I'M 70. I AVOID PEOPLE NOW HERE'S WHY!!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @cindybrown1356
    @cindybrown1356 Месяц назад +5

    Karen, oh my goodness, I can really relate with you. I was 71 in September… And I used to be considered a “nice girl.” I was such a people pleaser, and I realize that the Lord does not want us to be a doormat… And so I have scaled back what I do and who I do it for, as long as I please The Lord Jesus then I am content. I feel like you do, Karen, I don’t want to waste any more years, on nonsense or things that don’t bring me joy. God bless you, my dear friend, you’re such a pleasure to know.🩵🩵🩵

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      I know, I'm so glad you're finding joy! We are all about finding joy in our later years!! 💖💐 Cindy I can't believe your 71 you do not look at all that age, I'm so thankful we are friends I just adore you!! God bless you!! 🙏🐶😘

    • @cindybrown1356
      @cindybrown1356 Месяц назад

      @ I’m SO grateful for you, Karen. I love you dearly!

  • @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot
    @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Месяц назад

    Thank you for this beautiful video, Karen! And for sharing your heart! ♥️

  • @juliesmith8153
    @juliesmith8153 Месяц назад +1

    Karen I loved the story about the kitten 💞. Khloe looks adorable 🐶. I am so glad we connected here. You really have a lot of wisdom Karen. I am so happy we are friends here, sending you lots of love 🤗😘

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Julie I am so glad we connected, I just adore you!! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!! Sending love & hugs!! 🐶😘❤️

    • @juliesmith8153
      @juliesmith8153 Месяц назад

      @ 💞

  • @GinaLovestocraft
    @GinaLovestocraft Месяц назад

    Hi gorgeous Karen wow you don’t even look 70
    Thank you for sharing with us I don’t do drama and tend to keep quiet and stay away from mean people love you ❤❤

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Awww...you are so sweet Gina thank you!! Drama is too draining, we just don't need that!! I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving Gina!! Sending love & hugs!! 🐶😘❤️

  • @GladysPee-l1i
    @GladysPee-l1i Месяц назад

    I am in agreement with you. Live your life like it’s golden. Because it is.

  • @PagesAndPolish
    @PagesAndPolish Месяц назад

    Yess it’s so cold here too!
    Garfield ❤ So sweet you’re looking out for him.
    Girl I don’t have time for it either.
    And yes you definitely deserve that peace ❤❤
    Hugs xx

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Hi Shannon!! Thank you so much for spending time with me!! ❤️

  • @RosasBeautyFashion
    @RosasBeautyFashion Месяц назад

    Hello Diva, This was such an amazing chat video. I know we have talked about these things before. Yes I seen a lot going on social media. I don’t like drama either. My favorite saying is I can’t be so bothered. My daughter knows. Yes you’re very right about the lord. He knows and understands. I always talk to God like he is sitting right by me. It’s always good to connect with people that are on the same level. You did make me laugh when you said about God saying about the subscribers or followers 😂 God does know our hearts. There are some good people. I’m very thankful & blessed for the good people that love me just for me and don’t judge me. I’m so sorry about your daughter. She will be in my prayers. I totally understand about being worried about our daughters. It’s a mother thing for sure. We are never alone. God is always with us. I go to the beach alone sometimes. Yes there are time I have fault alone that’s just normal. I think thumbs down are so silly. Hey it’s a view lol lol that’s how I look at it. Thank you for sharing this. I was blessed to meet you. Love ya too God bless 🤗😘🙏🏼

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      I'm so thankful to know you too, and I'm so glad my daughter is on the mend, we are blessed to have God on our side 🙏🏼I'm like you & talk to God through the day!! Thank you so much for praying for my daughter!! I appreciate the good people also that appreciate me for just me!! Thank you so much & pray your business goes well & you're blessed with good sales (especially this time of year!!). Sending love & hugs my fashion diva!! Love ya!! God bless!! 💐🙏❤️😘

  • @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot
    @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Месяц назад

    Yes, I’ve had to be on call for a lot of my nursing career. It’s hard to relax.

