Making Relationships Work | Dr. John Gottman | Seattle Rotary Club

Dr. John Gottman speaks to the Seattle Rotary Club on 9/9/2015.
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[@theDanDeleon]

7:52 NOW GIVE ME DEM LYKES

[@_jordanhayles]

Dan Deleon We appreciate your service, Dan. Lol

[@davidmossholder3610]

This is excellent. So practical. Thanks for posting.

[@WishfulFarmers]

At 18:00, Dr John G. starts describing successful couples and their, I'd say, humble responses to critical feedback.

[@80zBabee]

Great seminar

[@AndreaCairella]

I enjoyed Dr. John Gottman's speech and research about relationships. As a therapist, I admire his strategies to creating healthy and healthy relationships. I would love to interview John and Julie on my radio show on the keys to a happy and healthy marriage. Let me know and we can coordinate a good time to have them on the show.

[@glasshousefuture6836]

I always wondered what happened to Bob 😅

[@zensvlognotapro]

Wow wonderful romantic relationship ❤️.

[@charliechuck8994]

Wow too late for me

[@harryaldieny7697]

John Gottman has got to be included in our schools curricula!

[@behindcloseddoors2027]

Absolutely

[@rhythmandblues_alibi]

Especially for those from dysfunctional families, it's so difficult and yet important to learn this stuff.

[@dominiknewfolder2196]

Sure 😂
Female teachers are the most pathological example for women how to treat man.
Every woman behaving like a teacher towards a husband creates conflict.
It's a pathological example for relationships.
Zero respect, all power and zero responsibility. Typical school teacher

[@peternorthrup6274]

Marry your best friend. I did. That was 33 years ago. We never wanted kids. It was always about us. And always remember. She is right. Whatever the problem is. Most of the time it's not that important. I got lucky. And listen.

[@miriamwebster2169]

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[@SS-dp7lt]

This is cute. I know my soulmate is on his way to me / energetically we are already together. We too shall not have kids.

[@msay4596]

Took me twice to find my best friend. My 1st husband was my best enemy, my 2nd husband is my best friend. I am thankful to my 1st husband bc he taught me so much about what I didn't want, that I found what I did.

[@johnnmusic]

Have kids. Can’t describe how “worth it” It is.

[@brandomiranda6703]

Amazing! Most couples fight about the failure to connect emotionally...so amazingly and terrifyingly true. Nearly seems to predict any fight Ive ever had.

[@leopoldhuffer1207]

John Gottman has achieved more for couples then anybody else in our time. Thank you, John! It's so wonderful that you did all this research. Study his masterpiece nonfiction book "What makes Love last?" that sums up most of his recommendations.

[@natalie9884]

Husband dead set on divorce and I cannot accept this. I need serious help and need to take action somehow. Feel so helpless.

[@jaquelineguardado6503]

I hope these kinds of videos help you & your husband! Sending you love .

[@natalie9884]

Jaqueline Guardado thank you for that! Hope you’re holding up okay as well......💜
I’ve accepted that I can’t do anything to change his mind.

[@jaquelineguardado6503]

Natalie Gaylard sometimes things that we don’t understand are for the better. Stay strong

[@khushandepatel8252]

How are things now between you & husband??

[@maboo736]

You’re gorgeous. Let him go…if it’s meant to be he will be fighting to stay

[@atimnile2401]

Love the Older Couple’s love stories 🥰🥰😍😍; makes we wanna cry Happy Tears💯

[@timothyk13]

The woman at the beginning has a great radio/narrating voice.

[@illmeeillmee9373]

Some ppl are so good at being victims that they attack while being a victim

[@janethomas78]

People want to be loved. Loved. Connected? Just be honest- LOVED.

[@powermarriage9823]

Great research. Dr. Gottman has helped many marriages with his work. Certainly has helped my marriage.

[@peterarakkakudypeter9262]

Wonderful speech, Dr: John Gottman thank you

[@orijit]

what a brilliant and funny man!!

[@alty07]

I enjoyed this

[@frawldog]

💜

[@rhapsodicchimera9768]

Anyone know the name of the apps at 27:20?? Wow, this was insightful. It's small things like doing little activities your partner likes just to make them happy and complimenting on the little things that help them feel seen......... KISSING is big, I often need the kissing to be good and often before I can get to the deeper part of relations. I've ended relationships over bad kisses 😅. It was turning me off. Now I feel validated for that lol.

[@illmeeillmee9373]

20:33 yess!!!

[@zephyr2427]

Overall I really enjoyed his speech but I felt like he got a bit defensive about the "wrong reasons" question and through that and other comments I feel like he doesn't understand childhood trauma

[@c.kevinwall3117]

So enlightening!

[@nv7287]

29:24 39:38

[@descentralized]

Só to aqui por q a moonkase gostou desse video

[@cachorrobr250]

Julio Vnq eu também kkk

[@piclesejoaoanime6321]

Mateus Vnq também

[@jameshendrickson4845]

No need to dig on the south.

[@kayceeg5464]

lmao but it's true

[@joshlarsen4123]

Wow, this is such an awesome video!!