Two Babies in 9 Months | My Pregnancy Stories |
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2016
- This is the story of the pregnancy of Nahla and Jaden, my two kids. They were born exactly 9 months and 2 weeks apart. There is some footage from the actual birth in this video... along with a bunch of photos.
This was highly requested, which is why I chose to film it. Questions and comments are welcomed, please try to be respectful.
OH also, I meant that I went in to labor at 33/34 weeks, not 32. My bad. I just noticed that while I was watching -post upload.
Enjoy!
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The first time I had sex after having my baby girl I was in so much pain and I didn't even need to tell my partner. He pulled out, gave me a kiss and said he doesn't want to hurt me. Then I cried because I felt bad, he just hugged me and said it doesn't matter and he loves me..... now that is exactly what your partner should of done.
My thoughts exactly. The first time we tried was quite a long time after I gave birth, because I got meningitis not long after my daughter was born so had been in a pretty shabby state for some time, but when my partner sensed that I was tense and apprehensive as he was about to “enter” (apologies for the TMI) he said he couldn’t go any further, and let’s just say that there was physical evidence of that. Disturbing to hear this woman’s story and that her partner happily ploughed away while she was in pain.
That's what a real man does.
@@kcv0605 I'm had that your partner was a gentleman as well. He clearly loves you like the way my partner loves me. It's a shame that some people out there are clearly with or were with the wrong person.
I had torn very badly (front to back) so I had a lot of stitches which took a long time to heel and they 're opened up at one point and I needed more work done. The slightest movement felt like squeezing lemon onto a papercut, so when we attempted sex you can imagine the pain.
A real man can wait, Esspecially if he loves and respects you xxx
@@jeaninepetty4923 I'm glad I got myself a real man. We're a team and we love and respect each other. That's the way it should be in every relationship ^^! Xx
@@lauraverrall5693 I'm glad for you. You deserve it. My heart is still broken from watching that video where that poor girl talks about terrible things like they're normal from beginning to end. I hope she found a real man or realized being single is totally an option...and won't get her pregnant! God, that poor girl
I'm disturbed that he kept having sex til he finished even though you were in so much pain.
Same, I don’t think the boyfriend is such a great person for her..
or a great person full stop @@senin8126 but gladly it's not her boyfriend anymore
Yeah
Yeah that's pretty sick.
Sadly it’s how many women are conditioned to view sex
I've been having baby fever for months and all of a sudden I'm terrified that I may get pregnant. Thank you so much for this free birth control.
Julia Leigh Pregnancy was nothing like I thought it would be, 9 months of agony for me 😩 stay on birth control until you're fully ready
Julia Leigh you made me laugh soooo hard. Oh my word!
lolololololol
Don’t ever voluntarily give up your freedom. You can control your primal instincts to reproduce.
Candi Lease Do you ever regret it?
I will be damned if my partner tells me he's not going to wear a condom after I tell him I'm off the pill
No Glove=No Love
Sure
I am not getting pregnant because he is not into the condom and it's advantages
Her baby daddy is very selfish and not respectful of her.
I couldn’t agree more. It makes me face palm 🤦🏻♀️ that they both decided that. The baby daddy has no respect, and sounds like he just was concerned about his needs. Horny or not, if your not ready for a baby. Don’t be stupid.
"The kid's dad". I suppose that's over.
Pollyanna Light LMAO my immediate thought. 😂
Pollyanna Light I refer to my partner as my son's dad when I speak of him in relation to my son. Outside of that I call him his name. You're right though, maybe there aren't together.
YES 😂😂😂
If it wasn't she'd have more kids.
She has a new man! Thank God!
When I told my boyfriend I was thinking about getting off birth control. He said okay, do what’s good for you, I’ll wear condoms. This is what a good partner would say. Birth control is not just a woman’s responsibility, I can’t believe she thought it was....
So many things about this are wrong, what is going on. The dad doesn't want to wear a condom so you're just gonna get pregnant like whatever? He doesn't join you at the hospital the first time you bleed because he's at work?? And then you were in pain but he came inside you and got you pregnant AGAIN like whatever?! This guy doesn't deserve those beautiful kids. Definitely doesn't deserve to be with such a patient and loving person. Can't believe you don't seem to see anything wrong with his behaviour :( I really hope you're out of this relationship since you call him "the kids' dad".
TheSeaOnTheMoon Right he sounds like a complete ass.
Yeah he is clearly a self serving douche
They’re not together anymore
@@audreymcneal I know.
Everyone SHOULD know that, if they listened to what she said.
