lies she would tell herself and I. I think she loved me but her actions were spot on as the girl in this video

  • @Joe-my6go
    @Joe-my6go 3 года назад +6765

    "my boyfriend won't let me stay at my ex's house for a week. i don't know how much more of this toxic relationship i can take"

    • @mrnnann
      @mrnnann 3 года назад +503

      my INSECURE boyfriend. They love to use that fucking word. Feminism is a C888r

    • @Joe-my6go
      @Joe-my6go 3 года назад +20

      @@mrnnann yeah

    • @nocturnaljoe9543
      @nocturnaljoe9543 3 года назад +19

      @@mrnnann true

    • @lhvy5066
      @lhvy5066 3 года назад +27

      @@mrnnann this is why yall get cheated on lmao

    • @kingt7987
      @kingt7987 3 года назад +192

      @@lhvy5066 U re either trolling and baiting or you are serious.In case you are serious you are a pathethic miserable unhappy wreck of a person.

  • @BryceTheRoman
    @BryceTheRoman 3 года назад +3457

    Why is this archetype so common? Society has doomed us

    • @eduardoa3165
      @eduardoa3165 3 года назад +270

      i had a girl like this lasted 4 years, glad to say i ended it 3 years ago after i decide to start ignoring her and started giving dry responses to her texts... now i am just focusing on myself, i havent spoken to her in 3 years 😀

    • @AndriuDaHousecat
      @AndriuDaHousecat 3 года назад +246

      Remember kids, if your gf can't let go her ex, had multiple short relationships in the past and manipulates you with fake love...
      Get away, you deserve better.

    • @kanseidorifto2430
      @kanseidorifto2430 3 года назад +17

      @@eduardoa3165 Congratulations, I'm sure there are many other guys like you who've had this situation, but good for you.

    • @InAnotherLife90
      @InAnotherLife90 3 года назад +78

      Around these people you may ask yourself, why do they have "girlfriends" and "boyfriends" when their clear end goal is just to fuck your girlfriend or boyfriend? Wouldn't it be better if they just lived their truth and admitted they all want to fuck each other? I mean what kind of person has time to just sit and talk to your girl for 3 hours at a campfire?

    • @vidiosconejimazul2643
      @vidiosconejimazul2643 3 года назад

      Algo q no es super rare card xd

  • @Nebula71722
    @Nebula71722 2 года назад

    This is really great storytelling and its pretty accurate to some of the relationships I've seen friends go through

  • @matthewrobarge9009
    @matthewrobarge9009 2 года назад +2

    These videos hit hard. I love the quotes at the end. This guy is an artist and a genius.

  • @Relaxokay359
    @Relaxokay359 3 года назад +3345

    "You know that I love you"
    If I had a dollar after every time I heard that. I could afford therapy

    • @orange8420
      @orange8420 3 года назад +49

      'chad' classmate : i had already 6 girls do you ever had 1 haha
      Me : i will have 1 but our relationship live longer than the history of ussr

    • @ghostbusters....
      @ghostbusters.... 3 года назад +3

      @@orange8420 chad status

    • @luisapaza317
      @luisapaza317 3 года назад +1

      Kinda sad

    • @zarathustrap2562
      @zarathustrap2562 3 года назад +4

      @@orange8420 you took the chad status from your classmate.

    • @shylilac7511
      @shylilac7511 3 года назад +1

      @Mooooney You should go by actions not words. If she actually tries she shouldn't have to say it out loud just when you say it back and forth.

  • @WildBandit300
    @WildBandit300 3 года назад +795

    Some incel: "Well at least he has a gf"

    • @Coreisus
      @Coreisus 3 года назад +42

      I mean.... it must be hard being an incel...

    • @ManLikeEddy
      @ManLikeEddy 3 года назад +20

      incel roast "well atleast i can find my place in society and don't creep up on women and scare them off"

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 3 года назад +36

      Gfs like that are literally worse than death.

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 3 года назад +5

      @George Bush :D yeah, I pretty much follow that pattern except for the SIM card thing. I just block them.

    • @donoto2457
      @donoto2457 3 года назад +1

      hey i know that guy! its me!

  • @mentkansleyunitedstatesgov6364
    @mentkansleyunitedstatesgov6364 3 года назад +7

    My mom used to pull that "you know that I love you" after she'd beat me and my brother and blame us for her difficult life, I fucking despise that woman nowadays, I think I'd honestly be dead if my nan hadn't allowed me to move into hers so I could get away from that emotionally abusive self-pitying wreck of a woman (I dunno if it's also a thing but my mum flat out denies ever laying a finger on me or my brother as if it never happened like not in a way that she's just trying to seem like she didn't do but as if she truly believes she never did anything like that)

  • @SB-uw9nz
    @SB-uw9nz 2 года назад +1

    I love your videos. They are short, yet deep and wise. It really makes you stop to reflect.

  • @user-io9pz4hf2e
    @user-io9pz4hf2e 3 года назад +4841

    This “little brother” was accurate af. They always try to lower your value in the relationships, like you’re just this silly pathetic looser and she making you a favour to even talk with you

    • @JamesPlaysGames95
      @JamesPlaysGames95 3 года назад +166

      My friends ex was like that. We were so proud when he broke it off with her. Terribly bossy and condensending towards him

    • @stephenmackeysantos3771
      @stephenmackeysantos3771 3 года назад +6

      so true

    • @doclouis4236
      @doclouis4236 3 года назад +45

      Her: [Compares him to her "little brother" even though he's noticeably taller than her and a bit wider]
      *Bruh*

    • @heathmcrigsby
      @heathmcrigsby 3 года назад +54

      Domestic abuse is key for keeping toxic gf in line.

