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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  Год назад +105

    can we take a moment to just say how much we enjoy getting to make content for yall?!

    • @kaylawhite2785
      @kaylawhite2785 Год назад +1

      & we love y'all! ❤️

    • @mariamangion21
      @mariamangion21 Год назад +1

      I love your content so much 🤍

    • @luanagonzalez5441
      @luanagonzalez5441 Год назад +1

      And we enjoy watching it!! Thank you for making content with everything else going on! Sending love to the three of you ☺️💖

    • @rachelboal2029
      @rachelboal2029 Год назад +1

      We love it and truly appreciate all the effort you put into all your videos!

    • @Lafilledlapluie
      @Lafilledlapluie Год назад +1

      Greatly appreciate your content.
      Seeing an equally yoked relationship is refreshing

  • @bekahhisnanick7
    @bekahhisnanick7 Год назад +8

    Hey you two, I've been a casual observer of your channel for years. Usually I'm not a big youtube "commenter", but I wanted to encourage you both as parents. I started watching this Q&A because my husband and I are pregnant and expecting our miracle this year and I was curious about your thoughts after having your baby for a few months. It is really encouraging to hear your answers to the parenting related questions, it has given me a lot of peace that I believe is coming from The Lord through your testimony. I wanted to say "thank you" for being so willing to be honest and open. You are helping the other couples out here who are prepping for birth. Thank you, and God Bless you three!

  • @KytiaLamour
    @KytiaLamour Год назад +16

    This was honestly such a refreshing video. A great balance of honest feelings, but so much encouragement.
    I love what Chad said about managing expectations and being realistic so that you can be in a more positive emotional space and what Tori said about learning to be ok with changing your mind on what you said you wouldn’t do before you became a mom.
    As a wife and mom of two, The Lord has helped me so much in raising my kids. I would NOT want to do this without Him. ❤

  • @Womensnutrition
    @Womensnutrition Год назад +6

    Chad, the first question you answered... I don't think I have ever heard a man say that in words, yet I have seen so many men express it in their actions. And it gives me such grace for men.

  • @nicolecress
    @nicolecress Год назад +10

    The part where Tori says “my love for Chad has deepened” and he poses. 🤣 I think it was a perfect response.

  • @kara-h5678
    @kara-h5678 Год назад +9

    My heart is so full seeing you guys on ig with your bubba over the holiday season, its everything we prayed for and more 💛 I was rewatching old videos to refresh myself on the advice and you were updating us on your fertility struggles and I started bawling! We've come so far, God is SO good! Truly feel like this is a personal win for all of us!

  • @patricksanders2219
    @patricksanders2219 Год назад +8

    I hope I can have a wife like her one day, because you two are one of the couples that still exist that still show me that people can be Christians and married and happily married altogether in my life left which is a big thing to say, pls continue to shine that hope in my life

  • @La23Lu
    @La23Lu Год назад +2

    This was one of my favorite videos from you guys! Very raw/serious and yet hilarious. Thank you for the content - it’s so helpful to learn from you both.

  • @kaylaaddison3269
    @kaylaaddison3269 Год назад +4

    Awww, this was such a beautiful and sweet video!! I absolutely loved how you answered the question "were you ever scared you'd lose the baby". A good reminder no matter where we are in life.

  • @Tia_marie
    @Tia_marie Год назад +5

    Thanks for being so real and authentic about parenthood. It’s not easy! We need more people to open up about its challenges.

  • @claraknox3961
    @claraknox3961 Год назад +2

    My mom wanted us to watch the Chosen this year in honor of the Christmas season and oh my goodness I skipped ahead and watched it all in like three days and now I’m rewatching it with my family!! It is soooo incredible!! I want everyone to see it hahaha

  • @francescasalcedo
    @francescasalcedo Год назад +2

    Ya’ll are doing amazing in this new parenthood phase! Never forget to give yourselves grace. Baby Micah is so blessed to have you both 🤍

  • @tikikiki14
    @tikikiki14 Год назад +36

    Chad taking over as Tori for the postpartum question had me cracking up 😂😂 y’all are so funny!

  • @briyannapabon7658
    @briyannapabon7658 Год назад +1

    My husband and I just became first time parents as well. Love your guys honesty & candidness! Thank you for all that you do!