My thoughts exactly. This whole video made me feel disgusted with him.
“It was excruciatingly painful but he climaxed and got me pregnant anyway”
Are . You. Joking
Miranda Marie i
Miranda Marie Right? She tore as badly as she says she did, and she’s having sex at the 5 week checkup? What a fucking selfish man. Not to mention the fact that he wouldn’t wear a condom in the first place. Yuck!
Right?? and she doesn't see anything wrong with that 😔🤔 he basically assaulted her
Lolol
she legit said okay. like its not assault if she consents..painful and fucking stupid or not
this video is birth control. lol this birth control is stronger than an IUD lol
LOLOLOL. PREACH.
Lol!😂
Candace W. yaaaaaasssss lol
Candace W. you think thats bad , my old science teacher told me what happened when his wife gave birth , birth was fine but delivering the placenta it wouldnt come out so they pulled on it and it ripped part of her uterus out meaning she nearly bled to death and had to get surgery
baby jalepeno 😱
After watching this, I'm thankful I got period today.
Lol!!!
😂😂😂 omg
forealll omg
Omg me tooo
Abby Lowe dude it's a joke chill out
I think you were in an abusive relationship...
she def was :(
I don't get why some guys really don't want to put a condom on. seriously. my bf and I always wears one even when i was still on the pills. guys are lame.
Like honestly right. My man wears a condom and I have an iud like what’s the problem with wearing a condom
ewwww condoms
@@honeybee7879 ok that might be a little bit un necessary. Pushing birth control just a little. Would recommend getting off the pill (unless it's for other reasons like pain and acne etc..) and getting an IUD, so your body isn't exposed to hormones for no reason. Also with a vasectomy, a condom might be a little extra, especially since it feels better without one so in that case, might as well enjoy the sex as much as you can ;) Again this is all personal preference, but 3 forms of birth control is pushing it
This is what I say when people say use a condom for unprotected sex for STD's. Men are self centered jerks who won't use them.
I've been with my hubby for 11 years. We dont use condoms. When you only have one partner that's okay to do. I have 1 kid and 1 on the way and both were planned. Were adults and we know how to prevent unplanned pregnancies.
Before the video: 30 minutes! That's to long?
After the video: 30 minutes? That's to short!
You are very easy to listen to! Loved this video!!!
I swear your kids are lucky cause u are an amazing storyteller, bedtime must be awesome for them!! hahahaha you are an amazing woman
Za
Been trying for 6 years. And now finally pregnant... browsing youtube for some tips... now im soooo scared haha
Mizziraa excited for you!!!!!
Aww Congratulations!!
Congrats hope it goes well
Congrats! Don't be scared! I have a 6 month old, my pregnancy was wonderful 🤗 I went through some scary stuff while pregnant but my labor was amazing, I had a very good experience. Just pray a lot and be positive ❤
I've never been pregnant but I think you will do better if you only watch positive pregnancy stories. I think it would help not being scared or something like that.
Her man's pull out game is weak.
It's Me Justine LOL! Cause pulling out is a reliable form of contraceptive 😂😂😂
It's not, but he could have tried harder admit it.
Seriously, you do not have to educate me on birth control and human sexuality. I'm quite versed on the subject. However, I think it is you who needs to go to some english-language comedy classes, and brush up on something called "sarcasm." But maybe we'll just let you continue to believe that you're white-knighting me.
It's Me Justine Before you tell me to go to "english-language comedy classes", whatever they are, how about you brush up on your English full stop 👌🏼 Oh, and don't play the race card here. It has nothing to do with it! Believe it or not, most people don't pull people up for stupid comments because they're black, white, or any shade in between. People who bring race into a discussion as an argument tactic are the lowest of low - what a way to bring yourself down.
What are you even talking about? I made a figurative language reference to the folklore protagonist "The White Knight." You know...the hero, usually a prince, and who saves the damsel in distress? His nemesis is usually "The Black Knight."
[And no, I did not make this reference in direct conjunction with your "supposed skin tone." This is not something that is on my mind.]
My comment was in direct reference to your previous comments tone; which, suggested that you were trying to educate me and "save me" from my assumed ignorance. Thus, the white-knighting comment. It's yet another satirical and sarcastic comment. Sheesh, you really do need those classes huh?
Girl, what kind of youth potion you taking you look amazing from those pictures exactly the same if not better !
