Mother Can't Be Replaced😥 [The Return of Superman:Ep.520-1] | KBS WORLD TV 240414
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- Mother Can't Be Replaced😥 [The Return of Superman:Ep.520-1] | KBS WORLD TV 240414
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Parenting challenges of "Superman,” the first hero that children encounter when they are born.
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I BEG viewers to read the articles and background stories. Minhwan is being given A LOT of grace while Yulhee is shouldering a lot of criticism. She gave up her career to be a wife and mother, he didn't have to give that up AND he still has the show to appear on. Yulhee is getting slandered and financially, it makes sense courts would have him keep custody but the situation has been greatly unfair to her.
Ya! I'm when I learn of the news and that she can't even have 50% of it when she gave birth and even spent most time with them.
It’s not any one of them fault. Only both of them will know the situation. They had shotgun marriage and they were unprepared for the responsibilities that come with marriage and parenthood. While yulhee had to put her career on hold when looking after the kids, minhwan had to work isn’t it to support the family isn’t ? It’s also a heavy burden to be the sole breadwinner.
Just feel they were too hasty in their divorce, surely they can discuss sgd work things out. They love each other, they love their kids. Sad 😢
True but that isn’t his fault either they both decided to keep the baby and get married and yes she stop being an idol but she could have still done other things if she wanted to. Minhwan obviously still had to work or who would be bringing in money? He is in a band so their schedule is a lot more loose than a traditional idol group like she was in. It might feel like she got the short end of the stick but she made a lot of these decisions herself.
I dont think she will leave nothing on hands .bcz korean women are not that much weak .they are type of people who dont regert anything .we dont kmow anything may be one of them cheat ?just like that.only both of them knw the sitiation .most heartbreaking is childern situations . We cant say she is not fault he is not fault. Like that .but he still doing his best is very challenging .
@@chimchimbiasedwreckedbyjin4056 then woman and man should do 50-50. Both provide for family and both doing housework. and we'll see many husband are cheating not doing 50% of housework
Regardless of the situation, I feel sorry for their children especially seeing the oldest crying alone in the room
My heart breaks 😢
I really love how he allows them to meet their mom whenever they want and how he tries give the best to his children. And what is wrong with a father taking the custody ?there is no rule that only mothers can.he is doing his best in taking care of his children so lets just support him .The oldest 's maturity levels are insane for a 7 year old
To be honest I think Yulhee was also smart in not forcing to have custody of the kids. It may seem selfish on her part to many, but its the most practical choice considering she is very young and doesn't have a stable career like her husband. In this case, the kids would be better of financially with Minhwan than with her. Also, Minhwan lives really close to his family unlike her. He has everyone to help him with the kids when absolutely necessary. But Yulhee won't have that since she lives away from her family and is probably very busy building her career again from scratch.
what do you mean that you love that he allows them to meet their mom? that's literally their mom and she raised them on her own a lot of the time because of his career.
@@babyyoda5447 Not everyone allows that after a divorce they try to cut off the other parent I have seen a lot of cases like that, but he respects their children wishes and allows them to meet whenever they want ,I know that's the bare minimum but these days even the bare minimum has become a luxury
@@adla3225 Yeah I agree ,they both are doing what's best for their children
She got pregnant and married so young then twins right after. Kids are overwhelming and if the husband is not supportive then resentments can happen. Doesn’t help if his family are meddlesome. I remember the mother in law being so critical.
okay !! and she gave up her career for him and the kids :(( she been with the kids herself most of the while the father is on tour or doing promotions i feel for her im glad she put her first
@@k.rystyl4084 But when you have kids, the reality, is that you can't put yourself first. The children come first.
I do feel bad, she was so young, and didn't realize how much of a sacrifice she would have to make.
I just hope their kids are okay.
@@bluecherry1011she was 20 or 21 years old. She wasn't a teen.
@@Lupita311Same difference
@@k.rystyl4084 such a selfish
It is so much better to grow up with divorced parents that are separated but polite to each other than to grow up with parents who live together but are unhappy with each other. The children can't comprehend this at a young age, but in a few years, they will.
From a women who's parents divorced when she was a girl lol
100%
It is fine until one or both decides to re-marry. Now you got a new stepdad and/or a step-mom with step-brothers or step-sisters. Oh boy. And the new drama from the new step-families to deal with. It is no walk in the park.
If all are polite to each other then it's good if one of person is cruel everything will message up but it's better than living with a messed up parents@@skim4491
9:47 I feel bad for jaeyul the most he was the closest to his mother even when his father was in the military. The twins are young but I’m sure they miss their mother as much
i feel like the please get back together comments are so insensitive. it's their family, there must surely have been a reason for their separation. i wish this family the best. it must be hard on the kids but surely, the parents too.
exactly.. it was so ignorant, like they're not the one who's married and going through all that.. also comment that blaming and hating on the wife for trying to take custody in court is also insensitive, she's literally with them and be a good mom all this time, she's supporting her ex fully to the point she doesn't have career anymore yet he was still able to continue his career freely without being burden by his responsibility as a father yet people still criticize her because she "left" them 🤷🏻 like what's she suppose to do, that's the court decision and the best for them since her ex have more stable financial and career than her while she need to start her career all over again.. letting him have custody is her way of taking care of her children, giving them more secure financial life, and she's also still part of their live, she's not just running away left them
im sorry but who’s that in ur pfp😭 he’s fine
@@jichukittyy leehan from boynextdoor!!
