I totally agree on the spec thing, I married someone who everyone thought was not my spec but 13 years and three kids later, he's the best decision I ever made.
Kaffy is very intelligent, people see dancers in Nigeria as a low life or drop out i was once a choreographer years ago am glad she took dancing to the best level, keep keeping on Kaffy🙏
This is an amazing conversation. Talking is a therapy… Listening to the Word of God is a great therapy…Your Word is a light unto my path and a lamp unto my feet. I love this…
Kai! She is speaking here.. oh my Gosh. She is so freaking brilliant. Sisterly.. you are speaking!! This girl sounds like me and saying what I should have said
Perfectionist hardly last in marriage. Frankly as a married person, you should be able to appreciate our individual limitations and weakness but deliberately maximize and celebrate our strengths. Philosophy no dey work 4marriage but understanding
I* love this lady any day. I love this part of telling stories. And that is why I started my own show. We have to teach our younger people and not have just pocket conversations. This was a pleasure to watch. Great interview
Knowledge is POWER! Forget love, if youre going into relationship that is towards marriage, never fall in love, learn what your partner knows whle you are also learning a great deal about human behaviours and what it means to be with another human forever. Kaffy buttress this point at that time she said if she knew what she knbows now......
Miss Kaffy, you're SUPER intelligent I must confess. Every Nigerian "celebrity" break up( talk)s I have ever listened to ehhh I must say you're indeed 'Real' like this talk beats every preaching. Ones character is the greatest evangelism of all. What's your History? You're somebody because you are!! Thank you so much Ma, God bless you and heal you through all of these. I relate so much even as a single woman. I hope to have a one on one chat with you Ma. So much to learn!
Hmmm, such intelligence... I am speechless. Why do I see myself in her? Goodness!!! The cry part though,. + Perfectionism is a problem indeed. Thanks Kaffy. Your kind is rare in this world.
So you refuse to learn that marriage is not bed of roses.. you think you were their to enjoy.. nai mam..... OK come this your "he was sleeping around" but, you claim you loved him but is hard to forgive his weakness and also please now you're no longer with your own husband please who is the one curdling you now lik" who is satisfying you now or are you a Saint? Please we should stop all this pretence
@ebuka amailo you sound like a cheat that you are, they never empathize with anyone, forgive his weakness? For how long? What is he doing to help his own "weakness"? You sound daft too, what do you mean who is cuddling her??? if she's not a saint are you too? If she's with someone else's husband, the problem is still with the man, if he's focusing on his wife he won't be looking at other women. If you say no to a cheating man , he flies off and goes to another to another. The problem is theirs.
There are things that matters most than cuddling dear. Happiness doesn't come from other people but is from within. There are those who are in marriages but unhappy. Some are cuddled but unhappy. The world do not revolved around intimacy
"If everything is so private, how do we learn?". Girl! I felt a need to hug you when you said that!
I totally agree on the spec thing, I married someone who everyone thought was not my spec but 13 years and three kids later, he's the best decision I ever made.
"Marry according to your purpose, not your preference." - Kaffy | I really felt that.
Very educative conversation. Kaffy has some depth, very smart lady.
What an awesome interview! Kaffy is so smart. She has won my respect!
Kaffy has always been real....keep soaring mama....you are amazing 👏
Kaffy is very intelligent, people see dancers in Nigeria as a low life or drop out i was once a choreographer years ago am glad she took dancing to the best level, keep keeping on Kaffy🙏
THE WAY BOSS LADY AND FUNKE AKINDELE RESEMBLE. I JUST DEY JEALOUS O. BLESS THEM. I JUST LOVE THEIR FAMILY INCLUDING THEIR YOUNGER SISTER.
Thank-you I was about to say that.. She is just like Funke Akindele..
Yea they look so much alike. Are they siblings?
One of the best interviews I have ever watched. Love you Kaffy
Kaffy is loaded!! Sharing her experiences without throwing jives.
This is a job well done BossLady. ❤️
This is an amazing conversation.
Talking is a therapy…
Listening to the Word of God is a great therapy…Your Word is a light unto my path and a lamp unto my feet.
I love this…
Wowed is what I am the depth in this conversation is truely life changing.
Kaffi ❤️ I love ❤️ you... You are a strong woman 👠👠...You are so intelligent
This lady is an awesome human being… see how someone explain separation without bashing ❤️
smart explanation
Kai! She is speaking here.. oh my Gosh. She is so freaking brilliant. Sisterly.. you are speaking!! This girl sounds like me and saying what I should have said
21:07 purpose over preference..
Kaffy exudes wisdom. 💯
This lady is smart!!!👏🏽👏🏽
Not only that but she is intelligent, brilliant, most importantly WISE♥️♥️
Perfectionist hardly last in marriage. Frankly as a married person, you should be able to appreciate our individual limitations and weakness but deliberately maximize and celebrate our strengths. Philosophy no dey work 4marriage but understanding
Kaffy Kaffy!!!
