BKCHAT LDN: S5 EPISODE 5 - “If We Have A 3Some You Can’t Lipse The Chick”
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- Опубликовано: 25 май 2021
- On this Episode the cast of 10 discuss bringing in a third party into the bedroom and how it would affect ones mental and aftermath.
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Your mum and dad have been together for over 10 years and you can’t even remain loyal for a year ? You are not ready for a relationship tf
When you said this I felt it.... This modern generation is messed up.
Mess up oh
You don’t even know if any of your parents has cheated. Nothing is perfect
@@Scweare everyone like to go about like say there’s no body on this earth with a relationship that’s lasted long where they have never cheated . Cheating shouldn’t even be a norm , arguement yes , disagreements yes ... but why are we normalising cheating or bringing other people into the relationship it’s weird
@@TigersEmpire the problem is that our generation tend to think we know so much about the previous generations, their ways of living and beliefs. When in theory we don’t know as much as we believe. My point is that no one is perfect and cheating can be defined in many different ways. You can’t force your belief on everyone. That’s what I had to learn myself although I agree with you cheating shouldn’t be a norm
NK just likes to cap for capping's sake.. man said he wouldn't mind his girl bringing in another man. Shut up fam 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"For capping's sake" 😂😂🤣🤣
Ngl he’s moving sus
He’s gay so he will love it
@@ashleycrystal9719 nahh but I feel like he has crush on gudeh guy
Do men actually care ?
Monty, Joseph and Lani back Must really hurt carrying this season
Lol remove monty she ain’t carrying shit
*Some of these girls are gay/bisexual (monty)so they are attracted to the same sex which is why they don’t mind having sex with another woman. As a straight woman that’s a turn off for me, why would I want the same sex in my bed and their private parts on my face? That’s a huge turn off. They should’ve highlighted that. The dude who said it’s “insecure” it’s also not striaght. So him having different sexual orientation and lifestyle doesn’t make others insecure. We are not attracted to the same sex so that’s a huge turn off and we physically can’t have sex with people we share the same sex with! The whole discussion doesn’t make sense*
Guh deh just likes to disrupt normality. Anything remotely normal or standard he has to screw his face up and be against it. He's a very annoying individual.
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IKR!
couldn’t of said it better 😭😭😭😭
@@PS823 and then if you're not with the weirdness he speaks he'll be screaming insecure or something. Like no guh deh, not everyone that doesn't want to be different for the sake of it is insecure! He needs to relax fr lol🙆♂️🏃♂️
@@andrewsampton right !!! he tries too hard to be different from everybody else, especially at 16:13 😂 he really thinks that traditional relationships don’t last longer than modern day relationships.....like at this point in starting to think why they even put him on here
It’s not called “insecure.” Some people just don’t want that mess in their relationship.
Thank you👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿.
Anyone who would listen to that gudeh thing for advice is a clown
I noticed the one who said is gay, so basically he has different beliefs and lifestyle than straight people. Labelling something “insecure” when they don’t even share the same lifestyle doesn’t make sense to me. One of the girl is bisexual too, she likes to have sex with women. So it’s understandable why she is into this. But as a striaght women, I wouldn’t want to see the same sex naked and their private parts on my face. That’s a turn off.
Exactly!!
FACTS
This society has made it more then okay even amazing to be adulterous🤢🤢
The things that are being normalised these days
Facts
Its so heartbreaking
Chief's in Africa have multiple women
@@omis4170 Africa is a continent first of all which means that not every country has chiefs
i’m convinced Nk and Guddeh are doing a ting on the low
Yoo I was saying this una like I feel like NK has crush on guddeh
@@unknownn_.6725 init like there’s sutton up
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LHAHHAHAHAHAHA
The way I was looking to see if anyone commented this cos I was thinking it was as well
Joseph will need back surgery soon because he's really holding this whole season on his back fr
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We love Joseph lol 👏🏾🥳
piss off 😂😂😂😂
its obvious the only one with sense and self respect is joseph
Literally
Joseph Deffo has self respect.
