DEALING WITH GRIEF IN OUR MARRIAGE | Life after losing a loved one 💔

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024
  • Losing Winston's mum very early in our marriage was an incredibly painful experience for our family. This week we share our journey towards healing from that grief.
    Rest in eternal peace mum, always in our thoughts 🕊️
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Комментарии • 590

  • @angelawashington1257
    @angelawashington1257 3 года назад +270

    I’m so thankful she got to see her son get married, that had to be beautiful and reassuring that you found someone to love before she went home to Jesus

    • @aliciaglover7643
      @aliciaglover7643 3 года назад +12

      Your videos and relationship are a blessing for believers in Christ and non-believers. Thank you for your transparency 🥰

    • @dorothybrown9698
      @dorothybrown9698 3 года назад +6

      God bless you all
      He sits high and looks low
      Curacao

    • @NikkiaSings
      @NikkiaSings 9 месяцев назад

      Amen 🙏🏽 That’s a blessing, indeed!

  • @ccharles6387
    @ccharles6387 3 года назад +173

    You two dont have just a podcast or a RUclips channel. You have a ministry. God bless you both

  • @estherlaye9741
    @estherlaye9741 3 года назад +109

    Grief: You can’t go under it, over it, around it. We just have to go through it by the Grace of God in Christ. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

  • @eboniroyal6607
    @eboniroyal6607 3 года назад +110

    Winston your experience with your marriage was definitely God's blessing to make your Mother's departure special. It was like it all came together. She knew you were in great hands with Mayfair.

  • @williamray7751
    @williamray7751 3 года назад +43

    Am sure she was happy to leave her son with the most beautiful loving,kind ,caring, Godly, selfless woman on earth this girl has the heart of Jesus, look at her looks, mmmh i wish to meet this couple someday,God will grant me my hearts desires,

  • @yvoneziko1014
    @yvoneziko1014 3 года назад +12

    Thanks mum for raising such a great KING ,humble, sweet and down to earth person Winston. May her soul continue to rest in Christ

  • @bridgetrehberg3962
    @bridgetrehberg3962 3 года назад +19

    I love you two I’m 31 and my 17 yr old brother has Osteogenesis imperfecta I used to never hear about this now we hear more about it you encourage us so much he has found love this year after a long battle with depression from body cast and many breaks and a suicide attempt that almost took his life (a bullet in his head) you give us hope also me and my husband lost his dad and my mother 20 days apart last year it’s very hard praying for you I love you two (:

  • @daniellepayton7682
    @daniellepayton7682 3 года назад +8

    I so appreciate this video. My father passed just a couple of weeks ago and I can so relate to your words, Winston. How blessed we were to have loving parents! They are with the Almighty now, safe in Jesus' arms. My tears are for myself, I know, but I do go through grief in waves. Thank you for your candid and real words. I stand with you in prayer for our healing. Love you both! I'm a fan. I see God in your marriage! Continue to keep Him first!

  • @sarahwilson2949
    @sarahwilson2949 3 года назад +20

    You two have got me stuck on RUclips now, is a joy to listening to you. Stay blessed

  • @demetricahoward3500
    @demetricahoward3500 3 года назад +31

    Grieving has No time limit prayer,positivity and being around loved ones helps alot

  • @Leahtrini
    @Leahtrini 3 года назад +16

    I could not imagine living without Holy Spirit, period. I hope you guys realize the phenomenal calling God has on your lives ☺️ keep putting God first and let him continue to be your comforter and I am praying for y’all always. Love you guys 💛

  • @Kimberlyzuniquejourney
    @Kimberlyzuniquejourney 3 года назад +48

    I love how you give credit to the Lord for everything throughout your videos-a true description of Proverbs 16:3

  • @Khere00
    @Khere00 3 года назад +29

    I lost my mom unexpectedly on 1/29/20, and I can totally feel everything you both said! I'm so glad that your mom was able to witness your beautiful wedding.

  • @judyross8876
    @judyross8876 3 года назад +10

    Winston and Mayfair, I could sit and listen to your conversations ALL day, EVERY day!