    • @doclouis4236
      @doclouis4236 3 года назад +48

      @@heathmcrigsby Not until she eventually presses charges against you for that. What made you think that would be a good idea?

  • @trees1922
    @trees1922 3 года назад +1322

    "i know a couple of guys"
    Words that not even satan will ever say

    • @johnbash-on-ger
      @johnbash-on-ger 3 года назад +13

      Satan is a male, duh!

    • @brilianairlangga1408
      @brilianairlangga1408 3 года назад +47

      @@johnbash-on-ger you are sexist dude

    • @VALENT1N0124
      @VALENT1N0124 3 года назад +5

      @@brilianairlangga1408 how

    • @brilianairlangga1408
      @brilianairlangga1408 3 года назад +10

      @@VALENT1N0124 devilwoman exist

    • @blacksage205
      @blacksage205 3 года назад +5

      @@johnbash-on-ger since when does satan has a gender hahahahaha! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, but I agree, not even satan itself would say that

  • @jackmuller8541
    @jackmuller8541 3 года назад +4

    I was in a toxic relationship a few years back and this perfectly displays the feelings I felt. I'm glad she cheated cause if she didn't, I wouldn't have known how to get out of that relationship.

  • @bryceengland9480
    @bryceengland9480 2 года назад +1

    Watching this made me reflect and realize just how many times I have been in a relationship exactly like this, I only see it after its over and I say I wont get with another toxic girl just for the next to be even more toxic than the last.

  • @moxifloxi
    @moxifloxi 3 года назад +11280

    these grow more and more depressing
    🤤🤤

  • @crimson19
    @crimson19 3 года назад +8004

    Man i hardly see anyone talking about toxic girlfriends, because people think this kind of behavior is okay coming from girls
    EDIT: I'm considering deleting this comment. I'm tired of these replies.
    EDIT2: Okay, i won't delete it, but ya'll better behave.

    • @brokemono
      @brokemono 3 года назад +261

      It's fine. People go through this shit daily, it's necessary for some people so they find way better partners in the future.

    • @SkygerbyGameplays
      @SkygerbyGameplays 3 года назад +238

      Sadly this is the reality for when zoomers grow up.

    • @BruceLee-zj5jf
      @BruceLee-zj5jf 3 года назад +14

      Exactly

    • @gottoll4329
      @gottoll4329 3 года назад +15

      Fr tho

    • @whOmega_lol
      @whOmega_lol 3 года назад +190

      They either think the behavior is justified in some way or they outright deny the claim. Had it happen to me for so long, i became so numb that i didnt realise i was still dating her. Besides, the reason no one talks about it is cuz its shrouded in self doubt and jealousy when they shouldnt be factors at all. And yet you can't talk bad about wahmen cuz they do no wrong lmao, even when they cause psychological trauma.

  • @rikudousennin8359
    @rikudousennin8359 2 года назад

    Thank you Millenia thinker just feels growing ,understand toxic relations by your unique way

  • @garlico8
    @garlico8 2 года назад

    This is beyond toxic, this is mental as hell man.
    I love the quote at the end, and I hope many can free themselves from such nightmarish semi-relationships.

  • @RoliRuli
    @RoliRuli 3 года назад +3342

    actually, this is the type of girlfriend that you learn a lesson from. after that relationship is gone, you will be guaranteed not to let anyone treat you like that, and you will find a MUCH better girlfriend afterward. I'm telling you this because I went through that. its gonna be all good kings.

    • @thorfaxx6027
      @thorfaxx6027 3 года назад +121

      True, it's actually a good thing girls like this exist, you learn what to avoid in the future.

    • @GSCSTRYDER
      @GSCSTRYDER 3 года назад +69

      For real bro. This video is my ex and my shitty toxic relationship. I know what not to look for now

    • @NIIVES
      @NIIVES 3 года назад +13

      This is the truest truth I've read in a while. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @grendelkrieg5742
      @grendelkrieg5742 3 года назад +28

      @@DrLimeGreen You will. I thought the same thing after my Ex attempted to stab me and I finally snapped out of my own insecurities and sent her packing. It just takes time and a woman who will help and listen to you just as much as you do them. Look for Compromise and care. But never forget the signs of toxicity

    • @FBFTheRagingWarrior
      @FBFTheRagingWarrior 3 года назад +8

      I literally went trough the same thing this guy went trough on this animation.

  • @bigcreme4366
    @bigcreme4366 3 года назад +3179

    Scott Pilgrim Vs the World wasn't a romance movie, it was a dire warning.

    • @My_name_is_I.P._Freely
      @My_name_is_I.P._Freely 3 года назад +108

      By God...You're right!

    • @Nomad-bl4yw
      @Nomad-bl4yw 3 года назад +163

      That movie was awful cringe couldn't watch after the girl slept with the guy for no reason

    • @boianko
      @boianko 3 года назад +364

      I mean, both the leads are intentionally made to be shitty people, so I guess you're right.

    • @thedashey
      @thedashey 3 года назад +11

      @@Nomad-bl4yw what girl was it again?

    • @onceuponarevenant9409
      @onceuponarevenant9409 3 года назад +8

      It was always the second one.

  • @harmenschouten4370
    @harmenschouten4370 2 года назад +2

    My compliments on this channel. I thought it was some meme based stuff but its actually very deep, intelligent mirroring of current traits in our society of all ages. I respect you and I have become a paid member. Keep up the good work!

  • @yucandui
    @yucandui Год назад +3

    This reminds me way too much to my ex. And I know that she was a really bad person, but even tho, I can't get over with it.
    I want to forget her. But I don't know how.
    And it hurts so much.
    "You are always jealous of everything".

