Off The Record: What Did You Grow Up Learning About Gay People?

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  • Опубликовано: 29 дек 2024

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  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
    @thomaschristopherwhite9043 2 года назад +56

    My dad's the greatest guy I've ever known but just like any other macho rough neck asian dude from the 70's he was also a product of his time. He told me that if I was gay he'd take away my family name and disown me. It's weird how complex people are for someone like my father who is so loving, hyper intelligent, strong as shit, very very introspective, and emotionally mature can still say something like that for no real good reason. It is what it is I guess.

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD 2 года назад +112

    My best friend came out to me in high school and I didn’t know how to act and was pretty selfish in my response for needing the time to process this revelation. Our theater production did Laramie Project and I had a monologue as Harry Woods (an old gay man witnessing a pride parade for the first time). I apologized to my friend after the show and was happy that he shared this with me.

    • @nobadman6701
      @nobadman6701 2 года назад

      America is made up of gays and lesbians, soon there will be no moms and dads, it's terrible to realize

    • @kah-t-yuh
      @kah-t-yuh 2 года назад

      bby b

    • @geejulio7068
      @geejulio7068 Год назад

      😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @eaz54
    @eaz54 2 года назад +18

    I love Steve and Ryan's energy. Ryan is so chill but Steve cracks him up so much 🤣

  • @Mishyou33
    @Mishyou33 2 года назад +60

    I literally had the same thing happen as Nick but the female version 😂 my dad was so confused that I never had a boyfriend in highschool. We went for a walk and he asked me if I ever talk to boys. The way he asked was weird but I didn't think much of it. Later, I was helping him with some construction in the basement and he says "boys will be really impressed that you can do this kind of stuff". I was like, "Kay... I don't really care about impressing boys." My dad got silent and whispered "are you trying to impress girls? 👀" ... I was like "WAIT WHAT. No" lmfao 🤣 I really didn't clue in for the longest time that he was trying to understand if I was a lesbian 😂😂😂

    • @emrahalien2972
      @emrahalien2972 Год назад +3

      imagine if he was like "you know guys are kinda hot don't you think?"

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten 2 года назад +21

    i never really questioned things when i was younger. like i knew guys could like guys but i never looked deep into it. its more of a "oh. ok."

  • @dannyzurita4759
    @dannyzurita4759 2 года назад +16

    My brother came out to my family and told us he was in a relationship with a man like 8 years ago. My other brother and I were very supportive and had his back. Our parents did not take it well. They come from a religious upbringing which is understandable. For maybe a year or two my parents never met my brothers bf. It took time but everything is great now. My brother and his bf got married and I got another brother. My parents grew a lot and accept my brother and his husband. Sometimes our parents can still surprise us.

  • @kaeleetruitt5618
    @kaeleetruitt5618 2 года назад +34

    From the beginning of my life I knew about gay people. My dad came out when I was 1 so I always understood and knew that he liked men and thinking about the fact that he was married to my mom was mind blowing. Then when I was about 5 my mom came out (I’m aware it’s a very interesting concept lol). And I have a gay aunt. So for me gay people are just like everyone else and I’m glad I’ve always grown up with that perspective cause it’s helped me be a very loving and excepting individual.

    • @Hellobro2727
      @Hellobro2727 2 года назад +5

      What the fuck LMAO Whats in the water yall be drinking?

    • @Jiminie53421
      @Jiminie53421 2 года назад +4

      That’s wild just cause it’s sounds like it could straight up be the plot for a rom com😂

    • @batigolffs
      @batigolffs 2 года назад

      Boi das cap

  • @scotttanguay4133
    @scotttanguay4133 2 года назад +7

    “I’m peeing blood” …… “what color does peeing blood look like”.. “Blood”…… “ Woooaahhh”

    • @testing123.
      @testing123. 2 года назад

      Bc the stones literally pushing through the pee hole its probably cutting tissue along the way

  • @ItsdidiN
    @ItsdidiN 2 года назад +6

    I really like this episode! Thank you for all you who are sharing your experience and good luck to anyone who is still battling to be accepted for who they are ❤️❤️

  • @projekk_wasabi6301
    @projekk_wasabi6301 2 года назад +9

    I grew up in a pretty diverse community, my brother is Asexual, me and my sis are bisexual, most of my friends were either gay or lesbian too. But I didn't know any of this even existed, not until I kept seeing movies, TV show, and my friends show these pride things, and I even learned personal experience, and I remember that me and my female friends were hanging out and we were looking at some cute guys, and one of my friends asked me if I was into guys, and at that moment I had a huge reality check. Bc u know as a kid u grow only to know girls like boys and boys like girls, so that moment was life changing.

