im 14 my dad literally tells me to change that he doesnt like my cloth ,but i love it and sometimes my parent literally insult my style ,its annoying ,i like to were different outfit and express myself ,love this channel sm x
I’ve been dealing with the same problems and I took some time off my socials and I’m finding myself more. I feel like crop tops aren’t wrong at all. But recently I’m drawn to being more modest. And I’m so happy with my progress.
No cause like at a young age I started wearing bras and everything at 8. I was so looked at as disgusting and I got my period at 9. I also was so sexualized and I just don't feel comfortable wearing almost anything anymore.
same!! I was wearing bra's at 7 as i was bigger chested there was always GROWN MEN (GROWN MEN!!!) looking at me around the age 8-10, truely disgusting..
I’m so sorry you don’t feel comfortable to wear what you want, you’re not alone, I also got my period at 9 and had to shop in the adult clothing section, because my body was more developed compared to the other girls my age, and I felt so uncomfortable and especially as a young black girl, so sexualized, I really hope you start feeling more comfortable in your body, because everyone deserves to❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@girltalktheseries. Tht ep would really help me, bc I am sumwat suicidal bc of the fact tht my mental health is so off. Especially since my parents constantly tell me I'm unworthy of being their child and they hate me and wished I was never born. It really makes me feel worthless.
@@KJTHE2K23GODhey you deserve better, You are worth more your parents don't deserve you and if they treat you like this and shit and they are actually mentally unstable like wtf is wrong with them im srry for talking abt ur parents thi way but you deserve better ily girl do what you want and be confident in it 💖💗💝❤️🔥
my school is now doing our dress code with no oversized shirts or pants but nothing too tight.. wth do they think is gonna happen it’s a school for education not to shame CHILDREN.
Exactly I always wonder why there even is a dress code when all we should care abt is education. Also I don't understand why boys don't have a dress code meanwhile girls have this whole list of dumb crap. Like its so unfair!!
The good thing about my country Greece is that it doesn’t have a dress code and u can wear whatever u want without anyone judging like they won’t tell u ur a bop ir something but like the kids in a Greek school are so toxic that they will find anything to criticise u and make u feel horrible
11:02 at my old school we couldn’t wear leggings or tight shorts at all bc you will be distracting the boys. The only time we could had worn leggings or tight shorts was when we went to camp that’s all. My friend didn’t know the rules cause she was new and she got in trouble and all the girl did too bc they were wearing shorts that was too short. Then we had a boy who worn shorts shorter than ours and he didn’t get introuble at all. It’s so unfair that girls get in trouble for wearing leggings or shorts but the boys dont get in trouble for it
I think there was a protest at my school or something because there is absolutely no dress code. The only thing youd get called to the office for is if your shirt says something inappropriate but besides that we can wear wtv. And i really appreciate that because it gets as hot as 105 where i live i cant imagine being told i cant wear shorts or i cant wear a tanktop or croptop.
I feel like if you call another girl a bop for dressing a certain way or having 1 or 3 bodies is weird… like being a bop is being passed around not for kissing 1 or 3 guys or girls.
I am being called fat but when i suck in my stomach I’m being called skinny and when I wouldn’t suck in my stomach I would be obese now i have stomach issues and idk what to do
Mean people always are gonna say something call you names say they don't like you but in the end of the day they can't accept your beauty and kindness your beautiful .🤗💜
Girl just be you no matter what people say. I've been bullied for my body hair for a while now and changing it hasn't done anything to boost my cofidence. No matter what you do someone is going to say something so just do you. ❤
I grew up in dance from age 2 until 15 i remember having to lose weight to stay on the team when I wasn’t even heaven at age 12 i was 89 pounds. I got an eating disorder bc of family memories and im 23 my weight is 118.