I totally agree
Its only been 6 years and shes in her mid twenties, of course she looks the same or even better. Shes still super young!
it's only been 6 years .
she looks her youthful age of 25-26. I dont look like your typical 44 yr old ;)
Her babies are both 5 years old, being 9 months apart.. she's I believe 27-28 years old NOW.. according to a a video where she mentioned her age, which was a couple years ago and me adding a couple years to that age. ANYWAYS.. She looks very young.. because she IS young.
i love u sarah but with this video, the tiniest amount of "want" that i had to have a kid went away like wind lmaooo
+Sarah Romano why? I love being a mom. I wasn't trying to paint parenthood in a negative light with this video. Pregnancies are tough, but they are worth it.
+Sarah Rae Vargas so true! Pregnancy can be tough But its beyond worth it. Every pregnancy is so different, I love that you didn't sugar coat this.
+Sarah Rae Vargas I know your whole point and I didn't meant it in a mean way is just that every pregnancy story I hear it's always really bad and pretty traumatic, it's really scary to think of me in that situation!! And theres no doubt you're an awesome mom, its just the whole process of GETTING to be a parent that reflects to me in a bad way not the PARENT-ing part!! Sorry if I insulted one of you moms with my previous comment, I didnt mean to at all!
Let me just say, after having a baby you seriously look at anything life throws at you like "I had a freaking baby. I can handle this" it makes you so much stronger.
+Sarah Rae Vargas EXACTLY
I'm 26 weeks pregnant with a baby boy. this is my first pregnancy. i have never had morning sickness , never had exhaustion or nausea or any of that. No sore boobs. No stretch marks as of yet. No swelling. all my tests are normal and baby is perfect. if it weren't for missing my period, ultrasounds and now feeling him kick, I wouldn't know I was pregnant. I have been blessed. it's rare , but there is such a thing as an easy pregnancy !! don't be afraid to be pregnant. it's all worth it in the end.
lucas doge that's awesome. Hopefully you'll have an uncomplicated and blessed delivery as well. Healthy pregnancies usually translate to healthier birth.
Same, with my son. I only got heartburn because of how high he was the whole time. But it was a breeze. Almost 8 weeks in with baby # 2 and so far having a smooth pregnancy. I feel bad for women who have it rough. I enjoy it.
lucky you! I had terrible hypremesis and now scared to have another child:(
Wow same here!!
I was the same until I hit the 8 month mark. My baby girl grew overnight it feels like and now I'm uncomfortable, heartburn from hell and it feels like my hips are gonna fall apart 😣
Some of y'all have never heard of sexual coercion and it shows.
Not to say that's what happened here but comments are trying to express and debate it without the vocabulary
Courtney Warren “and it shows” your saying it like people MUST experience that in their lifetime not everyone does idk the tone of your statement makes it seems like it’s supposed to be a norm and EVERYONE must understand. “And it shows” not many people have had that so with that being said they don’t understand and are quick to judge or say what they would have done however everyone does that it’s human nature to judge based of what you hear or see if you don’t know exactly what’s going on.
Girl, I could listen to you talk about pretty much anything for 30 minutes and be happy. This was so interesting!! Thank you for sharing your story!
I know someone who had a baby boy, got pregnant less than a month later and had twin girls!
oh my 😭
im scared 😒
😳😳😳😳 Jesus take the wheel, the car and the bike!
+Jhoni Rae 😂😂😂
That poor woman lol
I'm so sorry your pregnancy experiences were so traumatic, your children are beautiful and you seem very sweet, you deserved better, more compassion and understanding, both from your partner and the doctor you went to see. I have been so very paranoid about getting pregnant before i feel i am financially ready, basically since highschool because there have been so many unplanned pregnancies in my family and it is very sad to witness the family dynamic change.
I am 41 and am having a hard time getting pregnant. Watching the first delivery made me 😭 cry. You are so blessed. Xoxo 😘
I hope you got your baby ❤
love. this isn't how labour and delivery should be :( I hope youve healed from both your births mentally and physically. time heals all but it's hard with pregnancy and birth
sarah im currently pregnant (first time mom) and i would appreciate ANY videos you're willing to film for us.... breastfeeding... mental health.. post partum healing.. all of it. id be most grateful!
whatever happened to waiting 6 weeks after giving birth
Brittney Schmid they tell you to wait 6 weeks because that's when you're the most fertile, nothing to do with how long it takes to heal
I waited over 6 weeks lol
Perla Reyes that was a good suggestion
Brittney Pagan you did not heal after two weeks. The inside of your uterus is still healing from where the placenta was even after you vagina is “ok” this is a fact. It has nothing to do with being fertile but the risk of infection and you can get an air embolism if air gets into the open blood vessels in the uterus that are still healing 😒
Anony Mrs but why are you so pressed to tell another if they’re healed or not enough to have sex? It’s done with, no infection, shes looks healthy and is a mother of two now... people just need to enjoy her story and not try to shame her.. people learn on their own
When talking about past tense nothing currently said matters.