Go on Joseph! Much respect on this topic. Each to their own, so long as they're not being triggered and not hurting or harming anyone. Peace
@@ebonieindiah4131 always
100%
This is just dumb you shouldn’t compromise sexual for your partner. If you don’t want to then you don’t no one should guilt you into it
that guy has always been dumb
More convos that need to be had before getting into a serious relationship.
factsss
They only expect women to compromise, it’s disgusting
@@TaraCarmelina that is true - it in their nature. Think about it,!we women they men. What is easy and makes sense for us will hardly even match what makes sense to them. We are naturally wired differently- and we don’t want to accept it. As a matter of fact we want to act and behave the same way as them. However can’t stop the “feeling” of ones true nature so fighting starts. Now women feel they better than men and vice verse. I really just can’t blame men for the fall of our society but I can blame both men and women for ignoring the truth for they are as human beings. Sorry went on a preaching tangent 🤫
Sorry but I hate Guh deh’s attitude about it. Not everyone want to do 3some and it doesn’t mean that they’re insecure. You shouldn’t do it to make someone happy and that’s what the question is about. Stop trying to please people, you will lose yourself.
Frrr
i know right he always tries to be so different. so annoying
Ngl, I think Guh deh acts that way just to piss people off 🤣🤣🤣
@@EsiriE i hope so frl 😭 because chile
Literally cause the same way he’s so loud and proud abt wanting to do 3 and 4 and 5somes is the same way other people can be loud and proud abt not wanting to. It’s fine that’s he’s free and wants to experiment and have fun some people don’t find that fun. Just cause you like apple and I like oranges don’t come and try and force me to like apples as if liking oranges is wrong kmt
Blue therapy is putting Bkchat out of business.
Big facts
No 🧢
factsss
this rude lol
I mean they are both owned by Andy the same person so...
At this point, I'm assuming NK is just slow and confused. How the hell are you going to describe this as a compromise? Compromising means to find a middle ground, which would involve both people making concessions. There is literally no middle ground with a threesome because either we do it, or we don't. Only one of us is sacrificing our morals & dignity.
Fr more like sacrifice
compromise : a situation where both people are agreeing to a common solution that might not be optimal for you both.
How is this a compromise? The man might want to 'sleep out' often, and the girl doesn't want it, so they both agree to doing it only occasionally. They're compromising because it's the optimal solution to neither parties
@@tbg6070 I know the definition of a compromise. And I’m not speaking about sleeping out ‘often.’ It’s about even wanting to sleep out in the first place. If the only issue for the woman is simply how often the man wants to do it, then there is a compromise. But if she doesn’t want to have a threesome in any way, shape, or form, then we’re having a completely different discussion.
@@tbg6070 you’re missing a key part. He isn’t compromising because he wants it while she doesn’t. Is only her loss, she would be doing something to please him. A middle ground is always the best option
M A How can you say he doesn’t make sense but you’re not even talking about the same scenario he’s describing? The scenario he’s talking about clearly says the man wants to make it a “regular”(often) thing, so having it once in a while would definitely be a form of compromise
Why is Lani a whole mood. “Yeah I’m not mature” straight up though 😂😂😂
They brainwashed her into saying that.
@@Blackrainbow1970 soooo trueeee
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threesome relationships don’t make sense find a man & just commit to eachother not a difficult concept, unless ur central cee
Bmt
Honestly 🙄💯
Thank you !!!
@Dan2Jokes What's wrong with SoundCloud rappers? Tf kinda dumb comment is that?
@@JYGtube most of them are struggle rappers means aka B R O K E😃
Cl blue therapy is more entertaining than this, but I’ll still watch this 🤣
no cappo
Real talk
Fax
Word 😂😂
Disagree. Both very different videos
If you can’t comprise doesn’t mean ur partner should cheat on you💀cheating is not okay and never will be, stop tryna normalise stupidity 😭
Honestly 😭
periodt
Facts this threesome ting is just cheating without the guilt
Exactly. Absolutely ridiculous!!
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I don’t get why Guddeh is confused as to why people don’t want a thrupple?? like it’s so normal 😂
He's a weirdo tbh.
