As someone who's autistic, Chase sounds like he *might* be on the spectrum? Which is to say I can totally get how something as simple as forgetting his lunch can throw him off. Also I think it's actually a show of maturity that he recognizes when he needs to take care of himself. Self care is super important
I would have politely declined a date and let him be better prepared for dating. If there is something going on with him I believe he needs to be more transparent.
If your going on a first date with someone and they reschedule three times you have no right to say there not being transparent enough if he has something going on that’s none of your business and would be better off.
Just because of leaving his lunch he needed self care. I’m sorry, but something like that isn’t a reason to reschedule and he continues to seem like he’s not very interested in moving forward.
@@Virgo_1980 he just needed some time for himself. I get it. I canceled dates, because I needed some chill time. No problem. It is a first date, you don't own them anything. He is a bit special, but she needs to respect his boundaries. It is his right to have them.
@Virgo_1980 I'm thinking he may have not been in the right headspace and that's why he needed a night to himself. When you're so worked up, the smallest things can leave you wanting a day to yourself.
I get why he cancelled, but like honestly??? He seems like the type of person to just be inconvenienced by the smallest things and makes him unreliable
I get it self care is important. But he lost me at shoe buying. Four pairs aint no way. Box wine, bathtub shoe shopping , " i forgot my lunch the day is ruin" . Im stress just thinking about someone else having to deal with him.
I think he is on the spectrum or has bipolar disorder because I can understand a simple thing happening and it ruining my whole day but I’m getting help tho and this guy obviously needs to see someone
Might keep off the dating until you get your life a little more stable. Id love to date but my home life and mental state is still a little too far into a depressed state. I know im not in a comfortable place to do what i need for a healthy relationship with a woman.
Yeh NO can just move on ! How you have plenty conversations about dating ..which is NOT Random for you losers ! Btw And yet everyday cancel dude is a major 🤡🤡
Agreed, also this guy seems too fragile to let these types of things ruin his day. How does he deal with real life struggles? How could he actually handle dating? Or a whole other person's needs when his day is so simply thrown off. I just think he's not interested and won't say because he's too fragile to handle the criticism or someone's emotions of being upset. I would need to be with someone more masculine, mature and has emotional intelligence.
There is no way I would let a guy cancel on me three tines. At that point, he's NOT interested, no matter what he "says".
As someone who's autistic, Chase sounds like he *might* be on the spectrum? Which is to say I can totally get how something as simple as forgetting his lunch can throw him off. Also I think it's actually a show of maturity that he recognizes when he needs to take care of himself. Self care is super important
I defintely experience similar struggles with my ADHD too.
I don't think he is autistic, or bipolar. I think he's just weird without a reason.
I would have politely declined a date and let him be better prepared for dating. If there is something going on with him I believe he needs to be more transparent.
If your going on a first date with someone and they reschedule three times you have no right to say there not being transparent enough if he has something going on that’s none of your business and would be better off.
I checked Urban Dictionary:
Floating - The act of taking a dump that makes you feel 8+ pounds lighter.
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I am with him, self care is more important than a random first date.
Just because of leaving his lunch he needed self care. I’m sorry, but something like that isn’t a reason to reschedule and he continues to seem like he’s not very interested in moving forward.
@@Virgo_1980 he just needed some time for himself. I get it. I canceled dates, because I needed some chill time. No problem. It is a first date, you don't own them anything. He is a bit special, but she needs to respect his boundaries. It is his right to have them.
@Virgo_1980 I'm thinking he may have not been in the right headspace and that's why he needed a night to himself. When you're so worked up, the smallest things can leave you wanting a day to yourself.
@@salazar556 yeah, sometimes you get to a breaking point...
@@Virgo_1980Right. It sounds inconsiderate
I would be highly offended that I got ditched for a pint of ice cream. Autistic or not, this is not an easy person to be with, and I couldn't do it.
That's totally valid
THANK YOU!
Hes a fruitloop!
@@JesusMaciel-ii8ui LOL
He sounds and acts a lil zesty. Kiki should leave him be 😂
I get why he cancelled, but like honestly??? He seems like the type of person to just be inconvenienced by the smallest things and makes him unreliable
I like these videos before listening because I already know they'll be great 😁
Same 😂
100% with the guy. Self care tops a rando date
He's a living Kathy comic
Ugh don’t waste time on men like this. Speaking from personal experience.
I get it self care is important. But he lost me at shoe buying. Four pairs aint no way. Box wine, bathtub shoe shopping , " i forgot my lunch the day is ruin" . Im stress just thinking about someone else having to deal with him.
I think he is on the spectrum or has bipolar disorder because I can understand a simple thing happening and it ruining my whole day but I’m getting help tho and this guy obviously needs to see someone
What a weirdo. He sounds like a complete wimp. 😂
It's a bump free lady 😂😂
I would text "M.E. ?" Why cant these people just ask questions for themselves? or take the L when the response is non existent?
This dude is looking for a man to take care of him. He just hasn't admitted it to himself yet.
"Ki ki, do you love me?" Lol
Might keep off the dating until you get your life a little more stable. Id love to date but my home life and mental state is still a little too far into a depressed state. I know im not in a comfortable place to do what i need for a healthy relationship with a woman.
He almost sounds gay 😅
If his first date is a man, he wouldn't cancel it
So nobody is gonna say he’s gay right?
A bath bro? 😂🤦🏽
So much laziness in these generations, or maybe bad luck finding lazy people
Omg, Ki Ki needs to choose herself
This girl must be really desperate to want to date a guy that's going to cheat on her with another dude
Me time is important and taking care of yourself is good, but really?
No. No dates for Chase! Smh
Dont go on a dating app & pretend you're interested & ready to date someone uf you're not. Its not fair to the other person.
I definitely would need a more masculine man..... but if it works for them, good!
Didnt watch this whole thing yet, but floating un the medical field for nurses means you are kinda covering for people
All these people be sounding desperate on here
What is wrong with this guy , why does he question everything
Self care is great but he just sounds selfish and inconsiderate if other people and super flaky.
God Jose ruins this, he’s so annoying
Gross! He is a creep!
Good for him. Stick with who’s important. He owes that random nothing.
Dude is definitely in the closet 😂 not doing a great job at hiding it.
Yeh NO can just move on ! How you have plenty conversations about dating ..which is NOT Random for you losers ! Btw
And yet everyday cancel dude is a major 🤡🤡
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Agreed, also this guy seems too fragile to let these types of things ruin his day. How does he deal with real life struggles? How could he actually handle dating? Or a whole other person's needs when his day is so simply thrown off. I just think he's not interested and won't say because he's too fragile to handle the criticism or someone's emotions of being upset. I would need to be with someone more masculine, mature and has emotional intelligence.