They were kinda dumb imo...if the woman chooses to stop taking the pill, the man better wrap it up...IMO
And look into other contraception
Well clearly they were okay with having kids. So.
Dude she's amazing! She even looks gorgeous while in labor❤️😩
K
At times during the pictures, she looked like a different person. Still gorgeous but a different person
Savannah Grandchamp Wasn’t she?! 😍😍❤️
Do schools not teach you in sex Ed that you're extra fertile after birth? They did in my classes and that was about 16 years ago my freshman year
Hallie B. Lots of schools don't teach sex ed
Honestly my school spent like a week on sex ed
Háłłïē B nope cuz ultra Christian don’t like it
My school (Northern Ireland) didn’t even teach sex Ed! We labelled a vagina and penis in biology and that was the height of it
I didn't even know that and I have a 2 year old. Now I feel stupid 😅 never heard that in my life.
I'm so glad your story had a happy ending. I went into the labour at 26 weeks, and the doctors were amazing, they did everything they could to stop my labour, then steroids, but it just...it was to early. she was beautiful. I named her Hannah. I held for an hour, and I miss her everyday.
jen wren sending you love mama 💕💕
So sorry, mama. 👼🏼 My angels would be 24 & 25. We adopted, and our kids are 22 & 24. 🌈❤️
Hannah is a lovely name.
I'm so sorry for your loss 🙏
I can relate so much with you when it comes to being pregnant and going through depression, being alone taking care of two little ones, all the stress and external hardships.. our stories are completely different, yet so similar at the same time.
Thanks for sharing. I'm sorry you had to go through so much in such a small amount of time. Your babies are beautiful!
Girl you just took me on an emotional goddamn roller coaster. I cried like a baby at both of the clips of your childrens' births. You are so strong and I look up to you for what you've gone through. Your babies are so beautiful as a result.
When you started talking about Jadens breathing issues it sounded a lot like me. I was diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis when I was 3 weeks old. I had phnemonia when I was 4 years old. I go to my clinic visits every 3 months, they check my breathing levels, pulse and a bunch of other stuff. Every morning and night I need to do my physio which keeps the mucus in my lungs loose and productive. I'm 20 years old now and have only been hospitalized once since I was 4 years old which is unheard of for a CF kid. But when I was hospitalized my breathing capacity was at 65% which was terrifying. But I how Jaden has a happy healthy life!!!
❤️ Congrats on living a fairly healthy CF life. I lost one of my friends to CF.
I am so happy you're having success dealing with your CF. We lost my stepson at 24 to the disease. He fought a good fight, though.
you're doing so well for a CF patient ! In 2012 I was in hospital and met someone who was in on their first ever admission to hospital for treatment and she was 14 or 15 and it was wonderful to see.
I lost my best friend in March to c.f.. I'm glad your doing so well
Krystal McNuss My condolences. It never gets easier. We just live differently.
Thanks so much for your story I appreciate it I just lost my baby girl avery stillborn 7/29/18 but this gives me hope to try sooner your a beautiful strong woman
So so sorry for your loss sweetie
Oh dear! Very sad, I am so sorry you lost your little girl:(
delicate ASMR positive thoughts! Your baby will be here on earth, beautiful and well! Wishing you the best. 💛
Beanie’s World not necessary grammar nazi
Aww hope your next pregnancy is successful!
There is something about you that I just love. An openness and an honesty that draws me in. Thank you for sharing.
I could be wrong but at 26:50 I detected a little... "something" when you were talking about your sons health issues and how your difficult pregnancy may have been a factor. Do NOT feel guilty or sad or whatever. You did the absolute BEST you could, and that's all any of us can do as moms. He's so fortunate and blessed to have such a wonderful mother who not only loves him infinitely, but has the means to take excellent care of him and see to it that ALL of his medical (and any other) needs are met. You've done a wonderful job, and you're an amazing mother. ❤️
Sarah is the most inspiring strongest woman i know. Eventhough i don't personally know her. Sarah for me is a true feminist and role model. Great single mother, comfortable in her body, confident about her sexuality and living proof that women are hard workers
Girl you have been working hard on your health journey! So so proud of you! What a change in your recent videos.
