You are all so well-spoken, it's rare to find people who are very intelligent emotionally and able to discuss serious topics in such a way, this is just beautiful. I hope more people open their minds and see that we don't all fit in the same box, and there are different ways of being happy in life whether you want to be with one person or with multiple people or even be alone, let's just all live our lives and enjoy it without judging each other
They are truly so eloquent! I was like wow! Such young boys and they can give Dr Phil a run for his money. The reason why I prefer Chinese dramas to any other is the insight they have about everything. The dialogues are just so beautiful in any given situation.
I keep forgetting you guys have only been together for one year. The way you guys are comfortable with your own feelings and each other it looks like you guys have been together for 5+ years! ❤ 加油 🤩
PLEASE PART TWOOOOO You are all SO EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT I COULD CRY. I feel there’s nothing I know that could break you guys down. I absolutely ADORE you.
Wow ✅I really appreciate how well spoken they are and they are all trying to express their thoughts. This conversation is really rare to hear and I am glad they are open to us about the ups and down because there is no perfect relationship in any relationship. But if each person starts within themselves like cultivating each own strength and the things need to work out you can understand yourself first so the people around you will know how to response to you too. Ahhh they are so deep and very mature in their age! ✨
I wish there were guys around me that thought the same way you guys do. I feel like the way most guys are, it would be hard to be part of a throuple, but you three are so grounded and in touch and aware of what it takes to be in a relationship. Your relationship and the love you all have is honestly so beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with us ❤️
Agree with you. Never mind part of a throuple, some guys are even hard to be part of couple or even just friendship. It really needs high EQ to be even part of something.
I’m so glad they posted this! They seem like well adjusted and mentally healthy young men. I truly wish them well. They are right, When times get rough, introspect and then communicate. It’s seriously the only way ANY healthy can relationship can survive. ❤🏳️🌈
That was a really great discussion. I think people in all types of relationships could learn a lot in terms of communication from the three of you. You are all so sweet ♥️
An amazing, wonderful and emotional video. All three of you have spoken from the heart with many mature comments. It’s normal for us all to feel jealous at times, but you’re all appeared to of developed listening and communicating skills to cope. I love how you all know and understand the need to spend with time with each out either as a group of three or as a group of two while respecting the feelings of everyone, and the respect you have for each other’s hobbies and jobs. Like any other relationship, I’m very sure you have good days and less good days but I believe you all work through these to become stronger. I look forward to part 2.
You guys will go great! The best relationship I ever had was that of a thruple that kind if just happened after meeting at a club and then having it last for several years until one of us had to move away to deal with family health issues. We set up a great home, had 3 healthy incomes, did lots of activities, long travels, lots oftime talking about life and, yes, spent lots of time in bed - toe curling amazing. For all of us, it got very intense. Our thruple was a closed relationship. To all reading - at least consider the possibility.
Acho importante estarmos confortáveis e felizes com as escolhas que fazemos, particularmente não não conseguiria ter este tipo de relação pois gosto de exclusividade mais não sou contra aqueles que curtem. Boa sorte a vcs e que possam continuar se amando muito ❤
You guys are all awesome and so mature in your relationship! It is so refreshing to see such great commitment and communication in a relationship. I admire your relationships with each other and your compassion and love toward each other. I have been together with my husband for going on 27 years and I will say in our gay relationship, also closed relationship, the secret to our longevity is also love, commitment and communication, keep up the great interactions and love for each other, you three are meant for each other and you all are golden!!! ❤
It’s so amazing to see and hear young guys like this with such amazing depth, intellect and spirituality!💕😍, you are all a true inspiration, you make me feel warm inside 🥰😍💙
I love hearing you talk about how different relationships have different rules -- what works for me and my partner(s) may not work for someone else and thats ok. Happy to see you all loving and supporting each other and approaching the relationship with curiosity and open communication ❤️ Edit: i also think polyamory may be easier for queer people -- after all, we have to start with fewer stereotypes about relationships or roles, so we are already more flexible and open in our thinking, and creative in relationships.
Wonderful! I'm glad that Adam doesn't feel akward like he expressed in the first video. Everything is solved with communication and you have that a lot. Keep it up, guys!
Your relationship has helped to open my mind and expand the way I think. I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are inviting us all into your relationship. Thank you for being open with us. Continuing to cheer for you!
Wow! Wow! Wow! Three beautiful young souls who in this short video speaks volumes about love and life! Am awestruck! Wish you 3 life time of love, peace and happiness. ❤
wow these were some deep insights to your relationship. You guys even answered questions that I never thought to ask but I am so grateful I am educated on it. Thank you so much for opening up and being so honest with us! I will continue to support your love!
Thank you for taking the time to share this with us. I loved learning more about your relationship and thought process as well as about topics I would never have considered before. I think communication, trust, and having open mind are definitely important aspects in a relationship. I wish the 3 of you continued love, success, and happiness in your relationship and life goals. 💖💖🥰🥰
This is amazing episode to know what three of you think of each other and your relationship so far… I adore you three. It’s always difficulties in every relationship no matter what. Please support, understand and love each other. Your loves are beautiful. So far Jeremy must be the one that artistic and independent right??? From the looks of Adam and Grayn at the end of the Video😊😊😊 Who is the most sensitive one? Who is always the middle guy that comfort everyone? Support you three as always!!!
I love how well you articulated each answer, it really shows how much thought and reflection you've put into this relationship. Can't wait for more content!
