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The Honest Bunchis an audio-visual podcast that focuses on discussing real millennial and Gen z issues with no holds barred.
There are 4 main personalities on the show - Nedu, Husband Material, Deity Cole, and Naomi. The cast members bring their unique individual personalities and wit to the show. Occasionally, a guest is brought on to share opinions on topics tailored to their experiences, interests, or personalities.
At Honest bunch, we are telling original Nigerian realities from the lens of the youth.
The show is stupendously funny, inconceivably revealing, somewhat shocking, and yet unequivocally informative.
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My sister is married to a 26 year old and she's 30years old. Their marriage is 2 years. I've never seen her disrespect him. Our wouldn't know he's younger. She answers him sir as her senior in marriage that is because he's the one that paid her bride price,she didn't pay his
I can’t believe from the Uk here I wait every Monday to listen to this podcast instead of listening to Gods message. Make Una no dey rope me biko
For me I’ll forever hammer it. Dating someone older than you will forever be lit. I’m a guy and I have dated two ladies who were two years older than me. And it still stands till date that. Those were my most peaceful and understanding relationships. So long as we serve each other the respects we deserve, we’re good on this age thing.
Then y una break up?
@@onogbeprecious9669the ones wey no senior you, why una breakup?
Im a witness bro!
why didn't you people invite people like Stan Nze or Peter Psquare etc when discussing this kind of topic cause they can explain the challenges involved in diving into this relationships?
Age difference in a relationship, Basically depends on mindset and personality
That lady needs serious help…. She’s aggressively defending grooming of a child. It’s severely appalling and quite telling 🤨
Very disturbing. A real shame.
someone finally said it, she says one or two weird things in every episode.
She keeps talking of the law but sometimes the law covers some ill things that are happening
I swear
Exactly!! Very weird.
Ngl, at the end of this podcast ezinne had me questioning my values. One thing I'm sure of is that it's all fun and games untill your child is the girl in question
I love the way Husband Material addresses and hails each one of them when doing the introduction ❤
I love the 21 yr old lady so much. I love her eyes, her smile and everything about her. I wish to have her just as friend for the start. I will take good care of her.
I just watched this few days after the actual show and I would like to comment or add....
Age difference is really a problem in relationships. Two terms summarises this issue of age difference which is understanding and maturity. Once there's understanding and maturity I think it settles this
One thing I can say for sure is that the older one gets the change in priority and this works for both genders. Some of this change in priorities can be; how often he or she calls you, how often he or she sends a romantic message to you, buys things for you. You can't be older and advanced in age and you still crave for things younger people crave for.
Another point to be looked upon is this; when dating older people it is also pertinent you understand the financial ability of that person. This is also another issue generally unless there's no love there.
I so much love this husband material. He doesn’t talk too much but whenever he spills something it’s always an intelligent idea with a lot of sense and constructive as well. And his introductions are top notch. Kudos to you all I enjoyed the episode
Yeah. He's probably my favourite on this show. Without him, this show will be on the extreme of whatever Nedu and that other girl(the cook) is talking about
I love his intro's.. even though I don't understand sometimes 😅
This is best podcast I have seen on the web and can't be compared to little girls handling microphone and spitting out nonesense because they are lucky to find some wealthy guys throwing money at them, nothing to learn but the honest bunch always leaves you with something new and interesting conversations
I am actually shocked that someone can be so loud and wrong. A simple google search will explain what grooming is. Why would an adult be waiting for a child to grow up to have a relationship with them, if those thoughts were not already there from the onset. They will groom that child into a relationship and people will be shouting without logic.
He is very tiring
Omo Nedu’s expression when Ezinne asked “”Is Ojukwu a
Pedophile”” is just crazy😂😂😂😂
When Kamari shouted “eh” when Nedu said “Daddy” took me out😂💔
Appreciation for FRANKLY SPEAKING PODCAST, EZINNE and HUSBAND MATERIAL 👏
I agree with what you guys said but please don’t make it look like being with someone who is your age mate or older than you less than 5 years, he is not matured or good enough. Women have a right to choose the man they want. Maturity isn’t in age, experience is. You can experience everything and still think like a baby. We that are with men who are older than us with less than 5 years are happy and we are enjoying it. Love and light😊
I don't like that Nedu would ask a question and want u to answer what's in his mind.
