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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 9 тыс.

  • @JuJuDes
    @JuJuDes  3 года назад +7343

    Hey guys,
    For anyone wondering, we weren’t necessarily trying to get pregnant. The beginning of the video was simply us sharing when I thought I might be and ended up with a negative test result. Much of my emotion in those clips came from a place of fear, as I’m sure many women can relate to. We were not trying to force anything, this is simply our journey.
    Thank you all for your kind words and support. We love you all so much ❤️

    • @michellegranillo6779
      @michellegranillo6779 3 года назад +15

      Des we 😍

    • @kaleenabergquist1323
      @kaleenabergquist1323 3 года назад +29

      We love you guys❤️❤️❤️❤️ thanks for sharing your journey with us!!

    • @Nonameforworkreasons
      @Nonameforworkreasons 3 года назад +13

      Love uu sending love and prayers

    • @daniellegoot2802
      @daniellegoot2802 3 года назад +13

      We love you guys 💜 always have my support!!

    • @Lisamariexoxox
      @Lisamariexoxox 3 года назад +14

      We love you guys so so much! You BOTH are amazing and thank you for opening up to us. Stay positive everyone! #positivevibesonly!!! #JDFamily ♥️♥️

  • @NazaninKavari
    @NazaninKavari 3 года назад +8863

    I’m so sorry 💔 Destiny, you are one of the strongest woman I know. You’re going to be the greatest mom one day!

    • @JuJuDes
      @JuJuDes  3 года назад +746

      Thank you Naz ❤️ that means a lot to me

    • @8teein
      @8teein 3 года назад +50

      Definitely she is an incredibly caring and sensitive person she will make an awesome mother!❤️❤️

    • @queenj7990
      @queenj7990 3 года назад +7

      @@JK-cr6rl okay but there’s no need for you to attack them like that tho tf!!

    • @FromBroadway2Loyalty
      @FromBroadway2Loyalty 3 года назад +1

      @@JK-cr6rl that’s absolutely not true ! First of all ! Secondly please speak to your God because you ain’t right for your comment! Also let me add very insensitive!!

    • @Tartebio
      @Tartebio 3 года назад +1

      @@JK-cr6rl how did she miscarriage?

  • @nellyyy7584
    @nellyyy7584 3 года назад +846

    She’s so fucken strong her “it’s okay” when it kept saying she wasn’t pregnant omg my heart 🥺

    • @mattwinter3293
      @mattwinter3293 3 года назад +22

      @dudeimgeorge Why did u laugh that was not funny like grow up

    • @nellyyy7584
      @nellyyy7584 3 года назад +4

      @@mattwinter3293 I reported it real quick

    • @mattwinter3293
      @mattwinter3293 3 года назад +4

      @dudeimgeorge grow up u clown this is real u can tell that it's real i don't think they were worrying about money rn so stop spreading hate

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do!

    • @dianehartman8265
      @dianehartman8265 3 года назад

      Yep I’m sorry for her

  • @ToriRalphygarcia1522
    @ToriRalphygarcia1522 3 года назад +837

    7 years ‘ with my fiancé been trying for 2 years have had 3 miscarriages no living babies . Praying for you all & everyone trying to conceive and deliver a healthy baby ❤️

    • @27sultan22
      @27sultan22 3 года назад +13

      praying for you too 💘

    • @ToriRalphygarcia1522
      @ToriRalphygarcia1522 3 года назад +2

      @@27sultan22 thank you ❤️

    • @brittanysmith6459
      @brittanysmith6459 3 года назад +1

      @tori Garza people can have miscarriages and take certain medications to have a healthy pregnancy for 9 9 months and a healthy baby too expect a miracle too

    • @LVLBIBI
      @LVLBIBI 3 года назад +1

      🙏🏽💖💖

    • @juanalemus1640
      @juanalemus1640 3 года назад +1

      Sending you much love and praying for you ❤️

  • @rileystrong2235
    @rileystrong2235 3 года назад +681

    Isaiah 60:22 - "When the time is right, I, the Lord, will make it happen." Praying for both of you!

    • @pitajean5562
      @pitajean5562 3 года назад +7

      I believe this with all my heart and soul

    • @jeneral_27
      @jeneral_27 3 года назад +6

      Amen.

    • @rachelspring2583
      @rachelspring2583 3 года назад +6

      Amen

    • @carolineg5807
      @carolineg5807 3 года назад +5

      Amen!God is in our tomorrows before we even arrive. He holds our tomorrows and has a will for us. He does everything for the good of us💝 just believe it will all that you are

    • @logitech0300
      @logitech0300 3 года назад +5

      Amen 🙏🏽

  • @masinaj.6942
    @masinaj.6942 3 года назад +268

    When she left the message for the baby 🥺 I’m so sorry.

  • @kimberlyt3953
    @kimberlyt3953 3 года назад +687

    Please marry this girl. She's an amazing person. Blessing to the couple.

