I’m just waiting for your clothing line to come out or collaboration with a brand. Your style is other-worldly. I’m so glad they laid you off because now we have you all to ourselves. 😘😘😘 Waiting patiently for a KarenBritChick clothing line or collab with a reasonably priced brand (Target, H&M, Zara, The Gap, & Other Stories...). 👩🏾💻👩🏾💻👩🏾💻
Thank you Karen. I was laid off 5 years ago and felt just like you only I was 55 then. I couldn’t get more work so I started my own menu planning business. It failed. A year after that my marriage failed. Six months later my son threw me across the room and life fell to pieces. That was October 2017. I moved 5 hours away from my family and began rebuilding me and a life. Through all this time I haven’t been getting enough hair, makeup and fashion videos! All I could think was, I don’t know what life has for me but I’m going to need to look good for it! So, I’ve been studying hard. I’m 60 now. I’m on unemployment benefits. And you’ve got me thinking I might be able to do something around self worth for the over 60s. I already have a little RUclips channel and an old blog that I could restart. I’ve just needed a bit of a push. And then you showed up in my feed! Thank you so much for sharing today. You’ve got me thinking......and crying! 😁😁😁😁😁 ♥️👍🏻👏
Norms Last Daughter, do the blog. There are many of us at 60 or over or even in our 50s who have been displaced, but are not ready to retire. At nearly 60 I am on my second layoff. My hobbies and RUclips channel keep me going, not financially but in happiness alongside of my family. We all living longer and there is much that can be done. Thank you for sharing.
I left my morning "corporate" job last week, after a total of 11 years. I hated it and I also used to work with the worst people I have met in my entire life. I have been working as a teacher of English in Greece for 24 years and I had the morning job just for the salary. In Greece things are very difficult moneywise, yet it is the best decision I have ever made. Oh, and I am 47 years old. In other words, take that f***ng leap of faith! "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek". Love from Greece!!!
Hi! Actually, it was completely irrelevant to teaching, it was a boring office job (data entry). Apart from the nature of the job, what was worse was the fact that I had no time for new lessons and I had to say "no" to many new students. I decided to quit when I realised that I would have to spend at least 15 more years there until retirement! Do you also have a second job thinking of quiting? (δεν σου απάντησα στα ελληνικά από σεβασμό στο κανάλι της Karen) 🙂Καλημέρα!
Here's my personal video on getting laid off from job and how I moved into working as a fashion influencer full time. If you've ever felt trapped in your day job I hope that this video helps you. I'm back to the fun fashion videos after this - promise!!!
Karen, you are truly precious. I really felt you in this video today. I don't have the time to go into my brief story properly @ the moment, but thank you so much for the talking to today. I needed it. Bless you, beautiful girl. Have a magical day 😘
Hi Karen. Thanks for sharing this. Very inspiring. I'm a recent follower of you and would like to know more about after you quit. How did you turn your blog into a business and could actually make money from it? and how long did it take you? Could you please make a video on different career options for someone who loves fashion but has not studied it and also salary expectations? I am studying medicine and do medical research but I love fashion.
I am willing to bet no one laughed at your clothing, I bet she was jealous of other people saying nice things about your style. We will all meet 'that person' at some point when we are doing something well.
True that could've been the case but people can be very mean with creative people. Alot of people still have teenage gangish mentalities even as adults so it wouldn't surprise me if either was true.
That is so TRUE! A Leap of FAITH! I DID IT at 50 yrs. old. Left everything and move to California! I'm 60 now been in here 10 yrs. Best Leap of Faith EVER ! Love youR StYLE!!
Im a handbag designer. I’ve been doing it for over 20 yrs. I love what I do but not who I do it for. I am trying to find a way to create my own vegan bag collection....maybe one day I will take a leap of faith. Thanks for the inspiration
I just absolutely love this girl!!! I stumbled upon her about 6 months ago by mistake and it was indeed one of the best mistakes that I have ever made!!! She is soooo down to earth and so relateable!!! She is very inspiring, and I literally look forward to watching something with her EVERYDAY!!! She is truly MY FAVORITE across the internet and I watch her videos very intensely (-: You can tell just through her videos that she is super sweet and has such a precious spirit and beautiful demeanor.. I will follow her until the very end.. I pray nothing but good things over her life (Jae - Atlanta, GA)
Dearest Karen, I’m on a train watching this video and I’m trying to hold the tears back because this is the affliction I’m going through, as I make my way to work (my 9-5). I grew up poor and shopped in thrift shops all the time, heck, I still do! I love losing myself in a world of unwanted clothes/jewelry/items. Clothes have a way to find you and enrich you, they come with a history of a previous owner that no longer found use for them, but for me,??? They’re great...jeans have been broken in, shirts have that comfort of a lazy Saturday, leather belts have a gorgeous rich patina only time can give. I do have a family and my husband knows my dreams and encourage them. I’m just terrified to take that leap. I gotta make sure my sons have food,roof over their heads. But I THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing this story, im a subscriber and have watched most your videos since discovering you, but funny how it was in my home page today. Yesterday I stayed home and worked all day on my “passion” , reselling clothes online and I felt so fulfilled! I was exhausted but it was a GOOD exhaustion. I do believe in the universe giving you what you need at the precise time, and I believe you’re video was that! Again thank you so very much for taking that leap of faith and for this video 💕🙏🏽 Sorry this post is so long 😊🌈
Sorry I can't help but say that if your coworkers laughed at what you wear then they must've been REALLY BORING dressers -_- For me you're not just some random "dressing out there" kinda girl, you dress WELL and in a practical way. I love your style
Karen, if you are courageous enough to jump off a cliff, you are sharp/smart enough to teach yourself how to fly halfway down. The free fall does not go on forever. Pretty soon it dawns on you to say "look at me, I am flying!" Go on, girl!
The one thing that stood out to me was how the people in the office felt they needed to make comments about you for being creative. I would think it would be refreshing to have someone that is unique and sees things differently. I have always felt I was between two worlds my whole life as an artist and Art teacher. I usually get classic pieces but add a twist.I also have my days I just go for it. My high school students always notice how I dress and I get the most comments from them. I am happy to say good remarks and high school students are very honest. . I remember one day I was wearing a more classic look of brown suede faux pants, soft brown turtle neck and black leather riding boots to my knee and one of my seniors said this is the most normal outfit I ever saw you in since I known you. I hope in a world where everyone buys the sames brands and wants to look like everyone else they can see that it is ok to be different. I love the challenge of being on a budget and pulling a look togiether. I just love your channel and New York.
This is just the push I needed. I've wanted to start a plus size fashion blog since 2013, yet fear would prevent me from doing it year after year. So many years of feeling unfulfilled and incapable. No more. I'm going to do it. No more excuses. Thank you Karen.
I love Michael and the support he was for you! You’re amazing, no doubt but it’s great and easier when someone you love in backing you up. Love you both. You two are amazing.
I think so many of us are not the “9-5” or whatever the regular jobs are. We need to do something creative. And we are not taught or encouraged to do creative things as part of our everyday lives. I am adding this comment here because many people will look at this video for a few years and, like me, read the comments. I also want to encourage women and men not to forget to feed and nourish their souls by doing creative things everyday, be it cooking a meal, decorating a room, gardening, art, music...whatever. I left my jobs slowly, even though I was in public service jobs and liked dealing with the public, I had to work as I needed to support myself, but felt trapped by having to show up to work and have supervisors and bosses who had a different mindset from me. Finally after 15 years of working, I left a toxic relationship and enrolled in Art School, did classes 2 nights a week, worked full time, with weekends and two nights of work, used my holidays to take more art classes and after doing this for 9 years, went part-time to concentrate on graduating from art school. I quit work ( the hardest decision I have ever made, (next to deciding not to have children) and made art full time, with the support of my lovely partner. I still don’t make any money, but do what I love, have time for gardening, had time to look after my Mum when she was sick. To tell the truth, the Corporate World makes us into sick machines, and this horrid emphasis on “more! More! MORE!” Is not the way anyone is supposed to live. So do what you can, set an intention to live your life to the fullest, don’t do anything stupid mind, but don’t feel there are no options. I am now 63. My life change happened around 30, which is a pivotal age for women, stopped working at a ‘job’ at 52. Thank you Karen! You are up there on You Tube with my fav knitting and art vlogs and slow living vlogs as well. Cheers Girl!
