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Police Release Body Cam Footage of Reuben Foster Domestic Incident

  • Published on Dec 6, 2018
  • The video from Oct. 12 shows Reuben Foster and Elissa Ennis admitting to officers they were arguing but insisting it never elevated to violence. Maria Medina reports (12-7-18)

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  • 12GaugePadawan
    12GaugePadawan Year ago +3650

    She may think she’s protecting him and being loyal, but all she’s is doing is putting herself in danger. 😔 It always gets worse. Get out and get help while you can.

    • Jordan Flores
      Jordan Flores Month ago

      @KENZO if their outta line yup

    • Janet Brown
      Janet Brown 2 months ago

      @Erin Jones I know lots of abusers..adulterers..liars and thieves who follow religion.

    • Jay Jay
      Jay Jay 2 months ago

      Domestic abusers, especially when it's black on black crime, they don't get the sentence that they're supposed to get, they'll just come back out and move in for the kill anyway 😓

    • mlg mcdonalds land
      mlg mcdonalds land 3 months ago

      What did she do to deserve it

    • K B
      K B 3 months ago

      @king Frozt a lot of women are murder when trying to leave.

  • Melissa Perez
    Melissa Perez 9 months ago +1862

    Teach your daughters to love themselves and that they deserve to be respected. Teach them that an abusive man who wishes to lay hands on them is actually an ENEMY and not a friend.

    • Lola Is Pure
      Lola Is Pure Month ago

      No. Its lack of self love stop spreading hsrmful misinformation.

    • Jordan Flores
      Jordan Flores Month ago

      Teach your daughters to nvr step to a man unless they wanna deal with repercussions of a man teach your daughter to chill on that equality talk unless you really mean it teach them to not antagonize a man and push his buttons teach them to be a lady not feminist with an attitude

    • jazzy j
      jazzy j 2 months ago

      Teach guys to stop thinking they own women.

    • Believe
      Believe 2 months ago

      @kiss me having a standard isn't allowing abuse.. Everyone has standards bruh..you bringing height into this is irrelevant..I'm sorry you're being messed up piece of shit right now, but does that make it ok to hit you in the face? No.

    • kiss me
      kiss me 2 months ago

      @Believe Right to get abused? You do have the right to get abused by tall men because you allow it.

  • sixele
    sixele 7 months ago +438

    “no everything is not ok” absolutely broke my heart. I hope she has gotten away from him♥️

    • Chris C
      Chris C 2 months ago

      @Adreanna lol. He/she is probably not even Hispanic.

    • reallyspecific123
      reallyspecific123 5 months ago +2

      @Rick Val that’s.. definitely NOT how it is. it’s just a bunch of machismo, but they don’t only “discipline” women. why would you even call that discipline? 💀

    • baby bleu
      baby bleu 5 months ago

      @Rick Val Definitely not stupid but I don't beat around the bushes either, I say exactly what I mean. So since you know so much come educate the rest of us, say it with your chest, otherwise shut your shit mouth.

    • Rick Val
      Rick Val 5 months ago

      @baby bleu I'm sure you're not stupid, 2+2=4

    • baby bleu
      baby bleu 5 months ago

      @Rick Val These are two black people, so you're saying that to say what exactly? please exactly.

  • Ana Ice
    Ana Ice 9 months ago +303

    I went through this. My ex was so evil when he got upset, the yelling to the top of his lungs. It can become normal to you honestly I know that’s sad but it’s true, once I started dating someone else a really good guy I quickly noticed how not normal it is for your partner to yell at you for any reason. It’s crazy the way abusive relationships warp your mind. I hope she gets out 👍🏽

  • VK
    VK 9 months ago +184

    Domestic abuse isn't always visible as in cuts and bruises. Mental and emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, you just can't see it.

  • Pat Frazier
    Pat Frazier Year ago +8689

    It never gets better, it only gets worst until someone loses their life.

      BLAQUE QUEEN 5 months ago

      That part😒

    • Nadia’a World 🫶🏾
      Nadia’a World 🫶🏾 7 months ago

      @Astrea A neither one of them acted like a gangster. Don’t @ me in shit else you worthless ass hole.