"Be honest because this is honest bunch.....", can't someone just have a different ideology and own it without it being seen as not truthful ni.
Other than that,I love watching him
Nedu and Ezinne, ezinne especially please watch your morals. Waiting for a girl to be of age is grooming.
I mean, why is she not seeing that.
@@ifeoluwajayeola4984 On today’s episode, she’s just running her mouth too much. Perhaps, whatever she’s drinking got her hyped.🤷🏾♀️
That was the most disgusting part of the episode for me. How can you say it’s okay for a man to be waiting for a woman to turn legal age so he can sleep with her, that doesn’t sound creepy to y’all?
The truth is grooming has a lot of disadvantages than advantages and in the wrong hands leaves a traumatic mark in the girl’s life so best to avoid it
Every episode from this podcast is always educative and entertaining to me, i don't skip any part.
I wish more people would give this podcasts a chance and truly not judge from the 30/60 secs clip
Sometimes age difference depends on the type or way the relationship is been organized, but for me i prefer older women, like 2 or 3 years older than me, but it depends sha
Kamari is so smart and Respectful 👌🏾❤️
Husband material always with the ideas🙌
Husband material is just like the bread of life of this podcast. But generally kudos to u all❤
Ezinne... Hit the nail on the head. Age is very important in any relationship... In the past I can't stand a woman talk back at me, but now I even take insult from my woman as fun. More also I don't see it as problem to spend for my woman now... Not even a cheating lady is a problem for me. I have grown well to handle all these
Wowww! Eyan Mayweather, your experience is oozing please. NOT EVEN A CHEATING LADY IS A PROBLEM FOR ME. You sef dey cheat OGA!! Please delete this rubbish. 😂 😂
@@emmanueletim1753😅😅😅😂
😂😂 this your lamba no enter
can't lie i enjoyed every minute of this episode..
I’ve watched every episode of this show starting from season1 and I’ve enjoyed every episode till today. Keep it up guys ❤
Omo. I have exams. I'll come back and watch this new episode. This has become my favorite podcast on YT. I've not seen this episode but I know it's going to be educative as usual. Una doh..... O.... Weldone to the entire team. 3 gbosa for una
This episode is Amazing… The break up that comes with dating an older man is what 😂😂😂😂😂
Please keep up the good work
This is the only podcast I learn things from for real🙏🏼
Every episode is always fun but very educative, I look forward to being featured on this podcast in the nearest future .
Ezinne I don’t agree with you. Liking/loving under age child is creepy on it own.
I think she genuinely didn't know that her point is flaws, but that's why we are human beings always room to learn and understand better
Well done 👏 ✔️ 👍 👌 😀
At the end of the day, our bodies are vessels for our souls to exist in this realm. True love may be rare but it does exist and when you find someone who reciprocates it, you’ll soon find that nobody should have that much power over your life by deciding for you who you should and shouldn’t love. Whether their skin droops or vision blurry or they’re going through a gerontological process, it won’t matter to you because you know, our bodies are containers. Nothing superficial would be of great importance when you find love ❤️. As rare as it is, it exists ❤️ (This doesn’t apply to minors. STAY AWAY FROM MINORS)
True love doesn't exist. it's a fallacious myth 😘😂😂
@@RPPraxeologist true love does exist in Jesus Christ and the Church. But I understand the point you're trying to make which is, "true love is a choice, not a feeling."
Women are emotional creatures (by majority), therefore it's not a surprise to see her comment. She's not totally wrong either. Of course true love does exist, and as she mentioned it's "rare." The rarity of true love should always be emphasized when communicating a message like this. Further to communicating emphasis on the rarity of true love, her comment should be modified to, "True love may be rare but it does exist and 'if, not when, if' you find someone who reciprocates it,..."
@@Bobcoolyoung women being “emotional creatures” doesn’t mean they’re void of common sense. The heightened emotional awareness comes from the biological formation of our bodies (hormones).
