Let your boys guide you on what you should do. Try to separate them in different spaces and see if they find their way back to each other . What ever you decide your boys will feel loved and seen, your an amazing Mom.
As a fraternal twin, my brother and were separate throughout our time and school. I appreciated this because it felt like I had my own identity, friends and experiences. I only ever saw my brother at the beginning and end of the school day but we still got to ride the bus together.
My dad was a twin and I am friends with several twins. From what i gather it’s best to put them in separate classes because they need to learn to develop friendships outside of their bonds and it will help them to come into their own. Most twins that I know don’t like to be compared.
I am a fraternal twin and we always went to the same school growing up of course but were in different classes and had different interests and social activities but loved being in the same place. We also went to the same university and loved it. They will show you what they want to do with how they are around one another. We are 40 now and talk daily. We are each married with children but still make time for one another. Its a different kind of bond ❤
I have been teaching for almost 20 years and have taught a few sets of twins. The parents that I’ve worked with have always separated their twins. You are spot on with your reasons on why you want to separate them. They will still have each other at recess. Separating them will allow them to have their own identity. As a parent it may drive you crazy because two different teachers may involve two separate teaching styles, assignments etc… but for the most part it will be aligned. Wishing you and your baby boys a happy soon to be birthday.
As someone who works with elementary kids, I would say to watch the boys over the next year or so and see how they react in a setting with other kids close to their age. Do they only play with each other when other kids are around, or choose to include other little ones? As their personalities develop, they may actually answer the separation question for you. Enjoy the journey with your little men!😊
I totally agree with you, regarding school for your boys. My twin boys are now 23 years old. (I was super excited when you announced you were pregnant with twin boys) I had them separated in preschool up until the 3rd grade. I too wanted them to develop their own personalities and have their own friend group. It was actually admin and staff who came to me, before placing them in the same class in 4th grade. These were people who were truly a part of our village, poured into my children and I was confident they had my children's best interest in mind. At that point, I felt my sons had a really good since of self. As adults, they don't seem to have any regrets. They have disagreements as most siblings do, however they're able to live separate lives, have a difference in opinion and still support one another. One of my boys is married with 2 children and is in the Air Force (currently in Texas) the younger twin, is here in Washington State, working and enjoying his singleness. Both of them manage to hop on "the gaming" console at least twice a week, where they are able to talk, catch up and enjoy each other company. Ultimately, you know your children well and even as early as one years old, you can see their personalities. You are such a thoughtful mom and I know that whatever decision you land on, it will be for the best! This is my first time commenting, however I've been watching you for years and am grateful that you share so much of yourself with us! Peace and blessings for your family and Happy Birthday to your baby boys. May joy follow them all the days of their lives!
I’m a fraternal twin and when we were in school, I would do my brother’s work for him. It hindered him and his learning process. We were eventually separated and put in different classrooms and it helped with our learning and growth.
Hi Kim, I’ve worked with twins before, in the beginning one was sooo dependent on the other! So once they started school…. They separated them so they can find their own identity individually and make their own friends! On weekends the dad took one twin and they did an activity and the mom took the other twin to do an activity as well, just to keep them separated! Once they grew much older, they decided if they wanted to be in the same class with each other! Hopefully this can help you decide!
So, I actually fall into all 3 categories (I am a teacher, I am a twin, and I have a set of twin girls). Keep in mind that people will probably compare them automatically because that's what people do. We can't do anything about that. Your concerns are natural and valid. Some schools automatically separate them for the same reasons that you have. When mine were little, it was better for them to be together because we moved out of state when they were young. One of them shut down immediately at that time. I requested that they be together because there were too many big changes happening at the same time (no family, new state, new home, new school, new teacher, no sister, etc). Yes, one was more emotionally dependent on the other, but it was impacting her academically. After 3 weeks, she was placed in the same class as her sister, and she flourished rather quickly. This was midway through kindergarten when we moved. Benefits for me as a parent: They're exposed to the same level of instructional quality, I don't have to deal with two different teachers and keep up with different assignments, newsletters, etc. and, at the risk of sounding selfish, I only needed one set of cupcakes for class parties, classroom supplies, teacher gifts, etc. 😊 They're in middle school now. They were separated in 6th grade but on the same team. They're both pretty reserved and somewhat introverted, so the personalities of your babies should also be taken into consideration. Mine started out separated in MS with only two classes together. It wasn't a hindrance for them, but socially, their circle of friends grew just a smidgen. I think that's mostly because of their personalities. They pretty much keep to themselves and are naturally mellow and quiet. You could be in the same room with them and never know they're there. Right now, though still in middle school, they have the majority of their classes together because they're in advanced and high school honors classes and there aren't that many teachers teaching multiple sections of those higher level courses. High school has a bigger population so we'll see what happens then. Benefits for me: Similar to when they were on the same team, I'm only dealing with one set of teachers and they're being exposed to similar levels of instruction. With them being together again and having gone through the ills of middle school, they're in a good place academically and socially. The one who was emotionally dependent has made some beautiful changes. She's more independent of her sister and has verbally acknowledged her personal growth. They have similar friend groups, but they're not all exclusive. There are other opportunities for them to identify and express their individualism. They try new things and choose or refuse them. Their style of dress is different. Their room decor is different. I support all of that in every way that I can. My sister also has a set of twins (male and female). The school suggested they be separated. She made that decision when they were in 2nd or 3rd grade, I believe. Someone else suggested that because they're always together. That worked for my sister. It didn't work for my two girls, probably because of what was going on in our lives at the time. You know your babies better than the internet does 😊 I have also taught three sets of twins at different points in my career. They were all separated and did pretty well. I don't know their background story. I've never taught twins simultaneously. It may be more common in early elementary school, which I do not teach. P.S. For their 1st birthday for my twins, I ordered a cupcake cake, and the bakery gave me their smash cakes for free because it was their first birthday. Maybe yours will do the same for you 😊
We have two 5 year olds that we adopted very young. They are only 3 weeks apart and we call them the faux twins. Because they share so much time at home (room, toys, bathroom, etc.), we have decided to allow them to have their separate time at school. Since they started daycare and are now in kindergarten, we have always requested separate classrooms. We feel this gives them a break. I took that advice from my grandmother and mother, who were both educators. I did watch them during the initial transition to see how they would adjust and they did well.
I went to school with two sets of twins, twin boys and twin girls. All the way through high school they each were in their own classes. They loved it. Sometimes I they had lunch together, sometimes not. But classes were always seperate. They liked having their own friends and space and identity.