    • Vera Kitten
      Vera Kitten 7 months ago

      @Ana sitting there and blaming a victim for not leaving is not helping them! Women DIE from abuse women DIE from leaving! There was a women who was murdered by her ex husband in front of there children because she escaped his abuse and nobody would help them. They could be trapped because there abuser threatened them there family there children or there friends they could be trapped because unfortunately people like you would rather blame the victim instead of ACTUALLY helping them. Don’t reply to me again I don’t want to loose anymore braincells reading this bs you abominable shit goblin.

    • Ana
      Ana 7 months ago

      @Vera Kitten Okay people will stop asking abused women why they don't leave, let those women stay with the abuser and the rest of us will continue with our lives. Does that satisfy you?
      Women are supposed to INITIATE a change in their lives, not expect miracles to happen, they need to have the wish and will to leave and seek immediate help from authorities. Saying this shouldn't be advised to them is silly, do you want to be advised to not do anything? Continue to suffer? Go ahead.

    • Erin Jones
      Erin Jones 7 months ago

      Until people give their hearts and lives over to JESUS CHRIST this world will always be a sinful and a heartless nation. The reason GOD is being patient with us is because GOD knows what hell looks like and feels like. You all should start listening to Pastor Gino Jennings on youtube he preach the truth and don't sugarcoat nothing

  • Mom Tingz
    Mom Tingz 9 months ago +96

    Omg 🥺 Her hard breathing, hair all over it was definitely physical. Abusers KNOW where to hit and not leave visible marks

  • Lexie02 Jones
    Lexie02 Jones 9 months ago +54

    Even the way she's breathing hard can tell that she was abused or in a dangerous situation

  • Matt Hurley
    Matt Hurley 6 months ago +6

    It’s sad when one team drops you over domestic violence or crimes,and another snatches you right up…🙄🤬

  • Lynette Hall
    Lynette Hall 8 months ago +18

    I can recall the amount of fear that keeps you in this type of situation. I will never forget the nurses and officers who convinced me to walk away from that environment.🙏🏿

  • Coley227
    Coley227 6 months ago +5

    There’s nothing more sad to me than to see a beautiful woman getting abused. It is so sad to me. Praying this beautiful woman draws strength before it’s too late. You can get help and out. You can be happy again. Love yourself. Especially if you have kids! Go! Go now!

  • Ramona Harris
    Ramona Harris 9 months ago +11

    We need to stop making exceptions for people who break the law.


    I was in an abusive relationship at 17 until i was almost 19. I remember locking him out and he busted through the window to get to me. The police was called and when they asked "did he hit you" i lied and said no. I should've been honest. But what's crazy is after i finally left him, i ran into the police officer that was at my house and he remembered me. He said "tell the truth, ur boyfriend did hit u didn't he" and i said yes. He looked disappointed i didn't have him arrested

  • MrLoveToDebate
    MrLoveToDebate 9 months ago +57

    It baffles me to see a man put his hands on a woman, a real God fearing man would never do that PERIOD. No matter how bad the argument gets.

    • Liggma Bawls
      Liggma Bawls 7 months ago

      @First Name I refuse to be delusional. People don’t get hit for no reason.

    • First Name
      First Name 7 months ago

      @Liggma Bawls Youre obviously reaching. Stop trying to justify men hitting women and children.

    • Liggma Bawls
      Liggma Bawls 8 months ago

      @Shauntee Desiree wrong. If someone raped your daughter, drowned your kids, etc etc. you wouldn’t be saying that

    • Shauntee Desiree
      Shauntee Desiree 8 months ago +2

      @Liggma Bawls putting your hands on someone is reserved only for self defense. Period! Ass whooping is barbaric

    • Potent Spirit
      Potent Spirit 9 months ago +1

      @Liggma Bawls you don’t believe in Yahweh but have an understanding of Satan and his meaning. That’s whats wrong with society, not understanding you cannot have yin without yang. There is no evil without goodness. Duality of man has been the est of life

  • Wait, what???
    Wait, what??? 10 months ago +3261

    It never got physical? She came out breathless, crying and looking like she'd been in a fight.

