Police Release Body Cam Footage of Reuben Foster Domestic Incident

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  • Опубликовано: 27 мар 2024
  • The video from Oct. 12 shows Reuben Foster and Elissa Ennis admitting to officers they were arguing but insisting it never elevated to violence. Maria Medina reports (12-7-18)

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  • @waitwhat6056
    @waitwhat6056 2 года назад +3346

    It never got physical? She came out breathless, crying and looking like she'd been in a fight.

    • @l.k.1111
      @l.k.1111 2 года назад +250

      And there was discoloration on her skin from the photos. Ugh

    • @ecaldwell9
      @ecaldwell9 2 года назад +158

      And they heard them outside of the door!

    • @renatamitchell4437
      @renatamitchell4437 2 года назад +108

      He looked stupid when he seen the police at the door.

    • @angel-fz8qg
      @angel-fz8qg 2 года назад +35

      Guys he was telling her to leave.

    • @angelicaridgeway4318
      @angelicaridgeway4318 2 года назад +101

      Exactly, you could obviously see how hard she was breathing. She looked like she had been in a struggle of some kind. Police need better training.

  • @rachelcholodenko2215
    @rachelcholodenko2215 3 года назад +7309

    The way she looks at him for his permission to talk to them

    • @goofynigga8456
      @goofynigga8456 3 года назад +151

      Wat wrong with a women tht need permission to speak

    • @fruitpunchsamurai7482
      @fruitpunchsamurai7482 2 года назад +1313

      @@goofynigga8456 you exactly what your name is😆🤣🤦‍♂️

    • @kissPANCRASION
      @kissPANCRASION 2 года назад +540

      @@goofynigga8456 I'm just gonna assume your IQ is below 60

    • @kissPANCRASION
      @kissPANCRASION 2 года назад +64

      @@fruitpunchsamurai7482 ong

    • @itspronouncednikolaj333
      @itspronouncednikolaj333 2 года назад +147

      @@goofynigga8456 month of psychological damage. He made ber believe she is stupid and probably criticised her every word. He brainwashed her.

  • @MelissaPerez8478
    @MelissaPerez8478 2 года назад +2042

    Teach your daughters to love themselves and that they deserve to be respected. Teach them that an abusive man who wishes to lay hands on them is actually an ENEMY and not a friend.

    • @teeb2681
      @teeb2681 2 года назад +65

      Its not about lack of self love. Its abuse to assume the women do not love themselves. As the bible teaches, we live in a wicked world and the love of many shall wax cold.
      Abuse even happened to Christ and the disciples. The women do love themselves as she said it is not alright or I'm not alright.
      The issue is society focuses on the victim and what they can do to change as if that's needed instead of punishment for the abuser. Many speak of the bible yet speak of self love when the bible tells us directly that self love is the issue.
      It says in the end of days people will become abusers, ungrateful, haughty and lovers of self. The solution is not self love but instead God's greatest commandment: love God with all of your heart and soul and love OTHERS AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF.
      People love themselves so much they sin to fulfill their desires and anyone can become a casualty to protect self, idolize self, please self and so on. People forgot about God or are disobedient and have more indifference and resentment for others.
      We do not treat others as ourselves as we should and love for God teaches us (if we listen and are obedient) how to love others as well as ourselves in a righteous vs egotistical or self serving way. God bless you all

    • @1w598
      @1w598 2 года назад +11

      You mean teach your daughters to be respectful of others.

    • @SweeteesLifestyle
      @SweeteesLifestyle 2 года назад +59

      I agree but Abusers come as friends and not enemies. They show their true colors as time goes on. People should teach their sons not to abuse.

    • @SKOLAH
      @SKOLAH 2 года назад +119

      Teach men not to abuse.

    • @sexytrinny52
      @sexytrinny52 2 года назад +15

      That may be true. We need to teach our daughters how to use a Smith Wesson.

  • @SierraMcI
    @SierraMcI 2 года назад +540

    “no everything is not ok” absolutely broke my heart. I hope she has gotten away from him♥️

    • @giselle8205
      @giselle8205 2 года назад +9

      She's probably the one who started it all.

    • @SierraMcI
      @SierraMcI 2 года назад +15

      @@giselle8205 well, yeah maybe, but we don’t know that. I’m just saying the way she said that, made me sad bc of how scared she sounded.

    • @pengting87
      @pengting87 2 года назад +21

      @@giselle8205 why'd u have to assume she started it?

    • @crystalo9489
      @crystalo9489 2 года назад +40

      @@giselle8205 Started or not abuse is not okay

    • @Moejoe143
      @Moejoe143 2 года назад +4

      @@giselle8205 that still doesn’t give him the right to put his hands on her dick head.

  • @tondoosuuweeta2442
    @tondoosuuweeta2442 2 года назад +3375

    She’s worried about his career / not wanting to get him in trouble. That’s something he should be worried about. Clearly he is abusive

    • @tondoosuuweeta2442
      @tondoosuuweeta2442 2 года назад +14

      @@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook here in Alabama we have 211. In New York it’s 311. A number with loads of resources. Tell your friend to start there. And just open up and tell the dispatcher who answers the phone the truth. They will then guide him through the necessary steps. Whether it’s: a change of locks, 911, restraining order, etc. also I’m disabled. You said your friend was sick. There’s a thing called elder abuse. It also applies to the disabled/ infirmed . Because what she’s doing is low down. It hurts me to hear about it. Prayerfully things will work out in his favor. But one thing I’m huge on is documentation documentation documentation I can’t stress it enough. He’s got to start making phone calls and getting things documented.

    • @tondoosuuweeta2442
      @tondoosuuweeta2442 2 года назад +25

      @Chraig Reddik there’s no amounts of money in the world for me to stay with an abuser. 🙄

    • @robertdavis4408
      @robertdavis4408 2 года назад +2

      If that was sister his career would lost any

    • @jillberry2066
      @jillberry2066 2 года назад +10

      Sad too say but shes probably abuse!
      She probably grew up getting her a-s beat so she thinks this is normal! And all he's probably seen was his mother getting her head whipped so they are just to babies trying to play house!

    • @VintageRose75
      @VintageRose75 2 года назад +5

      @@My_Secret_ArtSketchbook It is less common, but every bit as real if a crazy woman is an abuser of a man. It may not be taken as seriously, but needs to be. Have your friend seek help. He and the children should not suffer any longer.

  • @12GaugePadawan
    @12GaugePadawan 2 года назад +3935

    She may think she’s protecting him and being loyal, but all she’s is doing is putting herself in danger. 😔 It always gets worse. Get out and get help while you can.

    • @jaylove4535
      @jaylove4535 2 года назад +16

      A woman should never bite the hand who feeds her she better shut the fuk up

    • @mehdidavoudiyeh351
      @mehdidavoudiyeh351 2 года назад +90

      @@jaylove4535 money is not everything Genius

    • @tellienatan5991
      @tellienatan5991 2 года назад +68

      @@jaylove4535 but she should rip off the hands of those who hurt her!

    • @TALKKENZO
      @TALKKENZO 2 года назад +85

      So you think because you pay bills or have money you get the right to beat women, disrespect them, etc..you can’t be serious it’s okay you soon will reap what u sew🙏🏽,

    • @jaylove4535
      @jaylove4535 2 года назад +2

      @@TALKKENZO your woman your life

  • @VK-qe7if
    @VK-qe7if 2 года назад +208

    Domestic abuse isn't always visible as in cuts and bruises. Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, you just can't see it.