I'm in awe of the level of emotional intelligence and maturity of the three of you. Thank you so much for sharing this . Your take on the world is very precious. This vid should be made a compulsory class to watch for students at universities all around the world, becaus eof its values and sound, grounded advice . Also, I second what you said about educationand background, and your own parents . I gave my kids a LGBTQI+ education since a very early age , I am so happy they thanked me for this several times now they are adults . Your thruple is so loving and authentic, may you grow together for a lifelong time !
it takes intelligence, care, and love to be in a relationship with one person, so the fact that these three men are in a healthy relationship with each other speaks to how intelligent, caring, and loving they are. you have my support and admiration 🤍🤍
It’s so incredibly beautiful that you three have been able to share your thoughts and feelings, perpetually growing into a wonderful relationship. As with any relationship communication is the key to success, as for your Q&A it was astonishing to hear and feel the connection between the three of you. I support your commitment and endeavors towards your relationship. ❤️🙋♂️🏳️🌈
Bonjour, je viens de tomber sur votre compte et de regarder la plupart de vos vidéos. Tout d'abords, bravo pour votre belle histoire, le courage de la mettre en ligne et de votre clarté sur les tenants et les aboutissants d'une telle relation. Je suis d'accord avec vos réflexions sur ce qu'est une vie de Throuple après 6 mois de relations. Vos réponses nous éclairent et nous enrichissent. L'ouverture d'esprit est nécessaire dans ce monde. Merci à vous 3. Je vous souhaite le meilleur et une belle vie d'amour. Salutations du Sud de la France😊❤
You really look like open-minded people. You are composed and intelligent. This was really interesting to listen that I didn't even see the 17 minutes pass by. Support from France! ❤❤❤
Nicely said guys. You are very obviously talking and sharing each others thoughts and feelings and that is proving to be a big part of your success as a loving partnership. Wonderful too that your friends and families are supporting you. Thanks for the excellent English subs. Looking forward to your next posting. My very best wishes and hugs from the UK. D xxx
Really good and free lecture from the 3 of you😎👏🤩美国摩门教尤其是在犹他州盐湖城及周边地区，摩门教徒很多人至今还是有一夫多妻的，但并不是每个摩门教徒都会这样，所以还是看个人的想法和具体情况而已； 我真的特别喜欢宙学和宇成讲到了古代的男人三妻四妾和当今多元关系的差别，这完全就是我之前想到但是没有说出来的，因为我感觉很多人会误解多元恋爱和古代一夫多妻的差别；但其实3个人彼此都互相喜欢和, 一个男人爱上多个人，多个人都喜欢一个人是不一样的； 3人情侣彼此都相互喜欢和理解，不会嫉妒生气说你怎么可以和他/她亲热….彼此之间都是伴侣的关系，但是古代一夫多妻，妻子们之间是情敌！是竞争关系！所以不仅妻子们之间不会互相喜欢，甚至大多数时候都是敌人的关系，要争夺一个男人的宠爱让自己存活，那是多不容易的事情，否则甄嬛传是怎么来的对吧!!!😂😂😂所以Jeremy 和 Adam 说的太好了，赞呐!🎉
Me dejan una sensación tan cálida❤ escucharlos hablar de forma tan profunda y sincera, ver el cariño mutuo entre los tres, me emociona mucho! Sean felices chicos 🤍
I admire your relationship and thank you for allowing a fan to better understand your relationship. May you guys be blessed to stay together for the rest of your lives. ❤❤❤ and support.
You are all so enjoyable to listen to. Thank you for telling us your story. It really is a testimonial to others in relationships to do better and be better for their partners. Again thank you to all of you for sharing and bringing such a light into this world. ♥
j'aime beaucoup votre façon de penser tout les 3 c'est très réfléchi et très profond je vois le respect mutuel de tout les 3 et la communication est primordiale c'est vraiment beau votre relation je vous souhaite beaucoup de belles choses à venir et beaucoup d'amour ❤❤❤ merci pour la traduction française 🥰🥰🥰
Their relationship is very fascinating, and I love all 3. I do wonder sometimes if Adam and Jeremy were showing so much affection for each other, did Grayn feel left out or see his relationship with Adam potentially coming to an end. Especially, since he has talked about his emotions in a couple of videos. No matter how strong you are, it would have to be difficult to see your partner being intimate with someone else, even if you agree to add another party to the relationship. It would be only human to wonder, "does he love him more," or "is he tired of me," etc. Obviously, we don't get to witness their lives 24/7. It could simply be editing. It could be Adam and Jeremy got really close during Grayn's military duties. Who knows. I love their Q & A's. I just hope that opening up their relationship to the world doesn't have negative effects like other public couples.
I have a hard time commenting. On one had I'm glad that Grayn felt stronger after his time in the military. Not so dependent on Adam for emotional and day to day support in his life. Learned to love himself so he could not need Adam as much. I felt like they were talking circles around it, like how wonderful it was for Grayn to have found himself, and how good it is he communicates his unhappiness. But they didn't really say how they solved the problem. Probably that's none of our business and a boundary they don't want to cross, too personal, but it felt unresolved to me, looking at Grayn's body language. My knee jerk reaction is that Grayn is protecting himself from feeling too hurt by being left out. Like he still feels like he's the odd one out in Adam and Jeremy's relationship.
@harvestmoon_autumnsky Same. It's difficult to comment because we don't have access to their entire lives, as it should be. At the same time, though, when you watch their videos, you get so invested. I also felt that some comments circled back to the same repetitive responses without really answering the question. It just keeps me wanting to know so many more details. All in all, I just hope their happy.
just a clarification cause you are mixing them up, Adam went to military not Grayn and Adam did explain that he did feel left out when Grayn and Jeremy interacted but yes Adam didn't explain how he felt when he was in the military
So happy to see such an honest and mature introspecion of your relationship. Very happy to have found your channel and learn more about your reality.🤗🤗 I hope you can keep on working and improving your relationship🤞🤗 Stay healthy and happy🙌🙌
If you guys keep this mindset, your relationship will last longer, even forever. The lack of this mindset was the downfall of my last relationship, I was talking and he wasn't listening, I felt like I was giving my all and was receiving nothing. I later thought, let me just hold on, he might listen later and change and that was my downfall, I went so deep I lost myself. I had to learn self love and self respect and at the end, the walls around my heart thickened. No relationship is easy, we need to work for it and continue working, we can't be lax or it'll fall or we wouldn't even know when it started coming apart. I hope you three continue to value yourselves, each other, and your relationship and also learn to love each other everyday❤
Just think of the positive impact the three of you would have on society if you all became therapists. Listening to you speak is more soothing and reassuring than any amount of ASMR.
Really cool video guys thanks for opening up your hearts to the rest of us….you guys are amazing and more mature than most people in your age group…..just continue to take care of each other and be honest with each other and love each other…..
