The man is talking about practicality.He wants the best for his kids so they can know their roots back home.Thank you Dj NYAAMI for the good interactive interview ✌️
@@bbone4390 lol don’t think you know. Until you get there. You’ll understand what he’s saying later in life. Raising kids in abrokyire will defo have that influence tho debatable.
This man is completely on point. That's why I am always trying to visit our country Ghana with my wife and children if possible after a five or three-year interval.
There’s no way I will take to children to Ghana whiles am overseas, I want my eyes on them if I can’t train my kids well then no one will do that for me, if u want ur kids to visit ur country u must have a vacation for that may be once in 1 or 2 years it depends on how u want to arrange it, most of them bring down there children here because they want more time for themselves and their work no responsible parents will be alive and still want someone to take care of their children my opinion though 😂😂🤣 no hard feelings.
The way he's describing financial difficulties abroad is the same way if you live and work in Ghana, the difference is that currency difference when who one relocates to Ghana.
I really like this man. His decision to relocate his kids to giving them high school education isn't a bad idea. Accepting that we are all Ghanaians is the best option. That yes sir master mentality Must stopped! I've repeatedly said that overworking to the detriment of child upbringing is bad... D J Nyami; i like your questioning skills ♥️.
A kid trained in Ghana has a more refined way of thinking than one trained in USA.Only if they are trained by a hard-core and God-fearing relative in Ghana.
Anecdotes nkooa. Why will u leave the responsibility of raising your children to another person in Ghana. I have 2 grown adult children (48 & 47) who grew up in America. They have turned out right. It depends on one’s perspective as a parent. U mold your child the way u envision them to be in future.
Why having kids if u can’t raise them your self?? Is wrong to be leaving somewhere different from your kids.. every child wants to live with their parents
But why should the kids leave their parents? We Ghanaians make that mistake all the time. Separation anxiety, depression and the harsh environment will be alien to them, especially dumsor. Lights never go out in America unless there is a force majeure. I think kids have the right to stay with their parents and no one else. Period.
Lol, you don’t know what you’re talking about. This guy doing the interview has seen the light. And thinking ahead of time. Cos he doesn’t want to end up in care home.
Life is a choice. Many people have different reasons why they like to raise their children in abroad or Ghana, retire in abroad or do things differently. We should choose what best for us and leave people alone. What work for Mr. A won't work for Mr. B. The consequences of these choices is individual affair.
I came to the US when I was high school. It was such a struggle adapting to their way of learning. If you ask me, I don’t think its advisable to have your kids finish high school in Ghana. We have the perception that Ghana school are better but let me tell you it’s a lie! I noticed how learning here in the US was more practical. Things like watching movies in class for learning purposes was soo foreign to me but it made soo much sense. I realized ghana school was just struggle learning for no reason. I get that he wants his to acquire Ghana sense of identity but you can equally achieve that by having regular prolonged visits. That’s what I plan on doing.
The last advice he gave is the gospel truth. It happened to me. My dad was just supposed to get me a US passport because I was only 2 when he became a US citizen. So I came with a green card. Not until it was time for college and my friend told me I literally could just go the post office with my dad and they’ll process my US passport. We did that and two weeks later, my American passport had arrived in the mail. I still had that green card lol. But I got rid of it eventually.
I like some of the things he said. He gave a lot of information about retirement . On the other hand, I think in my opinion no one can raise your kids better than you the parent if only you don’t chase money and have time for them. Having education here is far better than in Ghana. In Ghana they don’t have all the teaching materials for the kids to learn and understand better. When you talk about good morals and character I believe it’s all depends on both parents what you teach them because the parents are their first teacher.❤️🙏
It is not the guys fault. The women when they get abroad prefer life here permanently to the African cultural ways so they will not have their children return to settle in Ghana for good. You are lucky your wife allows you to relocate your kids to Ghana when you are ready to. Most women will not endorse the move of the kids to Ghana and you need their okay to do so.
Just say you don’t have the time to raise your kids because you’re busy chasing money to build your funeral mansion. Your ministers and well to do in Ghana are sending their kids abroad to school and you’re here talking nonsense
Many at times those moves dont work out. I took my son to Ghana and after sometime the system back home couldnt affect him in anyway.Parental supervision is less since we were not there, Grandparents or other family cant affect that much change in them. No matter how long you leave them there, the least chance they get they will gladly fly back to their country of birth without thinking twice.