  • @JuliasBBeauty
    @JuliasBBeauty Месяц назад

    Hi Karen such a lovely video and I am totally agreeing with you on not being a drama oriented and not having time for drama. I feel this kind of situation takes out my energy these people are feeding with it. Oh the cat is so adorable but they are so precious some of then won't let you touch. Your precious white ball of fur is so sweet. I have downsized the amount of friends that I have online or on site and I spend time with the ones I really enjoy. I agree the count number if followers doesn't matter. I hope your daughter will feel better 🙏. Sending good vibes only. Have a wonderful day ❤️❤️❤️

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much Julia!! I appreciate you so much & wish we'd live closer to each other!! My daughter is much better & thank you for asking!! I hope you are doing well & staying warm!! Hugs my beautiful friend!! 🐶💐😘❤️

  • @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot
    @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Месяц назад

    I think sometimes we serve God the most in the small moments. It’s the kindness to a stranger, for me it’s trying to show genuine love in all things. I don’t like cooking either and one of the things I do is cook for my family to show them love … even though I don’t enjoy cooking… I do enjoy doing nice things for them. I think your heart is beautiful

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Hi Mona!! Thank you for your kind comments!! Your heart is beautiful also!!

  • @denisesorchidparadise1411
    @denisesorchidparadise1411 Месяц назад

    I agree, life is short and I want to be happy these last years, I don't have time for nonsense, do what makes you happy!

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Totally agree Denise!! I just wanted to let you know I will be showing how I style the sequin skirt on my next video!! Hugs!! 🐶😘❤️

  • @hyumna2104
    @hyumna2104 Месяц назад

    Hi gorgeous Karen wow you don’t even look 70
    Thank you for sharing with us I don’t do drama and tend to keep quiet and stay away from mean people love you...

  • @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot
    @AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Месяц назад

    Hi Karen! I’m not getting your notifications. I worry about all of the little animals being neglected too. I try to help as many as possible. I appreciate this video. I want peace also. I do feel like being married, I do owe some more socializing to my husband and my kids. I’m trying to strike a balance.

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Hi Mona!! I know you're a lot younger than me, but now I feel is my time, my husband feels the same. You're so wonderful to trying to strike a balance!!! xx

  • @conniemurphyover70stillgla47
    @conniemurphyover70stillgla47 Месяц назад +2

    nice video. I know what you mean since covid I dont go out as much because my dance clubs (West coast swing ) closed up :( I like being home now with mu hubby who retired this year 2024 and I'm not on UT that often. happy with our new President and pray "the best is yet to come" hugs connie murphy

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      I'm so sorry you lost your dance clubs, You have the best hubby and I'm so thankful we got a God fearing new President!! I'm loving being at home!! Hugs!! 😘

  • @myeclecticlife386
    @myeclecticlife386 Месяц назад

    Hey Karen. You look great as always. I truly truly understand what you are saying. People have nothing better to do, and we have things to do with our time. I have learned to enjoy my own company, and it's peaceful. I live my life truly my own way and don't follow or try to meet societies expectations. People expect too much and just don't get it. Great video. Happy belated Thanksgiving ❤

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Hey Shirley!! How are you doing? Love what you said & so true!!! I can't believe how fast Christmas is coming, wishing you & your family happy Christmas!! xx

  • @MiraTaha
    @MiraTaha Месяц назад

    Oh my goodness! I am so happy I found your channel ✨ New friend here & hope we can be friends 💖 first off, you are absolutely right about just focusing on happiness because it's true, life is short! I loved listening to your thoughts! Also, you don't look close to 70! You are so beautiful ✨💖 Sending you all my love! Cant wait to watch more videos! ✨

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      I'm so happy you enjoyed the video, I hope we can be friends too! You look beautiful too, happy to have you here!! xx

  • @cherylatkinson6060
    @cherylatkinson6060 Месяц назад +1

    I hear you Karen, you want a peaceful life and to enjoy your family. It reminds me of my grandma she had a neighbor that kept coming down the hill to her house crying about how her family treated her and she told her get back up on that hill cause they told me how you treat them. Don't come down here with your hardluck stories she said. God bless

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Cheryl lol I love that story about your Grandma!! Thank you for sharing that & I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!! Hugs!! 😻😘

    • @cherylatkinson6060
      @cherylatkinson6060 Месяц назад

      @@thegraylatte1638 Yes thanks Thanksgiving was good. Glad you like my story. Hugs