You really have to appreciate Grayn and Adam's relationship prior to the thruple as they built the foundation of their 2-person relationship strong enough to incorporate another person [Jeremy], which is not always easy. Now they are three, and we get to be a witness of their newfound love. 💙 Every time I watch their videos, I feel happiness, joy, and fulfilment, so I can only imagine what each of them feel. My only complaint is we see so much of Adam's and Jeremy's love and affection and closeness towards each other, but we don't get to see Jeremy and Grayn or Grayn and Adam as much [that's just from my perspective] nonetheless I love your videos the same 💙💙💙
How do you know the beginning of their triple relationship? 😅 by the way, would you tell me who it is that I just started seeing them and I don't know which one is jeremy, grayn and who is adam. 😅
Of course, welcome, you'll like it here they are all lovely 😊 So from the thumbnail left to right. The left is Jeremy, the middle is Adam, and right is Grayn (my favourite 💙). Backstory Grayn and Adam had been dating for 2 years prior to meeting Jeremy (which if my memory is correct Grayn met 1st), obviously things went well and they started their thruple relationship (they have been dating him for 6 months). ❤️❤️ They haven't revealed their ages, but I'm 95% confident Adam is the oldest 😅 Anything else you might want you know, feel free to comment back. 🧡🧡
Awesome! Love the honesty and thank you for sharing this with us all x x x I am super interested in how you all interact and care for one another and your own self. It is highly commendable, the effort you all are willing to make, to build such a loving, strong and healthy relationship x I'm so glad you spoke about Adam's military service as I was quite interested how that may change the dynamics. Have Grayn and Jeremy did military service yet? I actually think we can all learn a lot from you all, and be inspired to work on our own relationships. I really enjoy getting to know you all better, you each have such unique charms- I hope to know more about you and wish you honestly the best x
Thank you for making videos like these, I certainly admire you a lot and your relationship too! I really hope the three of you can stay happy for much longer♡.
You have a really good relationship. Very happy about it. Always wait until the moment you die of another love of your own. Congratulations to the three of you
I have to say that all 3 of you are very handsome and really well-versed gentlemen. This video has been very educational for me because I have a son in a three person relationship and I've heard these words yet not known the meaning. Thank You so much and love from a new LGBTQ Mom.
Your communication and understanding to each other is really surreal. I hope your feelings will linger more than how all of us could think of. I'm really looking forward to your future vlog. Thank you for showing and letting us be with Y'all throughout your journey. I want to request moree q&a's like this. Or you can play games like Never have i ever for us to know more about youu. But that is only if you want to, of course. However i really wish for you to reconsider it haha. Love y'all! I'll continue to support y'all three!
Omg you replied! Thank you! And yes!, Really looking forward to it. I've turn on the notification bell already so I will always be updated with you guys. Have a nice week! Love y'all!
I really like all three of you because of you amazing mind set it's really gard to find ppl who think from different perspectives also ( I'm also one of them ) being in a three people relationship and being publi is really hard so it's quite amazing how you are handling it I'm sure you guys see negative comments also but let me tell there are people who love you too so I hope that you guys have a good , strong and healthy relationship ❤❤❤
The most important in Ur relationship trust love understanding and honest and patient to eachother I love watching in Ur Vlog. We know no body's perfect in this world but on regard of love U find in Ur happiness life is life no matter what guys still together. Three of U so handsome and so 🥰 🥰🥰
Wow it’s great how you all love and support each You all spoke beautifully about yourselves and each other I really enjoy watching your videos please part 2 ❤❤❤❤
This was incredibly fascianting. Thanks for sharing some of your life. Adam's honesty about his feelings over seeing intimacy between the others was very interesting. Is this still an issue if the intimacy is only shared by two? If so, how are you all working through this?
Good talk..you guys are very mature and really know how to talk. You guys really work hard to keep your relationship healthy. Actually from the start, I already felt like Jeremy is an independent person, and can stand alone. I can see it from his behaviour and the way he talk. Meanwhile, I can sense that Adam is an emotional type of person. It's good on how Adam can express his feeling more. And for Grayn, I can see that he is the type of person who doesn't like to show affection publicly. In other words, he likes to keep it private.
You are all so well-spoken, it's rare to find people who are very intelligent emotionally and able to discuss serious topics in such a way, this is just beautiful. I hope more people open their minds and see that we don't all fit in the same box, and there are different ways of being happy in life whether you want to be with one person or with multiple people or even be alone, let's just all live our lives and enjoy it without judging each other
They are truly so eloquent! I was like wow! Such young boys and they can give Dr Phil a run for his money.
The reason why I prefer Chinese dramas to any other is the insight they have about everything. The dialogues are just so beautiful in any given situation.
I keep forgetting you guys have only been together for one year. The way you guys are comfortable with your own feelings and each other it looks like you guys have been together for 5+ years! ❤ 加油 🤩
It all need practicing! (Jeremy
三個人的戀愛真的很少見也很難，看你們可以有所成長真的很開心，不禁讓我也思考自己的愛情觀。你們很讚
三人戀愛在相處上真的不是一件很容易的事，我們也是三人 交往目前也一年多了
一起平凡的過每一天，互相體諒包容對方，開心幸福 身體健康最重要，加油加油
❤ 三位真的是神話級存在
方法總比困難多 三個腦袋肯定更有趣🎉
聽你們三人的真情對話是一般至親才有的內涵.能走上彼此換位思考這一步是前世今的再生緣進一步的昇華.祝福你們永浴愛河.彼此相愛恆久❤
PLEASE PART TWOOOOO You are all SO EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT I COULD CRY. I feel there’s nothing I know that could break you guys down. I absolutely ADORE you.