So, be you man or woman or whichever gender pronouns one would prefer, believing in the existence of love, no matter how rare, has nothing to do with gender but an individual decision to be with someone you, with all certainty and sincerity, want to share this lifetime together with. An act of kindness is also a showcase of love ❤️
Kamari be looking at Nedu like he needs deliverance!
😀😀😀
I swr😂
😂😂😂nedu needs deliverance oooh the licking plates is too much
@@ndubuisiajaegbu1891 Asin😂😂😂
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I love these showwss oh lawd. Y'all are Honest. Wozombia, Husband Material Big ups
I love the angle of the ladies on this conversation, definitely opened up alot of diaries, we go away with a take-home 😅😅 today Nedu ibugodu Fada Fada 🏆🥂💯✨💥🌠
Every episode with a twist and wider perspective. Great job
I think this episode is my favourite one and personally I appreciate you guys for breaking down every details about this age problem. But I really wanted you guys to discuss more about the sexual part of it😊 cause really, sex is so important in a relationship especially when dating a older man. Sometimes everything maybe complete but that part may not be balance. Thank you very much ❤
Husband material is very objective with his views, he's just brilliant
Ezinne’s point of view is alarming no adult should be crushing on a child
Let’s see how she feels after having a girl child!! Her view is very disturbing
A pedophile is someone that's only attracted to and only have sexual relationship with children, that's sick, I think they are all conflicting themselves, she's right in what she's trying to convey, she has a more profound understanding than others... You can't go to jail just by thoughts, only by actions.
@@Trichmedia bullshit. And lol men who’s had picture of children on their phones. But you can’t make that argument solid.
@@Trichmedia an 18 year old is a child.
@@davinauche3195 An 18 year old is not a child in Nigeria or anywhere around the world, it's a Teen, check age of consent in most countries around the world, it starts at 16, some are even 15 but i am not in support of 15 getting married to an older adult, it just depends on different society.
Really eeh even tho I do forget to like all the videos I watch on this channel I always pick a point like I always learn a lot from your channel. Thank you so much Jedi and husband material God bless you both and grow your channel to a place where others have not reached
Husband material na mad man😅😅😅😂😂😂😂. I love this guy. He is a realist. Them say Naydu fit die when e dey cross road. Survived by Grand Ma😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Lmfao .
I love that side of Husband Material "Define what the relationship is"
Let it be defined... Are you an impending partner or just there to fantasize with the minor and secretly be fulfilling your lust for the minor ?
Just define the matter ☺️
Ezenne still has alot to unlearn, it shows every episode, this type of mentality is what is killing Nigeria. Shout out to Husband Material never a day where he doesn’t speak sense.
Ezinne, I'm with you. Personality over everything. If you value your mental health and your peace of mind you will ALWAYS choose or look out for personality first.
Entertaining, educative and hilarious. Kudos to Husband Material for his POV
I love him😅
Wow, Enlighten Podcast, Welldone Nedu, kamari, Nzinne and husband material, Godbless you all, always hearing different angles from your podcast, thanks once more
I love how you guys feel so relaxed and have fun on this show ❤
Omo this podcast dey give me joy 😂 see as I dey smile from the beginning to the end
I keep saying it, Respect has nothing to do with age or status; youre either a respectful person or a disrespectful person📌…Shikina! 42:20
The Honest Bunch podcast will always be up there abeeeeg...
Husband material is going to be one of the most knowledgeable person, because of the way he listen when others speaks
I swear
He truly made this episode worth the while. A very articulate fellow with good reasoning
It's funny how women claim at some point that you don't have control of who you fall in love with, but deliberately looking for a man with money sounds like choosing 😊
This broadcast is my best so far 😊shout-out to you guys , especially HM, the way he carries up the topic, " let's define Relationship"☺
This is my favorite podcast ❤
I love what you guys are doing😊
I think a lot of you fail to understand when you hear me speak, maybe because I’m not a familiar face on the show, where I clearly stated that dating people within my age range is my preference and if someone older than I’d like comes, I would see how the person is and see if I can resonate or be with the person, it’s not just about the money!! Neither is it right for any of you to accuse me of lying about my age! You don’t know me from anywhere so keep your comments respectful! And stop trying to make it seem like you know more than me because of my stance on grooming and dating, we have different experiences as human beings!