    • Jonathan Gonzalez
      Jonathan Gonzalez 2 months ago

      @Boo Cline they weren’t having sex… it’s a clear abuse case why make dumb ass jokes

    • c v
      c v 3 months ago

      which DRäinink v v

    • mlg mcdonalds land
      mlg mcdonalds land 3 months ago

      That's what she gets

    • Jarquavion Hampton
      Jarquavion Hampton 3 months ago

      🤣🤣🤣 that part

    • John Pham
      John Pham 3 months ago

      I completely agree that she was being physically abused. My mom, brother and I were often abused. My mom was abused severely. Often she showed no signs.
      This is because my father knew of the consequence of marks. He would drag my mom on the ground almost everyday with her hair. Then he would throw the back of her head against a wall. You can’t see marks under the black hair. She lost a ton of hair that you can’t tell by looking.
      She is breathing the same way my mom did when abused.

  • Cassaundra Press
    Cassaundra Press 5 months ago +2

    As someone who's been through it... The abuse gets much worse when you leave which is why it's not that easy to leave. Unless you've fucking been through it, don't put your two cents in about "why don't you just leave?"... It's not as easy as that. Trust and believe.

  • Lindsay Louhoo
    Lindsay Louhoo 2 months ago

    It’s very hard to get out of abusive relationships. 2 years ago, I tried to leave an abusive relationship, but he got physical with me. I finally left MY HOME, just to get away from him. The same night, the police came to my home, kicked down the door and took him to the hospital, because he was threatening to kill himself. When I got back home, my entire house was destroyed. Never again.

  • Mina’s World
    Mina’s World 8 months ago +9

    Parents please when raising your children let them know they are enough! Make sure their self esteem is HIGH not low! Let them know they are LOVED and WORTHY!
    The abuse is out of control because these ppl don’t know their own value so they try to control others by hurting them! This man was not raised correctly because he believes what he is doing is ok and this young lady also wasn’t raised correctly because she would know her life is more valuable then what she is going through

  • Wake-🌄-And-Bake 🌿With     "Uncle Ray"

    Counseling is nothing to be ashamed of, as we all need help outside of ourselves sometimes.

  • Rainy N
    Rainy N Year ago +3768

    The neighbor deserves so much credit, too often people just "mind their own business" when lives could be lost as a result. Kudos to that kind man. I think it is apprehensible that any team would allow a repeat domestic abuser to play for their team. It's disgusting.

    • Armystrongbabe18
      Armystrongbabe18 5 months ago

      @I look into it, she lied that time as well. They had an argument over a phone (if I remember correctly it was cause she was going through his) but she lied then too. He’s had no issues since or before dating her. I’m a woman & I believe women, but I’m also realistic & have witnessed women lying about these sort of things just out of pure toxicity. If you watch her interview talking about it, she’s smiling & laughing through most of it when describing his so called “abuse” of her. I don’t doubt most women, but this one feels extremely off mentally & manipulative.

    • Addict
      Addict 5 months ago

      Why do men become abusive??

    • I
      I 5 months ago

      @Armystrongbabe18 He was arrested 8 months later for domestic violence AGAIN…. I think she said she was lying to protect him before like she already admitted

      KING CHENNY 6 months ago

      I hear my neighbors yell but I don’t know if I should call police because I’ve haven’t seen any violence just yelling so Idk what to do

    • Armystrongbabe18
      Armystrongbabe18 6 months ago +1

      @JA J Her name is Elissa Ennis, she goes back & forth on her story multiple times, it’s just sad at this point.

  • T Edwards
    T Edwards 9 months ago +8

    😔 been there before just glad God protected me and gave me signs to leave. Praying for all victims even the abusers that were once abused themselves.

  • Cynthia Houser
    Cynthia Houser 9 months ago +9

    Wow, men like that need to remember that they have a mom and they wouldn’t want a big man hurting their mother. This is so sad

    • Ed Carr
      Ed Carr 9 months ago

      Maybe his Dad would have made him different, but I doubt it.