  • @christinajacobo9527
    @christinajacobo9527 3 года назад +332

    I tried to get pregnant for years ! 7 years to be exact and now 7 years later I have my two healthy baby boys ! It's all in God's timing 🙏

    • @BigFamilyDynasty9
      @BigFamilyDynasty9 3 года назад +4

      Amen true words God have everything in control ❤️

    • @valeriagarza6703
      @valeriagarza6703 3 года назад +2

      It took my mom 7 years too! I know its a long time but now she has 4 health y kids it will happen 💞💞

  • @KamrynnAlexis
    @KamrynnAlexis 3 года назад +1073

    THIS is why people shouldn't comment anything about "when's the baby coming?" you never know what's going on behind closed doors 💗 LOVE YOU GUYS! 💗

    • @ediii2247
      @ediii2247 3 года назад +6

      True😔

    • @monteellis4436
      @monteellis4436 3 года назад +30

      Exactly. If a couple doesn't have a baby yet it's either they're trying and can't get one or they're not trying at the moment. Either way, it's very rude for people to ask about it imo. I know it's not coming from a malicious place but it can be very disheartening for people struggling. People need to be mindful of that.

    • @marlenna215
      @marlenna215 3 года назад +9

      @@monteellis4436 They were doing pregnancy pranks all the time though? Of course people are going to ask. Pregnancy isnt funny you cant joke about it all the time for views and then get upset when people ask wheres the baby.

    • @monteellis4436
      @monteellis4436 3 года назад +13

      @@marlenna215 All I'm saying is be mindful. Just because they do some pregnancy prank videos doesn't mean anything. That's not an an excuse to ask "So when is the real baby coming"? Like I said, it's rude, intentionally meant to be or not, because so many women and men struggle with having children, you don't know what you're triggering.

    • @je9862
      @je9862 3 года назад +5

      @@monteellis4436 not everyone wants children either

  • @Cecex143
    @Cecex143 3 года назад +184

    i don’t know why everytime you cried, i cried with you. you’re so strong des.

  • @zeniamobley2552
    @zeniamobley2552 3 года назад +556

    Y’all when Julius opened the last gift and instantly got emotional and said shut up I started crying and cried the rest of the video 🥺 I wanna hug both of them

    • @chelsiebelo220
      @chelsiebelo220 3 года назад +1

      Same here 😭😭🥺😢 I couldn’t even watch out the video .🥺

    • @bria4776
      @bria4776 3 года назад +1

      Same he was so happy

    • @cindymthethwa9926
      @cindymthethwa9926 3 года назад +1

      Same here that's when i started crying 💔😔This video was heartbreaking i wish them all the best ❤️

  • @ThePeetes
    @ThePeetes 3 года назад +819

    THIS is why I don’t like people asking couples when are they going to have a baby.. u never know what they are struggling with! You guys are going to be great parents one day 💓 we struggled too, but now finally have our baby girl. Trust your time will come! 🙏🏼 Sending you love!

    • @iamdestineesydney1377
      @iamdestineesydney1377 3 года назад +6

      This is everything 🙌🏾. I hate being asked that, been trying for 3 years

    • @adrianaheredia2429
      @adrianaheredia2429 3 года назад +2

      exactly! People you need to understand the struggle and be respectful!!! been trying for 4 years

    • @lcantu7865
      @lcantu7865 3 года назад

      I honestly never thought about it that way until recently.

    • @elyssiav3236
      @elyssiav3236 2 года назад

      Trying for two years I heard a song and in the song it said how can I be avoiding something so long (hs and after hs) then now that I want to it basically hasn't happened

    • @elyssiav3236
      @elyssiav3236 2 года назад

      Nobody has robbed u from your experience they can't our time will come ****baby dust****

  • @shereesousa1876
    @shereesousa1876 3 года назад +486

    When she said “even though we wanted to be it’s protector he wanted to be ours” when she said that I started crying because there is so much in those words. You guys will get through this and just think that the baby will look after you guys and it is a beautiful angle. My prayers to you guys. I look up to you guys for going through this and still have your head up and being strong.

    • @ameliawilliams8500
      @ameliawilliams8500 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/FbmoPTbtZsg/видео.html

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do!

  • @christabela5267
    @christabela5267 3 года назад +166

    When I first got pregnant I had a miscarriage 4 weeks later...2 months later I found out I was pregnant & now he is 2 years old. You will have your blessing, keep your head up and be positive. ly🤍

    • @carliewhipple2126
      @carliewhipple2126 3 года назад +2

      This happened to me! 2 months later i ended up with a boy who is now 2!

    • @christabela5267
      @christabela5267 3 года назад +2

      @@carliewhipple2126 rainbow babies🤍

    • @taylorfawkes1513
      @taylorfawkes1513 3 года назад +2

      I got pregnant with my boy 2 months after as well❤️ he is one now

    • @alexi111
      @alexi111 3 года назад +1

      My wife and I are going through the same. Had one at 5 weeks and now we are at 7 weeks. All I can do is stay as positive as I can for her and take it day by day. Hearing success stories does make the day better.

    • @taylorfawkes1513
      @taylorfawkes1513 3 года назад

      @@alexi111 it will happen ❤️

  • @TriciaAndKam
    @TriciaAndKam 3 года назад +1587

    We are so so sorry you guys are going through this. You are both unbelievably strong & will be the most AMAZING parents. Sending our prayers to both of you during this heartbreaking time❤️ Love, Tricia & Kam

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад +4

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do!