  • @mildredbethea613
    @mildredbethea613 3 года назад +7

    I'm speechless with tears on so many levels. I bless God for having allowed me to "stumble" across your video. As I'm watching, you two are truly teaching me several things. Now I'm hearing how you were ushered by the spirit unknowingly as to why, yet being obedient into your wedding. I'm also seeing what real, true love is with you two. I'm seeing how there are areas within me that I need to pray about so that I can receive who God may have for me instead of what I got in my head that has NEVER worked for me, this being 60yrs of age and single. Also, my condolences for the loss of mon, for I know oh too well the emptiness that is felt when the one whose given you life is gone. Last but not least I also have been through the breast cancer fight, along with two other cancers and a stem cell transplant and it's more apparent than ever now how that no matter how long you remain there will come a time. The content of Godliness that you two provide is beautiful, attractive, and real and I'm grateful for who you are, what you're doing, and where your lives are heading. Much luv~

  • @juanitasmith405
    @juanitasmith405 3 года назад +13

    It has been a difficult year for a lot of people!!! Knowing that God is still in control has helped.

  • @shaylabaker476
    @shaylabaker476 3 года назад +41

    I can relate to losing a parent in 2020, I'm a senior in college this year and it was pretty rough. While i'm not married, I recently got into a relationship back in October. It's hard knowing that dad will never be there to walk me down the aisle, meet my boyfriend or see me graduate. I'm so sorry for your loss!

    • @Mandidzv
      @Mandidzv 3 года назад +3

      So sorry for your loss! You have a guardian angel for life

    • @mariamclements245
      @mariamclements245 3 года назад +3

      So sorry for your loss hunny your dad will be watching over you sending you lots of love ❤️ ❤️

    • @jessicamitchell4482
      @jessicamitchell4482 3 года назад +4

      SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.. I RECENTLY LOST MY FATHER 4/21/2021 AND I KNOW THE FEELING 🥺

    • @NikkiaSings
      @NikkiaSings 9 месяцев назад

      Sending you love ❤️

  • @beautyaddict08
    @beautyaddict08 3 года назад +12

    The first man I ever loved died suddenly in 2011...my beloved father. There were times when I thought I was going to physically die with the heartbreak, times where I could have just willed my heart to stop beating. Yet God truly proved to be my Comforter. He reminded me that if I could have been loved so much by an earthly father, how much more was I loved by my Heavenly Father. I cried buckets of tears knowing that tears were a language God understood. May God continue to be your Comforter🙏🏾

    • @sibongilemngomezulu3454
      @sibongilemngomezulu3454 3 года назад +1

      Sorry for your loss, I know how you feel cause I always say my dad was my first love and lost him last July during hard lockdown here in South Africa when we couldn't even visit him at the hospital still haven't found closure as a family 😢💔

    • @beautyaddict08
      @beautyaddict08 3 года назад

      @@sibongilemngomezulu3454 I am truly for your loss, which has been even more compounded by not being able to visi your father in hospital. I pray comfort and closure for you and your family🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @helenandakondja4957
    @helenandakondja4957 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing,,,,,, you are not alone,,, lost my mum a month ago,,, and every night is when I realised I can't let go,,,,, cos that's the time I shed a lot of tears!!!!

    • @naomim.clements3843
      @naomim.clements3843 3 года назад

      May your mum rest in perfect peace Helena. May the peace of God visit you throughout and may you feel His presence when you yearn for your mum the most. It's very hard... but God. 💙🙏🏾

  • @susanmorgan1499
    @susanmorgan1499 Год назад +3

    This was one of the most profound vlogs I've viewed, it was very relatable as I'm still navigating grief. Thank you guys.

  • @MsThemjs
    @MsThemjs 3 года назад +23

    My condolences🙏🏾 God is truly calling his people home. I lost my dad 2019 to cancer and my mom to Covid 2020 it’s a struggle, my husband has been with me every step of the way, even when I’ve been mean to him 😔🙏🏾

    • @Himpossibleinternational
      @Himpossibleinternational 3 года назад +4

      May our Lord Jesus Christ Himself and God our Father, who loved us and by His grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your heart and strengthen you. - II Thessalonians 2:16-17

  • @yvettewilliams2682
    @yvettewilliams2682 3 года назад +9

    First I LOVE you guys and admire the Godliness in your marriage. This segment touched me because I am an 8year breast cancer survivor. You both continue to keep God as your foundation. Remain positive

  • @freidawomack6727
    @freidawomack6727 3 года назад +5

    You are both a true inspiration to those with and without disabilities. I have a daughter who has traumatic brain injury, epilepsy, mild cerebral palsy ; she was recently blessed by God to stop taking diabetic meds! We have felt very isolated in society.I stumbled across your blog on RUclips,so glad I did! Iam working on bringing awareness to inspire others to be more considerate and inclusive of people who have disabilities also.
    I'm praying for your strength during the loss of your mother and grandfather.
    I LOVE YOU BOTH even though I have never met you.
    Sincerely,
    Freida & SteAna Nlr.Arkansas(US)

    • @irenenandutu1612
      @irenenandutu1612 2 года назад

      You are a wonderful couple. May her soul rest in peace. I can't stop watching your channel. You give hope to many.