4:20 yea I am almost 12 and I do competition dance and the is so fr I do dance 3 days a week and for ballet you have to stand and look at all these girls that just make you feel bad about yourself I love y’all’s videos
no because when elliana was talking about her experience with body shaming in dance i felt that. bc fr you could be a literal skeleton and the teachers would still say "i can see your lunch"
if you're from Cali, we know the term "bop" has been around for YEARSSSSS, noww that social media is a big part of our lives, it's getting very overused but it's not a tiktok term
….. I think you guys need to understand that the world isn’t as safe and a bunch of the things mentioned is really for safety. Granted there are some men and women who will.. touch anything, the vast majority gets “excited” when they see skin. Another note, the way you dress does in fact impact how someone sees you, treats you etc because it’s a reflection of you - it just is. If you see someone wearing, idk dirty clothes or messed up clothes, you’re going to view them differently than someone who is a bit more polished. Or someone wearing name brand clothes vs someone wearing fake name brand - you will start to create a perception. The same thing applies to girls that wear little to nothing or shows certain parts of their body. A girl that’s scantily clad will not be taken as serious as the girl that is more covered and instead of people trying to rewrite it, we should first truly understand it.
The problem is that mindset. Theyre saying what a person wears doesnt always reflect their personality. What if someone can't afford the money to get the clothes that matches the aesthetic that they want? Theres SOOO many flaws in choosing to assume a persons identity and who they are based off their outfit. Why would you look at someone differently if they wear fake brand clothes? What if they dont care and just got it because theyre cute? What if they got it because people assumed no one would no because they can't afford the actual brand? There are so many assumptions you can make, and every single one could be wrong. That is such a flawed way of thinking. Yes, it's reality because thats how some people think but that doesn't mean people should just accept that. Its bs. Instead of telling a women to cover up and shame her why don't you shame the men who have perveted thoughts? Why do i have to understand and just accept the fact that a girl who shows more skin than the one who shows less skin isn't going to be taken as seriously as the girl who is showing less skin? That literally makes no sense. We NEED to rewite this mindset because its flawed, harmful, and can be disproven. The "vast majority" who get excited when they see skin are literally just perverts. If you can't handle yourself you shouldn't be around people. Those people with those typa mindset often end up with assult charges because they were never told that what they do is wrong. Because thats how the world is today doesn't make it okay. Doesn't mean people have to accept it. I can't believe your comment has likes.
@@siiimplymyuh My comment has likes because people can understand we don’t live in fairy land. It makes no sense because you don’t want it to make sense and believe people should just do what they want, wear what they want, etc., and they can… just understand that there are consequences. The same goes for perverts and the likes. We don’t live in a perfect world where everyone behaves and have respect (case in point - You). No one “shamed” women to cover up, but again it’s more about safety. You can’t heal everyone, what you think is ok is not what the next few thinks is ok. Not everyone understands things the way you do. For you to say eff that I’m just going to do what I want and think that there be no repercussions is ridiculous and that’s on both sides, so at what point does one grow up and do something different? You have to understand for your own safety, if you don’t want to be safe, then don’t understand. We all make choices and we all get rewarded for them in one way or another. There is no rewriting the mindset that you can do what you want, but they can’t. It opens Pandora’s box. You might argue that you aren’t harming anyone and they can argue that you are. Obviously there should be punishment for the men and women who are perverted because it’s not just men, it’s women too. However, we should learn to protect ourselves and be proactive instead of crying about why we should be able to do xyz. The world is mad and it’s clearly getting worse.
@@SuYnJourn So because thats how the world works we just have to accept it? Again, flawed thinking. We dont have to accept shit. I aint asking for a perfect world im just saying instead of women getting told to cover up because we are distracting the boys, THEY should learn some self fucking control its not that hard nor difficult. My school has no dress codes and men don't act up. Thats how i KNOW its possible. People like you just wanna excuse them and their behavior. If they got a problem with MY shoulders thats THEIR issue.. not mine lmao. We can protect ourselves while addressing and trying to fix the issue. MIND YOU the solution in question is to tell boys to behave and respect women. (and vise versa) Youre acting as if the term "self control" doesnt exist.. Youre giving off the vibes of someone who would ask a sa victim "well what were you wearing?"