Maybe you cried about being fired (or "sacked", in Britspeak ;)) kind of like being dumped by a guy you didn't like that much. It's a blow to your pride.
Today’s my birthday! I really needed to hear this story as I too am dying a slow death in a dreary 9-5. Thanks Karen. Btw that crying at the desk bit, then being escorted out by an unfeeling boss was hilarious. It sounds like a scene from a film.
it really broke my heart when you said that you were dying a slow death and you were getting heart palpitations when thinking about your job... That's exactly what is happening to me presently, and I find it reassuring to hear how you managed to bounce back (even though it was rough). I'm a teacher and at 27 I already feel as if I were 80 because this job is wearing me physically and mentally. I get sick all the time, I'm constantly sad and have lost motivation in everything because I constantly think of this horrible job I have to resume the day after... I can't wait to leave in a two months and find something that gives me time to enjoy myself! Happy also that I have the full support of my husband like you had. It's so important that you feel both of you are in it together! I truly can't wait!
I started my channel as a creative outlet because I didn’t have one in my life. I’ve always loved fashion as well, but part of my enjoyment this far is the fact that I’m not dependent on it for income. It really is just for enjoyment. I guess I haven’t gotten to that place where I believe it could be more. But thankfully I have a 9 to 5 that I enjoy which also brings me a level of enjoyment.
I’m a 66 year old white woman who’s getting the BEST ideas from you!! I’m loving getting dressed again! Mixing and matching, creating new outfits from old, looking at my handbags in a whole new way. I’ve always adored clothes, am so tired of politics and welcome the joyful escape of your videos 😃. You’re ADORABLE.
I can’t shake the visual of you, with your box of bits, tears streaming, with the lift doors closing and boss wishing you well as you are falling apart🤦♀️ Yay you! Your excitement and love for your work shines through all your vlogs! ❤️ your work😉
This story so mirrors my experience so much. The hole, the plan and yet being shell shocked when your hand is being forced before the perfect time. Thank you. It feels so validating
honestly you dont know how much i smiled when u said u never studied fashion! I adore fashion and it's a dream of mine to work in the industry one day, but I always thought I'd never get there because I dont go to school for fashion and dont plan to as the options are so limited in my country. THANK YOU for making this video, it's incredible.
OMG KAREN!!!! I cried watching this video. Thank you for sharing your story. I am in the same boat right now. I ADORE FASHION!!! Always have my entire life. And I have hated EVERY SINGLE job I have ever had because I wasn't fulfilled at all!! And I tried many fields of work over my 44 years. I realized it was because I loved fashion but did not know how to get into it or someone would think I was crazy and tell me I couldn't make any money doing it. I listened to those voices and played it safe and just followed the status quo. I'm 44 now. And it's now or never for my dream of working in fashion. Somehow I have to make this work or I will simply die inside. I live in Houston. I know there are not many opportunities here in fashion. But I am going to take a course for aspiring fashion stylists soon. I need this for my life. I'm tired of walking around as a shell of a person. I'm so happy for you that you went for it! You're such an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for encouraging me to go after my purpose. Thank you also for inspiring me to buy a pair of badass white leather cowboy ankle boots!! Hahaaa! Wish me luck!
And now it's 2019 wow!!!! Even though I'm a new subscriber for ummm about 1 week; I just assumed you were a fashion executive during the day and did this as a hobby. I'm impressed you took the leap of faith. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I enjoy your videos and look forward to viewing more. It's always great to watch during my coffee break. This is definitely your niche.
Thanks for sharing this very personal story. I worked in HR and saw so many people go through a lay off. That was so devastating to each of them; they believed their world would stop, they would lose their homes, their children would starve. Without exception, they realized it was the best thing to happen to them as it made them pay attention to their lives. Your message is absolutely right on, find a way to work in your passion and if you can’t find a way to have it immediately, work your way to it! As always, love your blog, I play with my clothes too and squeal with delight in public places! All the best Karen
I actually had a cardiac arrest last jan and when I came round one of the first things I thought was I could if died in a job I hated, once my surgery is all sorted I'm going to look for something new. Thanks Karen xxx
I left my last corporate job 17 years ago, because I was promoted from within the company and was doing a lot more work than people they hired from outside in the same level position, but my salary was 15% less. My income level jumped double first year doing real estate, and increased tremendously every year, but after 17 years I feel like I’m at cross road again, I love to write since high school, and been putting that off for all my life. Maybe I should start something new. Anyway, great story.
You are such an inspiration. I’m 65, retired and love fashion. You inspired me to enjoy my love for clothes and fashion without guilt or judgement. I enjoy passing my clothes on to others and sharing my love for fashion. Thank you, Karen.
Thanks for telling us your Storey! I am 72 years old and i love to write - i don't have a DAY JOB but i have done everything else in a day - living now in Mexico - other than actually WRITE. Starting first thing tomorrow morning I am going to start writing!!! I have a ton of ideas swirling around so i will just start with ONE! :) Love you really! So now i will be a writer and a better-dressed one - oh yeah - dressing like totally ME! Yay! Xoxo
sweetheart, thanks for posting. it is often that we seek for meaning and identity in our occupation, but it takes a strong lady to make it happen for real :)
WEARTOWORKSTYLE don't give up!!!!, Pray and keep praying, I lost my job and was depressed, I had pity for myself!, but I believe in a higher power!, so I prayed , but I also got off my butt and put resumes out, tons of them! Interviews galore, then luckily I had a degree to fall back on, so I was able to substitute teach for those four months!, to bring in income!, I had friends and family also!, but I just kept praying !, so it may seem bad now!, just have faith and get back out there!, God Loves you🙏🏾
Hi Karen, thanks for this. You truly don’t know how much this resonates with me right now. I’m in a job I hate, I have nothing in common with my colleagues, working long hours without overtime to meet my responsibilities at work. I’m stretched on so many levels, to the point that I started getting anxiety attacks and nausea at work (quietly suffering). It’s a sad state, I know, but I’ve come to the conclusion that this can’t go on for much longer especially when it starts affecting my health. Because without good health, how can we achieve other things? I’ve got a complicated restructuring situation I’ve got to see through at work, but I’m giving it until December (January, the latest). If things don’t improve or not favourable to me personally, then I’m just going to resign. It’s simply not worth it, life’s too short. Sending you love from Surrey, UK. Xxx
You wanted to leave on YOUR terms... that's what it was. No worries though. Their loss is our gain. Love ya lots! And yeah. Next up the story of you and Michael!
I'm 49 and after years of being in bands I was encouraged to try being a solo musician. I didn't think I could do it but I managed to finish an album which will be released in the fall. Thank you for posting your story and I would love to hear how you and Michael met!!
Just found your channel and love it. You are so fresh and upbeat. Love your New York videos. You are inspirational and some of the struggling fashion companies could do with you on board! You have given me new motivation to make it an event, going out the door! Thank you!
I also lost my job due to restructuring a few years back. A week later I started blogging. I’d get up every morning and considered that my “job”. It was therapeutic and I built something that I’m quite proud of! I found a new job that I’m thrilled to be working at and still love blogging, but now it’s just a hobby! I love your channel, you inspire me to look at things in different ways. Thank you.
I just found your videos this weekend and I have been binge watching like crazy. I really needed this video to see more depth and you really shared yourself. Bless you and thank you!
Karen. Gosh even though your video is two years old I feel your message on such a deep level. I am transitioning between jobs as I write, knowing that this is not what I want to do but to pay my bills. I know that I need to take a leap of faith and create the life I want.
Karen, Thank you so much for being candid and truly honest. You have no idea. I had the worst day at work today FULL of anxious, stressful meetings and such. I kept saying to myself "what? Why?" You have challenged me to go back to making jewelry. I used to get so immersed that I lost track of time and it would be 2 in the morning. I love doing this and I will start again and soon "have a go at it" full time. Thank you again. You inspire me!
