Repairing the Stone of a Baby Boy

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @annebruecks7381
    @annebruecks7381 2 года назад +99

    They obviously loved their little boy, they certainly spent a literal fortune on his headstone. The fact that you came along to fix it 120 (!!) years later would make them very happy. I know I'm very somber and touched watching this unfold. What a remarkable thing to do.

  • @scottydwallace
    @scottydwallace Год назад +30

    As someone that had a very young son die, this filled my heart with joy. As a parent you never want people to forget what a great little person you had. You are a very nice man. Thank you.

  • @paulajarman9314
    @paulajarman9314 2 года назад +65

    What an amazing thing to do, As a Jewish person, one of the most selfless things is to do something for someone who can never repay it. This is wonderful. Thank you

  • @michaelritter8248
    @michaelritter8248 Год назад +20

    Thank you for what you're doing. I'm sure if the family were alive today, they'd thank you too. Very awesome, buddy.

  • @moonbeam7702
    @moonbeam7702 Год назад +14

    This video nearly made me cry. Restoring old gravestones to their original condition is such a beautiful thing. Don’t ever stop 😊❤️

  • @ARSENICKMUSIC
    @ARSENICKMUSIC 2 года назад +37

    Man. I have the utmost RESPECT for you and what you stand for. It's easy to just let these gravestones crumble and waste. The respect you show for those who have passed is something truly inspiring and warms my heart. Restores a bit of my faith in humanity that there are people out there still willing to do something that does not benefit them just for the right reasons. You are a pure man and there are not many of those left. Cheers to you brother.

  • @cemeteryrestoration5502
    @cemeteryrestoration5502 11 месяцев назад +2

    A floating foundation is the best way to go with headstones like this. They are very stable and prevent the frost heave.

  • @halleylujah247
    @halleylujah247 2 года назад +76

    I love what you are doing. In Catholicism this is a work of mercy included in burying the dead. I also pray for the people who have died.

  • @KaquolMeliReno
    @KaquolMeliReno 10 месяцев назад +9

    I used to walk through grave yards because it’s very peaceful, one day my husband and I saw a baby’s grave that had a posted note on it. We read it and it broke my heart. It said, we love you Ashly! She was very little. I’m 70 now and have never forgot. I still walk through grave yards but now I walk alone. My husband passed away 30 odd years ago! I feel very sad when I see broken headstones. Thank you so very much for the work you do to restore them. God bless you always. I’ll never have a headstone, I plan to be cremated and my ashes placed ne’er my Mama and grandson in our privet family cemetery. Again, thank you ♥️

  • @Morrisonsgirlfriendforever1971
    @Morrisonsgirlfriendforever1971 2 года назад +29

    I absolutely love your channel . I clean old forgotten graves and I see the beauty in your work and so does God. 😊

  • @Dr.RatioSnail
    @Dr.RatioSnail 2 года назад +12

    Tombstone restoration is interesting to watch.

  • @AnchorsAweighNarooma
    @AnchorsAweighNarooma Год назад +2

    You are a good caring human being, thank you...for the insight and the detail of the person passed.

  • @stevenbuck4090
    @stevenbuck4090 Год назад +7

    This one nearly made me cry. Great job. I'm sure mum and dad would be very proud.

  • @Canuckmom128
    @Canuckmom128 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wade - I read a comment that suggested your RUclips name should say “Restorer” as opposed to Cleaner. I have to say I agree. I can’t help think that all these monuments of babies and children that you repair, become your “Angel Squad” as you continue this kind, selfless and important work. Blessings to you. 😇🙏🏻

  • @Gretchen-vh9xt
    @Gretchen-vh9xt Год назад +1

    This was a lot of physical work. Thank you for all you do.

  • @annpriddy7941
    @annpriddy7941 2 года назад +21

    What you do is truly a labor of love. 💙

  • @ginger_nosoul
    @ginger_nosoul 2 года назад +6

    Im not religious but i still wish people have the baruel they want. Good work sir.