  • @johnnypolex
    @johnnypolex Год назад +28

    To those who say he didn’t do anything:
    My mom breathed the same way during the abuse. She also was afraid to say anything about my father.
    My mom was severely abused. A few times she laid in large puddles of blood. But most of the time he would hurt her in ways that you cannot see marks so that others wouldn’t find out. Punches to the stomach, dragging her across the house with her hair, throwing the back of her head against the wall, using his legs to push on her shoulder while pulling her hair, hand-cuffing her to metal objects, etc. plenty of ways. And when he accidentally bruises her, then came the makeup and sunglasses.
    Imagine if your kids’ lives were threatened. He was also quickly released from jail for a number of times.
    Please do not “mind your own business”. This is just ignoring the awful truth due to not wanting to deal with difficult situations.

    • @mlgmcdonaldsland7063
      @mlgmcdonaldsland7063 Год назад

      What did your mom do to make him feel the need to do that

    • @johnnypolex
      @johnnypolex Год назад +2

      @@mlgmcdonaldsland7063 Nothing actually. Sociopathic and complex-PTSD affected people like my father can get ticked off from the most random thing. Often it’s something that they themselves did but they blame the issues on their partner or kids. He was also abused by my grandfather. That causes complex-PTSD and often sociopathy. This combination usually results in a domestic abuser.

  • @jslack8973
    @jslack8973 2 года назад +5522

    It pisses me off when women think they are being loyal & good to the man when they don’t tell the cops about an attack. When is he going to be loyal to you though????

    • @riodagreat6485
      @riodagreat6485 2 года назад +123

      She didn't call cops because she didn't wanna lose that bag.

    • @sierradenae579
      @sierradenae579 2 года назад +366

      @@riodagreat6485 poor women go through this due to broke men and will still be too scared to say something, so what’s your real point 🙃

    • @seasonsofus
      @seasonsofus 2 года назад +291

      It’s not about them thinking that they’re being loyal, it’s about them being groomed by their partner into having the abuse normalized

    • @juliag7453
      @juliag7453 2 года назад +87

      I think it’s more about what he’s gonna do to her after he’s coming out from jail.

    • @salcortez869
      @salcortez869 2 года назад +64

      Dude is like almost 3xs her size and from her heavy breathing when she came out of the home you can tell it was physical and she still said they was cool , I think both of them are toxic.

  • @patfrazier9285
    @patfrazier9285 2 года назад +8790

    It never gets better, it only gets worst until someone loses their life.

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 2 года назад +82

      Just leave Lady if you can't TRUST him the RELATIONSHIP is already over know your worth. Girl you won't change him he's a jock and probably GETS AROUND A LOT if you have to go through his phone say goodbye

    • @Neishianadiaaa
      @Neishianadiaaa 2 года назад +38

      True. I’ve lost two cousins from domestic violence in the last 3 years.

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 2 года назад +3

      Yea ok 🤣

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 2 года назад +44

      @Timothy Barron she never said women didn’t you defensive bitch

    • @jones9309
      @jones9309 2 года назад +1

      Let's hope she sticks around to the end

  • @momtingz9447
    @momtingz9447 2 года назад +112

    Omg 🥺 Her hard breathing, hair all over it was definitely physical. Abusers KNOW where to hit and not leave visible marks

  • @BellissimaFaith
    @BellissimaFaith 2 года назад +335

    I went through this. My ex was so evil when he got upset, the yelling to the top of his lungs. It can become normal to you honestly I know that’s sad but it’s true, once I started dating someone else a really good guy I quickly noticed how not normal it is for your partner to yell at you for any reason. It’s crazy the way abusive relationships warp your mind. I hope she gets out 👍🏽

    • @kaylamccall1051
      @kaylamccall1051 2 года назад +8

      Yes girl! It's not okay, EVER, to yell at someone. Not for anything. You can use words in a calm tone of voice without screaming at someone. It sounds like you got out just in time, before things got bad. People like that person have no place in this world and should be exterminated. Like the cancer, the plague they are on society.

    • @cakiesp5847
      @cakiesp5847 2 года назад +18

      @L Dawg Creepy thing to say to a stranger.

    • @bellalove8107
      @bellalove8107 2 года назад +7

      My mom is going trough this. I love my parents, but my dad doesn't realize how awful that is. Abuse was normal in his family, and he improved a lot, but he still yells.

    • @December_baby04
      @December_baby04 2 года назад +8

      I pray I get my happy ending soon. Abuse fucking sucks

    • @korylewis4709
      @korylewis4709 2 года назад +2

      @L Dawg 🤣🤣🤣🤡

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 2 года назад +3880

    Women have your own career/money, don’t depend on men.

    • @zyx7478
      @zyx7478 2 года назад +131

      That’s what I tell my two daughters

    • @brandydenny3363
      @brandydenny3363 2 года назад +77

      Now that’s a Word 🙌🏾

    • @ricardoduirab94
      @ricardoduirab94 2 года назад +259

      N good guys are boring but safe.....woman over look good man for this typical bad boys....it doesn't have anything to do with making your own money.make better choices,pick man than will respect you.dont pick assholes n than blame the entire gender

    • @danaglass1265
      @danaglass1265 2 года назад +9

      Amen Tiffany!!!!

    • @terrencego5709
      @terrencego5709 2 года назад +32

      But a woman can have money and still. Require a man with more money knowing he got options js jus know you got to put up or shut up.. you either want to be a concubine or you ain't with that s**

  • @nellieltuodelschwanck736
    @nellieltuodelschwanck736 2 года назад +3064

    A man should never abuse a woman or child. He should take a walk.

    • @sidjones16
      @sidjones16 2 года назад +383

      No one should abuse anyone.

    • @vicrich8207
      @vicrich8207 2 года назад +95

      Your right and a woman doesn't have the right to go thru a man's phone.

    • @jaejai8088
      @jaejai8088 2 года назад +60

      It goes both ways... Smh they are too young and do they have kids or no. They both need help

    • @pastathemechanic7536
      @pastathemechanic7536 2 года назад +35

      I tried the walk away thing, some females have that “dead or in jail” mindset

    • @xwiay3067
      @xwiay3067 2 года назад +7

      @@sidjones16 big facts

  • @mrlovetodebate9982
    @mrlovetodebate9982 2 года назад +58

    It baffles me to see a man put his hands on a woman, a real God fearing man would never do that PERIOD. No matter how bad the argument gets.

    • @potentspirit3096
      @potentspirit3096 2 года назад +3

      That’s the key brother. They have no fear for what they cannot see. Me personally, that’s the only thing keeping me morally right in society. God gone get his regardless!! Whether you conscious to it or not!!!!

    • @mrlovetodebate9982
      @mrlovetodebate9982 2 года назад +2

      @Novice User Domestic violence charge on the second arrest, he wasn’t charged on the first arrest because of the lack of evidence, however he was on the second one. Look it up.

    • @liggmabawls5634
      @liggmabawls5634 2 года назад +1

      God ain’t real. 2nd you don’t know the full story. I’m not saying she deserved it but no one is above an ass whooping. Man woman or child.

    • @mrlovetodebate9982
      @mrlovetodebate9982 2 года назад +5

      @@liggmabawls5634 the full story doesn’t depict whether or not his actions was right or wrong, and secondly telling a God fearing man god ain’t real is like telling a fish it can’t breathe under water.