Like you, I went to 3 separate elementary schools. I learned to transition well through the years, and I think it helped a ton with making new friends. Because of that, I never had trouble putting myself out there to make new connections. I think your mommy heart will know. Trust your discernment. ❤
Friendly advise... Twins are 2 separate ppl but their bond in the womb and out will show you what they want. Thoughts of separating them at this time is a worry you do not need. Suggestion always teach individuality and let them choose on their own tangible things like toys, food likes if they already do this, sports activities. Remember kids teach us how to care for them. They will like what they like and do it is your teachings that will help them navigate life. And talk to twins that helps. Tia/Tamera shared alot about their upbringing but also how they found it hard to navigate life because they did everything together until they went to school when living together was a problem. Your best suggestion is loving them and teaching them to love their individual self but respect and love being a twin
I have twin sons and the first year of primary school(Pre-K) I kept them together so that they could adjust. After that they were separated and adjusted completely fine, but somehow always found their way back to each other on the playground. Cutest thing ever. To this day they are best friends and have the same friend group of which there are 3 sets of twins. They both share a lot of the same interests, but they do have very different personalities. It’s been a pleasure and a blessing watching them grow.
I'm a twin and I have twins. I also have twin cousins and of them have twins, triplets cousins, twin nieces. What I've learned is, it's best to keep them together when they first start school because they're going to show you when it's time for them to venture out and be Happy Blessed birthday to your twins. Enjoy every moment because they grow so fast ❤️🙏🏾
Fellow twin mom here…I don’t necessarily have advice but just sharing my experience lol. The plan was originally to move my twins to separate classes when they reached pre-k next school year, but my Twin A started showing signs that she may benefit from more of a challenge at school. So, we went ahead and allowed them to be in separate classes now. We definitely agree with the benefits (allowing them to build independence, not relying on each other so much, etc), but this transitional period will be very interesting. My dad is also a twin and he said he’s ultimately happy that my grandparents separated him and my uncle when they were younger. Their relationship is still closer than ever.
I’m a parent with fraternal twin girls age 4. They are in Pre K and i elected for them to be separated. They’ve been together throughout daycare and i wanted them to be viewed as individuals. I wanted to see where they are as far as social-emotional development skills, cognitive development, fine motor etc…with other children without my girls constantly being together and playing together. So far i’m glad i made that decision, and the girls are handling the separation extremely well. They still see each other during recess and lunch time. I feel that the earlier you start the more easy grade school will be.
I love watching you! I’m a fraternal twin (girl twin) and my mom ALWAYS put us in separate classes. We both had totally different learning styles and she knew we would play all day in school being together. My twin was always my safe space in school and it was scary being without her but I believe it helped us both in finding who we were.
I'm an identical twin, and I loved having my sister for daycare. But after that, they separated us, which allowed us to be independent. We are complete opposites but twins in our hearts. #twinlife
As a twin I appreciated my mother not dressing us alike and letting us form our own identities because no matter what we were always the “twins” even when apart. We were in separate classes and even went to different high schools and it was great but do what is best for them and yourself
I'm a teacher of 19 years and we've had multiple sets of twins (we have 2 sets in 1st grade this year), even had triplets. Our school has always separated them. It gives them an opportunity to grow as individuals, have their own friends, and the kids still see each other in the halls and at lunch.
I am no longer in the teaching field but when I was I found it to be successful for twins, parents, and teachers, to have them (twins) in the same class for the first year then separating them into different classes thereafter. This way it gives them an opportunity to build a core group of friends together and get familiar to the routine of school with their sibling as support before stepping out on their own
I had twin girls 35 years ago. I separated them in school after we discovered their learning patterns 3rd or 4th grade. One was more advanced than the other and the teacher made comparisons. Wait until they develop their learning patterns. Good luck with the boys. Much love. Ms. Lisa
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I'm an identical twin. Kindergarten to second grade we were in the same classes. My mom split us up in 3rd grade because the teacher said one of us was dependent on the other. From then on we had some classes together not all. Being a twin is like having a life time best friend. In college we chose to take some classes together but not all classes. We are very close,but have also had the opportunity to develop our own identities. Love your channel, and I can't believe the twins are one already ❤❤
For the ottoman, you could also consider an option that has a different color or pattern. I think you will have more alternatives (size and color) to select from if you’re open to a pop of color or pattern that doesn’t “match” perfectly to the sofa itself. I hope this makes sense.
My twins were together until they transitioned to Kindergarten. Now they are always in separate classes. I also have fraternal boy/girl twins. I am also a teacher and I’ve never had twins in the same class. I think the separation is necessary. So they can develop better individually. ❤️
Happy New Year Kim! My twins are now 21 and when they started school, I separated them. I saw in preschool that they were very dependent on one another & shut others out. They are lifelong besties, allies & confidants so there’s no need to worry about them being apart during the day 🥰
I have twins in my tenth grade biology class and I thought they were going to be trouble, but they are like night and day. They never sit together or work together. One is very quiet and the other is more social but engaged. Their personalities will guide them and they will choose to separate on their own if they decide.
One of my closest friends has twin boys that she kept home until kindergarten. And this year, they started school and they decided to keep them separate. I thought it was an amazing idea. One thing I associate that with it twins or not, they are separate individuals who will become different people. They will always be brothers and twins and share a home for now and share a lot actually but it shouldn’t be looked upon to respect their individuality. They should have the same opportunities as children who are born without a twin. Thank you for asking us 🥰
As the older sibling of fraternal twins which run in our family on both sides & grown up with multiples...the boys personalities will manifest if they prefer each other as best friends or if they prefer individually. Don't stress, they will let you know.
Getting my brows microbladed was probably one of the best beauty investments I’ve ever done. I got them done about 7 years ago, they still look so great and natural and people still compliment my eyebrows ❤
I’m a twin and I would agree to allow them to have some separation but not too much. My twin and I shared a room all the way through high school and that solidified our bond. We weren’t in the same classrooms throughout our school years but we always had lunch and gym together. We were able to manage our separate friendships and our individual personalities just fine. We’re still best friends til this day. 😊
I have twin grandbabies that just turned 3 and my son and his wife do half day together and half day separated at their daycare. They fight a lot lol, so it’s good for them to get a break from each other but they are also two peas in a pod too so it’s nice for them to have that class time to learn and play together in another setting outside of home and family. Maybe that’s a good option for your babies too. 😊
As a twin myself, I would put the twins in separate schools. I went to the same Primary, Secondary and Colleague as my twin sister, and whilst I loved that I could see my twin often, it did result in us being grouped together and facing a lot of comparisons, particularly as we are same sex twins. We both went to different Universities, and this was a real turning point in my independence and developing my own personality outside of the label of "The Twins". it made for more fun catch ups when we would be at home, as we were away from each other and had more to talk about!
I’ve grown up with twins and my children were raised around twins. I think keeping them together in early school years is a good idea. After a couple years in the same class, starting to separate them in class would be a natural transition.