First of all thank for your candidacy. Somebody needed to hear this. There were soo many stories within those 2 pregnancies. You’re strength and awesomeness shines through even when describing some dark times! Many blessings wished for you and your babies 💗💓
as a 20 year old it amazes me just thinking that you were not far from my age when you had your little babies! I never realised until now how strong and amazing of a person you are Sarah! your whole story was so unreal for Me! I wish the best for you and your beauty children!! love you!
Welp, there goes all my desire to have children.
100%. Especially the after pregnancy bathroom use. Never happening.
It is not that bad. At least to me it was. I had my son naturally and had to be cut so I would not tear. If I had another to births like his I would be fine with that. It did not even hurt to go to the restroom RIGHT after I had him.
Awww. It's not this bad for everyone. I've had FIVE kids; all of them came out 2 yrs apart from one another with no issues. No meds, vaginal birth. Only one was C-section because he was breeched, but that's it. Everything else was a breeze.
It depends heavily on your overall health and stress level. ;)
Diana Lopez. everyone is different when it comes to giving birth.
I am a very small girl at 108 lbs and I'm pregnant with number 6....it's not that bad for everyone...I've had easy fast births with little pain. Don't be scared ❤️
My mom had 3 babies in 8 months!! I am a twin soo, my mom had twins(January) then had my other brother 8 months later (September) and calls us triplets !😅😅❤️❤️
Irish triplets
was your brother born prematurely?
Dang
My lord that poor woman 😭😂
Emily M full term pregnancies are 38-42 weeks so, yes, he came early.
Just came across this video and i think your story is beautiful and i'm glad to have been apart of watching. Im currently trying to have children, it has been a struggle for me and to hear other peoples stories on pregnancy and post pregnancy it helps me keep an open mind about everything. Thank you Sarah!
I really like how honest you are.. WOW, that is rare in this world.
The picture of Nahla and Jaden at 24:22 omg!!!! cutest thing i have ever seen!!
Sarah, Jayden is more sickly because he was a preemie and didn't develop a strong immune system yet. Nala was first so your body had more strength to build her immune system. 2 preemies in 9 months is more than your body could handle and grow.
I really enjoyed this video! My girls are 12 months and 20 days apart and I had complications with both births so this was totally relatable. Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful babies!
If you want to see more photos and clips of when the babies were smaller, you can watch a Father's Day video that I made for their dad years ago while he was in bootcamp - ruclips.net/video/d-tn18htKBI/видео.html
I admire you so much! I am a mom of two as well :) a 3 year old girl and 1 year old boy.. and I'm 22! so I'm a young mom and love it. I think you're amazing and so strong! I admire you as a mom but also as a person. I wish we could be friends 😂😂 keep on keepin, girl. You're a superhero!
Howd you chose names? I always thought Nahla was a unique name
that video 🙂 so cute to see you and your little fam thanks for sharing.
+Ash Kirksey I hear the name Nahla all the time, these days, well quite a few times. Not common but not rare either.
That's not the same man.
My daughter was born on her cousins first birthday too!!! They have such a strong bond!!! Cute!!!
My baby also had torticollis (spelling?), she had physical therapy for months. Thank God it worked, and she's good now!!!
My daughter and niece were born same day but 14 yrs apart. 💖💖
Just so it's out there. Breastfeeding doesn't stop you from ovulating it just makes it easier to lose track of when it happens.
Birth control every time you don't wanna have a baby!
TheBqwhitney no... abstinence any time you don't want to have a baby! Currently 4 months pregnant after taking birth control perfectly for years!
TheBqwhitney breastfeeding is quite effective if its exclusive but its not 100%
@@Coleegirl94 what so you think people that don't ever want children shouldn't ever have sex? 🙄 Don't be ridiculous
I breastfed exclusively which felt like 24/7 because my daughter was always hungry lol AND was on the pill and made my husband pull out and I got pregnant with my 3rd daughter. The doctor was shocked since after my 1st i had the IUD and 6 months later got pregnant with my second daughter lol
Agreed. My sister in law got pregnant with her 3rd child while breastfeeding her second. She believed that breastfeeding was 100% effective birth control, accidentally mixed up her safe days on the rhythm method, and got pregnant. Her second child was about a year old when she got pregnant.
Hello Sarah, your story touched me really deeply. I was shocked, and could not stop thinking of it until I had reached work the next day.......The fact that childbirth can be horribly painful for some women is not what shocked me, but the fact that such a strong beautiful woman like you had to go through this because her boyfriend could not control himself. He should have treated you like a queen after giving birth to his first child, and not treated you like a "doll".....your story made me appreciate my husband so much, and I truly wish you find a person who treats you like the heroine you are!