    • @potentspirit3096
      @potentspirit3096 2 года назад +1

      @@liggmabawls5634 you don’t believe in Yahweh but have an understanding of Satan and his meaning. That’s whats wrong with society, not understanding you cannot have yin without yang. There is no evil without goodness. Duality of man has been the est of life

  • @matthurley921
    @matthurley921 2 года назад +14

    It’s sad when one team drops you over domestic violence or crimes,and another snatches you right up…🙄🤬

  • @ColbyMoonwalker
    @ColbyMoonwalker 4 года назад +2862

    “Let him go without charges...weeks later Foster would be arrested once AGAIN for domestic violence.” ???

    • @Mr.UpState
      @Mr.UpState 4 года назад +17

      Still no proof

    • @ellaella5537
      @ellaella5537 3 года назад +93

      Take Back America are you blind? Can’t you see the bruises?

    • @coreychris100
      @coreychris100 3 года назад +19

      @@ellaella5537 it was proven she got her bruises from a fight with another woman..

    • @showmercytoothers4059
      @showmercytoothers4059 3 года назад +19

      She likes it

    • @showmercytoothers4059
      @showmercytoothers4059 3 года назад +16

      Told her butt to get out

  • @ArainaNespiak
    @ArainaNespiak 2 года назад +3875

    The neighbor deserves so much credit, too often people just "mind their own business" when lives could be lost as a result. Kudos to that kind man. I think it is apprehensible that any team would allow a repeat domestic abuser to play for their team. It's disgusting.

    • @dawnatkinson7704
      @dawnatkinson7704 2 года назад +35

      Your comment just reminded me of a truly sad song by Tracy Chapman called 'Behind the Wall' which, if you have not heard before, you should listen to:
      'Last night I heard the screaming
      Loud voices behind the wall
      Another sleepless night for me
      It won't do no good to call
      The police always come late
      If they come at all
      And when they arrive
      They say they can't interfere
      With domestic affairs
      Between a man and his wife
      And as they walk out the door
      The tears well up in her eyes
      Last night I heard the screaming
      Then a silence that chilled my soul
      I prayed that I was dreaming
      When I saw the ambulance in the road
      And the policeman said
      "I'm here to keep the peace
      Will the crowd disperse
      I think we all could use some sleep"

    • @Star-dj1kw
      @Star-dj1kw 2 года назад +20

      Yes!! His call might call saved her life.

    • @xocolatl3682
      @xocolatl3682 2 года назад +15

      Too many of yall going back when people waste, time, resources, and even put life in danger to help.

    • @laleeah1367
      @laleeah1367 2 года назад +13

      Dont ever forget these type of domestic violence situations can end with everyone dead ....

    • @mckymcobvious3043
      @mckymcobvious3043 2 года назад +8

      it's hard to know where the line is, you want to give people privacy and let them mind their own business... tbh, I've called the police once because I was really sure that I heard someone screaming for help. that's a good line, right? I know how the police treat people, so it's hard to know all the time, but if someone's screaming for help, get them help , right??? even if I'm getting their SO in trouble

  • @lynettehall4349
    @lynettehall4349 2 года назад +20

    I can recall the amount of fear that keeps you in this type of situation. I will never forget the nurses and officers who convinced me to walk away from that environment.🙏🏿

  • @ThenGetIdOffUrChest
    @ThenGetIdOffUrChest 2 года назад +8

    I was in an abusive relationship at 17 until i was almost 19. I remember locking him out and he busted through the window to get to me. The police was called and when they asked "did he hit you" i lied and said no. I should've been honest. But what's crazy is after i finally left him, i ran into the police officer that was at my house and he remembered me. He said "tell the truth, ur boyfriend did hit u didn't he" and i said yes. He looked disappointed i didn't have him arrested

    • @akinyiomer4589
      @akinyiomer4589 10 месяцев назад

      Serious question cause I always wanna improve my understanding on this. In those situations where intervention is possible eg police, neighbours, friends noticing and straight up asking - why is it that a lot of abuse victims will lie to protect their abuser??
      Please believe me I understand the very real fear that if nothing comes of an investigation etc, or he manages to twist his way out his nice words, that he'll seriously bring even more pain and might even kill you. But also - staying with him also leads to the same result, just over a longer period of time and I think most victims know that deep down.
      So I wanna ask - what's the difference between all the moments people ask you if you need help but you deny it, and the moment where you gather enough courage to really leave and say you need it? Is there any way we as a society can make you feel braver? Or is this something entirely internal?

  • @ellaella5537
    @ellaella5537 3 года назад +6010

    Thank God for the neighbour. Thank you for not minding your business like too many ppl do. God bless you sir.

    • @bestbehaviour_4uforya
      @bestbehaviour_4uforya 3 года назад +9

      Teach mine how?

    • @TexasTeaHTX
      @TexasTeaHTX 3 года назад +50

      That bitch needs to stop going through his phone.

    • @jasmineclear878
      @jasmineclear878 3 года назад +91

      @@TexasTeaHTX who said anything about that

    • @victorhiggins9636
      @victorhiggins9636 3 года назад +17

      God is great

    • @pacotaco5526
      @pacotaco5526 3 года назад +132

      @@TexasTeaHTX I can only imagine how you treat your own mother, your sister or even your daughter. I fear for them, God forbid you all of the sudden become angered at a woman its apparent you feel justified to beat the sh*t out of them!

  • @humboldthottakes
    @humboldthottakes 5 лет назад +2671

    “Everything is not ok.”

    • @BornIn2Soul
      @BornIn2Soul 4 года назад +69

      Awww 💔

    • @chandamehnaz6177
      @chandamehnaz6177 4 года назад +25

      Same here 😪😪😪

    • @nildaluzrodriguez
      @nildaluzrodriguez 3 года назад +84

      Those were the Key words. If everything is not OK that would imply she will not be "safe". Safe neither emotionally or physically.

    • @queennylah8836
      @queennylah8836 3 года назад +4

      @@chandamehnaz6177 you ok

    • @caitlinmyriah7657
      @caitlinmyriah7657 2 года назад +15

      @@shehariahjohnson9174 My sister is also a survivor!! I am so proud of you and so happy you’re not in that situation anymore!! So many ppl don’t understand why the victim stays, but that’s not for them to understand. Sometimes there’s NO CHOICE! Some literally have nowhere else to go. My sister was with her abuser for 12 years. He physically, mentally and verbally abused her almost daily and cheated on her. Kept her from family. All that. He would shove her face in dog shit!!! One night she was trying to be away from him and came to my house when my husband wasn’t home. Her abuser eventually found out where she was and kicked my door in and all I knew to do was throw my body over my son, who was 3 at the time. He had so many knives with him that the cops had to have a bag to carry them out!! He almost broke my arm when I was trying to get me and my son out of the door; I had reached out to swing the door open and that’s when he kicked the door shut on my arm. Anyways, not much longer after that he had broken my sister’s nose and she was at my house, but my husband was home this time!! He came in acting crazy and my husband knocked him completely out with ONE HIT and the abuser ended up leaving in an ambulance with a massive cut down his side. My husband does not play when it comes to the safety of his wife and kids!! Sorry for such a long comment, but I am so very happy to know you and my sister both aren’t in that anymore!!! It’s heartbreaking to know a lot don’t make it out. The video before this one was of a woman that was decapitated by her abuser. Her kids were in the house too. 😔😔😔

  • @cynthiahouser2712
    @cynthiahouser2712 2 года назад +11

    Wow, men like that need to remember that they have a mom and they wouldn’t want a big man hurting their mother. This is so sad

    • @edcarr9819
      @edcarr9819 2 года назад

      Maybe his Dad would have made him different, but I doubt it.