  • @ElectronNDubstep
    @ElectronNDubstep 3 года назад +583

    There's only one thing positive about toxic girlfriends: They teach you how to break up and how to go through with it.

    • @GeneralChangFromDanang
      @GeneralChangFromDanang 3 года назад +46

      And what to look out for in the future.

    • @ElectronNDubstep
      @ElectronNDubstep 3 года назад +23

      @@GeneralChangFromDanang true but even then some women are master actresses.

    • @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023
      @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 3 года назад +4

      @@ElectronNDubstep I think this is something you can learn on foot; I kind of realize that there are patterns to her, just as we are watching the patterns in this video. The patterns may vary, but nonetheless: you're experiencing as you go. Getting a little creative of the possibilities and investigate; at the end of the day, you just have to trust your gut.

    • @ElectronNDubstep
      @ElectronNDubstep 3 года назад +6

      @@thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 totally a thing I learned. When your gut tells you something 90% of the time it's true. Everything else can be allotted to doubt.

    • @Walamonga1313
      @Walamonga1313 3 года назад +3

      They teach you how relationships are too much of a gamble

  • @SlurryNoises
    @SlurryNoises 3 года назад +2188

    When she never answers your calls/texts but is always on her phone when she's with you, maybe it's time to reflect on your relationship.

    • @christianthompson7876
      @christianthompson7876 3 года назад +62

      facts, my gf i swear to God is glued to her phone 24/7. Heaven forbid i call her when she's out.

    • @KiLLoRChiLLoR
      @KiLLoRChiLLoR 3 года назад +116

      @@christianthompson7876 Huge red flag. She is propably already lining up your replacement bro.
      You can test her by telling her you saw a funny game online, both partners switch phones for 2 hours, if she wont do it or need to go to toilet first (to delete stuff and so on) you know your worth to her.
      I wouldn't advise this normaly but to get full clarity, check her phone when she sleeps or is in the shower.
      I wish you the best bro.

    • @CosminPerisan
      @CosminPerisan 3 года назад +27

      @@KiLLoRChiLLoR she can hide stuff right under your nose. Be aware of that shit too.

    • @Senorrifas8188
      @Senorrifas8188 3 года назад +17

      @@christianthompson7876 that means you’re not her priority maybe it’s time to wrap it up

    • @urbanumbra6170
      @urbanumbra6170 3 года назад +9

      @@KiLLoRChiLLoR no one likes it when a woman checks a mans phone while they sleep.

  • @andrewjackubowski809
    @andrewjackubowski809 3 года назад +3

    The fact that I could relate to this over the past 2.5 years is sad. I’m glad I have time to myself now and I can be better now that I’m a single pringle.

  • @Imperium4
    @Imperium4 Год назад +1

    I used to be in a toxic relationship, she gaslit and manipulated me into thinking I was the one messing up constantly and just used to me to escape her abusive family. It’s scary how accurate this video was to the relationship I was in, you did I great job showing how it person can be toxic.

  • @mrverminski7914
    @mrverminski7914 3 года назад +4485

    Just broke up from a toxic relationship. Don’t be scared to be single. It’s better to be single then to be unhappy every day. You’ll meet somebody one day that will love you for who you are. Stay strong, stay safe.

    • @crazysenko2770
      @crazysenko2770 3 года назад +27

      Amen

    • @bleh6615
      @bleh6615 3 года назад +14

      Bless

    • @anasselmansouri3956
      @anasselmansouri3956 3 года назад +67

      Ppl be actually scared of being single? Lmao it's crazy how ppl became so stupid to actually "be afraid to be single" 😹😹

    • @evan12697
      @evan12697 3 года назад +18

      But I'm single AND unhappy every day

    • @anasselmansouri3956
      @anasselmansouri3956 3 года назад +55

      @@evan12697 because you convince urself that relationships make you happy, stop that u can make urself happy

  • @magnumbeans8030
    @magnumbeans8030 3 года назад +1373

    Gf broke up with me in October and she gets pissed with me when I don’t “try” to get back together with her

    • @monalisa-sg5ql
      @monalisa-sg5ql 3 года назад +92

      lol man idk women mind is strange

    • @mysteryjunkie9808
      @mysteryjunkie9808 3 года назад +162

      Why fight for a lost cause

    • @pricklycats
      @pricklycats 3 года назад +6

      Lol wut

    • @zeldaj7
      @zeldaj7 3 года назад +14

      Thats so weird, dump her!! Thats not normal (from a girl)

    • @dindjarin8457
      @dindjarin8457 3 года назад +18

      Hope you been staying strong. Toxic people is not the way. I have spoken

  • @blackknightz5036
    @blackknightz5036 3 года назад +4

    It's never too late to walk away,the only person stopping you is yourself

  • @Yubey934
    @Yubey934 3 года назад +410

    met too many chicks like this lol, this is too real

  • @Kelvostrass
    @Kelvostrass 3 года назад +676

    Attachment is not love - learn the difference - you'll agree with me.

