😂only poor men who complain about this. They don’t know that money is important, and when women like her chose a man, they think it’s only for money but it’s not. Personality does matter and women can chose a rich men who can provide and care about his personality and him and love him. Same with men caring about body count and age. Men are hypocrites. Let’s just pray that when he wouldn’t divorce her and their marriage work because it it doesn’t. He will have it so easy and she will suffer. He is a man, he can marry at any age, she is a woman.
It's only weird for closeted rainbow 🌈 males that want other men to provide for them. Because even in the animal kingdom male animals biologically are naturally providers and protectors of their female counterparts.Males who don't naturally want to protect and provide are not normal
Nothing wrong with this. He's a man that can provide and us proud of it. Funny because my boyfriend is 3 years younger than me and he pays for everything as well. I respect him for it and know I can build something long term with him. He will make an amazing husband and father and that is what we look for.
Sorry no, if the tables had been turned and he was still making the same amount of money he would have been considered even lower than a bum who sits around all day, or has a job is barley able to make ends meet so the girlfriend has to pay for everything.
I love how Hannah said that she doesn't believe in 50-50 relationships but 100-100, where each person contributes different things. That is a beautiful sentiment
Well, for what I’m looking at in their relationship, it is a balance because they both make money, but they both bring a balance to each other one is the provider the one is supportive. Their relationship goes back to the old-school traditional how the man is supposed to be the breadwinner and a provider for the home, and the woman is supposed to be a supporter and take care of the home, but I do understand how modern day society is totally against this, because now women are starting to be more independent and not dependent on the opposite sex. I completely understand but if they already had a conversation and understanding it works for them. Let’s not be quick to assume the negative ❤❤❤
Into her savings account and covering her own expenses! Any man who does not provide is still a child who wants a roommate, and is still incapable of taking care of and loving a woman.
@@RiaDraper99 "because she simply doesn't have to" so if the guy were to leave her, would she still simply not have to pay for anything? Your logic clearly makes sense
Then she leaves him and he has nothing to show for the last 5-10 years and she has a nice stockpile of money in the bank because she didn’t pay for anything.
Why is this supposed to be weird or interesting? So many couples have this traditional setting, only thing differing about these too is that they're probably from a financially well-off background.
@@christianmarmol3230 no, not if she loves him, which he does. Plus, she makes just as much money as him! She doesn’t starve without him, don’t be ridiculous. This is simply a normal, healthy, and natural relationship.
Which is impossible, because in reality. All you'll get is the 80/20 rule out of most of it. Which tends to happen in the majority of cases. Not saying it happens all the time. There's just always going to be 80/20 more than 50/50.
A relationship is more than just the money! She provides him with other things. It’s very weird that you view relationships as being transactional and coercive like that. They are literally in a happy, proper, natural union, and our misogynistic society hates seeing that because people love to devalue women, as opposed to honoring us.
It's good he found a women who she loves him, but problem with modern dating is women mostly act like gold diggers, and men don't want to pay women high expensive meals.
I don't understand the human species,if the man didn't pay for stuff he's selfish and not a man,now here we have a man who is responsible and does his duties and its wrong?? Am confused. What y'all want?
y'all silly. nothing wrong with this relationship. He handles his role. And she handling hers. As long as the man stay consistent and the woman stays appreciative.
I don't have a problem with their relationship dynamic. It is traditional. However, I do have a problem with the lady saying she is 28 years old. I think she is really in her late 40's.
Hey there's nothing wrong with their relationship both got money and he takes care of bills and rent and she takes care of home that's amazing and dude is a real man
That's crazy how he's spending all of his money on everything and she's not even chipping in to help him out. But if he's happy with that lifestyle well then I am happy for him 💅🏾💅🏾
@@winxclubstellamusa I don't believe in b.s. crap that you believe in. If you're fucking greedy about your money well then just say that sis. Own up to it and good luck with finding a men like him cause it's hard to find a dude like that nowadays unless he's really financially stabled
@@altheadawn2531 girl shut up embarrassed about what? I make my own money I'm not like you I don't use men for their money or need a men just for their money.