Twin here ☝🏾 my parents separated us because of we depended on each other so much. But sometimes I wish we had more moments together in school! So much to consider. Also- congratulations on your twins!!!
My boys have always been thought of as the twins and they aren’t twins. They are close in ages. I just feel you must study their personalities and that will help you understand what maybe best down the road. My boys did everything together because my husband passed when they were very young, 1st & 2nd grade. This enhanced their bond which caused twin behavior along with looking almost identical. I decided to just ask them how they felt and picked activities that fit their personalities. I was more broken up when the youngest moved out of their shared bedroom. My oldest reacted differently than the youngest. He wasn’t ready, but left the door open if his brother wanted to return, which he didn’t. This happened around the ages of 9 & 10. They shared the same friends and so much togetherness made it hard when they developed separate relationships. You can’t ever get it right when they’re close in age or twins. Good luck walking your path of experiencing the twin worlds. They are separate individuals with separate likes as you will discover.
I’m a twin and we stayed together until college. If you separate them they will find themselves back together. There are no pros/cons from my experience as a twin. I suggest keeping them together and monitor their performance. I know sounds like a supervisor 😂. Anywho Happy New Years ❤.
Hi, love Twins, I'm a Twin, my Twin has twins. My Mom kept us together for kindergarten it worked but didn't my twin wouldn't talk to anyone but me asked not even the teacher where I was she was she said I gotta to bathroom we had to. So the teachers just recommended that we be separated in 1st grade. With her twin boys they would alway be fighting. Both sides of your thinking process is valid kindergarten is a time to see what's what. When we separated she taught me what she learned and I the same. We gained our independence and always knew my friend would be at home later. Twins are the same but very different. Boys are different from girl always. Sounds like you're having fun. If nothing else you'll see what they nee. I love your channel.
As a twin, I had all the same classes with my twin until the 6th grade. Then the school asked my parents if we wanted to be separated. My twin and I agreed to be separated, so 6th through 11th grade we had separate classes. In 12th grade we had 2 classes together. There were some good and bad things about us having the separate classes. We did have to stick up for each other a few times when people tried us when we were alone but we always saw each other during the day because our lockers were by each other. When we went to college we had all the same classes together and loved it, plus we were roommates. I definitely think you should keep the twins together and let it be their decision if they want to separate in junior high or high school 😉
That year flew by. Happy early birthday to your baby boys. Such a special moment. I don't have twins, but I have a cousin who had twins, and they kept them together. But you will figure it out, plus the boys will direct you as well. Good luck. Can't wait tonsee this wonderful 1st birthday party. ❤❤❤
The twins turning one already is INSANE! Time is flying. I found the same puma shoes at Marshall's for $30. I wanted adidas samba but didn't wanna pay $150. Those pumas were a great alternative.
Hey Kim❤…Wow can’t believe your beautiful twin babies are going to be one 1️⃣🎉🎉amazing how time has flown bye ! Such a blessing! Happy Holidays and New Year to your family… May you have many blessings ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉! God is absolutely so good .. all the time !
Happy New Year! Can't believe the twins are almost one. Regarding the sofa, either get the matching ottoman or get a sectional. The sectionals are usually wider to accommodate for the L shape with the attached ottoman. It's going to bug you when they don't match. Perhaps the couch can go in your primary room.
You’re SO right!! I actually did get the ottoman, and while it's def more comfy, it doesn't quite look like I want. So nowwww, I likely will just go ahead and get the sectional after all 😆
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I’m an educator and have been for 20 years and in my experience, having them is separate classrooms would be great. I teach 1st grade now and I have a twin and the other twin is another classroom. They meet up for recess to play with each other and they bring their own friends to play. I’ve also had twins in the same classroom and one twin always depended on the other and was always in the shadow of the more outgoing twin.
I'm a middle school teacher who has taught twins. I know you have a long ways to go for middle school. However, I have had twins (and triplets)in the same class and I've also had one twin and the other is in a different class. I find that twins like to establish their own individuality in school. It really depends on the twins, but if they're together, they can sometimes depend on each other too much, whether that's classwork or social.
I have a set of twin siblings. They started out in the same class but it became a nightmare. They spent the whole day watching the other just so they could tattle tell and try to correct their twin. They had to be separated. My daughter has twin friends and they were always in the same classes and they were super close and always wanted to be in the same class. It helped them both stay on their toes. Base your decision off of how they get along, their personalities and needs.
Wow, cant believe the twins are turning a y/o already. 🎉🎉🎉 I think letting them assume their own individual sense of identity would be great and it wont take away the fact that they're still twin brothers. You look great Kim love both outfits the plum and white are definitely great for the season and look cosy and comfortable but also pop. Those dining chairs are giving me life!!! 🔥🔥🔥🥰☺️😊😍 And that hairdo💣💣💣💥💥💥👑👑👑🔥🔥🔥
Hey Kim, I currently teach a set of twin teenage boys and they definitely defend each other in times of confrontation or support. I am guilty of doing comparisons out loud during class, which is why I believe it works better to have each child in a separate class. Either way when you think of it, they are going to automatically meet up during recess and at home. I think anywhere between 4 and 5 yrs old, they will start voicing their opinions on whether they prefer to be separated or be a collective. And yes that ootd is pretty...color is poppin.
I see you’ve gotten a lot of comments but I’m my experience with my twin girls that are about to turn 21 😢 lol I separated them in pre k. But when one was having a bad day the teacher would go and get the other to comfort the other. But this helped throughout life. They were able to develop their own separate friendships and become individuals not just the twins. Now they’re even in separate colleges but love being together during the breaks.
I agree about the brusell sprouts, I didnt like them as a kid but when I got older and started making them myself their are my favs now. I think it was the way my mom and aunts prepared them that i didnt like lol
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Same with the brows for me 🥴😂. I did a combo which is micro blading and shading. It lasted about a year and a half. Now I’m back to fully drawing them on again so I’ll be investing in them again soon.
About your twin question! I’m a twin and I got separated from my twin in school and it was good for having that separation! Really look at the relationship of your twin boys and go from there. I highly recommend to stop referring them as the twins the more people do that the more I recommend separation so that they can each find their individuality. I love being separate from my sister, because she was the more outgoing, one in school, and I was more reserved and quiet, and instead of people calling me by my name, I was referred to as twin or Cherri sister. So I was so glad when we finally split and went to two different schools for high school. I was able to finally be who I was and be called by my name.
I’m a OT that works in a school. In most schools they usually keep twins together until pre-k. Most schools recommends to separate twins to assist with socializing and also to help the child build their own identity. Also schools like to separate twins because usually if one twin gets bullied, the other twin typically defends their sibling. So schools try to prevent that confrontation of 2 kids against one. I recommend to keep them together until pre-k . That way it will be easier to transition to a new setting for school if they know they have each other.