Thank you so much Karen for this post!! I watched it with tears in my eyes. When you were describing the slow death feeling of the 9 to 5 I couldn’t help but say to myself “that’s me.” I’m actually in the middle of my paycheck save plan with hopes of resigning this December. I sincerely pray that things will work out. You are such an inspiration and I pray that you continue on your path of success.
This was amazing! My mom was a teacher and she always says that she was so lucky that her passion was her career. She loved what she did for40 years. You are so inspirational. I love makeup and would like to try making ladies over especially those who may be starting over in life but it terrifies me and I don’t know how to just leap. Kudos to you!
See a need, fill a need. Contact your local unemployment office and see if you can make your services available there, even if you start out free, it will give you experience which will feed your confidence and help move you forward into other arenas. Often there are Pamper Fairs (massages, wine tastings, inspirational speakers, etc. ) which would be a good venue for your idea too. Also, community ed is another venue to offer your skills and knowledge to others you want to help. Good Luck!
Brilliant! 7 years ago I decided to do what I loved. I haven't regreted it nor changed my mind. And it's exactly how you said it... take the first step, leap or jump and the universe will do the rest. Takes time, yes it does, but if you are true to yourself, if you don't quit your dreams and keep fighting you'll find yourself exactly where you wanted. Love your energy and enthusiasm.
Hi Karen, thank you for the video it really resonated with me. I hated my job and when I resigned I cried maybe because it was my safety net and leaving the idea of an income was so scary but I knew I couldn’t stay a day longer. I’m still trying to get on my path and I’m sure that destiny will lead the way.
OMG, I felt like you were telling my story too!!! But I’m at the point where I’ve decided to work in the film & tv costume department part-time while I finally work on starting my brand in fashion & styling. I have procrastinated for so many years. Thank you for the “NEEDED, ON-TIME” inspiration! No more trying to make things perfect, I will just start!
You are such a blessing. Thanks for your candor. I recall finding your blog years ago and wondering why you weren't on RUclips and then finally seeing you post a few videos and wondering why you weren't doing them on a regular basis. You have an amazing point of view, so glad you took the leap of faith. I am part of the tribe that looks forward to your content. This story really strikes a chord! That overwhelming feeling you had in the last months of your 9to5... same. Truly inspired to do something about it. ❤️🙏🏽
This was sooooooo on point I got laid off in December and I dragged my feet for a while and then I lit fire under my rump and god has been showing out every since I've been chasing my dreams...you are so inspiring I'm not giving up...confirmation thanks karen
Really feel you when you said you are dying a slow death supporting someone else. I feel like my creative outlet is the most uplifting part of my day. Hope it turns out to be a sustainable source of income.
I am literally in tears because you are speaking to me personally. I've been telling my husband that I'm no longer happy with my job and do what I like to do which styling, honestly I'm going to come up with a plan and be on my way to happiness
I have been an unemployed fertility nurse for one year. I have been waffling to start a blog and/or RUclips channel for a couple years. I love all your videos, but this one hit home. While watching this video, I sat down at my computer and looked up how to start a blog! I loved my job in fertility, but would like to reach out to more people with my expertise and empathy. I also LOVE fashion and have been told by many people I should be a stylist. I know I can combine these subjects along with some beauty thrown in. YOU are my AHA moment! Thank you so much for your story!!💝💕✨
Such an amazing story Karen, so proud of you! I feel like Ive lost my sense of self so not sure what I love doing anymore. These corporate jobs are soul crushing, and Ive been in a corporate job for over 10 years. It feels like a trap, as all im doing is paying rent and bills. Very unfulfilling :( xo
Thanks for sharing your story Karen. I've loved fashion since I was young. I remember being called "rich girl" simply because I didn't want to wear what everyone else was wearing at the time. I like having my own sense of style.
Karen, Thank you for this share. Two years later and this message is so timely for me. Your encouraging words toward the end had me in tears. Keeping shining!
I so love your channel! I was in the same situation with you. 5 years ago I walked away from my job. I as miserable and unhappy as well. It wasn't a bad job, just as the for me. Talked it over with the hubby and I resigned. I went back to school, graduated and started fashion week in my city. We are now going into 4 years and growing. It was scary and bumping, but with a supporting husband and family it gives you assurance and encouragement to keep moving forward. Thank you for sharing, it's confirmation, that we're not crazy. Keep us fashion forward!
Blog post was really interesting. You've successfully "followed your bliss" ...it is scary at the beginning, but look how much happier and fulfilled you are now - and every fulfilled person makes the world a happier place.
1. You're amazing, 2. You're in inspiration, 3. I am a firm believer of Laws of Attraction, hence, with your energy and will, no doubt the Universe opens the doors to your dreams. THANK YOU!
I'm 59 years old and just stumbled on to this channel almost a year ago. I love fashion and personal style. This has been one of my favorite videos, although I've enjoyed your channel quite a lot. Good for you Karen! Keep up the good work! I also agree with your ideas about spirituality and that makes me happy, so thanks for sharing that! Great video. I also follow you on Instagram.😊
Karen, thanks for sharing your story. There are a lot of similar stories on YT. People want to follow their dreams but as you said - the rent still has to be paid. If your heart isn’t in your 9-5, your worst enemy can be knowing that your best hours are spent feeding someone else’s dream.
Karen, I am so glad you did this video. I can emphasize with how you felt about being laid off. It happened to me twice and I completely identity with what you said. It is like a rug coming out. On both layoffs I took and am taking refuge in my crochet and painting. The things I love. In between job search sessions, I design and crochet a purse for my RUclips channel. Today it took all day. I am not making money at this point, but I love it. It fills the hole in me too. Thanks again for sharing. And thank you for inspiring us to look and feel good about ourselves. I can say you have had an impact on my style.
I enjoyed your story. I'm currently going through the same thing , after 25 years of corporate employment. I'm all over the place with emotion and even though I know better windows of opportunity are waiting, it's still kind of scary. I appreciate you sharing, which is very encouraging!
Very inspiring Karen. Thank you for sharing. Tomorrow I'm actually putting my 2 weeks in at my job. It's warehouse environment for a popular company. After coming back from my vacation I starred in the mirror and was literally like I hate this job and I'm happy at all. I found out I was pregnant shortly after and in a position where I shouldn't be on my feet at all. I've been planning on starting a blog or and focusing on things I'm more passionate about, (crafting,fashion, music etc). This video made me feel a little better about it all. My fiancé backs me 100% and we will be comfortable with me following my dream. Saved up my last checks and pulled my 401k out to invest in my future being happy. I'm 26 and already burnt out because of working since I was able to. Long post but thank you Karen for sharing your story. ❤❤❤
Thank you for this video... I have done what I love to do my whole career until it was all outsourced to another country. Since I can no longer find a job in my field I am lost.... I love fashion too but have no confidence left... I feel so used up and thrown out.. You inspire me with your story!!!
Karen I am so glad you took the plunge....I have been so inspired by your fashion. You will never know how many women you have encouraged by sharing your truth. I discovered you less than one year ago and you have completely changed the way I feel and see fashion. YOu have helped me to discover my own personal style and this has helped me in so many ways....I applaud you bravery.
Omg! I'm a Manager in a big box store, for 11 years now!!! I deal with it, but I don't love it! It's a mindless job and my passions are elsewhere. I dream everyday of doing what I really love. But... with great medical, 401K, plus more benefits, I'm scared to death to move on. But this video has inspired me so much! Love you!
SO grateful for you. Being following you for almost 10 years. I told my job last month that I was leaving to concentrate on my art business. It’s been picking up and I’ve had to turn jobs away because I don’t have the time. I still have student loans from attending art school in 2001. I’m 38 and have never given my natural talent a chance to flourish so my job has me until November. Thank you for your story!