@@SuYnJourn What i said "doesnt make sense" is you trying to say clothes are a reflection of a person when thats not true. You can make assumptions but those assumptions can be wrong. Clothes are not always a reflection of who someone is. I am not asking for a perfect world. All im saying is the term "self control" exist and should be in practice just as often as dress codes are. "We dont live in a world where everyone behaves and have respect" Then teach it. If you cant handle the fact that i have my shoulders out thats a YOU problem and something YOU need to fix. I shouldn't have to change shit. What if im wearing tank tops for my own saftey because its over 105 degrees and im trying to prevent passing out from a heatstroke? We will never in life reach a point where "everyone" thinks and behaves a certain way but we can change at least a majority. Any percentage will really make a difference in the long run. It's funny how youre making it seem like the things im talking about (like respect and decency for example) are things only mentioned in fiction. Im able to bring it up because i know it exits. My school has no dress code, people wear what they want, what fits the weather, and no men go fucking crazy. Why? Because their not weirdos....Its not normal for you to get turned on from shoulders or someone showing skin and then act on that desire. Idk why youre trying to make it seem like its normal. You 100% give off the vibes of someone who would ask a sa victim "well what were you wearing?" We can be safe while also trying to fix improper behavior. Theres no rewriting peoples mindset? Yet it has been done. Think about civil rights movements, people talking about freedom and allat shit. Women didn't always have rights.. now they do. Things are capable of changing. You just don't want to put in the effort and instead continue to excuse the people who are ultimately in the wrong. MIND YOU the solution to all of this is to tell boys to behave and respect women. (and vise versa) There will be times where i child will grow wont listen and do the opposite but if you raise your child with those beliefs, the beiief that you should treat people with respect there will likely be a change even if its a small one. 'Obviously there should be punishment for the men and women who are perveted" so if we agree then whats the problem? That's literally my whole point. Not only should we demonstrate how that type of behavior is not okay there are ways of preventing it from ever happening. Considering safety is such a huge point for you, wouldn't you want to further promote the saftey of others by giving less power to the thing we are trying to protect ourselves from? We can be safe while also demanding change. Im not saying only one or the other should exist. They can both coexist. There are consequences for me wanting to be comfortable in an environment and wear, lets say a tank top, but there are no consequences for the boys who get "distracted" by my shoulders? I propose a solution. You don't. You say "it is what it is" im saying we don't have to accept that Im literally not asking for a lot.
@@siiimplymyuh I specifically said “There is no rewriting the mindset that you can do what you want, but they can’t”. How you present yourself is a reflection of you. How many times have you heard people say fashion is an outlet for them to express themselves? Even if they didn’t have the best clothing, they found a way to express themselves. I didn’t make it up, it is just what it is. In reality, if you are dressed nicely and put together, people perceive you to be a certain way and I didn’t make that up. PERCEIVE. If someone is dressed scantily clad, people will also perceive you a certain way. If you’re throwing just anything on that doesn’t go well together, people will perceive that you don’t know how to dress. If you throw your trash on the ground instead of the garbage can, people will perceive you’re a certain way. Perception is everywhere. 1st impressions isn’t something I made up. Obviously people could be wrong about their initial perception, but what about “repeat offenders? Consistency in dressing neat, scantily clad, messy?, etc. Patterns are a thing as well and it means something. I’m not going to keep going back and forth because there’s really nothing to argue. You don’t agree and that’s ok, but what I said still stands. Please enjoy the rest of your day and stay safe out here.
You can't control what people say or do. No matter what you do in life people are gonna have their opinions and expectations of you but you dont have to live up to other peoples opinions and expectations of you.
i got shamed to the point i starved myself, and now i can't gain weight and my dr told me if i don't start gaining weight it can cause me to lose my period, which then if i get pregnant it causes me to d!e.
I saw this video I wanted to watch it to see the hype cuz I’ve heard about this video and whatever and I’m a guy and honestly where I’m from and ppl I’m around guys are not praised for their body count actually they’re shamed. And slut shaming is a bad thing but then again I do believe for myself there should be a higher level of modesty. You can wear what you want just be careful why you wear it.