As a twin, we were separated. I have a twin brother, so it’s a little different. My mom wanted us to have our own experiences. We had our own friends, activities, etc. When we got home, we pushed each other to do well in our classes. Whoppins and punishment were a real thing in my day!😂 We couldn’t stand each other at home. We were always together….For EVERYTHING! When your boys get older, they could be placed in the same homeroom or a class or two 🤷♀️. Be prepared that this may happen. In the beginning stages, my mom requested that we be separated. I also have identical twin boy cousins. They were a mess. They would trick everyone because no one could tell them apart. 😂
I am a twin and we had some classes together a few and it was soo fun and you will never stop saying the twins lol it just happens we are 46 our mom didnt know she was having twins untile the day we were born were 7 minutes apart!
I'm a fraternal twin (girl) but my twin was actually a boy- so it was easier for my parents to decide to separate us in school. however, my freshmen year of high school my twin and I accidentally got in the same class and we decided to try it out. it was AWFUL lol i was already so used to having my own identity among my peers and was really grateful to have had been separated all the years before that. even though your boys are the same gender, I recommend separating them while they attend the same school so they can at least see each other on campus and possibly have similar homework to help each other out on (ngl that was a huge plus with my twin when we were taking the same class!) so yeah keep them separated, but as another comment said, they may naturally gravitate to teach other and have similar interests so you'll never know what will naturally happen in their development :) you are a wonderful mom!
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I worked at a daycare with two twin toddler boys and honey we clearly could see the difference in behavior lol we would separate them in the classroom next door to give them space from one another for a few hours though but we knew when they missed each other.
The boys will let you know what they want...they'll give you cues (being separated and finding their way back to each other, or staying apart)....When I was in school, we had 4 sets of twins. 2 were identical, 2 were fraternal. They love each other, but they like to have their own identity. In my experience as a teacher, it's best to separate them. They can grow into their own identity, individuality, and personality without having to be constantly compared to their twin. Also, twins usually have that twin bond and know they always have each other when they need the other. It's great to inform each teacher (daycare, preschool, grade school, etc.) that each student is a twin and any cues to look for if one is feeling 'a way' and may need their twin. I've always honored that and let them have their time together when needed. Teachers can coordinate with each other and schedule a 'brain break' where the twins can go to the bathroom together, spend time playing a game with a counselor (not a formal session, just a quick break), etc....I hope that all makes sense and helps 😊❤
There are a lot of twins in my family and from our experience, it depends on them. Some twins need that individual dependence and some function better with their twin around them most of the time. So I say follow their lead
I have a twin brother and he has twin daughters. Growing up we werent necessarily separated but bec we are boy/girl twins we didnt do everything together. As little kids we were in the same classes in elementary school. On the flip side my sis in law made sure that their twin girls did things separately to have their own experiences in life. Same class in elementary school. But they went to different colleges in different states. I was opposed to it at first but now that they have graduated I see where she was going. They had a chance to have their own experiences and see life in their own way. They are still super close though. So I say separate the boys and let them have their own life experiences. They will forever have a bond as twins so u cant take that away. Me and my twin are as “thick as thieves”. And so are his twins. On the flip side I have a friend with twin daughters and she never separated them with college and other life experiences but they are just fine. So I think how they’re raised makes a big difference.
I have siblings that are twins (fraternal) and my mom ended up needing to separate them in school because they did not socialize well with the other kids because they had each other and didn't really "need" to or seem to want to venture out from one another. Once they were put into separate classes they did just fine. Hope that helps with a bit of perspective.
I had alot of twin friends going up and i worked around alot of younger kids that are twins. And i noticed that same of them loved being with their twin. As for the others didn't. Regardless if they go to the same school or not they might be in the same class and they might not be. Honestly just let them guide you and you'll know what to do.
I'm a mom of twin boys (now young men). It was traumatizing to them and to us as parents when the school forced us to separate them in kindergarten. That was school policy, i.e., no siblings could share the same class. The policy changed for twins the following year, and they were together for 1st and 2nd grade and much happier. After that, we let them decide what they wanted to do. They decided to try separating for 3rd grade and did ok. Then, 4th through 8th grade and high school, sometimes they were together and sometimes not. But they thrived either way. In fact, I can't remember a time when they didn't have the exact same GPA. 😂 I also have twin cousins who told me back then that my twins would separate when they were ready. I found that to be true. But separations don't last long. My cousins are both married with kids and still managed to end up back together in the same town. They still talk 5 times a day. Also, my twins were roommates in college and now live and work together. I guess they'll finally separate for good when one or both get married and have their own families one day. 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
Oh my goodness i can't believe you found your old sidechick I actually never had one ,lol but always wanted one . Your right kim they should come out with a 2025 version of one. Love your Athleticlesiure outfits super cute 🩷
As a teacher, I think you should do whatever your gut is leading you to do. One of the purposes of school is to prepare students for how to socialize in the real world. Most people in this world don't have a back up person in the classroom and as wonderful as it sounds, I think it's important for children to build the resilience that comes with dealing with problems on your own. Most likely they will see each other during lunch and recess times anyways. However, it's up to you.
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Makeup on point always. 💙🖤 Didn't they redo or revamp, I don't know the right wording, but they did something with brussel sprouts to make them better. Anyway, Most schools generally separate twins. It's very rare that twins are in the same class. I think you are doing great by getting them their own cake. And treating them as their own person. Watch and see how they are and if they prefer to be separate.
Let your boys guide you on what you should do. Try to separate them in different spaces and see if they find their way back to each other . What ever you decide your boys will feel loved and seen, your an amazing Mom.
Great advice ❤
I love this response ❤
As a fraternal twin, my brother and were separate throughout our time and school. I appreciated this because it felt like I had my own identity, friends and experiences. I only ever saw my brother at the beginning and end of the school day but we still got to ride the bus together.
My dad was a twin and I am friends with several twins. From what i gather it’s best to put them in separate classes because they need to learn to develop friendships outside of their bonds and it will help them to come into their own. Most twins that I know don’t like to be compared.
I'm a teacher and we always split twins up. We've even had triplets.