Well to me she’s putting women’s rights far back especially when she said women and men should play into their roles? Whatever floats your boat but personally I think that’s so bad
The problem I have these guys isn't their relationship, it's their medieval view of men and women as separate entities. If they just wanted to do what they do because it works for them, then be my guest, but to actually think that that's how ALL men and women should be is yucky
This is not “medieval” because the woman is making just as much money as him! They are simply in a natural, normal, and healthy relationship, and people are mad at seeing a woman be loved properly by a real man - a protector and provider.
IKR these women expects us to provide while they wanted to be like modern independent woman and earn, while expecting us to pay for everything hypocrites.Then want life to be in easy mode😅.
Renting is a normal thing in the Uk market Gen Z have only recently come into buying homes after pandemic by starting businesses whilst previous years we have been stuck in the corporate world and saving years for mortgages In America its a very different view when it comes to owning homes
@@mytubetuber4245 how is she a gold digger if she has her own money 🤡 and it's only men with no gold that are concerned about gold diggers smh. He's not concerned.
@mytube tuber no, a gold digger is an abuser, and there is none of that going on. This man is simply a real man in a natural and healthy union, and your feminine ass hates seeing that because it threatens you.
Makes sense in that scenario you presented. But in this case, they aren't married, don't have kids, and it seems like they usually eat out(which he pays for). He's also only 22 and shes in her late 20's making 6 figures and able to pitch in a bit. I also don't believe in 50 50, but I do think to show my appreciation I like to grab a bill every now and again as a gesture of my respect for the relationship( if I had the means to do so). If they had a family and kids it would be a completely different story, having a mans kids is payment enough.
This man is literally just a real man - a protector and provider who loves, respects, supports, and lifts up his woman. And the fact that anyone would be taken aback by this proves how misogynistic our modern society has become, so it loves to devalue and exhaust women, as opposed to honoring and appreciate us. Its also very weird how most people don’t know that every gold digger is also an abuser, and this dynamic is healthy and void of entrapment, coercion, and control. Society also doesn’t want to see a happy couple in a natural union, mainly because they don’t want women to be protected and provided for, despite it being our natural right since the beginning of time.
Nowadays a man is purely valued based on how beautiful his face is and how tall his is. Back in the day being 180cm tall with a 5 to 7/10 good looking face was acceptable if you had a good personality, was a good provider and had a good standard of hygiene. Today for a man to even qualify he must be 190cm tall with a 8/10 face and that is the only thing that matters.
I still want my man to be the provider, especially if I'm the home maker. Society really expects women to be doing BOTH, while the man gets to just chill when he gets home but you BOTH work. Respect to this couple and hope they remain happy in their choices.
Last time I checked. Men do all the house maintainence; cleaning the gutters, mowing the lawn, taking out the trash, killing all the spiders you're scared of, fixing cars, broken appliances. All that stuff is WORK.
This is typically what happens in some parts of Africa.. Atleast where I live... Most women are just house wives... They take care of the home and kids and the husband provides and protects... Very normal from my stand point.
I understand the dynamic of a relationship where the wife takes care of the household because I'm in that same arrangement. Although, I wouldn't try & tell other women that they are supposed to do the same thing like this wife said. Its fine to have your own opinions, but don't put those ideas onto anyone else. Just as its not right for the friend to say that its "not normal for a 22 year old to take financial care of his wife" & family. There are many situations where this dynamic works VERY well & healthily. But, u don't tell ppl how to live.
Nothing wrong with that. The amount work and sacrifices we women make for our families- being taken care of financially is normal. Money comes and goes.
Thought this was normal for a man to do? Like traditional? But that 100/100 about the bill was confusing. Thought she was going to say 80/20 lol. But she has her own money though.
