Ok, his responses about being missing for a week would be enough for me to let go of this relationship. He was very condescending and nonchalant about not caring to respond to the questions.
Exactly I don’t why women keep putting up with nonsense. I say this all the time better to be alone and have peace of mind than be with someone and you are alone in the relationship
She's a placeholder for him. She's beautiful and seems level-headed, but he doesn't deserve her. I hope she finds a man who doesn't just come around for fun and games and them dull days. Seems like he uses her for a fall back.
They come here with a judge to get the judge to side with the victim and its their last attempt to get their partners to understand and change. Partner knows they are wrong they don't need a judge, they aren't changing, or change for a month or two just to shut victim up.
Yup. I think some things need an outside opinion but some things are near your vision in open sight. If you're praying for answers why not just do what's right for you and you alone. 15yrs off and on I think she knew the reason and somebody with all those problems aren't red flags, that's just who he is.
This woman needs to run. Since he has been so disrespectful at this point, why do you think he would be so different after you get married? This woman needs to sprint away from this guy as soon as possible. He’s a gambler and thinks nothing of blowing away. If she marries him, he’s gonna get worse and she’ll be paying all the bills. I hope this woman will develop her self-esteem and leave this man.
😅 yeah I can't even lie he was down bad for that one, there is no way you can travel that far across the country without some sort of phone reception... Sometimes people say ANYTHING to get out of trouble...lol
He’s handsome- she prob don’t think she can “get” someone as attractive as him again. He’s used to smiling/b.s’ing his way through things. That end segment -please reconsider that. Not good. We want Robert.
*When* she leaves, guaranteed she'll probably be married in a one year. WHY at his big age is he *not* financially irresponsible?! Girl run! It doesn't take _15 years_ to get married! He gave you a teenage's age length of a relationship with *nothing* (positive) to show for it 🙄😒(and no I'm not talking about kids) -
Dude got it like that, had the side piece hooking him up with a plate at the cookout, old school truck driver with mad game, marriage material ain't him 😁💯
EVERYTHING she said, he dismissed. He smirks and plays devil’s advocate until he can’t breathe anymore. Jesus I’d lose my mind. If he cared about her feelings, he’d listen and apologize even if he doesn’t fully get why she’s hurt.
She didn't trust her own instincts. ... And she didn't want to give up what she has invested, but she's not getting a good ROI ... We need a future update on this one !
6 minutes in and I don’t know why she didn’t leave him yet. You are gambling instead of paying your share of the bills, sir, it’s time to leave my house that I ́m paying.
Oh HE IS probably CHEATING he stays away a WHOLE WEEK that is SUSPECT. HE'S NOT READY TO MARRY HER AFTER 15 YEAR THEY SHOULD HAVE ALREADY BEEN MARRIED HE JUST WANTS TO KNOW HE HAS HER TO COME HOME TO.
Why does he pretend that he doesn't really know what is respectful and what is disrespectful? Oh, Yar Honor, I didn't know that was disrespectful!!!! 🤔
Because they’re too busy holding onto when things were good with that person, and refusing to realize that the situation is not working. Also, when something is all you’ve known for quite some time they are afraid of letting go.
She is beautiful and she gave him her youth. Years full of heartache and heartbreak. I know someone close that was with a man for 10 years, eventually married him and they were divorced within 2 years all because he didn't love her and was very selfish....pretty lady he doesn't love you like that.
😂 I can't even lie homeboy super down bad for that no reception all the way from the East Coast to West Coast excuse... Making honest hard-working truckers look bad... If you are going to tell a lie make up a solid one... Sometimes people say ANYTHING to get out of trouble...💯 🤩 She's lovely and has a very youthful facial structure and voice considering her age...🌹
Tht smirk on his face is irking me!!!
She better cancel the wedding and use the honeymoon as a vacation. This dude is immature and takes NO ACCOUNTABILITY! Girl RUN!
"When people show you who they are, believe them..." ~M. Angelou
THIS!!!!!
“….the first time.”