Please Ghanaians abroad hear me out, don't depend only social security for retirement. If your employer has 401k or 403b, take advantage of it. Max out your contributions. Also, invest in index funds whilst you're young and energetic working. If you're able to do this consistently for years, you'll be able to retire earlier and live very comfortably in the US or anywhere in the world. Ghanaians, please educate yourselves with financial independence wae. Ah, How i wish to be interviewed.
They way some Ghanaians in US talk against Ghana really bores me.If you have nothing positive to say keep quiet. You can't bite the hand that fed you .There is not much difference between Ghanaians and Americans. We are even more hardworking .The only difference is our leaders refuse to think and also America is able to send its printed money to the world so there is not much inflation in the US ie There is not too much money in circulation in the country.If we were hypothetically in the same position maybe we could also do better.There interest rate is also very low so you could start a business as soon as you have an idea.
You made a decision in giving birth to your kids who never planned for you to be their parent but can’t make a decision for them in terms of where they can have better education lol. If that’s the case you should have had the kids in Ghana, raise them there, and not even think about relocating. As a parent it’s your duty to make certain decisions for your child, until the kids are old enough to make their own decisions.
You don’t live in Ghana so how can you live big in Ghana? You work and live here so if you build back home whilst you are here, family members will take over that property and live big for you, you work and buy a home here, make life comfortable for yourself here, before you build home for your pension.
I'll definitely divorce my husband if he thinks like this man. In terms of education, i can say the American kid is about 100 years ahead of the Ghanaian kid. My last baby who is even in kindergarten amazes me every day with her level of intelligence. Just walk into the classroom of American schools and you'll be sad of what we have in Ghana. Yes we all have our American passports and visit Ghana anytime we want. This man is living backwards. Anyways, to each his own.
Kids born in Ghana who later come abroad usually succeed and reach higher heights than those who lived abroad all their lives. The President of Bank of America is a Ghanaian who has secondary education in Ghana. We can talk of the likes of Prof. Ollenu, Ave Kludze, Thomas Mensa etc. All of these great minds had secondary education in Ghana. What is intelligence? Is it the ability to speak English? We need to re-educate our minds as Africans.
I have studied abroad and have mates from all over the world. No human being is special. Not Asians, not Americans, not Europeans. We're all the same. It's just a matter of opportunities. I challenge you to put your intelligent kid in the same class with Ghanaians and test them on anything. Just anything. Ghanaian kids just don't have opportunities. When I was 3years old, I could write paragraphs of essays. Same as my little brother. We were all born and bred in Ghana. Bad parents who are not exposed think that ipads, tablets and games are what make a child intelligent.
That's not true..I have friends who completed university in Ghana and they are really doing well in their post graduate studies in American universities.. so I don't get your point
@hubertbaidoo6517 no problems, just send your kids to school in Ghana under trees, and tell me if they would even know what a computer mouse is. In Ghana where when the skies are cloudy, automatically teachers don't go to school. You really think this does not affect the kids. I would just say you don't know what you're talking about. Ghana education system is a complete joke. Travel and see, or simple drown in your ignorance or foolishness whatever it is.
This man's children will succeed greatly. Onim nyansa papapapapa
DJ.. THIS MAN WORDS ARE VERY INSIGHTFUL
He has my mentality...am doing same to my kids..me and my husband are giving our kids their right as citizens of ghana..❤
The man is talking about practicality.He wants the best for his kids so they can know their roots back home.Thank you Dj NYAAMI for the good interactive interview ✌️
They can always visit. Don't separate them.
Then he should have stayed in his roots.. he’s not making any sense..
@@bbone4390 lol don’t think you know. Until you get there. You’ll understand what he’s saying later in life. Raising kids in abrokyire will defo have that influence tho debatable.
This man is completely on point. That's why I am always trying to visit our country Ghana with my wife and children if possible after a five or three-year interval.
There’s no way I will take to children to Ghana whiles am overseas, I want my eyes on them if I can’t train my kids well then no one will do that for me, if u want ur kids to visit ur country u must have a vacation for that may be once in 1 or 2 years it depends on how u want to arrange it, most of them bring down there children here because they want more time for themselves and their work no responsible parents will be alive and still want someone to take care of their children my opinion though 😂😂🤣 no hard feelings.