They are in a traditional relationship. This is how it is in most countries except in backward toxic American communities. People are bored if they have a problem with this. This is a beautiful relationship 🥰
in traditional relationship woman dont work or earn six figure paycheck. toxic girl attitude who think they can earn their money but boys need pay all but also they can do or wear anything they want lol. are you okey to give your salary to your husband ? and he gonna give you back allowance caz its traditional relationship. but im sure you dont accept that
Wow, had no idea the Western world was as degraded as all that! I wouldn't let any man near me who wasn't man enough to take responsibility to pay the rent and bills. How sad that there are so few real men these days (or for that matter real women), that they had to make a Love Don't Judge video about what should be the norm! No wonder divorce rates are so high! Good on you two for complementing each other so nicely. It's nice to see that chivalry and real men are not completely dead!
Okay, I figured it out. THEY EMPOWER EACHOTHER. It's love, not control. A perfect mix of traditional & modern. They feel secure & are committed enough, to where she lets him pay for things bc he can feel like he is the breadwinner. They continue with the gender roles for the most part & bc they are both very financially secure....they figured out what works for them. He wants to provide & make sure she feels secure in every single way, while she is fully the housewife who does all of the housework. They seem to work great together. & Again, they aren't worried bc they both feel very secure. She's not taking advantage, they both show they love eachother in different ways & $ just isn't an issue bc he enjoys paying. It's more of a metal aspect to what makes a man feel more like a man It's actually really endearing. U know if anything happened & he couldn't work, she would pick up the pieces...but she wants him to keep his motivation & confidence, so it remains a steady building block for a concrete relationship. They are couple GOALS! Imagine 2 ppl being independent, she doesn't need him, but bc of the love they have...they both love the roles they are in. Bless their cute hearts. He's a sweetie too, he is probably a model for a great man if u ask me. I am also independent, but I would love to have this be my man's mentality & I would do everything to comfort him as the provider protector. Anyone who judges them, just doesn't see why this makes so much sense in this day & age. It's keeping with the traditional, while not worrying bc they are literally SET.
I agree! But I’m sure that she does have a housekeeper. It makes no sense for her not to. She would have no time to make her six figures and take care of herself otherwise.
This is not even a traditional relationship she is earning member of family, She probably have a house keeper ,she have less responsibility as a wife, What she does is a little compared to the man, He pays all the bills while she earns like a modern independent women and act traditional when it comes to money that's red flag.
@@Soulreaper286 no, she is the polar opposite of a red flag. It is YOU who is a red flag for thinking so poorly of women, and being so insecure that you need your hypothetical woman to be your jobless and helpless slave, maid, and nanny for you to feel good about yourself.
@@winxclubstellamusa Blah blah typical feminist victim card Misgnony ,. Lol what iam asking why he needs to provide if she is financially independent lol why men should be traditional while women is modern and independent.
@@winxclubstellamusa Answer me why you desire traditional men while you are a earning modern women. Traditional men provide for women because they weren't earning member of family .Times changed women are now doing what men were doing traditionally , now men and women are earning members of the society.
If it works for them, that's okay. However, they don't have the right to say that other types os relationship don't work and that they're wrong. If a woman wants to pay 50/50 ou entirely that's ALSO okay... In the end of the day is about living your trueness without pushing it to others
I don't think it's shameful or crazy.. and a lot of people agree with us. I think they're just making this up where people are shaming them...if there are people shaming then it's not many people doing that 😂
Friend for 7 months? Her opinion does not matter and her opinion makes no sense. A man doesn’t provide, it’s a problem he provides everything it’s also a problem. I hope her friends relationship is perfect before she gives her 2 cents on someone else’s
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Why is this weird that a man is comfortable with being a natural provider???
Because it's normal thing
Has been happening for centuries
Amen I believe in a man providing
Because men dont want to take responsibility & dont want equal power either.
😂only poor men who complain about this. They don’t know that money is important, and when women like her chose a man, they think it’s only for money but it’s not. Personality does matter and women can chose a rich men who can provide and care about his personality and him and love him. Same with men caring about body count and age. Men are hypocrites. Let’s just pray that when he wouldn’t divorce her and their marriage work because it it doesn’t. He will have it so easy and she will suffer. He is a man, he can marry at any age, she is a woman.