@@rivertothemoon omg that’s crazy I was literally just getting into boynextdoor today😭
@@jichukittyy U TOTALLY SHOULDDD they're soo fun and their music slaps as well
I read it somewhere " they divorced isn't because they don't understand each other, they divorced because they could understand each other now"
Oh aw😢
Seriously poor Yulhee. The fact that in Korea the custody of children usually goes to the parent that makes the most money is seriously messed up. In most Korean households the fathers barely interact with the children. It's not the divorce that is going to mess your kids up, it is the fact that a mother who stopped working to take care of your children all of a sudden now has no children and no career to go back to. Your children can see your ex-wife? Great! That's how it should be. I wonder if his parents are going to watch the kids when he's busy or if they are going to "let" Yulhee watch them. Such a messed up system.
I feel so bad for her 😢 Knetz still bash her until now and blame her for the divorce
Nope, in korea usually mom get the custody when the children is under 6. That’s why koreans are criticising her which i don’t agree. As for children above 6, the mom can also get the custody even if she is financially less the father bcs the childcare will be pay by the father. But it also depends on the couple’s decision who will take custody. Like in Minhwan and Yulhee’s decision, they chose Minhwan so that the children won’t feel the change so much as they can keep the environment where they grow up with
Honestly I’m not surprised they got divorced. Their marriage felt very “got married bc we’re pregnant”. And honestly it must’ve been so hard for the wife to take care of 3 children under 4 while her husband is away in military service for 2 years. I know the birth rate is low in Korea but the use of birth control and condoms needs to become more prevalent.
But i heard its the x wife that want to have more child. Also, one of reason their argument its on how they educated their kid. 🤔
@@bm1709 Don’t forget the mother in law…
Honestly a lot of the idols and k actors i see getting married seem to give this impression on me. They all get married and also happen to announce pregnancy so ig they might feel they have to since Korea is conservative
If you followed them you know yulhee who wanted big family and more children while he disagree and that the reason he get vasectomy
@@andiuptown1711 i knew, but we talking about hardships raising children and he talking about birth control like its x husband idea...
I have seen jaeyul happy and playing with the uncles and his sisters but today watching him missing his mom and crying really broke my heart he has grown up so much but still only 7 years old child may they find their way to happiness
I really feel bad for yul hee .. I really hope she is doing fine❤❤❤
Not surprised by the news at all. He’s a mama boy and his parents meddle too much especially the mother
Looking after your kids whether your single or not is a bare minimum. And I appreciate especially the mom, because from what I heard her in-laws were toxic and she gave up her career to look after the kids. Anyways, I'm glad at least there's co-parenting for the kids.
I've been following the show since Jaeyul was just a few months old, all the way until the twins were born and even up to now. When I heard about Minhwan and Yulhee's divorce, I felt so sad, but then again, we don't know what they're going through, and I respect their decision. Watching this and seeing Jaeyul miss her mom really breaks my heart. I just hope Jaeyul and the twins are getting all the love and support they need. I hope Minhwan and Yulhee's hearts find healing, and they take care of themselves 🤍
Thank god they didnt go for a 4th kid I remember that one time Yulhee asked Minhwan if they can go for a 4th child but Minhwan refused saying the three of them were already young and they cant raise all of them at once it would be tough
Keeping aside every situation i feel really happy to see a father trying so hard to keep his children so happy i wish they be happy always like this.. he has been an ideal father i hope the kids grow up healthy and god bless them with all the happiness in this world ❤️
ideal father :) not sure about that one thought hehehe because he basically used to the bare minimum and dump everything on his ex so things have been looking smoothly (not sure how the wife feel and endure it all this time) and more less of a husband since he doesn't even bother to shield her from his parents
@@whatever_voyez5123 first I have NEVER mentioned anything about his wife coz it's internet we don't how much of the info is true or false I was talking about the child and he absolutely didn't did bare minimum he did a lot being a father usually it's always the mother to all this atleast he is trying so before coming up read and understand I didn't talked about the their husband-wife relationship i talked about the father and child relationship u must have been brought up with an very attentive father but not everyone have that so it's a different case
@@apobangpo__ well ok then, I guess it's a normal reaction if you know nothing about their previous life (that they show on media, reality show, etc) and how he act as a father or husband.. so you feel into the narrative he tried to share in this clip
sorry if you are uncomfortable with my reaction, because reading your previous comment just triggering me that you seem disrespectful about what the mom have been going through
he's def nott he ideal lmao the biggest reason they also broke up is bc of his mother being overbearing and mean to his ex wife, he didn't stand up for her at all
First I was shocked by the news but seeing this I realized after all this is also reality of life and appearing on show like this openly is actually a good decision because the more you try to avoid the truth, it gets weird but the more you normalize it like this it would be easier and normal. It's a good step....moving on with life accept what already happened.
I wonder if he' the one actually raising them or he leave them in the care of his mother. Honestly, i think that yulhee had to raise them almost alone when their child were born. If i remember correctly when she had her first, he was gone doing his military service, then when he came back he was preparing to tour and they had their second pregnancies. She pratically was alone with kids in the beginning of this marriage.