I LOVE this Karen! Thank you for sharing. Although it was a difficult experience, it happened that way so you can share your gifts with us every week. Seriously- it’s my favorite thing to watch above anything on television! I think you’re brilliant. Feels like watching a friend giving me fashion advice. It’s just so cool👍🏻
Before starting my mag, I was fired from every job I held. It may have been self sabotage or I may just have been truly crappy at my work. I dunno. All I knew was that I didn’t want to work for anyone. I am a lot happier and feel so good doing what I truly want to do. You’re right about opportunities coming to me because I just signed my first paying advertiser and am looking to crowdfund our move from digital to print. We’ve just published our 6 th Issue and our reader numbers are growing. We have to do what speaks to our souls or die unfulfilled. It’s scary but so so worth it!
I love what I do! I am an after school art teacher and a gallery artist! I paint every day. I started making homemade little gift cards all hand painted. They are selling but I need to push the pavement a little more and get more stores to carry my cards! You have inspired me with fashion which I have always loved! But now making more of a living with my art! Thank you!
I just started following because my daughter introduced me to your vlogs! I love this story. I just got laid off, and I already have my a blog. It is scary because right now that is all I'm doing. I'm ok financially but I'm not sure what to do with my blog. I have one video on RUclips. . .only one. LOL.
This video is EVERYTHING. It mirrors my own life over the last few years; I left a corporate job that I held for 10 years in 2018 to head my own non profit. It has not been easy, but it was what I needed to do for me! Thanks for your candor and posting this...I am sure many more need to hear it. Keep doing what you're doing. I wish you continued SUCCESS in your future endeavors! 😊
OMG! How ironic?!? I worked for a printing company here in the Bay Area about 10 years ago on the account side. And exactly - it paid the bills... And yes, I was laid off too (the nature of the beast - lose a major client & your whole world gets upended). I'm still in Marketing but I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up. I've started and stopped a bunch of ventures outside of my 9-5 (more like 7-7), but haven't found 'it' yet... I'll keep trying to find the thing that moves me. Thank you for sharing your story - lets me know there is hope! And please do share the story of how you met Micheal... Would love to hear it! Hope you had a blast in NOLA and was able to laissez les bons temps rouler!
Kareeeeeennnnn! I'm new to your channel so I'm still at the stage where every time I watch one of your videos I say to myself, "I'm so glad I stumbled across this channel". This video is the reason why, everything you said was so inspiring, real, down-to-earth, relatable and clearly spoke to a lot of people who watched it. Definitely given me the nudge just to start the projects I have in mind without fear. Thank you! ❤️🙌🏾❤️
Yes, this resonates with me big time. I am on that ledge... trying to push myself, and to stop procrastinating and making excuses. OMG, thank you so much for the inspiration. You are a ROCK STAR Karen. Really. You are. I hope that you had a great weekend.
Wow Karen, this speaks to me. I follow you on insta and I mentioned you and I had the same year of losing a job. Yes, I was gonna leave actually BUT they did something illegal where they didn’t want to “lay off “ people because they don’t want to PAY.. anyway, long story short, got laid off same year, got engaged on the same year 09 and my hubby told me “you are meant for something better babe. Let’s do this.I told you to quit that job anyway.” He has been supportive of what I do since. THANK YOU for this video (even though I’m 3 years late lol) I’ve only discovered about you last year. and You style just freaking spoke to me. Love watching you and Michaels grow together. Blessings.
Thank you for the video, I quite enjoy these types, so don’t apologise for it not being all fashion! You said many very true things, most importantly sending that message out about what you’d love to do. When I was about 9 I started writing seriously. (Holy precocious child Batman, I’ve read some of my reports for school from around age 10, they read like a college level essay- can’t believe I wrote them! That happens often, I’m reading something, then realise I wrote it, odd!) I decided I wanted to be involved in music. Had no idea how, as I had no musical talent, but that’s what I dreamed of, hanging out with rock stars, etc-kids dreams. By the time I was 18 I was firmly entrenched in the NYC underground music scene. I did *everything * involving music, worked with so many bands, knew everyone, even famous rock stars who are still friends! Every job/career I created for myself involved music combined with fashion. Even now, writing the novel series it’s r ‘n’ r & fashion! So I truly believe what you send out into the universe comes back to you, so be careful what you wish for! I would love to hear how you and Michael met! Me & hubby met really weird as well (I told him repeatedly to piss off!) Jet🧡🎸🎶⚡️🦇
I loved this video even more then your usual ones... Thanks for sharing your story, i could still see how stressed you got when talking about a job that you didn't like... And that is a sign for many of us who would recognize themselves in you and finally take that step forward to follow their passion. I found your story very inspiring and until now i am glad i found your channel by chance one day, i have been following you ever since and i love the real passion that you pass on with your videos, plus the great style you have, of course!
You are always an inspiration and a joy. There is no one else like you in your field. If you feel as if you are still in free-fall just think of all the fans who adore you and will be here to catch you!
🙋🏾♀️ you were speaking to me! My heart is beating so fast because I’m so angry at myself for being afraid to take the leap. I hate my job and my boss knows it. I have a company trip in 3 days....That I DO Not want to attend, but today I decided that if I was going they were going to meet ME!!! I’m tired of trying to fit into corporate America. As I was shopping everyone in the stores asked me if I was a stylist or personal shopper. I smiled and said that I’ve always wanted to do that. I told them I was shopping for a company trip, and each time I said that I wanted to cry. I’m so sorry for the long comment but I just want to say thank you for sharing your story! Just like you I felt so happy shopping today. I felt good sharing tips with ladies as they walked by I didn’t make any money but I felt like I was shopping for a movie premiere or special occasion for a major movie star!!!!! I have a passion and beginning today I will prepare for my exit! #nomorefear🦋🙏🏾
Bottom line, I am very happy that you are successful at what you LOVE! I can relate to doing a terrific job in a very stressful environment. I worked four years as a Transcriber for a P.I., listening to tapes relating to crime every single day. Other employees were stressful or stressed too. I was not treated very well, i.e. little appreciation for my loyalty and skills. Life has far much more meaning than that!!
I really wanted to think about what I wrote on your blog as your story really moved me. Your self belief shone through Karen, I was gobsmacked over your bosses reaction - lordy if she truly valued you she should have been crying too and telling you just how much she appreciated your work ethic and committment - what a clobber! and as for your work colleagues..........bullet! I love your blogs each and every week you never fail to inspire, encourage and tell it like it is. Keep up the great work and keep smiling Karen for it lights up a room.
This just came at the perfect time. I was discussing earlier today about my job and finding a different way to pay my bills. Just what I needed Karen, thank you very much!
I’m just waiting for your clothing line to come out or collaboration with a brand. Your style is other-worldly. I’m so glad they laid you off because now we have you all to ourselves. 😘😘😘 Waiting patiently for a KarenBritChick clothing line or collab with a reasonably priced brand (Target, H&M, Zara, The Gap, & Other Stories...). 👩🏾💻👩🏾💻👩🏾💻
Ten Ways To Wear It Yes! I would be obsessed.
^^^THIS
Ten Ways To Wear It omg your hair in the thumbnail Karen 😍😍
Ten Ways To Wear It I totally agree
Yassssss
Thank you Karen. I was laid off 5 years ago and felt just like you only I was 55 then. I couldn’t get more work so I started my own menu planning business. It failed. A year after that my marriage failed. Six months later my son threw me across the room and life fell to pieces. That was October 2017. I moved 5 hours away from my family and began rebuilding me and a life. Through all this time I haven’t been getting enough hair, makeup and fashion videos! All I could think was, I don’t know what life has for me but I’m going to need to look good for it! So, I’ve been studying hard. I’m 60 now. I’m on unemployment benefits. And you’ve got me thinking I might be able to do something around self worth for the over 60s. I already have a little RUclips channel and an old blog that I could restart. I’ve just needed a bit of a push. And then you showed up in my feed! Thank you so much for sharing today. You’ve got me thinking......and crying! 😁😁😁😁😁 ♥️👍🏻👏
I read your story and you have inspired me!! I wish for you much success and happiness for the rest of your life...
Norms Last Daughter , I wish you all the very best of luck !! What is your channel called ? Debs x
Norms Last Daughter the mature audience is really up and coming on you tube. Doesn't hurt to try. Best of luck
Norms Last Daughter, do the blog. There are many of us at 60 or over or even in our 50s who have been displaced, but are not ready to retire. At nearly 60 I am on my second layoff. My hobbies and RUclips channel keep me going, not financially but in happiness alongside of my family. We all living longer and there is much that can be done. Thank you for sharing.
