I retired two years ago. Regrets and advice.

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  • @eightsprites
    @eightsprites 2 месяца назад +116

    Regarding being bored. When I get bored, I think of work meetings.. and I dont feel so bad about being bored anymore.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +4

      eight: Haha. I've done that type of thing too.

    • @thruthefirepubl
      @thruthefirepubl 2 месяца назад

      Now that's funny!

    • @MovieJustin
      @MovieJustin 2 месяца назад +1

      Tell me about it

    • @kathygibbons-oh8uq
      @kathygibbons-oh8uq Месяц назад

      Agree!

    • @philliproberts7294
      @philliproberts7294 Месяц назад +3

      Exactly I'm bored to but then I think of all the bullshit from Co workers bosses supervisor leading hands this is true I've been told off twice for coming to work early 😮

  • @Kaibe55
    @Kaibe55 2 месяца назад +114

    I was self-employed and paid my dues early which enabled me to retire at 57; I am turning 69 this year. The years flew. Having the money is one thing, having the mindset is another. You do not retire from something, you retire to something. I have seen way too many of my peers retire and not know what to do with themselves. A shallow life of leisure gets old fast. You need a basket of activities every day for your head and your hands to keep you balanced. Having community and a sense of place where you as a person matter; an environment where you can apply yourself, learn, and be a blessing to others. And realize that good health is a wild card that, if lost ,changes everything. The person you are when you retire will not be the same person 10 years into retirement. The worst thing you can do is work until you die, no matter how much you love you job. Life is as much about the journey as it is the destination.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +6

      Kaibe: Yes, retire TO something. Great line.

    • @brucesmith9144
      @brucesmith9144 2 месяца назад +3

      Having activities to do and community to involve yourself with is indeed very good advice.

    • @dominic8218
      @dominic8218 2 месяца назад +3

      Great advice 👌🏻

    • @commonsenseisntcommon1776
      @commonsenseisntcommon1776 2 месяца назад +7

      Congrats, im 57 and just retired….. no regrets!

    • @JohnBowl14690
      @JohnBowl14690 2 месяца назад +5

      I agree with most of what's said, but I don't think that working until you die is ALWAYS bad. It depends much on a person's situation. For example: Let's say a person works 24 hours a week in a non-stressful job and would struggle if they quit work. However, if they keep working they can do all the things they enjoy. I'm not sure that I would give up things I love just for the status of saying, "I'm retired".

  • @cathyphillips679
    @cathyphillips679 2 месяца назад +42

    I retired at age 61. Am now 68. I knew I was going to be a "low income senior," so I just planned carefully. I spent a few of my final working years on a waiting list to get into my rent-geared-to-income apartment. I am in Canada, so medical (and now dental!) expenses are not a concern. Eyeglasses are my most major expense. Luckily, I am healthy so far. The only mistake I made was doing retirement like you are "supposed" to. I volunteered a lot. Was busier than when I worked! Luckily (!?) Covid happened, and all that got shut down. I have never gone back. This laid-back retirement suits me perfectly. Lots of time spent hiking, camping, working out, and walking the dog. A couple of road trips a year solves the travel bug. My advice.... PLAN and do retirement your own way. Enjoy!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      cathy: thanks for watching. I am glad you are having a happy retirement.

    • @BoninBrighton
      @BoninBrighton Месяц назад

      Yep I volunteered too much ….

  • @bobbyb7127
    @bobbyb7127 Месяц назад +14

    I'm 70 and my wife is 60 with lung cancer. I can't retire because we need my companies med insurance for her treatments. So glad many of you were able to retire early. I'm wouldn't want anybody to go through the hell my wife and i have gone through the last 12 years. I so wish my faith was as strong as my wife's. She's a warrior and child of God.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      Thanks for your comments, Bobby.

    • @GregoryBoyce-w3i
      @GregoryBoyce-w3i Месяц назад

      @@bobbyb7127 I’m doing online business at 69 . Your right . My neighbour is 81 and working .

    • @GregoryBoyce-w3i
      @GregoryBoyce-w3i Месяц назад +4

      @@bobbyb7127 I’m feeling your pain . Your not only man this age a wife cancer . I pray you both

    • @GregoryBoyce-w3i
      @GregoryBoyce-w3i Месяц назад

      @@bobbyb7127 I’m feeling your pain . Your not only man this age a wife cancer . I pray you both

    • @M405060
      @M405060 4 дня назад +1

      Bobby, can your wife apply for Medicare to ease the financial pain some?

  • @waynesly6116
    @waynesly6116 2 месяца назад +32

    Been retired for almost 3 years now. Make time for my health. Work out 2 times a week, walk 3-5 miles every day, do different type of exercises on my walk n changed my eating habits to only whole food, no sugar or flour. Now feel like I am 30! I love to hunt and fish and run many trail cameras. I took over most of the house cleaning since my wife is still working. I work around the church as a handy man some. Never bored. Look forward to a couple of down hours per day. Life is grand n God is good!!😁💪🙏👆

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      wayne: I'm glad it is working out for you.

    • @leehaskins307
      @leehaskins307 2 месяца назад +1

      I don’t like the whole food and no sugar part. That is pretty much impossible for a Normal life. And if that is true u must spend a lot of time working on ur food input and have such a limited choice of food that would depress most all people if they had to do that.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +5

      @@leehaskins307 I tried to do the "no sugar" diet for several years and it IS almost impossible. It is amazing how many foods have added sugar. So it became the "almost no sugar diet." Now it is the "nothing with a lot of added sugar diet."

    • @leehaskins307
      @leehaskins307 2 месяца назад +1

      @@RetirementTalk43 yep agree.. even the all organic diet is impossible…. the no sugar and all orgainic diet can only be a part of your diet.. not all of it….I tried all organic.. went really bad… even with things like deoderant… used natuarl bees wax deoderant.. that was a disaster.. stinked pretty bad… lol...

    • @bw5277
      @bw5277 Месяц назад +2

      @@leehaskins307 less sugar was definite plus for my health and weight...sugary drinks, desserts, candy......very little of that stuff!

  • @cuz129
    @cuz129 2 месяца назад +32

    I retired 8 years ago at 60. Zero regrets, will take Social Security at 70. Retired life is amazing!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      cuz: Good to hear.

    • @arminius301
      @arminius301 Месяц назад +1

      what compelled you to not start taking social security 8 years ago? Seems like you missed out on 8 years of SS income, what the heck am I missing here?

    • @slicksmith856
      @slicksmith856 Месяц назад +1

      I retired at 55 with a fair pension and medical...now at 62 my house is paid off and collecting social security.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      @@arminius301 Perhaps cuz wanted to maximize his/her benefit and protect against longevity risk. Or he/she has a younger spouse he wants to inherit his/her higher benefit. Perhaps heshe wanted to use those 8 years to lower his/her IRA balance and reduce future RMDs and taxes. There could be a lot of reasons.

    • @arminius301
      @arminius301 Месяц назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 Yeah each situation is definitely individual and lots to consider, thanks for the reply and for making this video!