    • @brandonb4742
      @brandonb4742 3 года назад +2

      Thanks man

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 3 года назад +11

      there is an interesting book I read in the late 1990's titled, 'THE SERPENT SEED" an interpretation about the book of Genesis in the HOLY BIBLE about Eve having sex with the fallen angel Satan.
      Watch the 1975 movie called 'THE WICKER MAN' scene where the police officer walks into the graveyard.
      Angels cannot have sex because they are spirit beings, but is it possible that a fallen angel can have sex with a human women if the fallen angel enters an animal such as a serpent snake.
      The serpent animals had legs at one time in history, but GOD cursed the serpent to crawl on it's stomach by removing it's legs because it tempted Eve to sin as written in the book of Genesis.
      How did Adam and Eve know they were naked ?
      Satan (speaking through the serpent) explained to them how to use the penis of Adam and vagina of Eve for sexual intercourse.
      The Satan serpent was in a tree and it's possible that the "fruit" that Eve and Adam "eat" was actually the sperm from the sex organ of the serpent entering the mouth & anus of Adam and the mouth and vigina of Eve.
      After that happened Adam and Eve inherited Satan's evil, sinful nature.
      Their bodies changed drastically after they "eat the forbidden fruit" offered by the serpent to age as time went by year after year and got sick. Then also their body parts broke down and they eventually died.
      Ever since their sin in the Garden of Eden all people on Earth have inherited the Satan flesh nature.
      Look at the sperm cells of men. The sperm cells look like small little snakes (serpents) !
      The HOLY BIBLE says, "Flesh and blood will not inherit the Kingdom of GOD."
      This is why we must be born again.... born again spiritually, because our Satan flesh nature bodies will not be allowed in Heaven to be with GOD.
      All people have inherited the Satan flesh nature from Adam and Eve because they listed to the lies of the fallen angel Satan.
      The LORD GOD KING JESUS will give born again Christians new bodies.
      "Long live the new flesh."
      ~ Quote, 1983 'VIDEODROME'
      It is interesting that a dragon is the main mascott of Communist China and is honored and worshiped by the Roman Catholic Vatican church in Rome, Italy.
      Read what the dragon (serpent) represents in the book of Revelation in the HOLY BIBLE. It represents the evil fallen angel Satan.
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    • @martins3885
      @martins3885 3 года назад +1

      @A Miles that's not love, that's exploitation

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 3 года назад +1

      @A Miles what HOLY BIBLE version are you using ?

    • @unitedstatesirie7431
      @unitedstatesirie7431 3 года назад +1

      @A Miles serpent snakes were not a threat to Adam and Eve until the evil fallen angel Satan possessed that snake serpent animal.
      GOD warned Adam and Eve what would happen if they disobeyed Him. GOD explained that they would die.
      They would die spiritually first, then later they would die physically.
      Most BIBLE versions are corrupt and not accurate.
      There is only two HOLY BIBLE versions that have NOT been corrupted.
      What Bible version do you read.

  • @SpectatorOfLife
    @SpectatorOfLife 2 года назад

    This actualy is very educational, snd i can understand it easly.
    Atleast it gives us good advice on what to avoid and stop red flags.
    Thanks creator

  • @macadamia668
    @macadamia668 2 года назад +2

    My ex was nearly like this, and it costed me so much heart ache, unnecessary stress and I've tolerated so much Juvenile BS. But in all honesty, if it wasn't for her, I wouldn't be as critical with love and relationships as I am now.
    What's shitty is I know a lot of people going thru and starting a relationship with these people. And just like I was with my ex, they're too Naive to see these major red flags.

  • @directrulefromgamerchair3947
    @directrulefromgamerchair3947 3 года назад +766

    By the emperor... Brother-Captain Maximus get the heavy flamer.

  • @eduardoa3165
    @eduardoa3165 3 года назад +918

    if she still talks to her exes that is a sign you should probably get out and run.

    • @dawnwatching6382
      @dawnwatching6382 3 года назад +14

      yeah

    • @rodrigovaccari7547
      @rodrigovaccari7547 3 года назад +12

      Absolutely.

    • @infamousdeku3594
      @infamousdeku3594 3 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @Nepheliad1
      @Nepheliad1 3 года назад +63

      I think if she still hangs out with her ex in a group of people or every once in awhile thats fine. I still talk to one of my ex girlfriends because we have similar interests so we're friends, and there are no feelings there anymore. You can easily tell if a girl is talking to a lot of her exes for emotional dependence or if she's simply friends with one or two of them.

    • @frankvalentich5410
      @frankvalentich5410 3 года назад +69

      Depends. If she can still be friends with her exes, that's a sign of maturity. If she's still flirting with/making moves on her exes while she's with you, *run*

  • @CarlinHerbert
    @CarlinHerbert 2 года назад +18

    One thing a women can’t stand after a break up or in general. Is success. Get on that grind. Love ya all.

    • @Cryptokat
      @Cryptokat 2 года назад +1

      So True!

    • @macaryl95
      @macaryl95 2 месяца назад +1

      That is just completely wrong. Men tend to be offended when women earn more than them. Women obviously would praise this because they aren't petty without reason, and they see what is a man's could also be theirs. That is why they come crawling back.

  • @blacktemplar2207
    @blacktemplar2207 3 года назад +2

    Love is an evil thing. You get attached to someone and refuse to see the real "them". The apple on the outside looks and seems perfect, but the core is rotten. And I've experienced this.
    Establish yourself first, before you ruin your life.

  • @paullydeux2266
    @paullydeux2266 3 года назад +4106

    Whoooooooooooooop

    • @WGHpanic
      @WGHpanic 3 года назад +202

      getting a gf is hard, but they forget just how great being single is, and how good it can be for someone.

    • @paullydeux2266
      @paullydeux2266 3 года назад +105

      @@WGHpanic being single for awhile,i have grown alot and im glad my reality isnt distorted or influenced by a toxic gf.still would like a gf,just not a toxic one

    • @WGHpanic
      @WGHpanic 3 года назад +28

      same, I myself have been through this also.
      All I can say is that if your girl is draining you, leave.

    • @stalhandske9649
      @stalhandske9649 3 года назад +29

      "[...] most _males_ would tolerate this [...]"
      FIFY. It runs against the very definition of "man" to tolerate this hag's behaviour for one second.