Norms Last Daughter subscribed. Share your heart, share your story❤️
This woman is going to be huge, wait a couple of years and see
you could be onto something
I left my morning "corporate" job last week, after a total of 11 years. I hated it and I also used to work with the worst people I have met in my entire life. I have been working as a teacher of English in Greece for 24 years and I had the morning job just for the salary. In Greece things are very difficult moneywise, yet it is the best decision I have ever made. Oh, and I am 47 years old. In other words, take that f***ng leap of faith! "The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek". Love from Greece!!!
Hmm interesting I’m also an English teacher in Greece and would love to take the plunge. Out of interest what did you do?
Hi! Actually, it was completely irrelevant to teaching, it was a boring office job (data entry). Apart from the nature of the job, what was worse was the fact that I had no time for new lessons and I had to say "no" to many new students. I decided to quit when I realised that I would have to spend at least 15 more years there until retirement! Do you also have a second job thinking of quiting? (δεν σου απάντησα στα ελληνικά από σεβασμό στο κανάλι της Karen) 🙂Καλημέρα!
Kiki Tsichla I wonder in how you doing? I’m pretty sure you are happier. A lot of Hugs!!
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OF COURSE WE WANNA KNOW HOW U AND MICHAEL MET!!!!! Video plz!
Here's my personal video on getting laid off from job and how I moved into working as a fashion influencer full time. If you've ever felt trapped in your day job I hope that this video helps you. I'm back to the fun fashion videos after this - promise!!!
thank you for taking the time to do this video :)
God is so good!
KarenBritChick I loved yours choice and this video. Congratulations on the new "job" and for your courage to follow what your heart commanded.
Karen, you are truly precious. I really felt you in this video today. I don't have the time to go into my brief story properly @ the moment, but thank you so much for the talking to today. I needed it. Bless you, beautiful girl. Have a magical day 😘
Hi Karen. Thanks for sharing this. Very inspiring. I'm a recent follower of you and would like to know more about after you quit. How did you turn your blog into a business and could actually make money from it? and how long did it take you? Could you please make a video on different career options for someone who loves fashion but has not studied it and also salary expectations? I am studying medicine and do medical research but I love fashion.
I am willing to bet no one laughed at your clothing, I bet she was jealous of other people saying nice things about your style. We will all meet 'that person' at some point when we are doing something well.
OHTHECHITCHAT exactly!!!
OHTHECHITCHAT WOW!!
Also jealous of your creativity. The right and left brain war! LOL
True that could've been the case but people can be very mean with creative people. Alot of people still have teenage gangish mentalities even as adults so it wouldn't surprise me if either was true.
@@zerafmaxx1010 yes!!!
Would love to hear the story about you and Michael met. Nice video, great content as always. xo
Debra Rozich she posted something like that on her blog a while back
Me too!
That is so TRUE! A Leap of FAITH! I DID IT at 50 yrs. old. Left everything and move to California! I'm 60 now been in here 10 yrs. Best Leap of Faith EVER ! Love youR StYLE!!
Dying a slow death at your desk job. Yes I can relate completely
Im a handbag designer. I’ve been doing it for over 20 yrs. I love what I do but not who I do it for. I am trying to find a way to create my own vegan bag collection....maybe one day I will take a leap of faith. Thanks for the inspiration
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Yes!!! Please do, the world needs more vegan bags.
Rossina Guevara DO IT IF YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF EVERYTHING WILL FALL IN PLACE
i also strongly support vegan items. the luxury goods industry is terrible and so sad to see people buy into. stay strong and be true to yourself
You never know who you're helping by your words and deeds.....
I just absolutely love this girl!!! I stumbled upon her about 6 months ago by mistake and it was indeed one of the best mistakes that I have ever made!!! She is soooo down to earth and so relateable!!! She is very inspiring, and I literally look forward to watching something with her EVERYDAY!!! She is truly MY FAVORITE across the internet and I watch her videos very intensely (-: You can tell just through her videos that she is super sweet and has such a precious spirit and beautiful demeanor.. I will follow her until the very end.. I pray nothing but good things over her life (Jae - Atlanta, GA)
Dearest Karen, I’m on a train watching this video and I’m trying to hold the tears back because this is the affliction I’m going through, as I make my way to work (my 9-5). I grew up poor and shopped in thrift shops all the time, heck, I still do! I love losing myself in a world of unwanted clothes/jewelry/items. Clothes have a way to find you and enrich you, they come with a history of a previous owner that no longer found use for them, but for me,??? They’re great...jeans have been broken in, shirts have that comfort of a lazy Saturday, leather belts have a gorgeous rich patina only time can give. I do have a family and my husband knows my dreams and encourage them. I’m just terrified to take that leap. I gotta make sure my sons have food,roof over their heads. But I THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart for sharing this story, im a subscriber and have watched most your videos since discovering you, but funny how it was in my home page today. Yesterday I stayed home and worked all day on my “passion” , reselling clothes online and I felt so fulfilled! I was exhausted but it was a GOOD exhaustion. I do believe in the universe giving you what you need at the precise time, and I believe you’re video was that! Again thank you so very much for taking that leap of faith and for this video 💕🙏🏽
Sorry this post is so long 😊🌈
This was so inspiring! There's an old proverb: "Move and the way will open" :*
Sorry I can't help but say that if your coworkers laughed at what you wear then they must've been REALLY BORING dressers -_-
For me you're not just some random "dressing out there" kinda girl, you dress WELL and in a practical way. I love your style
Karen, if you are courageous enough to jump off a cliff, you are sharp/smart enough to teach yourself how to fly halfway down. The free fall does not go on forever. Pretty soon it dawns on you to say "look at me, I am flying!" Go on, girl!
LOVE LOVE LOVE this!
I heard another one: on your deathbed nobody says, "I should have spent more time at work."
Yeah, should have put in that overtime :)) great saying!
Maverick WIS
Unfortunately, everything costs money and nobody gives you for free.
The one thing that stood out to me was how the people in the office felt they needed to make comments about you for being creative. I would think it would be refreshing to have someone that is unique and sees things differently. I have always felt I was between two worlds my whole life as an artist and Art teacher. I usually get classic pieces but add a twist.I also have my days I just go for it. My high school students always notice how I dress and I get the most comments from them. I am happy to say good remarks and high school students are very honest. . I remember one day I was wearing a more classic look of brown suede faux pants, soft brown turtle neck and black leather riding boots to my knee and one of my seniors said this is the most normal outfit I ever saw you in since I known you. I hope in a world where everyone buys the sames brands and wants to look like everyone else they can see that it is ok to be different. I love the challenge of being on a budget and pulling a look togiether. I just love your channel and New York.
“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” - Paulo Coelho
This is just the push I needed. I've wanted to start a plus size fashion blog since 2013, yet fear would prevent me from doing it year after year. So many years of feeling unfulfilled and incapable. No more. I'm going to do it. No more excuses.
Thank you Karen.
I love Michael and the support he was for you!
You’re amazing, no doubt but it’s great and easier when someone you love in backing you up.
Love you both. You two are amazing.
I think so many of us are not the “9-5” or whatever the regular jobs are. We need to do something creative. And we are not taught or encouraged to do creative things as part of our everyday lives. I am adding this comment here because many people will look at this video for a few years and, like me, read the comments.
I also want to encourage women and men not to forget to feed and nourish their souls by doing creative things everyday, be it cooking a meal, decorating a room, gardening, art, music...whatever. I left my jobs slowly, even though I was in public service jobs and liked dealing with the public, I had to work as I needed to support myself, but felt trapped by having to show up to work and have supervisors and bosses who had a different mindset from me. Finally after 15 years of working, I left a toxic relationship and enrolled in Art School, did classes 2 nights a week, worked full time, with weekends and two nights of work, used my holidays to take more art classes and after doing this for 9 years, went part-time to concentrate on graduating from art school. I quit work ( the hardest decision I have ever made, (next to deciding not to have children) and made art full time, with the support of my lovely partner. I still don’t make any money, but do what I love, have time for gardening, had time to look after my Mum when she was sick. To tell the truth, the Corporate World makes us into sick machines, and this horrid emphasis on “more! More! MORE!” Is not the way anyone is supposed to live. So do what you can, set an intention to live your life to the fullest, don’t do anything stupid mind, but don’t feel there are no options. I am now 63. My life change happened around 30, which is a pivotal age for women, stopped working at a ‘job’ at 52. Thank you Karen! You are up there on You Tube with my fav knitting and art vlogs and slow living vlogs as well. Cheers Girl!