  • @minasworld_
    @minasworld_ 2 года назад +10

    Parents please when raising your children let them know they are enough! Make sure their self esteem is HIGH not low! Let them know they are LOVED and WORTHY!
    The abuse is out of control because these ppl don’t know their own value so they try to control others by hurting them! This man was not raised correctly because he believes what he is doing is ok and this young lady also wasn’t raised correctly because she would know her life is more valuable then what she is going through

  • @Jennifer_08
    @Jennifer_08 2 года назад +2705

    “Everything is not ok” damn I know that feeling💔

    • @moorelance23
      @moorelance23 2 года назад +17

      I'm here for you

    • @dbaynard2256
      @dbaynard2256 2 года назад +19

      Jennifer,,,only once, should u know that feeling. Only once.

    • @moorelance23
      @moorelance23 2 года назад +32

      @@dbaynard2256 more like never

    • @Jennifer_08
      @Jennifer_08 2 года назад +7

      @@moorelance23 thank you

    • @angeldawn4019
      @angeldawn4019 2 года назад +5

      Most definitely said those words more than once.....

  • @justinnelson1311
    @justinnelson1311 2 года назад +1179

    Whoever made the call thank you for making it you just saved a life!

    • @hestrada8910
      @hestrada8910 2 года назад +24

      No 👎. Because she will go back with him. Doesn't matter

    • @mrzmorphine
      @mrzmorphine 2 года назад +4

      @@hestrada8910 I agree that it was the human thing to do..to often ppl jus turn a blind eye so at least there is documentation....but yeah, I agree...majority go bk for w.e their reasons so it does seem pointless...but the neighbor did his part in being a decent human being👍🏻

    • @blackberrylady9265
      @blackberrylady9265 2 года назад +1

      Totally Agrees 💯 👌🏾 👍🏾 👏🏼 🙌🏾 sad sad sad 😔

    • @nyeshcash20
      @nyeshcash20 2 года назад

      honestly they didn't she needs to seek help from her family and leave now i know I've dealt with a domestic violence relationship trying to protect someone bc that's the code no cops but fk that who wanna continue constantly getting they ass beat due to jealousy , ego , & insecurities cause im sure ain't nobody else trying to put up with his ass he jeopardizing his own career over dumb sh*

    • @nadiar.7788
      @nadiar.7788 2 года назад +1

      @@hestrada8910 Don't say that. Hopefully, she'll get out before it's too late. That's all you can hope and pray for. Sometimes, seeing yourself on TV is just what someone needs.

  • @ramonaharris920
    @ramonaharris920 2 года назад +11

    We need to stop making exceptions for people who break the law.

  • @Nahthatcantbe
    @Nahthatcantbe 2 года назад +7

    You people should follow back that story ,she said she lied about domestic abuse to end his nfl career after he broke up with her,that day they were just arguing no physical abuse happened..follow that story.

  • @5iveb1
    @5iveb1 3 года назад +801

    she look scared & how she breathing they definitely was fighting.

    • @scrltjkbx
      @scrltjkbx 3 года назад

      whats asl mean?

    • @orangesandapples1451
      @orangesandapples1451 3 года назад +2

      @@scrltjkbx as hell

    • @Emma_madison
      @Emma_madison 2 года назад +2

      Yhh she loves it that why she choose him and she is still with him
      I don't feel sorry for her at all

    • @chelseaaneke
      @chelseaaneke 2 года назад +2

      Fighting?

    • @byekidd1361
      @byekidd1361 2 года назад +3

      I saw her chest going up and down. Hair all wild. Definitely fighting. No doubt.

  • @E-99x
    @E-99x 3 года назад +1676

    Yikes! You can hear her screaming inside, “Get off me! Get off me!” :(
    He’s going to kill her, scary.

    • @joesar5879
      @joesar5879 3 года назад

      She has no marks he was restraining her becauase she was the aggressor and like all women believing she could hit a man and get away with it

    • @vanteal
      @vanteal 3 года назад +149

      Are you deaf? That's the dude screaming "GET OUT!" not "Get off of me"

    • @caitlinmyriah7657
      @caitlinmyriah7657 2 года назад +31

      Yeah, it was the guy saying get out.

    • @kittyk.klandasions7008
      @kittyk.klandasions7008 2 года назад +45

      No it was HIM SCREAMING GET OUT GET OUT!!

    • @warrencarter1555
      @warrencarter1555 2 года назад +27

      When you’re rich it’s best to avoid these spoiled , entitled, leaches. She’s gonna destroy his career and life . And he’s gonna let her because he believes she loves him and he loves her. Gtfo fast and find a real women

  • @elsiem7295
    @elsiem7295 2 года назад +5

    God bless the neighbor, my neighbor literally heard me being robbed when I was 8 and did absolutely nothing.

    • @Prayeveryday99.
      @Prayeveryday99. 2 года назад +1

      I am so sorry may God bless your heart and soul to heal 🙏🏾🤍😭

    • @elsiem7295
      @elsiem7295 2 года назад +2

      @@Prayeveryday99. thank you, it was me and my entire family and we were held hostage in our own home by men with guns and the neighbor HEARD EVERYTHING, our houses were literally attached and they did absolutely nothing! But I remember as a kid, they would tell on me like kicking dirt in the backyard lol people just not shit but thank you so much I appreciate your support very much ❣️

  • @potatoesandpickles
    @potatoesandpickles 2 года назад +5

    There’s nothing more sad to me than to see a beautiful woman getting abused. It is so sad to me. Praying this beautiful woman draws strength before it’s too late. You can get help and out. You can be happy again. Love yourself. Especially if you have kids! Go! Go now!

  • @thatsthat2612
    @thatsthat2612 3 года назад +1281

    Me and my husband can go through each others phones whenever we like with zero issue. If your partner flinches when you touch their phone then you dont need to go through it to get an answer.

    • @dittysoprettypussy7874
      @dittysoprettypussy7874 3 года назад +60

      Factz💯💯

    • @9290SC
      @9290SC 3 года назад +41

      There it is!

    • @miguelreyes8477
      @miguelreyes8477 3 года назад +45

      Cause going through some ones phone stops domestic violence..got it!

    • @thatsthat2612
      @thatsthat2612 3 года назад +67

      @@daniel87 no thats your husband 😁

    • @FlabbyAbi
      @FlabbyAbi 3 года назад +12

      Not always. Sometimes you flinch because they're specifically looking for the evidence of their violence towards you that you secretly sent to a friend 👀

  • @KC77OU812
    @KC77OU812 2 года назад +334

    The stupid lawyer said police went out of their way to see if she had any injuries?? Umm no, they were doing their job and making sure she was ok.

    • @Lanscop08
      @Lanscop08 2 года назад +12

      Ya, and what they fail to realize is, if we don't keep asking that question and he would kill her it's on us for not doing our jobs.

    • @astronauttheoceangod2357
      @astronauttheoceangod2357 2 года назад +3

      @@Lanscop08 dude what are you trying to say?

    • @khairo6380
      @khairo6380 2 года назад +8

      I don’t think they went out of their way at all but he’s trying to defend his (obviously guilty) client by saying the police didn’t find any concrete evidence.