  • @pensacola321
    @pensacola321 2 месяца назад +19

    People who leave the workplace without having sufficient financial assets, are not retired, they are unemployed.
    I retired 17 years ago at age 57 right at the start of the Great recession. I had plenty of cash flow investments so I did okay. Scary though.
    I took Social Security at my FRA of 66. Don't make yourself crazy studying that. Figure out what is best for you and move ahead.
    Our net worth has about doubled, and at the same time we have spent more and more freely. We do a lot of traveling. Also, lots of volunteering.
    We both work to keep our health up. And don't worry too much. It's a short runway.
    Good luck.😊

  • @FWM50
    @FWM50 2 месяца назад +13

    People with mental health issues need to be especially careful. The risk for depression increases if there are too many changes, or if friends pass away or move away. Loneliness can be very painful even fatal. If you see a psychologist for help please continue. Build a support system. Make a plan. Making a schedule will help. Some things you always wanted to do will be available. Some things will be out of your financial range. The biggest risk is declining health. Prepare and pre-plan as much as possible.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for your comments, FWM.

    • @robp9746
      @robp9746 Месяц назад +2

      Agree. Health is wealth!

    • @alexanderbailey8914
      @alexanderbailey8914 Месяц назад +2

      @@FWM50 Yep, I was one of the ones that felt more depressed after I retired. Joined a pickleball group of seniors in town and joined a group training class at my gym. This has helped me tremendously.

  • @phammond8155
    @phammond8155 Месяц назад +4

    Tried to retire at 60 and they offered me to keep my job and go part time and keep the benefits . . . so it will be a slower transition to retirement. Love your co-star!

  • @bruceprentice6441
    @bruceprentice6441 Месяц назад +4

    I am retired… sort of . My situation is very different from most folks. I dairy farmed for 42 years and exited the dairy business at 62. Now almost two years later, I still grow crops and raise a few beef cattle, but probably don’t work more than 30 hours a week. Compared with 70-100 hours,7 days a week dairy farming. I have to fight boredom and laziness as you mentioned. I miss my old routine and folks I used to interact with. What I am doing, I don’t call work, it’s more of a hobby

    • @bobbyb7127
      @bobbyb7127 Месяц назад

      Dairy farm...that sounds nice.

  • @RockessentialTim
    @RockessentialTim Месяц назад +2

    New to your channel and I really dig it! I am 67 now and retired at 62. I say retired, but I was rather forced out of my gig which is a whole other story---but I was well paid and like you will not take my SS until 70. I love what someone said in one of the comments about you retire into something, and preferably something you love. Like you I got myself a camera and became a RUclipsr. I think the main thing about being retired is having something to do, a hobby, volunteering or whatever it may be to not just occupy your time but to make use of it. And being an optimist doesn't hurt either! Keep up the great vids, Howard!

  • @grumpy7724
    @grumpy7724 2 месяца назад +15

    I retired at 62 years old the end of 2019 and plan on Social Security at age 70. My wife will be at age 66 yrs. 8 mo. My wife, the same age as me (actually 2 months older) retired 5 years earlier with no benefits and earned very little, so much less that we don’t even count her pension and investments in the retirement plan. She worked part time after being a stay at home mom. I planned for retirement when I started full time work, and my goal was to retire at age 54, to go earlier than my father. Medical insurance in retirement changed and my daughter and son extended their college educations. My daughter went to get a graduate degree and my son double majored.
    I maintained most everything we had, vehicles, home, and household equipment. I still perform maintenance tasks although, due to traveling, not as much. So that being said, this is what I preach:
    1) it’s ok after working since a paper route at age 13 to retiring as a professional to NOT rush into chores. That’s part of enjoying retirement.
    2) keep active, I volunteer as a construction worker doing electric and other jobs as needed two days a week for Habitat for Humanity. I along with another volunteer broke up a 25 foot concrete walkway to get a new buried electric service into a remodel home. Sledge hammers, digging bars and hammer drills to get the job done. It was amazing how good I felt and how well I slept!
    3) keep learning. Travel, learn other cultures, life doesn’t end at retirement. Read, question, understand others, it’s not a my way or the highway world. I like to be the devils advocate in certain discussions while not revealing my views. I like to keep people thinking.
    4) don’t believe everything you hear and read, especially social media. My view is most social media is the ‘dumbing of civilization’. Default to point number 3.
    While I retired as a ‘white collar’ worker, I spent 25 years as a blue collar tradesman. I get sore but that’s not an excuse for me to slack off. Being sedentary is the way to an early demise.
    Eat, drink, be active, and be merry. Nobody wants to remember you as a grumpy complainer.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +2

      grumpy: Thanks for watching and your comments. No. 3 describes mee too. No. 1 is difficult as I always start to feel guilty if I'm not doing something.

  • @sallyprzybil2404
    @sallyprzybil2404 2 месяца назад +5

    For boredom, come up with a boredom jar or file. Fill it with slips of paper or index cards with one idea on each on something to do when you’re bored ( for example one of mine is: play on the piano the scales in the key of A flat and practice the major arpeggios in the sams scale, try to memorize these. (One of my hobbies is music). When you get bored then pull out one of the slips of paper or index cards at random ( without looking at it beforehand, a blind draw) and do that thing. Make it something of a game. Also make a planning notebook for your hobbies, write them down with a simple plan for each on how you are going to pursue each hobby, this gives you something of a direction on what to do with your hobbies. I have few, if any regrets after retiring. I retired two years ago at age 68, took SS then because I was full retirement age and needed it to live on because I have only a small, well invested, savings. I do regret some of the things I did, or didn’t do, before retirement. Firstly, I didn’t take care of my health as well as I should have so now I have some major health issues to take into consideration post retirement. Secondly, I regret not starting to save and invest for retirement much earlier in my career. I didn’t start saving until late and knew nothing about investing at that time so I had a big learning curve. I had to be extremely frugal for a long time in order to save money. Then I regret keeping my job for as long as I did. I should have changed jobs but I kept thinking, ‘I’m retiring soon so I’ll just stay here’. I’m a retired RN and they had me working long, long hours in a physically and emotionally demanding field. Very ( too) stressful. That too, had a negative impact on my health. Especially the last few years when we were dealing with the threat of Covid. I didn’t get Covid until the very end just as I was retiring, so I started off my retirement with Covid. One of the best things I did after retirement was buy an affordable house ( moved me out of a way too expensive rental situation) in a gorgeous area (not Florida!) that I love. I’m a single, widowed grandma raising my ( now adopted by me) 7 year old grandson ( I’ve had him since he was born). So my retirement comes with built in purpose and companionship. He’s a sweetie and, sadly, his bio parents could not take care of him.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      sally: Well, taking care of a 7 year-old should certainly keep you busy and give you purpose. Thanks for all of your suggestions.

  • @churchofpos2279
    @churchofpos2279 2 месяца назад +16

    I retired 2 years ago, due to refusing to get the Jab. I sold my house, packed up my van, and moved 2500 miles with no plan. I ended up buying a house for cash and becoming debt free. I would have liked to have had more savings available, but I am making it work. I don't live the high life, but am content. I get to do the things I want to for the most part. But I think the peace of mind I have for escaping the rat race is making it worth while. I wouldn't change a thing at this point.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      church: Good to not have regrets.

    • @lyceum4177
      @lyceum4177 2 месяца назад +6

      Cool for the refusing the injections

  • @thunderflight6266
    @thunderflight6266 Месяц назад +2

    As someone who battles with the idea of early retirement or not, I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experience on retirement. Thanks for taking the time to do these videos. God bless!

  • @WilliamMartinez-vq2bn
    @WilliamMartinez-vq2bn Месяц назад +4

    My god and jesus and my church keeps me spiritualy grounded,,satisfied happy plenty to do in the work of the lord!!!!