  • Suavecito Mel
    Suavecito Mel 2 months ago

    It honestly blows my mind how when they opportunity to escape comes to your litteral door and be free, and the answer given is "everything is okay". The unfathomable amount of rage that boils into my body is beyond. But i have to understand that lust, confusion, and fear take part of that reaction.
    Women shouldnt be treated this way and it should be something that should get more recognition.

  • Sxiwoo
    Sxiwoo 7 months ago +3

    do not put your hands on your partner, and invade their privacy, it's wrong.
    Abuse is not okay.

  • Rachel Cholodenko
    Rachel Cholodenko Year ago +7336

    The way she looks at him for his permission to talk to them

    • Yatsuto
      Yatsuto Month ago

      @goofy nigga name checks out

    • Tiny Ackermen
      Tiny Ackermen 2 months ago

      @soul Jack and he has no right putting his hands on her or sneaking around or whatever he was doing. You're definitely the abuser trying to defend his actions. Let someone do that to your daughter, sister, niece, female cousin aunt, mom, your grandmother it would be a problem, right? If people keep their hands to themselves and stop harming the people they so called love, wouldn't have to worry about this.

    • Perfect Gaming
      Perfect Gaming 2 months ago

      @goofy nigga 😂

    • kiss me
      kiss me 4 months ago

      All of this is fruitless you know. Women want a 6'0"+ guy playing in the pro leagues making millions. She won't listen to you just like you won't listen to yourself when you do the same

    • Sparkle’s Treehouse
      Sparkle’s Treehouse 7 months ago

      @Fruit Punch Samurai 😭😭😭RIGHT

  • Elsie M
    Elsie M 7 months ago +3

    God bless the neighbor, my neighbor literally heard me being robbed when I was 8 and did absolutely nothing.

    • Elsie M
      Elsie M 6 months ago +2

      @GODLOVESUS thank you, it was me and my entire family and we were held hostage in our own home by men with guns and the neighbor HEARD EVERYTHING, our houses were literally attached and they did absolutely nothing! But I remember as a kid, they would tell on me like kicking dirt in the backyard lol people just not shit but thank you so much I appreciate your support very much ❣️

      GODLOVESUS 7 months ago +1

      I am so sorry may God bless your heart and soul to heal 🙏🏾🤍😭

    SISTAH SISTAH 9 months ago +2

    Thank you neighbor for calling the police. Thank you for getting involved. Thank you for not thinking "someone else will call" !!!!

  • india m
    india m 9 months ago +1

    According to the so-called law. There have to be some kind of cut scarring or bruised in order to prove that you're being abused

  • Alfonso Pereyda
    Alfonso Pereyda 9 months ago +1

    I been watching this man since Alabama hopefully he stays out of trouble

  • Jennifer
    Jennifer Year ago +2677

    “Everything is not ok” damn I know that feeling💔

    • OuyaKev
      OuyaKev 2 months ago

      Modern women love Toxic relationship.

    • Dog Beats
      Dog Beats 2 months ago +1

      Just leave end of the story it’s over why stay in a abusive relationship there is NO excuses why you can’t leave NONE

    • Evelyn Ruiz
      Evelyn Ruiz 2 months ago +1

      Hearing those exact words uttered out by her shattered me

    • Melissa Carter🦋
      Melissa Carter🦋 5 months ago +1

      Girl most of us been there unfortunately! 😢

    • Addict
      Addict 5 months ago +1

      Why do men become abusive??

  • Success X
    Success X 8 months ago

    Whether It got physical or not, we know he's emotionally and verbally abusing her and that's how he deals with accepting responsibility for cheating on her. We also know she's scared of him OBVIOUSLY. I 100% don't support an abusers team. I know very well how evil and hateful abusers can be and they don't change. They prey on people who trust them and care about them. Then pretend to be a good man in public 💔👎

  • Jennifer Vang
    Jennifer Vang 8 months ago +1

    You know he’s abusive when he’s confident to say “talk to me”

  • Leerick Q
    Leerick Q 9 months ago +7

    You people should follow back that story ,she said she lied about domestic abuse to end his nfl career after he broke up with her,that day they were just arguing no physical abuse happened..follow that story.