    • @nobadman6701
      @nobadman6701 2 года назад

      America is made up of gays and lesbians, soon there will be no moms and dads, it's terrible to realize

    • @duffydope
      @duffydope 2 года назад

      Asexual is kinda just being a loner isn’t it ?

    • @nobadman6701
      @nobadman6701 2 года назад

      @@duffydope something like when women don't give you, because you're a loser and scary

  • @ericortiz3274
    @ericortiz3274 2 года назад +2

    Always fire 🤙🏽

  • @jpi45
    @jpi45 2 года назад +2

    When i was younger my mom saw me watching The “Sexy and i know it” video i was laughing at it so hard so she checked what i was watching. The expression on her face was just worry and disgust, she then asked me “What is that? Are you gay?” In tagalog lol.

  • @sarahheld3896
    @sarahheld3896 2 года назад +1

    Bart: "does she wear a lot of flannels?" 😂😂

  • @OlDirtyChinesRestaurant
    @OlDirtyChinesRestaurant 2 года назад +1

    Serious steve caught me off guard

  • @xTyler
    @xTyler 2 года назад +1

    My mom didnt teach me anything about gay people, She ASKED ME if I was gay when I was like 16 and I told her HELL NO! She thought I was gay because I wore skinny jeans, but little did she know, skinny jeans were literally the only jeans that existed in my middle and high school.
    It was cool tho cuz she had it in the back of her head but never changed the way she treated me even when she thought I was and never asked.
    Me and my mom ARE NOT CLOSE. She just gave me the resources I need to survive and that's really it. Our relationship is null

  • @BadBueno_Ridez
    @BadBueno_Ridez 2 года назад +1

    This is honestly like their therapy!! Everyone gets to go back in there past for a moment.

  • @Officialgalia
    @Officialgalia 2 года назад +2

    I grew up sharing my birthday with one of my parents friends because we had the same birthday. She is a lesbian with her long time partner - same sex partners was normalised to me very young. They still get me birthday presents bless up

  • @dan0acuesta733
    @dan0acuesta733 2 года назад

    HAHAHA ANTHONY AND KALYNE BACKING AWAY HAD ME DYING 🤣

  • @YovaniBinuelo
    @YovaniBinuelo 2 года назад +1

    Need a pt2!!

  • @kl1467
    @kl1467 Год назад

    While growing up my parents were and I guess still are homophobic. Had a pretty negative connotation surrounding gay people. Then at age 11 I moved to Thailand for school and made a lot of different gay, trans, lesbian friends. Helped me change my perspective quite a bit

  • @negiihimanshu
    @negiihimanshu Год назад

    How do i missed this video😂😂😂 it's hilarious

  • @heyitsjone
    @heyitsjone 2 года назад +2

    this is a great topic lmaoo

  • @geezjunior
    @geezjunior 2 года назад +4

    Barts dad story’s are always hilarious 😂 R.I.P MR kwan

  • @allybali
    @allybali 2 года назад

    great topic guys

  • @Kniraven
    @Kniraven 2 года назад +2

    Yo, where does Steve get his wardrobe?
    Inquiring minds need to know!

    • @testing123.
      @testing123. 2 года назад +1

      He said Amazon, dubno which episode. The woo stuff is custom done though.

  • @the92r
    @the92r 2 года назад +4

    ppl commenting b4 they watched the clip..... smh... this was a good clip

  • @tara_axm
    @tara_axm 2 года назад

    I grew up with homophobic parents who taught me that being gay was disgusting.... So glad for the internet and friends for being other influences in my life so I could see past their narrow mindset

  • @SMA2343
    @SMA2343 2 года назад +6

    I’m going to share Paul Provenza’s story. About how he grew up in the Bronx and called everyone the f slur because thats what he got taught. He never knew the word had a sexual component until 13/14/15 and only knew a f-slur was just someone who wouldn’t ring the doorbell and runway. Like, it’s one thing to be taught that word. It’s another to learn what it means and then learn not to say it because of how hurtful and the meaning it holds.

