Toxic Father makes my life A LIVING NIGHTMARE after I DROP OUT of COLLEGE and calls me a MISTAKE

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  • @AmItheJerk
    @AmItheJerk  10 месяцев назад +5

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    • @joshuawhite1831
      @joshuawhite1831 10 месяцев назад

      No comments let me fix that

    • @Apatchi22
      @Apatchi22 10 месяцев назад

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  • @Nyghtking
    @Nyghtking 10 месяцев назад +10

    My Father did the same joint account thing, I got an inheritance at 16 and he convinced my mother that a joint account was a good idea so he could watch over my money.
    Turned out what he was actually doing was using it as a free money bucket and because I wasn't 18 I had no ability to create an account on my own or stop him, he essentially made it so I had to ask him whenever I wanted to use any of my money, and because he was abusive he would only give it to me if I promised never to give my mother any of it, despite the inheritance coming from her mother.
    He eventually drained the account dry, on top of getting money out of my mother, despite her mother telling her never to give him any of it, he ended u with more then half.
    I don't take to or interact with him anymore as I just hate him.
    This was one of many things he did to make me hate him.

  • @ElecticalCheetah
    @ElecticalCheetah 10 месяцев назад +28

    Just wait until that father tries to reach out if he finds out op has children and wants to play grandpa only to be denied and slapped with a restraining order and denied grandparents rights over the evidence op has that his father is horrible who
    House is probably a death trap

  • @darkwarriormaster9644
    @darkwarriormaster9644 10 месяцев назад +27

    Story 1: The father is a sociopath, possibly a psychopath.
    -His son nearly dies because of his neglect, and he just brushes it off as nothing.
    -His whole thing about violence is well past toxic masculinity because even most testosterone-fueled alpha males are smart enough to recognize that threatening your boss (regardless of who they are) with violence if they don’t give more hours won’t just get them fired, but also arrested.
    -At least the OP had his aunt and grandparents (the father’s sister, parents, and former mother-in-law) backing him up.
    -The grandparents (the father’s own parents) must be completely ashamed of their son.

    • @Nova_Ghost_Gamer
      @Nova_Ghost_Gamer 10 месяцев назад +3

      He needs to be in jail for all of his neglecting of situations.

    • @CloneElectrical
      @CloneElectrical 9 месяцев назад +1

      “Alpha male”
      -4 yr old

    • @silverblaze46
      @silverblaze46 9 месяцев назад

      And yet, when it said that you got to be violent to show people, who’s boss and all that, if OP would’ve been violent with that psychopath, one of two things would’ve happened, either a he’d call the cops because he was being attacked because it sounds like he likes to punish and pick on people that are either physically or Weak to him either because of certain situations, and if somebody that was stronger than him or say, was more successful, and did that he would literally be a coward and seriously call the cops or the worst case scenario, he would probably kill OP and not think anything of it except good. I killed the mistake now to hide the body and pretend it never happened. That’s the type of danger that if anybody would ever ever say violence to solve problems, he is an example of do as I say, not as I do because literally, he would literally be calling the cops are killing somebody if somebody actually laid hands are actually punch the guy.

  • @autumnazure8928
    @autumnazure8928 10 месяцев назад +12

    That father is the devil no ifs ands or buts about it.
    I hope he never has another child again

  • @jacobgomos2418
    @jacobgomos2418 10 месяцев назад +13

    I swear that the dad in the first story was so abusive that he makes my old man look like a saint. It was bad enough that he criticized OP for dropping out of college and treating him like a disappointment but then he decided to tell OP to do something that would get him into a lot of trouble, not just legally, he didn’t care when OP almost died because of his negligence, saying that OP would have deserved it along with everything else that he did to him and then if all that wasn’t enough he decided to say that OP was a mistake as OP was moving out. Quite frankly if I was in OP’s shoes I would have turned around to look at him before stepping out of that door one last time I would have said “the only mistake I see here is that mom chose to marry you. Enjoy dying alone you jackass”.

  • @autumnazure8928
    @autumnazure8928 10 месяцев назад +10

    To the entitled father when you're laying on your deathbed and wondering why nobody came to visit you know this is why is because you're horrible.

    • @smalcheems
      @smalcheems 10 месяцев назад +1

      he aint reading this

    • @autumnazure8928
      @autumnazure8928 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@smalcheems well consider this an expression of how anyone feels about this guy, he doesn't need to see it to know people are cursing him for his entitled behavior.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 10 месяцев назад +2

      The son should say that to his dad.

  • @MeepChangeling
    @MeepChangeling 10 месяцев назад +3

    "One of those contry people who heats the house with a furnace" ... Bruh? Uh... Even the most advanced central air systems, like full on HVAC, still use furnaces.

  • @viviennemorgan7217
    @viviennemorgan7217 10 месяцев назад +7

    i feel bad for op, that his father mistreats him so much, i'm glad that his grandparents and aunt are there to defend him against his father and now i want a life with him and his grandparents.

  • @reyandrade9657
    @reyandrade9657 10 месяцев назад +7

    First one pretty ironic to call your son a disapointment if the dad is the main disapointment he might as well cry in missary after op lives better and away form it

  • @harleyquinn5774
    @harleyquinn5774 10 месяцев назад +4

    Story 1: Malignant Narcissist. Possible psychopath.

    • @HannahSiemer
      @HannahSiemer 10 месяцев назад +2

      I will second that diagnosis, even though I will make the safe assumption that you’re not psychologist, neither am I. I didn’t live with someone exactly like that, but I lived with someone who had very similar tendencies for, oh, about 14 years, except it wasn’t there 24 seven until the very last year. You poor, unfortunate thing, I can understand the eggshells living with volcano stress that you were probably under. Don’t listen to whatever your father says, as I like to say, can you spell projection for me? I use humor to deal with a lot of things, self deprecating or otherwise.