These guys are acting like ridiculous children
He thinks he's a "progressive" and better than everyone else. Of course he'll think that way.
Joseph is definitely carrying the season and I like Jaes dress sense and he’s funny lol. Monty is confident
Aviator on top of a boohoo man hoodie? 🤨
@@aaronaldo14 I’m talking about in the actual episode?
@@aaronaldo14 style isn’t determined by the price of the clothes or where it’s from
@@aaronaldo14 o you’re bright my hoodie isn’t from boohooMAN apart from the one in the confessional
Top
Why is loyalty and commitment hard 💀 leave him sis
It does go against human nature. We’re not a monogamous species that’s why it’s hard.
Lani said every 4-5 years for 3some, coming like World Cup lol
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Looool
Lol! Thats like saying NEVER.
Ffs 😂😂😂😂
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This cast will never replace the originals. Blue therapy is keeping the show alive
fr this group is so boring
U right
Who are the original cast? I just started watching this now
Why are you watching it then?
@@manifestationhappiness705 type in youtube BKCHAT season 1 episode 1
Mr Guhdeh is always fighting with himself 🤦🏾♀️like doesn’t even know when he does it 😂be calming down
ALWAYS bro. He is the most intellectually inconsistent on every topic he is invovled in. The man says we are taking the sexual thing too deep but a majority of his identity is based on his sexuality. Makes no sense.
This is how I know I’m doing well in life. Because I’m only 20 and my mentality is not like these fools
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Honestlyyyyyy
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Your 20 but your wise beyond your years
@@kayshawnsimmons6822 i agreeee
Every week this show makes me deep how grown adults lack basic comprehension skills.
what are you still watching it then?
@@queenpotato1315 Did I say I don’t like the show ? For me to stop watching? Because if I did then enlighten me and question me.
@@SB-gs5oy she has a point tho
@@queenpotato1315 because it’s clearly entertaining lmfao. you don’t watch a car crash while driving past?
@@Headie2 he just said ppl on the show are stupid. That doesn’t mean u sho
this show really could have been a pioneer for social media debates and representing black people in a great light. instead it’s an embarrassment
I swear!!
Honestly total embarrassment
Ngl there’s plenty of debate shows featuring black people so I don’t get your comment. There’s a market for everything so what’s the issue
A bit harsh but I must agree. The issue is not with the cast, the topics aren't good enough.
Asking these stupid questions instead of proper meaningful questions.
Not Nk saying compromise, just know your worth doesn’t matter if he’s been your man for 1 year. Leave and find someone who will want to be with you and only you.
Imagine doing something you don’t wanna do to please someone else...
@@samo6083 just cuz u and ur ugly homies lack self control doesn’t mean every single guy lacks self control the fact y’all can’t discipline y’all selves yuck have some respect for urself thats why most men who were players in their early years die all by themselves
@@samo6083 and remember men aren’t the prize babes lol I can definitely tell u didn’t have good father in ur life 💀💀💀 the sperm chases the egg not the other way around bestie 😭
@@samo6083 please relax on the Kevin Samuels videos. If you need a girl that will allow you to step outside, then locate her. Why go out of your way to find a women that is probably not down, and then force such rhetoric on her. Men need to remember they are also human beings you can control you lust or simply not act on it.
@@fatimajama634 Men are not the prize?
A high value man is rare, top 10% means top 10%. There literally millions of sexy girls that all want that high value guy. Trust me the top 10% of men are the prize.
NK’s family needs to see his behaviour
Wait why on earth did that girl just start singing like that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nahhh real talk😂😂😭
I was dyingggggggg
She did it to show her talent lol 😂 I was thinking the same thing
@@charmermills2510 yeah but it was kinda cringe not the best timing lol
I hear you
Why is this even a discussion 😭😭😭😭 if u don’t want a relationship say so, it’s not that deep.
Exactly!
Honestly, its really sad because people end up ruining their relationships over "spicing" things up. If a woman truly wants to do that she can, but doing it to make her man happy will not be best in the long run. A woman should never feel like she's not good enough. This generation always wants it all, but the world does not work like that. You cant have your cake and eat it too.