Well said 👏
But blending Ghana culture and American 🇺🇸 culture is the best.Because raising them in abroad sometimes loses their identity.
The way he's describing financial difficulties abroad is the same way if you live and work in Ghana, the difference is that currency difference when who one relocates to Ghana.
Very very educative DJ. Great job my fellow New Yorker! ❤
Let wisdom speaks… God bless you Brother!!
I really like this man. His decision to relocate his kids to giving them high school education isn't a bad idea.
Accepting that we are all Ghanaians is the best option.
That yes sir master mentality Must stopped!
I've repeatedly said that overworking to the detriment of child upbringing is bad...
D J Nyami; i like your questioning skills ♥️.
This man is wise❤
A kid trained in Ghana has a more refined way of thinking than one trained in USA.Only if they are trained by a hard-core and God-fearing relative in Ghana.
That's definitely not true.. stop it.
Anecdotes nkooa. Why will u leave the responsibility of raising your children to another person in Ghana. I have 2 grown adult children (48 & 47) who grew up in America. They have turned out right. It depends on one’s perspective as a parent. U mold your child the way u envision them to be in future.
It depends on who trains them, not solely on where they grow up. Some people are very responsible and well mannered but grew up abroad.
True, there is no guarantee that a child raised in Ghana will do better than kids raised in abroad.
@@brownbabygirl There4 those raised abroad do better according to your submission. 🧐
Wisdom is speaking 🔊
Why having kids if u can’t raise them your self?? Is wrong to be leaving somewhere different from your kids.. every child wants to live with their parents
But why should the kids leave their parents? We Ghanaians make that mistake all the time. Separation anxiety, depression and the harsh environment will be alien to them, especially dumsor. Lights never go out in America unless there is a force majeure. I think kids have the right to stay with their parents and no one else. Period.
Who told he can't train his children, you think you can comments, while you don't know how the system function there
@@albiankrah9776 I live here bro.. I Knw everything.. he’s being selfish..
Selfishness ne nyansa krono
Lol, you don’t know what you’re talking about. This guy doing the interview has seen the light. And thinking ahead of time. Cos he doesn’t want to end up in care home.
Now there is drugs on Ghana streets and schools these days than what we grew up in
God bless you bro 🙏
Life is a choice. Many people have different reasons why they like to raise their children in abroad or Ghana, retire in abroad or do things differently. We should choose what best for us and leave people alone. What work for Mr. A won't work for Mr. B. The consequences of these choices is individual affair.
I came to the US when I was high school. It was such a struggle adapting to their way of learning. If you ask me, I don’t think its advisable to have your kids finish high school in Ghana. We have the perception that Ghana school are better but let me tell you it’s a lie! I noticed how learning here in the US was more practical. Things like watching movies in class for learning purposes was soo foreign to me but it made soo much sense. I realized ghana school was just struggle learning for no reason. I get that he wants his to acquire Ghana sense of identity but you can equally achieve that by having regular prolonged visits. That’s what I plan on doing.
Wisdom personified ❤❤
The last advice he gave is the gospel truth. It happened to me. My dad was just supposed to get me a US passport because I was only 2 when he became a US citizen. So I came with a green card. Not until it was time for college and my friend told me I literally could just go the post office with my dad and they’ll process my US passport. We did that and two weeks later, my American passport had arrived in the mail. I still had that green card lol. But I got rid of it eventually.
I like some of the things he said. He gave a lot of information about retirement . On the other hand, I think in my opinion no one can raise your kids better than you the parent if only you don’t chase money and have time for them. Having education here is far better than in Ghana. In Ghana they don’t have all the teaching materials for the kids to learn and understand better.
When you talk about good morals and character I believe it’s all depends on both parents what you teach them because the parents are their first teacher.❤️🙏
Wo boa😊
Who told you
GOD bless you sir🙏❤️
It is not the guys fault. The women when they get abroad prefer life here permanently to the African cultural ways so they will not have their children return to settle in Ghana for good. You are lucky your wife allows you to relocate your kids to Ghana when you are ready to. Most women will not endorse the move of the kids to Ghana and you need their okay to do so.