  • @empresst3084
    @empresst3084 Год назад +1

    May your granddad R.I.P. as well~My heart goes out to you both and your families...

  • @sheishightea1796
    @sheishightea1796 3 года назад +7

    You all continue to hit all the right topics. My husband's dad died four days before our wedding. He was looking forward to the day but God called him home before a few days before. This was really hard on my husband, we went ahead with the wedding because everything was in place and it provided my husband with some solace knowing that his dad always encouraged him to tie the knot. It's a lot sometimes, as a wife I have learnt to be patient, his listening ear and comfort.

    • @nondumisof
      @nondumisof 3 года назад

      Sorry to hear the passing of your mom and mother law Clements Family I love you.Felicity SA.

  • @mariedames3240
    @mariedames3240 3 года назад +29

    Who else agrees??? it takes time for healing and I'm talking from experience after having a miscarriage at 6 months! I l lost my husband, my mom and dad, 2 sisters and 1 brother.
    And I'm praying for you guys healing it shall come in the name of Jesus.🙏❤😇

    • @Diane-td8kg
      @Diane-td8kg 3 года назад +1

      I agree 🙏🏽

    • @wandar.6887
      @wandar.6887 3 года назад +1

      In the name of Jesus!

    • @humblewarrior7593
      @humblewarrior7593 3 года назад +2

      Wow I'm so sorry to hear this God bless you and strengthen you🙏❤️

    • @sibongilemngomezulu3454
      @sibongilemngomezulu3454 3 года назад +2

      Yeh it definitely takes time to heal,lost my dad last July and thought am coping but today just had a melt down 😥💔.Condolences to you from South Africa 🙏🏼

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 3 года назад +1

      Well said Marie in indeed it take time for heal I come from there too may God continue to strengthen you and I'm sorry about your lose

  • @TheLongWayDALDIVA10
    @TheLongWayDALDIVA10 3 года назад +12

    I just discussed the loss of my mom on my channel. Whew the toughest part of my story thus far. Blessings to you both. Glad she got to be there for your special day ❤️

  • @williamray7751
    @williamray7751 3 года назад +39

    Your kids will be soo cute ,pretty and handsome, am officially appointing myself the Godmother 😆 🤣 Love you sooooo much guys,i see God in you. I feel him ,

  • @ndanatswa7
    @ndanatswa7 3 года назад +7

    It was an honour to meet your mum at your traditional marriage . What a gem she was xxx. May she rest in eternal peace .

  • @nekalynch8101
    @nekalynch8101 3 года назад +56

    This is such a great topic. I lost both of my parents in 2020 - my Dad to Covid and Mum to a stroke. My marriage was just a year old and it certainly puts a major strain both partners. It takes a lot of love and understanding to endure such trying times. My deepest condolences on the loss of your Mum.

    • @ThapiieMalope
      @ThapiieMalope 3 года назад +7

      I read your comment and my heart sank. I can't imagine losing both parents in one year. I am so sorry for your loss💔😪.

    • @nekalynch8101
      @nekalynch8101 3 года назад +2

      Thank you. We really appreciate it.

    • @traceyhelligar8560
      @traceyhelligar8560 3 года назад +1

      That was really a hard blow,I am so sorry

    • @virginiamoncur5421
      @virginiamoncur5421 3 года назад +1

      Sending prayers 🙏 up for the loss of your mom and dad. I know how it feels to lose both parents, because mine are in heaven with the LORD as well. My mom passed right after Mother's Day. She went into hospital on a Saturday and passed that following Monday. I'm glad out of my mom's 5 girls, she chose to spend Mother's Day with me and my daughter. May God bless and keep you safe and well. Treasure those beautiful memories 💖.

    • @lozziepoppy
      @lozziepoppy 3 года назад

      Sorry 😓❤️

  • @nancyimbleau1795
    @nancyimbleau1795 3 года назад +3

    The importance in marriage is so much and that is part of supporting each other everyday in each other's up times and down times and keeping each other happy.

  • @janeenhutchinson9646
    @janeenhutchinson9646 3 года назад +12

    I have watched every video, your beautiful spirits keep me watching and excited for the next, Winston watching the videos with your mom and Mayfair in them told me a story that your mom always wanted you to be ok that's why Mayfair came into your life by God so your mom can go home peacefully and God gave you what you needed a beautiful wife to comfort you!!!!!😇

    • @hopegwimile53
      @hopegwimile53 3 года назад

      God bless you my children.Love you so much,god given couple.You look so pretty.