  • @maraisreynolds9688
    @maraisreynolds9688 Год назад +20

    I can't count how many times I cried before ultrasounds. It's so hard to not be able to see and comfort your baby when they aren't in your arms. Pregnancy is so amazing and so emotionally intense.

  • @danaey2166
    @danaey2166 Год назад

    Oof how Chad answered that first question about fatherhood!! Ugh how I wish I could go back in time and give my husband more grace those first few weeks of sleepless nights with a newborn. I don’t think I really processed the fact that I was already bonded with our baby and loved her so deeply… while my husband was really just getting to know her and grow his love for her once she was born. It was hard not to get frustrated at HIS frustration at the time, but I see it in a different light now!

  • @ΜυρτώΓληγόρη
    @ΜυρτώΓληγόρη Год назад

    Wow, as you were talking about the sound mind being our inheritence i got chills all over my body!.. I have been struggling with anxiety because i have lost 1 year of uni and i am trying to catch up this year, so i get a lot of anxiety attacks where my thoughts are just lies that i dont have the time to finish everything that i must finish for my uni, and that i am a failure.... so i think that the lord really wants me to step into this spiritual reality that i ALREADY have a sound mind spiritually and i shouldn't allow the enemy to steal my peace... thank you so much for being open and honest!! i pray the lord blesses you with protection over you and your beautiful child in Jesus' mighty name!!

  • @abbyt3240
    @abbyt3240 Год назад

    My husband and I just watched all three seasons of the Chosen and it is amazing. We've both said it's the best show we've ever seen!!

  • @LittleLimm
    @LittleLimm Год назад

    Some time stamps. More coming when i watch the rest
    3:51 What's the hardest thing about being a father?
    5:47 Is there anyhting you said you wouldn't do but are doing now, so you laugh about it now?
    6:48 Did you get the homebirth that you prayed for?
    7:53 Do you miss your pregnant belly?
    9:00 While pregnant, were you guys ever scared to lose the baby?
    12:17 Is it difficult to be intimate with you partner after having a baby?

  • @elizabethwillet659
    @elizabethwillet659 Год назад +1

    You two are truly an inspiration for the kind of people, and family I strive to have. The faith you have in god and one another shows through your videos. Thank you for brightening my day and sharing.

  • @MS-rh2bu
    @MS-rh2bu Год назад +11

    Literally can’t wait for your birth story!
    I’ve had two home births and I’m SO proud of you for making that choice!!
    It’s incredibly challenging but there’s nothing like it in the whole world!!!

  • @sharonmeyer7659
    @sharonmeyer7659 Год назад

    Thank for sharing Angel Studios to watch The Chosen. Such an amazing depiction of Christ's life. The Christmas special of music was very special to watch during this Christmas season.

  • @karenfullenwider8501
    @karenfullenwider8501 Год назад +3

    My husband and I just started watching The Chosen Christmas Day (Season 1). I'm like Tori a visual person so it does really help me learn and understand the Bible more.

  • @andi.h.michelle
    @andi.h.michelle Год назад +2

    Sleep training never worked for my daughter … ever…. And I tried it alllll. Moms on Call, individual sleep trainer that I hired, & lots of other techniques… I did my own method and that didn’t work either 😂

  • @janicemurphy8175
    @janicemurphy8175 Год назад +2

    I'm so glad that Chad addressed the coming recession and hard times that are approaching in 2023 because this will test a lot of people's faith! Also, I wonder if Tori notices that she only stares at Chad's actual mouth when he talks as if she is looking at every word that comes out. 🥰

  • @shekinahtagoe5365
    @shekinahtagoe5365 Год назад +1

    The chosen is soo good!! I love you guys and the content you put out for us! ❤❤

  • @mamablue007
    @mamablue007 Год назад

    Sleep training in the extreme sense isn't usually necessary. Think routine rather than strict schedule, if that makes sense. When our youngest was 2 months we had to start waking him up by a certain time so he could have a bedtime. We established a routine with him. We didn't let him nap past 3pm and tried to keep him awake until 6 or 7pm if he could make it. We would wake him at 7 or 8am and he had two 2 hour naps and maybe 1 one hour nap if he needed it. That just depends on him and your schedule. But that's the jist of it. Just wanted to share in case it helps. I wish someone had told me. With our older 2, they woke on their own and so it was a shock when we had to wake up our 3rd from a nap.