    • @casinoroyal93
      @casinoroyal93 3 года назад +5

      #betamales

  • @lightyagami8377
    @lightyagami8377 3 года назад +4881

    You know she’s toxic if she never accepts she’s in the wrong......Wait that’s every women

    • @orangepekoe5243
      @orangepekoe5243 3 года назад +102

      The British Empire was able to beat western civilisation into Africans, Asians, and West Indians. Those same methods can be applied to her.

    • @ari3903
      @ari3903 3 года назад +9

      @@orangepekoe5243 Join the club, we've got jackets

    • @orangepekoe5243
      @orangepekoe5243 3 года назад +4

      PericIesI you’re lucky that it’s cold as heck here in Pennsylvania

    • @williamjames7293
      @williamjames7293 3 года назад +45

      So basically every women? got it

    • @aleksandere9441
      @aleksandere9441 3 года назад +106

      if light yagami is calling someone out for being narcissistic maybe it’s time to listen

  • @KamiX91
    @KamiX91 2 года назад

    This channel is a hidden gem in these dark times !! Take my sub oh great one !

  • @newguy3588
    @newguy3588 2 года назад

    The monotone voices add some surreal atmosphere to these videos. Strikingly hard hitting sentences are said with such ease, it makes you add your own emphasis or emotion to the conversations and conveys how much power words can have.

  • @sweetdrom8640
    @sweetdrom8640 3 года назад +1531

    my best friend had a girlfriend like this. She made me fight with him and we didn't speak for basically 2 years, simply because she didn't want to... after a lot of toxic relationship, she cheated on him and he got really depressed, but finally broke up with her. We came back to our friendship and now he's dating a nice, supportive and respectful girl. So, to all the dudes who had a toxic girlfriend and gave up of love: _don't_ do that. It is what she wants - to destroy you. But you're better than that!
    Also, if she makes you cry a lot and feel bad: listen to your family and your friends. They truly love you and want the best for you. Take their advices and *don't* isolate yourself. You'll get through this!
    (Sorry for any english mistake and have a nice day!)

    • @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524
      @akhtaruzzamanjoy8524 3 года назад +26

      Thank you dude. I had a relationship with a toxic narcissistic girl for 5 years. But now I get a really supportive, nice girl.

    • @chimmychanga1138
      @chimmychanga1138 3 года назад +31

      Yea but keep an eye on your "friends" also, lotta two faced ppl out there

    • @christinakttn9692
      @christinakttn9692 3 года назад +1

      Awww I wish your friend the best

    • @Ozzie_Mandias
      @Ozzie_Mandias 3 года назад +5

      Same here. TBH I envy one best friend from my childhood who got the girl we all wanted and he won. He is an a relationship where they adore each other more and more, they have not been married, but lived with each other for about 13 years now and have a few kids.

    • @koreannaturalfarmingcorp1120
      @koreannaturalfarmingcorp1120 3 года назад

      is your name Marko?

  • @Abdul-sw5wi
    @Abdul-sw5wi 3 года назад +585

    To some men, never be afraid of being alone.
    Just wanted to clarify, but if you want to get married go for it, find someone who’s worth it, cause you’ll probably want a family in the end but take. your. sweet. time. finding. the. right. one.

    • @bakadoge5565
      @bakadoge5565 3 года назад +25

      you don't know how much i needed to see this thanks brother

    • @ronindey8108
      @ronindey8108 3 года назад +6

      @@bakadoge5565 bro we should be strong forever the right person will come to you just need to wait .

    • @zephyr1741
      @zephyr1741 3 года назад +1

      i stopped caring at some point and got My BF out of nowhere
      we've been together for a year :)

    • @rebusn1505
      @rebusn1505 3 года назад +4

      @@zephyr1741 Congrats. When it happens, it happens, but no one should peddle a lie for others to hold on to.

    • @zephyr1741
      @zephyr1741 3 года назад +1

      @@rebusn1505 absolutely

  • @NexurentMusic
    @NexurentMusic 7 месяцев назад +2

    That end quote was so relatable. I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and I was deep in - I was holding on because of how long we'd been together. She hung out with guys without me, went clubbing without me, and I told her I didn't like it, but she said, "It's fine, it's not like I'll do anything". But the time came and she let go herself.

  • @stanleyiswatchinn
    @stanleyiswatchinn 7 месяцев назад +1

    This video gave me goosebumps and remembered me of my first girlfriend.
    The last sentence in the video describes it perfectly „When the fear of change is so great that it keeps us in the same place“.
    If anyone have this relationship rn hear me out bro you’re not alone, it will hurt for a long while but you’re free then, just end it.

  • @NVDuster
    @NVDuster 3 года назад +368

    I have an ex like this, we had a baby at 19 and now I'm 3 years into being a single dad, its great honestly and I'm glad she's not influencing either of us. Not only that but I met a girl who's already in love with me and my son.
    Remember, things can get really really dark and depressing, but hang on, there is hope sometimes. There is always something to live and look forward to.

    • @DeadNoob451
      @DeadNoob451 3 года назад +21

      Best of luck to you three.

    • @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023
      @thatsveryverysweetofyou9023 3 года назад +3

      I hope to hear that you are doing well! Have a good life!

    • @hans8087
      @hans8087 3 года назад +5

      To me, the concept of hope is fucking dead, but still I wish you good luck

    • @srtviper2011
      @srtviper2011 3 года назад +18

      Father at 19? Talk about a horror story.

    • @samuelmartens9390
      @samuelmartens9390 3 года назад

      @@DeadNoob451 I hope you go far

  • @MoistCrumpet
    @MoistCrumpet 3 года назад +650

    Him: You were sitting on some guy’s lap.
    Her: He’s my ex, so it’s okay.
    Okay, that definitely sounds logical.