    • @jaybron5795
      @jaybron5795 2 года назад +1

      For once they where doing there job

    • @myell9933
      @myell9933 2 года назад +2

      @@jaybron5795 for once? Gfy

  • @tedwards4945
    @tedwards4945 2 года назад +10

    😔 been there before just glad God protected me and gave me signs to leave. Praying for all victims even the abusers that were once abused themselves.

  • @cassaundrapress4470
    @cassaundrapress4470 Год назад +2

    As someone who's been through it... The abuse gets much worse when you leave which is why it's not that easy to leave. Unless you've fucking been through it, don't put your two cents in about "why don't you just leave?"... It's not as easy as that. Trust and believe.

  • @davidrogers4922
    @davidrogers4922 2 года назад +367

    I wonder why these guys get into these relationships. Just stay singl and be with multiple women if that's what you want.

    • @davidrogers4922
      @davidrogers4922 2 года назад +4

      @Fonxa_Ltd0007 Yes could be

    • @uPSIDEdOWN577
      @uPSIDEdOWN577 2 года назад +17

      I wonder how women date and even defend them. These type of men have no trouble at all when it comes to dating.

    • @unofficialbeautyqueen6624
      @unofficialbeautyqueen6624 2 года назад +17

      @@uPSIDEdOWN577 low self esteem

    • @msb562
      @msb562 2 года назад +13

      They will still beat multiple women.
      A man that hit women needs professional help.

    • @vshprlfc5095
      @vshprlfc5095 2 года назад +2

      Maybe they should try being more self-aware?

  • @offmask9425
    @offmask9425 2 года назад +515

    As a man that was physically abused by my exgirI friend I walked away completely . It is not worth the destruction. Simply walk way for good.

    • @offmask9425
      @offmask9425 2 года назад +46

      @E Kkkk
      Any chick that raises their hands on you, gotta go. (0 respect, )I’m not with the shitS! I’m gone.

    • @biancat7761
      @biancat7761 2 года назад +35

      @@offmask9425 don't listen to the victim blamers. I'm glad you were able to walk away from domestic violence. But it takes victims on average 7 times to walk away for good. It's not as simple as it was for you. Everyone is different.
      Don't victim blame other people, especially women. Please. And we'll done for leaving

    • @offmask9425
      @offmask9425 2 года назад +25

      U and i come from two different world, off course u can NEVER relate.
      Im a man of God and I’ll definitely choose peace over any toxic relationship

    • @offmask9425
      @offmask9425 2 года назад +12

      I’ll pray for you. Healing is on the way. You need it. Only Cowards put their hands on a woman

    • @sunnyxp4681
      @sunnyxp4681 2 года назад +5

      @E Kkkk you obviously haven't been in an abusive relationship so ur opinion doesn't really matter. Shut up

  • @sbss924
    @sbss924 2 года назад +2

    Thank you neighbor for calling the police. Thank you for getting involved. Thank you for not thinking "someone else will call" !!!!

  • @WakeAndBakeWithUncleRay
    @WakeAndBakeWithUncleRay 2 года назад +4

    Counseling is nothing to be ashamed of, as we all need help outside of ourselves sometimes.

  • @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot
    @ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot 5 лет назад +549

    Why even go through his Phone though? If he's cheating, leave!

    • @nawlinsbloggin2433
      @nawlinsbloggin2433 4 года назад +18

      Queen of Scorpio and I bet they are still together

    • @sammichuwu5673
      @sammichuwu5673 4 года назад +32

      thats probably why..? if she thinks he is due to obvious signs but has no full on proof then id be going through his phone too

    • @alianaweston2286
      @alianaweston2286 3 года назад +62

      Victim blaming is so cool!

    • @ulquiorra3104
      @ulquiorra3104 3 года назад +18

      The money is good. Alot of women will put up with the cheating or violence for security in these cases. Ray rice, this nigga, floyd Mayweather, nigga who yoked up baby mama at the game court side long list of bitches who get that work done to them for security

    • @yolandawilson6619
      @yolandawilson6619 3 года назад +1

      @@sammichuwu5673 Exactly!!

  • @jahyute1000
    @jahyute1000 2 года назад +76

    No amount of money is worth staying in an abusive relationship

    • @Ebony_
      @Ebony_ 2 года назад +5

      I've been there and so have many others. It ain't about money every time you see this with someone who has it. Also, no amount of money should make a man feel ok being a monster.

    • @meliamedaverman3558
      @meliamedaverman3558 2 года назад +2

      @@Ebony_ right, I was in DV relationship for 5 years and the dude had no money and I couldn't leave nor tell the cops cos I feared Him....

  • @sxiwoo4770
    @sxiwoo4770 2 года назад +4

    do not put your hands on your partner, and invade their privacy, it's wrong.
    Abuse is not okay.

  • @jessiahwilson8298
    @jessiahwilson8298 Год назад

    Nightbeat Studio?

  • @4islandbeauty
    @4islandbeauty 3 года назад +491

    What people don't realize about DV survivors is that their life is on the line when the police or anyone intervenes, they fear for their lives and the lives of their loved ones including their abusers. Sometimes psychologically theyre trained to say everything is okay to appease the abuser just to ease trouble because trust once any help leaves the abuser gets more enraged and the cycle continues. Once they have the courage to leave and say enough is enough will be the day that this stops. Until then the cycle continues sometimes leading to their own death.

    • @4KimballGlaspie
      @4KimballGlaspie 2 года назад +21

      Not completely true. If they ignore the warning signs, things get worse. Which means, by the time they feel the courage to leave, the abusive partner becomes more dangerous. Ask those who work and volunteer with DV victims: when you try to leave, THAT'S when its typically more dangerous, often more deadly.
      Everytime someone says "pay attention to the signs, increase your self worth, avoid these partners or leave before it gets bad", its called "victim blaming". So I guess making smarter dating choices is not a smart thing to tell girls or women.🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sidjones16
      @sidjones16 2 года назад +1

      There is NO EVIDENCE OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. 1:51

    • @KT-pw1cq
      @KT-pw1cq 2 года назад +7

      @@4KimballGlaspie agree. I’m very sure if I didn’t leave my ex early on and strategically I probably would be dead of the situation would have got worse. By the grace of God I’m alive. And leaving is NOT easy. I still think about reconciling things till this day (it’s been recent the breakup ) I’m honestly embarrassed to admit this. BUT I know my life is at stake and I have to forget the what if and keep the strength. I also have a counselor as well. A lot of people don’t leave because they don’t have a healthy guidance early on.

    • @justincarlozmaxino1100
      @justincarlozmaxino1100 2 года назад +1

      Yeah they have no agency its all mind control... so much for being strong and independent

    • @lalalovengun
      @lalalovengun 2 года назад +2

      But it’s when they leave is when it’s the most dangerous!!!

  • @iamricegod9193
    @iamricegod9193 2 года назад +1

    I came to the conclusion, this world does not need defense attorneys lmao

  • @muhu9343
    @muhu9343 2 года назад +2

    First of all, train yourself to be a calm person. If you cannot control your emotions, somebody else is gonna do that for you. Second, train yourself to be able to leave anyone who will agitate you.

  • @lexie02jones25
    @lexie02jones25 2 года назад +55

    Even the way she's breathing hard can tell that she was abused or in a dangerous situation

  • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
    @tanikanakeyalewis4202 2 года назад +116

    All Hits do not include Bruises, and all Bruises do not include Intense Pigmentation. 😶.