    • @bamutorineovias3891
      @bamutorineovias3891 2 года назад +1

      Bambi I HV it this woman my God give u all u want in your life with your hobby bambi

  • @millieempowers
    @millieempowers 3 года назад +15

    I am deeply sorry for your loss. Its never easy, but I pray that God gives your family peace, comfort, & strength during this time. 🤎

  • @misse4395
    @misse4395 3 года назад +3

    This was so powerful! I, too, looked for my mom my Angel in so many ways only to see she is right there inside me. Thank you Winston for being so raw . God’s grace is really Amazing !

  • @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe
    @ThingsMadeEasyWithJeJe 3 года назад +9

    My deepest condolences - the loss of a parent is very difficult - I truly understand your pain - I lost my mother to Cancer and my father August 2020 to Covid - You mother is at peace knowing her son is in the hands of a woman who truly loves him

  • @maxinejohnson8474
    @maxinejohnson8474 3 года назад +4

    Winston and Mayfair, thank you for sharing your journey through grief. I have experienced so much grief and sometimes I struggle to understand. Listening to both of you , being supportive to each other, respecting each other's thoughts and feelings, is truly inspiring. Sincerest condolences to you both. May the Grace of God grant you Peace. Love you both 💓

  • @Nemyinspired
    @Nemyinspired 3 года назад +6

    Loss of a parent is very difficult to cope with. May God give you the grace to bear the loss

  • @mardgefignole72
    @mardgefignole72 3 года назад +12

    The clement are one of my favorite pairs to follow. Your materials are very inspirational and I really enjoy listening to your perspective as it relates to life areas surrounding love ❤️ marriage and etc.

  • @tandillon8499
    @tandillon8499 3 года назад +6

    New Subbie here! This video is not only inspiring, but it shows just what God is capable of doing in the face of grief and sadness! You two are a beautiful couple and I'm excited to see what's next for this relationship and channel! Continued prayers for the both of you! ❤

  • @meemeepalmer4144
    @meemeepalmer4144 3 года назад +4

    May she rest in paradise 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽she knew her son would b ok with this strong,beautiful talented ,intelligent wife that god has chosen to travel thru life with!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💞💞💞💞

  • @anniepeterson3059
    @anniepeterson3059 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Winston & Mayfair for sharing this content on Grief. It so helped me see things in a total different light. I actually shared pieces of sharing on dealing with grief with my daughter. So many momentous points the two of you made on Grief. I really loved this, "Giving yourself the Grace to rest, cry, or just talk about your hurt/pain, Grief is something Shared and Grief is that process of learning to live with being with someone but in a completely different form to what you are use too. Some very essential points. Thank you again for Sharing part of the two of you. Be Blessed for you are a Blessing...But of the Grace of GOD!!! God's Grace!!

  • @kyrahenrie8
    @kyrahenrie8 3 года назад +7

    I just love you two. I value listening to constructive conversations. 🖤

  • @ladyl4147
    @ladyl4147 3 года назад +1

    Just lost mom this year and this is so very helpful and you and your family so very blessed and bless the world. Even as a 65 year old daughter, it’s still being a child losing a parent. You are a ministry!

  • @keziahgitonga670
    @keziahgitonga670 3 года назад +3

    Sorry for your loss. I Love how you relied on the Holyspirit, and with God led things most people will never understand so it's good you obeyed. The beautiful thing you two are on the same standing faith wise cos with unity doors open. May God continue to led you and open the doors for you two. May God continue healing you both

  • @trcolysspace6915
    @trcolysspace6915 3 года назад +1

    So sorry dearest for the loss God is your strength in the healing journey

  • @debbieabraham-glasgow4052
    @debbieabraham-glasgow4052 3 года назад +20

    You two just melts my heart ❤️
    I pray that God will continue to bless you guys 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️🇹🇹

  • @nzingacox393
    @nzingacox393 3 года назад +2

    Thank you again for being so real and so vulnerable with us. It’s rare that people show their true inner most pain and feelings, just how you both bring everything back to the almighty is so heart warming. Thank you so much you challenge me to take a deeper look.