No one should body shame anyone.But you can be fashionable and still modest.Yes,it is your bodies but it doesn’t need to be exposed to the world.In school,the dress codes can be a little strict but if you wear something that is really revealing to school and say that what makes me comfortable and cute that doesn’t make okay to wear at school.Because where you dress at certain locations matter.You may disagree and write a sassy comment back but it is the truth and you may not want to listen to it but you can’t complain about people judging your outfit if it is so inappropriate in a public place.People can’t stop you wearing what you wear but you can’t stop them from saying what they want to say
I agree so much with this video but I don’t agree with little girls at 13 wear crop tops because it is inappropriate for there age but ofc once you turn of age do you girl and don’t worry about what no man has to say about you
I agree with that like my dad and uncle tell me not to where shorts or a crop top cause guys constantly look at me and stuff but I'm 13 so I can't help what p ople say. Or. Do it's not our joy to control men and what they say they should be the ones who I hope who control themselves
I use to defend dressing however I want until I realized that if u put the average female who dress the way we do on the corner with real life hookers, ppl wouldn’t know the difference because that’s what we look like while demanding respect which is delusional of us. I’m 38 and still can’t break the habit of dressing this way. It started off for male attention cas I came up in the early Beyoncé era and all the men marveled over her and I wanted that too lol but as an adult I do it because I’m simply proud of my body and yes I want to flaunt it cas one day I’ll be actually old. No need to make myself a granny at 38
I love having real female conversations like this.
I don’t think I would’ve ever imagined Eliana and Brooklyn in a same video 😭.
that’s what makes us so great :)
MEEE TOO!!!
@@JOANDGI_LOVE wat happen btwn them
@@unwana-o1x nothing its just so unexpected
Reall
Girl talk is so nostalgic, its giving MTV 🫶🏽
my dad watch that
this is healing my inner teen
I love they all talked but I was waiting for Brooklyn to say something😭 but yall fr speaking facts
Brooklyn to grown for this girl talk I fear she to mature 😂 the age differences don’t match
she’s the older sister so it’s purfect
Totally agree
*too but her experience helps with "Girl talk" 😊
elianna’s sixteen so it’s not that bad
I feel it’s a good kinda like how she said she’s not one while the others said it brothers them that more then likely helped out a lot
im 14 my dad literally tells me to change that he doesnt like my cloth ,but i love it and sometimes my parent literally insult my style ,its annoying ,i like to were different outfit and express myself ,love this channel sm x
express ur self!
Your dad has issues but you don’t need to adhere to his trauma
The only thing I look forward to every week is watching this 😊
4:52 got me weak but so true 😭 Aubre and the “Sarah Noo😭”
I’ve been dealing with the same problems and I took some time off my socials and I’m finding myself more. I feel like crop tops aren’t wrong at all. But recently I’m drawn to being more modest. And I’m so happy with my progress.
whatever works for you and so proud of u!
literally my fav thing to watch I love y’all I stayed up to watch thissss 😙
thank you!
Brooklyn gives off super nice and caring mean girl
😩😩
SARAH SPEAKS SO MANY FACTS.
No cause like at a young age I started wearing bras and everything at 8. I was so looked at as disgusting and I got my period at 9. I also was so sexualized and I just don't feel comfortable wearing almost anything anymore.
thnx for sharing and we r so sorry
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same!! I was wearing bra's at 7 as i was bigger chested there was always GROWN MEN (GROWN MEN!!!) looking at me around the age 8-10, truely disgusting..
@@cartidabomb THAT IS REALLY IS! I am so sorry 😢
@@LovelyG_rly it's all good!
I’m so sorry you don’t feel comfortable to wear what you want, you’re not alone, I also got my period at 9 and had to shop in the adult clothing section, because my body was more developed compared to the other girls my age, and I felt so uncomfortable and especially as a young black girl, so sexualized, I really hope you start feeling more comfortable in your body, because everyone deserves to❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
This is so true guys this is so relatable new subscriber this is my new fav podcast
hey yall should do a video talking about how to build your confidence and self esteem💕
Good idea!!
@@girltalktheseries. Tht ep would really help me, bc I am sumwat suicidal bc of the fact tht my mental health is so off. Especially since my parents constantly tell me I'm unworthy of being their child and they hate me and wished I was never born. It really makes me feel worthless.