    • @hanzelprince8640
      @hanzelprince8640 3 года назад +1

      O

  • @alondraalonzo9368
    @alondraalonzo9368 3 года назад +334

    Who’s here after they just announced they were pregnant, I’m so happy for you guys wishing nothing but the best & blessings for your little family 💕💕💕

    • @claudiapalacios3114
      @claudiapalacios3114 3 года назад +1

      Me

    • @brianaee
      @brianaee 3 года назад +1

      Mee💓💓

    • @24kchefkimmy43
      @24kchefkimmy43 3 года назад +1

      Meeeee 🙋🏽‍♀️ lol, first time even seeing this couple. They are just too cute. 🥰

  • @desireeramirez7649
    @desireeramirez7649 3 года назад +286

    It literally shattered my heart seeing destiny so disappointed and hurt from not being pregnant . We love you beautiful girl . You are going to make an absolute amazing mother one day , I promise you 😞💔

  • @kayla9872
    @kayla9872 3 года назад +198

    This breaks my heart. She’s such a sweet person seeing her smile go away is so sad.

  • @vlils3011
    @vlils3011 3 года назад +559

    This is why it’s so important to not ask a woman if she is pregnant, you truly do not know what someone is going through behind closed doors.
    Not our body not our business period!

    • @bria4776
      @bria4776 3 года назад +1

      For real

    • @andraelena4166
      @andraelena4166 3 года назад +4

      Exactly, at the video when they have a road trip so many girls are like omg she looks so sad , she definitely was pregnant and lost the baby . But in a very pushy ugly way . Like wtf shut up . Who asks stuff like that !?

    • @sarax1386
      @sarax1386 3 года назад

      Yessss

    • @chontsxx5039
      @chontsxx5039 3 года назад

      @@andraelena4166 hey x what road trip was this xx

    • @ameliawilliams8500
      @ameliawilliams8500 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/FbmoPTbtZsg1/видео.html

  • @amandahernandez53012
    @amandahernandez53012 3 года назад +62

    I was 7 weeks pregnant and just yesterday I learned I lost my baby it’s a hard thing to cope but watching this made me feel a bit better then I did yesterday

    • @ashleyalvarez4393
      @ashleyalvarez4393 2 года назад +3

      I’m going through a miscarriage right now and I’m so devastated it’s hard to get up from bed for the pain and everything my hubby keeps putting on a heating pad every time I use the bathroom it’s so heartbreaking this was my first pregnancy and I’m 31 I feel like a huge loss and a mess up

  • @hellolangiie
    @hellolangiie 3 года назад +1430

    Sending you prayers through this difficult time. 🙏🏻 Losing a baby is no doubt one of the hardest & traumatic thing to go through, I’m so sorry this happened. It’s not fair. You will be amazing parents soon ✨

    • @bria4776
      @bria4776 3 года назад +6

      omg hey I love you

    • @searchingforname700
      @searchingforname700 3 года назад +9

      We luv u langie, u the most one can feel des cuz u did live this hard process ,wish u all happiness frm north Africa

    • @axdacity_8690
      @axdacity_8690 3 года назад +1

      @@searchingforname700 omggg, where in North Africa 👏🏼👏🏼😂

    • @searchingforname700
      @searchingforname700 3 года назад +1

      @@axdacity_8690 hey,exactly @Algeria, u ??

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do!

  • @luthomarcianelani
    @luthomarcianelani 3 года назад +542

    People need to honestly learn from this and just understand that asking someone whether they're pregnant is just off limits. Let people tell you in their own time

    • @Ramirezgab8
      @Ramirezgab8 3 года назад +7

      This !!! People need to mind their own business

    • @haileyjohnson9380
      @haileyjohnson9380 3 года назад +3

      This needs to be the top comment

    • @angyrea
      @angyrea 3 года назад +2

      Yesss what I said!!!

    • @dejaeagovanre
      @dejaeagovanre 3 года назад +2

      Agreed! This is exactly why people WAIT to announce their pregnancy, because sometimes these unfortunate situations happen. Some people just are nosy and cannot wait for their official announcement

  • @axdacity_8690
    @axdacity_8690 3 года назад +303

    Having a miscarriage is the worst, you get so excited, tell your family and spouse, you plan a whole future then within seconds the baby’s gone... 🥺💔

    • @Yukymix1
      @Yukymix1 3 года назад +9

      Dam 💔💔💔💔💔😥😔 r.i.p little baby angel💔😥

  • @ArisenOne
    @ArisenOne 3 года назад +93

    I love the fact that she acknowledged that he was hurting just as much!!

  • @deneesvacays
    @deneesvacays 3 года назад +246

    There is so much pressure placed on us as women to get pregnant and it is very stressful sometimes. Praying for you guys and anyone who is unable to conceive!💕

  • @annnieves5561
    @annnieves5561 3 года назад +281

    Who’s cutting onions .. this is so sad .. there’s woman who would love to have babies yet there’s woman who have and hurt them .. I wish you nothing but the best .. god is going to bless you ..

  • @adrianamichalak9192
    @adrianamichalak9192 3 года назад +198

    Omg so sad when she spoke about telling the baby how much she loves him/her years later 😔😭😭😢 I’m so sorry guys

  • @tonya4124
    @tonya4124 3 года назад +60

    I went through this, did not heal and got pregnant like 8 months later, I love my baby but I live paranoid and did not enjoy my pregnancy. Don’t make the same mistake as me, always enjoy every step. Many blessings and love you guysss 💞💞

  • @princessqueen30yearsago32
    @princessqueen30yearsago32 3 года назад +446

    Rest In Heaven to all the babies that died Prayers to everyone who is pregnant and I’m praying y’all have a safe delivery 🤍🙏