Wow ✅I really appreciate how well spoken they are and they are all trying to express their thoughts. This conversation is really rare to hear and I am glad they are open to us about the ups and down because there is no perfect relationship in any relationship. But if each person starts within themselves like cultivating each own strength and the things need to work out you can understand yourself first so the people around you will know how to response to you too. Ahhh they are so deep and very mature in their age! ✨
更希望聽到你們說一些三人之間相處不同的差異 趣事 畢竟不可能三個人的興趣愛好都一樣嘛 當其中一個人不開心了 會怎麼的紓壓 😂
感覺中間就是被迫也要喜歡左邊，不然就會失去右邊，所以才有不平衡的感受
中間值得更好的，最左自以為自己很懂，其實是在鬼扯，右邊就是不夠愛中間，貪新厭舊還想要裝好人的爛人
同感
被迫妥協 催眠自己這是好的
喜歡長久之後就是愛情
愛情之後接著生活
生活之中就是
自我的堅持與在乎的磨合
我觉得你的描述很敏锐。三人关系不只是三个人处不处得下去，而是它产生的模式就不太可能是健康的。
因为两个人同时突然喜欢上第三个人或者三个人同时互相喜欢，概率低到了可以认为是不存在的。所以产生三人关系，必然经过2+1的过程，也就是二人关系中一个人先出轨，另一人不想失去原来的对象，选择接受第三个人，新培养和第三人的感情。就是这种关系肯定不是健康的自主选择，而是存在一定的被迫接受和“先婚后爱”的意思。
被迫接受的人的状态有点像是以前那种包办婚姻里的女性，被迫结婚，然后处的时间长了倒是也有感情，就维持那种状态了。
很棒的三人相處和溝通心理歷程的分享，我覺得應該很多人也很受用到，期待你們更多三人相處遇到的困難和磨合到平衡的溝通過程分享❤
I don't know why I felt Adam is natural and most innocent among the three 😊
幸運的三個人碰到，幸運的周邊朋友都很祝福，就連我覺得最難的父母部分也都是祝福的，那剩下就是生活中的摩擦，以及時間這把殺豬刀，都說在時間面前很多事都會改變，希望你們一直不變😊
同意 有很多東西是需要時間來解決的（Grayn
我看完整支影片了，從二個人變成三個人在一起要互相喜歡都真的需要經過很多了解，溝通，磨合，像宙學在影片開端的時候說的，從前只有你跟吳軍的時候，都是不會有第三個來分享自己伴侶的，但當宇成加入了之後，你看到軍跟宇成也會有親密舉動時，你一開始也說你會有彆扭或不自在，可能你當時會有吃醋或是感覺被忽略的，但我想知道你是怎樣去調整自己的想法跟當下的心情，去達到平衡點，從而去愛上他們的，變成互相依靠的關係，還有你說的水深火熱的溝通，也應該是很深層的認識彼此的長處，短處，生活方式，跟愛的程度，畢竟一開始還沒有宇成加入的時候，我相信只有你跟軍的時候，相處久了，可能真的會比較鬆懈，會沒有那麼在意一些小細節，但後來你們也為了這一段新的關係，開始進入重新調整以往的模式，去作出改變，我也很想知道怎麼可以做到讓你們三個都不會有一方感到落單或是被忽略
從我上次看完你們在宇成生日那天，媽媽生病去了醫院那個影片之後，你跟學說的話我印象最深刻，你們說不想把宇成留下來自己面對，這個舉動，不是每對情侶都可做到的，後來我都有去關注你們的 IG,從以前二個人到三個人的心路歷程，發現很多不一樣的東西，讓我更有興趣了解你們的相處之道是怎樣的，如何在關係上做到平衡，包括變得像現在那樣，像性愛那樣的親密關係也可能平衡，也是一個敏感度高的話題，好像都有很多網友會關心你們的這方面的。
謝謝妳認真的看完影片，我們未來可能也會來討論關於親密行為上遇到的困難點。但我想這些情緒與想法我們也在摸索中，靜待時間給我們答案或者解方（Grayn
@@thrupledaily 一定會給你們時間的、謝謝和支持你們，看完宇成說的多元關係，我立即有去 Google 看來了解，我現在太概明白了，祝福三人要一直幸福快樂下去，期待下集影片😊💕
I wish there were guys around me that thought the same way you guys do. I feel like the way most guys are, it would be hard to be part of a throuple, but you three are so grounded and in touch and aware of what it takes to be in a relationship. Your relationship and the love you all have is honestly so beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with us ❤️
Agree with you. Never mind part of a throuple, some guys are even hard to be part of couple or even just friendship. It really needs high EQ to be even part of something.
@@jyeesu exactly
好喜歡這樣的談話，更認識三人關係之間彼此該怎麼處理感情狀態，好棒❤
10:07 learning to trust yourself and communicate is so important. I’m glad you guys have found such a balance with each other. It’s wonderful to see ❤
I’m so glad they posted this! They seem like well adjusted and mentally healthy young men. I truly wish them well. They are right, When times get rough, introspect and then communicate. It’s seriously the only way ANY healthy can relationship can survive. ❤🏳️🌈
That was a really great discussion. I think people in all types of relationships could learn a lot in terms of communication from the three of you. You are all so sweet ♥️
An amazing, wonderful and emotional video. All three of you have spoken from the heart with many mature comments. It’s normal for us all to feel jealous at times, but you’re all appeared to of developed listening and communicating skills to cope. I love how you all know and understand the need to spend with time with each out either as a group of three or as a group of two while respecting the feelings of everyone, and the respect you have for each other’s hobbies and jobs. Like any other relationship, I’m very sure you have good days and less good days but I believe you all work through these to become stronger. I look forward to part 2.
You guys will go great! The best relationship I ever had was that of a thruple that kind if just happened after meeting at a club and then having it last for several years until one of us had to move away to deal with family health issues. We set up a great home, had 3 healthy incomes, did lots of activities, long travels, lots oftime talking about life and, yes, spent lots of time in bed - toe curling amazing. For all of us, it got very intense. Our thruple was a closed relationship. To all reading - at least consider the possibility.
三人戀愛真的很棒，因為我們也是三人❤
真正的三人關係，是當你看見另外兩個人有親密行為，甚至發生性愛時，你不但不會吃醋，反而是覺得開心幸福的。
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@@pokmanny 歐吹
Acho importante estarmos confortáveis e felizes com as escolhas que fazemos, particularmente não não conseguiria ter este tipo de relação pois gosto de exclusividade mais não sou contra aqueles que curtem. Boa sorte a vcs e que possam continuar se amando muito ❤
這已經算是特殊性癖好了😂😂
很喜歡聽你們分享感情，能感受出宙學當兵和你們分離的難受，會非常的不平衡吧，但幸好你們能好好溝通，一段感情裡面溝通真的好重要，彼此都要把內心的想法訴說給對方聽，一起解決、陪伴，好奇退位後你們三人的日常會有什麼改變？
然後最後宇成的 有啦 好可愛🤣 期待下集～
退伍的話就回歸正常生活
但當兵真的是迫使人成長的好方法
雖然過程很痛苦就是了
（Grayn
You guys are all awesome and so mature in your relationship! It is so refreshing to see such great commitment and communication in a relationship. I admire your relationships with each other and your compassion and love toward each other. I have been together with my husband for going on 27 years and I will say in our gay relationship, also closed relationship, the secret to our longevity is also love, commitment and communication, keep up the great interactions and love for each other, you three are meant for each other and you all are golden!!! ❤
我很期待你們三個人的視頻。希望你們會發佈更多你們之間情侶的視頻
It’s so amazing to see and hear young guys like this with such amazing depth, intellect and spirituality!💕😍, you are all a true inspiration, you make me feel warm inside 🥰😍💙
I love hearing you talk about how different relationships have different rules -- what works for me and my partner(s) may not work for someone else and thats ok. Happy to see you all loving and supporting each other and approaching the relationship with curiosity and open communication ❤️
Edit: i also think polyamory may be easier for queer people -- after all, we have to start with fewer stereotypes about relationships or roles, so we are already more flexible and open in our thinking, and creative in relationships.