Baby girl don't mind them, you are doing fantastic, please be on the show more often. ❤️❤️
Hi Kamari, you did well on this episode, I for one believe your age and I also stand with your opinion of not liking the big age gap between couples, although I didn't like your stand the last time you were on the show regarding the wearing dresses that shows your Nipples pointing out because of comfort, the same people that don't want to wear bra bcos of comfort would wear waist trainers and heels, so comfort should not be a factor to determine decency, but on this episode, I loved most of the things u said, do you still need to grow out of some stuffs? MAYBE YES, but I kinda liked ur personality here.
@@ikechukwuomega2999 on the last episode I spoke particularly about bras, I didn’t encourage indecent dressing or pointed nipples, what I explicitly said was that how people reacted to those “temptation” is a tell on their person, In talking about bras I failed to mention the alternatives to bras and maybe that was where the mistake was, but not once did I promote indecency, bras are uncomfortable. Simple
Ya Kamari, maybe stating the alternatives would have been better, I know u girls wear stuffs to cover the nipples and all, so maybe that would have helped, but all round your opinions today were nice, I judged u wrongly before now, but u good girl, nice one
First of all, I want to say I enjoy this podcast and always look forward to a new episode each week. I have a few things to say about some stuff thats been on my mind for a while using an example of what happened in this episode. i.e Nedu and Ezinne forcing Kamari to agree to what she had already stated. In my opinion this is unprofessional (I understand these are your opinions and you don’t owe us anything), however I believe that this is a space for various opinions, and one shouldn’t be ridiculed just because they have a difference opinion. It is painful to watch. It was especially disturbing in this episode because of the topic at hand and as a young woman she shouldn’t have to go through that. Secondly, I like Nedu but I think he needs to give more room for others to talk especially when he’s been talking for an extensive amount of time. Overall, I enjoy this podcast, I still think you guys keep it real and are super honest but please agree to disagree or make your points without undermining others. Cheers!!!
It all depends on personal preference and who you fall in love with, just understand that as much as money is important in a relationship be ready to live with what you choose because be it old or young, it all comes with it own disadvantage.. 😇
I've always enjoyed every episode... This one, is indeed one of the best. Full of fun, laughter, and facts! Big up guys. ❤
I just love you guys, you always come with topics that I love to hear about ❤.
Love from tanzania
I love these conversations buh I will to throw light on with you guys.. great time to be part of the show
HM is always on point!! Ezinne usually also speaks my mind but this her stance on pedophilia is very worrisome. I will never allow a friendship between an older man and my underage daughter. People actually get arrested in developed countries for having child pornography, so it’s the attraction to minors that’s the problem whether you act on it or not
A hundred percent cidos to you all.
Guiness record: the only episode where there was silence for 3 seconds as everyone was dumbfounded. 😂
But instead of going extreme situations about the black card and unlimited spending, why not be nore realistic. How about $5000 how about 3 million. I feel that's where we really get to see how much the money matters because you'll know this money isn't unlimited.
This is such an insightful episode. I think you guys should have an episode with some fans having to weigh in. Love this podcast
My own na to laugh anyhow😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, you guys are making me burst in to laughter. Insightful, funny and mixed with emotions. But make una they try bring fans to have something to say. Shout out to husband material, I just like how he anchors and introduce your fellow colleague and guest. Nice one!
Thank you for giving us such gem 🎉
"Because you will now appear like your an orphan"😂😂😂😂😂😂
That statement heavy
Heavy!!!
my name is Victor Agoha, I'm from Imo State the the Eastern part of Nigeria, I have been watching this show since the episode With James Brown.
Nedu ends every show with a banger 😂❤
Ezinne really caught my attention, you stood on a different ground and made a valid point.
Kamari.... U go learn when u get older.
Bros Nedu, u be realist o, but sometimes your reality the injure some of our morality.
Husband material: I always bow to your positions on matters, u are all about balance. But abeg where my TOUN dey na.
Big ups my people.
This is one program I enjoy so much
Keep it up
I love u guys
Is not every older men that has sense o some think like teenagers too
dating an older person is amazing....im in my early 20s and i have got to have relationships with younger guys and i have come to realize that they dont have the maturity and aura that older men have
Bcos of your standards
@@samuelpounds871my standards ?