    • @renelizabeth9290
      @renelizabeth9290 2 года назад +8

      EXACTLY. MY EX PHYSICALLY ABUSED ME AND LEFT NO MARK!!! Women shouldn't have to explain themselves. Tired of it.

    • @tanikanakeyalewis4202
      @tanikanakeyalewis4202 2 года назад

      @@renelizabeth9290, I Disagree. However, Males that Authentically Comprehend that "It's a Man's World" should Empathize with Females, while being Empowering, and Empowered to Support also Males, by Intellect that includes Knowledge that few Males are Abused, especially Physically, and Comprehension of Why not. 😶.

  • @D-Town.313
    @D-Town.313 2 года назад +3

    I'm not saying he didn't possibly hit her or anything however it was said she went through his phone which means she started this whole mess and let's be real...don't act like women are not aggressive and are abusers as well!

  • @A.Love.language
    @A.Love.language 2 года назад +1

    You could hear someone saying "get out!" It sounded like him but not 100% sure. Are his other DV charges for harming the same partner in vid

  • @vilee1877
    @vilee1877 2 года назад +301

    People who understand how trauma-bonding works would know exactly why shit like this happens in any abusive relationship. Try understanding the depth of situations before jumping to conclusions and being judgemental smh.

    • @krismckenzie3205
      @krismckenzie3205 2 года назад +28

      This is the best comment yet. It's easy to cast judgment on a situation from the outside looking in. But how different it is from the inside looking out.

    • @vonn4388
      @vonn4388 2 года назад +23

      I’m a trauma survivor, ( not victim) after 7 years. Your love and hope is embedded with fear and survival, so deeply it’s a brain washing. Takes therapy, group and alone, to survive adfterwards. It WILL effect every male relationship for the rest of your life. It’s deep. You don’t understand any trauma if you’ve never been thru it. You’re left with triggers as mental scars that you have to treat forever and without therapy they aren’t evident. Philadelphia had a group in the mid eighties called W.O.A.R. that helped me. I was the youngest amongst these battle scarred women of all races. Their messages more than any others got me out and whole again. Most of us don’t make it. Praying for her. This was me in 83’

    • @ricardoalas743
      @ricardoalas743 2 года назад +1

      Trauma bonding this the same in Spanish it hurts but is good

    • @khairo6380
      @khairo6380 2 года назад +15

      Nah they’d rather blame her for being a victim of abuse and not the 6’6” football player repeatedly pummeling her and not going to therapy.

    • @halleeambrose9359
      @halleeambrose9359 2 года назад +10

      Very true I stayed with my abuser for years and people don’t understand why but it’s so deep unless you have been through it then you wouldn’t understand

  • @kellyk9703
    @kellyk9703 2 года назад +83

    That neighbour just saved the lady, it could have ended in tragedy

  • @captraykelly
    @captraykelly 2 года назад

    Great reporting.

  • @Maggiewuvsrufus
    @Maggiewuvsrufus 2 года назад

    Bless neighbors who help u

  • @Rainjojo
    @Rainjojo 2 года назад +58

    No matter what gender you are, it’s never okay to abuse someone like this and straight up control them as if they aren’t human. This is one of the reasons why I prefer being alone than being with another man/woman who’s only going to use me 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @georgia8592
      @georgia8592 2 года назад

      💗

    • @loveyb3347
      @loveyb3347 2 года назад +2

      But the story isnt about a woman. Lets keep it on him bc she didnt do a thing

    • @mlgmcdonaldsland7063
      @mlgmcdonaldsland7063 Год назад

      No matter what gender it's not okay to act like such a insufferable psycho that you provoke your partner into hitting you

    • @Turntuppusha
      @Turntuppusha 9 месяцев назад

      Every women who gets told not to wheee some slutty outside be like “ he’s controlling me he’s abusive to they single toxic little loser friends who thrive on drama lol

  • @timeisnow4116
    @timeisnow4116 2 года назад +200

    The sounds of her crying while getting beaten, will haunt me for a while. This man is a monster, I will pray that she gathers the strength to leave, I’m sure he’s beaten her down emotionally too, and I pray for the Lord to restore her strength.

    • @joycewoodruff5421
      @joycewoodruff5421 2 года назад +14

      Sounded like him screaming saying get out.

    • @bolajimicheal1974
      @bolajimicheal1974 2 года назад +10

      Man shut your bitch ass up. Always quick to tag men as monsters and what not. There was no evidence of violence,just loud arguments

    • @timeisnow4116
      @timeisnow4116 2 года назад +32

      @@bolajimicheal1974 spoken like a true women beater, thank you for helping me prove my point sir.

    • @aichejaye363
      @aichejaye363 2 года назад +9

      OMG...you heard physical contact from that video? Will haunt you forever? RUclips Karen....smh

    • @gregorywash8650
      @gregorywash8650 2 года назад +6

      @@bolajimicheal1974 Thank you for stating the facts my brother!!!!!! These types of antisocial personality behavioral individuals that love to label men as monster and they themselves are the true monster's all along!!!!

  • @alexis-jeannoble5394
    @alexis-jeannoble5394 2 года назад

    Thank you for calling the police.

  • @Sovnarkom
    @Sovnarkom 2 года назад +2

    I normally mind my business when there’s a fight … but there’s a difference between a fight and an assault.

  • @God.sDaughter
    @God.sDaughter 3 года назад +225

    This is why I’m afraid of men sometimes.

    • @nym9045
      @nym9045 2 года назад +40

      trust no dude. it will save your life

    • @detectivequackers6030
      @detectivequackers6030 2 года назад +39

      It’s cause most women don’t choose the nice guy and wonder why they have a such a bad experience in a relationship

    • @God.sDaughter
      @God.sDaughter 2 года назад +16

      @@detectivequackers6030
      Lol. With a guy calling himself “Simp Security.”
      🤣.
      How much money did you waste on Women’s patreon page and fan page?

    • @detectivequackers6030
      @detectivequackers6030 2 года назад +8

      @@God.sDaughter I’m always nice to women and they just reject me and choose the jock douche with muscle

    • @detectivequackers6030
      @detectivequackers6030 2 года назад +9

      @@God.sDaughter Also I don’t have much money if I did I’d be surrounded by women

  • @jazzybae2914
    @jazzybae2914 2 года назад +427

    Sometimes women stay in relationships like that because they either don’t have a home to go back to , or they just don’t wanna let go of that lifestyle where they are given money, some sorts of lavish gifts, or being flown out on vacations to makeup for the abuse and trauma they have been going through ..

    • @emilybrown7224
      @emilybrown7224 2 года назад +85

      Not even . Sometimes they literally have nothing to go back to. Abusers usually isolate you from everyone

    • @izl1104
      @izl1104 2 года назад +33

      I wouldn't call that a lavish lifestyle.

    • @xxxten17glo12
      @xxxten17glo12 2 года назад +14

      No they stay because they’re happy. And don’t argue it. An unhappy or uncomfortable person escapes this is a fact. You can leave your parents home out of anger to go hang with friends but now all of a sudden you’re not able? They choose to stay. You can deny it. But the fact is they won’t leave not for money fame or anything aside from enjoying where they are. Stop thinking all humans want happiness and peace. Be realistic 8 billion people not all believe in being kind or loving god so why would all believe in peace safety and happiness. Stop making excuses for people who don’t make excuses for their own selves

    • @jazzybae2914
      @jazzybae2914 2 года назад +23

      @@xxxten17glo12 getting beat on and given money is not true happiness and if it is you are ill in the head

    • @Emma_madison
      @Emma_madison 2 года назад +10

      @@izl1104 Trust me, most stay for the money. I have friends who are like that.
      They clearly know the guy is abusive but they will choose him over any good guy.
      And a guy who will treat them nicely with love they call them weak.
      I say most fellow women deceive it.
      You lay your bed you go to sleep in it

  • @mr.j9303
    @mr.j9303 2 года назад +2

    Women crave "Joker & Harley Quinn" relationship until Joker slams her head against the wall....