    • @junewilliams9286
      @junewilliams9286 3 года назад +3

      Thank you 🥺❤️

    • @princessqueen30yearsago32
      @princessqueen30yearsago32 3 года назад

      @@junewilliams9286 Np😢💙

    • @cell85043
      @cell85043 3 года назад

      Can someone PLEASE save 20 minutes of my life telling me what happened

    • @annalenakruger2035
      @annalenakruger2035 3 года назад +1

      @@cell85043 they always tried to get kids but it never worked and then it worked but then it was a misscarriage sry for my english

  • @AffirmationsBliss111
    @AffirmationsBliss111 3 года назад +143

    Destiny I think I can speak for everyone when I say this: thank you for allowing us to see this side of you. For you to be comfortable enough with us to be vulnerable is just amazing. You are strong and worthy of so much! 🥺🥺

  • @carolinacando8609
    @carolinacando8609 3 года назад +349

    When her face did the pout in the first reveal my heart felt for her

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад +1

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do and be just like Juju and Des! Such inspirations!

    • @TheEricaKatherine
      @TheEricaKatherine 3 года назад

      I related so much to this... it’s like not having that moment planned but seeing negative it still breaks your heart .

  • @llmamax9913
    @llmamax9913 3 года назад +101

    God’s plan. Trust his timing. He doesn’t give us what we can’t handle. ❤️

  • @nikie6860
    @nikie6860 3 года назад +179

    I cried every time she cried cause I could see in her eyes the hope and everything, I am very emotional as well so I am still crying typing this. I'm so sorry to hear that but have faith and Destiny you are one amazing and strongest woman I know, take your time to heal mamas. Juju is one amazing and strong partner as well, I love you guys, take your time to heal.

  • @ChrisKaly
    @ChrisKaly 3 года назад +260

    I swear Juju and Des are probably one of the most humble most genuine RUclipsrs I have ever encountered. My thoughts and prayers go out to them and their family. My wife had 3 miscarriages as well and it’s tough, but we pulled through it and I know that they will too. We love you guys and thanks for all that you do!

    • @christophersoto2485
      @christophersoto2485 3 года назад +5

      I am sorry for your loss. They seem like sweet people and I hope they get better from this.

    • @ChrisKaly
      @ChrisKaly 3 года назад

      @@christophersoto2485 thanks bro!

    • @ameliawilliams8500
      @ameliawilliams8500 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/FbmoPTbtZsg/видео.html

  • @AdeolaPatronne
    @AdeolaPatronne 3 года назад +1052

    So sorry this happened, sending you so much love 🤍🙏🏾

    • @natashajuliet2192
      @natashajuliet2192 3 года назад +9

      Adeola!!!!woww....love you

    • @julieayuk6680
      @julieayuk6680 3 года назад +2

      Love you

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do and be just like Juju and Des! Such inspirations!

  • @lesslieperez8804
    @lesslieperez8804 3 года назад +42

    please know that it isn’t your fault and it happens very often, it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with your body. you will be an amazing mother one day 🤍

  • @lebhotshorty
    @lebhotshorty 3 года назад +182

    I can’t imagine how many couples struggle in silence to have a baby, while people are constantly asking when they plan on having kids... I don’t even have a boyfriend and that is one of my worst fears🥺🥺

    • @ameliawilliams8500
      @ameliawilliams8500 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/FbmoPTbtZsg/видео.html

    • @SimplyNaeah
      @SimplyNaeah 3 года назад +5

      Same, It’s so sad this is the third miscarriage video I’ve seen on trending

    • @gigim.319
      @gigim.319 3 года назад +2

      It’s the worst feeling ever! But to play it off we laugh because literally breaks your heart every time.

  • @rebeccacruz5697
    @rebeccacruz5697 3 года назад +198

    I cried as soon as they both started to cry when Juju found out she was pregnant 😩 thank you so much for sharing this journey with us.

  • @jazminetorres4288
    @jazminetorres4288 3 года назад +174

    the way des looks at juju like she finds so much comfort in him, sending yall my love ❤️

  • @karinaperez9775
    @karinaperez9775 3 года назад +35

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Gods timing is everything. Don’t lose faith!

  • @BrendaGonzalez-dl5yr
    @BrendaGonzalez-dl5yr 3 года назад +121

    I had a miscarriage Sept 24, 2018 I will never forget that day 3 months later I got pregnant with my rainbow 🌈 baby she is now a happy and healthy 18 month old. Just remember there is always a rainbow after a storm sending you guys prayers

    • @oOStarsAndStripesOo
      @oOStarsAndStripesOo 3 года назад

      Super random, but my birthday is Sept 24 and we've been trying for a while too. Maybe this is a sign for me 🙏

  • @atashaterrelonge451
    @atashaterrelonge451 3 года назад +80

    She was so happy to be pregnant. When it’s the right time you’ll have a kid. Des is such a beautiful person inside and out💛 I can’t wait until the day they have a beautiful healthy together . I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @melanie2527
    @melanie2527 3 года назад +238

    we appreciate you guys opening up about this ❤️

  • @evacervantes1370
    @evacervantes1370 3 года назад +21

    I cried with you even when you took the first pregnancy test just out of curiosity 😭😭
    Praying God gives y’all all the comfort y’all need 🤍

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 3 года назад +120

    I like that there is more awareness of how difficult pregnancy is for women in so many ways and how important it is to have a good man support you through it.

  • @sierrajacks9831
    @sierrajacks9831 3 года назад +324

    It's crazy that I got pregnant accidentally, and didn't want to but people who do want it struggle so UNFAIR.