    • @orctrihar
      @orctrihar 3 года назад +2

      Before knowing it was her ex, I though I was a little excessive
      Logic like that ?

  • @charliepearce8767
    @charliepearce8767 2 года назад +8

    One of these killed my son with her poisonous treatment of his love for her.
    Im 60 and seen many of my friends growing up dying because of being treated like dirt at the hands of the woman they love including my father .
    So much media focus on how badly treated women are by men but never the other way around.

    • @macaryl95
      @macaryl95 2 месяца назад +1

      Because women are still to this day being mistreated more on average. But there need to be men who provide their perspective. They don't tend to get stuff like this moving nearly as well as women. Luckily though psychotic behaviour in a relationship can be gender indiscriminate for the most part.

  • @vladrootgmailcom
    @vladrootgmailcom 2 года назад

    It's true, that sometimes fear of change keeps us in place, but also it's important to understand that the change itself should not be the goal. Change - is only a door on the path to the goal.

  • @LucasPolishGuy
    @LucasPolishGuy 3 года назад +267

    The lonely one offers his hand too quickly to whomever he encounters.

  • @AndresBruh
    @AndresBruh 3 года назад +564

    MillenniaThinker you are smart.
    no like for real you are smart

    • @joejingojack
      @joejingojack 3 года назад +4

      Hi friend.

    • @RicardoBubel
      @RicardoBubel 3 года назад +24

      hes a philosopher

    • @sudeeptasukhi5436
      @sudeeptasukhi5436 3 года назад +17

      I would say he is an observer

    • @shartwarrior
      @shartwarrior 3 года назад +5

      millennia thinker is like my everyday teach
      it helps me become a better person than before

    • @coolboyslim1847
      @coolboyslim1847 3 года назад +8

      A shitposting Socrates

  • @chrisrisha5227
    @chrisrisha5227 2 года назад +2

    End message hit hard. The girl wasn't abusive to me, but I stayed in a relationship where I did not love her. I was afraid of change and I was afraid to hurt her. Little did I know, I wasted years that I will never get back. Never be afraid to leave a situation that doesn't meet your needs.

  • @franyato5630
    @franyato5630 3 года назад +4

    What I hate the most about toxic relationships is that they'll overuse the word "love" like it's some magical verbal fuse to yank you back into their games of manipulation. Like why waste some time of my life knowing I could be better living off without you but you prefer my suffering to continue in your hands? It's cruel and mentally shattering...

  • @38Gaucho
    @38Gaucho 3 года назад +473

    When a Bloomer's self-improvement lands him a cute gf but she turns out to be Toxic af and it turns him back into a Doomer and the cycle resets

    • @GeneralChangFromDanang
      @GeneralChangFromDanang 3 года назад +25

      Been there.

    • @mikeoxlong8738
      @mikeoxlong8738 3 года назад +4

      Me

    • @bconroy328
      @bconroy328 3 года назад +10

      Right now in it i am trying to get out
      Update 10/13/20: Finally out of it 2 years gone but not forgotten

    • @el_kks_4361
      @el_kks_4361 3 года назад +3

      @@GeneralChangFromDanang how is it going holy fuck I think destiny has this for me.... I need advice

    • @pedroneto8015
      @pedroneto8015 3 года назад

      Been there, a true woman helped me to survive and accept myself. Mutual interest and respect is the key, if the weight tilts to only one side of the pendulum, it is wrong.

  • @VoidplayLP
    @VoidplayLP 3 года назад +1524

    "You don't own me, I can do whatever I want"
    1.yes, but you cant expect me to stay around if you act like that.
    2.youre in a relationship, you shouldn't even want this in the first place.

    • @Must_Do_Better
      @Must_Do_Better 3 года назад +28

      Had this conversation word for word

    • @ryanbrown4053
      @ryanbrown4053 3 года назад +65

      Amen. They always go for the "you're so controlling" bullshit

    • @dhruvrai2170
      @dhruvrai2170 3 года назад +14

      Ikr..its always better to cut that shit off.. Let her enjoy her freedom

    • @zarathustrap2562
      @zarathustrap2562 3 года назад +28

      Neo feminism tells women that they should be entirely free with their sexuality and not allow anyone especially MEN to put restrictions on them. "sexual liberation, my body my choice blabla" these type of women will be more and more frequent.
      Men are also at fault, these type of women are easily noticeable but men fall for them because all they want is sex.

    • @njay6494
      @njay6494 2 года назад +2

      @@zarathustrap2562 or most of the time, the women had great influence from social media and friends

  • @Dodanos1
    @Dodanos1 Год назад

    Not many videos on youtube i see and will remember for a long time. This is one of the most real depressing videos ever. Idk how you can really put it togetger but crazy

  • @AscendedZenith
    @AscendedZenith 2 года назад +1

    Have been in a relationship once, and it happened to be a toxic one. This video’s pretty relatable

  • @andrew66769
    @andrew66769 3 года назад +474

    Kings, if your gf or girl you're talking to has ANY single one of these characteristics, save yourself and abort asap. Do not let yourself get into the cycle of cope where even though you see the signs, she's just "different" so it doesn't apply to her. None of them are different, it always applies to them.

    • @Hekinsieden
      @Hekinsieden 3 года назад +6

      This comment is a bit extreme.

    • @alexanderschubert9975
      @alexanderschubert9975 3 года назад +34

      This comment is gold.

    • @pokeman5000
      @pokeman5000 3 года назад +13

      This. A woman like this or even close to this (so over 50%) before the age of 30 WILL cheat on you. Unless you are a literal god over 6 foot, over 6 figures, over 6 inches, and handsome/buff she will not suppress her hypergamy. But even that isn't a guarantee, she'll only consider it because she thinks she might not find better. But more often than not a young woman will cheat just for the fun of it, especially if her and her friends love partying.
      And if you are all that why the hell are you with a girl like this? Go bang some rich mans daughter at a yacht club and leave these broke bitches alone.