Ok, his responses about being missing for a week would be enough for me to let go of this relationship. He was very condescending and nonchalant about not caring to respond to the questions.
Exactly I don’t why women keep putting up with nonsense. I say this all the time better to be alone and have peace of mind than be with someone and you are alone in the relationship
Yup!
He could ride a bike through California in a less than a week
So this beautiful black queen wasted 15 years of her life waiting for a boy in a grown man’s body .
HE HAS STRESSED THIS POOR WOMAN OUT SHE LOOKS SO OLD FOR HER AGE , THEY BOTH LOOK OLD
@@FLAWEDANDFOCUSEDSHE DID ALL THAT TO HERSELF BY NOT OBEYING GOD
where exactly do you see a queen?🤣🤣🤣
@@d820m 😭😭
😂@@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED
After 15 years, leave or stay and don’t complain sis. He’s never going to change.
I hate a guy who try to play stupid!!
My biggest pet peeve
And disrespect
As a guy, I can agree with you. We do that when we get caught. LOL.
@@b.u.dmusic9424 the man was hungry, and he took a plate.... leave him the hell alone🤣🤣🤣🤣
He ain't playing
😊
She's a placeholder for him. She's beautiful and seems level-headed, but he doesn't deserve her. I hope she finds a man who doesn't just come around for fun and games and them dull days. Seems like he uses her for a fall back.
She’s giving him so much of her time and energy…time to let him go and move on…
Would it be because she’s like so many others….desperate to not be alone?
Move on to what? This woman has been with him for 30 yrs. She ain't going nowhere
I wouldn't marry him and he has a gambling problem now,,You right he is full of excuses
“I don’t always lose” is not a flex
A 15-year relationship? what in the world did they have to come to Divorce Court. All the Red flags have been seen for years.
They come here with a judge to get the judge to side with the victim and its their last attempt to get their partners to understand and change. Partner knows they are wrong they don't need a judge, they aren't changing, or change for a month or two just to shut victim up.
@@mogsonmushroomsignoring 1,000 red 🚩and coming on tv to pretend to leave never made sense but you're right
FACTS !!!!!
Yup. I think some things need an outside opinion but some things are near your vision in open sight. If you're praying for answers why not just do what's right for you and you alone. 15yrs off and on I think she knew the reason and somebody with all those problems aren't red flags, that's just who he is.
Wasting years gambling on a gambler. Make it make sense
Their relationship is pointless & terrible
🤣🤣
There are too many men out here to be settling for an old boy!
This woman needs to run. Since he has been so disrespectful at this point, why do you think he would be so different after you get married? This woman needs to sprint away from this guy as soon as possible. He’s a gambler and thinks nothing of blowing away. If she marries him, he’s gonna get worse and she’ll be paying all the bills. I hope this woman will develop her self-esteem and leave this man.
Yes
Run 🏃♀️?? She hasn't ran anywhere in a decade. She's lucky to have him.
@@FalaqX be the most exercise she's had in those fifteen years
Right 0n!
Yes she needs self-esteem which she doesn't have and never had
Quote of the Day: "Truck Stops Have Wi Fi."
Also stores, restaurants, hospitals, clinics, also have free wifi
AND CONDOMS HE’S CLEARLY A CHEATER 😂
@@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED and other women too
She's just as silly as him!!
JUST DESPERATE !!
🙄😳🤔🥹 TRUE DAT!
facts
So he gambles his money, ghost her for days at a time, and really thinks 15yrs is okay to wait to marry you....mam he dont want you
Sounds like a crackhead to me smh
Wait another 15yrs and they can have a social security wedding..
😂😂😂
😅😅😅😅😅
😂😂😂
No. I like the conversation between Robert and the Judge.