  • @imsooshook3871
    @imsooshook3871 2 года назад +1

    Them:
    "It never got physical"
    Me:
    "Gee, I don't know, her hair kinda looks like it got pretty physical."🤨

  • @dawnaporter9932
    @dawnaporter9932 2 года назад +26

    I know he was beating her I know that face. I've been that woman. I couldn't just leave. I had an apartment in my name that I couldn't just walk away from. I had possessions that he would take and steal. I had fears of putting him in jail just for him to be bonded out and come after me and my kids. I have no family to live with or run to. This is why regardless of how old my daughter is or what decisions she makes. She will know she can ALWAYS come home and NEVER compromise her integrity. I pray she leaves and NEVER looks back.

  • @DaxSports1
    @DaxSports1 2 года назад +23

    "The police went out of their way to see if there was any violence."
    It's almost as if that's their job.....

  • @borngentleman6733
    @borngentleman6733 Год назад +2

    Still many men out here have the audacity to ask to withdraw the women favourable laws from constitution....

  • @dal0768
    @dal0768 2 года назад +2

    She won’t leave him, he’s her meal ticket… sad but true.

  • @tasha_111_
    @tasha_111_ 3 года назад +62

    Domestic violence is in a way like a disease such as drug addiction.. you can’t want something for a person more than they do.. until they are READY to leave a bad and abusive situation/relationships there is nothing anyone else can do.. Victims being scared of their abusers is what keeps the abuser in control and out of jail 💯💯💯 I hope she makes it out ALIVE...🙏🙏🙏

    • @dennyosifo5982
      @dennyosifo5982 2 года назад

      I hope she doesn’t, he was defending himself she looks like she was trying to kill him, he was fearful for his life

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 2 года назад +58

    Tragic 😥 😔...She needs Therapy to help her realize she deserves better.

  • @DJDeezyThaTruth
    @DJDeezyThaTruth 2 года назад +1

    -I Think She’s Making Her Self Feel Like “She Deserved It” …Or He Has Her Thinking That. I’ve Heard The Whole “Going Threw His Phone” Story Before That Lead To Guys Acting Out.
    She’s “Riding Her Guilt” Or Looking At That To Justify His Actions

  • @chrishemsworth5625
    @chrishemsworth5625 3 месяца назад +1

    No woman needs to be treated like that

  • @ziggymorris8760
    @ziggymorris8760 5 лет назад +86

    “Went out of their way.”
    That is standard procedure in a domestic violence case so there is proof of violence.

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 2 года назад +35

    Even if he did have other woman on his phone, just pick up your stuff and leave. If she doesn't leave she might be on the news for another reason.

  • @justice316
    @justice316 Год назад +1

    He’s despicable! Men like that should be locked up!

  • @jennifervang7006
    @jennifervang7006 2 года назад +1

    You know he’s abusive when he’s confident to say “talk to em”

  • @stllda909
    @stllda909 2 года назад +107

    Hopefully he doesn't kill her before she gets out. You know she's sticking around for the money.

    • @happyemoji6553
      @happyemoji6553 2 года назад +18

      If she values money over her safety and well-being, then she deserves what happens to her. Having a caring and a loving person will keep her safe not a privileged abuser that doesn’t value her or her life.

    • @engineergirl6869
      @engineergirl6869 2 года назад +14

      Wow humans these days. She deserves it? We KNOW ? May life be kinder to you two than you have been to others.

    • @engineergirl6869
      @engineergirl6869 2 года назад +1

      @Carb Snobler mouth wide open …..-_-

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 2 года назад

      Maybe she wanted to kill him

    • @Emma_madison
      @Emma_madison 2 года назад

      @Carb Snobler ikr

  • @kirakira8402
    @kirakira8402 2 года назад +26

    I feel so bad for her, she was probably too scared of him to say anything

    • @spence_903
      @spence_903 Год назад

      yeah u would be as.well
      dude like 6'2. 230+ and strong asf

  • @Neddie2k
    @Neddie2k 2 года назад +1

    Man or woman, if you can’t get along without violence verbal or physical, walk way, before one person ends up dead.

  • @indiam1472
    @indiam1472 2 года назад +1

    According to the so-called law. There have to be some kind of cut scarring or bruised in order to prove that you're being abused

  • @judyh9827
    @judyh9827 2 года назад +19

    As a survivor of domestic violence this makes me sad. If she feel threatened in any way or promises by her abuser that it will never happen again she will drop all charges.. been there done that. Sad thing is she will have to be 100% ready to follow through w any & all charges. I pray that she will have friends/family to support her so she can and will prosecute this man!!

  • @lashaunjones4822
    @lashaunjones4822 2 года назад +31

    I been through this & it's no joke I even tried multiple times leaving & some how he finds me, I was so scared for my life but thank the Lord he's now in prison & I was able to take my run from him...... .

    • @kingofhaiti123
      @kingofhaiti123 2 года назад

      You don't have any males in your family?

    • @kingofhaiti123
      @kingofhaiti123 2 года назад +1

      @E Kkkk who tf said anything about a fight, if any female in my family was in a domestic situation best believe I'm pullin up and it's def not to fight my guy

    • @videogamegusto7852
      @videogamegusto7852 2 года назад

      Gullllll

    • @tashamack8701
      @tashamack8701 2 года назад

      I am glad you was able to get away from him. Thank god he is locked up. I hate to hear about a man putting his hands on a woman.

  • @tdunn2
    @tdunn2 2 года назад +9

    Why would you stay with someone that either abuses you…or, someone that claims you abuse them. Both are inviting a world of pain into their lives. Baffling.

    • @amandah5478
      @amandah5478 2 года назад +3

      Trauma bonding. Similar to Stockholm syndrome. But for me. I didn't leave because I was terrified. He threatened to kill me. He threatened to kill my family. I believed him.

    • @mrmiykael
      @mrmiykael 2 года назад +3

      She like that money. That's why it's hard for me to sympathize with her.

    • @tdunn2
      @tdunn2 2 года назад +2

      @@mrmiykael I don’t know her, personally but I could see how that could be part of it. She might actually genuinely love the dude, too, and therefore rationalize or overlook some of the shit that’s happening. (Assuming the reports of him being the perpetrator are accurate)

    • @liggmabawls5634
      @liggmabawls5634 2 года назад

      @@tdunn2 nah I don’t buy that shit for a minute. If my partner or family tries to hurt me, I wouldn’t be around them. People who stick around have no one to blame but themselves. Accountability is lacking in our world

    • @mrmiykael
      @mrmiykael 2 года назад +2

      @@tdunn2 put it like this...would she go through that bullshit if she had the fame and the money and he didn't?🤔

  • @greentooth3097
    @greentooth3097 2 года назад

    Why are we automatically assuming that he's the bad one? I want to know what she did.

  • @bellford7067
    @bellford7067 3 года назад +106

    Can't help those who don't want help

    • @user-bd9sf9qz2i
      @user-bd9sf9qz2i 3 года назад +29

      Don’t want help my ass, they’re scared that they will be acquitted and kill them.