  • @ucheiwuajoku1037
    @ucheiwuajoku1037 3 года назад +2

    I love you both so much for being realistic and open about your grief. I relate so well because I lost my Dad last year too. To be honest, it can be hard sometimes to go through each day without him. But the resurrection hope keeps me going (crying) Thank God you both have each other to comfort and console. I really envy that.
    Building my faith in God and drawing close to him, has been a strong support for me. Thank you for sharing. I love you both

  • @queencoolgamer7670
    @queencoolgamer7670 3 года назад +1

    You have blessed the world both of you. This woman where did you get this golden heart from. Certainly, from above. May Mum's rest in peace.God bless u

  • @drnross-nwasike1136
    @drnross-nwasike1136 3 года назад +3

    May your mom continue to sleep in peace. I lost my mom in 2019, and honestly one of the comforts for me is knowing that she lives again - absent from the body but present with the Lord - and we will meet again! But there is no love like that of a mother, so I pray you continue to heal and see the beauty of your mom in so many little and big ways!

  • @Mandidzv
    @Mandidzv 3 года назад +2

    May her soul Rest In Peace . Love you guys. Only God knew . He does everything on his time

  • @denisegreene8441
    @denisegreene8441 2 года назад +4

    I'm so sorry your mum has passed. Grief is a very personal journey and there is no right or wrong way to go through it. My youngest daughter and I moved home to help my mum care for my dad as he was slowly going downhill and as they were elderly I made a promise they would not go into a nursing home. So we moved into my childhood home and helped my mum as best we could. My dad was ultimately diagnosed with pulmonary fibrosis stemming from his exposure too asbestos during his time in the CDN Navy. Not a forgiving disease. We lost my dad in Jan of 2018 and then my mum collapsed 4 days latter. We then spent 7 months trying to get her healthy enough to have a heart procedure. She unfortunately died 3 days after the procedure. It was devastating. I then took my older brother in and he died very unexpectedly 4 months later. All in all three deaths that close together just broke me. But talking about them and not suppressing my grief has helped me slowly get to a point where I don't cry just thinking about them. Losing a parent is difficult and I pray for your family to find comfort in your memories of time spent with her. She will always be with you. May she shine through you as you begin your journey together.

  • @lazzettawebster9533
    @lazzettawebster9533 9 месяцев назад

    Hallelujah! Thankful for God being the center of your lives. Trusting in him and being obedient has brought you thru. Continue to be the persone that Hod has called you to be. May he Continue to bless your lives ❤

  • @carolinemwaniga6207
    @carolinemwaniga6207 3 года назад +3

    You guys are glowing!!! Okay that's the first thing I saw when I began playing the video 😀. May the grace of God see you through this difficult season

  • @NomhleMaketo
    @NomhleMaketo 11 месяцев назад +1

    Very brave daughter in law .God is the super conseller. God bless yu

  • @makeupbeautymitchell5
    @makeupbeautymitchell5 3 года назад +1

    He had such a beautiful mother rest her soul in peace 🙏🏾❤️

  • @annahnatasha1461
    @annahnatasha1461 2 года назад

    I can never get enough of this family. God continue to bless u for us.

  • @tsitseshoai7335
    @tsitseshoai7335 3 года назад +4

    Praise God for you both, amazing couple who unashamedly profess your faith in this public platform. May God truly bless you and give you long prosperous healthy life. I honor you two, be blessed in Jesus name.

  • @Expensive-op6pn
    @Expensive-op6pn 6 месяцев назад +1

    25:05-25:14 right there is where I’m at with my dad’s passing. May the Lord be with us and all our loved ones with Him. It’s well.

  • @nancyimbleau1795
    @nancyimbleau1795 3 года назад +4

    Just be there for eachother love like you have never loved before!

  • @nancyimbleau1795
    @nancyimbleau1795 3 года назад +3

    And the most important thing to remember is to have total communication at all times when some thing is bothering you share it with each other so the other person can help you though it.

  • @balindajackson-gordon1633
    @balindajackson-gordon1633 3 года назад +1

    Your messages are such a blessing to many. May God continue to use you both as a messenger of his word and deliverance of his relevance in our daily lives.

  • @bbird1325
    @bbird1325 3 года назад +4

    This came right on time. My husband’s brother was murdered on Christmas 2020. The man who did it has not been brought to justice. My husband has not been the same. I continue to pray for him, because GOD brings ultimate comfort and peace. Thank you for sharing ❤️

    • @jennrdh15
      @jennrdh15 3 года назад +2

      Deepest condolences to your husband. My father passed away on the 21st December. Prayers to you and your family 🙏🏼

    • @bbird1325
      @bbird1325 3 года назад +1

      @@jennrdh15 thank you. Prayers to you as well 🙏🏾

    • @jennrdh15
      @jennrdh15 3 года назад

      @@bbird1325
      Thank you ❤️

    • @margaretwambete1228
      @margaretwambete1228 3 года назад

      So sad .may your husband's brother get justice

  • @kells9550
    @kells9550 3 года назад +5

    I am a new subscriber and l am so happy l subscribed. I can feel the genuine love the 2 of you have for each other. May God continue to bless you.