  • @Barbiedoll1959
    @Barbiedoll1959 2 месяца назад +37

    Retired now for about 18 months. I have mixed feelings about retirement. Just lost our last of 3 Chihuahua pets and I miss them. I get VERY bored. I started crafting: crocheting, beading, drawing etc. It just isn't enough for me. We are Going to see and stay with family in a few weeks in our home State of Michigan for a couple of months and should be back in Florida by early October. When we return, I will be looking for a part time job to keep me busy and hopefully entertained. Also, we have decided to rescue a puppy. Can't wait to have another dog in my life. I love watching Otter 🐕🐕🐕

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +6

      Barbie: Have you thought about volunteering at a dog shelter?

    • @debbiem73
      @debbiem73 2 месяца назад +4

      I’d suggest maybe not a puppy but a 1 or 2 year old dog that’s already housebroken 😊
      Also rescue groups are always looking for fosters and volunteers

    • @jdollar5852
      @jdollar5852 2 месяца назад +1

      We have lost 2 dogs and 2 cats in the past year or so. Dogs were 10 and 12 years old. Cats were 17 and 12.
      We still have a 17 year old cat and a 10 year old boxer, both rescues. We also have a 2 year old Doodle that my wife works with as a therapy dog. They both really enjoy doing that a couple of times a week. The Boxer wants to go, but her hips make it difficult for her. She still gets to go on occasion and is much loved by the staff.
      You could spend 24 hours a day helping animal rescue organizations. They all need someone to help. That really fits for a lot of people. I call all my wife's rescue friends "crazy cat ladies" because they are crazy about those shelter animals. Crazy cat lady sounds better than crazy dog lady. Weirdly, virtually 100% of the volunteers are women.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +3

      @@jdollar5852 Jdollar: Sorry for your loses. I have been through it many times. It is heartbreaking and takes time to heal.

    • @shayscott7498
      @shayscott7498 2 месяца назад +1

      It beats going back to work because your Mom needs the cash. I loved, loved retirement. The tennis club that I belonged to was a hub of social activities -- made many friends and we do things together.

  • @davidsuniverse108
    @davidsuniverse108 2 месяца назад +6

    Hey my friend....I took SS at 62, but stopped working at my career in 2016 when I was 57. It was the best decision I ever made...no regrets, however I have special circumstances. I wouldn't want to reveal my finances, but I may do a video myself of how I ended up "retiring" at 57 and why I started collecting at 62. Thanks for your video, great info!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +3

      Let me know when you post your video.

    • @8corymix8
      @8corymix8 Месяц назад

      You only did that with a windfall of some sort of inheritance. Most people can't do that. In financially secure at 49 & would never imagine retirement at an early age. I'll go down to 2 days a week or so but work keeps the wheels turning

  • @johnandjaneadventures
    @johnandjaneadventures 2 месяца назад +4

    This is your best video to date and your advice is spot on. Your comment on laziness was unique and thought provoking. We have found that calendaring “to do” list items helps keep us focused. Thanks again for this video.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Johnandjean: Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @maryalbert6138
    @maryalbert6138 2 месяца назад +30

    Being debt free is a must!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +3

      mary: Mostly, you are correct but there are situations where some debt is not a retirement killer. See my video on paying off your mortgage before retirement.

    • @bradk7653
      @bradk7653 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes, get debt free as soon as early as possible. We were debt free by the time we hit our mid 40’s. It made retiring so much easier.

    • @PJBHolden
      @PJBHolden 2 месяца назад +5

      Not true, I still have a mortgage and am doing just fine after retirement at 62

    • @michaeltheveny5270
      @michaeltheveny5270 2 месяца назад +1

      @@RetirementTalk43 I think every situation is different, we refinanced our home and after talking to our financial advisor we decided to go with a 30 year instead of a 15 that we were planning on doing. Interest rates were at 2.25 which is cheap money. Plus our mortgage is only $650 which is cheaper than any rental in our area.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      @@michaeltheveny5270 Exactly. See my video on the topic.

  • @alfredlee6155
    @alfredlee6155 Месяц назад +2

    I’d rather be bored in my swimming pool than being bored welding for ten hours a day . I retired at 65 one year ago. It was the right time .❤

  • @wuddayameen
    @wuddayameen 2 месяца назад +4

    Congrats on 2Y anniversary!
    Retired @70.
    My 1Y is tomorrow - Independence Day.
    We do OK with just SSA from US+CH.
    We bought a large property 20+ years ago.
    It needed, and is now finally getting, renovations.
    Planning to exit in next year.
    Too much work/maintenance - year after year.
    It's a younger person's property.
    The kids aren't interested, at least in their current stage of life.
    Interesting how fun can turn into work.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      wuddya: Ain't it great?

    • @wuddayameen
      @wuddayameen 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 well, every day feels like saturday.
      for me, saturday means trying to catchup on work around the property.
      there are 2 types of work:
      - one is doing tasks that have forever been in the queue
      - the other is keeping up with the repetitive tasks so things don't end up back in the forever queue.
      yes, i could, and do hire help, but I want to exit this adventure and begin another.
      so for now, it feels like just switching jobs.
      best thing is no commute, although that occurred at the start of COVID.

  • @MichigantoFlorida
    @MichigantoFlorida 2 месяца назад +6

    Good Evening Mr Howard and a hey to Otter! Howard your spot on, folks you really need an action plan with a timeline for retirement. I can share you mine. I decided in April of 2015 with a target date of Dec 31 2015. I was turning 66 in September, full retirement age and had SS begin once I was 66. Additionally, I researched Medicare and at that time Plan F was my choice, today it's Plan G. I was blessed with a 33 year career in corporate America with a pre defined pension with a generous 401K. Nevertheless, financially it was a no brainer. However, it's a decision you need to commit to. I had the moments of one more year, management wanted me to reconsider and hang around for a couple of more years, etc. Yes it was tempting to change my plans. However, I stuck to my time line and no regrets and don't look back. Retirement is a paid vacation where every day is a week end day. Excelent topic Mr Howard. Just an FYI to Otter: Dr Pol recommends that dogs should always make sure that meat is included in their daily diet.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      MtoF: Love those pensions. Thanks for watching.
      As much as Otter would love meat, we are a no meat household. He does love all his other foods. We are sure to give him supplements he needs to have a healthy diet.
      BTW-You had made a comment on my last article. The spammers then attached their 24 comment chain on your comment, with the fraud financial advisor information so, I had to delete your comment to get that spam out of there. Sorry.

    • @MichigantoFlorida
      @MichigantoFlorida 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 Thank you Howard, yes it looked so odd when I received so many odd notifications,

  • @JDG1958
    @JDG1958 2 месяца назад +2

    Started working at 14. Retired at 62-1/2 due to health reasons and Covid. I’m 66 now. Through the years I worked 50-100 a week. I had a few side hustles too. Basically my body and brain got tired. I have 2-4 hours a day down time too. We’ve got my wife’s dog. I’m the nanny. Kids are up and out. Very little debt. Haven’t touched retirement yet. I’ve settled in well. No regrets. I enjoy being retired. Medicare is great. Plan G and D. No worries so far paying any bills.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      JDG: Good to hear that you are happy in retirement.