    • @Hambo325
      @Hambo325 3 года назад +2

      @Mr.Snifles sneaking into a party implies you're not invited

    • @lexrogan2207
      @lexrogan2207 3 года назад

      Amen brother

  • @_n_a-ez5pc
    @_n_a-ez5pc 3 года назад +1318

    The black lipstick and purple hair tells everything you need to know..

    • @--------352
      @--------352 3 года назад +71

      Über daddy issues

    • @beastcarleeto707
      @beastcarleeto707 3 года назад +25

      What's wrong with having dyed hair?

    • @42venom25
      @42venom25 3 года назад +148

      In nature, bright colors mean poisonous

    • @beastcarleeto707
      @beastcarleeto707 3 года назад +20

      @Where did I leave my shekels? sure some want to "rebel" but theres nothing wrong with wanting to stand out because of dyed hair, it's a cool colour and if people like it they will put it on their hair

    • @cl5728
      @cl5728 3 года назад +39

      @@beastcarleeto707 Nothing wrong with the act itself, its just something a lot of toxic people do. Correlation without causation. It is a good sign that someone is toxic, while the act itself is not.

  • @SomethingInTheGround
    @SomethingInTheGround Год назад +1

    "When the fear of change is so great that it keeps you in the same place." Idk why, but that made me tear up.

  • @fighter_750
    @fighter_750 2 года назад

    now this, this is a moral/lesson channel. these are so good

  • @sigmundholt2313
    @sigmundholt2313 3 года назад +125

    “Nobody ever loved me the way you did, i should have never let you go.” Toxic GF the moment she hits 30

    • @sigmundholt2313
      @sigmundholt2313 3 года назад +7

      DW Washburn Yeah! All that smoking and drinking was already a deal breaker but was willing to try to work on. The other drama shit made the decision easier. She went from an 7-8 to curdled milk since I knew her.

  • @xmen123ist
    @xmen123ist 3 года назад +139

    Simped for a girl just like this...
    At least I got it out of my system early in my life. Never again.

    • @SoccerClipzFinal
      @SoccerClipzFinal 3 года назад +3

      Still in this situation but i cant seem to get out of it. Any suggestions? I know what type of girl my girlfriend is, and she is so much in love with me that she presented me her family and friends etc. I got to know what she did in the past (a lot of casual lovers) and in quarantine i got really depressed. I came out of this situation very slowly and i think i still love her, but i'm scared that this is just due to the fear of being alone again (she is my first gf).

    • @FeroxX_Gosu
      @FeroxX_Gosu 3 года назад

      Me2 bro

    • @JacobsTrash
      @JacobsTrash 3 года назад +5

      @@SoccerClipzFinal If she has an extensive sexual past it shouldn't bother you so long as she's currently faithful to you. If you can't get over that fact leave her and tell her why you can't be with her. Don't waste each other's time, you both deserve better.

    • @xmen123ist
      @xmen123ist 3 года назад

      @@SoccerClipzFinal I never dated the chick I mentioned, just simped like a 'tard. I have, however, dated one person who was willing to share their past, so to speak, so I can try to throw in my two cents.
      What the other two are saying is right, as long as she's *currently* faithful to you and hasn't shown any red flags, you should be in the green. I can get why it's really irksome, but if she isn't giving off any bad vibes, there shouldn't be anything to really worry about.
      If it's really bothering you now, or you can't trust her, it probably won't get better as time goes on. You might need to just cut your losses now and tell her why; It'll suck absolute ass, but it's common decency to be that transparent about shit, like how you'd want her to be.

    • @sergoz123
      @sergoz123 3 года назад +2

      If she's your first, the chances that you *think* you love her increase thousandfold. Happened to me, happened to millions if not billions of others in the past. The first lover, especially if she is hot, gets engraved into your mind as if with a fucking branding iron, man. Especially if you've had a hard time with girls when younger and are like 21ish.
      I did not have sex until I was 21 and had it with a 27 year old. Older, smoking hot and probably one of the cutest girls I've met. She was my first but was at least 50% like the girl in the video. She lead me on, then told me it won't work. But then when she saw that I fell in love she proceeded to use the fuck out of that, while also being depressed about her ex. I knew what was, going on, yet I simped the everloving fuck out of my health and bank account for her. Of course, it was my fault. But it just goes to show that some people will see how they're making you feel like absolute trash but still continue to emotionally milk you.
      Fuck that, dude, If she's not giving equal amounts of whatever you're giving her, LEAVE! Equal participation and care in a relationship is the NORM and anything else is COMPLETE BULLSHIT. No matter how she, your simp brain or any other factors may spin it up and make it out to look, it's false and NOT LOVE. Took me a couple of these to figure it out. But once you do, once you find someone that ACTUALLY feels the same way and is willing to give the same, you will see the difference.

  • @thecourier874
    @thecourier874 2 года назад

    Some people go through so much and don't deserve to be in toxic relationships
    If you let yourself in these situations you will be consumed and changed to be a person who hurts others and after such a relationship end you can start the cycle all over again changing people consuming other people don't be in this kind of relationship.