Maybe you cried about being fired (or "sacked", in Britspeak ;)) kind of like being dumped by a guy you didn't like that much. It's a blow to your pride.
Today’s my birthday! I really needed to hear this story as I too am dying a slow death in a dreary 9-5. Thanks Karen.
Btw that crying at the desk bit, then being escorted out by an unfeeling boss was hilarious. It sounds like a scene from a film.
it really broke my heart when you said that you were dying a slow death and you were getting heart palpitations when thinking about your job... That's exactly what is happening to me presently, and I find it reassuring to hear how you managed to bounce back (even though it was rough).
I'm a teacher and at 27 I already feel as if I were 80 because this job is wearing me physically and mentally. I get sick all the time, I'm constantly sad and have lost motivation in everything because I constantly think of this horrible job I have to resume the day after... I can't wait to leave in a two months and find something that gives me time to enjoy myself! Happy also that I have the full support of my husband like you had. It's so important that you feel both of you are in it together!
I truly can't wait!
I started my channel as a creative outlet because I didn’t have one in my life. I’ve always loved fashion as well, but part of my enjoyment this far is the fact that I’m not dependent on it for income. It really is just for enjoyment. I guess I haven’t gotten to that place where I believe it could be more. But thankfully I have a 9 to 5 that I enjoy which also brings me a level of enjoyment.
I’m a 66 year old white woman who’s getting the BEST ideas from you!! I’m loving getting dressed again! Mixing and matching, creating new outfits from old, looking at my handbags in a whole new way. I’ve always adored clothes, am so tired of politics and welcome the joyful escape of your videos 😃. You’re ADORABLE.
I can’t shake the visual of you, with your box of bits, tears streaming, with the lift doors closing and boss wishing you well as you are falling apart🤦♀️ Yay you! Your excitement and love for your work shines through all your vlogs! ❤️ your work😉
This story so mirrors my experience so much. The hole, the plan and yet being shell shocked when your hand is being forced before the perfect time. Thank you. It feels so validating
Kgaugelo Mokoka Mine too. I took the chance! Almost 15 years ago now. I left my 17year old career. You can do it!
honestly you dont know how much i smiled when u said u never studied fashion! I adore fashion and it's a dream of mine to work in the industry one day, but I always thought I'd never get there because I dont go to school for fashion and dont plan to as the options are so limited in my country. THANK YOU for making this video, it's incredible.
OMG KAREN!!!! I cried watching this video. Thank you for sharing your story. I am in the same boat right now. I ADORE FASHION!!! Always have my entire life. And I have hated EVERY SINGLE job I have ever had because I wasn't fulfilled at all!! And I tried many fields of work over my 44 years. I realized it was because I loved fashion but did not know how to get into it or someone would think I was crazy and tell me I couldn't make any money doing it. I listened to those voices and played it safe and just followed the status quo. I'm 44 now. And it's now or never for my dream of working in fashion. Somehow I have to make this work or I will simply die inside. I live in Houston. I know there are not many opportunities here in fashion. But I am going to take a course for aspiring fashion stylists soon. I need this for my life. I'm tired of walking around as a shell of a person. I'm so happy for you that you went for it! You're such an inspiration to me. Thank you so much for encouraging me to go after my purpose. Thank you also for inspiring me to buy a pair of badass white leather cowboy ankle boots!! Hahaaa! Wish me luck!
I LOVE when vloggers go off track to give us inspiration! I'm working on a business with homemade healing products. Thanks for the encouragement.
And now it's 2019 wow!!!! Even though I'm a new subscriber for ummm about 1 week; I just assumed you were a fashion executive during the day and did this as a hobby. I'm impressed you took the leap of faith. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I enjoy your videos and look forward to viewing more. It's always great to watch during my coffee break. This is definitely your niche.
Thanks for sharing this very personal story. I worked in HR and saw so many people go through a lay off. That was so devastating to each of them; they believed their world would stop, they would lose their homes, their children would starve. Without exception, they realized it was the best thing to happen to them as it made them pay attention to their lives. Your message is absolutely right on, find a way to work in your passion and if you can’t find a way to have it immediately, work your way to it! As always, love your blog, I play with my clothes too and squeal with delight in public places! All the best Karen
I actually had a cardiac arrest last jan and when I came round one of the first things I thought was I could if died in a job I hated, once my surgery is all sorted I'm going to look for something new. Thanks Karen xxx
Yes life is too short
I left my last corporate job 17 years ago, because I was promoted from within the company and was doing a lot more work than people they hired from outside in the same level position, but my salary was 15% less.
My income level jumped double first year doing real estate, and increased tremendously every year, but after 17 years I feel like I’m at cross road again, I love to write since high school, and been putting that off for all my life. Maybe I should start something new. Anyway, great story.
You are such an inspiration. I’m 65, retired and love fashion. You inspired me to enjoy my love for clothes and fashion without guilt or judgement. I enjoy passing my clothes on to others and sharing my love for fashion.
Thank you, Karen.
Thanks for telling us your Storey! I am 72 years old and i love to write - i don't have a DAY JOB but i have done everything else in a day - living now in Mexico - other than actually WRITE. Starting first thing tomorrow morning I am going to start writing!!! I have a ton of ideas swirling around so i will just start with ONE! :) Love you really! So now i will be a writer and a better-dressed one - oh yeah - dressing like totally ME! Yay! Xoxo
I've discovered you yesterday and been binge-watching your videos :) You're such an inspiration, Karen! Lots of love!
sweetheart, thanks for posting. it is often that we seek for meaning and identity in our occupation, but it takes a strong lady to make it happen for real :)
Your story is really reflecting my life right now. It is like listening to what is happening to me at the moment. Thank you for sharing ur story 😍
WEARTOWORKSTYLE me too!
WEARTOWORKSTYLE don't give up!!!!, Pray and keep praying, I lost my job and was depressed, I had pity for myself!, but I believe in a higher power!, so I prayed , but I also got off my butt and put resumes out, tons of them! Interviews galore, then luckily I had a degree to fall back on, so I was able to substitute teach for those four months!, to bring in income!, I had friends and family also!, but I just kept praying !, so it may seem bad now!, just have faith and get back out there!, God Loves you🙏🏾
Hi Karen, thanks for this. You truly don’t know how much this resonates with me right now. I’m in a job I hate, I have nothing in common with my colleagues, working long hours without overtime to meet my responsibilities at work. I’m stretched on so many levels, to the point that I started getting anxiety attacks and nausea at work (quietly suffering). It’s a sad state, I know, but I’ve come to the conclusion that this can’t go on for much longer especially when it starts affecting my health. Because without good health, how can we achieve other things? I’ve got a complicated restructuring situation I’ve got to see through at work, but I’m giving it until December (January, the latest). If things don’t improve or not favourable to me personally, then I’m just going to resign. It’s simply not worth it, life’s too short. Sending you love from Surrey, UK. Xxx
You wanted to leave on YOUR terms... that's what it was. No worries though. Their loss is our gain. Love ya lots! And yeah. Next up the story of you and Michael!
I'm 49 and after years of being in bands I was encouraged to try being a solo musician. I didn't think I could do it but I managed to finish an album which will be released in the fall. Thank you for posting your story and I would love to hear how you and Michael met!!
I can understand, Karen. I’ve been laid-off from a job I hated. I kept my composure until I got home. It was quite a blow to my self-esteem.
Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us! I am currently saving up and positioning myself to work for myself full time as well. 🙂
Just found your channel and love it. You are so fresh and upbeat. Love your New York videos. You are inspirational and some of the struggling fashion companies could do with you on board! You have given me new motivation to make it an event, going out the door! Thank you!