  • @RDQ30A
    @RDQ30A 2 месяца назад +7

    Another good video. Glad you seem happy in retirement. I agree and experience some of the same things you are.
    I retired at 57 and took my social security at 62. We’ve spent our time enjoying the outdoors - kayaking, hiking, biking, traveling, paddle boarding, traveling etc.
    We are trying to maximize our go-go years by doing the things we love.
    I was very fortunate to have accumulated more assets than I had planned for over the years. We lived simply and below our means. Now, we are enjoying financial security.
    Congrats on your 2 year retirement anniversary. Enjoy your time and it’s okay to be lazy…

  • @Kreb99
    @Kreb99 2 месяца назад +14

    I retired 14 months ago. We moved to the Gulf Coast so for most of this year the move has kept me busy. I also do a lot of volunteer work in the community. At 67 I drew social security and have a small pension. My wife still works so we are very comfortable. We are very involved with our church and have made a lot of new friends. We love our many gardens and stay pretty involved maintaining our grounds. We are tourists in our new location and have plenty of new adventures ahead of us. We continue to save and invest in our 401K and we aren’t actively drawing down on that yet. I feel like I am an 18 years old on summer vacation with a nice allowance. We are truly blessed.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +2

      Kreb: Yep, being retired allows you to be a kid on summer vacation again.

  • @billbrock8740
    @billbrock8740 2 месяца назад +1

    Hi, Howard. I also retired 2 years ago at age 59 after a 33-year career in the classroom. No regrets. None. Made a promise to myself back in 1989 when I began teaching- “When it’s no longer FUN, It’s time to go.” Honored that commitment and couldn’t be happier. Oh, one more thing- OTTER IS AWESOME!!!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Bill: thanks for watching. I will tell Otter he is awesome.

  • @melvano4014
    @melvano4014 2 месяца назад +17

    Retired 14 years ago at 44. Bike 125 miles a week and swim 2 miles. Hang with grandkids. Too tired to be bored.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +2

      I hope you can keep it up for many years.

    • @melvano4014
      @melvano4014 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43thanks.

    • @Index-o1234
      @Index-o1234 2 месяца назад +1

      That's the retirement I'm looking for! 😂

    • @369dabbler
      @369dabbler 2 месяца назад

      61 retired in uk just booked philipines ❤

  • @nshaver24
    @nshaver24 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m 63 and retired a year ago…luckily I’ve got a 401k and pension and have saved money through the years. My priority is my health so I make sure I walk the 10,000 steps a day and visit the senior center for cardio drumming. I don’t want to end up in a nursing home like my Mother as she is in a wheelchair. I travel once a week to help my Dad who has early dementia. I volunteer at The Humane Society which is a passion of mine. Sure I have days when I couch surf watching U-Tube …but hey I figure I’ve earned it…but really if you don’t have your health…it’s tough…as I lost my husband a couple of years ago….I have two sons that help me out so that’s been a blessing. Planning to go back to Florida this winter…sunshine and staying active is priceless!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      nshaver: sounds like you overcame some adversity and have things in hand.

    • @angelabaker8377
      @angelabaker8377 2 месяца назад

      Cardio drumming sounds interesting. I've never heard of it

  • @alexwenger2896
    @alexwenger2896 14 дней назад

    I was able to retire at 60 on my husband's pension. He is 74 and I'm 63. Enjoying it, I'm very active with church, friends, and I also have an AirBnb that I run that's quite busy. Unfortunately health issues are becoming a problem for my husband. Our differences in ages is more apparent now as we age. When my husband retired he just retired. I planned out my retirement, went out of my way to make new friends as well as keep friends from my previous different jobs, people of all ages. I'd love to travel more and will probably do so solo in the future as my husband may not be able. I'm really just enjoying being able to do what I want, when I want.

  • @1316jet
    @1316jet 2 месяца назад +2

    We seem to have somethings in common. I’m just over a year retired and my wife is still working full time. The first few months I was mopping the floor😂. I still keep up with the house work but not as intense. I also struggle with the feeling of being lazy at times, but remind myself, as long as I’m not letting everything go to crap, including myself, it’s ok. My stress level has gone way down since retiring and I’m much more physically active. My first priority in the morning is to exercise in the form of strength training and cardio. I like to run, bike and hike. I also go to our public pool for a swim. After the swim, myself and a group of guys go down to the bakery for a treat and some conversation.
    Glad I came across your channel. I subscribed and will watch some more. Btw, my son plays softball for a rec team. Maybe I’ll try that out. Sounds fun!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      jet: Look for a senior softball league in your area. It can be a lot of fun and you will make a lot of friends.

  • @uniquenamegoeshere2263
    @uniquenamegoeshere2263 2 месяца назад +2

    I am your age, and still working from home. For me it’s getting my head around retirement.

  • @dominic8218
    @dominic8218 2 месяца назад +2

    Came across your channel and really enjoyed your vlog. I was fortunate to retire 18 months ago at 54. So far so good and really want to take advantage of having good health as you never know when this could change. Wish you and your viewers well for their own personal retirement journeys 👍🏻

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for watching, Dominic.

    • @SecondWindWorkshop
      @SecondWindWorkshop 2 месяца назад +1

      Hey Dominic, we retired at 54 (51 for her) as well. I'm on the company health plan through the end of this year and will look at the ACA this year for 2025. Any tips, or did you opt for a different health insurance option?

    • @dominic8218
      @dominic8218 2 месяца назад +1

      @@SecondWindWorkshop Hi there. I’m in the UK, so different rules here. We have the National Health Service that me and my wife can rely on. I’m living off savings for the first 3 years and then will start to draw on my SIPP pension at 57. My state pension will also kick in at age 67, so without wishing my life away, that will be nice when it comes. We are fortunate enough to have a place in Spain which we spend half the year. The weather isn’t always good in the UK!! Just will keep things under review quarterly, but know healthcare is a major concern in the US. Hope it’s working out for you both 👍🏻

  • @comicsandtrades8237
    @comicsandtrades8237 2 месяца назад +1

    Very good conversation on retiring. Instead of bashing people who don't at 62 and mocking them. Thanks for intelligent convo.

  • @WayneMarcy
    @WayneMarcy 2 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for sharing Howard, I do find your videos informative and entertaining. I still have probably 5 or so years before I retire, all these tips are great.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Wayne: Thanks for watching and your comments.

  • @XtrmTJ97
    @XtrmTJ97 Месяц назад

    I've been retired for alittle over 2 years and am thoroughly enjoying myself. I am never bored, with "honey do's", a home to take care of, yard work, gardening, a couple small hobbies, wife, dog, grand kids.. I'm never bored. Wife and I travel, sight see, enjoy a camp fire, play with the dog. I worked my tail off the last 2 years and paid off everything. We own everything. Home, vehicles, RV, toys. With alittle planning you can live very comfortable and do all the things you want to. One of the best things is that there is no time table, we come and go as we please.

  • @7SideWays
    @7SideWays 2 месяца назад +1

    A healthy social and psychological portfolio is huge, especially if you retire in your 40s or 50s. Congrats on 2 years!

  • @markbajek2541
    @markbajek2541 2 месяца назад +2

    Being retired can give one time to find the "world's best cup of coffee" so don't forget to budget for that expense. . At 67 I'm impressed with your 200 or so baseball games and still have energy to try to manage the property and take Otter for multiple walks every day. Those 3 hours of down time you speak of often turn in to naps zzzzz , especially on rainy days.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      mark: I have a really hard time napping. I might fall asleep after lunch, watching TV and wake up in 5 minutes.