Wonderful! I'm glad that Adam doesn't feel akward like he expressed in the first video. Everything is solved with communication and you have that a lot. Keep it up, guys!
Learning to be more self-sufficient while learning to rely on each other more. That's the best part
透過溝通的過程，來找到彼此的平衡點，努力達到你們三人的三贏（一般兩人通常會是說雙贏），愛是一種容忍和包容，沒有人是聖人或完美的，互相彌補彼此間的不足，來讓這段關係可以走得更長更遠，適時的互相陪伴並且保有一定的個人興趣和私人空間，有助於關係的長久發展。缺乏自我的人是沒有魅力的，所以正如你們所說愛自己才會被愛，找到內心的平衡點、找到三人相處的平衡點，願你們天長地久呦！
沒錯，這套用在各種關係上都是一樣的，只是每個人溝通的技巧與能力程度上有所不同（Grayn
Your relationship has helped to open my mind and expand the way I think. I appreciate your honesty and the fact that you are inviting us all into your relationship. Thank you for being open with us. Continuing to cheer for you!
宇宙軍 準備好了❤好期待🥰 #宇宙軍
好耶🎊！以后三人日常的粉丝，观众就叫”宇宙军”好了👍
@@chenzhou7288 嗯嗯 我也觉得我改的这个名字挺好的🫶🏻嘻嘻😁
Wow! Wow! Wow! Three beautiful young souls who in this short video speaks volumes about love and life! Am awestruck! Wish you 3 life time of love, peace and happiness. ❤
你們真的超棒！
我覺得三人是真的其中一個蠻被容易忽略的
但你們真的違和的超好👍
希望你們三人能99❤
wow these were some deep insights to your relationship. You guys even answered questions that I never thought to ask but I am so grateful I am educated on it. Thank you so much for opening up and being so honest with us! I will continue to support your love!
Thank you for taking the time to share this with us. I loved learning more about your relationship and thought process as well as about topics I would never have considered before. I think communication, trust, and having open mind are definitely important aspects in a relationship. I wish the 3 of you continued love, success, and happiness in your relationship and life goals. 💖💖🥰🥰
三個人的外表都滿適合當明星的，組團體發片應該有搞頭，滿適合現在年輕人喜歡的樣子
This is amazing episode to know what three of you think of each other and your relationship so far… I adore you three. It’s always difficulties in every relationship no matter what. Please support, understand and love each other. Your loves are beautiful.
So far Jeremy must be the one that artistic and independent right??? From the looks of Adam and Grayn at the end of the Video😊😊😊
Who is the most sensitive one? Who is always the middle guy that comfort everyone?
Support you three as always!!!
三人戀愛真的很棒，因為我們也是三人❤
現在剛開始的磨合相處,都會想到對方的感受
之後我們也會一起同居,看了你們的日常生活給了我們很多勇氣與啟發,
一起努力加油,期待今年台北同遊能看到你們一起拍照合影!!
I love how well you articulated each answer, it really shows how much thought and reflection you've put into this relationship. Can't wait for more content!
I'm in awe of the level of emotional intelligence and maturity of the three of you. Thank you so much for sharing this .
Your take on the world is very precious. This vid should be made a compulsory class to watch for students at universities all around the world, becaus eof its values and sound, grounded advice .
Also, I second what you said about educationand background, and your own parents . I gave my kids a LGBTQI+ education since a very early age , I am so happy they thanked me for this several times now they are adults .
Your thruple is so loving and authentic, may you grow together for a lifelong time !
喜欢这个时长😏
沟通真的很重要，不把自己的想法或者感受说出来，别人怎么会知道呢，但大多数人都很少会沟通，和家人，伴侣或者朋友（我就是😅）
希望你们都能开心健康平凡的过每一天哦😊
it takes intelligence, care, and love to be in a relationship with one person, so the fact that these three men are in a healthy relationship with each other speaks to how intelligent, caring, and loving they are. you have my support and admiration 🤍🤍
其實就像是一個太陽系，每個人既要自轉也要公轉，自轉保持自己的獨立性，公轉保持三個人之間的依賴與被依賴，而核心的太陽是你們的愛，在自轉中發現自己，圍繞著愛，找到公轉的軌道，才能順暢的永遠轉動著
喜歡這樣的比喻🥰（Jeremy
It’s so incredibly beautiful that you three have been able to share your thoughts and feelings, perpetually growing into a wonderful relationship. As with any relationship communication is the key to success, as for your Q&A it was astonishing to hear and feel the connection between the three of you. I support your commitment and endeavors towards your relationship. ❤️🙋♂️🏳️🌈
Profund, great emotional intelligence, thank you, the three have given me hope for the human race...❤
Bonjour, je viens de tomber sur votre compte et de regarder la plupart de vos vidéos. Tout d'abords, bravo pour votre belle histoire, le courage de la mettre en ligne et de votre clarté sur les tenants et les aboutissants d'une telle relation. Je suis d'accord avec vos réflexions sur ce qu'est une vie de Throuple après 6 mois de relations. Vos réponses nous éclairent et nous enrichissent. L'ouverture d'esprit est nécessaire dans ce monde. Merci à vous 3. Je vous souhaite le meilleur et une belle vie d'amour. Salutations du Sud de la France😊❤
三个人恋爱本身就很不容易，所以希望你们三个不管是谁有什么心事都赶快说出来，一起沟通解决我觉得这个很好，不管怎样，我都会一直默默的支持你们，继续爱你们😘😘还有还有我觉得宙学好会说哦，讲的很有道理，最后希望你们三人彼此珍惜自己珍惜这段感情
嗯嗯嗯 謝謝鼓勵 我們會的（Grayn
You really look like open-minded people. You are composed and intelligent. This was really interesting to listen that I didn't even see the 17 minutes pass by.