  • Ess Tee
    Ess Tee 9 months ago

    The only victims in these sick relationships are the people around the fools who have to pick up the pieces. I've dealt with these since zi was a child and will always say this. You made your bed so sleep in it but expect to die in it and do it far away from anyone. I'm sick of it

  • justin Nelson
    justin Nelson Year ago +1133

    Whoever made the call thank you for making it you just saved a life!

    • Nadia R.
      Nadia R. 6 months ago +1

      @H Estrada Don't say that. Hopefully, she'll get out before it's too late. That's all you can hope and pray for. Sometimes, seeing yourself on TV is just what someone needs.

    • Nyesh Cash
      Nyesh Cash 6 months ago

      honestly they didn't she needs to seek help from her family and leave now i know I've dealt with a domestic violence relationship trying to protect someone bc that's the code no cops but fk that who wanna continue constantly getting they ass beat due to jealousy , ego , & insecurities cause im sure ain't nobody else trying to put up with his ass he jeopardizing his own career over dumb sh*

    • Blackberry Lady
      Blackberry Lady 8 months ago +1

      Totally Agrees 💯 👌🏾 👍🏾 👏🏼 🙌🏾 sad sad sad 😔

    • Mizz Morphine
      Mizz Morphine 9 months ago +4

      @H Estrada I agree that it was the human thing to do..to often ppl jus turn a blind eye so at least there is documentation....but yeah, I agree...majority go bk for w.e their reasons so it does seem pointless...but the neighbor did his part in being a decent human being👍🏻

    • H Estrada
      H Estrada 10 months ago +23

      No 👎. Because she will go back with him. Doesn't matter

  • chloet182
    chloet182 8 months ago +1

    You've got to be a special level of pathetic to beat on a woman half your size ! These men beat the women they claim to love ..the women who birth those children! It's not 1602 and woman can vote yet DV is still ok most accepted and expected in relationships still it's really sad and I'm more than aware that men can be victims and women can be the abusers too! Stay safe and live yourselves people

  • we wear the mask
    we wear the mask 9 months ago +2

    I normally mind my business when there’s a fight … but there’s a difference between a fight and an assault.

  • Tim Dunn
    Tim Dunn 9 months ago +9

    Why would you stay with someone that either abuses you…or, someone that claims you abuse them. Both are inviting a world of pain into their lives. Baffling.

    • mrmiykael
      mrmiykael 9 months ago

      @Tim Dunn seems to me like we're on the same page...if that's the case.

    • Tim Dunn
      Tim Dunn 9 months ago

      @mrmiykael Nope. Turns out this is an OLD story. She was charged with filing a false DV report in an attempt to extort money from him. Shhhhhhocking! 🤣 All I can think about is Bill Burr’s rant on Gold-Diggers.

    • mrmiykael
      mrmiykael 9 months ago +2

      @Tim Dunn put it like this...would she go through that bullshit if she had the fame and the money and he didn't?🤔

    • Liggma Bawls
      Liggma Bawls 9 months ago

      @Tim Dunn nah I don’t buy that shit for a minute. If my partner or family tries to hurt me, I wouldn’t be around them. People who stick around have no one to blame but themselves. Accountability is lacking in our world

    • Tim Dunn
      Tim Dunn 9 months ago +2

      @mrmiykael I don’t know her, personally but I could see how that could be part of it. She might actually genuinely love the dude, too, and therefore rationalize or overlook some of the shit that’s happening. (Assuming the reports of him being the perpetrator are accurate)

  • Spanky 10456
    Spanky 10456 9 months ago

    It’s sad once everyone see domestic violence associated with your name you could loose everything before the whole story comes to light that the crazy part i know all to well but what’s crazy in my situation i was the victim and still looked at like the perpetrators because of my size compared to my ex wife. Sometimes it’s ok to just leave ‼️💯

  • Nelliel Tu Odelschwanck
    Nelliel Tu Odelschwanck Year ago +3047

    A man should never abuse a woman or child. He should take a walk.