  • @casmithc2
    @casmithc2 2 месяца назад +4

    Howard, this was your BEST VIDEO EVER!! Not a single mention of SARASOTA TIM!! 😂 😂

  • @randolphh8005
    @randolphh8005 Месяц назад +1

    Both retired 2 years apart 3 and 5 years ago.
    Net worth is not a very useful metric.
    Having little to no debt solves most problems, and all but eliminates concerns about portfolios and taxes. We are currently spending nearly triple our base “survival” income, yet our base income is nearly covered by Social Security even though only one of us is drawing it for another 5 years.
    More important than net worth, is liquid assets and cash flow. A budget and an understanding of current and future spending makes all this much easier.
    No real regrets. We both love retirement!
    Life has slowed to a pleasant pace. Stress has mostly disappeared.
    Never bored, but we both tend to be active thinkers with a lot of interests.
    Negatives are few, but did include some difficulty with social life which has been a transition from the working years.
    Advice to those not retired is to do it as soon as possible. We are still watching friends, family, and acquaintances waiting for all the stars to be aligned. A big mistake as we also encounter people whose health takes a turn way before anticipated.
    If you think you might be ready, you most likely are, and in retrospect, we could have easily retired before we did at age 62.

  • @llhouser1
    @llhouser1 2 месяца назад +1

    I retired at 67, I’m just turning 70 in October. I have a small pension, SS and a 401k. My wife is still working for another year, full time anyway. The main thing is to have no debt when you retire. Our house is paid off, we paid cash for our cars and all credit cards are paid off every month.

  • @Mach11976
    @Mach11976 2 месяца назад +1

    Retired at 62 but still worked under the table for 3 years. Now at 65 I work a part time job at a local hospital and it's the best thing I could have done for my mental health. Don't make that big SSI check, but this helps with the extras. Lucky to live in a Veteran supported Apt in the middle of Illinois rural community and I love it.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Mach: glad you found a path to happiness.

    • @Mach11976
      @Mach11976 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 I really do, and enjoyed your video. Gave me some information.

  • @johncarlson6472
    @johncarlson6472 2 месяца назад +1

    Regarding boredom and/or loneliness, I wish every young man would live alone for a few years in order to understand solitude isn't the big boogeyman we're told it is, when in fact, it's quite healthy. I have family and friends and love them, but find the longer I'm around people, the more drained I can get. I can't recall how many times I've visited married friends, only to have them engage in petty conflicts because they have an audience (me). Needless to say, I feel so grateful when driving back to my peaceful home to reflect and re-charge.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      John: some people can be happy alone. Many can't. The key is knowing which one you will be.

    • @johncarlson6472
      @johncarlson6472 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 You're right. It's just unfortunate some folks are so erroneously fearful of being alone, they'll choose to live with someone who, at best, isn't a good fit for them or, at worst, is outright destructive to the relationship.

  • @billyrayband
    @billyrayband 2 месяца назад +2

    Do it with zero debt, that gets rid of a lot of worries. If you are in your 60s, try to keep your feet in the market, don't follow traditional advice and pull out too soon. I think for most taking SS at about 65-67 is the way to go, I don't like the 62ers unless your health is bad. Waiting to 70 is really about your spouses SS and health. If you are trying to retire around 55-59, you want to keep a 401K plan with some money in it, as you can withdraw from it sooner than an IRA.

  • @jalbert472
    @jalbert472 2 месяца назад +1

    Great channel! I just retired a couple months ago. Really feels like a conversation here. Love how you address issues retirees share. Like Rob Berger too. Keep it up!!

  • @ryanretirement6662
    @ryanretirement6662 2 месяца назад +1

    I retired at 33 years old i am 37 years old now. I never regret retired early at all. I work at the job i hated for 12 years i finally escape the rat race. Doing my retirement i go camping, hunting deer, hiking, fishing and travel to different country 2 time a year.

    • @sonhuynh8222
      @sonhuynh8222 2 месяца назад

      Retired at 33? Wtf did you do for a living? Inheritance….✌🏽

    • @ryanretirement6662
      @ryanretirement6662 2 месяца назад

      @@sonhuynh8222 I get rich investing crypto.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      ryan: you must have made a fortune and invested well. A 50 year retirement is very difficult to fund and your SS probably won't be much.

    • @jackbauer9347
      @jackbauer9347 2 месяца назад +1

      And what do you about health care son?

  • @alanhill2508
    @alanhill2508 2 месяца назад +1

    Like you, I hit my 2 year mark in retirement this year. It's been mostly great. I still toy with the idea of going back to work part time. I was a surgical nurse, and it was a very cool job. But also physically demanding, esp for someone over 60. Every day I worked was a day I had a sore back. I miss the environment, though, and the money was good. Knowing I could easily get another position makes me feel like I'm leaving money on the table. But how much is enough, you have to ask yourself? And is it worth worsening old injuries that might then become more problematic when you do actually retire? I decided no, it's not worth it, especially as I had enough to get by. And then when I did the math and realized that working another year or two would have little effect on extending my retirement finances moving forward I stopped feeling like I was cheating myself. I won't plug him here, but there's a financial guy on RUclips I listen to and he said two things that helped me. First, you need to "enjoy the youth of your retirement." You don't know how much time you have left, so don't postpone the things that mean the most to you. Second, he said that when you retire, "you have more time to take care of yourself." Simple, but I had never thought of that. I retired and had more time for exercise and yoga, and within 3 months I felt a definite improvement in my back pain. So my advice is always have a plan, and don't hesitate to execute that plan if you're on track. Retirement is an entirely different phase of life, and in many ways it can be the best one.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      alan: exactly; have a plan. I recently was asked to interview for a job with a $250k base and total comp of over $500k/year possible. I had no interest. The money wouldn't change my life and I dreaded going back to an office.

  • @anniesshenanigans3815
    @anniesshenanigans3815 2 месяца назад +9

    your subscribers seem to all be wealthy and set, even without SS. I guess I don't fit in here. I am not going to have a big pension or 401k. I have a paid off home and will live on SS with a very small savings to start with. Still working at 61 and will work until at least 65.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +6

      annie: I wouldn't say "wealthy" but many of the comments come from people, "well off." That could just be because others don't want to comment if they think they may have not done a good job preparing for retirement. It's selection bias. It's a shame though because I want more people in the middle class to be part of these conversations.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 2 месяца назад

      There will be many like yourself.

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 2 месяца назад +3

      Annie, it sounds like you have done fine. Stay the coarse!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      @@RickMartinRUclips That would be some great timing.

  • @nobodynothing00000
    @nobodynothing00000 2 месяца назад +1

    Right now at age 49, the plan is to retire from Government employment with 22 years of service at 62 YO, and move to Japan (but not Tokyo!) or the Philippine Islands and find some kind of part time employment. For example, what if there was some Hostel in Hiroshima that needed an English speaking front desk associate a few days a week. Who knows what the future will be like in the next 13 years.

  • @Deb1650
    @Deb1650 Месяц назад

    I'm retired and have no time to be bored! I'm so busy! My elderly mother lives with me and I take care of her, I maintain my house, I have yardwork to do, I have a lot of pets to tend to, I have chickens to feed, I go to a Sunday bible study, I go to drop-in ceramics at the Senior Center, sometimes I meet friends for lunch ... the chores and activities are endless. Advice: realize that you have to pay steep taxes when you withdraw from your 401K or IRA!

  • @briang.7206
    @briang.7206 Месяц назад

    I always remember the day my dad retired he was in good spirits. He enjoyed retirement always busy around taking care of the house and yard and had his hobbies. He worked for the post office for 30 yrs.

  • @bradleyvanzile1111
    @bradleyvanzile1111 5 дней назад

    I Retired 17 years ago @ 37 NO REGRETS!!

  • @debbiem73
    @debbiem73 2 месяца назад +1

    I don’t know where I fit with our net worth, we have IRAs and I still contribute to a 401k; but my husband retired last year at 60 - mostly because he couldn’t stand his job anymore. I’m still working but would like to retire at 60 (in 2 1/2 years).
    My plan would be to sell our current home (the big house) and buy something smaller, hopefully pay cash or have a very small mortgage. Have about $400,000 in equity now.
    Concerns: health insurance and eliminating all of our “stuff”.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      debbie: I know we will eventually move into something smaller and my wife will have an issue with selling her "stuff" but then, she is a lot younger than me. Yes, the health insurance issue is very concerning.