So because everyone is being so kind to the father please realise he's struggling because he probably didn't help out his wife much and it shows.. And being a single mother being married is hard.. A lot of women just dont do anything about it and deal with it forever and men and Society simply praise them for being strong instead of providing the support and help a woman needs from a partner.
It is hard for the children for now but i think it is much more difficult if they stayed together. We dont know what happened to them but i guess separation is the only way to heal their hearts. My parents are constantly fighting(not physical though) but it was so emotionally draining for us as their children. To the point that my siblings are afraid to get married. It was so bad that whenever I get to hear someone fighting, I'm having a panic attack. We wonder why they did not separate.
Same! What makes it worse for me is that there's no divorce in my country. My dad was so toxic and wouldn't leave my mom. My mom just don't love him anymore after all the cheating and distress he caused. I used to hate him because as we grew up, he became less and less of a father to us. He would seldomly talk to us and when he do, it's nothing good. But I still care about him, now he's in his 50s and is kinda sick which makes me really sad these days. I just hope he gets better and changes for the better.
The situation taught me to be realistic that if the same happens to me, no matter how much I want my future family to be together forever, I would leave and choose what's better for me and the kids. And also, that I would never let my kids involved if me and their dad would ever have a fight. I can just hope that I find a good man and also be a good one myself. But whatever happens, we will break the cycle.
Same with my parents
@@rosaaanwhich country😮
@@comradeleppi2000 The Philippines.
@@rosaaani thought so .. religion is a big problem. Religion should give us peace and happiness not controlling our lives.
No wonder that they got divorced if he can’t protect his wife from his mom lashing out on how they will do their parenting thing with their kids
It is obvious to anyone that postpartum depression affected their life specially to mother of children, giving birth to first child, then not long after TWINS, omg cant even imagine how hard, lonely she has been through these times when husband was mostly away. During births, childcare, husbands/partners should be aware of all the care, love and endurance of your wife going through this marriage. Postpartum depression is really scary thing, glad that the mother is having her own healing time. But seriously dont like how he is being praised being single father.
THIS - she was a single mom while he was away for both the military and his career.
not only just him being praised for taking care of them when he was literally their dad :) the mom also got massive hate and backlash, when all this time she's raising them mostly on her own and always being a good mom also supports him fully so he can be at ease to continue his career
p.s she also needs to endure the in laws who didn't treat her that nice or warmly all this time, when he seems like he doesn't even care or tried to help his ex
@@whatever_voyez5123 yes, during birth and raising children, moms go through a lot, she basically did not sleep at least 2-3 year consecutively and had barely had decent meal while sitting comfortably and YET husband/ the core support system who promised to love/endure/ support wholly during married life that she all had was always away, even he was there for her , if there is no support and backing to her, it is just the end for all. After watching this show, it is shown that she is great mom to her children just seeing that oldest one was looking at her picture and crying. It is heartbreaking to her just making her watch this and getting so much hate to herself, probably self blaming herself more. Wish that people do not make this women more miserable please.
@@ebyrs7055 well it was to expected since he was away on military during her pregnancy and even after she was giving birth yet he didn't show any affection and gratitude towards what she's been doing.. he doesn't think that he was missing anything and tried more to replace the time when he was absent, it's clear he think it was her responsibility and what she's supposed to do just because she's happy with her child and didn't nag about it... he definitely knew he was treated as an angel when she's being treated as devil on their process and after divorce.. it's clear that she'll getting more hate just based on the clip where her sons crying alone.. people who don't know anything and don't bother to know the truth will fall for the narrative and think that she's neglecting her child and run away for them when it's clearly wasn't the case yet he's still appearing on the show to bring more hate wave towards her.. she even let him have custody because he was more financial stable and she don't have any absolute income yet also the kids is already used to living with the in laws (their school, friends, people they know, etc is there)
she even immediately get hate for her post about her first relax hangout with her friends 🥲 like wasn't it normal to post about your cafe date with your bestie, and it was her first comfortable outing ever since they get married, when all this time he was able to freely going out with his friends, going to multiple cities and counties for tour, doing a bunch of stuff and posting them yet no one even consider her existence during that time and after the divorce just because she's seems happy and willing raising her child
How did yall come to conclusions on everything so fast? Yes, giving birth to children is insanely difficult but everybody has their own experience. She has never shared about having depression, why would we think its obvious?
And why was he not there for her? Yes he was in the military during the day and yes it must've been hard but we don't know what kind of dynamic they had. Stop coming up with theories and respect both of them.
It's so sad that they had to separate but maybe it's the best for everyone. And who knows one day, when their hearts are healed, they can be friends for their children or rekindle the love they had. Time can only tell. I just hope they do their best for the kids.
Hearing that conversation, even both agree they're not a good marriage couple, but they're trying their best to be a good parent. Hoping the best for this family.
I remember watching them when the eldest was still a baby in mr house husband. As a fan i was so happy that despite the hardships (dating and getting married as a kpop idol isn't that easy)they got married. Ik the it must bevthe hardest on the kids because they can't be with both if their parents at the same time. But we don't know the reason behind their seperation. So i feel it is better to grow up in a healthy environment instead of watching the parents fight everyday.
To the parents - ik looking after the kids without your partner must be very hard. But don't give up because the kids are suffering too. And at this moment they need you emotionally. And the please never ever think that the eldest one is bigger than the twins then he doesn't need to be cared that much. Give equal attention to all the babies .