I am a fraternal twin and we always went to the same school growing up of course but were in different classes and had different interests and social activities but loved being in the same place. We also went to the same university and loved it. They will show you what they want to do with how they are around one another. We are 40 now and talk daily. We are each married with children but still make time for one another. Its a different kind of bond ❤
Thank you for sharing! I absolutely love hearing about strong sibling bonds 💕
I still can't believe they are about to be one already😢 That pregnancy flew by, Kim
I have been teaching for almost 20 years and have taught a few sets of twins. The parents that I’ve worked with have always separated their twins. You are spot on with your reasons on why you want to separate them. They will still have each other at recess. Separating them will allow them to have their own identity. As a parent it may drive you crazy because two different teachers may involve two separate teaching styles, assignments etc… but for the most part it will be aligned. Wishing you and your baby boys a happy soon to be birthday.
As someone who works with elementary kids, I would say to watch the boys over the next year or so and see how they react in a setting with other kids close to their age. Do they only play with each other when other kids are around, or choose to include other little ones? As their personalities develop, they may actually answer the separation question for you. Enjoy the journey with your little men!😊
As a mom of twin boys (now young men), I wholeheartedly agree with this advice ❤.
I agree with this 100% (as a mom of twin girls and as an upper school educator). I commented something similar. You have to know your kids 😊
I totally agree with you, regarding school for your boys. My twin boys are now 23 years old. (I was super excited when you announced you were pregnant with twin boys) I had them separated in preschool up until the 3rd grade. I too wanted them to develop their own personalities and have their own friend group. It was actually admin and staff who came to me, before placing them in the same class in 4th grade. These were people who were truly a part of our village, poured into my children and I was confident they had my children's best interest in mind. At that point, I felt my sons had a really good since of self. As adults, they don't seem to have any regrets. They have disagreements as most siblings do, however they're able to live separate lives, have a difference in opinion and still support one another. One of my boys is married with 2 children and is in the Air Force (currently in Texas) the younger twin, is here in Washington State, working and enjoying his singleness. Both of them manage to hop on "the gaming" console at least twice a week, where they are able to talk, catch up and enjoy each other company. Ultimately, you know your children well and even as early as one years old, you can see their personalities. You are such a thoughtful mom and I know that whatever decision you land on, it will be for the best! This is my first time commenting, however I've been watching you for years and am grateful that you share so much of yourself with us! Peace and blessings for your family and Happy Birthday to your baby boys. May joy follow them all the days of their lives!
I’m a fraternal twin and when we were in school, I would do my brother’s work for him. It hindered him and his learning process. We were eventually separated and put in different classrooms and it helped with our learning and growth.
Hi Kim, I’ve worked with twins before, in the beginning one was sooo dependent on the other! So once they started school…. They separated them so they can find their own identity individually and make their own friends! On weekends the dad took one twin and they did an activity and the mom took the other twin to do an activity as well, just to keep them separated!
Once they grew much older, they decided if they wanted to be in the same class with each other!
Hopefully this can help you decide!
So, I actually fall into all 3 categories (I am a teacher, I am a twin, and I have a set of twin girls). Keep in mind that people will probably compare them automatically because that's what people do. We can't do anything about that. Your concerns are natural and valid. Some schools automatically separate them for the same reasons that you have. When mine were little, it was better for them to be together because we moved out of state when they were young. One of them shut down immediately at that time. I requested that they be together because there were too many big changes happening at the same time (no family, new state, new home, new school, new teacher, no sister, etc). Yes, one was more emotionally dependent on the other, but it was impacting her academically. After 3 weeks, she was placed in the same class as her sister, and she flourished rather quickly. This was midway through kindergarten when we moved.
Benefits for me as a parent: They're exposed to the same level of instructional quality, I don't have to deal with two different teachers and keep up with different assignments, newsletters, etc. and, at the risk of sounding selfish, I only needed one set of cupcakes for class parties, classroom supplies, teacher gifts, etc. 😊
They're in middle school now. They were separated in 6th grade but on the same team. They're both pretty reserved and somewhat introverted, so the personalities of your babies should also be taken into consideration. Mine started out separated in MS with only two classes together. It wasn't a hindrance for them, but socially, their circle of friends grew just a smidgen. I think that's mostly because of their personalities. They pretty much keep to themselves and are naturally mellow and quiet. You could be in the same room with them and never know they're there.
Right now, though still in middle school, they have the majority of their classes together because they're in advanced and high school honors classes and there aren't that many teachers teaching multiple sections of those higher level courses. High school has a bigger population so we'll see what happens then.
Benefits for me: Similar to when they were on the same team, I'm only dealing with one set of teachers and they're being exposed to similar levels of instruction.
With them being together again and having gone through the ills of middle school, they're in a good place academically and socially. The one who was emotionally dependent has made some beautiful changes. She's more independent of her sister and has verbally acknowledged her personal growth. They have similar friend groups, but they're not all exclusive. There are other opportunities for them to identify and express their individualism. They try new things and choose or refuse them. Their style of dress is different. Their room decor is different. I support all of that in every way that I can.
My sister also has a set of twins (male and female). The school suggested they be separated. She made that decision when they were in 2nd or 3rd grade, I believe. Someone else suggested that because they're always together. That worked for my sister. It didn't work for my two girls, probably because of what was going on in our lives at the time. You know your babies better than the internet does 😊
I have also taught three sets of twins at different points in my career. They were all separated and did pretty well. I don't know their background story. I've never taught twins simultaneously. It may be more common in early elementary school, which I do not teach.
P.S. For their 1st birthday for my twins, I ordered a cupcake cake, and the bakery gave me their smash cakes for free because it was their first birthday. Maybe yours will do the same for you 😊
Whewww triple threat! 🎉😮
Thank you for sharing your detailed experience! I'm really appreciating all the insight and advice! 💕
We have two 5 year olds that we adopted very young. They are only 3 weeks apart and we call them the faux twins.
Because they share so much time at home (room, toys, bathroom, etc.), we have decided to allow them to have their separate time at school. Since they started daycare and are now in kindergarten, we have always requested separate classrooms. We feel this gives them a break.
I took that advice from my grandmother and mother, who were both educators. I did watch them during the initial transition to see how they would adjust and they did well.
I went to school with two sets of twins, twin boys and twin girls. All the way through high school they each were in their own classes. They loved it. Sometimes I they had lunch together, sometimes not. But classes were always seperate. They liked having their own friends and space and identity.
Like you, I went to 3 separate elementary schools. I learned to transition well through the years, and I think it helped a ton with making new friends. Because of that, I never had trouble putting myself out there to make new connections. I think your mommy heart will know. Trust your discernment. ❤
Friendly advise... Twins are 2 separate ppl but their bond in the womb and out will show you what they want. Thoughts of separating them at this time is a worry you do not need. Suggestion always teach individuality and let them choose on their own tangible things like toys, food likes if they already do this, sports activities. Remember kids teach us how to care for them. They will like what they like and do it is your teachings that will help them navigate life. And talk to twins that helps. Tia/Tamera shared alot about their upbringing but also how they found it hard to navigate life because they did everything together until they went to school when living together was a problem. Your best suggestion is loving them and teaching them to love their individual self but respect and love being a twin
I have twin sons and the first year of primary school(Pre-K) I kept them together so that they could adjust. After that they were separated and adjusted completely fine, but somehow always found their way back to each other on the playground. Cutest thing ever. To this day they are best friends and have the same friend group of which there are 3 sets of twins. They both share a lot of the same interests, but they do have very different personalities. It’s been a pleasure and a blessing watching them grow.