  • @mastereppsreturns6586
    @mastereppsreturns6586 3 года назад +239

    Next time a girl is behaving in this common toxic way, I’ll message her by saying “I’m breaking up with you” followed by the link to this video

    • @AufWiedersehen550
      @AufWiedersehen550 3 года назад

      Genius

    • @jungleismasiv4426
      @jungleismasiv4426 3 года назад +25

      Don't do it
      She'll make it look like you base your relationship wisdom around random meme channels, even when you don't
      It's just smart to not give her ammunition

  • @psycholonya
    @psycholonya 3 года назад +3265

    Look, regardless of if you’re a man, woman, N-B, etc. never let your significant other treat you like this. I understand you might think it’s better than being alone, I thought that too, but I guarantee you it’s not. *If it’s hurting you it’s not good for you.* Please stay safe, and know that if no one else cares for you then at least know that I do.

    • @bluesolace9052
      @bluesolace9052 3 года назад +57

      Yeah it doesn’t need to be a man or woman thing either no should be toxic like this or put up with this. Hopefully this video is an eye opener to people

    • @naydsoe27
      @naydsoe27 3 года назад +54

      Alone does not equal lonely btw

    • @TheRoCastLive
      @TheRoCastLive 3 года назад +30

      I wish I saw it sooner. I always thought that those toxic problems could be fixed. Nothing ever pleased her.

    • @Micro13bk
      @Micro13bk 3 года назад +27

      @@TheRoCastLive some people just don t wanna be fixed, they like being that way...
      I would much rather stay single than ever deal with someone who is this toxic

    • @CereDulce37
      @CereDulce37 3 года назад

      @@TheRoCastLive damn ...

  • @AG26498
    @AG26498 3 года назад +6

    Was in a relationship with a girl last year for about 8 months. We where doing great and even started talking about marriage. However it all went down hill after she became too possesive with me, making demands, telling that I should not text her now because her "friend" was coming. Eventually I got sick of her abuse and got out. A month or so later I discovered she got married. Then I realised she never was mine, it was just my turn. At first it did hurt but now I know I dodged a bullet.

    • @christiantaylor1495
      @christiantaylor1495 2 года назад

      how is it abuse to say to not text her for a bit

    • @AG26498
      @AG26498 2 года назад +1

      @@christiantaylor1495 there where more things like gaslighting but I don't want to share those experiences. However, now that I look back at it I should be thankfull of her. I learned a lot about red flags within a relationship and how to avoid them.

  • @jjj8317
    @jjj8317 Год назад +4

    If you start seen her getting touchy with other dudes, just leave.

  • @weenerdik
    @weenerdik 3 года назад +78

    Passing 3 years now since I’ve escaped this shit, I now have almost 20k in the bank and have plans to buy a house soon. Keep working on yourselves kings

    • @ilteschio8244
      @ilteschio8244 3 года назад +10

      a house with 20k? dude that's cheap, were do you live?

    • @johnbash-on-ger
      @johnbash-on-ger 3 года назад

      Congrats!

    • @finkamain1621
      @finkamain1621 3 года назад +2

      @ExSiZuGeSe Same thing in some places in Canada. Cheaper houses out of the city and very peaceful. If you want to go to the city, it's just a 20 minute drive. Beats paying an extra 200K over 30 years

    • @weenerdik
      @weenerdik 3 года назад

      il Teschio Yeah I should have been clearer I’m gonna have to finance of course but I’m trying to make a bigger down payment than the minimal required around here which is as low as 3%

    • @DeadNoob451
      @DeadNoob451 3 года назад +9

      Definitely 100% wait with that house buying plan.
      Prices right now are inflated as fuck. Dont buy into the bubble (unless you can afford to loose that money) and definitely dont buy into a bubble with loaned money.
      Bank will see your house is now worth less than the money you owe them, and they force you to pay everything at once or evict you. Same thing happened in '08 to a fuckton of people.
      Just wait a few years (and store that money in something crisis proof) and you will be able to get whatever house you want waaay cheaper instead of getting foreclosed on because shit hit the fan.

  • @perheriita2723
    @perheriita2723 3 года назад +138

    Huh, never knew this was that "toxic". Been in a few relationships like this and always thought this is normal. Guess I am also easy to manipulate.

    • @noble14
      @noble14 3 года назад +12

      It's a slippery slope

    • @PpPp-rn9ix
      @PpPp-rn9ix 3 года назад +32

      You thought this is normal holy shit you need to gain more self respect dude. You have no idea how dangerous it can go, I'm serious.

    • @perheriita2723
      @perheriita2723 3 года назад +5

      @@PpPp-rn9ix Yeh, BPD really does that to ya'.

    • @bluesolace9052
      @bluesolace9052 3 года назад +1

      Happy you got out of there, don’t forget what you learned from the experiences. It’s important both partners are comfortable in the relationship

    • @Dashiellz
      @Dashiellz 3 года назад +5

      stay strong king

  • @insanelysaneman2033
    @insanelysaneman2033 2 года назад

    It's so dark and accurate. I went through it all once in my life. Now I'm out of that shitty relationship abd focusing on my goals

  • @miyamotokojiro
    @miyamotokojiro 2 года назад

    The more you watch these videos the more dark reality of these entire world you understand. Such well message and background audio.

  • @Linkmon99
    @Linkmon99 3 года назад +2076

    3:37 🥴life bro🥴

    • @Zuberm1
      @Zuberm1 3 года назад +42

      Hey look, it's rich lego man

    • @Kori8ei
      @Kori8ei 3 года назад +17

      Hey look, it's rich lego man

    • @dek1948
      @dek1948 3 года назад +5

      What are you doing here

    • @askwaiuskwlp8
      @askwaiuskwlp8 3 года назад +1

      hi linkmon

    • @UnknownCartoonEditor
      @UnknownCartoonEditor 3 года назад +7

      Don’t be a mediocre loser. Choose to grow and better your life.

  • @kanauso3706
    @kanauso3706 3 года назад +55

    They're the type to want an open relationship, but you're not allowed to see anyone else.