Dj I really enjoyed the the guy what he said is true
Exactly my decision I’m going to send this interview to my wife
Just say you don’t have the time to raise your kids because you’re busy chasing money to build your funeral mansion. Your ministers and well to do in Ghana are sending their kids abroad to school and you’re here talking nonsense
😅😅😅😅
Herh thought there r no good Ghanaian men in US. Sir God bless u,I tap into yr marriage 🙏
Many at times those moves dont work out. I took my son to Ghana and after sometime the system back home couldnt affect him in anyway.Parental supervision is less since we were not there, Grandparents or other family cant affect that much change in them. No matter how long you leave them there, the least chance they get they will gladly fly back to their country of birth without thinking twice.
he would make more money as a handyman than a nurse in the U.S
Please Ghanaians abroad hear me out, don't depend only social security for retirement. If your employer has 401k or 403b, take advantage of it. Max out your contributions. Also, invest in index funds whilst you're young and energetic working. If you're able to do this consistently for years, you'll be able to retire earlier and live very comfortably in the US or anywhere in the world. Ghanaians, please educate yourselves with financial independence wae. Ah, How i wish to be interviewed.
Who is raising the kids in Ghana for you, family or a boarding school?
They way some Ghanaians in US talk against Ghana really bores me.If you have nothing positive to say keep quiet. You can't bite the hand that fed you .There is not much difference between Ghanaians and Americans. We are even more hardworking .The only difference is our leaders refuse to think and also America is able to send its printed money to the world so there is not much inflation in the US ie There is not too much money in circulation in the country.If we were hypothetically in the same position maybe we could also do better.There interest rate is also very low so you could start a business as soon as you have an idea.
Hmmmm i know one boy the mum sent home,the boy has changed now
If we want better future for our kids is good decision
S3 y be local champion in Ghana that's why y feel happy in Ghana p3p3 man
They can't bring their children must of them are not working . And have no money for faire
Is true
You made a decision in giving birth to your kids who never planned for you to be their parent but can’t make a decision for them in terms of where they can have better education lol. If that’s the case you should have had the kids in Ghana, raise them there, and not even think about relocating.
As a parent it’s your duty to make certain decisions for your child, until the kids are old enough to make their own decisions.
You don’t live in Ghana so how can you live big in Ghana? You work and live here so if you build back home whilst you are here, family members will take over that property and live big for you, you work and buy a home here, make life comfortable for yourself here, before you build home for your pension.
😅ehh this man bi p3p3 papa 😢oh no
I'll definitely divorce my husband if he thinks like this man. In terms of education, i can say the American kid is about 100 years ahead of the Ghanaian kid. My last baby who is even in kindergarten amazes me every day with her level of intelligence. Just walk into the classroom of American schools and you'll be sad of what we have in Ghana. Yes we all have our American passports and visit Ghana anytime we want. This man is living backwards. Anyways, to each his own.
Kids born in Ghana who later come abroad usually succeed and reach higher heights than those who lived abroad all their lives. The President of Bank of America is a Ghanaian who has secondary education in Ghana. We can talk of the likes of Prof. Ollenu, Ave Kludze, Thomas Mensa etc. All of these great minds had secondary education in Ghana. What is intelligence? Is it the ability to speak English? We need to re-educate our minds as Africans.
I have studied abroad and have mates from all over the world. No human being is special. Not Asians, not Americans, not Europeans. We're all the same. It's just a matter of opportunities. I challenge you to put your intelligent kid in the same class with Ghanaians and test them on anything. Just anything. Ghanaian kids just don't have opportunities. When I was 3years old, I could write paragraphs of essays. Same as my little brother. We were all born and bred in Ghana. Bad parents who are not exposed think that ipads, tablets and games are what make a child intelligent.
That's not true..I have friends who completed university in Ghana and they are really doing well in their post graduate studies in American universities.. so I don't get your point
@@beema_oko we're saying the same thing
@hubertbaidoo6517 no problems, just send your kids to school in Ghana under trees, and tell me if they would even know what a computer mouse is. In Ghana where when the skies are cloudy, automatically teachers don't go to school. You really think this does not affect the kids. I would just say you don't know what you're talking about. Ghana education system is a complete joke. Travel and see, or simple drown in your ignorance or foolishness whatever it is.
Dj I'm in Arizona I have a question to ask the man how can I get his number or if I should send my number to you to give him thank you