  • @tsitseshoai7335
    @tsitseshoai7335 3 года назад +10

    All I see is true love, Jesus love, keep loving each other and God will be glorified in your life.

  • @niacoleman3441
    @niacoleman3441 3 года назад +1

    Praying for you guys & your family🙏🏾💕 It’s so true what you said about 2020 & God’s timing. I lost 2 grandmothers last year, but still thankful that God is sustaining us!

  • @bizfs164
    @bizfs164 3 года назад +3

    I am sorry to hear of your loss. Praying that the peace of God that surpasses all understanding rest and abide with you and your family. 🙏

  • @conniedladla780
    @conniedladla780 3 года назад +1

    So sad😢😢May Their Souls RIP with the LORD🙏

  • @veronicagoodridge9554
    @veronicagoodridge9554 3 года назад +1

    My sympathy to you and your family. May your mom rest in peace.

  • @edithchinyelu9997
    @edithchinyelu9997 3 года назад

    Lovely Couple. Sorry for the great loss. May her soul rest in peace, and may the Good Lord console you and your family.

  • @vickykyengo4830
    @vickykyengo4830 3 года назад +1

    This is a real ministry....am always blessed watching you guys....God's timing in everything is always the best....Mayfair I feel God new Wiston is in safe hands and decided to rest mum from the pain of cancer..... am sorry of the loose.... and am so encouraged on how strong both of you are...and the love and care you have for each other......always praying for you 🙏

  • @princessmoyo7918
    @princessmoyo7918 2 года назад

    I am so sorry you lost your mum but love the beautiful testimony behind her transition to another life with God. She left a legacy in you connecting with God. Carry on the legacy of faith she deposited in you 💕🙏🏾🙏🏾💕

  • @heathershinnie-gonzales3933
    @heathershinnie-gonzales3933 Год назад

    Hello from Canada, so very sorry for your loss Winston, yes , I so understand loss my mother have been gone since 2007 and my father passed 2012, so I am grateful for my son, he is really all I have left, I found your channel about a month ago and am watching each one and find you both so beautiful and thank you for blessing us all with sharing your lives! God bless I will pray for you as you pray for us❤️🥰🇨🇦🇬🇧🙏🙏

  • @empresst3084
    @empresst3084 Год назад

    Sincere condolences~May she R.I.P.~Losing a loved one is a HARD pill to swallow~It's so hard to say good-bye to yesterday...

  • @siphiwedlamini469
    @siphiwedlamini469 3 года назад +3

    I definitely am proud of you guys for talking about our Lord Jesus Christ without compromise. And praising him.
    The people that believe in what ever they are proud of it.
    But always want to restrict Christians

  • @mizrich8912
    @mizrich8912 3 года назад +3

    I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I lost my mom suddenly in 2003 and it was devastating. It took me about 7 years to decide to be happy and whole again. (honestly, I thought if I showed my tantrum, she would come back). I thought that was the worst thing that would happen. I had alreadt lost my father, my husband, my brother, my mother, and other friends in between. Then on February 7 2019 we found my son dead. What motivated me to leave the message is the difficulty our culture has with death and grief. I tell people, I am hurting, healing and happy at the same time. My son isn't coming back. And my choice was not to fall back into that deep, dark hole of depression again. I am forever changed, but life is still good. Winston, I understand your feeling of not believing it is real, it's almost like a sci-fi movie where a person is here now and then vanishes. How do you do that, fight?? Thank you for talking. And again thanks for sharing. Love you guys.

    • @naomim.clements3843
      @naomim.clements3843 3 года назад

      Love this and thank you for sharing. You are right, our culture needs to do better with being open about grief. May God continue to heal you and walk with you as you walk through your grief, and may the spirit of them that you have lost continue to live through you. Love and blessings 💙

  • @rhondasanchez9620
    @rhondasanchez9620 3 года назад +2

    God give them strength and healing! I lost my dad in 1999 and I lost my mom in 2016. I thank God for the amazing memories that we treasure forever😇❤!

  • @sugarcake8136
    @sugarcake8136 3 года назад

    You guys are simply beautiful. I see the light of God shining brightly in both of you. Glad Winston's mum lived to share in the wedding. Continue to allow God to walk before you. Peace, love and blessings!