    • @randolphh8005
      @randolphh8005 Месяц назад +1

      As long as you can keep your taxable income low, the ACA has been a real boon for early retirees. It literally saved us $30k in premiums over about 4 years. I finally started Medicare this month, and have 4 doctor appointments this month!

  • @anacaona1982
    @anacaona1982 Месяц назад

    Thanks for sharing. I retired a little over a year ago and can relate to everything you have shared here. Thanks for sharing and for the advice.

  • @SecondWindWorkshop
    @SecondWindWorkshop 2 месяца назад +1

    Retired almost seven months ago at 54, so we've had to build a bridge fund to see us through for about six years before we can start accessing retirement funds. We don't have any pensions, but we did load up on 401k and IRA contributions over the years. I'm planning on taking SS at 62 after modeling out our long term view and establishing a break-even point to taking it at 67 or later. 62 still looks fine for me and it gives us a ton of flexibility in the go-go years. We're looking at some extended slow-travel adventures.
    We're gearing up for out first experience with the ACA medical coverage (and we have a 13 year old still living at home) Any tips from any of the folks here who have had to bridge the gap to Medicare with ACA?

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Second: The best way to handle ACA policies is to show a very low income so you get subsidies. The way you do that is by having savings in taxable accounts that you can utilize, as opposed to tax deferred accounts. Taking SS at 62 also won't help the ACA situation.

    • @SecondWindWorkshop
      @SecondWindWorkshop 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 Yeah, that's the one wrinkle I have to keep noodling on...taking SS at 62 and still trying to present lower income to maximize subsidies. We do have some ROTH assets we can tap to balance the income levels out, but we're mostly tax-deferred. I'll keep tinkering with it all as we get closer. That would eat up a lot of our ROTH flexibility for those several years.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      @@SecondWindWorkshop Tax planning is the hardest part of this whole exercise.

  • @dlg5485
    @dlg5485 2 месяца назад +4

    If you're thinking about finances all the time in retirement, you're doing it wrong. The key is to have a detailed plan that's built around your goals and stick to it. The point of developing a good plan, that you reevaluate annually, is to minimize worry, if not eliminate it. This will free you up to just live.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      dlg: after thinking about finances everyday for years and years, it can be difficult to turn it off.

  • @tomf9292
    @tomf9292 2 месяца назад

    Retired this year at 59. Wife is also retired. We spend spring and summer on Cape Cod and the rest in S. Fla. I don’t feel guilty anymore when I do nothing. I worked hard for 41 yrs. We still own rental units that pay all the bills. In FLA we’re in a condo in a 55+ community. Lots of activities to do golf, gym, pool, etc. on CC were in a small house that I maintain. I do enjoy putting around doing little jobs around the house that I didn’t have the time when I was working. We had a larger house on a much larger lot that became overwhelming to maintain ( and clean)so we sold it. I have NO regrets about retiring. DO IT folks. Life’s too short.

  • @scottguitar8168
    @scottguitar8168 Месяц назад

    I am having a very similar experience. Me and the wife live in Florida, I am retired, she is not. We just moved across town last year looking for a larger house with some land and ended up with 2/3 of an acre, something I appreciate more now than when we were looking because there is a lot to take care of (the trees). Luckily the trees are mostly confined to the back third of our lot and we call it our forest. I have developed that laziness you are talking about, but it was only when I decided to oblige my wife and move that it developed. I think the reason, at least for me, is that moving takes a lot out of you and you have this period of disarray where I quit doing certain things in preparation for the move and our new place isn't fully setup like our last place where my wife needs a privacy fence before she will spend more time outside and I need a workshop that is due this Wednesday hopefully. I didn't feel like mowing such a large lawn so paid a kid down the street to mow it for a few months until I finally bought a riding mower and now I actually love mowing the grass. Me and the wife really don't have friends, but we have family that we socialize with.

  • @christanner3761
    @christanner3761 Месяц назад +1

    I am 59 and more than ready to call it a day. But what scares me is my daughter, sons and my wife, staring at me deadpanned and saying "What the f**k are you going to do with all that free time?" It has me a little worried. Thanks for the entertaining video Howard.

    • @alexanderbailey8914
      @alexanderbailey8914 Месяц назад

      I felt the same way when I retired the end of last year. Volunteering and finding a hobby you love, will go a long way. Social interaction is critical during this time.

    • @christanner3761
      @christanner3761 Месяц назад +1

      Thanks for the kind reply

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      chris: If you can't answer their question, maybe you aren't ready to retire.

    • @christanner3761
      @christanner3761 Месяц назад +1

      @@alexanderbailey8914 Thanks for your kind words. I wish we could talk about retirement over a cold beer. Take care.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 Месяц назад

      When l asked my dad how retirement life was years ago after he retired, he told me that he was busier than when he worked a full time job!

  • @BF2021-kf8xz
    @BF2021-kf8xz 2 месяца назад +1

    I'm 55 and would like to retire at 65. The hardest aspect is getting a handle on our expenses. We're a little disorganized, too many accounts, too many credit cards, and wife who tends to spend more than me. And sobering to realize that, unlike younger years in career when you could hope for promotions or bonuses, at 55 I don't see that happening.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      BF: I found that occasionally changing companies helps salary bumps.

    • @BF2021-kf8xz
      @BF2021-kf8xz 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 I’ve done that a few times. I’ve been in current job 4 years and it’s perfect fit. Hoping it’s my last stop.

    • @randolphh8005
      @randolphh8005 Месяц назад

      If you get serious about planning, debt reduction, and saving, you can make a LOT of progress in 10 years.

  • @Csharpflat5
    @Csharpflat5 2 месяца назад +3

    Hard to do I am in a good high paying Engineering contract, lots of hours, Maybe try next year 66 years old is when my UK Social kicks in approx $750 a month, and about $3200 ish from social security….. got a private pensions too from UK about $900 a month….. and rental property. So in good shape with zero debt, maybe defer my social security til 70 but always worry about early death!!!..

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      Csharp: Sounds like you're living the high life.

    • @randolphh8005
      @randolphh8005 Месяц назад

      If you are single there is no reason to wait past FRA to take SS, unless you KNOW you will make 90 plus especially since you don’t need it.

  • @johncarlson6472
    @johncarlson6472 2 месяца назад

    Young men take heed. The younger you are that you realize "things" don't make you happy, the better. From that point on, the world is your oyster. I decided decades ago to live way, way below my means, which allowed me to comfortably retire at 62. The stress reducing aspect of financial stability in retirement and the freedom that comes with it cannot be over-stated.

  • @christopherbilkey5237
    @christopherbilkey5237 2 месяца назад +1

    Now 71 and been retired 6 years. Started SS at 70. I just bought a 25-year period certain annuity with a 7.45% payout rate. I asked you Howard a few months ago if that Annuity was a good idea and your reply was positive. Thanks.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Thanks, Christopher. I hope it works out well for you.

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 2 месяца назад

      I think that annuity will take you to the finish line. Good luck, relax and enjoy.

    • @christopherbilkey5237
      @christopherbilkey5237 2 месяца назад

      @@tombkk1322 Thanks for the comment. People who dismiss annuities don't understand how its benefits fit well for certain periods of life.