Ezinne gets it some times but other times na cap.
That Tiwa example don't just follow.
Your body at Tiwa's age isn't expected to be all wrinkled and old abeg.
I’m obsessed with this program ❤️
Most of these ladies claiming to like "older man" can't even accommodate such...
If we're being honest there's not sweeter than dating your age range, communications are more smoother, its more easy to relate with each other...
Yes, older men/ladies obviously think more maturely.
But there's something called Generational gaps!!!
Exactly, the gen z they make fun of online is the one they want to marry. Abeg I can't marry someone that's two decades from me
Thanks a lot
Ezinne and Nedu are kind of forcing their preference down Kamari's throat.
Age becomes just a number when money comes in
no mind some mumu parents.
if there should be rules,let it apply for all
Exactly!! Money or visa.. Only time!
True talk am 28 I go like Marry 50, I don laugh my teeth out.Nedu was speaking my mind all through
I love the honest bunch...it's the Tangible silence for me...and Uncle Nedu's expression when sister Zinny said "is Nnanyi Ojukwu a pedophile "? Very educative piece, I look forward to every episode..love you guys and God bless you all.
Ezinne ooooo! Your point in the pedophile topic is really worrying… they gave you the definition and you still stood by your initial point lol… if you had a 14 year old daughter, would you be comfortable in her being friends with a 40 year old man simply because the man hasn’t displayed sexual attraction to her?
Best podcast... real talk!!
Lovely Episode.❤❤❤. Pls you people should try to give room for questions most of us have lots of question...
Nice one really loved the topic and it was quite educative,and we should always remember that age is just a number,I mean age shouldn't really be a problem as long as both of them are mentally and intellectually stable
Financially too
Age is not a number,all I saw there was money money,I won't take it serious unless they date poor old men too,it all boils down to money money,we all know how it ends.
Akuko! Age is just a number indeed. No deceive yourself
I respect all your ideas and thoughts about age difference in relationship but what we all need to understand is that age doesn't make you matured you can be 60y and still don't know how to handle relationship and you can be 24 and have a lot of relationship experience it just depends on your personality and willingness to learn but honestly age do matter when it's too much.
For men you 10y
For women 5y
It now depends on the maturity of the person you want to be with
But once again thank you all for the show and your beautiful experiences about life ❤❤❤❤
Never missed an episode and tbh this is how I keep touch with Nigeria, saamu alajo too never missed any episodes
Omo this episode is so funny and full of laughter 😂😂😂😂
Interesting conversation! About age difference, I think it depends on what both parties want in a relationship. You could meet a younger person who seems more matured than an older person who still wants to behave like a child. Most younger ladies reject serious relationships in their prime only to go round in multiple unserious relationships and then regret later and call all men scum.
Very true.... I'm quite young and a lot of men I've come across have commended my maturity and right now I can't even see a guy who is 5-7 year older than me as someone I can date cus I even act and think more maturedly than them
I enjoyed this podcast
There's always a factor if the age difference is much between genders
Thank you guys
Kamara is young but matured in her stance on the program than the so called older ones
Today’s video is something else well done guys 😊
BTW, I will continue to admire the emotional intelligence of HM. It is refreshing to see that in a man.
I agree with Kamari. Lol what’s the difference between a 17 and 18 year old. 18 is such an impressionable age. I’ll side eye any women or man that is significantly seeing out women in their early twenties. It’s weird and creepy. However if it is on a mutual basis meaning the 21 year old knows that it is strictly transactional and not based on “love”. Good
This episode was extremely UNCOMFORTABLE!
Seriously the Age difference in relationships makes it understandable and sweet, mostly when the woman is older than the man.
In how many surveys did you conduct to come to this conclusion
Best podcast...
More love from south Sudan 🇸🇸
Ezinne wants to marry an old man with the character of a young man in this Nigeria where even young men who have money automatically act old.
This topic and last week topic is very stylish close. But for me I looked 25 and am over 40 close to 50 and I took 15 good years from my wife. And we base in Germany and I’ve never had problem with it