Lots of love the babies!!🫂❤
I love this dad he's trying so hard 🎉❤
Just because it only shows the dad side. Can you imagine how hard it must be for the mother as well
well that's the bare minimum since all this time the mom take care of everything for him and he was barely there to be their dad because his ex was supporting him fully so he was able to be at ease doing whatever he want like continuing his career, concerts, etc
praising a man for doing his job as a father? lol
Would have she left if she was respected in the marriage. Let your mother raise them now. That's what she wanted all along.
you're dumb, his mother was overbearing to his ex-wife and criticize her for everything, his mother was mean to him and he didn't stand up for his ex-wife
Every time a couple splits, it seems like the wife gets all the blame. It's frustrating, and it's one reason I dislike the internet. Even though the show makes Yulhee out to be the one in the wrong, I don't think it's entirely her fault. Yulhee and Minhwan have different approaches to parenting, which is natural considering their personalities. Yulhee often makes decisions for their kids, but Minhwan disagrees. Instead of discussing it privately, he brings it up in front of her in-laws, which leads to his mother getting involved (his parents live beside them). Adding to that, Minhwan's sister and her husband also live beside them. Also, there's unfairness in how society treats them.
Minhwan can continue his career as an idol even after becoming a father, but Yulhee can't easily return to being an idol because she's already a mother. She needs a stable income, especially with three kids to support. While he served in the military for two years, she managed the newborn twins mostly on her own, with little help from family. She put her idol career on hold and stayed home while he pursued personal and professional growth.
Moving to a new city with young children is tough, especially for their emotional development. The kids are attached to their routine and surroundings, and separating them isn't a good option. It's clear the kids miss their mother, especially the eldest, and Yulhee can't provide full care for them alone.
Even the guy himself is shady. He's claiming that he keeps telling the kids good things about their mother but but his mannerism is just screaming otherwise. The way both him and his mother keeps indirectly answering questions making it seem like he is this very innocent and harmless ball of wool and that Yulhee is a fire hazard around him.
Im sure there are things that cameras didnt get. Behind the scenes is different. Having 3 kids so young is INSANELY stressful. The mother body with hormonal fluctuations barely recovered and shes having another. I hope they have plenty of help.
There is his mom who take care of them... He is a good dad ....but these routine is just for the TV Show
Put they photos in frames and on The wall of his bedroom he needs to feel his mums presence in his life and that he can grieve openly foe his familt separating ita not wasy i was 13 and ateuggled never mind this poor baby xx
Unless you personally know exactly what happened, you dont deserve to judge either of them. It simply didn't work out, and the only ones that truly are suffering the consequences are the children. Children of divorce go through so much. I hope they can cope well eventually and not let that effect them too much growing up.
Divorce, especially when it involves children can be a very difficult process. I’ll be praying for the children and their parents to be well and live joy-filled lives on this new path. I admire their dad for being on the show. I think it will help him and his children develop a stronger loving bond with each other as they experience adventures together. I also think it will encourage other single dads all over the world. We are cheering you on with all our hearts. God bless💕💕💕🫶🏽🙏🏽
The mother in laws too much interference destroyed the couples marriage
Instead of respecting his kid's privacy of this time of their life, he came to the show and act like a superman when yulhee was the one who birthed and raised those kids while he was away😂. you are really funny.
Ikr. Guess this is to clear his image but he looks pathetic lol
I'm surprised they addressed the divorce so publicly. I used to watch all of Yulhee's content and really rated her. I hope she is doing well.
As a fan of their family it's hearts a lot and I donno what happened Between them but yulhee is a good mother and min hwan is a good father can't deny it❤❤
The presence of their mom is very important for them esp at their young age. I felt so heartbroken seeing Jaeyul cried. He was his mom pillar of strength when their dad was away for military service for 2 yrs and while pregnant for the twins.😢💔
Cheer up Jaeyul and Abeonim! I hope everything will turn out fine and happy and the difficult moments will be long gone. Sending more power to the superman father and warm hugs to Jaeyul. Hoping there will be good moments of all of you 5 in the future together! Wishing the mom strength. Let the innocence of the twins don't change.
We wish you all peace and happiness ❤️
Don't worry! Jaeyul, Arin and Ayun will be loved! ❤
it's heart breaking how kind souls are set apart by bad blood from in-laws. Minhwan is so heartwarming and so brave as he chose to respect and value the peace for the family especially for the mother of his children. From external perspective, it is such a sight to see how both parents stood strong independently yet strive to work things out for their children. The world is already a scary place and it's good to see them strive and remain kind after all the toxicity they experienced from whom they thought would have known better how to protect and keep them all together.
I have followed them since the beginning of their marriage. Hearing the previous news made me feel heartbroken. Whatever the reason for their separation, I hope they remain happy and maintain a good relationship as parents, as a complete family for their children.