They need to spicen up the topics, what’s this pls😭😭
@@michelleadebiyi2341 frr it’s like they are desperate for topics🤣
Why did Shelby start singing please 😭😭and why is gudeh wearing a Bali 🤣🤣yh it’s time to go to my bed
Is that the Prada bucket hat on monte’s head that Deborah has been searching for?
Yes 💀
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when worlds collide
😂😂😂 best comment I found on here so far and I haven't even started watching it
It’s not even that nice
Oh lord forgive us for some of us don’t know what we do 😪
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
Amen🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏿
Lmao... this is bkchat. You read the title, watched the vid and came under the comment section to form holier than thou... that’s hypocritical
Joseph has always been himself since day 1 with his opinions
Trust sexually fluid people to say sex is not that deep but base a majority of their identity on it. Such hypocricy. It's not an insecurity to not want another person in your bedroom when you are with your partner, it's just standards. NK is basically saying if you love your partner, then you'll allow them to cheat on you in person. That's got nothing to do with love my guys, that's what we call lust. This kind of thinking is extreemley manipulative and self centered. It's just the grown-up version of 'if you love me you'll have sex with me' kind of logic. Cheating is cheating, check the definitions, doesn't matter whether it's behind your back or in your face and is regardless of whether you're involved or allow it to happen. Just because you may be okay with it to a certain degree doesn't make it right. Maturing and being an adult is learning to seperate what is right and wrong from what you personaly like or is the norm. The definition of a compromise stems from being in a bad situation and having to settle for standards that are undesirable. If these standards are caused by nature and are not your fault then a compromise is simply necessary but if these standards are a personal expectation then that's an issue.
“If U ask me question I’m a pure virgin”😭😭😭😭😭😭
I like Joseph’s thinking
NK gets too stressed it’s funny 😂😂😂
Joseph and Lani are my faves. Carrying this show. I’m loving Monty aswell !!
Joseph carried as per, Monty was also reasonable even lani. Guh deh.. he was annoying, he just screw face the whole time and his points made no sense
Can we get some more serious topics? This is what makes our community look like a joke. And someone tell guh deh to remove that rubbish from his face.
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We’ve been complaining for 10yrs they ain’t changing. 🤣🤣🤣
Honestly !😂😂
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It’s only been a year, how can you be bored already ???
Yes if she's still stiff like a board
They should just keep Monti Joseph Lani and Jesse and bring back the old crew. This is noise to my ear no one can even debate in an intellectual manner. The rivalry alone between Lucas and Adrian was epic. I miss that
BRING BACK CASTILLO.
You are smart
@@donnerkebab1052 for sure, for show Castillo gat to be back. Big man thing yeah!
guh deh is fighting with himself😭😭😭😭he’s just screaming when people are talking
i couldnt take gudeh seriously in that confession but i totally agree with what he said! THE DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!
K.
It’s not double standards, men and women are different.
@The Wrong Side Of History exactly.
What double standard?
Men & women aren't the same.
You can slap me in the face & everyone will just look. If I slap you there will be pandemonium.
A man can bring in a woman cause he just sees her as a new person to f*ck.
A woman bringing in a man isn't the same cause women are more emotional & can't really have sex detached.
And men are territorial & prideful. 99% of men aren't ok with watching their woman get pounded by another guy.
Guh Deh always Tryna act like some super progressive individual...talking bout he'd never get insecure. MATE. you will even you Guh Deh. It's natural that we compare our performance to others it's human. Stop acting divine mate
Facts. Just last month he find himself and came out fully. Now this month you're so liberal like any white becky on porn hub
Guh Deh a year is a long time??? If you are asking to spice things up after 1 year, what is going to happen 3 years later, 5 years later, 10 years later? Every year you'll be coming to me with this request. The guy should just be single and done because what's the point in having a regular person???
Numbers one don't agree to anything that disturbs your spirit. Relationships mean compromise at times but not to affect your partners spirit and feel forced into something that doesn't sit right with you.