@@KJTHE2K23GODhey you deserve better, You are worth more your parents don't deserve you and if they treat you like this and shit and they are actually mentally unstable like wtf is wrong with them im srry for talking abt ur parents thi way but you deserve better ily girl do what you want and be confident in it 💖💗💝❤️🔥
@@meerabmayo . Thanks. I really needed tht. It's been extremely difficult to stay strong, but ur comment gave me the strength needed.
@@KJTHE2K23GOD Np girl ILY stay strong ❤️🔥💝💗💖💜🦋🎀💞✨️
New fav show literally obsessed ❤
we’re obsessed w u
I’m so excited for this episode
we r too
I didn't realize until now that when guys are with multiple girls, they don't get shamed but we do like how’d I just realize 😭
my school is now doing our dress code with no oversized shirts or pants but nothing too tight.. wth do they think is gonna happen it’s a school for education not to shame CHILDREN.
Exactly I always wonder why there even is a dress code when all we should care abt is education. Also I don't understand why boys don't have a dress code meanwhile girls have this whole list of dumb crap. Like its so unfair!!
The good thing about my country Greece is that it doesn’t have a dress code and u can wear whatever u want without anyone judging like they won’t tell u ur a bop ir something but like the kids in a Greek school are so toxic that they will find anything to criticise u and make u feel horrible
can you guys make these longer I get sad when they end???
Next week we have a longer one :)
@@girltalktheseries yesss i love this show so much
@@girltalktheseries yayyyyyyy
AHH we can't wait for the new episode :)
same
I hate when people try to judge other people can’t nobody judge nobody but themselves
11:02 at my old school we couldn’t wear leggings or tight shorts at all bc you will be distracting the boys. The only time we could had worn leggings or tight shorts was when we went to camp that’s all. My friend didn’t know the rules cause she was new and she got in trouble and all the girl did too bc they were wearing shorts that was too short. Then we had a boy who worn shorts shorter than ours and he didn’t get introuble at all. It’s so unfair that girls get in trouble for wearing leggings or shorts but the boys dont get in trouble for it
I think there was a protest at my school or something because there is absolutely no dress code. The only thing youd get called to the office for is if your shirt says something inappropriate but besides that we can wear wtv. And i really appreciate that because it gets as hot as 105 where i live i cant imagine being told i cant wear shorts or i cant wear a tanktop or croptop.
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I needed this show ThankYou
we needed u 🧸💕
These need to be longerrr..!!
I feel like if you call another girl a bop for dressing a certain way or having 1 or 3 bodies is weird… like being a bop is being passed around not for kissing 1 or 3 guys or girls.
I thought that word was mostly a bay area thing 😂 lmao wth
I am being called fat but when i suck in my stomach I’m being called skinny and when I wouldn’t suck in my stomach I would be obese now i have stomach issues and idk what to do
Mean people always are gonna say something call you names say they don't like you but in the end of the day they can't accept your beauty and kindness your beautiful .🤗💜
@@madelinefithen5091 thank u
Girl just be you no matter what people say. I've been bullied for my body hair for a while now and changing it hasn't done anything to boost my cofidence. No matter what you do someone is going to say something so just do you. ❤
@@AdrieRuth thank u❤️
Came back here from Brooklyn and Sarah’s insta live
We're here waiting 🫶🏾
Yo this show is so good.
that means so much to us!
I grew up in dance from age 2 until 15 i remember having to lose weight to stay on the team when I wasn’t even heaven at age 12 i was 89 pounds. I got an eating disorder bc of family memories and im 23 my weight is 118.
So true I’m obviously skinny I don’t need anyone belittling me or my confidence about me being small
4:20 yea I am almost 12 and I do competition dance and the is so fr I do dance 3 days a week and for ballet you have to stand and look at all these girls that just make you feel bad about yourself I love y’all’s videos
Y does Aubre remind me of a young Doja Cat? She's extremely gorgeous.
I love Sarah and Brooklyn they my favorite 🩷
qoute your fav line from the episode!