It's only weird for closeted rainbow 🌈 males that want other men to provide for them. Because even in the animal kingdom male animals biologically are naturally providers and protectors of their female counterparts.Males who don't naturally want to protect and provide are not normal
Nothing wrong with this. He's a man that can provide and us proud of it. Funny because my boyfriend is 3 years younger than me and he pays for everything as well. I respect him for it and know I can build something long term with him. He will make an amazing husband and father and that is what we look for.
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Your BF is a clown
Sorry no, if the tables had been turned and he was still making the same amount of money he would have been considered even lower than a bum who sits around all day, or has a job is barley able to make ends meet so the girlfriend has to pay for everything.
I love how Hannah said that she doesn't believe in 50-50 relationships but 100-100, where each person contributes different things. That is a beautiful sentiment
They give each other PEACE! Pray it lasts forever for them.
Well, for what I’m looking at in their relationship, it is a balance because they both make money, but they both bring a balance to each other one is the provider the one is supportive. Their relationship goes back to the old-school traditional how the man is supposed to be the breadwinner and a provider for the home, and the woman is supposed to be a supporter and take care of the home, but I do understand how modern day society is totally against this, because now women are starting to be more independent and not dependent on the opposite sex. I completely understand but if they already had a conversation and understanding it works for them. Let’s not be quick to assume the negative
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Exactly!
That the kinda of relationship I am use to and ain’t settling to I have it.50/50 myass
This is an ideal partnership, what's everyone's problem? Enjoy your beautiful relationship.
Seems very normal to me. Have a blessed life ya'll
The only people that have a problem with this are emotionally unhealthy on some level. This is natural, mature, and healthy
This is normal. I'm sure her money funds trips and other things. My Dad always said never marry a man poorer than you and he was right!
Yes!
Exactly boo
It might be true, but being a gold digger is what your dad taught you to become? Lol
@@Makminah_ no. A smart girl
Are you married?
The 22 looks alot older than 22
I think it's the other way around, the 28 looks 32 haha.
If she is so strong and independent she should be capable of paying for herself. Being high value also have duties
Anyone else notice how much he blinks?
Thought I was the only one who noticed that.
Maybe it’s morose code for “ this bitch is taking all my money “
Wait “we both earn multiple six figures a year” but she can’t comfortably pay bills? Where is all her money going?
Where ever she wants. That's her money.
Into her savings account and covering her own expenses! Any man who does not provide is still a child who wants a roommate, and is still incapable of taking care of and loving a woman.
@@RiaDraper99so why can’t she pay for her own shit with “her money” then
@@calebmcclure3893 because she simply doesn’t have to and I’m not sorry you’re mad about it. It’s her life.
@@RiaDraper99 "because she simply doesn't have to" so if the guy were to leave her, would she still simply not have to pay for anything? Your logic clearly makes sense
Then she leaves him and he has nothing to show for the last 5-10 years and she has a nice stockpile of money in the bank because she didn’t pay for anything.
Exactly
yeah this is sus…
I’m a house wife and if I had money I would love to treat my family.
It is their common decision. They are adults. Noone is exploiting anyone in this relationship.
I don’t see anything wrong with him paying. It shows that he is a masculine man and a good provider for his woman
Why is this supposed to be weird or interesting? So many couples have this traditional setting, only thing differing about these too is that they're probably from a financially well-off background.
Because it's only traditional when the woman isn't working and In this case she makes 6 figures ,so this is not a traditional relationship obviously
If tough times come I hope she don't bail on his ass
Oh she definitely will. Most women do
@@christianmarmol3230 no, not if she loves him, which he does. Plus, she makes just as much money as him! She doesn’t starve without him, don’t be ridiculous. This is simply a normal, healthy, and natural relationship.