  • @cindyrissal3628
    @cindyrissal3628 Год назад +3

    Bless you for what you're doing. So sad that the poor little guy didn't have a chance to live & grow & become. Hopefully there are relatives somewhere that will visit him...

  • @vwgirlbeth
    @vwgirlbeth 2 года назад +6

    Watching your work makes me smile. I'm a hospice nurse who can't work due to an injury. If I had the know how I would absolutely be doing something like you are.

  • @jeffb.2257
    @jeffb.2257 2 года назад +23

    I always learn something from your videos, thank you. I especially appreciate your explanations and the before, during and after reveals. Amazing. I wish I was able to do this restoration for my family.

  • @lillypad9960
    @lillypad9960 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for your kindness. Blessings from Michigan.

  • @southsidekarl
    @southsidekarl 2 года назад +9

    I love these clips, my wife thought I was crazy cleaning these markers but when I should her these, she saw me in a different light. Thanks for these . If you want to come to Orlando I have a crew who would be interested

    • @cemeteryrestoration5502
      @cemeteryrestoration5502 11 месяцев назад

      Keep in mind that not all gravestones should be cleaned. Depending on the stone's material, you can do more damage than good. Please be careful and make sure you are trained by a professional before attempting to clean a headstone.

  • @hellynnwheels6819
    @hellynnwheels6819 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for the love and honor of these dear ones.❤

  • @MK-ti2oo
    @MK-ti2oo Год назад +4

    Crazy to think it's quite likely that no one has been to visit this grave in a century. I've loved these old graves since I was a kid and did stone rubbings often as a teen, I still find them beautiful and my husband and I love to find the hidden little graveyards in the middle of nowhere when we're traveling and walk through them reading the stones. Like this one though, I often wonder if it'll be another hundred before anyone looks at it again, if ever.

  • @debbiemichaels4632
    @debbiemichaels4632 Год назад +3

    I am sure that little boy's parents and he are smiling from above

  • @arkansasboy45
    @arkansasboy45 Год назад +3

    What a nice job on the little fellas headstone.
    Can you show how you connected your A-frame?

  • @carolk5770
    @carolk5770 2 года назад +10

    I love that you do this wonderful work for those who have passed long ago..and for the families. God bless you. He sees what you do. 😇🙏♥️

  • @mygrammieis
    @mygrammieis Год назад +1

    Much appreciated and respect ✊🕊💯🤲So much research-And repairs and editing to produce each video💯🤲✊

  • @nothingtosee.942
    @nothingtosee.942 2 года назад +11

    I have seen you doing this wonderful work before and my daughter just text me this video, so I had to find you on social media and I DID 😊 now I can see you all the time. Keep going young man 🤗

  • @chrispenix4918
    @chrispenix4918 Год назад +6

    I really do appreciate and love what you do for these families loved ones that have passed. I know that baby passed away well over 100 years ago but if it had been my child and I knew that you had done this for my child it would move me in touch me profoundly. The dead deserve our respect, just as much as the living. If not more. Keep doing what you're doing. You're an inspiration and I really want to continue what you do up here in Michigan

  • @sunflowersue9003
    @sunflowersue9003 Год назад +4

    Oh how I wish there was an organization out of San Diego who are my eldest brother died as an infant. He was a born and died before I was born. Found his name and Family Bible one day. Mom did not want to talk about it. Didn't know how painful it was. Went on my own to find his burial site found he had a plain flat marker that was flaking damaged by perhaps lawn mowers total disrepair After mom passed talk to Dad about replacing it he didn't want to deal with it. When Dad passed talk to my brother about sharing cost. He told me that he didn't want to waste his inheritance money. Now I am disabled in a rehab hospital over a year desperately love to see that marker replaced is there a organization that can help?

  • @scottemery4737
    @scottemery4737 Год назад +5

    When you close the crack by putting epoxy or mortar into it, that also prevents water from just running into the center of the base and causing further problems.