    • @joyridle
      @joyridle 2 месяца назад

      @@RetirementTalk43 Where can I get help with my annuities? already been ripped off with one financial person who could make me more money. Where do I go for help?

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      @@joyridle You have to be very careful with annuities. The seller often makes huge commissions at your expense. A good fee only advisor could probably help but understand that only insurance companies sell those products.

  • @Alan-F4
    @Alan-F4 2 месяца назад

    Great Video Howard, Thanks for your Thoughts on Retirement...at least now I know I'm not the only one with the same concerns that you mentioned....Again Thanks and have a Great Day.
    AL

  • @bradk7653
    @bradk7653 2 месяца назад

    I retired 18 months ago, the day I turned 60. This is about the best thing I ever did. Our retirement nest egg up about 20% from the point when I retired. Word of advice: retire as soon as possible, don’t get stuck with the One More Year syndrome.

  • @spainj125
    @spainj125 Месяц назад

    I am not retired yet...but definitely think it is best to think about these things over years before you do, so you have a plan in place. Humans have a built in need to be productive...There are so many things you can do though, that I don't know how people are bored. I've thought 1.) golf lessons and play, 2.) pickleball lessons and play, 3.) get an tutor and learn Spanish or another foreign language, 4.) dance lessons and go to dance. And The final one, which I think is most important and so many overlook...Volunteer!! There are so so many organizations that need help but their prime hours are M-F mornings or afternoons. When we give to others, that gives value and meaning to our lives.

  • @robertglancy4474
    @robertglancy4474 Месяц назад

    I am 65 soon to be 66, I retired a year ago started collecting my SS at 64 because my father died before he was 50 so I wanted to start collecting. I also receive a small pension. But within a couple of months I went back to work part time and will probably do that for a couple of years. Still like to stay active go to the gym and still ride my Harley Davidson and meet up with people on the weekends. I live in Tucson AZ but I'm contemplating a move back to Las Vegas NV where I lived for 28 yrs and I like to gamble a little. But, when I finally pull the plug it's probably going to be in Puerto Penasco Mexico so I will have the beach and ocean to occupy my time with a little cheaper cost of living there, definitely need to stay active and have a plan for sure...Good Luck To You

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      Thanks for your comments Robert. Sounds like a good plan.

  • @willay747
    @willay747 2 месяца назад

    I just retired four weeks ago and I’m trying to keep myself busy, but you’re right there are times of boredom. I also volunteer three days a week part time so that helps!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      willay: bored after just four weeks? Doesn't that feel good this early in retirement?

  • @heymoe1179
    @heymoe1179 2 месяца назад

    I retired on 30 Sep 2021...so almost 3 years now. I am also plan on taking SS at FRA (a year and 10 months to go)...but what makes this all possible is that my house and both vehicles were paid off before I retired. Having zero debt going into retirement made it possible...for me. I think that was the key.

  • @angelabaker8377
    @angelabaker8377 2 месяца назад

    I am 70. Got my first ever ss check. Felt good. I still work. Dropped to part time when I turned 65. Slowly, I'm cutting back hours. I work from home. Next year, I think I'll go to a 4 day work week. Eventually I'll work just 2 or 3 days a week. I am financially secure and love my work.
    Due to arthritis, I have limited mobility. Luckily, I traveled extensively for 35 years, so I have my memories. I'd like to learn to draw and paint, and to become fluent in Italian

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      angel: I'm glad you enjoy work. Nothing wrong with continuing that.

  • @medwayhistory3101
    @medwayhistory3101 2 месяца назад

    I’m working as much as I can in order to retire at age 55, five years from now. In five years, I will not have a mortgage or debt in any form and my defined benefit will be maxed. I am stacking in the stock market but have transitioned to mostly fixed income in my registers accounts that I maximize contributions too each year for the last couple of years. I’m hoping not to retire into a depression!!! Good luck everyone!!!

  • @drfalcon4102
    @drfalcon4102 2 месяца назад +2

    7 years retired,,, sometimes I get a whim to go get a side hustle,, the local Harbor Freight has asked me a few times,, because I know the automotive tool stuff,,,but, im doing ok, can go on a trip now and then, I eat well,,too well at times, and thats my biggest problem, being handicaped, its hard for me to move around , plus im alone,, and yes I get bored and lazy at times, but, I do enjoy not having to get up at 5.30 am

  • @chrisn6585
    @chrisn6585 2 месяца назад

    Retiring in 8 months at 62 and absolutely freaking happy. My work is miserable.
    I will figure things out just fine even if I have to move overseas to another country

  • @JasonSmith-vd1sz
    @JasonSmith-vd1sz Месяц назад

    Enjoyed the video, thank you for your thoughts.

  • @thomasbeaupre7891
    @thomasbeaupre7891 2 месяца назад

    Thanks Howard..Just watched having my morning Java. Having a pool in the yard with trees and a home that needs upkeep is a great way to live. Maintenance of it can be a form of exercise at your own pace. Plus it sounds like you have the money to pay for the dangerous stuff like climbing high on a ladder..Having enough money is key..I went to bed 6 months ago with no intention or even thought of retiring. I awake and out of the blue i decided to retire..Call my company and was told just send us an email in writing and you're free to leave. I had a great financial plan that allowed me to quit on a whim. But I did not have a plan on what i'd do with my time..And I have excelled at thinking, then doing things that i enjoy. You are not lazy. If you were lazy you would not be in the position to retire.Enjoy what you have earned Howard

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Thanks for watching and your comments, Thomas.

    • @thruthefirepubl
      @thruthefirepubl 2 месяца назад

      Home maintenance is a great form of exercise. I mow the grass and weed and edge by hand. I'm sure my neighbors think I'm nuts. Admittedly, I am...

  • @mikemcclellan2236
    @mikemcclellan2236 2 месяца назад +1

    There’s no sense of urgency anymore. You think you can “just get to it” anytime when you’re retired…

  • @BillVerdon
    @BillVerdon 2 месяца назад +1

    subb'd... love Otter.... cool pup. You have the exact same mindset I have. I am still working (57) but these are the many things I consider/ponder as I plan for my retirement...

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Bill: thanks for joining us and I welcome your comments.

  • @QuallsJohn
    @QuallsJohn Месяц назад

    Congratulation on your retirement seems very reasonable. I plan to draft a plan for 65 but 67 more like it for me with paying off my condo. The way I see it money I invest and save next few years will be spent to bridge until FRA or 70.

  • @dean2663
    @dean2663 Месяц назад

    Retired at 62 two months ago. Was planning on working a couple more years but was offered severance so took it. Have more than enough so I don’t have to work again, but I’m so bored! I’ve done some traveling but it’s not enough. I too find myself not necessarily lazy but let’s call it unmotivated. When I worked I was structured. Now there’s no urgency for anything so no adrenaline to push me. I may go back to work…

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      dean: I understand that completely. If I didn't have softball to occupy much of my time, I would probably turn to golf but beyond that, I would need to find something fulfilling.

  • @gt88sd
    @gt88sd Месяц назад

    Randomly found this thanks for sharing. Although I’m about a decade away I already am at least thinking about these life changes.
    My view is one has to plan years ahead fixing the home getting a new car while working with income have all debts paid etc
    And not running at full speed and then suddenly taking an off ramp to retirement one day. I see it as a years long preparation and transition!

  • @candeffect
    @candeffect Месяц назад

    Houses have zero value until sold and are money drains: interest paid + property tax + repair costs + etc.
    Liquid assets (IRAs) have real value since the assets can be quickly sold for cash.
    No one is legally obligated to buy your house.