She makes just as much money as him and she loves him, so why would she “bail”? Stop this weird misogyny and pessimism.
@@winxclubstellamusa ya sure it is lol
This is normal
So you pay the for nothing? I see in a relationship is 50/50.That's just me
Which is impossible, because in reality. All you'll get is the 80/20 rule out of most of it. Which tends to happen in the majority of cases. Not saying it happens all the time. There's just always going to be 80/20 more than 50/50.
A relationship is more than just the money! She provides him with other things. It’s very weird that you view relationships as being transactional and coercive like that. They are literally in a happy, proper, natural union, and our misogynistic society hates seeing that because people love to devalue women, as opposed to honoring us.
Yeah that's fair if women is earning too.
@@Soulreaper286 no. Only roommate relationships are 50/50, the man is supposed to provide and protect if he wants to be in a romantic relationship.
@@winxclubstellamusaHe's not wrong. Life is not made for that
She’s so lucky 🤣 this is the best one I’ve seen on here yet
Don’t have any issues with their relationship but can we be real about her age? She looks at least 10 years older than 28.
I was thinking the same thing, I think she is lying about her age.
I support this.
Me too!
Golddigger
Me 3!
This is a normal traditional relationship in most countries
So why does she have a business if she is not going to help out $. Money has nothing to do with protecting , it's about supporting each other
It's good he found a women who she loves him, but problem with modern dating is women mostly act like gold diggers, and men don't want to pay women high expensive meals.
And yet women dont want me at all.
Seeing this makes me doesn’t want to date anymore
Throw that whole friend away please
Not hating. Good for them. Totally supportive. I just want to know what they do for a living. Please share with the class. 😂
I don't understand the human species,if the man didn't pay for stuff he's selfish and not a man,now here we have a man who is responsible and does his duties and its wrong?? Am confused. What y'all want?
My relationship is like this and I can't be any happier. 🎉
y'all silly. nothing wrong with this relationship. He handles his role. And she handling hers. As long as the man stay consistent and the woman stays appreciative.
You can’t seriously think that those roles are equal though. “You pay for all my lifestyle and expenses, and I’ll be there for you”
Just screw the cements
I think 🤔 some things are better left unsaid
If they get married and divorce he's taking all of it
I don't have a problem with their relationship dynamic. It is traditional. However, I do have a problem with the lady saying she is 28 years old. I think she is really in her late 40's.
I love it lmaooooaoao
She is too old for him .I think he wants a mom .
Hey there's nothing wrong with their relationship both got money and he takes care of bills and rent and she takes care of home that's amazing and dude is a real man
That's crazy how he's spending all of his money on everything and she's not even chipping in to help him out. But if he's happy with that lifestyle well then I am happy for him 💅🏾💅🏾
Because they are not roommates! No real and full grown man should expect a woman to “chip in”.
@@winxclubstellamusa I don't believe in b.s. crap that you believe in. If you're fucking greedy about your money well then just say that sis. Own up to it and good luck with finding a men like him cause it's hard to find a dude like that nowadays unless he's really financially stabled
You a bw talking this nonsense
You should be embarrassed
You don't deserve a provider man
You deserve a 50/50 bum
@@altheadawn2531 girl shut up embarrassed about what? I make my own money I'm not like you I don't use men for their money or need a men just for their money.
@@winxclubstellamusayou’re funny
He’s the perfect man
He’s 22, not 14! He’s a legal adult, he’s not underaged. Give me a break lady!
So normal in my opinion
This is why I hate my generation
Especially on the internet
In my mexican culture is completely natural.... only in america people are in shock😂
Well to me she’s putting women’s rights far back especially when she said women and men should play into their roles? Whatever floats your boat but personally I think that’s so bad
Hey they both work so they are both secure no matter what. And yes I would want my man to pay for everything too even if we're both working. Why not?