We love u jaeyul, ayoon n arin ❤
I felt relieved somehow for mom, Yulhee,, coz she can get time alone from their child,,
She handled the kids with her mother in law (how awkward situation for her),,while minhwan away 2 years for military,,,
Yes,, i knew maybe she comfortable with mother in law,,, but the way she handled the child, always got questioned by her mother in law,,, sometimes, felt sorry for her,,, to do chores,, 3 childs,, n never go out with friends (hang out)😢😢😢😢😊😊
It's so sad. You can see they miss their mum and are going through grief for the loss of her full time. It's got to be hard as she was their primary parent for most of their early years. In my years of experience dads cannot take the place of the mum as a nurturer. His only asset is financial. Did anyone ? if Yulhee suffers from post partum depression? I understand it's not easy for a husband to endure a depressed wife. I hope she's able to heal, strengthen and be a full time mum again.
I hope they can get back together their familh is such a wonderful i watched their show since day 1 and it really hurts especially for the eldest.
If both parents will be willing to compromise. I had to google Choi Minhwan just to know what they were talking about
they surely had a good reason to separate. they must've also thought about it a lot before making the decision. it's not worth it to stay with someone if you don't feel the connection anymore. some may say that would be good for the kids, but once they grow up, they'll feel bad for being the reason the parents stayed together.
Devorced parants don't devorce for no reason and when they get back together they will be standing infront of the same issues again
They won't get back together and if they will they will break-up again maybe not that year but eventually they will
Speaking out of experience with my own parents and parents from people around me
@@svteenostalgia wise words of a carat I already thought how can someone be this wise and then I saw your username Scoups tought us well about hardships didn't he?! 💕😊👏🏻👍🏻
No its a big no..! One of my closest friend often says that she wished for her parents' divorce a thousand times. As far as they were concerned, neither of them cheated, neither was toxic, but they had completely different personalities and values, which caused them to fight all the time. Even as a grown up adult she still has a trauma about marriage life 💔
What is his life taken for?? Like man I remember watching him and his wife all happy and she used to be so responsible at such an age taking care of three children!! Ahhh All the best best to minhwan and I think jaeyul should stay with his mother for sometime since he isn’t used to this. Jaeyul is really close to his mother 🤧🤧
Some idols I understand they break up because of there busy schedules but this I don’t understand I never knew them before after children’s born they became so famous I love them 😢 plus future it’s really hard for them dating again I bet no body wants be 3 kids step mom Or step father 😅 anyways good luck
You are right ...
Please, read the book "Kim Ji Young, born 1982". Then you will understand what is wifd what was dealing. She gave up everything, and you don't kow how harsh the korean society is with women.
i clicked because for a while i thought Ten is in here but then it someone else 😂 I almost get a heart attack because i thought Ten wanna be Single Father 😅😂
I feel for the kids. They suffer the most. I have no sympathy for a man tho who doesn’t protect his wife.
exactly.
Fr and he had the nerve to appear in this show to gain sympathy. What a joke
@@nurainshahirah6012I was sooooo surprised and didn't expect it when I see this 😂 I wasn't able to watch the show fully yet because I'm in rage seeing how it's solely focus on portraying he was so responsible yadayda and more in rage when I remember how the mom get so much hate and backlash.. already can imagine she'll get drag and thrown under the bus just only by the scene where her child crying missing her
Why did u say that what did he do something wrong?
@@Elysian_Diaries you can look it up if you want to know or if you're open to know the whole thing that happens outside this clip you can also scroll and read other comments about his behaviour towards her
This is sad specially for the kids
Oh wow. I rememeber thinking that it was heartwarming to see this family..
I can't really look the same to Minhwan as I used to do. Idc what problem they have but this guy looks like he didn't try hard enough and their children became the victims. Yulhee and the kids deserves better😢
Didnt try enough really? He had to go into the military for 18 months then he went on tour for his band he needs to bring in money 💰 how else is they ment to feed kids and she asked for one more but he said no cause they already have 3 kids . What do u expect him to do say no to the military and go to jail 🤔 or quit his band and she goes on tour.
Life has so many ups and downs and I hope they get together for the children and as a family. I know it is not a nice thing to say but…life is short and we look forward to the happiness and live with hope❤
Your babies are precious and you are being the best dad that you can be and they know this.Just keep doing what you’re doing.👍👍👏👏
Wieviel Liebe für seine Kinder, muss in diesem jungen Mann stecken. Großer Respekt für diese Entscheidung, der Verantwortliche für seine Kinder zu sein. Aber auch seiner geschiedenen Frau, gebe ich meinen Respekt. Ihrem geschiedenen Mann die Kinder anzuvertrauen zeigt auch, wie sehr sie ihm vertraut, denn selbstverständlich ist so eine Entscheidung nicht. Beiden geht es darum, dass es den Kindern gut geht und das ist das einzig Wichtige. Nach einer Trennung sind die Kinder oft der Spielball zwischen den Eltern. An diesem Beispiel kann man sehen, es geht auch anders und dafür schicke ich meinen uneingeschränkten Respekt an beide Elternteile auf die Reise. Sich als Erwachsener nicht so wichtig nehmen, aber deinen Kindern all die Liebe zu geben die jedes Kind haben sollte, ist für mich eine ganz große menschliche Leistung. Danke, dass wir Teil von eurer Geschichte sein dürfen.
You Good Perfekt Dad😊
There's a possibility of a comeback bcos of d positive vibe ❤
I don’t understand why kids have to suffer for something their parents did.
My heart hurts seeing these pure beautiful kids
I hope they find comfort and happiness in this tough world
Sei un Papà meraviglioso, come lo è la Mamma, non è facile, ci saranno giornate belle e spensierate ed altre faticose e con tanti dubbi , ma andrà tutto bene.