The topics just seem to be getting dumber and dumber
i love dude in the blue. he is me in a conversation. let everyone speak their opinion. then we can go in detail.
Yem you are a gem
I like that the guy in the light blue shirt tried to bring some order
Nah that pissed me off
I failed this is bkchat lol
@@face4212 💦💦💦💨
@@face4212 May I ask why it pissed you off?
Nah he is a pick me...annoying asf, this is supposed to be a debate not a circular talk🙄
what are these topics even, childish af.
you’d be surprised to learn there are 30 year olds on this show smh 🙄
LOOOL. Gudeh is showing another side to him on this show. He ain’t built for this shit
Bring Paul the provider on here 😂
preachhhh
We need him to come and calculate everything 🤣🤣
Let's look a' i' like this
NOOO😭😭😭😭
Savage 🤣🤣🤣
NK and guhdeh put me off of them every week
Shelby always looking for a way to remind us she’s a singer
ONNG! tell me about it! It’s kinda... let me stop
because she’s good at singing so why not
🤣🤣🤣 oh that's what she does
But she sounds good tho so 🤷🏿♀️
She's obviously using the BC platform like a lot of cast members do
I hope this non sense doesn’t get normalised lol
It already is 😂
Stop being selfish
@@Abdi-libaax Troll
If you need a 3rd person in the relationship
The person who is requesting it doesn’t want you in the bedroom simple as
This uncle in blue is moving Like he’s mad civilised. Look at him trynna go around in a circle
So annoying 🙄
What is actually going on in this episode🤣🤣why is guddeh wearing a balaclava and why is Shelby singing
It Took me out 🤣🤣🤣
It doesn’t even look right on him😭
Fam a man needs to just stay single and live your life instead of sticking with one woman and asking for the woman’s permission to bring another person into the relationship
The Guhdeh Renee warned us about is showing. That guy needs medication. He’s not okay, he’s not even making sense lmao. Can they take him off pls.
Mums I just want blue therapy, these brain dead individuals are no longer the main attraction.
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When does it come out
fam dont watch then lol problem solved
You just want likes cuz there’s nothing wrong with this episode
@@face4212 i said this before the video came out g...
This show is beyond toxic. How can man say “if your man wants to bring someone else into the bedroom it means you’re not doing it right.” BYE ✋🏾 I cannot continue to watch this shit. The immaturity enrages me.
This show was never good
💯 corrupting people’s mind towards a damaged culture.
And that other idiot saying you're insecure if you don't want to add a third party to the relationship. This generation is beyond fucked lmao. 💀
@@TheIceMurder2 I’m telling you
*God has left the chat*
dbillionz10 has left the chat*
decency has left the chat*
self respect has left the chat*
nonsense and sexual immorality has been added to the chat*
I could go on
Thank you, everything good has left
LOL 💯 its a real conversation though bs aside..
you can hav a thressome and still have all those things
@@hanagrace1579 there are no morals in the world you live in
Lani always coming thru with the stories
I’m telling you 😂😂
Adefolake always sounds like her nose is blocked 😂
Out of all topics is this what they pick out 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Guhdeh won’t kill me with his outfit 😂🤣
In this episode I came as captain Jamaica 🦸🏾♂️🇯🇲
🤣🤣🤣 you're wild G. Man said Captain Jamaica u kno
And with a lot of truth
Love to see it 🤪
Lool ur welcome
Guhdeh thinks he is always right init, 🙄🙄🙄
He sees everything as an attack or double standards like....
I feel people alter his opinion for his sake and I disagree with him
About the 50/50 it’s not 50/50 if the other half does not accept its not insecurity its morals
I don’t know I feel like gay relationships are more fluid than straight relationships because the other may not be attracted to the same sex and not feel comfortable accepting or be open it is what it is , sex is all about feeling comfortable
Montys Dms are gonna be loookin brazy now 😂😂😂
someone said guh deh looks like he's about to drop a drill tape featuring lil nas X LOL
Always Joseph. So much respect for him. Dnt change man
“You spice suttin up cause it lackin seasoning”-Joseph, wod wod wod wod wod 🤧🤣✅
I feel like this will be the last season of bkchat..