  • @AaronShu
    @AaronShu Год назад +4

    I LOVE, LOVE your content, as always! 💛

  • @mjudym8692
    @mjudym8692 Год назад +3

    Now we have the tiny hands back, but they' re alive!😲😍😄

  • @dylan_fowl
    @dylan_fowl Год назад +3

    Great to see you Chad and Tori

  • @katariinakuronen944
    @katariinakuronen944 Год назад

    I loved this!! Happy new year! 🌟😍

  • @hannahwolf191
    @hannahwolf191 Год назад +2

    Love watching your pure videos!

  • @janinenussbaumer3936
    @janinenussbaumer3936 Год назад +1

    I look forward to the birth story😍 sounds instresting

  • @amandasantana2734
    @amandasantana2734 Год назад +1

    Season 3 of the Chosen is fire 🔥 so good so far! I love the Chosen series

  • @veritygrace1257
    @veritygrace1257 Год назад +2

    Love y’all and your content! Excited for this one ❤

  • @mamablue007
    @mamablue007 Год назад

    It's not easy. As far as getting to know your baby/kid they are learning who they are as well. So don't feel bad if possible. Chad can also try holding him with one of Tori's shirts over his shoulder or chest. The familiar smell of Mom may calm him too. And don't forget the gas relief tricks. The bicycles and other positions to help burp him. You guys are doing an amazing job!!

  • @marissajarrell2398
    @marissajarrell2398 Год назад

    I love watching you guys sm! I'm so thankful for your boldness to speak truth

  • @HannahSaidLikeHana
    @HannahSaidLikeHana Год назад

    Lovin' the long anticipated appearance of Laz! 😄 like Chad said, I've laugh I've cried - oml Matthew & little James🥺 - and just enjoyed the up close and personal realness that The Chosen do so well. Can't wait for the next ep! 💛

  • @megh2062
    @megh2062 Год назад +3

    So curious what your homebirth experience was. Homebirth mama here and praying over you! ❤️

  • @mariamangion21
    @mariamangion21 Год назад +3

    So excited to watch while I'm sick 😷

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog Год назад

    The Chosen is my favourite TV show!!

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 Год назад +2

    Hey love the channel 💗 God bless your family ♥️

  • @jlv61560
    @jlv61560 Год назад +1

    Boy, Chad is on the nosey about the economy! Had to completely change our business plan for opening our new business because of it, but God will get us through it, especially when we have a community to support us. (Yes, she used "exacerbated" exactly right!) Tori is absolutely right -- babies are individuals. Things like sleep training WILL happen, but I can guarantee your process will be different than anyone else's experience. The good news is that it WILL happen! 🙂And hey! Show us the new car!!

  • @jonathanrolle5118
    @jonathanrolle5118 Год назад

    Watching your videos are such a joy each time you post! 👍

  • @annaguillen1631
    @annaguillen1631 Год назад +8

    Can I ask you to pray for me and my husband? We are having our first baby soon and there’s been so much family drama and I feel so overwhelmed. I know God is working on me to break generational curses but this is very hard. Thank you ❤

  • @josephinekoch9953
    @josephinekoch9953 Год назад

    Oh I know the song "Sound mind" by Cageless Birds... It's awesome!!! So powerful.

  • @gianarivera_
    @gianarivera_ Год назад +1

    Hope y’all had a good Christmas 🎄🤍🤍

  • @Chosenlaur
    @Chosenlaur Год назад

    Love you masters fam! 🎉congratulations

  • @AdrienneInspires
    @AdrienneInspires Год назад +12

    Thank you so much for your honest answer about missing your pregnant belly! I LITERALLY AGREE 😂 Not ungrateful at all but pregnancy is NOT EASY!

    • @by159w
      @by159w Год назад +1

      Good to know!! Currently 31 weeks pregnant with our first, and I am so loving this close connection with baby boy 💜 However I already am over having this huge belly in the way of everything! ✨

  • @hannahrasmussen1525
    @hannahrasmussen1525 Год назад

    Thank you for your videos. Loved Chads comment "not that I am cute"

  • @rachelboal2029
    @rachelboal2029 Год назад +1

    Love you guys so much! Thank you for your real and honest answers to these questions! Love how vulnerable you are with me as a complete stranger! Praying that the Lord will continue to help you process your birth and that he will give you strength as new parents!