I'm a twin and I have twins. I also have twin cousins and of them have twins, triplets cousins, twin nieces. What I've learned is, it's best to keep them together when they first start school because they're going to show you when it's time for them to venture out and be Happy Blessed birthday to your twins. Enjoy every moment because they grow so fast ❤️🙏🏾
Fellow twin mom here…I don’t necessarily have advice but just sharing my experience lol. The plan was originally to move my twins to separate classes when they reached pre-k next school year, but my Twin A started showing signs that she may benefit from more of a challenge at school. So, we went ahead and allowed them to be in separate classes now. We definitely agree with the benefits (allowing them to build independence, not relying on each other so much, etc), but this transitional period will be very interesting. My dad is also a twin and he said he’s ultimately happy that my grandparents separated him and my uncle when they were younger. Their relationship is still closer than ever.
I’m a parent with fraternal twin girls age 4. They are in Pre K and i elected for them to be separated. They’ve been together throughout daycare and i wanted them to be viewed as individuals. I wanted to see where they are as far as social-emotional development skills, cognitive development, fine motor etc…with other children without my girls constantly being together and playing together. So far i’m glad i made that decision, and the girls are handling the separation extremely well. They still see each other during recess and lunch time. I feel that the earlier you start the more easy grade school will be.
I love watching you! I’m a fraternal twin (girl twin) and my mom ALWAYS put us in separate classes. We both had totally different learning styles and she knew we would play all day in school being together. My twin was always my safe space in school and it was scary being without her but I believe it helped us both in finding who we were.
I'm an identical twin, and I loved having my sister for daycare. But after that, they separated us, which allowed us to be independent. We are complete opposites but twins in our hearts. #twinlife
Wow I love the second outfit that’s more me. I love old navy, the gap and banana republic
As a twin I appreciated my mother not dressing us alike and letting us form our own identities because no matter what we were always the “twins” even when apart. We were in separate classes and even went to different high schools and it was great but do what is best for them and yourself
I'm a teacher of 19 years and we've had multiple sets of twins (we have 2 sets in 1st grade this year), even had triplets. Our school has always separated them. It gives them an opportunity to grow as individuals, have their own friends, and the kids still see each other in the halls and at lunch.
I am no longer in the teaching field but when I was I found it to be successful for twins, parents, and teachers, to have them (twins) in the same class for the first year then separating them into different classes thereafter. This way it gives them an opportunity to build a core group of friends together and get familiar to the routine of school with their sibling as support before stepping out on their own
I had twin girls 35 years ago. I separated them in school after we discovered their learning patterns 3rd or 4th grade. One was more advanced than the other and the teacher made comparisons. Wait until they develop their learning patterns. Good luck with the boys. Much love. Ms. Lisa
That ponytail is on SLEEK!! As a type 4 hair girlie, it's hard to get this hair to be obedient & lay it down. Your hair nearly looks like it has some deep sleekness.
Share what you're using.🙏🏽
That athleisure set is super cute & chic. Very cutesy, very demure. ❤
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Your home looks great! That food looks sooo good! Amazing outfits 💯 Awesome birthday planning!
I love seeing the pre planning process of the outfits and the end results. ❤❤❤❤
I'm an identical twin. Kindergarten to second grade we were in the same classes. My mom split us up in 3rd grade because the teacher said one of us was dependent on the other. From then on we had some classes together not all. Being a twin is like having a life time best friend. In college we chose to take some classes together but not all classes. We are very close,but have also had the opportunity to develop our own identities.
Love your channel, and I can't believe the twins are one already ❤❤
For the ottoman, you could also consider an option that has a different color or pattern. I think you will have more alternatives (size and color) to select from if you’re open to a pop of color or pattern that doesn’t “match” perfectly to the sofa itself. I hope this makes sense.
My twins were together until they transitioned to Kindergarten. Now they are always in separate classes. I also have fraternal boy/girl twins. I am also a teacher and I’ve never had twins in the same class. I think the separation is necessary. So they can develop better individually. ❤️
Happy New Year Kim! My twins are now 21 and when they started school, I separated them. I saw in preschool that they were very dependent on one another & shut others out. They are lifelong besties, allies & confidants so there’s no need to worry about them being apart during the day 🥰
I have twins in my tenth grade biology class and I thought they were going to be trouble, but they are like night and day. They never sit together or work together. One is very quiet and the other is more social but engaged. Their personalities will guide them and they will choose to separate on their own if they decide.
One of my closest friends has twin boys that she kept home until kindergarten. And this year, they started school and they decided to keep them separate. I thought it was an amazing idea. One thing I associate that with it twins or not, they are separate individuals who will become different people. They will always be brothers and twins and share a home for now and share a lot actually but it shouldn’t be looked upon to respect their individuality. They should have the same opportunities as children who are born without a twin. Thank you for asking us 🥰
As the older sibling of fraternal twins which run in our family on both sides & grown up with multiples...the boys personalities will manifest if they prefer each other as best friends or if they prefer individually.
Don't stress, they will let you know.
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I’m a twin and I would agree to allow them to have some separation but not too much. My twin and I shared a room all the way through high school and that solidified our bond. We weren’t in the same classrooms throughout our school years but we always had lunch and gym together. We were able to manage our separate friendships and our individual personalities just fine. We’re still best friends til this day. 😊
I have twin grandbabies that just turned 3 and my son and his wife do half day together and half day separated at their daycare. They fight a lot lol, so it’s good for them to get a break from each other but they are also two peas in a pod too so it’s nice for them to have that class time to learn and play together in another setting outside of home and family. Maybe that’s a good option for your babies too. 😊
As a twin myself, I would put the twins in separate schools. I went to the same Primary, Secondary and Colleague as my twin sister, and whilst I loved that I could see my twin often, it did result in us being grouped together and facing a lot of comparisons, particularly as we are same sex twins. We both went to different Universities, and this was a real turning point in my independence and developing my own personality outside of the label of "The Twins". it made for more fun catch ups when we would be at home, as we were away from each other and had more to talk about!
I've had several friends that are twins and triplets. I find separating them is helpful for their personalities to develop
I’ve grown up with twins and my children were raised around twins. I think keeping them together in early school years is a good idea. After a couple years in the same class, starting to separate them in class would be a natural transition.