I Love them ❤my Husband is the same 😀And I also take very good care of him. Also like his personal Wellness creator ❤
22 yo and makes that kind of money...must be very resourceful :)
I mean he can pay all he wants, but as far as her being a ladyboy ammm yeah I can see that lol
Why's she's using window cleaner for counter tops lol
It cleans without damaging the integrity of the stone. 😊
i see nothing wrong w this at all lol
The problem I have these guys isn't their relationship, it's their medieval view of men and women as separate entities. If they just wanted to do what they do because it works for them, then be my guest, but to actually think that that's how ALL men and women should be is yucky
This is not “medieval” because the woman is making just as much money as him! They are simply in a natural, normal, and healthy relationship, and people are mad at seeing a woman be loved properly by a real man - a protector and provider.
Don't bother with this comment section lol, so many people mentally stuck in the past centuries.
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I don’t believe 50/50
Why
This comment section is full of 🚩s
IKR these women expects us to provide while they wanted to be like modern independent woman and earn, while expecting us to pay for everything hypocrites.Then want life to be in easy mode😅.
so tired of the “we make 6 figures with our businesses” but then never saying what their job/ business actually is. sounds so scammy 😵💫
They probably shill arbonne or herbal life 😂
They make 6 figures and still renting - red flag 🚩
Onlyfans model and her simp
Renting is a normal thing in the Uk market Gen Z have only recently come into buying homes after pandemic by starting businesses whilst previous years we have been stuck in the corporate world and saving years for mortgages
In America its a very different view when it comes to owning homes
Only fans 😂 not just kidding
Love don’t judge be running out of content. This is a normal relationship lol
Agreed!
@@mytubetuber4245 how is she a gold digger if she has her own money 🤡 and it's only men with no gold that are concerned about gold diggers smh. He's not concerned.
@mytube tuber no, a gold digger is an abuser, and there is none of that going on. This man is simply a real man in a natural and healthy union, and your feminine ass hates seeing that because it threatens you.
Exactly!!! They are simply in a normal, healthy, natural, and happy union, but society hates seeing women be honored and loved nowadays.
@@ojs5988 Ans she doesn't spend money that makes her gold digger Lol
This makes sense!! He pays the bills. The woman takes care the house and the kids. I am not mad.
Me too.
Makes sense in that scenario you presented. But in this case, they aren't married, don't have kids, and it seems like they usually eat out(which he pays for). He's also only 22 and shes in her late 20's making 6 figures and able to pitch in a bit. I also don't believe in 50 50, but I do think to show my appreciation I like to grab a bill every now and again as a gesture of my respect for the relationship( if I had the means to do so). If they had a family and kids it would be a completely different story, having a mans kids is payment enough.
@@Lucylp3Why not 50 50
Wow, what a man. You are blessed to have him in your life. I am for you you both.🙂
And she is acting like a irresponsible child
Me too, they both support eachother & are secure. It's beautiful. I love it!
He is fortunate to have her❤
This man is literally just a real man - a protector and provider who loves, respects, supports, and lifts up his woman. And the fact that anyone would be taken aback by this proves how misogynistic our modern society has become, so it loves to devalue and exhaust women, as opposed to honoring and appreciate us. Its also very weird how most people don’t know that every gold digger is also an abuser, and this dynamic is healthy and void of entrapment, coercion, and control.
Society also doesn’t want to see a happy couple in a natural union, mainly because they don’t want women to be protected and provided for, despite it being our natural right since the beginning of time.
That's basically exactly what I wrote.
@@BellaIsMyBaby yes!! I’m so happy to see more women waking up to this truth 😊
Nowadays a man is purely valued based on how beautiful his face is and how tall his is. Back in the day being 180cm tall with a 5 to 7/10 good looking face was acceptable if you had a good personality, was a good provider and had a good standard of hygiene. Today for a man to even qualify he must be 190cm tall with a 8/10 face and that is the only thing that matters.
@@EKho-ko8tv as he should! A real man should NEVER accept money from a woman or use her to make money.