Ahrin: they must have ice cream when they are hot
So cuteeee😂😂😂
I really miss them.
Thanks for stay in this show after what happen for you all 😢😢
Why’s he now trying to act like the perfect dad when Yulhee (and his mom) did all the work raising the kids?
He had to go in military and tour what do u expect him to do get a salary job. He gad to go to the military for 2 years its mandatory also he needs to earn money so he tours
I didn t know they were seperated...this is life but quite unexpected for me ..hope they will find hapiness together or not ..❤
It’s hard for them dating again I bet no one want be step mom or step dad of 3 little kids that this yang 😢😅
He may not be the best husband but for sure he is a great father of his children...
Probably a great son to his mom lol
Che papà meraviglioso 🥰
The please get back together is pretty insensitive indeed! For me, that's more destructive coz staying for the sake of the kids doesn't work out for all. Better to be in separate ways than stay and be miserable, kids will have bad childhood too if that happens.
Its sad but probably better to have peace like this then having a toxic environment and seeing your parents fight all time.. We dont know what goes on behind the cameras
@@Cookiee0418 so true, he is at peace with himself and happy with his kids is more important than having the mother in the picture
Unconditional love and always be there for your children. Good luck and God bless you.
I have no idea what a Grandpa Basket is, but that struck fear into my heart.
its 💔 😢 adorable children's ❤
Their kids are adorable and innocent. I can't believe why did they divorce. I feel sorry for the kids.
But appreciate dad, he is trying his best .
Inlaws toxic marriage
@@rouroume7085 If it was inlaw he has the money to leave the house and rent.. I'm sure there are more issues, this is also the result of getting pregnant before marriage, she was super young not ready for marriage so it ends up with divorce
@@KJpopcrazy some men Can't live without the shadow of their parents even if they don't stay with them they can come over
@@KJpopcrazy marriage is not a big deal it's not about getting pregnant before marriage
@@rouroume7085how do u know what happened?
I had a intuition a while ago that they would end things …and usually when I have these intuitions I’m never wrong , but I think he might’ve just fell out of love with her and I could tell when she told him she wanted another child he wasn’t happy at all about hearing that I mean it’s understandable cause they are young with 3 children already , but something just seemed off I feel she still loves him and I’m not saying he doesn’t love her as the children’s mom but I think the love they had at first just faded for him and they always seemed stressed I think everything was just too much , but who knows it could be anything on why they broke up , but the good thing is he’s letting her see her kids and they are co - parenting so the kids don’t feel too bad … as sad as it is I think only lucky people in this world can be with 1 person and still love each other until they are old , and that’s like 1 percent nowadays people fall out of love or love and still cheat , stay because they feel they have too …it’s so much that comes with love honestly I feel they would’ve ended earlier if they didn’t have kids tbh , but that’s just how I feel.
omg i really love her vlog. Didn't follow up for while n now they are divorce. so sad. I always seen her with kids n doing all house work all alone. and hardly see him around. but i thought may be he earning and have not much time. Really taking care of 3 small kids not a easy job. she needed help. whenever i watched her videos i always feel like omg how she is doing that.
Keputusan yang sulit diambil namun semoga anak-anak tetap bahagia disisi ayah maupun ibunyaa❤ couple sehangat matahari sudah hilang hiks, ikutan nangis momen jaeyul lihat kenangan foto nyaaa😭😭
Hak asuh anak di kasi ke bapaknya? Apa gmna si ini
@@cihaseumvlogiya dikasih ke Bapaknya soalnya lebih stabil ekonominya dan emaknya juga nggak ngajukan banding di pengadilan karena dia kan dari awal hamil udah nggak berkarir apa-apa lagi langsung fokus ke anak dan keluarga jadi belum ada penghasilan tetap
Que dulce niño extraña a su mamá!!
what?? i never knew..how heartbreaking... they were the sweetest couple...
3:24 ARIN AND AHYUN ARE TOO CUTE THEIR SMILESS
I thought this family would last for a long time unfortunately it didnt however its better part ways than living in a unpleasent environment especially when it comes to kids, the twins probably wont get it now but the oldest one does. its still heartbreaking how the kid misses his mom but thats the harsh reality. Wishing them all the best with their lives
Tbh mom's love or dad's love cannot be traded for each other or cannot be one by both. Their love and way of loving is unique and special.