Happy New Year! Schools usually separate twins in order for them to build on their individual identities.
Twin here ☝🏾 my parents separated us because of we depended on each other so much. But sometimes I wish we had more moments together in school! So much to consider. Also- congratulations on your twins!!!
My boys have always been thought of as the twins and they aren’t twins. They are close in ages. I just feel you must study their personalities and that will help you understand what maybe best down the road. My boys did everything together because my husband passed when they were very young, 1st & 2nd grade. This enhanced their bond which caused twin behavior along with looking almost identical. I decided to just ask them how they felt and picked activities that fit their personalities. I was more broken up when the youngest moved out of their shared bedroom. My oldest reacted differently than the youngest. He wasn’t ready, but left the door open if his brother wanted to return, which he didn’t. This happened around the ages of 9 & 10. They shared the same friends and so much togetherness made it hard when they developed separate relationships. You can’t ever get it right when they’re close in age or twins. Good luck walking your path of experiencing the twin worlds. They are separate individuals with separate likes as you will discover.
I’m a twin and we stayed together until college. If you separate them they will find themselves back together. There are no pros/cons from my experience as a twin. I suggest keeping them together and monitor their performance. I know sounds like a supervisor 😂. Anywho Happy New Years ❤.
Hi, love Twins, I'm a Twin, my Twin has twins. My Mom kept us together for kindergarten it worked but didn't my twin wouldn't talk to anyone but me asked not even the teacher where I was she was she said I gotta to bathroom we had to. So the teachers just recommended that we be separated in 1st grade. With her twin boys they would alway be fighting. Both sides of your thinking process is valid kindergarten is a time to see what's what. When we separated she taught me what she learned and I the same. We gained our independence and always knew my friend would be at home later. Twins are the same but very different. Boys are different from girl always. Sounds like you're having fun. If nothing else you'll see what they nee. I love your channel.
I appreciate you sharing your experiences - it’s so helpful to hear from others!
As a twin, I had all the same classes with my twin until the 6th grade. Then the school asked my parents if we wanted to be separated. My twin and I agreed to be separated, so 6th through 11th grade we had separate classes. In 12th grade we had 2 classes together. There were some good and bad things about us having the separate classes. We did have to stick up for each other a few times when people tried us when we were alone but we always saw each other during the day because our lockers were by each other. When we went to college we had all the same classes together and loved it, plus we were roommates. I definitely think you should keep the twins together and let it be their decision if they want to separate in junior high or high school 😉
That year flew by. Happy early birthday to your baby boys. Such a special moment. I don't have twins, but I have a cousin who had twins, and they kept them together. But you will figure it out, plus the boys will direct you as well. Good luck. Can't wait tonsee this wonderful 1st birthday party. ❤❤❤
The twins turning one already is INSANE! Time is flying. I found the same puma shoes at Marshall's for $30. I wanted adidas samba but didn't wanna pay $150. Those pumas were a great alternative.
Hey Kim❤…Wow can’t believe your beautiful twin babies are going to be one 1️⃣🎉🎉amazing how time has flown bye ! Such a blessing! Happy Holidays and New Year to your family… May you have many blessings ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉! God is absolutely so good .. all the time !
I definitely remember the sidekicks! I always wanted one!
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Happy New Year! Can't believe the twins are almost one. Regarding the sofa, either get the matching ottoman or get a sectional. The sectionals are usually wider to accommodate for the L shape with the attached ottoman. It's going to bug you when they don't match. Perhaps the couch can go in your primary room.
You’re SO right!! I actually did get the ottoman, and while it's def more comfy, it doesn't quite look like I want. So nowwww, I likely will just go ahead and get the sectional after all 😆
You should give micro blading a try for your brows, I had mine done about 5 yrs ago & I have no regrets, I go back every couple of yrs for a touch up & I love them ❤
I’m an educator and have been for 20 years and in my experience, having them is separate classrooms would be great. I teach 1st grade now and I have a twin and the other twin is another classroom. They meet up for recess to play with each other and they bring their own friends to play. I’ve also had twins in the same classroom and one twin always depended on the other and was always in the shadow of the more outgoing twin.
I'm a middle school teacher who has taught twins. I know you have a long ways to go for middle school. However, I have had twins (and triplets)in the same class and I've also had one twin and the other is in a different class. I find that twins like to establish their own individuality in school. It really depends on the twins, but if they're together, they can sometimes depend on each other too much, whether that's classwork or social.
I have a set of twin siblings. They started out in the same class but it became a nightmare. They spent the whole day watching the other just so they could tattle tell and try to correct their twin. They had to be separated.
My daughter has twin friends and they were always in the same classes and they were super close and always wanted to be in the same class. It helped them both stay on their toes.
Base your decision off of how they get along, their personalities and needs.
Wow, cant believe the twins are turning a y/o already. 🎉🎉🎉 I think letting them assume their own individual sense of identity would be great and it wont take away the fact that they're still twin brothers.
You look great Kim love both outfits the plum and white are definitely great for the season and look cosy and comfortable but also pop.
Those dining chairs are giving me life!!! 🔥🔥🔥🥰☺️😊😍 And that hairdo💣💣💣💥💥💥👑👑👑🔥🔥🔥
Happy belated birthday to the twins awww wow they're a year old now how quickly time flies.❤😊
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Hey Kim, I currently teach a set of twin teenage boys and they definitely defend each other in times of confrontation or support. I am guilty of doing comparisons out loud during class, which is why I believe it works better to have each child in a separate class. Either way when you think of it, they are going to automatically meet up during recess and at home. I think anywhere between 4 and 5 yrs old, they will start voicing their opinions on whether they prefer to be separated or be a collective. And yes that ootd is pretty...color is poppin.
Thanks for sharing your teaching experience!
Also you got me in the cookbook hard this month doing a meatless January. So glad I bought the cookbook!
this makes my heart so warm! glad you're enjoying the cookbook! ❤️
I see you’ve gotten a lot of comments but I’m my experience with my twin girls that are about to turn 21 😢 lol I separated them in pre k. But when one was having a bad day the teacher would go and get the other to comfort the other. But this helped throughout life. They were able to develop their own separate friendships and become individuals not just the twins. Now they’re even in separate colleges but love being together during the breaks.
I agree about the brusell sprouts, I didnt like them as a kid but when I got older and started making them myself their are my favs now. I think it was the way my mom and aunts prepared them that i didnt like lol
Hey Kim, I absolutely love your video's♥️ and HAPPY NEW YEAR🎆♥️🇿🇦
Great content, as always!!
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No to lash extensions.. me personally I like to wash my face in the shower and the cost just isn’t worth the hassle IMO. But try it and see for yourself!