He's full of excuses
And lying parts
Shes a silly woman… still tryna argue him about whats clear as day
I would not marry him 😮
I agree with you 💯
He’s your highschool sweetheart and married someone else. What more proof do you need ma’am 🤷🏽♀️
For him to say....They don't have pay phones let me know that he ain't sugar, honey, ice tea !!💯
😂😂
😅 yeah I can't even lie he was down bad for that one, there is no way you can travel that far across the country without some sort of phone reception... Sometimes people say ANYTHING to get out of trouble...lol
😂😂😂
So you want to marry an irresponsible truck driver 🤦🏽
He ain't hungry! 😂
Took me out 😂
That part
AINT ‼️
And ain't! 😂😂😂😂😂
The tight lip cracked me up
Okay, so you see what's important to him and it isn't you.
15 years of her best life wasted! That's all on her! SMH
BEEN THERE BEFORE
True
Why is she so pressed-if she don’t go about her business- gurl stop it. Move on!
He don't want to start over with another woman...typical!😂
😂 she ain't going NOWHERE that money be talking... Loud and clear...lol
He’s handsome- she prob don’t think she can “get” someone as attractive as him again. He’s used to smiling/b.s’ing his way through things.
That end segment -please reconsider that. Not good. We want Robert.
She deserves so much better. She needs to know that herself.
Girl you better leave him alone he has some sides plain and simple. He doesn't want to be with you
*When* she leaves, guaranteed she'll probably be married in a one year.
WHY at his big age is he *not* financially irresponsible?! Girl run!
It doesn't take _15 years_ to get married! He gave you a teenage's age length of a relationship with *nothing* (positive) to show for it 🙄😒(and no I'm not talking about kids) -
Dude got it like that, had the side piece hooking him up with a plate at the cookout, old school truck driver with mad game, marriage material ain't him 😁💯
Stop the madness
I wish I would be sitting up in a 15-year relationship. Is she crazy? See this is what happens when you don't know when to let go smh
EVERYTHING she said, he dismissed. He smirks and plays devil’s advocate until he can’t breathe anymore. Jesus I’d lose my mind. If he cared about her feelings, he’d listen and apologize even if he doesn’t fully get why she’s hurt.
the man has no reason to apologize, if he feels he's donne nothing wrong🤣
She would've had to make me a plate too! Im hungry too.....all of the sudden 🙄🙄
This comment is everything... hahaha haha 😂😂
This man is full of it. Ma'am don't waste your time with him. Too many red flags.
I LOVE Judge Star's dress!
Me too
They don’t need to ever do that at the end again. I like when she talks to Robert.
Umm, no ma'am. Where is my ending with Robert? I don't want to hear from, as Judge Star would say, "miscellaneous people."😂
I stopped watching right at that point... not interested!
That's what I was wondering! Is this a new thing?! I hope not
@@emilyoftheemeraldcity
I hope not either 😕
Robert passed away
@@FalaqX why lie
He's going back and forth with the judge, got an answer for everything. He's not serious.
Bowling matters to me lol. He not serious.
Where was Bomba?
Nope! He don't want to get married. He's got too many excuses.
This man don't want you
Smirk throughout the session.
Girl you deserve better. He stilling acting irresponsible after so much years.
I think he has another family somewhere.
That wouldn't surprise me either!😊
🛎️ 🛎️🛎️!!!! TRUCK DRIVER 🚩
@@kimr5479 🤣🤣
@@FLAWEDANDFOCUSED exactly!
God forbid 😂
He ain't hungry..that was hilarious
So Madam, you said he was disrespectful, he doesn't care etc and you want to marry him. SMH!
This woman is wasting her time. It's time for her to move on.
Friends for 15 years because he was sleeping around 🫠
This lady, just holding on too AIR
Now Judge Star you know we always wait for that lil bit of shade at the end when you and Robert recap the episode. You can't leave that out anymore.
She didn't trust her own instincts. ... And she didn't want to give up what she has invested, but she's not getting a good ROI ... We need a future update on this one !
Girlfriend, It's been over and done. You cant make him want or love you.
The key to my heart isn't food 😅😅😅
"I'M JUST A COUNTRY BOY... I'M GONE SHUCKLE ALL ALONG!!!"