“Ok so really… the guys are bops”
“I was blessed what about it???” 😂😂
Aye I’m a bop! 💕
Aye I’m a bop for sure is my favorite 😂
"Sarah....noooo"😂😂so funny
At this point all you girls need to have a podcast everything you girls are saying needs to be said on there i mean that in nicest way possible
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Thank you so much because i was just trying to give you girls some advice
0:45 bro my friend groupchat is called “biggest bops”
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@@girltalktheseries fr 💀😭
no because when elliana was talking about her experience with body shaming in dance i felt that. bc fr you could be a literal skeleton and the teachers would still say "i can see your lunch"
wow y’all are stunning
Love this episode ❤
You guys have the best Channel I love it ❤ you guys are really supportive and beautiful too
Love those girl talksss❤
luv u back
CANT WAIT BUT ITS GONNA BE IN 1:00am
its a good one
Sarahs top is soo cute outfit finders 👀
Love this episode 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I a guy have been called a bop. I'm not one, but bc of it, it really messed with my mental health. I tried to kms on a daily basis bc of it.
My cheer uni had a tank top and I got dress coded but it was my uni they made…
i love thissss
luv u
Such a vibe
Elliana's eyes ❤❤❤
I Love girl talk
we luv u
I love Sarah sm
Love this so much ❤❤
if you're from Cali, we know the term "bop" has been around for YEARSSSSS, noww that social media is a big part of our lives, it's getting very overused but it's not a tiktok term
Right im like that an og bay area term😂😂
ig it depends on the area because im from sac and ive neverrrrrrrr heard that till now
Favourite episode
We got more 💕
….. I think you guys need to understand that the world isn’t as safe and a bunch of the things mentioned is really for safety. Granted there are some men and women who will.. touch anything, the vast majority gets “excited” when they see skin. Another note, the way you dress does in fact impact how someone sees you, treats you etc because it’s a reflection of you - it just is. If you see someone wearing, idk dirty clothes or messed up clothes, you’re going to view them differently than someone who is a bit more polished. Or someone wearing name brand clothes vs someone wearing fake name brand - you will start to create a perception. The same thing applies to girls that wear little to nothing or shows certain parts of their body. A girl that’s scantily clad will not be taken as serious as the girl that is more covered and instead of people trying to rewrite it, we should first truly understand it.
The problem is that mindset. Theyre saying what a person wears doesnt always reflect their personality. What if someone can't afford the money to get the clothes that matches the aesthetic that they want? Theres SOOO many flaws in choosing to assume a persons identity and who they are based off their outfit. Why would you look at someone differently if they wear fake brand clothes? What if they dont care and just got it because theyre cute? What if they got it because people assumed no one would no because they can't afford the actual brand? There are so many assumptions you can make, and every single one could be wrong. That is such a flawed way of thinking. Yes, it's reality because thats how some people think but that doesn't mean people should just accept that. Its bs.
Instead of telling a women to cover up and shame her why don't you shame the men who have perveted thoughts?
Why do i have to understand and just accept the fact that a girl who shows more skin than the one who shows less skin isn't going to be taken as seriously as the girl who is showing less skin? That literally makes no sense.
We NEED to rewite this mindset because its flawed, harmful, and can be disproven.
The "vast majority" who get excited when they see skin are literally just perverts. If you can't handle yourself you shouldn't be around people. Those people with those typa mindset often end up with assult charges because they were never told that what they do is wrong.
Because thats how the world is today doesn't make it okay. Doesn't mean people have to accept it.
I can't believe your comment has likes.
@@siiimplymyuh My comment has likes because people can understand we don’t live in fairy land. It makes no sense because you don’t want it to make sense and believe people should just do what they want, wear what they want, etc., and they can… just understand that there are consequences. The same goes for perverts and the likes. We don’t live in a perfect world where everyone behaves and have respect (case in point - You). No one “shamed” women to cover up, but again it’s more about safety. You can’t heal everyone, what you think is ok is not what the next few thinks is ok. Not everyone understands things the way you do. For you to say eff that I’m just going to do what I want and think that there be no repercussions is ridiculous and that’s on both sides, so at what point does one grow up and do something different?
You have to understand for your own safety, if you don’t want to be safe, then don’t understand. We all make choices and we all get rewarded for them in one way or another.