    • @Feber2001
      @Feber2001 3 года назад +4

      @@user-bd9sf9qz2i This.^

    • @5iveb1
      @5iveb1 3 года назад +9

      she wants help that’s why she said everything not ok but she’s scared, he’s gonna beat her up again if she even talk..

    • @HippieEraTV
      @HippieEraTV 3 года назад +7

      @I know I’m going to sound gay when I say this but a good position? she's getting her ass beat on the daily. what's good about that?

    • @HippieEraTV
      @HippieEraTV 3 года назад +1

      @I know I’m going to sound gay when I say this but not everything is a set up for another r kelly movie

  • @JacquelynNhi
    @JacquelynNhi 2 года назад +25

    You have to have some serious issues to be this big and strong yet still feel the need to beat a woman. She came outside like he had just been beating the shit out of her.

  • @josephringling769
    @josephringling769 2 года назад +1

    That's sad. I dont care how much you think a woman is nagging you, or verbally attacking you, or even if she attempts to lay hands on you, a man should never put his hands on a woman. It's sad that her first instinct is to stick up for him and downplay the domestic violence. A man that hits a woman doesn't just change. He may be ok for a little while but that side will always come back when triggered.

  • @mariuskuhrau761
    @mariuskuhrau761 2 года назад +1

    Damm, that lawyer said that they could not find any evidence of domestic abuse. Are they blind because a close up of that womans face, clearly shows visible marks on her face and neck. This woman needs to get out of this relationship before things really turns nasty or worse.

  • @theelite2625
    @theelite2625 2 года назад +46

    He’s yelling to her to “get out” she’s refusing to leave! But she’s feels endanger I don’t understand

    • @uselessuseless111
      @uselessuseless111 2 года назад +6

      She was lying.thats why. He just wanted her ass out.

    • @mannarmylie4195
      @mannarmylie4195 2 года назад +3

      She didnt want to leave that CHECK.

    • @Jen-xm9bp
      @Jen-xm9bp 2 года назад +2

      Still doenst give someone the right to put they hands on somebody or be extremely aggressive towards another woman at all.

    • @xxxten17glo12
      @xxxten17glo12 2 года назад +8

      He should’ve called the police on her and made her leave. Don’t argue with any person don’t harm them let the police do their job they will escort them out.

    • @emilymurphy30
      @emilymurphy30 2 года назад

      Exactly

  • @facecy1427
    @facecy1427 2 года назад +33

    The 911 caller stated, something like sounds as though a girl's head is getting banged into a wall. You can clearly hear him screaming at the top of his lungs. Why the heck do police initially interview them at the same ? They should have immediately separated them far from each other. Been there done that. It pisses me off. Wtf do they think she's going to say? Argh !!!

  • @zoelife7272
    @zoelife7272 2 года назад

    i greatly understand and empathise with persons being abused and with battered syndrome.
    been around a while, and have sadly encountered many a case that remains protracted because the victim is hopeful and optimistic about realizing long term gain. have heard it come from their own lips, and have had to sit back in consternation and helplessness.

  • @Levi-cx2to
    @Levi-cx2to 2 года назад

    Where is Mr. Foster now?

  • @ImaCrazyRobot
    @ImaCrazyRobot 2 года назад +28

    It takes a lot for some women to finally leave. Or even realize something is wrong

  • @tinagillispie6392
    @tinagillispie6392 2 года назад +13

    How can this man have everything and still be so discontent to harm his partner?

    • @bebe8842
      @bebe8842 2 года назад +4

      Narcissists, psychopaths, mental people never satisfied or happy with anything or anyone in their lives.
      Garbage people who are only after destruction.

    • @lettucepreeysports1141
      @lettucepreeysports1141 2 года назад +2

      Plus he's not held accountable for his actions. He was arrested again and is still playing for another NFL team...that's society telling him it's ok to do what's he's doing. MAYBE once he loses it all. He'll realize he needs to change.

    • @FirstNameLastName-pg8rw
      @FirstNameLastName-pg8rw 2 года назад +1

      He’s a weak man. Probably his upbringing.

  • @ryunny8983
    @ryunny8983 2 года назад +1

    Don't Ever Forget That You Are Special

  • @davidwilsonsr9865
    @davidwilsonsr9865 2 года назад

    They said it never got physical so why even go as far as taking pictures when you clearly see no injuries

  • @bossblck6399
    @bossblck6399 2 года назад +41

    I heard him screaming at her to get out. This the same girl who followed him to Tampa and called the cops when she saw him at the Telly with another woman smh

    • @miscomisco305
      @miscomisco305 2 года назад +5

      Thank you for stating that, because now a days not all the time are the females the victim or innocent.

    • @traciemartin3785
      @traciemartin3785 2 года назад +3

      @@miscomisco305 Thank you! Unfortunately, in many cases, men are automatically blamed and arrested. The case where Lil' Bow Wow had very evident scratches & bruises on him, he was still arrested along with the female & she had not even a small scratch on her. It seems they didn't have much interest in his version of events. I don't know much about the incident on this video, but I have seen so many cases where the man automatically gets arrested, even though he is actually the victim. On many occassions the system is biased. Sometimes, women are the aggressor and then THEY call the cops on the man simply because they were upset about him moving on with another female or the man no longer desires to be with them. Sad, but facts.

    • @miscomisco305
      @miscomisco305 2 года назад +5

      @@traciemartin3785 EXACTLY 🙌🏽. And in this case that is exactly what it is. He has moved on and she has been caught lying several times before on him that his team got involved. And she wants to ruin his career and life because he doesn't want her. She is being paid to do interviews and plans on going after him for money. This video is old and had any of these people in the comments did they research instead of jumping to conclusions or bringing their own bias views into it they would know he is still play and this faded away like her lies.

    • @traciemartin3785
      @traciemartin3785 2 года назад +4

      @@miscomisco305 Oh, wow! I am so happy to hear that he has moved on! I hope she has or will, also. Prayerfully & hopefully, he will leave women alone for awhile and focus on his career and dreams. I pray he doesn't repeat the cycle of placing himself in positions to where he can ruin his chances. I also pray he succeeds in the near future. Thank you for sharing the information you have researched. God bless you and yours always, dear. 😊🙏

    • @miscomisco305
      @miscomisco305 2 года назад +1

      @@traciemartin3785 Your welcome. I just hate that too often people are just so ready to bash people without knowing the full truth. I hope and pray he has learned his lesson and continues to elevate from it. I saw a comment about trauma bonding and that's exactly what it was. I pray they both get the healing they need.

  • @Mar-vl2vt
    @Mar-vl2vt 2 года назад +16

    Why can’t couples never be happy and why can’t Mfs never keep they hands to they self and talk it out 😭

  • @twt9623
    @twt9623 2 года назад

    Remember this from the start.
    If you can not talk about it and come to a agreement.
    END IT.
    Because you will never be able to talk about it.

  • @Duk3Silv3r
    @Duk3Silv3r 2 года назад +1

    And he's gonna keep going upside her head until she gets the message. Lol

  • @beardgangdenzel
    @beardgangdenzel 2 года назад +34

    It seems like football players have some form of domestic battery than any sports crazy 😧

    • @FONZY34
      @FONZY34 2 года назад +1

      I was going to say that, another NFL player beating up on his girl, SMH

    • @FONZY34
      @FONZY34 2 года назад

      At least Hockey players will ask them first, " hey do you wanna go ?" 😆😆😆