  • @arthemis_edits
    @arthemis_edits Год назад +1

    If you make a channel membership I'll definitely join!

  • @composermalte
    @composermalte Год назад +1

    Yipppii a new video! :D Yesss : ) God bless you guys! : )

    • @composermalte
      @composermalte Год назад

      ​@s rs Why do you think so? Isn't that called THE chosen series? Also how would they manage to not honor Jesus when they tell the gospel and the storys of the bible in excellence, in your opinion? Can you explain what you mean ​ @s rs ?

  • @taraleasure
    @taraleasure Год назад

    I’m a new mama myself to a 3mo old and one of the hardest things to adjust to was how disconnected I felt with my husband those first 2 months and grieving the season where it was just the two of us. But I love what Chad said about how it’s okay to grieve those things and it just looks different now but in the best way. How has your marriage and relationship changed since having baby Micah and did either of you feel disconnected from one another?

  • @natashapinerostachita9755
    @natashapinerostachita9755 Год назад +4

    Can we just say how much we love you guys??? 🫶

  • @kenyagousse8364
    @kenyagousse8364 Год назад

    I LOVE THE CHOSEN

  • @abigailboal5683
    @abigailboal5683 Год назад

    @Tori and Chad Love you so much!

  • @jessicaperlove4715
    @jessicaperlove4715 Год назад

    Oh my word. I never realized that a pacifier...pacifies. duh! 😆 Also, i loved Chad's description of getting to know Micah at the beginning of the video.

  • @rebekahkann1599
    @rebekahkann1599 Год назад

    aww missed you two!

  • @magnolia7322
    @magnolia7322 Год назад +1

    QUESTION: My husband and I are about to expand our family with our first baby and we’re also going to be a one car family, but can’t figure out which car to get. What did you guys get? I’d love to know if you wouldn’t mind sharing🙏🙂❤️

  • @patricksanders2219
    @patricksanders2219 Год назад

    Like I love them and feel like I'm an actual member of their Family sometimes like they are just so gorgeous Wanna call them or hug them sometimes I love them and wish to meet them one day, and god bless you too fam

  • @barbarboyland2877
    @barbarboyland2877 Год назад

    Merry Christmas to you all beautiful family always love you all always

  • @Hello-tg7dr
    @Hello-tg7dr Год назад +2

    What car did you guys get? In the market for a mom car.

  • @jessicadaniel6345
    @jessicadaniel6345 Год назад

    Can’t wait to hear about the home birth story!! But totally understand that you need some time to process it.
    For me it went from planning to do vaginal to emergency c section 😢😣
    We planned to not have any more kids after the first. But God healed us in such a way that we’re about to enter in our 3rd trimester on Friday w/ Baby #2 🥹
    We’re worried about what car to get b/c our Kia is going to be tight with 2 kiddos.
    What kind of car did you guys get???

  • @alyssavanderberghall
    @alyssavanderberghall Год назад

    What car did you end up getting as your family car? 😍 Sorry if you already mentioned this somewhere!

  • @kathyklassen7721
    @kathyklassen7721 Год назад

    Looking forward to your birth story! Your doing great sleep training will maybe just come a bit later. Never did any that early but everybody to there own.

  • @harleighstringer
    @harleighstringer Год назад

    believe it or not, aiden LOVED his paci so sooo much and i was terrified for the day that i had to take it away from him. i ended up taking it from him during the day probably at age 2 and then took it from him at night a little later, and the first night, he cried a bit before falling asleep, but he stayed asleep basically the entire night and then the next night, it was like it never happened. and now when he sees pictures of him with his paci, he asks me what it is 🤣

  • @Puree.Radiance
    @Puree.Radiance Год назад

    Tori : yea yea yea yeeaa yea yea 🤣💖

  • @thelottfamily
    @thelottfamily Год назад

    take a shot everytime tori says yeah 😂 (jk ily)

  • @adp1024
    @adp1024 Год назад

    Lol my baby is 10 days old and I went into labor at the car dealership while we were in the middle of buying our car😂

  • @amyelitorres
    @amyelitorres Год назад +1

    Lol not making fun but I couldn’t focus on anything during the angel ad besides Tori saying “yeah” over and over lol.
    But the chosen is incredible so I have no doubt their other movies/shows are as well.