I also lost my job due to restructuring a few years back. A week later I started blogging. I’d get up every morning and considered that my “job”. It was therapeutic and I built something that I’m quite proud of! I found a new job that I’m thrilled to be working at and still love blogging, but now it’s just a hobby! I love your channel, you inspire me to look at things in different ways. Thank you.
I just found your videos this weekend and I have been binge watching like crazy. I really needed this video to see more depth and you really shared yourself. Bless you and thank you!
Karen. Gosh even though your video is two years old I feel your message on such a deep level. I am transitioning between jobs as I write, knowing that this is not what I want to do but to pay my bills. I know that I need to take a leap of faith and create the life I want.
Karen,
Thank you so much for being candid and truly honest. You have no idea. I had the worst day at work today FULL of anxious, stressful meetings and such. I kept saying to myself "what? Why?" You have challenged me to go back to making jewelry. I used to get so immersed that I lost track of time and it would be 2 in the morning. I love doing this and I will start again and soon "have a go at it" full time. Thank you again. You inspire me!
I wish I could like this a 1000 times....it is to be watched and rewatched again and again! Love this, Karen! You are an inspiration
This was so inspiring to watch! Karen I love how authentic you are
Thank you so much Karen for this post!! I watched it with tears in my eyes. When you were describing the slow death feeling of the 9 to 5 I couldn’t help but say to myself “that’s me.” I’m actually in the middle of my paycheck save plan with hopes of resigning this December. I sincerely pray that things will work out. You are such an inspiration and I pray that you continue on your path of success.
Two years on...how are you doing? I hope you are successful in finding and following your passion.
This was amazing! My mom was a teacher and she always says that she was so lucky that her passion was her career. She loved what she did for40 years. You are so inspirational. I love makeup and would like to try making ladies over especially those who may be starting over in life but it terrifies me and I don’t know how to just leap. Kudos to you!
See a need, fill a need. Contact your local unemployment office and see if you can make your services available there, even if you start out free, it will give you experience which will feed your confidence and help move you forward into other arenas. Often there are Pamper Fairs (massages, wine tastings, inspirational speakers, etc. ) which would be a good venue for your idea too. Also, community ed is another venue to offer your skills and knowledge to others you want to help. Good Luck!
CMS Sultana thank you for all of the suggestions!
Brilliant! 7 years ago I decided to do what I loved. I haven't regreted it nor changed my mind. And it's exactly how you said it... take the first step, leap or jump and the universe will do the rest. Takes time, yes it does, but if you are true to yourself, if you don't quit your dreams and keep fighting you'll find yourself exactly where you wanted. Love your energy and enthusiasm.
Hi Karen, thank you for the video it really resonated with me. I hated my job and when I resigned I cried maybe because it was my safety net and leaving the idea of an income was so scary but I knew I couldn’t stay a day longer. I’m still trying to get on my path and I’m sure that destiny will lead the way.
OMG, I felt like you were telling my story too!!! But I’m at the point where I’ve decided to work in the film & tv costume department part-time while I finally work on starting my brand in fashion & styling. I have procrastinated for so many years. Thank you for the “NEEDED, ON-TIME” inspiration! No more trying to make things perfect, I will just start!
You are such a blessing. Thanks for your candor. I recall finding your blog years ago and wondering why you weren't on RUclips and then finally seeing you post a few videos and wondering why you weren't doing them on a regular basis. You have an amazing point of view, so glad you took the leap of faith. I am part of the tribe that looks forward to your content. This story really strikes a chord! That overwhelming feeling you had in the last months of your 9to5... same. Truly inspired to do something about it. ❤️🙏🏽
This was sooooooo on point I got laid off in December and I dragged my feet for a while and then I lit fire under my rump and god has been showing out every since I've been chasing my dreams...you are so inspiring I'm not giving up...confirmation thanks karen
Really feel you when you said you are dying a slow death supporting someone else. I feel like my creative outlet is the most uplifting part of my day. Hope it turns out to be a sustainable source of income.
I am literally in tears because you are speaking to me personally. I've been telling my husband that I'm no longer happy with my job and do what I like to do which styling, honestly I'm going to come up with a plan and be on my way to happiness
Great video - very emotional and eye opening. Please do a video on meeting Michael :)
I have been an unemployed fertility nurse for one year. I have been waffling to start a blog and/or RUclips channel for a couple years. I love all your videos, but this one hit home. While watching this video, I sat down at my computer and looked up how to start a blog! I loved my job in fertility, but would like to reach out to more people with my expertise and empathy. I also LOVE fashion and have been told by many people I should be a stylist. I know I can combine these subjects along with some beauty thrown in. YOU are my AHA moment! Thank you so much for your story!!💝💕✨
Karen, this video couldn't have come at a better time. Now I want to hug you. Very much so.
Such an amazing story Karen, so proud of you! I feel like Ive lost my sense of self so not sure what I love doing anymore. These corporate jobs are soul crushing, and Ive been in a corporate job for over 10 years. It feels like a trap, as all im doing is paying rent and bills. Very unfulfilling :( xo
Thanks for sharing your story Karen. I've loved fashion since I was young. I remember being called "rich girl" simply because I didn't want to wear what everyone else was wearing at the time. I like having my own sense of style.
Karen, Thank you for this share. Two years later and this message is so timely for me. Your encouraging words toward the end had me in tears. Keeping shining!
I so love your channel! I was in the same situation with you. 5 years ago I walked away from my job. I as miserable and unhappy as well. It wasn't a bad job, just as the for me. Talked it over with the hubby and I resigned. I went back to school, graduated and started fashion week in my city. We are now going into 4 years and growing. It was scary and bumping, but with a supporting husband and family it gives you assurance and encouragement to keep moving forward. Thank you for sharing, it's confirmation, that we're not crazy. Keep us fashion forward!
Blog post was really interesting. You've successfully "followed your bliss" ...it is scary at the beginning, but look how much happier and fulfilled you are now - and every fulfilled person makes the world a happier place.
1. You're amazing, 2. You're in inspiration, 3. I am a firm believer of Laws of Attraction, hence, with your energy and will, no doubt the Universe opens the doors to your dreams. THANK YOU!
Thank you. You are another source of confirmation that me quitting my job in July 2019 was the best thing I could have done for myself!!!!
I'm 59 years old and just stumbled on to this channel almost a year ago. I love fashion and personal style. This has been one of my favorite videos, although I've enjoyed your channel quite a lot. Good for you Karen! Keep up the good work! I also agree with your ideas about spirituality and that makes me happy, so thanks for sharing that! Great video. I also follow you on Instagram.😊
Karen, thanks for sharing your story. There are a lot of similar stories on YT. People want to follow their dreams but as you said - the rent still has to be paid. If your heart isn’t in your 9-5, your worst enemy can be knowing that your best hours are spent feeding someone else’s dream.
Karen, I am so glad you did this video. I can emphasize with how you felt about being laid off. It happened to me twice and I completely identity with what you said. It is like a rug coming out. On both layoffs I took and am taking refuge in my crochet and painting. The things I love. In between job search sessions, I design and crochet a purse for my RUclips channel. Today it took all day. I am not making money at this point, but I love it. It fills the hole in me too. Thanks again for sharing. And thank you for inspiring us to look and feel good about ourselves. I can say you have had an impact on my style.
I enjoyed your story. I'm currently going through the same thing , after 25 years of corporate employment. I'm all over the place with emotion and even though I know better windows of opportunity are waiting, it's still kind of scary. I appreciate you sharing, which is very encouraging!