    • @yums9283
      @yums9283 3 года назад +23

      thats crazy. I didn’t want to get pregnant either but i got pregnant incredibly easily and accidentally and i got very mad at myself. Im very grateful now tho. 💔

    • @breannac1700
      @breannac1700 3 года назад +16

      I talk about this alllll the time. People who say “I don’t ever want kids” get pregnant faster and easier than those who go through IVF & other infertility struggles. ☹️

    • @carmenvenegas2297
      @carmenvenegas2297 3 года назад

      Felt

    • @cristalslyfestyle4442
      @cristalslyfestyle4442 3 года назад +1

      It’s late periods or sometimes missing period while growing up being irregular that it’s really really hard to get pregnant but sometime it may also be the guys sperm which is why it’s more better to go to the doctor but when girls get pregnant fast it’s cus they are really fertile so I was told I don’t even know man but yea it sucks it’s hard Af for some people and so easy for others this video made me sooo sad like it’s sad cus I have family that went threw the same as her and it’s a really sad time like no words can explain how sorry I am I cannot and don’t even want to imagine that pain that’s one of my fears and laborlol

  • @RAHFamily
    @RAHFamily 3 года назад +430

    IM SORRY SO MUCH DESTINY , DON'T worry your little angel will be here soon

  • @preciousdestiny189
    @preciousdestiny189 3 года назад +85

    It’s all about timing. Time heals. Time reveals. When God is ready he will bless the both of you when he is ready.❤️

  • @user-jr9lr2yh3i
    @user-jr9lr2yh3i 3 года назад +335

    DESTINY. Darling, you didn’t lose your blessed baby, He/She is just not ready to be born! Wasn’t GODS time, plan for you in THIS season!!! But you WILL claim your blessings in DUE TIME
    TURN TO HIM.

    • @Salmos121.1
      @Salmos121.1 3 года назад +7

      Destiny, you’re little Darling is in heaven waiting for you and daddy Julius. There are no words in this world that can comfort you but may God give you both the strength y’all need🥺 God bless you guys and I’m sure God will give you a baby soon, when u less expect it 🤗

    • @user-jr9lr2yh3i
      @user-jr9lr2yh3i 3 года назад +2

      @@Salmos121.1 Little angel sure is waiting! You can’t change your fate it’s just about the timing !

    • @Salmos121.1
      @Salmos121.1 3 года назад

      @@user-jr9lr2yh3i yasss🥲

  • @samanthajohnson6233
    @samanthajohnson6233 3 года назад +159

    U will get thru it hun. My aunt had 3 miscarriages before she had her daughter. There is not timing like God's timing. So keep the faith and it will happen when it's supposed to...

  • @amirabloom9702
    @amirabloom9702 3 года назад +68

    I had a miscarriage on the 21st October.. reading the title and then the date popping up.. my heart shattered.. 💔 we are in this together, the universe has your back.. our back. promise💙🪐

  • @danikap5664
    @danikap5664 3 года назад +10

    Strongest ppl are ironically the most emotional. I love u des

  • @ohheylinzay5060
    @ohheylinzay5060 3 года назад +99

    Please don’t give up! I have had 2 miscarriages and now have 2 beautiful children. Don’t give up. It’s very natural and not your fault. It hurts so bad. I know. But as you said, nothing is wrong with you.

  • @showmework
    @showmework 3 года назад +167

    When Des took the test and it said pregnant and she grabbed her belly. Ugh I felt that pure joy. ❤️ hang in there you guys. Your time will come. I can feel it!

  • @druviyo
    @druviyo 3 года назад +479

    It hit hard when she talked to the baby in the future

  • @amazinglove7014
    @amazinglove7014 3 года назад +5

    💙1 year later you're BLESSED with the birth of your son.🙌🏽CONGRATULATIONS DESTINY & JULIUS YOUR NEW BABY BOY IS SO PRECIOUSLY BEAUTIFUL!💙
    💙🤎GOD BLESS BABY BROWN🤎💙

  • @mochi-oo7bd
    @mochi-oo7bd 3 года назад +143

    My sister had a miscarriage twice. Her & my Brother in Law never lost hope, prayed, and kept trying. 6 months ago she gave birth to my baby nephew ezra 🥺 You guys will get through this and i believe you will be blessed with a child when the time is right 🥰 Gods timing is never wrong. I’m sending all my love & prayers your way, continue to grow strong for your future children 🤍🤍

  • @97mph
    @97mph 3 года назад +81

    for everybody saying they’ll just have another one when it’s the right time doesn’t mean they’ll forget about this. i had a baby after i miscarried & i still think about it. the pain truly never goes away

  • @razlynsadie5380
    @razlynsadie5380 3 года назад +198

    She just found out she’s pregnant and I’m already cryinggggggg. I’m sorry des. 🥺 I know how you feel! After having multiple miscarriages. Not 1 but 2, 3rds luck a charm because now my son is about to be 2. I know it feels like it won’t happen. But it will! ❤️

    • @user-bg6qg4rh1b
      @user-bg6qg4rh1b 3 года назад +7

      Woow thank you for this comment gives me hope!!💕

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад +1

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do and be just like Juju and Des! Such inspirations!