Hope so. It's dry.
If you love your partner and they love you, you should be enough for them
Relationships are not for everyone.
I'm starting to join the Lani train. I like this woman
Reapect to everyone involved with the show, but I would love to see Backchat to pick more insightful subjects to discuss. Give the cast a chance to discuss meaningful life situations rather than trivial topics.
Can you imagine them discussing anything of depth. BLM? PALESTINE? BREXIT? ELECTION CANDIDATES? 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
People have been asking them to do this for years. They don't listen :( What's sad is I'm confident they could get far if they did. You would think they'd take advantage of the current climate. Pitch to have those discussions on BBC 3...but no we get topics on lisping
But no one would watch that’s the funny thing 😂
Am I the only one day that hates it when they suddenly switch sides *cough cough NK* make up ur mind, back ur statement. First you stated the girl should compromised so the guy doesn’t cheat🤮 now all the sudden you wanna play angel and say it’s just greedy...
1:18 is NK slow? That's saying is the EXACT opposite of compromise. 💀😂
NK said comprise then he said it’s greedy😂 this guy
Honestly I don’t get if he’s just there to play both sides or really have his own opinion bcosssss😭
Hes very contradicting.
‘I’m not a predator oh’ Joseph is too funny 😂😂 he brings sense and banta. This topic is sad though, this generation is a bit sad, why would you bring someone into the relationship
There are different ways to compromise and this situation is not one you do that with ESPECIALLY if the girl doesn’t want to
They had to have got some new cameras cuz i ain't never seen BKChat look so crispy clear 😂
i love and hâte this show
Scared for where this generation is going to. God forgive us🤦🏾♀️
Guh deh face the whole show.....who is he rolling his eyes at constantly lol
LANI and her Disney Princess crown 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
monty is on the pick me spectrum. i don’t know where on it she is, but she’s up there.
Right beside Zeze the pick me queen herself
@@PJ-po7fu 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂y'all won't kill me today😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
“Pick me”is just a term used for women who have their own brain and who have some similarities in thinking to men. I’ve been called that and it’s quite funny because that’s just how my brain works and what I believe. Pick me is a rubbish term.
*Some of these girls are gay/bisexual(Monty) so they are attracted to the same sex which is why they don’t mind having sex with another woman. As a straight woman that’s a turn off for me, why would I want the same sex in my bed and their private parts on my face? That’s a huge turn off. They should’ve highlighted that. The dude who said it’s “insecure” it’s also not striaght. So him having different sexual orientation and lifestyle doesn’t make others insecure. We are not attracted to the same sex so that’s a huge turn off and we physically can’t have sex with people we share the same sex with! The whole discussion doesn’t make sense*
@@PJ-po7fu no Zeze is not pick me at all it’s just that most women don’t agree with her and they just call her that 💀you guys need to stop
I miss the old cast man😭
The way some of these women are making excuses to justify allowing their man to sleep with other women while majority of the guys are saying they're not even into that. I'm so confused
*Some of these girls are gay/bisexual so they are attracted to the same sex which is why they don’t mind having sex with another woman. As a straight woman that’s a turn off for me, why would I want the same sex in my bed and their private parts on my face? That’s a huge turn off. They should’ve highlighted that. The dude who said it’s “insecure” it’s also not striaght. So him having different sexual orientation and lifestyle doesn’t make others insecure. We are not attracted to the same sex so that’s a huge turn off and we physically can’t have sex with people we share the same sex with! The whole discussion doesn’t make sense*
I luvvvvvvv lani and her honestly 🤣❤️
Is no one gonna talk about the Pink Ranger at 2:32 😂😭
They're using the word "compromise" way too loosely
How about they’re using it wrong
I don’t get how NK switched up like that 😂😂
Thumbs up 👍🏾for Joseph please,he's such a breath of fresh on this show,he's very mature and speaks so much sense 👏🏾👏🏾
i loveeeeeeee how Monty said "to have sex you have to have a mature mindset" ... a lot...of people arent mature...and are having sex...and we see where that leads...
Jae speaking facts though I acc like him lool