  • @JanasSpace
    @JanasSpace Месяц назад

    Hi Dear Karen. Oh , this was so good. I like these deep videos on life. You are so right, solitude is not loneliness. I am with myself a lot too, being an emigrant I also do not know the people around or have some years long friendships. Those one creates through a lifetime. I believe person needs one or 2 good friends and it is enough. And yes, it should be someone of your tribe..because then you can really see and eye to an eye , as they say and it makes this union one of quality. You seem to have this journey figured out, good for you and an inspiration to others. Time does fly as we get older, I see it too. If you reach level of your life you do not need to prove yourself and run after accomplishing some big goal it takes stress out of it. Some people pile up those bucket lists on them and it gets too much. Of course to each its own. And then all we need is a good health. That is my worry for going forward. I feel for your daughter as dealing with pain takes so much out of the person, let her always be strong to manage. Health is a wealth.
    I also enjoy a section with a cat food at Walmart..lol.. you really meet some lovely fold there. Being bit taller I reach out to the shelves too. I enjoy a good trip to Walmart and people always seem to smile and chat a bit there and it is sometimes enough of the interaction for me. Have a lovely weekend and thank you for the video. You look fantastic and your voice is just so calming and lovely. Big hugs, Jana x

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much Jana for your kind words!! I agree it's important to have friends in our tribe!! Hugs!! 😘🐶 Yes health is so important, I do hope you are feeling well. I know you suffer with those horrible migraine headaches, I sympathize with anyone who has them. I had them for years. No one truly understands what they are like unless they suffer with them. Just stay warm looking forward to walking again once the weather warms up!! Was so nice to visit with you!! Hugs & love xx

  • @YosheaLux
    @YosheaLux 12 дней назад

    Hello Karen. I love the Lord. 💕 I love what your talking about. As you get older theres thing you just want eliminate. I'm speaking up more than I use to as well.

  • @ZahraCanadaOficial
    @ZahraCanadaOficial Месяц назад

    Hello Beautiful Karen ,
    Kloe is so cute . Such a nice video thanks for sharing awesome thoughts with us ❤ 🫶🏻

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Thanks so much Zahra!! Khloe sends you a big hug!! 💐🐶😘

  • @angelacrowder6127
    @angelacrowder6127 Месяц назад

    Hi, my beautiful friend, I absolutely enjoyed your video. You are such an amazing friend. Thank you so much for your kindness!!!
    🩷🩷🩷

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Angela thank you so much!! You are an Amazing friend to me also!! I'm so glad awe met!! 👯‍♂

  • @shirleyeades3986
    @shirleyeades3986 Месяц назад

    Hi Karen😊

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Hi Shirley!! Thank you so much for spending tie with me!! I hope you haddd a wonderful Thanksgiving!! Hugs!! 🐶😘❤️

  • @RoseTheOver70MakeupArtist
    @RoseTheOver70MakeupArtist Месяц назад

    Oh Karen I wanted to cry you feel like me! but I get panic attacks sometimes don't leave my house for months unless something's wrong with my children that's all I live for is my children but my RUclips channel has brought me such great joy in the latter part of my life with great friends and so have you 😍🥰I swear honey when I first started I thought you were about my My youngest daughter's age who just turned 50 remember I was shocked when you told me your age honey you are beautiful you spent your whole life taking care of your children your family your husband your house God bless you I hope I'm one of those friends that stays with you forever💯 Big hugs and love to you 😘❤❤❤❤❤

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад +1

      Oh Rose thank you so so much for your kind comments!! Yes RUclips is fantastic for women like us that the children are all grown. I'd rather be home anyway now unless it's with my family. You are absolutely stunning Rose & I just love your videos, I'm so thankful God has given me a fantastic friend as you!! I pray for you & your daughter, I know what you're going through when you have a child who struggles. My daughter that lives her & had to be rushed to Vanderbilt a week & half ago, I just prayed they had to make another hole for her crohns disease. She was in extreme pain, I know it's hard to see them suffer. Friends Forever!! Love you!! 💋❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏😘😘😘

  • @SoftBeauty7
    @SoftBeauty7 Месяц назад

    Hi Karen, I love your cat story! keep trying, he will eventually go in the cat house.
    I have felt time really speed up, yes life to short for constant drama! Yeah, I don't think Jesus cares about our followers, lol😹I have very few friends, quality over quantity ♥💛💚ory! keep trying, he will eventually go in the cat house.

    • @thegraylatte1638
      @thegraylatte1638  Месяц назад

      Hi Kat!! I hope you had a great Thanksgiving!! Thank you so much for watching & yes I hope Garfield will eventually use the cat house!! Hugs!! 😻