Very inspiring Karen. Thank you for sharing. Tomorrow I'm actually putting my 2 weeks in at my job. It's warehouse environment for a popular company. After coming back from my vacation I starred in the mirror and was literally like I hate this job and I'm happy at all. I found out I was pregnant shortly after and in a position where I shouldn't be on my feet at all. I've been planning on starting a blog or and focusing on things I'm more passionate about, (crafting,fashion, music etc). This video made me feel a little better about it all. My fiancé backs me 100% and we will be comfortable with me following my dream. Saved up my last checks and pulled my 401k out to invest in my future being happy. I'm 26 and already burnt out because of working since I was able to. Long post but thank you Karen for sharing your story. ❤❤❤
I am back today to watch this video again to set my mind straight to pursue my goal. Thanks so much for your story, Karen! xxx
Thank you for this video... I have done what I love to do my whole career until it was all outsourced to another country. Since I can no longer find a job in my field I am lost.... I love fashion too but have no confidence left... I feel so used up and thrown out.. You inspire me with your story!!!
Karen I am so glad you took the plunge....I have been so inspired by your fashion. You will never know how many women you have encouraged by sharing your truth. I discovered you less than one year ago and you have completely changed the way I feel and see fashion. YOu have helped me to discover my own personal style and this has helped me in so many ways....I applaud you bravery.
Omg! I'm a Manager in a big box store, for 11 years now!!! I deal with it, but I don't love it! It's a mindless job and my passions are elsewhere. I dream everyday of doing what I really love. But... with great medical, 401K, plus more benefits, I'm scared to death to move on. But this video has inspired me so much! Love you!
SO grateful for you. Being following you for almost 10 years. I told my job last month that I was leaving to concentrate on my art business. It’s been picking up and I’ve had to turn jobs away because I don’t have the time. I still have student loans from attending art school in 2001. I’m 38 and have never given my natural talent a chance to flourish so my job has me until November. Thank you for your story!
I LOVE this Karen! Thank you for sharing. Although it was a difficult experience, it happened that way so you can share your gifts with us every week. Seriously- it’s my favorite thing to watch above anything on television! I think you’re brilliant. Feels like watching a friend giving me fashion advice. It’s just so cool👍🏻
Before starting my mag, I was fired from every job I held. It may have been self sabotage or I may just have been truly crappy at my work. I dunno. All I knew was that I didn’t want to work for anyone. I am a lot happier and feel so good doing what I truly want to do. You’re right about opportunities coming to me because I just signed my first paying advertiser and am looking to crowdfund our move from digital to print. We’ve just published our 6 th Issue and our reader numbers are growing. We have to do what speaks to our souls or die unfulfilled. It’s scary but so so worth it!
I love what I do! I am an after school art teacher and a gallery artist! I paint every day. I started making homemade little gift cards all hand painted. They are selling but I need to push the pavement a little more and get more stores to carry my cards! You have inspired me with fashion which I have always loved! But now making more of a living with my art! Thank you!
I just started following because my daughter introduced me to your vlogs! I love this story. I just got laid off, and I already have my a blog. It is scary because right now that is all I'm doing. I'm ok financially but I'm not sure what to do with my blog. I have one video on RUclips. . .only one. LOL.
This video is EVERYTHING. It mirrors my own life over the last few years; I left a corporate job that I held for 10 years in 2018 to head my own non profit. It has not been easy, but it was what I needed to do for me! Thanks for your candor and posting this...I am sure many more need to hear it. Keep doing what you're doing. I wish you continued SUCCESS in your future endeavors! 😊
OMG! How ironic?!? I worked for a printing company here in the Bay Area about 10 years ago on the account side. And exactly - it paid the bills... And yes, I was laid off too (the nature of the beast - lose a major client & your whole world gets upended). I'm still in Marketing but I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up. I've started and stopped a bunch of ventures outside of my 9-5 (more like 7-7), but haven't found 'it' yet... I'll keep trying to find the thing that moves me. Thank you for sharing your story - lets me know there is hope! And please do share the story of how you met Micheal... Would love to hear it! Hope you had a blast in NOLA and was able to laissez les bons temps rouler!
Kareeeeeennnnn! I'm new to your channel so I'm still at the stage where every time I watch one of your videos I say to myself, "I'm so glad I stumbled across this channel". This video is the reason why, everything you said was so inspiring, real, down-to-earth, relatable and clearly spoke to a lot of people who watched it. Definitely given me the nudge just to start the projects I have in mind without fear. Thank you! ❤️🙌🏾❤️
Yes, this resonates with me big time. I am on that ledge... trying to push myself, and to stop procrastinating and making excuses. OMG, thank you so much for the inspiration. You are a ROCK STAR Karen. Really. You are. I hope that you had a great weekend.
I'm late finding this video, but it's right on time! Thank you! 🙏🏾
Wow Karen, this speaks to me. I follow you on insta and I mentioned you and I had the same year of losing a job. Yes, I was gonna leave actually BUT they did something illegal where they didn’t want to “lay off “ people because they don’t want to PAY.. anyway, long story short, got laid off same year, got engaged on the same year 09 and my hubby told me “you are meant for something better babe. Let’s do this.I told you to quit that job anyway.” He has been supportive of what I do since. THANK YOU for this video (even though I’m 3 years late lol) I’ve only discovered about you last year. and You style just freaking spoke to me. Love watching you and Michaels grow together. Blessings.
Thank you for the video, I quite enjoy these types, so don’t apologise for it not being all fashion! You said many very true things, most importantly sending that message out about what you’d love to do. When I was about 9 I started writing seriously. (Holy precocious child Batman, I’ve read some of my reports for school from around age 10, they read like a college level essay- can’t believe I wrote them! That happens often, I’m reading something, then realise I wrote it, odd!) I decided I wanted to be involved in music. Had no idea how, as I had no musical talent, but that’s what I dreamed of, hanging out with rock stars, etc-kids dreams. By the time I was 18 I was firmly entrenched in the NYC underground music scene. I did *everything * involving music, worked with so many bands, knew everyone, even famous rock stars who are still friends! Every job/career I created for myself involved music combined with fashion. Even now, writing the novel series it’s r ‘n’ r & fashion! So I truly believe what you send out into the universe comes back to you, so be careful what you wish for! I would love to hear how you and Michael met! Me & hubby met really weird as well (I told him repeatedly to piss off!) Jet🧡🎸🎶⚡️🦇
I loved this video even more then your usual ones... Thanks for sharing your story, i could still see how stressed you got when talking about a job that you didn't like... And that is a sign for many of us who would recognize themselves in you and finally take that step forward to follow their passion. I found your story very inspiring and until now i am glad i found your channel by chance one day, i have been following you ever since and i love the real passion that you pass on with your videos, plus the great style you have, of course!
You are always an inspiration and a joy. There is no one else like you in your field. If you feel as if you are still in free-fall just think of all the fans who adore you and will be here to catch you!
🙋🏾♀️ you were speaking to me! My heart is beating so fast because I’m so angry at myself for being afraid to take the leap. I hate my job and my boss knows it. I have a company trip in 3 days....That I DO Not want to attend, but today I decided that if I was going they were going to meet ME!!! I’m tired of trying to fit into corporate America. As I was shopping everyone in the stores asked me if I was a stylist or personal shopper. I smiled and said that I’ve always wanted to do that. I told them I was shopping for a company trip, and each time I said that I wanted to cry. I’m so sorry for the long comment but I just want to say thank you for sharing your story! Just like you I felt so happy shopping today. I felt good sharing tips with ladies as they walked by I didn’t make any money but I felt like I was shopping for a movie premiere or special occasion for a major movie star!!!!! I have a passion and beginning today I will prepare for my exit! #nomorefear🦋🙏🏾
Bottom line, I am very happy that you are successful at what you LOVE! I can relate to doing a terrific job in a very stressful environment. I worked four years as a Transcriber for a P.I., listening to tapes relating to crime every single day. Other employees were stressful or stressed too. I was not treated very well, i.e. little appreciation for my loyalty and skills. Life has far much more meaning than that!!
I really wanted to think about what I wrote on your blog as your story really moved me. Your self belief shone through Karen, I was gobsmacked over your bosses reaction - lordy if she truly valued you she should have been crying too and telling you just how much she appreciated your work ethic and committment - what a clobber! and as for your work colleagues..........bullet! I love your blogs each and every week you never fail to inspire, encourage and tell it like it is. Keep up the great work and keep smiling Karen for it lights up a room.
This just came at the perfect time. I was discussing earlier today about my job and finding a different way to pay my bills. Just what I needed Karen, thank you very much!