Ironic all that work to stop labor then all that work to speed up labor! Lol
+Abbyk2893 haha I've never thought about that
Once the water breaks there isn't much they can do to stop labour and it is important to deliver quickly to prevent infection.
12 hours of labor 😩 girl, you're making me feel thankful for how my labor went. your babies are worth all that though! sooo cute. also loving all this throwback footage
Taylor Lynn my sister was in labour for 3 weeks
Daaaays not weeks 😂
Abby Ballard lmao that's impossible. If you are in labor for more then a few days that will be an emergency c section. I was in labor for 2 days and one more day I was going to have a c section but didn't.
She was in early labour for 3 days and active for 12. Unlikely yes but it happened. Her water never broke so there was no harm to the baby during the 3 days of labour :)
I was in labour for 18 hours with my last, early contractions for 2 weeks before. 18 hours to get to 4 centimetres and end up with an emergency c-section.
I don't want to use birth control + I don't want to wear condoms = baby
Laura S. At least she had a good reason, he didn’t. He was just an ass
Yeah, its dumb. Why wouldn't they just stop having sex tbh
My husband and I don’t use birth control or condoms. I got off months before we got married and we’ve been married for 7 months. We just track my ovulation.
@@chelsealeah7013 even not ovulating there's still a 3% chance of pregnancy
Gurl I can relate to both of your pregnancies in so many ways. I am glad to hear and see someone with some really relatable experiences. I too do feel that the stress you go through does affect your pregnancy experience as a whole. Thanks for sharing your experience.
No, you will ALWAYS have contractions afterwards. Its your body pushing the leftover afterbirth and icky stuff that may have been left in there on accident. Its your body cleaning itself out. Nursing will make the cramps worse.
Never had them after I had her even when delivering the placenta
She doesn't mean from that, she means days and days after that
Plus your uterus has to contract to shrink back down to size...natural occurrence
it can be different levels of bad though. i had very little contractions afterwards and they barely felt painful at all, while other people i've talked to had VERY painful contractions for days and weeks.
The cramps are mostly noticeable after the second baby not the first. They tend to be stronger because your uterus is larger and contracts more to try to regain it's size.
When you don't have to worry because you've been single for 18 years :)
Amitha Alex SAMEEEEE but I’m 20 haha, also I love your Jongin profile pic :)
You don’t have to be in a relationship to get pregnant lol
For 19 years
😂
What does being single have to do with getting fucked?
Who the hell is pounding on your door at 3am 😂
The fact you had sex right after giving birth is intense .. I was like don't touch me for monthhhhs after 😂
Same 😂
THIS!
SAME my poor husband had to wait months and months 🤣
Same 😂
Same girl. I tore horribly and wanted nothing to do with it.
I love this i just found out I'm 6 months pregnant. I had no symptoms and no major weight gain just about 4 lb. I love how your videos have perfect timing. Your videos and snaps always put such a big smile on my face.
wow that's amazing! congratulations! were you still having periods? x
No but i have always been able to go months with out it so I didnt think anything of it. I remenber taking a test but i guess it was to early. I started to feel weired movement and had a dream of women telling me I was pregnant so I took a test. It was the fastest pregnancy test result. The experience with my doctor was terrible he wouldn't do an ultrasound i had to waite for a blood test result that said i was fr to 5 weeks and for my obstetrician to tell me i cant see him for a nother three weeks. I wasnt satisfied with that answer so I found a clinic that did it for free last week and found out i was six months.
What an experience!! But an amazing outcome at the end! At least you don't have long to wait to meet your little one :) congratulations again x
HelenTheIdiot I forgot to thank you for congratulating me :-D. Thank you!!!!
I didn't find out I was my pregnant with my son until I was 6 months either! my pregnancy was a breeze, if I ever have more kids, I hope the rest are that easy lol! Good luck and congrats on your soon-to-be-here little one!
I absolutely love this.. so real .. I love how you talk about the hormones and the toll it can take.. feel you girl.. I have some dark ass days.. have a 5month and I'm currently 4 weeks.. love love love this vid xx
My children are 2 years apart but how you got pregnant, your symptoms, and being young is so similar to us. Thanks for being so real and honest!
LIstening to your stories just puts me in a good mood. That picture where Nala was holding baby J was my absolute favorite. They are so cute. I'm sorry the pregnancies were so difficult, but I'm sure well worth it. The kids are SO cute. Thanks for sharing!