This is the definition of an es*ort ho*kah !!!! Lol
I still want my man to be the provider, especially if I'm the home maker. Society really expects women to be doing BOTH, while the man gets to just chill when he gets home but you BOTH work. Respect to this couple and hope they remain happy in their choices.
I will provide you my clothes to wash.
If you are a homemaker then it's fine its a good deal.
„Society“ expect you to do goth, but the man as provide is something that’s not a social pressure? You even expect it!? Come on!
Last time I checked. Men do all the house maintainence; cleaning the gutters, mowing the lawn, taking out the trash, killing all the spiders you're scared of, fixing cars, broken appliances. All that stuff is WORK.
This is lies. No one expects yall to do both lmao.
This is typically what happens in some parts of Africa.. Atleast where I live... Most women are just house wives... They take care of the home and kids and the husband provides and protects... Very normal from my stand point.
It’s not my money, I’m spending, I don’t give a shit, I just hope she does little things to let him know that she is appreciative of what he does.
We already saw that she does that. They love each other, and are in a natural, healthy, and happy union.
I understand the dynamic of a relationship where the wife takes care of the household because I'm in that same arrangement. Although, I wouldn't try & tell other women that they are supposed to do the same thing like this wife said. Its fine to have your own opinions, but don't put those ideas onto anyone else. Just as its not right for the friend to say that its "not normal for a 22 year old to take financial care of his wife" & family. There are many situations where this dynamic works VERY well & healthily. But, u don't tell ppl how to live.
A gentleman taking care of his woman and have money priceless 💳 💲👩❤️👨
"What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"
Hahahaha 😂🤣🤣🤣
That’s literally islam😂. But hey, this is the right thing to do.
Nothing wrong with that. The amount work and sacrifices we women make for our families- being taken care of financially is normal. Money comes and goes.
There’s a difference between provision and love and coercing and abusing. It’s very weird that you can’t see the difference between the two.
I honestly see nothing wrong with it, they seem happy and it seems balanced. Good for them! 😁
Thought this was normal for a man to do? Like traditional? But that 100/100 about the bill was confusing. Thought she was going to say 80/20 lol. But she has her own money though.
They are in a traditional relationship.
This is how it is in most countries except in backward toxic American communities. People are bored if they have a problem with this.
This is a beautiful relationship 🥰
in traditional relationship woman dont work or earn six figure paycheck. toxic girl attitude who think they can earn their money but boys need pay all but also they can do or wear anything they want lol. are you okey to give your salary to your husband ? and he gonna give you back allowance caz its traditional relationship. but im sure you dont accept that
Only if she was a Virgin when them meet yes that's if not I don't think so
Wow, had no idea the Western world was as degraded as all that! I wouldn't let any man near me who wasn't man enough to take responsibility to pay the rent and bills. How sad that there are so few real men these days (or for that matter real women), that they had to make a Love Don't Judge video about what should be the norm! No wonder divorce rates are so high!
Good on you two for complementing each other so nicely. It's nice to see that chivalry and real men are not completely dead!
So If you make six figures it belongs to men as he will handle financial matters as a provider😜
Who cares, they're happy 😊
That's all it matters!
Exactly their are happy why judge
Okay, I figured it out.
THEY EMPOWER EACHOTHER.
It's love, not control.
A perfect mix of traditional & modern.
They feel secure & are committed enough, to where she lets him pay for things bc he can feel like he is the breadwinner. They continue with the gender roles for the most part & bc they are both very financially secure....they figured out what works for them. He wants to provide & make sure she feels secure in every single way, while she is fully the housewife who does all of the housework. They seem to work great together. & Again, they aren't worried bc they both feel very secure. She's not taking advantage, they both show they love eachother in different ways & $ just isn't an issue bc he enjoys paying. It's more of a metal aspect to what makes a man feel more like a man It's actually really endearing. U know if anything happened & he couldn't work, she would pick up the pieces...but she wants him to keep his motivation & confidence, so it remains a steady building block for a concrete relationship. They are couple GOALS!