  • @SYNYSTERVODS
    @SYNYSTERVODS 2 года назад +3

    This was a long time ago and I'm glad this video is out but in my senior year of highschool I dated this girl and at the time she had short hair and when she came over at my house with my friends cause it was my birthday and we had a party my mom looked at her thinking she was a guy cause again she had short hair and after the party she talked to me and ask me if I was gay I'll still support you but are you gay and I'm like no but that showed me that no matter what if I was gay or not she would still support me

  • @nitsugaordnajela
    @nitsugaordnajela 2 года назад +5

    I had my first talk with my sixteen year old son about girls literally last night and I was pretty comfortable but there was those moments when loss of words how you mentioned happened. His mother and I had already spoke to him about sex and reproduction but this time he's a little older, talking to girls so definitely safety, consent, heart breaks, parties, peer pressure,.. . Now thinking about it must of been a long time

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 2 года назад +4

    Don't laugh, my parents were VERY old school Italians, when Queen was in that huge concert for Live Aide they sat me down and told me about aides and being gay and I said " I thought that concert was for hunger in Africa"? Yeah. Out of the mouths of babes. They felt pretty ridiculous but I think it was a good thing because then in high school I had best friends that were gay. I was ahead of the game.

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. 2 года назад +1

    Omg, Bart is not an only child

  • @seanchancellor6861
    @seanchancellor6861 2 года назад

    My parents always knew I was gay I was fruity af as a kid and dressed as a girl, I would main Zelda and peach in smash bros. Like very gay stuff. And I grew up to be a drag queen who works at raising canes, being gay is wild

  • @fhiyos_2611
    @fhiyos_2611 2 года назад +7

    Gay

  • @testing123.
    @testing123. 2 года назад

    17:55

  • @dttheemperor
    @dttheemperor 2 года назад

    Kalyne 😍

  • @Hellobro2727
    @Hellobro2727 2 года назад

    Mr. “You know what i mean” Anthony

  • @vidtrax662
    @vidtrax662 Год назад

    Today I learnt one can pee blood with kidney stone. 😊

  • @TheEckoEcho
    @TheEckoEcho 2 года назад +6

    2000s when you can say gay word all you want and no one gives a Fxxx

  • @TheTinyOrc
    @TheTinyOrc 2 года назад +3

    I cant stop staring at Bart's bulg, family jewels, packet package, what ever you wanna call it

  • @Proudtman
    @Proudtman 2 года назад +9

    I'm a trans, pansexual, and demisexual man! So i understand the saving face! I don't know if i can ever talk about me being a trans man

    • @thegreatkhan3191
      @thegreatkhan3191 2 года назад

      May you educate me on what a demisexual man is

  • @SiriHakuoh
    @SiriHakuoh 2 года назад

    🇯🇲: Nuff said...
    If you know, you know lol

  • @healmeimhurt-.-
    @healmeimhurt-.- 2 года назад

    Love🤣

  • @richardbarba2736
    @richardbarba2736 2 года назад +4

    Happy people

  • @Rix317
    @Rix317 2 года назад +5

    Glad I didn't do the boosters. There's going to be a lot of lawsuits about the spike protein and clotting. I actually had problems with random blood clotting after the second dose

    • @Mistakenbacon
      @Mistakenbacon 2 года назад +3

      Sure if you took the one that was made from monkeys. If you weren't a poor person and got the good ones you'd be fine lol.

  • @najaberthelsen
    @najaberthelsen Год назад

    I had a vague feeling that I was, this guys main “heart”.. but also knew he wanted so much more, but couldn’t get it.. so in the end I felt like I was the scrap he took.
    Hard to break free from when your selfesteem is at it’s lowest..

  • @rapinncapin123
    @rapinncapin123 2 года назад

    🤣

  • @zubabee
    @zubabee 2 года назад +2

    Maybe Nick's dad asked him if he liked girls because he saw signs that his daughter, Nicks sister was gay?