    • Dinvad Bhat
      Dinvad Bhat Month ago

      And a women should never abuse a man physically or mentally , reiterating I'm a women the police will believe me more,who's gonna believe you ,while pounding the man to a pulp who cowers from fear, of the police and being homeless

    • LA Lady
      LA Lady 3 months ago

      A long walk off a short pier

    • xxmadori
      xxmadori 3 months ago

      @Vic Rich if ur in a relationship u should be able to do that

    • Paris
      Paris 3 months ago

      You’re right! Exactly

    • Charles Goldstein
      Charles Goldstein 4 months ago +1

      @kiss me Right. Despite what the mainstream media tries to pump out to the general population, men and woman are different and have biological differences. Men are made to protect and defend, woman are made to care and nurture.

  • Marie Lawrence
    Marie Lawrence 9 months ago

    It’s the fact she still wants to stay with him when is clearly abusive is just sad

  • Teressa Backlin
    Teressa Backlin 9 months ago

    I can tell you he was probably bragging to his friends how he dissed the cops like he's a bad ass but any man that beats a women ether with his fists or with his words its all abuse he's nothing he's lower than nothing and one day he will be shit canned for it

  • Rug Star
    Rug Star 9 months ago +2

    If you want to be single and mess around go do that, don’t be in a relationship and still cheating all the time. It’s just problems you don’t need.

  • AfricanMata
    AfricanMata 7 months ago

    I don’t know how you all still be staying in such relationships. Walk away. Your life is precious than the money he is giving you

  • Ella Ella
    Ella Ella 2 years ago +6052

    Thank God for the neighbour. Thank you for not minding your business like too many ppl do. God bless you sir.

    • Tiny Ackermen
      Tiny Ackermen 2 months ago

      @L O W K E Y AA don't do sneaky shit and all will be well, I agree with you I don't like people going through my stuff but I got nothing to hide so I'm not worried about it. Never that serious

    • 2jw
      2jw 4 months ago +1

      I was in a Myrtle Beach hotel. We were sitting on the balcony and right next to us a husband pushed his wife through the screen and tried to throw her over the balcony, while she’s screaming. We call the cops, don’t you know she had the nerve to come over and say to mind our business? 😳

    • Addict
      Addict 5 months ago

      Why do men become abusive??

    • Cyncere Wilson
      Cyncere Wilson 6 months ago

      Bitch mind yo business

    • Intello8 9
      Intello8 9 8 months ago

      @Texas Tea wait your a women beater?

  • Zoe Life
    Zoe Life 9 months ago

    i greatly understand and empathise with persons being abused and with battered syndrome.
    been around a while, and have sadly encountered many a case that remains protracted because the victim is hopeful and optimistic about realizing long term gain. have heard it come from their own lips, and have had to sit back in consternation and helplessness.

  • Carmen Olivieri
    Carmen Olivieri 9 months ago

    Her hair's all over the place and her heart was beating out of her chest. To me that's a sign of distress and I wouldn't have released him that night...Oh NO! You heard screaming, as you approached the door. You have a neighbor stating a girl's screaming, you hear her say...that everything's not ok. That's a victim that can't tell you everything! Common now!

  • George Andy
    George Andy 2 months ago +1

    The best thing that this Dude could do for himself would be to leave this Drama Queen right where he found her! He is going to end up losing his career and all of his Money to this woman. Guys need to realize and come to terms with the fact that Some Women Are Just Not Good For You!! Find the Right Woman and avoid this Nonsense!!