Wow....you are one tough mama sounds like you are in a better point in your life now...you’re rockin it! Stay strong
That first poop afterwards was worse than giving birth to me 😂
yess! I was so scared to the point they had to give me stool softeners. 😓
Especially after a c-section!
They automatically gave me stool softeners but peeing was worst for me
It was magical for me! I was constipated almost my whole pregnancy. My daughters birth was vaginally. I have a scheduled c section next Tuesday for my son. So I hope it’s not worse!
Badat-this1 best wishes to you💙💙💙
This video made me feel way less alone and I appreciate you sharing your story 💕
This reminded me of my mom. Me and my older sister are 9 months and 2 weeks apart. Her birthday is at the end of January and mine is at the beginning of November so we're the same age for almost 3 months. I've never met anyone else as close as us. Loved your story.
gurl...Im with ya...mine are 10mnths 3days apart..
They are 19 and 20 now.
Breastfeeding doesn't inhibit you from getting pregnant, it just stops your period from coming every month. You're still ovulating which is why you got pregnant so quickly afterwards without any thought.
abbey christine my DOCTOR literally said IT IS a form of birth control 😂
Sara Fisher not how it works lol you CAN get pregnant while exclusively breastfeeding when baby is under 6 months. I have no idea where you got that info lol my period comes back 6-8 weeks pp after every baby even with exclusive breastfeeding
abbey christine *less chance of having your period. You can still bleed whilst breastfeeding :)
Sara Fisher my 2 week old daughter and her 1yr old brother Strongly disagree with you.
abbey christine it doesn’t stop your period, it may or may not. If you are exclusively breastfeeding, it HELPS to not get pregnant. So just maybe you read some things wrong.
I'm glad to hear that I wasnt the only one that the epideral didn't work the first time. I did not have the energy to sit thru another one so I just delivered with a half epideral. And girl I hear you on the back pain, I swear my back will forever be jacked up. Thank you for sharing your story. Your kids are beautiful, God bless
Girl, I wish I could give you a hug! As things progressed in the video I’d pause and update my husband. He doesn’t know all of the pregnancy terms stuff, but he felt for you too.
I talked about having a kid today with my husband.... OMG NEVERMIND BABE.... I forgot how much PAIN I was in both times from giving birth (no pain meds with either child) fucking hurts.
I love your videos and watch them religiously. Your kids are absolutely adorable! But this is probably the best form of birth control for me...
Thank you for sharing your story! You’re so brave and I hope you’re recovering well
Sarah, I've been watching you for a few years, but I've not seen this one. Thank you for sharing this story. I never knew these things about the babies, although I have heard you hint at different things in more recent videos. This gave me a more full picture of your motherhood journey. Your younger self is proud of the mother you are.❤😊
They do say that when you have babies closer then 18 months apart the second child has a higher risk of health issues
Shelby Varela my boys are 14 months apart and my youngest is as healthy as can be thank God.
Shelby Varela im 14 months younger than my brother, i didnt come with any health risks. 😉😅
My kids are 14 months apart and both healthy as can be thank god.
Who's "they"? Please don't say Google! 🤣😂🤣😂
I really don't know why so many people STILL think that you can't get pregnant nursing - There needs to be better education on that topic...
Yeah. My midwives were talking birth control day one. 😂 They said historically it was pretty good birth control but that had a lot more to do with nutrition (or lack thereof). Now that we've got prenatal vitamins and easily acquired calories, we're nowhere near malnutrition and making milk isn't taking the lions share of depleted/limited resources.
I think it’s great that you can talk about your experience, even the tough parts! My son has reactive airway and once we got his tonsils and adenoids he has improved 80%!! It was the best thing we have done, he still gets sick and has to have treatments but nothing like we experienced before the surgery.
I am very sorry you had to go through all that. I give you massive props for being so strong. You are amazing.
First child, gained 100 lbs, gestational diabetes, so nauseated the whole time (hospitalized 6 times for dehydration due to vomiting), ended up 3 days late, 22 hours of labor, emergency c-section due to severe preeclampsia and seizures (had an epidural), he was 9.5 lbs, got an infection and in the hospital for 11 days after. Doc said, you probably don’t want to do this again... second child (yep I did it again), came 1 month early, water broke, but I never felt a contraction, although the monitor said I should have, repeat c-section, 3 hours of labor (spinal block with this one), he was 8.5 lbs, discharged the next day. Complete opposite experiences! That was 23 (and 25) years ago. I never had afterbirth pains (I think this is due to the c-sections, as they really beat up your uterus so it knows it gave birth - or so the doctor told me), didn’t breastfeed.