Truly, you're filled with wisdom and I'm honored to have listened to you.
God bless you and your family my dear Kaffy, you’re an adorable sister !!!
I* love this lady any day. I love this part of telling stories. And that is why I started my own show. We have to teach our younger people and not have just pocket conversations. This was a pleasure to watch. Great interview
I love this episode, very interactive.Kaffy Love, u are such an amazing human.Good, good.
Knowledge is POWER! Forget love, if youre going into relationship that is towards marriage, never fall in love, learn what your partner knows whle you are also learning a great deal about human behaviours and what it means to be with another human forever. Kaffy buttress this point at that time she said if she knew what she knbows now......
Brilliant... Brilliant....Brilliant... ALL women should listen to this
She is too intelligent , your sense too much jare😘😘😘 God bless you for sharing.
Kaffy I can see a very beautiful heart in you. God will give you your own man soon. Amen
One of the best interviews I have ever watched. Love you Kaffy
You are truly a mentor...GOD bless you immensely....
This has to be the most important and truthful thing every women need to hear
Listening to kaffy for the first time she is a very smart lady 😯
She's intelligent and interesting
Miss Kaffy, you're SUPER intelligent I must confess. Every Nigerian "celebrity" break up( talk)s I have ever listened to ehhh I must say you're indeed 'Real' like this talk beats every preaching. Ones character is the greatest evangelism of all. What's your History? You're somebody because you are!! Thank you so much Ma, God bless you and heal you through all of these. I relate so much even as a single woman. I hope to have a one on one chat with you Ma. So much to learn!
Like"if every thing is so private how do we learn" wooooo I love your intellectual property.
Purpose Vs Preference
Hmmm, such intelligence... I am speechless. Why do I see myself in her?
Goodness!!! The cry part though,. + Perfectionism is a problem indeed.
Thanks Kaffy. Your kind is rare in this world.
🤩🤩🤩🤩👌👌👌👌👌👌👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
One of the smartest Nigerian celebrity...
You are evolved my lady. I just learned of you and I L😘 VE you sister. God bless you.
I love your truth, love for yourself ,humility and tenacity at work. Well done babes
I respect you because you acknowledge God our maker when you're talking.Stay blessed
A lot of wisdom here
God has a pastor in us all .
I love this lady
Kaffy is brilliant 👌
Spec ..... Also, the environment (society) you grow up in; not only your parents
Well done Kaffy
It is important do it accordingly to God's purpose
I just came across this and I am glad zi did. It was so entertaining and enlightening. Well done Bosslady. Well done Kaffy.
My God!
Please, does Kaffy have coaching/mentoring lessons one can engage in?
This woman is too loaded! Mehn!!
Strong women , cry Sis, in the closet but once they do, they overcome
Insightful
Children are an assignment, I'll take note of that, thank you Kaffy!! Learnt alot from your interview, thank you so much 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Everybody has a speck but what did you form your speck from ?
Exactly what she said is the truth and her steps are the best. That's the faith and capacity my dear.
Love unconditional so true... Gods idea of marriage
Being alone without being lonely got the best part of me. This is because it enables you to discover your purpose in life.
Wow. Brilliant, clever and beautiful Kaffy. Wow.
Hummmmm
.. so much words.. well done kaffy
I love your person khaffy. Thanks for sharing
Perfectionism is a problem ! We over process things !
Very intelligent woman, my respect
Being a Queen doesn't make him less of a King word💪
The best way to heal is to walk through the darkness
Wow!! What an intelligent conversation.
This is deep, you are really strong.
Stress gets me fat🙈 kaffy you too get sense✌🔥
God bless you
It's very educative
Well said ❤❤❤.
Lovely interview
I love this woman.
So brilliant
I love Kaffy
How I love Kaffy❤️❤️❤️
So you refuse to learn that marriage is not bed of roses.. you think you were their to enjoy.. nai mam..... OK come this your "he was sleeping around" but, you claim you loved him but is hard to forgive his weakness and also please now you're no longer with your own husband please who is the one curdling you now lik" who is satisfying you now or are you a Saint? Please we should stop all this pretence
This sesson is quite insightful and sincere...honestly it's quite revealing. I happen to be going through almost same thing
@ebuka amailo you sound like a cheat that you are, they never empathize with anyone, forgive his weakness? For how long? What is he doing to help his own "weakness"? You sound daft too, what do you mean who is cuddling her??? if she's not a saint are you too? If she's with someone else's husband, the problem is still with the man, if he's focusing on his wife he won't be looking at other women. If you say no to a cheating man , he flies off and goes to another to another. The problem is theirs.
Oh please shut up and go away
There are things that matters most than cuddling dear. Happiness doesn't come from other people but is from within. There are those who are in marriages but unhappy. Some are cuddled but unhappy. The world do not revolved around intimacy