There is no rewriting the mindset that you can do what you want, but they can’t. It opens Pandora’s box. You might argue that you aren’t harming anyone and they can argue that you are. Obviously there should be punishment for the men and women who are perverted because it’s not just men, it’s women too. However, we should learn to protect ourselves and be proactive instead of crying about why we should be able to do xyz. The world is mad and it’s clearly getting worse.
@@SuYnJourn So because thats how the world works we just have to accept it? Again, flawed thinking. We dont have to accept shit. I aint asking for a perfect world im just saying instead of women getting told to cover up because we are distracting the boys, THEY should learn some self fucking control its not that hard nor difficult. My school has no dress codes and men don't act up. Thats how i KNOW its possible. People like you just wanna excuse them and their behavior. If they got a problem with MY shoulders thats THEIR issue.. not mine lmao.
We can protect ourselves while addressing and trying to fix the issue.
MIND YOU the solution in question is to tell boys to behave and respect women. (and vise versa)
Youre acting as if the term "self control" doesnt exist..
Youre giving off the vibes of someone who would ask a sa victim "well what were you wearing?"
@@SuYnJourn What i said "doesnt make sense" is you trying to say clothes are a reflection of a person when thats not true. You can make assumptions but those assumptions can be wrong. Clothes are not always a reflection of who someone is.
I am not asking for a perfect world. All im saying is the term "self control" exist and should be in practice just as often as dress codes are.
"We dont live in a world where everyone behaves and have respect" Then teach it. If you cant handle the fact that i have my shoulders out thats a YOU problem and something YOU need to fix. I shouldn't have to change shit. What if im wearing tank tops for my own saftey because its over 105 degrees and im trying to prevent passing out from a heatstroke? We will never in life reach a point where "everyone" thinks and behaves a certain way but we can change at least a majority. Any percentage will really make a difference in the long run.
It's funny how youre making it seem like the things im talking about (like respect and decency for example) are things only mentioned in fiction. Im able to bring it up because i know it exits. My school has no dress code, people wear what they want, what fits the weather, and no men go fucking crazy. Why? Because their not weirdos....Its not normal for you to get turned on from shoulders or someone showing skin and then act on that desire. Idk why youre trying to make it seem like its normal. You 100% give off the vibes of someone who would ask a sa victim "well what were you wearing?"
We can be safe while also trying to fix improper behavior.
Theres no rewriting peoples mindset? Yet it has been done. Think about civil rights movements, people talking about freedom and allat shit. Women didn't always have rights.. now they do. Things are capable of changing. You just don't want to put in the effort and instead continue to excuse the people who are ultimately in the wrong.
MIND YOU the solution to all of this is to tell boys to behave and respect women. (and vise versa)
There will be times where i child will grow wont listen and do the opposite but if you raise your child with those beliefs, the beiief that you should treat people with respect there will likely be a change even if its a small one.
'Obviously there should be punishment for the men and women who are perveted" so if we agree then whats the problem? That's literally my whole point. Not only should we demonstrate how that type of behavior is not okay there are ways of preventing it from ever happening.
Considering safety is such a huge point for you, wouldn't you want to further promote the saftey of others by giving less power to the thing we are trying to protect ourselves from?
We can be safe while also demanding change. Im not saying only one or the other should exist. They can both coexist.
There are consequences for me wanting to be comfortable in an environment and wear, lets say a tank top, but there are no consequences for the boys who get "distracted" by my shoulders?
I propose a solution. You don't.
You say "it is what it is" im saying we don't have to accept that
Im literally not asking for a lot.
@@siiimplymyuh I specifically said “There is no rewriting the mindset that you can do what you want, but they can’t”.
How you present yourself is a reflection of you. How many times have you heard people say fashion is an outlet for them to express themselves? Even if they didn’t have the best clothing, they found a way to express themselves. I didn’t make it up, it is just what it is. In reality, if you are dressed nicely and put together, people perceive you to be a certain way and I didn’t make that up. PERCEIVE. If someone is dressed scantily clad, people will also perceive you a certain way. If you’re throwing just anything on that doesn’t go well together, people will perceive that you don’t know how to dress. If you throw your trash on the ground instead of the garbage can, people will perceive you’re a certain way. Perception is everywhere. 1st impressions isn’t something I made up. Obviously people could be wrong about their initial perception, but what about “repeat offenders? Consistency in dressing neat, scantily clad, messy?, etc. Patterns are a thing as well and it means something.