As a women having a career in family affairs, I hate "traditional habituals" of women to be at home without career and men to be breadwinner. But after hearing long term divorced couple, they often said 'What if I understood it was his/er's first time too or what if I didn't forget the love we shared"; I understood they realized later in the shoes of their children. Latter I could understand why spouses give chances to each other even with horrible mistakes. Getting plateful is not always happiness. At the end of the day 'sacrifice' is always the key but we tend to forget it in our daily chaos (It's not sacrificing yourselves, its sacrifice we choose by ourselves to be patient and selfless for our loved ones. That's what most of our parents did while arguing)
Divorce and being reaised by singee parents is better than living with trauma .im telling little ones just count on ur dad and do ur best ..bcz of little you will cry whenever u miss ur parents together but u will not reger their decisions and fighting minhwa ❤
Has someone who has separated parents,
people shouldn’t assume that they should get back together just because they seen them act a certain way on camera doesn’t mean there isn’t something going on when the camera isn’t there
they doesn't even look that perfect on camera 😭 some issues is clearly showing like how the in laws treated her yet he doesn't bother to protect her, how he was absent most of the time and she was on her own raising the kid, how she was so supportive towards his career and doing her best be a wife and a mom so he was at ease continuing his career yet he doesn't even feel thankfull or seems aware of that, more like brush it off as the wife responsibility only just because she's doing it, and there's still so much of it
@@whatever_voyez5123 That is true but it’s crazy cause I saw people saying they looked so good together on old videos as if that proves anything
@@angelellis7248 because people don't care about her 😭 and that how it was in South Korea.. most of the time they just throw any responsibility to the mother only and demand her to doing and oblige with all that.. it was clear as day but people ignore it because for them it was what she suppose to endure and it's worth nothing 🥺
@@whatever_voyez5123 that’s sad people can really be awful
It is a story with many sad and happy situations, in which elderly must think very well about the decisions they make as a couple, especially when a family had been formed and there are children.Unfortunately they are always the most affected, but I congratulate the dad since it is not eady to be a dad and mother, with time and when their children grow up they will be people with a good heart and a good parenting.
Well he isn't playing both parts since their mom is around too so you could also say the mom plays dad when he isn't around it's just that he is shown on TV while the mom is not
This is so heartbreaking that he is trying hard to be a good dad for his children who he already is.The way the oldest son Jaeyul was crying alone watching those pictures of himself with his mom made me cry.I want to say to Minhwan that " you can do it , fighting ". 💜🥹 Your Three adorable children needs your love and care.I am cheering for you from here.
if he liked the children so much he would allow the mom to keep the custody
I really got shocked to see thier divorce!
I don't wanna believe it " it's really heart broken for those innocent kids "
I feel so bad " can't say what gonna happen in the future!
Just feel so sorry for them💔
In my country,some children are looked after by their grandmothers or grandfathers while their parents go to work.Although I have never been cared for by grandparents, I have seen many children here sent to school and cared for by their own grandparents.
jaeyul broken my heart i feel bad for him
It quite apparent that he absolutely adores and loves his kids, keep fighting, you are doing a great job in raising those beauties.
I just wish that how much hard situations they face they should try to adjust and compromise with each other a little bit longer for the sake of children they’re just toddlers who needs both mother and father. It’s hurt to see them missing their mom and hands down to dad who gently handling three kids alone it’s not an easy job
she was literally compromised all these years and he doesn't even bother to acknowledge all the things she did all this time, when I watch the show they're in before divorce.. I don't think I was able to hold on that long like how the mom did not just the in laws but everything.. I'll probably get a divorce sooner than her, yet she was still the one who get hate and backlash
and mind you.. she was being a single mother most of the time and taking care 3 of them alone, not considering the pressure from her in laws etc
@@whatever_voyez5123 first of all I’m not blaming her or taking husband side I just concern about the kids. I know she sacrificed her life just for being housewife and taking care of kids and family,and husband should have help her too but husband need to earn as well so he can’t be there all the time to take care kids and for kids they are too young they still need mom more than father and I don’t know their life really that much but she’s is the one keep asking husband to give birth to more child.
@@whatever_voyez5123 I’m talking base on my own experience who don’t have a family problem of course all house have. In my country after marriage we stay with in laws and I’m also living with my in law raising two kids alone my husband work in another country he barely came home and I’m compromising more than 10 yrs now but still for sake of my kids I put aside my dreams and keep doing my job
@@charicetmg1884 it's must be not easy for you, thanks for doing an amazing job for your family, wishing you and your family would always be happy and healthy.. well in my country it's also normal to life with in laws, but in this case her in laws is treating her so badly and disrespect her (they don't even bother to hide it on camera or tried to act to give a good impression to public) so I can't imagine what happens behind the camera.. there's nothing wrong with living with your in laws, but both parties need to respect eachother and didn't treat or see others as a low life.. and it's all happen in front of him, but not even once he tried to shield her or even acknowledging her effort after (he could at least soothe her behind his parents if he afraid of them) but he doesn't even looks like he being bothered by it and didn't think about her feeling like her being treated like that is how it supposed to be
I also see a few comments that she was doing so much so he can continue his career, go on tour, etc and clearly he was more than able to purchase a home for them.. even outsiders can see how bad her in laws treated her and how uncomfortable she was living with them but he was so ignorant to even tried to give her a better environment for raising their child
Soo quite baby's ❤
In house husband jaeyul likes to be his dad ,but now his more attach on his mother
I really can't understand, why the children are living with the father. Children belong to the care of the mother. The whole divorce was such a mess and his mother was so meddlesome. He should have supported his wife and stood up against his mother more.
Why cant kids be with the father why is it only the mother that gets the kids 😐 my father raised me without my mother and im doing very well
Also he was in military for 2 years its mandatory plus he was on tour as well they need money right ✅️
@@babymochi9529 The kids lived all the time with the mother while he was in military, she gave up her career and had to deal with his mother. As the father he was more absent than present had not much time for his children. In my country you would never get them out of their familiar environment. The first years are so crucial and no judge would give the children away to the father who is clearly struggling even with basic skills like dressing the children.