    • @cemeteryrestoration5502
      @cemeteryrestoration5502 11 месяцев назад

      Epoxy should never be used on a headstone when putting the sections together.

  • @cjbritish9264
    @cjbritish9264 Год назад +3

    I’ve been watching your videos for quite some time now, and I just want to say you are truly a fantastic person for fixing graves.. you truly are Saint
    for doing that!

  • @adriennenelson759
    @adriennenelson759 Год назад +4

    I am curious where in Minnesota you are. This cemetery looks familiar.

    • @semperfi5861
      @semperfi5861 Год назад +2

      I was going to ask him the same question. I also live in MN. I would like to help him and learn how to do this, and if there's a certification I could get for this. At least once every month I dig out and clean off gravestones.

  • @CherylA.Murten
    @CherylA.Murten Год назад +1

    Where were you when I was young 🌱

  • @marcusbuckner5582
    @marcusbuckner5582 2 года назад +3

    God bless and may He reward your efforts a hundredfold. We realize that you're doing it because it needs to be done.......Lord, send me.............

  • @thecottage4493
    @thecottage4493 Год назад +5

    Great work! I see MonuGrid is made in Canada, where did you get it?

  • @jamesfrancismchalejr7944
    @jamesfrancismchalejr7944 Год назад +4

    There are beautiful cemeterys all over the world 🌎! Beautiful places to visit. the history and art work is incredible and breathtaking. Some are well manicured & others in some cases in disarray! But i am always honored to be a passerby until my time comes

  • @daleromdenne
    @daleromdenne Год назад +2

    I love doing this. ❤
    D/2 cleaning is good.
    I can’t do a as many as I would love to
    because I only can afford small amounts
    of the cleaner at a time.
    Thanks for sharing &
    Thanks for all your hard work.

  • @cathyslaton9998
    @cathyslaton9998 Год назад +2

    Beautiful work ! Thank you for restoring this headstone . I find it odd that the mother or father is not buried near their child 😢

  • @mareathabaker2607
    @mareathabaker2607 7 месяцев назад

    The church I belong to has a small cemetery with graves from the 1800s. Our Boy Scout troop has repair many of the headstones and do much of the upkeep. Thank you for your caring and work.

  • @dianeolsem8474
    @dianeolsem8474 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for what you do.

  • @lillypad9960
    @lillypad9960 2 года назад +7

    God bless what you're doing. Thank you.

  • @lisafrizzell1252
    @lisafrizzell1252 Год назад +3

    What a beautiful job you did

  • @lesley.brennan10
    @lesley.brennan10 2 года назад +4

    I love watching your videos and you show so much respect to the graves you are a true blessing from Sydney Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️ 💗

  • @j.settle6448
    @j.settle6448 Год назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @jgeorgetx
    @jgeorgetx 2 года назад +6

    About how long did this project take you? If it had required cleaning AND repair, would you have cleaned prior to putting the top part back onto the base?

  • @stellafreeman7964
    @stellafreeman7964 Год назад +2

    What a beautiful job you do

  • @timothyshortnacy7550
    @timothyshortnacy7550 Год назад +2

    I think you are just awesome.

  • @beta1451
    @beta1451 Год назад +4

    that tripod makes them stones look like they are made of
    foam

  • @johnsuda8793
    @johnsuda8793 Год назад +2

    You are so kind to people that died I will pray for you in my prayers 😊we love you

  • @betsyskae4116
    @betsyskae4116 Год назад +1

    Beautiful work ❤

  • @debishaw9355
    @debishaw9355 8 месяцев назад +1

    I just imagine the sadness that must have surrounded that very area he was working. But now, Angels rejoicing.

  • @erinwalsh7124
    @erinwalsh7124 2 года назад +4

    Is this volunteer or do you get paid? Regardless, this is like watching landscaping videos for me. I am happy I found your channel

  • @shelleywalker4893
    @shelleywalker4893 Год назад +2

    Where do you find the cemeteries and headstones that you are allowed to go in and do the work you do? Here where I live in Florida this is against the law.