GONE, SIR...MOSEY ON DOWN!!!
The ol country boi shuffle is what did it for me
This man has a whole family somewhere in the US !!! 😂😂 he does not want to get marry
The defendant is a 🤡
Welp! She said it in her own words
Out of her own mouth “everything about him is a “GAMBLE” 🚩
I think Judge Starr is correct this man does not want to marry this lady!😮
The fact he said bowling matters 🥴
DON'T MARRY HIM!!!! HOW MANY RED FLAGS DOES SHE NEED TO GET A-STEPPING?!!
The plate of food had Robert shaking his head.
6 minutes in and I don’t know why she didn’t leave him yet. You are gambling instead of paying your share of the bills, sir, it’s time to leave my house that I ́m paying.
After a week then dont ever call me or think about me. I dont know you no more!😂
Ms. Ashford...PLEASE leave him alone. You can do SO much better.
He’s a clown but she’s gonna stay with him because she doesn’t want to start over.. she need to leave… 15 years or not
I want to know what Robert has to say about the case. Judge Star and Robert sit downs at the end really gives a different umf to the situation😂😂
Oh HE IS probably CHEATING he stays away a WHOLE WEEK that is SUSPECT. HE'S NOT READY TO MARRY HER AFTER 15 YEAR THEY SHOULD HAVE ALREADY BEEN MARRIED HE JUST WANTS TO KNOW HE HAS HER TO COME HOME TO.
I do NOT honestly see a problem with Judge Star interacting with an audience member during the end.
Truck driver..... Ma'am 🛑
She married a good looking man,that comes with other problems.He will break you eventually.Please leave
She is the dummy with this. If she didn't get a ring on it after 5 yeas than she should have gone. He just wants what comfortable.
This is not working. Wipe your feet honey and be gone.
She must be slow; it’s obvious he has “others.”
Tbh, I don't think I could deal with either one. 😂
Come through, Ms Judge Starlet Jones. Yaaasss. The judge was in the building with this. 🙌🏾🌟
She need to research why he he divorced his wife 🤷🏾♀️
This 💯
He's a liar. We drove from AZ to GA a few months ago. We just drove from CA to FL via 40. We always had cell service.
Girl !! I would’ve been gone boy bye lol
Why does he pretend that he doesn't really know what is respectful and what is disrespectful? Oh, Yar Honor, I didn't know that was disrespectful!!!! 🤔
Dont do it!!!🚩
She hasn't stood on business, so thats what she get #riseurstandards
This man does not want her at all. He got more excuses than a liar tongue…
Girl get rid of the zero and wait for your Godly HERO!
I don’t like that they changed the end where Judge Star and Robert talk about the case. Nobody wants to meet the audience…
You Better Run.🏃♀️
Leave him he's ignit
Don't bring God into this mess
Why can't women ever recognize when a man just doesn't want them??
Because they’re too busy holding onto when things were good with that person, and refusing to realize that the situation is not working. Also, when something is all you’ve known for quite some time they are afraid of letting go.
He doesn't want her...
She is beautiful and she gave him her youth. Years full of heartache and heartbreak. I know someone close that was with a man for 10 years, eventually married him and they were divorced within 2 years all because he didn't love her and was very selfish....pretty lady he doesn't love you like that.
This is a repeat. Why was this reposted as if it were a new episode?
He's still acting like he's in high school. Why drag her along like you're doing? I hope she took the advice and moved on.
Judge Star be right on point EVERY SINGLE TIME!
😂 I can't even lie homeboy super down bad for that no reception all the way from the East Coast to West Coast excuse... Making honest hard-working truckers look bad... If you are going to tell a lie make up a solid one... Sometimes people say ANYTHING to get out of trouble...💯
🤩 She's lovely and has a very youthful facial structure and voice considering her age...🌹
SHE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HERSELF FOR DATING A MAN FOR ALL THOSE YEARS, SMH
Blah, blah, blah. He will continue what he is doing, and she will continue to take it. Kmt.