Joedy Skrobak now I don’t want a baby I ain’t gaining 100 lbs plus all the rest 😳 you’re so strong
Joedy Skrobak omg how is 100 pounds possible!?
I've literally been on a marathon of your videos lol and I come across this video... whew.
I feel for you mama! My son just turned 6 months, and I'm 16 weeks pregnant, so my babies will only be 2 more months apart then your 2 cuties. You should do an updated video on how it is now that their older.
Wow what a rough but beautiful story. I love the way you talk about your babies you glow!!! I can tell you truly love them.
Your talking speed is amazing! It made me not get bored as usual with youtube and instead I watched the whole thing :)
Ok we are in the same boat. My two youngest are 10 months apart. My daughter was born 1st at 35 weeks and was in the NICU. Then went to my 6 week check up pregnant lol it was nuts and it was a lot of stress on my bodY. So after 3 kids I tied my tubes.
No judgment at all just curious, why would you think that you' re not fertile after giving birth? Isn't it well known that you have to go back on birth control after giving birth in the states ( if you don't want a baby)? Or is sex Ed not as good in schools?
how condescending, jesus christ.
THE DOCTORS DO SAY NO SEX FOR 6 WEEKS FOR A REASON
After having preemies, unprotected sex was the last thing on my mind
🤣 and everything went well? How did your body take it
i HATE watching videos longer than 10minutes. BUT you made it so enjoyable. you are so pretty and have such an awesome personality. congrats on your babies!
This is the first pregnancy/birth story I have watched since I was pregnant 7 months ago. I literally got chills watching this and teared up.
I just started watching your videos today and you are such a ray of sunshine .. i can honestly say i have learned alot from you from clothes to having kids.. i am not a mom yet and hell i am not even dating right now .. i really think you should have your own show ..you make everyone feel comfortable in their skin and just down to earth.. i added you on snapchat and hope to see and hear more good things from you.. keep up the awesome work momma 🤗
please do a video about depression and pregnancy and your relationship. I had a rough relationship during and after my pregnancy and still have to deal with my daughters father and the way he treats me still because we are coparenting. I'd love to hear about someone having a similar experience. also please tell us how you got out or your situation.
Omg you are so precious in your labor clip 💖 “I want this over!” Lol I was like awwww it’s almost over mommy 😭🙏🏾💖
You're a warrior! For going through those labour experiences and for giving birth to 2 beautiful kids and handling it all so well.
My daughter was born on the 14th of November too! 😊 It's hard to believe that she will be a year old in a month and half!
I had after pains with my second but not my third which the dr was surprised and so was i!
God bless you! You are a superwoman. Those babies are so lucky to have you!
My biggest fear when it comes to pregnancy is my vagina tearing 😂
fabstyles q worst shit ever! It burns too pee
Zaira Duarte i tore and it didnt burn at all. the trick is to lean forward and none of the pee touches your cut.
Noooooooo stop lying lol
Zaira Duarte i swear lmao thats why i get so confused when people talk about how much it burns. its really not that bad
Well it probably didn't burn for you because you were drinking a lot of water I had to learn the hard way I wouldn't drink anything that's why lol
I'm not sexually active and have no plans on ever having kids BUT this video was so interesting to me.
Dang momma! You are a QUEEN! 👑Two babies in 9 months, wow. That’s intense. Thank you for sharing such a personal truth with us all. Your babies are beautiful.
I absolutely agree that Jaden has/had a lot of issues because of what you went through during the pregnancy. Your joy, fear, anger or whatever emotions are directly transferred to your unborn child. I'm sorry you went through so much that brought on so much stuff to your son. I'm sure he's dearly loved however, so I pray that those symptoms and tendencies for sickness disappear. Much love to you.
“Both of them ruined me” that made me sad 😞.
You're so beautiful! Pregnancy is hard I couldn't imagine going through it with a newborn. You're a tough mama
Love your videos. Your intelligence shows and your sense of humor is appreciated.
I don't know why I clicked on your video, but dang! I can't stop watching! I so identify with some of what you are saying. I get the after birth pains, the back pain from epidural, and the depression. You are a rockstar, just a rockstar. My heart hurts for you that you don't have a supportive husband, you deserve all that and more. Awesome, just awesome! My boys have had more medical issues than my girls, that is the norm. Don't beat yourself up about that.