I’m not going to keep going back and forth because there’s really nothing to argue. You don’t agree and that’s ok, but what I said still stands. Please enjoy the rest of your day and stay safe out here.
I LOVE THE INTRO!!!!!!
13 min is too short can we have 30 min
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You can't control what people say or do. No matter what you do in life people are gonna have their opinions and expectations of you but you dont have to live up to other peoples opinions and expectations of you.
I still play with Barbie dolls… at 12…
It’s ok
@user-ks2bp2xm5v I know it’s okay
wonderful but these conversations need to happen.
@user-ks2bp2xm5v Ik it’s okay.
periodt they did thatt❤️
Sarah's so funny!!
I feel like Brooklyn doesn't talk as much as the rest of you!?!
She a cancer
She talks more in the other episodes
yea I started to reelize that more!!
i got shamed to the point i starved myself, and now i can't gain weight and my dr told me if i don't start gaining weight it can cause me to lose my period, which then if i get pregnant it causes me to d!e.
I don’t have a dress code at my school 🎉
Another one 💗💗
we got more!
One time. Friend got dressed coded for having some jean shorts on
Brook didn’t get a sentence out really
I think she just realized this was her moment to listen and just give advice.
I saw this video I wanted to watch it to see the hype cuz I’ve heard about this video and whatever and I’m a guy and honestly where I’m from and ppl I’m around guys are not praised for their body count actually they’re shamed. And slut shaming is a bad thing but then again I do believe for myself there should be a higher level of modesty. You can wear what you want just be careful why you wear it.
No one should body shame anyone.But you can be fashionable and still modest.Yes,it is your bodies but it doesn’t need to be exposed to the world.In school,the dress codes can be a little strict but if you wear something that is really revealing to school and say that what makes me comfortable and cute that doesn’t make okay to wear at school.Because where you dress at certain locations matter.You may disagree and write a sassy comment back but it is the truth and you may not want to listen to it but you can’t complain about people judging your outfit if it is so inappropriate in a public place.People can’t stop you wearing what you wear but you can’t stop them from saying what they want to say
Love y’all love from Germany 🇩🇪
Luv u back!
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I agree so much with this video but I don’t agree with little girls at 13 wear crop tops because it is inappropriate for there age but ofc once you turn of age do you girl and don’t worry about what no man has to say about you
W episode 🔥🔥🔥
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Yayyyyyyyy🎉
Finallyyyyyy
Bop it up 💀
I thought a BOP ment Baddie on Point
now it does
the one in blue n purple is a libra
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can we get corinne on here with you guys
i was on the live ❤
Brooks in the car with her man on the live
Actually she wasn’t. She was joking it was literally her cousin in the car with her look on her snap.
yeah that was her cousin 🙃
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Yall are hairlious
we know Ty 🧸💕
At like 11:27 look at Elianna's eyes
lol
I’m on your live Brooklyn and Sarah
For every like i get ill do 10 pushups
wheres sohpie in this?
I agree with that like my dad and uncle tell me not to where shorts or a crop top cause guys constantly look at me and stuff but I'm 13 so I can't help what p ople say. Or. Do it's not our joy to control men and what they say they should be the ones who I hope who control themselves
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I use to defend dressing however I want until I realized that if u put the average female who dress the way we do on the corner with real life hookers, ppl wouldn’t know the difference because that’s what we look like while demanding respect which is delusional of us. I’m 38 and still can’t break the habit of dressing this way. It started off for male attention cas I came up in the early Beyoncé era and all the men marveled over her and I wanted that too lol but as an adult I do it because I’m simply proud of my body and yes I want to flaunt it cas one day I’ll be actually old. No need to make myself a granny at 38
Brooklyn my fav! Btw I'm a cancer i do not slut shame!