  • @mamablue007
    @mamablue007 Год назад

    Trials and tribulations come in this earth and this natural life because of sin influence and our bodies in this natural realm. We get freedom from that part when we get to Heaven to be with Jesus for eternity. That's freedom part 2. But also we can speak power of our lives too to help combat symptoms of being in the natural realm.

  • @crisbelsanchez6033
    @crisbelsanchez6033 Год назад

    What’s the phone case Tori has on?

  • @clarebehrens
    @clarebehrens Год назад +1

    What’s the biggest thing I could pray for you right now?

  • @iraflora1616
    @iraflora1616 Год назад

    Micah's parents

  • @bequirivera8540
    @bequirivera8540 Год назад

    👏👏

  • @kara-h5678
    @kara-h5678 Год назад +1

    "Woulda coulda shoulda" CHAD IS A SWIFTIE PASS IT ON

  • @harleybrown7583
    @harleybrown7583 Год назад

    Tori! When he’s talking please stop saying “Ya”…..”ya”……”ya”!!!

  • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
    @Songwritersbehindthecurtain Год назад +1

    Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 tori and Chad. I hope you guys had an awesome 😎 Christmas 🎅 🤶 🎄. Congratulations 🎊🍾🎈🎉 on 135k subscribers. I hope 🤞 those tiny hands 🙌 are doing well I missed those tiny hands 🙌 in the outro of your RUclips channel. I cannot wait for The Masters Fam vlogging RUclips channel. This is more of a main RUclips channel. My mom Suzanne Roberts did watched the chosen she loved the series so much. The music 🎼 is Dan Haseltine. And I met his mom way back in 2014 and his mom Nancy Haseltine is very nice 😊 and she gave me a sign signature album 💿 independent of frail and also sign signature of the band itself. My mom Suzanne agree with you for after the show she would read Bible scripture and it’s amazing. Luke 2:14 "Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom His favor rests!" “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” “Glory to God in highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased.” Jars of clay is an awesome 😎 band. Did you guys checked out the album 💿 not ashamed by Newsboys? For me I only enjoy the music 🎼 from the chosen and that’s Dan haseltine from jars of clay did you guys got a chance to listen 👂 to jars of clay studio album 💿 like much afraid or if I left the zoo or their debut album 💿 and not ashamed by newsboys because after RUclips you guys gotta get a chance to listen 👂 to jars of clay self titled studio album 💿,much afraid 😳,if I left the zoo from start to end and even newsboys not shamed too?

    • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
      @Songwritersbehindthecurtain Год назад

      @s rs my mom watched the series and she loved it 🥰. I only like 👍 is the music 🎼 by Dan haseltine s rs that’s it. The actors did an excellent job. I’m not promoting them I’m just asking them something like I was asking them to listen 👂 to a whole entire album 💿 from start to end and who was the composer from jars of clay that did the chosen and that’s Dan haseltine.

  • @untameyourflame
    @untameyourflame Год назад

    Chad c’mon we all know you better than that now…you were totally saying you are cute 😜

  • @brittanymaloney2035
    @brittanymaloney2035 Год назад

    We need a Tori "Ya" counter

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech Год назад

    🔥🔥

  • @joannemackenzie2586
    @joannemackenzie2586 Год назад

    🥰🎉❤️➕️👼🕊

  • @littlelakerspreschoolbible2038

    Angel Studios is a mormon company. Would you mind speaking to whether or not you are mormon or not and why you have chosen to partner with them? Mormons do not believe that Jesus is God... that He is God incarnate, one part of the Trinity. They believe He was a created being. Do you agree with that?

  • @sandraelfving02
    @sandraelfving02 Год назад

    Hi, such a good video and encouragement.
    I really liked The Chosen especually the first seson. Then I saw a video from a facebook friend sharing this link: ruclips.net/video/9LI484mywHU/видео.html
    I usually don't like all this "exposing" videos where people expose other chanals. I mean it dosen't do any good spreading this typs of videos. But I kind of reacted to some stuff in the latest seris. For example that they paint a picture of Jesus praktesing what to preatch while he is God. It's maybe just I that reacted on that but anyways. So this video that I linked is just a heads up. I love how The Chosen brings fort the diffrens in the characters/ desiples and ads on other ligth to it all. Sooo... just a friendly litle hint to be aware of while watching. God bless you guys🥰 (Sorry if my english is a litle bit bad😅)