Support from France! ❤❤❤
Nicely said guys. You are very obviously talking and sharing each others thoughts and feelings and that is proving to be a big part of your success as a loving partnership. Wonderful too that your friends and families are supporting you.
Thanks for the excellent English subs. Looking forward to your next posting. My very best wishes and hugs from the UK. D xxx
三人戀愛是一種不同於傳統的感情關係形式，它涉及到三個人之間的情感連結和互動。對於這種關係形式，人們持有不同的看法和態度，有些人支持並認為它是一種開放和多元的關係形式，而有些人可能持保留態度或認為這不太符合他們的價值觀。我第一次看到這個主題我自己是原地嚇到但是，從支持的角度來看，三人戀愛可以建立在誠實、尊重和理解的基礎上。當所有參與者都明確且自願參與時，這樣的關係可以提供更多元化的情感支持和連結。它可能有助於滿足各種不同的需求，提供更多的愛和支持，讓參與者感受到更多的自由和共享的幸福感。我認為在RUclips這麼大的平台公開是一件很了不起的事情，畢竟這種關係在戀愛中是非常少見的。要去對抗這個社會對於多元關係！
其實如果完全不在乎別人的眼光的話就沒什麼好對抗了，但我們也很榮幸能夠讓這個世界跟認識三個人的戀愛關係（Jeremy
探討愈發學術 畫風逐漸抽象 XD"
這集宙學好認真好嚴肅，更可愛惹！
對你們與每一個我們而言，未來的前方，總是未知，你們三人，各自都是一盞照亮前方的燈，當三燈匯聚一心，心心相印，常伴相守互持之際，光彩無限❤（獻上祝福
收到祝福了🙏🏻（Grayn
The friendship and intimacy are really a wow! Watching you guys is fun !
加油、努力，最近才注意到你們三位奇特甜蜜情侶，真讓許多人敬愛，無論有怎樣道道的高牆障礙，三位間的發展此成果的愛情堅韌地維持下去、跨過它
Really good and free lecture from the 3 of you😎👏🤩美国摩门教尤其是在犹他州盐湖城及周边地区，摩门教徒很多人至今还是有一夫多妻的，但并不是每个摩门教徒都会这样，所以还是看个人的想法和具体情况而已；
我真的特别喜欢宙学和宇成讲到了古代的男人三妻四妾和当今多元关系的差别，这完全就是我之前想到但是没有说出来的，因为我感觉很多人会误解多元恋爱和古代一夫多妻的差别；但其实3个人彼此都互相喜欢和, 一个男人爱上多个人，多个人都喜欢一个人是不一样的；
3人情侣彼此都相互喜欢和理解，不会嫉妒生气说你怎么可以和他/她亲热….彼此之间都是伴侣的关系，但是古代一夫多妻，妻子们之间是情敌！是竞争关系！所以不仅妻子们之间不会互相喜欢，甚至大多数时候都是敌人的关系，要争夺一个男人的宠爱让自己存活，那是多不容易的事情，否则甄嬛传是怎么来的对吧!!!😂😂😂所以Jeremy 和 Adam 说的太好了，赞呐!🎉
真的，很多人還是不太理解其中些微的差異，希望未來有更多人能分辨出其中的不同（Grayn
Me dejan una sensación tan cálida❤ escucharlos hablar de forma tan profunda y sincera, ver el cariño mutuo entre los tres, me emociona mucho! Sean felices chicos 🤍
I admire your relationship and thank you for allowing a fan to better understand your relationship.
May you guys be blessed to stay together for the rest of your lives. ❤❤❤ and support.
I like you are willing to be patient in communication and speak out. Please take good care of babe Adam.🥰
You are all so enjoyable to listen to. Thank you for telling us your story. It really is a testimonial to others in relationships to do better and be better for their partners. Again thank you to all of you for sharing and bringing such a light into this world. ♥
看你們的影片真的很有意義 學到了很多 謝謝你們😍🥹😭
j'aime beaucoup votre façon de penser tout les 3 c'est très réfléchi et très profond
je vois le respect mutuel de tout les 3 et la communication est primordiale
c'est vraiment beau votre relation je vous souhaite beaucoup de belles choses à venir et beaucoup d'amour ❤❤❤
merci pour la traduction française 🥰🥰🥰
👏👏👏👏 Thank you for including all of us in your journey of love. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
任何關係，只要「人」是單數就可能產生各種問題或情緒
很喜歡你們成熟理性的處理方式 🙂
我同意你的定义，我能理解你的关系如何运作得更好。 对于我这个老一辈人来说，我们根深蒂固地爱着很多人是禁忌。 然而，我一直觉得我有能力去爱很多人。 然而，我发现一个人的特质可能使我达到我所需要的下一个层次。 这就是下一个人来填满我的灵魂的地方。 但对待异性恋男性时却有着丰富的传统训练。 很难找到你的平衡与和平。 谢谢分享。 🙏祝你幸福。
有時候大環境的影響太過沈重
所以我們也不會太過於糾結
把握當下比較重要
祝福你
（Grayn
Their relationship is very fascinating, and I love all 3.
I do wonder sometimes if Adam and Jeremy were showing so much affection for each other, did Grayn feel left out or see his relationship with Adam potentially coming to an end. Especially, since he has talked about his emotions in a couple of videos. No matter how strong you are, it would have to be difficult to see your partner being intimate with someone else, even if you agree to add another party to the relationship. It would be only human to wonder, "does he love him more," or "is he tired of me," etc. Obviously, we don't get to witness their lives 24/7. It could simply be editing. It could be Adam and Jeremy got really close during Grayn's military duties. Who knows.
I love their Q & A's. I just hope that opening up their relationship to the world doesn't have negative effects like other public couples.