Imagine 2 ppl being independent, she doesn't need him, but bc of the love they have...they both love the roles they are in.
Bless their cute hearts. He's a sweetie too, he is probably a model for a great man if u ask me. I am also independent, but I would love to have this be my man's mentality & I would do everything to comfort him as the provider protector. Anyone who judges them, just doesn't see why this makes so much sense in this day & age.
It's keeping with the traditional, while not worrying bc they are literally SET.
Wow. It's really nobody's business. Live and let live.
It is since they put it out there lol
Who cares 🙄 so what he pays for everything! Why is this even a concern for anyone! Bye 👋 not watching the rest of this
This is normal in many countries. Only in America, ya’ll see this as a problem lol
I'm all about the "traditional values" type relationship, however if she's making six figures as well, she can afford to pay for a housekeeper.
I agree! But I’m sure that she does have a housekeeper. It makes no sense for her not to. She would have no time to make her six figures and take care of herself otherwise.
This is not even a traditional relationship she is earning member of family, She probably have a house keeper ,she have less responsibility as a wife, What she does is a little compared to the man, He pays all the bills while she earns like a modern independent women and act traditional when it comes to money that's red flag.
@@Soulreaper286 no, she is the polar opposite of a red flag. It is YOU who is a red flag for thinking so poorly of women, and being so insecure that you need your hypothetical woman to be your jobless and helpless slave, maid, and nanny for you to feel good about yourself.
@@winxclubstellamusa Blah blah typical feminist victim card Misgnony ,. Lol what iam asking why he needs to provide if she is financially independent lol why men should be traditional while women is modern and independent.
@@winxclubstellamusa Answer me why you desire traditional men while you are a earning modern women. Traditional men provide for women because they weren't earning member of family .Times changed women are now doing what men were doing traditionally , now men and women are earning members of the society.
I think there’s nothing wrong with this. She’s not a bum relying on him and vice versa. If he’s comfortable doing what he does, what is the problem.
As long as she’s cooking meals and raising kids, seems like a fair deal. Also why is she forcing a British accent
That's traditional women but this women is modern independent women
Having traditional values doesn't make you stupid or manipulated. Some people just prefer that set up & that's fine. That's for men & women.
If it works for them, that's okay. However, they don't have the right to say that other types os relationship don't work and that they're wrong. If a woman wants to pay 50/50 ou entirely that's ALSO okay...
In the end of the day is about living your trueness without pushing it to others
This is one couple i totally agree with. A beautiful traditional relationship. Sad this is taboo now.
Even when she has her own money. Wake tf up
I can’t wait till I get rich. I’m a break this cycle. 🔁
Her friend sound silly and jealous
My dream man.🤩
Lol
He a simp
Sometimes we just share way too much with the public.
So why does she not pay for anything.... Even though she has money to?
She wants the cake and to eat it to.
No that how god made it
@@ZeebeautyInfluencer where in the bible it says that. I'll wait....
Because he wants to.
He's a simp!!!
That's how she made it.
She also said she's 100/100 with him but she isn't.
Nobody would know my business.
This is sus to me, traditional roles are fine but I’m just getting the weirdest feeling here…
Most of em are
Yeah seen her couple times on the Its Pearly Thing and King Richeez podcast.
Feminism 💀💀💀💀💀
this is totally a normal relationship lol why is this a crazy or shameful thing. why is it anyones business if hes okay with it
This is my point 😃
I don't think it's shameful or crazy.. and a lot of people agree with us. I think they're just making this up where people are shaming them...if there are people shaming then it's not many people doing that 😂
Me no feel the ❤iT all based on the 💰 ⬆️ or 🫵🏽 out
She's Bri-ish. 🇬🇧
Anyway, I don't see the problem.
this is sooo normal,its how everyone lives in india
Friend for 7 months? Her opinion does not matter and her opinion makes no sense. A man doesn’t provide, it’s a problem he provides everything it’s also a problem. I hope her friends relationship is perfect before she gives her 2 cents on someone else’s