  • @v.crowley
    @v.crowley 10 месяцев назад +19

    Story 3: OP needs to grow up a bit more before attempting things with people..

    • @beccapersephoneschneider1374
      @beccapersephoneschneider1374 10 месяцев назад +10

      fr though.....I get being shy and insecure but OP isn't emotionally mature enough for a healthy relationship.

    • @eric98292
      @eric98292 10 месяцев назад +4

      No kidding. Talk about way over thinking a situation.

  • @shreksarmy3093
    @shreksarmy3093 10 месяцев назад +5

    2:39 that's kinda childish and toxic

    • @darkwarriormaster9644
      @darkwarriormaster9644 10 месяцев назад +3

      Kinda?! That's well past toxic masculinity and just being a straight-up psychopath! See my comment above.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 10 месяцев назад +1

      And grounds for arrest.

  • @rainisshoku3400
    @rainisshoku3400 9 месяцев назад +1

    The first story sounds like an anime plot lmao
    1. 19 yro male high-school drop out
    2. Abusive father with mafia leader tough guy act using the 'now I got you scared' line
    3. Mc nearly passes due to abusive father's negligence
    4. Heaven sent maternal grandparents saving mc's life and proceed to attack abusive father, offering mc a place to live and continue to fight abusive father.
    .
    The second story sound like an experience with cave men, I mean they just surrounded the ops coworker arguing about the bill like monkeys to humans about food.

  • @joshuachavers6456
    @joshuachavers6456 10 месяцев назад +5

    Yay. New vid.

  • @Tubb2581
    @Tubb2581 9 месяцев назад +1

    Last story: a Code Eugene in training

  • @the_otaku_chronicles8330
    @the_otaku_chronicles8330 10 месяцев назад +5

    2 minute club

  • @DarkPretender205
    @DarkPretender205 9 месяцев назад

    First story is literally the guy making himself look bigger than he is only to be scared into backing off, the coward in any movie or story, but in a parent role xD

  • @I-was-born-in-1902
    @I-was-born-in-1902 10 месяцев назад +4

    Your the best RUclipsr

  • @snakeeyes80012
    @snakeeyes80012 9 месяцев назад

    It sounds like the last guy might suffer from bpd at least. I had an ex friend who became my abuser because of it and how he would say the same things, etc.

  • @lautarogatto4729
    @lautarogatto4729 10 месяцев назад +3

    Exact 5 minutes

  • @jasoncarpp7742
    @jasoncarpp7742 10 месяцев назад +1

    *Story 1:* Talk about a fucked up father. I don't know why anyone would have a child if he's going to belittle him throughout his childhood. Good for OP for leaving. If only there was a way to separate from him financially. No one should be forced to have a joint bank account with someone who's going to control you like that. I sure as hell wouldn't.

  • @sicilianprincess-tm5nz
    @sicilianprincess-tm5nz 10 месяцев назад +21

    Story 3 the op is acting like a kid. Grow up some dude.

    • @femkefeenstra7754
      @femkefeenstra7754 10 месяцев назад +2

      He's really making things hard for himself, with no need whatsoever. He gets too much in his head.

    • @BMakabre
      @BMakabre 10 месяцев назад +4

      It sounds like OP might have (un-diagnosed) mildly been on the spectrum. That can often mess with your thoughts making you doubt yourself so much that simple things can be a challenge - especially with low self esteem.
      Dealing with that with no diagnosis is bad enough, its worse in bad cases when 'so-called authority figures' just put you down throughout your life ("You are a waste of space!", "Worthless!", as well as their favorite line "You should have been drowned at birth!").

  • @tylercanales5794
    @tylercanales5794 10 месяцев назад

    I have to say the guy in the last story or the original poster for the last story I really feel for and can relate.

  • @kballard27
    @kballard27 10 месяцев назад

    story 1 I would SUE HIS PANTS OFF for the money he took AND THEN SOME MORE FOR EMOTIONAL DISTRESS!
    that was NOT COOL plus O P NEEDS TOO GET HIM TAKEN OFF THE ACCOUNT ASAP!

  • @Ghost-g4k
    @Ghost-g4k 10 месяцев назад +1

    What is the common if you were here in 9 minutes

  • @theender664
    @theender664 10 месяцев назад +2

    17:22 i don't see any mess ups
    the only mess up is not telling stuff as soon as it appears
    i only see a mess up from her side
    silent treatment is childish as hell
    she's not worth man

  • @ArmaniGaming445
    @ArmaniGaming445 10 месяцев назад +2

    Hi again

  • @xnocryptic2551
    @xnocryptic2551 10 месяцев назад +2

    5 min club

    • @wwdjbob
      @wwdjbob 10 месяцев назад +2

      I am also here I just didn’t look in comments

  • @Titantvman_ultraupgraded
    @Titantvman_ultraupgraded 10 месяцев назад +1

    Nah the only one who is a disappointment and a mistake is the father in this first story

  • @bailey678
    @bailey678 9 месяцев назад

    Story 2: I think they were on drugs.

  • @d.209
    @d.209 10 месяцев назад +1

    OMG!!!!!!

  • @wwdjbob
    @wwdjbob 10 месяцев назад +1

    Is it me or are they playing fortnite on a PC or laptop with low graphics? 😅

  • @ryleybowen
    @ryleybowen 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sup bruh

  • @UncleSam13
    @UncleSam13 9 месяцев назад

    Boo hoo

  • @aydeansaidi7281
    @aydeansaidi7281 10 месяцев назад +2

    First comment

  • @Jacobsusybaka
    @Jacobsusybaka 10 месяцев назад +2

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