I have a hard time commenting. On one had I'm glad that Grayn felt stronger after his time in the military. Not so dependent on Adam for emotional and day to day support in his life. Learned to love himself so he could not need Adam as much. I felt like they were talking circles around it, like how wonderful it was for Grayn to have found himself, and how good it is he communicates his unhappiness. But they didn't really say how they solved the problem. Probably that's none of our business and a boundary they don't want to cross, too personal, but it felt unresolved to me, looking at Grayn's body language. My knee jerk reaction is that Grayn is protecting himself from feeling too hurt by being left out. Like he still feels like he's the odd one out in Adam and Jeremy's relationship.
@harvestmoon_autumnsky Same. It's difficult to comment because we don't have access to their entire lives, as it should be. At the same time, though, when you watch their videos, you get so invested. I also felt that some comments circled back to the same repetitive responses without really answering the question. It just keeps me wanting to know so many more details. All in all, I just hope their happy.
just a clarification cause you are mixing them up, Adam went to military not Grayn and Adam did explain that he did feel left out when Grayn and Jeremy interacted but yes Adam didn't explain how he felt when he was in the military
@@harvestmoon_autumnsky just a clarification for you too cause you are mixing them up cause of the above comment, Adam went to military not Grayn
@@TKSErlia thanks
So happy to see such an honest and mature introspecion of your relationship. Very happy to have found your channel and learn more about your reality.🤗🤗
I hope you can keep on working and improving your relationship🤞🤗
Stay healthy and happy🙌🙌
If you guys keep this mindset, your relationship will last longer, even forever. The lack of this mindset was the downfall of my last relationship, I was talking and he wasn't listening, I felt like I was giving my all and was receiving nothing. I later thought, let me just hold on, he might listen later and change and that was my downfall, I went so deep I lost myself. I had to learn self love and self respect and at the end, the walls around my heart thickened. No relationship is easy, we need to work for it and continue working, we can't be lax or it'll fall or we wouldn't even know when it started coming apart. I hope you three continue to value yourselves, each other, and your relationship and also learn to love each other everyday❤
Someday you’ll find the right person to melt your walls and mutually trust each other! Best wishes (Jeremy
@@thrupledaily I hope so too. Thank you.
Just think of the positive impact the three of you would have on society if you all became therapists. Listening to you speak is more soothing and reassuring than any amount of ASMR.
好像是西班牙，还有拉丁美洲地区的影片里会有比较多的三元甚至是多元关系出现，我第一次看到外国电影关于三人行尤其是2男一女的就是”天使的性”，那一部就是三个人最后都是互相喜欢，虽然经过了波折和矛盾冲突，但最后三人都互相理解和喜欢彼此了, 那一部对我的冲击当时还是很大的；
然后还有一部也是西班牙电影，叫”地中海厨娘” 也是2男一女，但是那一部2个男的不是互相喜欢的关系，只是因为喜欢同一个女人，他们愿意和谐共处，所以就有一点不一样和前面提到的那部，所以关键还是在于三人或者是几个人之间保持沟通，相互学习和理解尊重对方想要做的事情….
那一部电影里面最后其实2个男的之间是有点像处于友情越位恋人未满的一种状态…所以其实只要愿意去爱，性向就像光谱一样，是一个spectrum，非常broad，flexible，太过纠结于label标签的话会很累，而且矛盾会很多…
Really cool video guys thanks for opening up your hearts to the rest of us….you guys are amazing and more mature than most people in your age group…..just continue to take care of each other and be honest with each other and love each other…..
You really have to appreciate Grayn and Adam's relationship prior to the thruple as they built the foundation of their 2-person relationship strong enough to incorporate another person [Jeremy], which is not always easy. Now they are three, and we get to be a witness of their newfound love. 💙
Every time I watch their videos, I feel happiness, joy, and fulfilment, so I can only imagine what each of them feel.
My only complaint is we see so much of Adam's and Jeremy's love and affection and closeness towards each other, but we don't get to see Jeremy and Grayn or Grayn and Adam as much [that's just from my perspective] nonetheless I love your videos the same
💙💙💙
How do you know the beginning of their triple relationship? 😅 by the way, would you tell me who it is that I just started seeing them and I don't know which one is jeremy, grayn and who is adam. 😅
@@Jeonkookbiased They said it in the qna or one of the videos i believe if i'm wrong sorry and it says who who in the qna on the channel.
Of course, welcome, you'll like it here they are all lovely 😊
So from the thumbnail left to right. The left is Jeremy, the middle is Adam, and right is Grayn (my favourite 💙).
Backstory Grayn and Adam had been dating for 2 years prior to meeting Jeremy (which if my memory is correct Grayn met 1st), obviously things went well and they started their thruple relationship (they have been dating him for 6 months). ❤️❤️
They haven't revealed their ages, but I'm 95% confident Adam is the oldest 😅
Anything else you might want you know, feel free to comment back. 🧡🧡
@@Juyeon-angie Thank you very much now I know you better.😊❤
@@Jeonkookbiased Anytime. X
Awesome! Love the honesty and thank you for sharing this with us all x x x I am super interested in how you all interact and care for one another and your own self. It is highly commendable, the effort you all are willing to make, to build such a loving, strong and healthy relationship x I'm so glad you spoke about Adam's military service as I was quite interested how that may change the dynamics. Have Grayn and Jeremy did military service yet? I actually think we can all learn a lot from you all, and be inspired to work on our own relationships. I really enjoy getting to know you all better, you each have such unique charms- I hope to know more about you and wish you honestly the best x
Thank you for making videos like these, I certainly admire you a lot and your relationship too! I really hope the three of you can stay happy for much longer♡.
You boys are so mature and well grounded. It is inspiring and beautiful ❤❤
You have a really good relationship. Very happy about it. Always wait until the moment you die of another love of your own. Congratulations to the three of you
說真的，我自己沒察覺過三人戀愛，還留在以前的觀念，覺得戀愛是兩人的，不過三人關係感覺也很好，但是如果要我打開那道門感覺挺困難的，因為自從跟家人出櫃，滿滿的歧視就出來了，覺得我怎麼會是這樣的人，但我覺得不管愛什麼性別，跟多少人戀愛，只要彼此互相喜歡喜愛就好，不要在意他人眼光（我自己做不到😂😂😂）。看完QA真的觀念又一次打開了❤。
看完觉得左中都是为了右被迫互相了解和喜欢，这段关系右就是最大受益人。没了右，左中单组couple可能性小，但左中任何一个有机会和右单独couple，他们毫不犹豫会愿意
Me pareció una conversación muy amorosa y racional a la vez. Se puede aprender mucho de ustedes y de su desarrollo.