Same with the brows for me 🥴😂. I did a combo which is micro blading and shading. It lasted about a year and a half. Now I’m back to fully drawing them on again so I’ll be investing in them again soon.
I have that ensemble just the bottoms are blue. I love Old Navy’s upgrade in some of their active wear.
About your twin question! I’m a twin and I got separated from my twin in school and it was good for having that separation! Really look at the relationship of your twin boys and go from there. I highly recommend to stop referring them as the twins the more people do that the more I recommend separation so that they can each find their individuality. I love being separate from my sister, because she was the more outgoing, one in school, and I was more reserved and quiet, and instead of people calling me by my name, I was referred to as twin or Cherri sister. So I was so glad when we finally split and went to two different schools for high school. I was able to finally be who I was and be called by my name.
I’m a OT that works in a school. In most schools they usually keep twins together until pre-k. Most schools recommends to separate twins to assist with socializing and also to help the child build their own identity. Also schools like to separate twins because usually if one twin gets bullied, the other twin typically defends their sibling. So schools try to prevent that confrontation of 2 kids against one. I recommend to keep them together until pre-k . That way it will be easier to transition to a new setting for school if they know they have each other.
Siblings are usually separated in public schools.
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As a twin, we were separated. I have a twin brother, so it’s a little different. My mom wanted us to have our own experiences. We had our own friends, activities, etc. When we got home, we pushed each other to do well in our classes. Whoppins and punishment were a real thing in my day!😂 We couldn’t stand each other at home. We were always together….For EVERYTHING! When your boys get older, they could be placed in the same homeroom or a class or two 🤷♀️. Be prepared that this may happen. In the beginning stages, my mom requested that we be separated. I also have identical twin boy cousins. They were a mess. They would trick everyone because no one could tell them apart. 😂
Kim is on a roll wid these uploads😂. I can't wait to watch.
I am a twin and we had some classes together a few and it was soo fun and you will never stop saying the twins lol it just happens we are 46 our mom didnt know she was having twins untile the day we were born were 7 minutes apart!
Wow the twin's about to be one how time fly. Thanks for the Vlog Happy New Year ❤❤
I had a sidekick also and I loved it!
I'm a fraternal twin (girl) but my twin was actually a boy- so it was easier for my parents to decide to separate us in school. however, my freshmen year of high school my twin and I accidentally got in the same class and we decided to try it out. it was AWFUL lol i was already so used to having my own identity among my peers and was really grateful to have had been separated all the years before that. even though your boys are the same gender, I recommend separating them while they attend the same school so they can at least see each other on campus and possibly have similar homework to help each other out on (ngl that was a huge plus with my twin when we were taking the same class!) so yeah keep them separated, but as another comment said, they may naturally gravitate to teach other and have similar interests so you'll never know what will naturally happen in their development :) you are a wonderful mom!
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You're doing great, mama!
I worked at a daycare with two twin toddler boys and honey we clearly could see the difference in behavior lol we would separate them in the classroom next door to give them space from one another for a few hours though but we knew when they missed each other.
The boys will let you know what they want...they'll give you cues (being separated and finding their way back to each other, or staying apart)....When I was in school, we had 4 sets of twins. 2 were identical, 2 were fraternal. They love each other, but they like to have their own identity. In my experience as a teacher, it's best to separate them. They can grow into their own identity, individuality, and personality without having to be constantly compared to their twin. Also, twins usually have that twin bond and know they always have each other when they need the other. It's great to inform each teacher (daycare, preschool, grade school, etc.) that each student is a twin and any cues to look for if one is feeling 'a way' and may need their twin. I've always honored that and let them have their time together when needed. Teachers can coordinate with each other and schedule a 'brain break' where the twins can go to the bathroom together, spend time playing a game with a counselor (not a formal session, just a quick break), etc....I hope that all makes sense and helps 😊❤
There are a lot of twins in my family and from our experience, it depends on them. Some twins need that individual dependence and some function better with their twin around them most of the time. So I say follow their lead
I have a twin brother and he has twin daughters. Growing up we werent necessarily separated but bec we are boy/girl twins we didnt do everything together. As little kids we were in the same classes in elementary school. On the flip side my sis in law made sure that their twin girls did things separately to have their own experiences in life. Same class in elementary school. But they went to different colleges in different states. I was opposed to it at first but now that they have graduated I see where she was going. They had a chance to have their own experiences and see life in their own way. They are still super close though. So I say separate the boys and let them have their own life experiences. They will forever have a bond as twins so u cant take that away. Me and my twin are as “thick as thieves”. And so are his twins. On the flip side I have a friend with twin daughters and she never separated them with college and other life experiences but they are just fine. So I think how they’re raised makes a big difference.
I have siblings that are twins (fraternal) and my mom ended up needing to separate them in school because they did not socialize well with the other kids because they had each other and didn't really "need" to or seem to want to venture out from one another. Once they were put into separate classes they did just fine. Hope that helps with a bit of perspective.
I had alot of twin friends going up and i worked around alot of younger kids that are twins. And i noticed that same of them loved being with their twin. As for the others didn't. Regardless if they go to the same school or not they might be in the same class and they might not be. Honestly just let them guide you and you'll know what to do.
I'm a mom of twin boys (now young men). It was traumatizing to them and to us as parents when the school forced us to separate them in kindergarten. That was school policy, i.e., no siblings could share the same class. The policy changed for twins the following year, and they were together for 1st and 2nd grade and much happier. After that, we let them decide what they wanted to do. They decided to try separating for 3rd grade and did ok. Then, 4th through 8th grade and high school, sometimes they were together and sometimes not. But they thrived either way. In fact, I can't remember a time when they didn't have the exact same GPA. 😂
I also have twin cousins who told me back then that my twins would separate when they were ready. I found that to be true. But separations don't last long. My cousins are both married with kids and still managed to end up back together in the same town. They still talk 5 times a day. Also, my twins were roommates in college and now live and work together. I guess they'll finally separate for good when one or both get married and have their own families one day. 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
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As a teacher, I think you should do whatever your gut is leading you to do. One of the purposes of school is to prepare students for how to socialize in the real world. Most people in this world don't have a back up person in the classroom and as wonderful as it sounds, I think it's important for children to build the resilience that comes with dealing with problems on your own. Most likely they will see each other during lunch and recess times anyways. However, it's up to you.
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Makeup on point always. 💙🖤 Didn't they redo or revamp, I don't know the right wording, but they did something with brussel sprouts to make them better. Anyway, Most schools generally separate twins. It's very rare that twins are in the same class. I think you are doing great by getting them their own cake. And treating them as their own person. Watch and see how they are and if they prefer to be separate.
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Happy birthday to the twins
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