  • @sippitymanli9660
    @sippitymanli9660 3 года назад +48

    She's the only person I know who still looks so beautiful when they cry😭❤️

  • @sierrasaleste
    @sierrasaleste 3 года назад +94

    Whenever destiny was crying I just wanted to hold her and hug her I’m so sorry des & juju I was crying so hard because it breaks my heart that y’all had to go through that but don’t worry des motherhood is coming one day & I’ll definitely be here for it! I love you two so much 🥺❤️

  • @venus5929
    @venus5929 3 года назад +115

    So many women go through this and it’s rarely talked about. Proud of you for opening up, it helps others more than you’ll ever know. 💖

  • @stephanieschorr3945
    @stephanieschorr3945 3 года назад +31

    I got pregnant 4 months after my miscarriage. It will happen. U guys are so sweet and will be the cutest mama an daddy.

  • @irmamusic8475
    @irmamusic8475 3 года назад +8

    I lost my first pregnancy and it was the worst experience ever. But now I’m a mom and everything is going good. Sending love to you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @adventureswithmj9295
    @adventureswithmj9295 3 года назад +91

    omg i’m crying for destiny she’s been trying to get pregnant forever i’m so sad 😢😢😢 destiny and juju you guys will be in my prayers 🦋

  • @brandenforestal
    @brandenforestal 3 года назад +290

    “For I know the plans I have for you”, declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. “Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart”. - Jeremiah 29:11-13
    God can restore what is broken and change it into something amazing. All you need is faith. - Joel 2:25
    Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. (John 14:27, ESV)
    Don’t worry, God still has an amazing ending for you guys. He’ll restore everything you guys lost with even better. As you get through each and every single day, Jesus will give you peace and strength to get through each day. All you need is faith, and to fully give your life to Him.✝️❤️

  • @geniemartell5430
    @geniemartell5430 3 года назад +231

    I seriously don’t understand how someone can dislike this video. Having a miscarriage is the most heartbroken 💔 thing that a women can go through. A child is a blessing. And I am so sorry that you both went through this. Things will get better. When the day happens, you both will be an amazing mom and dad. God bless you both. #Juju&Des4Life

    • @jenniferramlall8415
      @jenniferramlall8415 3 года назад

      They are just haters dont understand why they even watch something if they are going to dislike something of this magnitude .....

    • @nellaroxanne826
      @nellaroxanne826 3 года назад +3

      I honestly think some ppl don't understand that liking a video doesn't equate to liking what happened in the video, I think sometimes they dislike because they don't like what happened to Juju and Des.

    • @aliyahwilson6963
      @aliyahwilson6963 3 года назад +1

      I had to get rid of my baby and when I was 15 now I'm 16

    • @jenniferramlall8415
      @jenniferramlall8415 3 года назад

      @@aliyahwilson6963 sorry to know love hope you are keeping well or trying to

    • @bernadettemartinez82
      @bernadettemartinez82 3 года назад +1

      I think the dislikes are ppl who are disliking the video bcz it’s sad sometimes I want to dislike videos or post because I don’t like the situation I’m watching I wanted to dislike this video because they are so hurt and I don’t like that you know what I mean

  • @kkbeauty3717
    @kkbeauty3717 3 года назад +14

    I cried this whole video I myself have had a miscarriage so I know how you feel but I was blessed with two beautiful kids after that. God will bless you guys with a baby when it’s your turn. I prayed for both of and I know it will happen when God says it’s your time. God bless you both❤️❤️

  • @teej8832
    @teej8832 3 года назад +174

    For ppl to actually hit the thumbs down button. Yall need God in ur life!

  • @eriana.nevaeh1002
    @eriana.nevaeh1002 3 года назад +327

    i knew she wasn’t acting like herself💔you’re so strong destiny i’m so sorry! praying for both of you!❤️

    • @dominiquexo4772
      @dominiquexo4772 3 года назад +3

      💔 pregnancy is scary.... I know her time will come

    • @brittanymichael595
      @brittanymichael595 3 года назад

      I love you guys and I know all to well how you feel keep your head both of you!!

  • @jennysolis8642
    @jennysolis8642 3 года назад +67

    It's crazy to think many take pregnancy tests, and pray to God for it to be negative, and its positive. Destiny is begging God for a positive and its negative 😪😔 God works in myself ways beautiful! Keep your head up, your time will definitely come!

  • @SANDRiiTA03
    @SANDRiiTA03 3 года назад +9

    I had a miscarriage about 5 years ago and it was literally the hardest thing a women can go thru. Please know that you are not alone and God has a plan for all of us! Today I am a stepmom of three beautiful kids that I love like my own! Trust in God girl and he will continue to bless you! Much love and respect 💕💕

  • @MissRushinator
    @MissRushinator 3 года назад +115

    It is SO HARD to lose a baby. I've lost 3 of them and haven't been pregnant since. Yet, my husband and I are still staying positive and we keep trying. I take comfort in it, so I hope you do as well, but it's common for people to lose before they finally have one. So as HARD as it is to deal with and go through, don't lose hope and keep believing.

    • @jasminespino9461
      @jasminespino9461 3 года назад +5

      Thank you for sharing. Sending you lots of hugs and blessings your way 💕

    • @g.1646
      @g.1646 3 года назад +5

      i’m sorry to hear that. one day you’ll have beautiful and amazing babies with your husband. everything is in gods hands. stay strong mama! 💓

    • @LuVYuRSTaRNiSHa
      @LuVYuRSTaRNiSHa 3 года назад +5

      Sending you lots of love. I know your three angels are looking down on you both.