  • @SunRay-57
    @SunRay-57 2 месяца назад

    Retired January 13, 2023. Loving it.

  • @bradleyvanzile1111
    @bradleyvanzile1111 2 месяца назад

    I am 54 and I have been retired 17 years on SSDI and have no regrets!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      bradley: If you don't mind me asking, what is your disability? How does it affect your hopes for longevity?

  • @ClutchCarson
    @ClutchCarson 2 месяца назад

    🎊 congratulations on 2 years. In 64 next month but gonna hold out as long as I can for max SS. By my calculations my SS at 70 along with my assets will alow me to be able t I do as I please at the same standard of living as I have now. Love your channel, been watching since you started. I use playing a lot of pool and going to the gym 🏋️‍♂️ as boredom breakers. Peace!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Clutch: Thanks for watching and your comments.

  • @MrOlaboss
    @MrOlaboss Месяц назад

    Hello Howard, I am in the planning stages for retirement. My problem is that half my working life was in Sweden and half here in USA, I have no idea who to talk to about retirement planning because of this.
    Are there CFP’s with specialty in such area?

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад +1

      Olaboss: I don't think it matters unless you have some special kind of pension or retirement fund in Sweden that you can't transfer here.

  • @jimjohnson7237
    @jimjohnson7237 2 месяца назад +4

    Good info. Thanks.

  • @52CA
    @52CA 2 месяца назад

    I had decided to quit my job of 37yrs this past March 29th. March 18th the dept shut down in complete surprise to everyone. I too was in a position of really good pay and I was questioning why I would quit something that was easy to me and paid well. I almost feel lucky the decision got made for me and of course the severance I got that I wouldn’t have got.
    My plan was to ride out the next 6 yrs till 67 without any income. I have a side business and we need very little money to survive in our location. Once we get to SS my portfolio should be nearly doubled and our SS plus spousal will itself be more than we have ever lived on in the past.

  • @1WHATSUP1
    @1WHATSUP1 Месяц назад

    WHEN I WAS GROWING UP MY FATHER'S FRIENDS DIED JUST B4 OR AFTER THEY RETIRED!!

  • @stargells1384
    @stargells1384 2 месяца назад

    I retired at 59, and have loved every minute of it. I had a very physical job, many injuries. I went out on SSI disability. So I had that, my pension with medical and dental. For the last 8 years I have made as much as if I worked. My problem with waiting till your 70 is, I have 3 siblings who died before they were 60. I still have 3 sister 59 to 73. I have made about 300K from SSI in those 8 years. My point is you never know when your number is called. Just a thought.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад +1

      stargells: If you have a family history of early death, yeah, that changes your outlook.

  • @ivearies4187
    @ivearies4187 2 месяца назад

    Hood for you! I am 55 and wish I could retire NOW. I am a master when it comes to finding something to do. I am not planning to have a full time job after 65. No way! Enjoy retirement!

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      If you have a job, you aren't really retired.

  • @larriveeman
    @larriveeman 2 месяца назад

    I also retired 2 years ago ( at 63) , have had no financial issues, as we have no debt, 2 federal pensions with health insurance at the same premium we had while working, and SS ( start at FRA, wife is taking now), plus out TSP/IRA which we don't use, I realize most people don't have a pension, I was a contractor then went to the feds, bought back my military time and retired with 40 years of service, our outcomes are usually a result of the choices we make

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      larriveeman: You did an excellent job of preparing yourselves for retirement.

  • @Pyrolonn
    @Pyrolonn Месяц назад

    You should take the social security. You get a larger monthly amount if you wait, but it is nothing magical they are basing it on how long they expect you to live. There really isn't any other penalty.
    I'm not retried and won't be for years, but during COVID I was off 5 months (with generous unemployment, thanks Uncle Sam!) and I call it my "mini retirement". I have an old house with a massive organization duty cycle that I took on during those months. Laziness is definitely a cruel mistress when you either have large blocks of time off. At first I had a tenancy to either sleep or pitter in bed until 11:00. Eventually I was able to take the bull by the horns and make sure I'm up at 9:00. I did get a lot done during my time, but still probably wasted more time because "there's always tomorrow to do something". When I retire for real, I intend to make a checklist of things I want and need to do including my hobbies and make sure they get done.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      Pyrolon: you'll be surprised how quickly you forget to write out your checklist once you are retired.

  • @josefperry3836
    @josefperry3836 Месяц назад

    I define retirement as a state where you love what you're doing. If you work 60 hours a week and you love it a lot, you're retired. I know a 21 year old who is "retired." He says he loves doing nothing.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      josef: I'll stick with the traditional definition.

  • @thruthefirepubl
    @thruthefirepubl 2 месяца назад

    Engaging comments section. Good job Howard. BTW, Otter is so healthy he shines! You win the blue ribbon award for best pet parent.🥇

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Thanks. I don't know if Otter would agree though. He wants more walkies, even when it's 95 degrees.

  • @rovvt1284
    @rovvt1284 2 месяца назад +4

    I get all my financial advice from Sarasota Tim

    • @thruthefirepubl
      @thruthefirepubl 2 месяца назад +2

      I get advice from ST on minimalism and how to be the best RV'er anyone has ever seen in their life.

    • @Prograssive
      @Prograssive 2 месяца назад

      Yep, ol' Timmy gives excellent tutorials on how to not let money burn a hole in your pocket

  • @christopherstimpson6540
    @christopherstimpson6540 Месяц назад

    Many people make huge money by age 40 and are technically retired as they don't need to work, but they still do. Many at age 70 are still working on projects and being very productive. So I'm not completely sure what to call retirement if you still have fun and make some money?

  • @RogerChu-l4p
    @RogerChu-l4p 2 месяца назад

    I think I learned more about you and your situation and advice on your channel than ever before. Lol. Hope all is well.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      Roger: All that time sitting together and you didn't learn anything?

  • @BoninBrighton
    @BoninBrighton Месяц назад

    We retired at age 60 so 6 years ago now….
    Regrets:
    1. We didn’t start learning to play Saxophone until Covid lockdown in 2020 but I wish we’d started as soon as we retired as we’d be 2 years better than we are!
    2. I wasted money and time ‘having lunch out’ with friends… it’s far cheaper and healthier to meet up for long walks and take a picnic!
    3. Stop buying clothes you don’t need in retirement and are better suited to the workplace…

  • @Haircare-rz4qg
    @Haircare-rz4qg Месяц назад

    Thinking about retiring? Read the obituaries and for each death, write down their age. Do this for 30 days…every day.
    Add all ages from day 1- day 30. (The sum)
    Divide sum by 30.
    If your answer is less than 62, those people will never receive a SSI check.
    It will also give you an idea as to a retirement age between 62 and 70.
    Make your own decision . Regardless of the eligible age to receive SSI, 62 would be my choice for I know too many friends who never saw their retirement pension or SSI check. Sad..but true. JMO

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  Месяц назад

      Haircare: First, we are talking about Social Security retirement benefits, not SSI, which is a needs based program. Second, why try to gather stats yourself, when actuaries have already done so. If you are a male at age 62, understand that your cohort has an average life expectancy of 19 more years.

  • @jasonoki
    @jasonoki 2 месяца назад

    Awesome for you. Right now I have a great work-life balance love my work so I guess I'll keep working. Financially I probably can retire, but not knowing what to do with all of the time that work takes up worries me. thanks for the video.

    • @RetirementTalk43
      @RetirementTalk43  2 месяца назад

      jasonoki: you'll know when the time is right.