  • @SunflowerClovers
    @SunflowerClovers 2 года назад

    It's so sad to hear about the similar upbringings we had because back then being gay/the topic of it was so taboo. My Asian family was like, "Gay people are [insert bad/poor information]" or that "if other people are gay fine/unfortunate, but NOT IN OUR FAMILY." 🤪I remember when I was younger the word "lesbian" came on screen in the subtitles and I asked my aunt what that meant and she just stared at me and walked away. Had to Google that shit and of course back then there's no information that's NORMAL would come up just "dirty films" if you catch my drift LOL. So of course there goes my awakening LOLOL. There was also a girl in high school that was transitioning and I didn't know what trans was back then, other than "gay people stay away from them" (THANKS MOM). And she was walking next to me trying to make conversation and I just brushed her off. And looking back now I know she was trying to make friends and I wish I could have been her friend. I hope she's doing okay. 🥺I feel like being so sheltered, I was stunt on my growth of who I am as a person , my sexuality (🍳), but also in my maturity. I am so, so glad that we have all this information now that we can share and educate, and that the future generation can be properly informed and discover facets of themselves.

  • @sawsan7K
    @sawsan7K 2 года назад +1

    Can you make a video about Kit Conor being forced to come out. I think it's a serious topic that needs to be talked about here.

  • @ItsLGLOVER
    @ItsLGLOVER 2 года назад +3

    :D

  • @think_thoughtsinked
    @think_thoughtsinked 2 года назад

    I dont think parents will ever ask their girls if they talk to boys it's totally opposite they will be like stay away from them that's good for you 😂

  • @GazBC4U
    @GazBC4U 2 года назад

    My parents told me don't blame the sinner, blame the SIN...... 🙏

  • @AvatarRedbull
    @AvatarRedbull 2 года назад +2

    Kalyne adds nothing funny imo.. one of the worser guests you guys have kept letting come back. Im not saying she has to lead the whole joke but i've seen so many videos now with her in it and I feel like she just adds nothing interesting.

  • @ginnijo2526
    @ginnijo2526 2 года назад

    Who cares? It's just a Greco-Roman culture😒

  • @joeinthanou7961
    @joeinthanou7961 2 года назад

    Off topic I believe Tim Changetheonesuit is pregnant!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kiarademoner
    @kiarademoner 2 года назад +7

    As a Christian I’m no one to judge and I was taught to love no matter what. I love you for you and that’s it. I have a gay aunt and a friend who is also a lesbian and I love them no matter what. Now, do I think homosexuality is okay? No, but would I judge you or not be your friend because you’re homosexual? Absolutely not, I love who I love no matter who you love. ♥️

    • @rickybobbyracing9106
      @rickybobbyracing9106 2 года назад +1

      There are many of us who feel this way. It's really said the news and social media try to paint all Christian's as hateful.

  • @f111jiii
    @f111jiii 2 года назад +1

    This is it this is the video that gets them canceled

    • @chocolatecactus6155
      @chocolatecactus6155 2 года назад

      Relax Jackass. Theyre called Careful Boyz for a reason.

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor 2 года назад

      @@lalaalal7847 yeah but this is the one for some reason. I can feel it

    • @marcosascencio5161
      @marcosascencio5161 2 года назад +3

      What’s so controversial about it? They’re just talking about their perspectives. Didn’t notice anything hateful about it?

  • @loadostuff
    @loadostuff 2 года назад

    The title doesn't make any sense to me at all. the grammar seems way off to me. someone smarter than me tell me

  • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
    @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 2 года назад +3

    I actually wasn’t taught anything about gay people I was always naturally creeped out by them when I saw an adult gay man my instinct told me there was something odd about him. It’s survival that is embedded into our dna that’s why the immune system shuts down after gay men have too much gay sex. They say that intestines are made out of the same type of tissue as the human brain so when the intestines sense that a foreign males dna has continuously invaded their body it reacts with a self destruct. How else do you explain why aids is only prominent in gay men who have gay sex? When the body knows the body knows. White blood cells are intelligent enough to seek out bacteria and kill it.

  • @Cp3arias
    @Cp3arias 2 года назад +1

    Y’all need better topics wtf is this🤣 last otr was about paying bills 🤦🏽‍♂️