    • @bria4776
      @bria4776 3 года назад +1

      Omg I’m sorry

  • @luvvfayy3396
    @luvvfayy3396 3 года назад +160

    People don’t realize how big of a blessing it is to get pregnant and have a baby. Honestly you never know until you see a video like this.

  • @indira018
    @indira018 3 года назад +112

    When she was praising Julius at the end it made me emotional af😭 he has to keep it together for them bc he’s the protector and the man but I hope you understand Julius that it’s okay for you to have your day and cry and grieve how you need to. I’m just like Destiny so emotional. I need to cry it out to feel better even when I’m just upset about something. Thank you for sharing with us! I’m 29 and thought I could never get pregnant and I never did until recently I found out before New Years and I was in total shock, but I worry every day if I will have a miscarriage bc it is very common but I pray for me and my baby everyday all day for god to protect us and keep us out harms way. I will pray for the both of you as well. The support you give each other is beautiful. Keep with god and faith and he will for sure answer your prayers .🙏🏽🥰💓 sending good vibes.

  • @NailsByRossely
    @NailsByRossely 3 года назад +26

    This happened to me!🥺 me and my husband planned on having a baby and when it finally happened I lost it, I gave up and a month after I got pregnant again with twins!✨

  • @alicia-marieeflowers6033
    @alicia-marieeflowers6033 3 года назад +77

    Remember crying is never a weakness. I grew up feeling like that but it's not. If you gotta cry scream let it out love youuu!

  • @potatoefluffsfluffs4976
    @potatoefluffsfluffs4976 3 года назад +189

    My sister lost 5 babies and then my dad prayed and my whole church and now the baby is due in March 2 🥰

    • @thechannel646
      @thechannel646 3 года назад +1

      Love there honesty so much, they inspired me and my boyfriend to start our own channel! We hope people can find some peace in what we do!

    • @EbikeAdventuresSD
      @EbikeAdventuresSD 3 года назад +4

      So God kill a bunch then when pray he was like ok 👌🏿

    • @koreansavior1059
      @koreansavior1059 3 года назад +2

      So God punishes you if you don't kiss his ass 24/7? K then...

    • @rainegee7010
      @rainegee7010 3 года назад

      @@EbikeAdventuresSD God don't kill babies 😑

    • @Elong.
      @Elong. 3 года назад

      God bless you! 🙏

  • @Hannah-fs1jf
    @Hannah-fs1jf 3 года назад +63

    I can definitely understand when Des said she never thought she was strong because of being emotional and sensitive. I can relate 100%😩 you are so strong, sending so much love ❤️

  • @kayshlaocasio9355
    @kayshlaocasio9355 3 года назад +31

    When Julius started crying after opening omg I lost it I’m so sorry you guys 🥺

  • @kyrsteeewalt1555
    @kyrsteeewalt1555 3 года назад +54

    I went thru a miscarriage in 2017. I went thru it alone while also being In a family homeless shelter at the time with my two babies. It was so hard but I made it thru & today a few years later I'm pregnant again & i'm almost 27 wks along & doing well!
    Keep ur head up god has a plan even if we don't see it.

  • @ValeriaSanchez-lc5fc
    @ValeriaSanchez-lc5fc 3 года назад +115

    There's light at the end of the rainbow babe I have had 13 pregnancies I have 5 living children i had 1 stillborn at 8 months pregnant and 1 premature birth and 6 miscarriages blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @tatianalashae2273
    @tatianalashae2273 3 года назад +41

    i tried so hard to watch this but i can’t, but it’s so crazy because y’all are literally always smiling during every video. this truly verifies that you never know what people are going through behind closed doors. sending positive vibes 💞💞💞💞

  • @LERATONXUMALO
    @LERATONXUMALO 3 года назад +125

    Flip I cried instantly when Julius opened the last box and said “ shut up, are you being serious” 🥺😭💔

  • @LaughMusic331
    @LaughMusic331 3 года назад +120

    I hope some of y’all will learn to stop commenting if she’s pregnant or when is the baby coming because if they are then they’ll say, it’s that simple

  • @lovelylynn3889
    @lovelylynn3889 3 года назад +111

    I’ve experienced a miscarriage last year of July but today I am pregnant with a lovely little girl...I know it’s tough but I know for sure you guys can get through this...you’ll have your rainbow baby when it’s meant to be💕 your time will come just keep your heads up

  • @nicoleford4587
    @nicoleford4587 3 года назад +126

    I understand girl! I lost my baby at 7 weeks and got pregnant 28 days later.. . God has this sweety. He makes the toughest battles for his most beautiful angels. 😍 I pray in the name of Jesus you get your rainbow 👶love yall so much. Much love

    • @melodienicholson3482
      @melodienicholson3482 3 года назад +1

      Same thing happened to me 2x my first preg and my 4th 🥰🤗🙏💜 well they said my 4th preg that I had a a miscarriage but I don't think I did coz I was pregnant not even a mth later, my 1st preg it took 2 mths and I know I had one then it was so horrible to see it had little eyes n everything 😥 but not 4th pregnacy with my son he's 7 now and I don't think I had a miscarriage, coz I bled a lil not much thou, it wasn't like my 1st, idk it was crazy. But I do know God got us and he has his reasons 💜 glad you got your beautiful baby 🤗

    • @nicoleford4587
      @nicoleford4587 3 года назад +1

      @@melodienicholson3482 that's awesome, 💯👌 glad it all worked out for you

    • @melodienicholson3482
      @melodienicholson3482 3 года назад

      @@nicoleford4587 thank you 💜

  • @chichibesa6838
    @chichibesa6838 2 месяца назад +2

    After seeing todays video i watched this again, Destiny is super strong.
    Proud of you.
    At the right time God will make it happen