    • @rlewis1946
      @rlewis1946 11 месяцев назад +1

      That is a sad State of Affairs.
      I believe you must get permission from the grave/plot owner, which can be very hard to do.
      “Grave/ Plot: A specific, identifiable, site within a cemetery designated to serve as the final resting place for casketed of cremated remains.”
      RL

  • @corvettelady58
    @corvettelady58 Год назад +2

    What’s the best product to clean monuments? Went to cemetery Friday and nearly all my families needs cleaning!

    • @kimfleury
      @kimfleury Год назад

      There's another RUclips channel run by a traditional gravestone carver and restorer. He's got some videos giving tips on cleaning them. I'm blanking on the name of the channel, but if you search for how to clean gravestones (or headstones, or grave markers) it should come up. You could also try searching for gravestone carver. There aren't too many of those.

    • @chag1pyk5
      @chag1pyk5 8 месяцев назад

      D2 is what many cemeteries use. Gets rid of the biological stuff like mold and is safe for the headstones

  • @markwhitcombe8670
    @markwhitcombe8670 7 месяцев назад

    You have my up most respect for what you do to repair and replace fallen headstones you are amazing gentleman

  • @laurarobben4584
    @laurarobben4584 2 года назад +3

    You are such a good guy, doing great things. It is appreciated.

  • @dcarson7870
    @dcarson7870 2 года назад +3

    Beautiful work and beautiful human! 👑🙏🏼

  • @aussietechie6625
    @aussietechie6625 2 года назад +3

    Respect your hard work!

  • @anitaludovici2859
    @anitaludovici2859 Год назад +2

    Wow. That was amazing. Another wonderful job. God Bless you.

  • @danielcovel6236
    @danielcovel6236 4 месяца назад

    Enjoy the soft background music

  • @suzanneadams9371
    @suzanneadams9371 Год назад +1

    Thank you! On so, so, so many levels!!!!

  • @lauralake7430
    @lauralake7430 7 месяцев назад

    Your lifting techniques are like geometry class brought to life. Along with your work being beautiful❤

  • @Midwest116
    @Midwest116 Год назад +2

    Very touching. Great work

  • @muhammadalivssonny
    @muhammadalivssonny 2 года назад +2

    Fantastic work bud!

  • @IrishAnnie
    @IrishAnnie 8 месяцев назад

    God Bless you for restoring this stone. His parents in heaven are rejoicing!! That was a lot of work. Great job!

  • @j.settle6448
    @j.settle6448 Год назад +2

    Thanks for what you do!

  • @mariarodriquez5622
    @mariarodriquez5622 Год назад

    Thier is good spirits around you. They are looking at you work silently. Bkessings.Hola. maria and my spoiled doggie Tiny Land from Phoenix, Arizona.

  • @jimhigginbotham7974
    @jimhigginbotham7974 Год назад +2

    I love what you are doing God bless you and your family

  • @alaingillot4718
    @alaingillot4718 15 дней назад

    2 part epoxy that you mix would have been my choice . Also there are various construction adhesive that work well . One is Loctite PL 530 and others .2 part epoxy called instant install 29 work best , but pricey .

  • @petecharron3595
    @petecharron3595 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for your great work, it is very much appreciated.

  • @howardtaylorjr.4593
    @howardtaylorjr.4593 3 месяца назад

    Great job on this stone repair!

  • @brianlanglois4086
    @brianlanglois4086 Год назад

    My brother GOD is smiling down on you...

  • @sarahturan1985
    @sarahturan1985 6 месяцев назад

    I subscribed to your channel just today, and I wanted to say that the work you're doing is amazing and so kind!

  • @juliashaw8268
    @juliashaw8268 8 месяцев назад

    You are doing a wonderful job. Such a giving thing to do. I hope as a bonus you are making great money too. I admire you.

  • @geraldblackburn4883
    @geraldblackburn4883 Год назад

    subbed- I have too many, and only time to watch a few, but you did a great job, only thing I would have done different is drill a few holes in the base and added dowels and then used about 10 tubes of epoxy !