@laReinedesFees03 he's more stable with a income that's why there with him she agreed 👍. They do things differently in Korea men go into the military for 18 months what he supposed to do say no cause he wants to stay with his kids he can't. Also she could have told her inlaws to back off but she didn't cause it's in our culture to highly respect elders also he goes on tours cause he's in a band that gives him money. She's young off lunching with her friends and being a 2o something woman that wants to have a dream but also being co parent with dad. Kids don't always go to the mom we need to stop that just giving mothers full custody cause if she had full custody u would not be saying anything but cause he has full custody u are all upset. Chill
@@babymochi9529 If he's financially more stable than her, he could pay her more child support. Problem solved.
This is the result of pregnancy before marriage.. They just dated probably would not have gotten married had she not got pregnant. So fast forward now they got a divorce
To be honest, I actually had hope for their marriage and they seemed to really love each other. However there was a point I admit I had doubts and it was not because of the age. For me, it was because I noticed the mother in law (his mother) was incredibly overbearing and was not very respectful of Yulhee’s parenting wishes (and Minhwan’s too but he always rolled over for his mother). It was a constant issue where the mother in law did not respect Yulhee’s wishes and Minhwan would never stand up to her (leaving Yulhee to try to defend herself and set boundaries). Considering they lived in his parents’ house too, it couldn’t have been easy and must have felt suffocating.
i want to see yulhee in a project..
this hurts so much :(
Her MIL treated her badly and he couldn’t support her
I'm so sad that they end their marriage,but can tell after twins are born like the girl can't take it much ..but good to hear that their co parenting is doing well for Thier family,but I know the older one is a mommy boy
It’s 2024 yet divorce is such a taboo subject in🇰🇷 It’s more unhealthy for a couple to stay together for convenience etc as it has a very neg impact on children whom are growing up in that environment. Children should grow to see loving parents etc because when their older they’ll seem something thinking it’s love, when it’s not. It’s mentally & physically exhausting for the parent(s) too. It’s sad parents rather couples remain married no matter how miserable behind closed doors they maybe because that’s a better look within the community/country. Doing this in a country with the highest suicide rates is commendable & takes a lot of courage. Their little one will thrive in life not living in a tense environment. Don’t underestimate children they know when things are off & tensions are high. In comments section reminded me of when my career started & saw how serious this issue is in🇰🇷when went to do charity work, had elderly proud that their people don’t divorce, but when told well you have highest S rates in the world, the women are stuck in unhappy, unhealthy, dangerous situations because in the eyes of the community that’s better than having a divorce, both go on to make better choices & have a better life - Alive! He didn’t like it, reading comments in 2024 🇰🇷 to date still has the highest S rates. The undertone is still - omg he has a child & divorced, aww sad for the child etc. Yes - it’s because your used to these situs being hid/not spoken about. A dad can do everything a mother can do, so stop putting boundaries on fathers & also the child doesn’t live less of a happy life. I hope in the near future we can see this trend of doing everything for show & continuous competition with others whom has better house, car, married? Wealthy family, better grades, kid skinner than their skinny child, whiter as if playing hide & seek with sun their entire life, my child has nicer skin, dress better & the list goes on. It’s extremely sad & also hope 🇰🇷have support available 24/7 for those whom need it. PTSD & depression can’t be cured by itself with time, I’d like to see less people suffering alone in silence & know it’s ok not to be ok. Provide a private, confidential & free service because that’ll help not only 🇰🇷 but the law abiding citizens to thrive. Just know your all loved & not alone, I made it a personal goal of mine to come every year (to give free private counselling sessions to individuals/families in confidentiality) after the mother took her daughters life & her own straight away, to escape the abuse from the husband & in-laws & the innocent girl because she’s not a boy. What’s even more concerning 🇰🇷Gov wouldn’t even put it on their papers, let alone news, because it can look bad on the country - wrong what the Gov did & do looks extremely distasteful in the eyes of the world. I believe 🇰🇷have the nicest people, especially the poor they have so much love it’s very heartwarming, but at same time heartbreaking because I knew they don’t even have access to basics. It’s very much status run, the wealthy fams have access to all though. I always tell & show people when I come people get counselling as a way to make sure they have a outlet to avoid potential mental health related struggles, people come because they have too much money & want to stay grounded, we also have fully trained children’s counsellors in schools so they have access talk to someone instead of suffering in silence & parents want to ensure thier child knows they can talk to any adult if they need to talk if they can’t go straight to parents because it’s better out than in. As much as I love coming to🇰🇷for the people the brutal facts hurt. That foreign countries are pleading a Gov to provide support to their people & especially on army bases & the families whilst their boys serve! It’s concerning, however we won’t stop helping either way. Much love to all from 🇬🇧🙏♥️ Prof V
He is doing good job tho doing different styles for the girls' hair ❤
You know 1 thing after u married, move out from parent. Both of parent. Not in korea only, malaysia too, when u stay with parent, most of time u will not be happy. Minhwan u can save it. Both of u are good parent. Please do something
Its always better for the kids to separate and coparent that stay together and hate each other and constantly fight . Kids always know and it always affects them in the end. This way is so much healthier.
It break's my heart 😢😢😢
i’m so frustrated for yulhee, the korean media is so biased and critical of women :(( i hope this man and his mom get what’s coming for them