  • @Michyy0107
    @Michyy0107 3 года назад +91

    Remember that there’s always a rainbow after the storm. I always thought I was not able to get pregnant and although I never experienced what you and many others have, it was something that made me fear. But God is never late. He is always right on time. And just like God blessed me with my baby boy, he will bless you guys with your baby. God bless you both and you’re in my prayers ❤️🙏🏽

  • @DAPRPOCA
    @DAPRPOCA 3 года назад +65

    Crying actual tears , we don’t realize how blessed we are to be able to conceive naturally and easily (for some women) and how it can be the complete opposite for some . I pray god makes things easy for you guys and everyone else going thru a similar situation ❤️🙌🏼 don’t worry your time will come god is the best planner ✨

  • @mercyramirez3766
    @mercyramirez3766 3 года назад +231

    Miss carriages are truly heartbreaking... I’m super against “prank pregnancies” like you literally just never know what can happened

    • @controversynow8713
      @controversynow8713 3 года назад

      IT'S MISCARRIAGE ONE 'S'...STUPID.

    • @daisyl.quiroz2026
      @daisyl.quiroz2026 3 года назад +2

      Exactly what I was thinking. The pregnancy pranks aren’t so funny now..

    • @jaconekoen7460
      @jaconekoen7460 3 года назад

      Guys no thats got nothing to do with what happened now have a heart i pray that you will be turned around because this just shows who you are not them

    • @mercyramirez3766
      @mercyramirez3766 3 года назад

      @@jaconekoen7460 huh? Prank pregnancies should not be taken lightly it was said in general not directed to them

    • @jaconekoen7460
      @jaconekoen7460 3 года назад

      @@mercyramirez3766 if u dont like it dont watch their videos and scroll along people like u just jealous

  • @alishalopes1752
    @alishalopes1752 3 года назад +22

    This was so hard to watch without crying you guys will be blessed one day with the most perfect baby ever and i can’t wait for that day to come. You are strong des !

  • @steffycruz6493
    @steffycruz6493 3 года назад +52

    Destiny man 😭 The most precious, genuine RUclipsr. Each time you broke down crying, I broke down crying. Sending you both love, thoughts and prayers 🤍

  • @jasmineluna1479
    @jasmineluna1479 3 года назад +60

    Your sadness every time it said not pregnant. That hurt and made me wanna cry. I am so sorry for all this

  • @daniellenajunas5045
    @daniellenajunas5045 3 года назад +109

    I can’t imagine all those months of people hounding y’all to get pregnant... whole time behind cameras you’re going through this.
    God bless you both and your angel baby. Praying for a healthy pregnancy in the future for you both.

  • @dorisrudy7673
    @dorisrudy7673 2 года назад +1

    God bless you--- Anyone who has lost a baby truly understands. I lost mine in 1975-- I was 5 months along. You have many, many people who care about you to share your pain. And, you are helping others bear their own pain. Thank you for sharing. Heal as you can, and let yourselves still be open to joy--- it will come. Love to you both.

  • @senaitwashington8534
    @senaitwashington8534 3 года назад +222

    The fact that people put thumbs down is crazy !! Weird ass people smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @marissadiego2613
      @marissadiego2613 3 года назад +4

      People are still saying negative stuff as if they didn't hear destiny say pls don't day negative stuff. How horrible & ugly people can be. 🤦‍♀️ I wish there was a filter on RUclips for negative comments before it's posted. People are bullies. STAY STRONG & PLS DONT LET THESE PEOPLE BRING YOU DOWN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕💕💕 Def. Keeping you in my prayers. Stay Blessed😇

    • @senaitwashington8534
      @senaitwashington8534 3 года назад +4

      @@marissadiego2613 unfortunately we live in a world full of ignorant & inconsiderate people. I pray she heals & ignores dumb ass people.

    • @marissadiego2613
      @marissadiego2613 3 года назад

      @@senaitwashington8534 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @lilianmunoz4426
    @lilianmunoz4426 3 года назад +31

    I’ve lost two babies. And it’s a hard process. Don’t let anyone tell you how to grieve or how to handle your miscarriage. You are amazing parents and your child loves you both. This wasn’t your fault as it never is. No matter how the time passes you will miss them but cry when you need too and I’m so glad y’all have one another to rely on. Love you guys! I’m so glad y’all opened up about it, y’all are so strong ❤️

  • @LyssssG
    @LyssssG 3 года назад +74

    I can't imagine the pain that you've been feeling. I don't want to say, "I'm sorry," because I know sometimes it starts to get a little frustrating--even though people mean well. You two have an amazing, strong and loving relationship. It will always hurt, but time will start to make it just a little bit easier each day. Your little angel baby will never truly be, "gone." Love has no limits or boundaries. I hope you both can eventually find some peace and healing. When the time DOES come, you guys will make phenomenal parents. Hang in there. You will help each other through it.

  • @marissamelendez7756
    @marissamelendez7756 3 года назад +9

    Thank you for sharing this. I went through all these same emotions beginning to end. You made me feel less alone and normal. A lot of my friends got pregnant with their first child while I was losing mine and I felt so alone. The stages of grief hit in all ways for me and I want to thank you again for sharing this video 💕 you two are so cute together by the way :)