  • @deborahsteele9185
    @deborahsteele9185 Год назад +1

    Beautiful thank you god bless 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @ravenmckinnon5526
    @ravenmckinnon5526 Год назад

    One flower would have been a great final touch

  • @cindimccollum6134
    @cindimccollum6134 2 года назад +2

    Where do you find these? Where is this.

  • @abderrazakmekhalfia8990
    @abderrazakmekhalfia8990 Год назад +1

    Well done !!

  • @karenbeautiful
    @karenbeautiful 7 месяцев назад

    Jesus and the family are smiling.❤

  • @justincase2281
    @justincase2281 Год назад

    I think what you do is wonderful. Love your vids. I would like to get into this work. What would be the best way to begin, in your opinion?
    God bless that baby boy, and you for caring so much.🙏✝️❤️

  • @alipeacock3685
    @alipeacock3685 8 месяцев назад

    Massive respect to you ❤

  • @kathleendaugherty4218
    @kathleendaugherty4218 2 года назад +1

    Another awesome job. God bless you.

  • @williamfindspeople4341
    @williamfindspeople4341 7 месяцев назад

    I'm a professional genealogist and archivest and run into these issues all the time. Children who died very quickly the families were not prepared for a burial and put them were ever a plot was available. My great-grandfather had two families and everyone is buried all over North America.

  • @margemiller5503
    @margemiller5503 Год назад +1

    God bless you❤

  • @jamieredmond9656
    @jamieredmond9656 8 месяцев назад

    this is awesome! you do beautiful work!

  • @bevfrench3496
    @bevfrench3496 Год назад +2

    is there a reason you can't put the epoxy on the top of the stone and then sit the upper one on top? must be a reason , right?

  • @PAC56
    @PAC56 8 месяцев назад

    At first I was horrified that you were disturbing the grave sites of people you did not know. As I watched the video that shifted to admiration as I watched you honor a child’s memory for a family long gone.

  • @beckysnead8914
    @beckysnead8914 7 месяцев назад

    Earned grace. What type and style of headstone would you purchase knowing what you know now?

  • @billbucktube
    @billbucktube Год назад

    We have several 6’ by 1.5’ by 8” thick stones in the family that need leveling. Do you have a video that shows various ways to lift (I like your tripod/coffin hoist!) and level wide in-ground stones? Or maybe another channel?

  • @relicrecoveryspecialist16
    @relicrecoveryspecialist16 6 месяцев назад

    Are you leaving the little lead pieces in place for good, like are they one time use only on the headstone or you pull them back out?

  • @b.2194
    @b.2194 8 месяцев назад

    Wow🎉wonderful🎉

  • @relicrecoveryspecialist16
    @relicrecoveryspecialist16 7 месяцев назад

    What putty are you using there to join it. What’s the more liquid like 2 part one you use the spoons on too

  • @shesforgivennfree
    @shesforgivennfree 8 месяцев назад

    How long have you been doing this and how do you decide which headstones to repair😊

  • @gregb2830
    @gregb2830 9 месяцев назад

    May I ask what putty you use, as I've tried Milliputty and not had good results

  • @jerrycundiff8334
    @jerrycundiff8334 8 месяцев назад +1

    I lost a 5 year old daughter in 1990. I would like to think if her headstone was damaged someone would make repairs for her.

  • @younglivingmargo
    @younglivingmargo Год назад +1

    Can i ask, is this your full time job? Do you get paid to do thos is do you do it all for the love of doing it? Im just curious . Thank you ❤

  • @phoebesmith9089
    @phoebesmith9089 Год назад +2

    A 52 yo woman and 59 yo man having a child - the child likely had birth defects. Poor woman. I wonder how many other children she had and how long she lived...

    • @kimfleury
      @kimfleury Год назад +1

      I think they died at those ages. Not too many people that age move away to another town, especially not back then. They're not buried by their baby, so they must have moved away, and were probably young then.