  • @cottoncandylady7186
    @cottoncandylady7186 3 года назад

    "FAITH" is the substance of things hoped for.... God Bless You Both. He is so awesome and I pray that He let's Angels keep charge over YOU BOTH!⚓

  • @sheilajoseph9953
    @sheilajoseph9953 3 года назад +1

    May your mother rest in peace, 🙏 your wedding was perfect timing, God moves in mysterious ways, it was meant to be. ❤

  • @lesliemiller8396
    @lesliemiller8396 3 года назад +3

    I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss💔🙏 Blessing's to you all and I also pray for strength and comfort during this difficult time 🙏 I've been through this and I've lost my mom and my 4 yr old son and 4yr old nephew and grandma in a automobile accident many years ago and it always seems like yesterday 💔 God restores smile's and comfort and strength to move on with our lives and keep beautiful memories within us that nobody can take away... Imagine waiting on your family to come back from a fishing trip and nobody ever returns (3 Family members in 1 day)I no longer wanted to be on earth but the awesome God we serve lifted me up and and strengthen me to continue on my journey 🙏I was shot by a drunk man at 16 and almost lost my life and everyday and night my grandmother whom I lost in the accident would be at my feet kneeling in prayer 🙏💔💔 Blessing's to all of you who's dealt with a loss or going through it 🙏💜🌹Heaven is filled with beautiful angel's 🌹

  • @blaknbeauty1
    @blaknbeauty1 3 года назад +12

    Y'all make marriage look soooooo fun!!!! I can't wait til I get Married to my KING 👑💪💍🎩👠🥂

  • @ebiojoidakwo9185
    @ebiojoidakwo9185 3 года назад +2

    My condolences, i lost my Dad in 2010 and my Mum on the 23/12/2020, it has not been easy but God remains faithful no matter what happens.

  • @melindamorrell-wilson9988
    @melindamorrell-wilson9988 2 года назад

    So sorry for your loss. I recently lost my father and I felt exactly the same as you described in the loss of your mother. My prayers are with you as you mourn her.

  • @Diane-td8kg
    @Diane-td8kg 3 года назад

    Thanks for sharing guys, I know that can't be easy to talk about our loved ones who have passed, but like most of your subscribers, time is a healer as I've been told this many times...I lost my mum last August 😪
    Like you, I have faith in God and I that's my saviour.
    Everyone grief in a different way and different length of times...only you know...
    I do believe that our loved ones are looking over us from heaven 🙏🏽

  • @bonikoneti7123
    @bonikoneti7123 3 года назад +9

    Tonight’s topic is very close to home for me. I lost my dad in August2019 to asthma. He actually died whilst driving him to the hospital. That time, my was diagnosed with a brain condition called hydrocephalus and was hospitalised. I didn’t get the time to grieve my dad, I had to look after my mom got her a caregiver as she ended up being immobile. After fighting and fighting for her life, she finally gave in Dec2020 and passed on in hospital after being hospitalised for about 2 months. That early morning, my heart stopped for a minute. I now only have my 2 boys and my partner in the UK. I doubt the pain of losing a parent ever goes away. Everything in this life reminds me of her, at some point I didn’t want to play gospel music, all the songs she and I sang made me cry like a baby. I still am dealing with it, I lost my best friend, my pillar, my biggest fan, my funder, my prayer warrior. I know both my parents are resting peacefully and I’m blessed to have been born, provided for, cared for, disciplined and loved by them until they dearly departed. My their souls eternally rest in peace 🕊🕊🕊🌸🌸🌸❤️❤️❤️😇😇😇

    • @amiracleandadream2070
      @amiracleandadream2070 3 года назад +1

      Aww, Boni, that's exactly like me ! I still can not listen to gospel music, same here, my mum and myself always sang together ☺️🙏 I was also her care giver, she had dementia, I miss her every breathing moment of each and every day, but GOD will see us through, keep strong in Christ x ❤️🙏

    • @bonikoneti7123
      @bonikoneti7123 3 года назад +1

      @@amiracleandadream2070 it’s not easy hey! I know when I sing gospel she’s also singing and dancing with me in heaven. I always just look up to the heaven, sing gospel and dance like I’m with her. I’m now learning to continue even with tears, it’s part of my grieving process but I also find more connection with God through singing gospel so I cannot stop singing it otherwise I’m going to lose my connection with God. It is indeed similar, my mom also ended up having dementia. Since I work full time, I had to get a full time caregiver, who was sent to us by God. Let our parents continue to rest in eternal peace, we shall also continue to go through this process, we are not alone. God is with us, He promised never to leave us nor forsake us. Just go through the process 🕊🕊🕊🌸🌸🌸😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏

    • @amiracleandadream2070
      @amiracleandadream2070 3 года назад +1

      @@bonikoneti7123 Thankyou so much Boni for your reply, I'm in tears now 💔 True I will try to continue to play the gospel music we both loved, I will probably cry all the way through but GOD will carry me through, I pray you find strength to carry on singing and dancing for the LORD and in honour of your beautiful mother, I'll always remember your up lifting words Boni, thankyou so much 🙏❤️ GOD bless x

    • @bonikoneti7123
      @bonikoneti7123 3 года назад +1

      @@amiracleandadream2070 oh wow I’m glad you’re encouraged 🌸🌸🌸🙌🏻😇🙌🏻 go thru the process, God is close to the broken hearted. Let us draw near Him in our praise and worship, He will draw near us and one day, we will look back and smile. Grateful to have helped you in a tiny way, we shall overcome in Jesus name Amen 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🙏😇😇❤️❤️❤️

  • @ceciliasanders8645
    @ceciliasanders8645 3 года назад +2

    I know how you feel, I lost my brother and father in law the same week, God brought us through,when you have God on your side he with give you the strength to walk through the hard times

  • @Leelove35
    @Leelove35 3 года назад +1

    Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last year in May 20. There is nothing that can replace a mom. 😢

  • @lindalabee9991
    @lindalabee9991 3 года назад +1

    My heart goes out to you.Seek God for healing.Just remember your good memories will never be forgotten.I know the pain in the death of your mom is hard.May god give you and your family strength to move forward.

  • @pamhop5831
    @pamhop5831 3 года назад +1

    Thank you both for this timely reminder that there’s no set time on Grief. And as Christian’s we know we’ll all see our loved ones again ✝️🙏🏿 AMEN

  • @lindafrazier9367
    @lindafrazier9367 3 года назад

    Thank you for this video! I love your genuineness and I lost my mother in November 2020 and what you said is so true...I look in the mirror and I see my mom in me daily, which keeps her memory and a part of her alive. And as a believer, as I endure till the end, following Christ, by faith 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18, I will see her again.You're both such an inspiration!! Keep being the vessels for the LORD and to reach the world for Him!💕💕

  • @bridgetcameron7779
    @bridgetcameron7779 3 года назад

    So sorry for your lose🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼prayers of Strength to your family at this time we send our condolences

  • @pamelaferebee3648
    @pamelaferebee3648 2 года назад

    I understand the way you feel. I lost my dad 8 months ago and it's been hard. I'm still going through. With God on my side, I know I will make it. Continue to be in prayer and you'll will be good. Be blessed.

  • @nellymbugua5808
    @nellymbugua5808 3 года назад

    So sorry for your loss. I loss my most treasured mum recently and the gap is so real. Indeed walk through this process with God's grace

  • @williamray7751
    @williamray7751 3 года назад +2

    My favorite couple,i feel you ,Loss is something no one can describe....you need to exprience to undertake, its 5 yrs i still cry in secret for my late mom,its the most painful..God will heal you my dear ones ,a day at a time

  • @elizabethnjoki1702
    @elizabethnjoki1702 3 года назад +9

    My mother passed on barely two years after my divorce and I felt like double pain. It's at that point I learnt the power and importance of accepting, letting and moving on. I went for therapy but that made it easier for me to overcome the pain. You guys are such an inspiration. Keep going

    • @sonyia7521
      @sonyia7521 3 года назад +2

      Oh, pole Njoki. My own mother passed on about 10yrs after my divorce but that didn't make it any easier becos esp my kids are young adults and this when they needed her most as she was their only grandma, anyway Jesus reigns and he sees us thro. Barikiwa

    • @bethgikaru3726
      @bethgikaru3726 2 года назад

      Wao so sorry have courage 😊😊

  • @alicebedoy6536
    @alicebedoy6536 3 года назад +2

    My deep condolences to both of you and all extended family members. God’s will in heaven and earth, Cancer patients are profiles in courage. My own daughter had metastatic breast cancer that ravaged all her body. Psalm 23 was our comfort in our darkest hours, God was with us, he carried her home in his arms.

  • @candystayinaturalalexander5869
    @candystayinaturalalexander5869 3 года назад

    You guys rock! It's the big hearts and the intellect for me. I'm an adult orphan myself and although my mom's transition was over ten years it's still ever so fresh 🙏🌻🤗💙💯

  • @lavetaburtcher5178
    @lavetaburtcher5178 3 года назад +1

    I just came across your channel yesterday and literally love your videos. I am addicted to watching you two now. Love, light and happiness to you both.