Me encanta esta relación.
好感動 哭了 能成為三人以上的封閉性關係 太難了
想起之前聽過的一句話:負面情緒，只是因為我們用負面的想法去看待它，學會了面對情緒的方法，你就會知道，那都是我們需要的情緒。
感受也是如此，所有都感受都是正確的，只是我們是否用正確的方式去面對跟處理。
跟自己的溝通，跟任何一種關係內的對象溝通，都是極其重要的；而在關係中平衡自己，才能更健康的生活。
面對情緒是一輩子的課題
人在不同背景與內心狀態底下
都會造成大小不一負能量
所以人生比較像是學習怎麼快速消化
而非消滅負能量
（Grayn
I have to say that all 3 of you are very handsome and really well-versed gentlemen. This video has been very educational for me because I have a son in a three person relationship and I've heard these words yet not known the meaning. Thank You so much and love from a new LGBTQ Mom.
Your communication and understanding to each other is really surreal. I hope your feelings will linger more than how all of us could think of.
I'm really looking forward to your future vlog. Thank you for showing and letting us be with Y'all throughout your journey.
I want to request moree q&a's like this. Or you can play games like Never have i ever for us to know more about youu. But that is only if you want to, of course. However i really wish for you to reconsider it haha.
Love y'all! I'll continue to support y'all three!
Next episode next week! (Jeremy
Omg you replied! Thank you! And yes!, Really looking forward to it. I've turn on the notification bell already so I will always be updated with you guys. Have a nice week! Love y'all!
以前我看過你們三個人之間情侶視頻的時候，我已經敬仰你們三個人的愛情。今天我下坐這兒看這部你們分享的視頻，我更敬仰你們。希望你們三個人永遠幸福和你們會發佈更多分享你們三個人之間愛情和生活的視頻。謝謝
一直都有在追蹤你們的的影片，對於你們三人戀愛的關係，看了真的覺得很舒服，滿滿的愛意和信任，目前感覺也快變成三人戀愛關係之中的我，也是跟原本的在一起10年了，跟宙學當初的感覺很像，彆扭或不自在，吃醋、猜忌或是感覺被忽略，總覺得這些感覺有時候也會突然冒上心頭，我想知道你是怎樣去調整自己的想法，去達到平衡點，知道這是需要一起討論的但是也不知道從何說起，怕說了又會影響到這段關係，真的很想知道當初的你怎麼熬過來的
要提升溝通的頻率，並找出癥結點，雖然不會馬上解決，但理解彼此想法非常重要。因為信任感與安全感都必須重新來過，不太能以過去的方式看待，加油囉。（Grayn
雖然還在摸索（了解）你們之間，但覺得前面講的很好～
I really like all three of you because of you amazing mind set it's really gard to find ppl who think from different perspectives also ( I'm also one of them ) being in a three people relationship and being publi is really hard so it's quite amazing how you are handling it I'm sure you guys see negative comments also but let me tell there are people who love you too so I hope that you guys have a good , strong and healthy relationship ❤❤❤
The most important in Ur relationship trust love understanding and honest and patient to eachother I love watching in Ur Vlog. We know no body's perfect in this world but on regard of love U find in Ur happiness life is life no matter what guys still together. Three of U so handsome and so 🥰 🥰🥰
A really mature talk. Think's for sharing this and make us think what is it to be in relationship.
I wish you the Best !
Wow it’s great how you all love and support each You all spoke beautifully about yourselves and each other I really enjoy watching your videos please part 2 ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for the video reply. I really like this format. I wish you a long relationship.❤ with love from Russia.
三人關係真的不容易也難能可貴，加油🎉😊
This was incredibly fascianting. Thanks for sharing some of your life. Adam's honesty about his feelings over seeing intimacy between the others was very interesting. Is this still an issue if the intimacy is only shared by two? If so, how are you all working through this?
沒體驗過，但看你們很甜，好好，支持❤☀️🥰
因為我覺得三人 真的滿厲害的 因為光是兩個人要處理的的東西就很多了 變成A跟B要磨合一次 B跟C再磨合一次 C與A再磨合一次 ABC共同再一起磨合一次 因為畢竟總有AB或是BC或是AC單獨相處的時候，也有ABC一起相處的時候，所以我覺得難度真的好高好高，三人關係真的滿有趣的，不是不行，是發現我自己都有點處理不來了，再加一個人 再加兩個人，我覺得頭要爆炸了哈哈哈哈，也可能是因為我怕麻煩之類的，所以你們的存在算是給我一個滿足內心好奇心的地方XD 自己不是不行 應該說是思考後，覺得不要，但你們的出現就覺得好有趣，好像在看一個烏托邦，所以非常期待你們未來的發展，好或壞都想知道哈哈
嗯嗯嗯
有抓到其中精髓
我的看法是
每個人其實都會有不平衡的情緒存在
只是如何去排解
很多人卡在某個地方
會不停鑽牛角尖
就不適合
（Grayn
請原諒在下說實話，情人眼裡容不下一顆沙礫，若是真的的話，也太稀少了，除非相互重度隱忍，催眠自己是包容心強
Really interesting conversation, I look forward to the next part 😊
看完了所有的影片，你們真的太可愛了❤❤❤
謝謝支持🙏🏻（Jeremy
Good talk..you guys are very mature and really know how to talk. You guys really work hard to keep your relationship healthy.
Actually from the start, I already felt like Jeremy is an independent person, and can stand alone. I can see it from his behaviour and the way he talk.
Meanwhile, I can sense that Adam is an emotional type of person. It's good on how Adam can express his feeling more.
And for Grayn, I can see that he is the type of person who doesn't like to show affection publicly. In other words, he likes to keep it private.
其實我也看過歐美也有2個拉拉跟一個異男的，也是組成一個家庭呀！！
所以沒什麼好奇怪的，這世界之大，有什麼事是沒有的~
看開.看透...就會覺得沒那麼奇怪或奇妙了！！！
不過，看你們這樣融洽相處，我覺得也很好！！！
也蠻多人羨慕或喜歡你們的，加油！！ 期待你們更好~
本來愛就是多元的（Grayn