  • Sia Henderson
    Sia Henderson 9 months ago +1

    Those of us who have been through abuse can clearly tell he was beating on her when she came outside..smh

  • TonDoo Suuweeta
    TonDoo Suuweeta Year ago +3371

    She’s worried about his career / not wanting to get him in trouble. That’s something he should be worried about. Clearly he is abusive

    • Anthony Taylor
      Anthony Taylor 7 months ago

      Because she knows that money train will stop

    • Constance Washington
      Constance Washington 7 months ago +1

      She most likely depends on him for everything, which means he takes care of her, and she probably doesn't work, which is no excuse to let someone physically and mentally abuse you...

    • Wandah Whetstone
      Wandah Whetstone 8 months ago


    • kierra dockery
      kierra dockery 9 months ago

      Or the backlash from his fans

    • Chris Grady
      Chris Grady 9 months ago +1

      It's likely his career that led to this...a man paid to run his head into 230 lb men at full speed? What could go wrong...CTE lklike a mfer

  • Miss Jaszmine
    Miss Jaszmine 9 months ago

    That sounded like the Terminator was in that apartment when the officer approached the door, and then upon announcing himself the perpetrator comes to the door and says "What's up man". That is the nature of this crime. Then in front of the Terminator, within inches of The Terminator the victim is asked by the officer "Are you okay?"
    That is unacceptable. Here in New York City we know better how to handle these situations.... not perfectly but definitely better than this.
    The officer must Completely separate the parties.... completely separate the parties, because if you don't hold him in custody for whatever reason, he's going to escalate, return and do some serious damage. They shouldn't even expect her to say anything in his presence.
    In my opinion this was seriously mishandled. The other young lady in the news who was all over the media with her happy appearing relationship and an officer approached them and she later was missing and murdered.... that should have taught us as a nation that law enforcement needs to separate the parties and needs to handle these situations differently. Nationwide training should be mandatory to prevent escalation in these cases. What's the use of calling law enforcement if they don't know what the f they're doing!?

  • DJDeezy ThaTruth
    DJDeezy ThaTruth 9 months ago +1

    -I Think She’s Making Her Self Feel Like “She Deserved It” …Or He Has Her Thinking That. I’ve Heard The Whole “Going Threw His Phone” Story Before That Lead To Guys Acting Out.
    She’s “Riding Her Guilt” Or Looking At That To Justify His Actions

  • Eddie Kane
    Eddie Kane 9 months ago

    Not sure what makes people stay in these relationships. Y’all are truly crazy and deserve each other
    And before you go saying “you don’t understand it’s not that easy” yes it is that easy just go

  • Astral Traveler
    Astral Traveler 5 months ago

    There's no way anybody would ever speak to me like that let alone put their hands on me and I stick around even for one moment. 🏃🏽‍♀️

  • Jonathan Harris
    Jonathan Harris 9 months ago

    It’s amazing how they find it for stuff like this but not other stuff

  • Carl Richter
    Carl Richter 7 months ago

    Dont be with people that get you out of your peace. Life tends to fall apart that way

  • Mu Hu
    Mu Hu 9 months ago +1

    First of all, train yourself to be a calm person. If you cannot control your emotions, somebody else is gonna do that for you. Second, train yourself to be able to leave anyone who will agitate you.

  • Evolution
    Evolution 5 months ago

    It's 2022 and if you're STILL being treated like a housewife of the 90's then I'm afraid to say that it's your fault for allowing it.
    We live in an era of feminism and where women are encouraged to be independent...even female musicians like Nikki Minaj and Cardi B encourage female power.
    So if you ignore this and choose to be beat up like a dog,despite the empowerment,then we can't help you love.
    You can't help someone who's not willing to be helped
    She'll leave when she's serious about her life

  • j slack
    j slack Year ago +5574

    It pisses me off when women think they are being loyal & good to the man when they don’t tell the cops about an attack. When is he going to be loyal to you though????

    • Dora Theexplorer
      Dora Theexplorer 3 months ago

      @Sierra Fields exactly my mom

    • Birdie O'Rourke
      Birdie O'Rourke 3 months ago +1

      No one is stopping her...psychologically or other wise. He has money so she will be his punchbag. The only way she will leave if he throws her out or she is taken out in a box. Women ALLOW THE BEHAVIOUR. She isn't a victim she is his play toy to have sex with, insult, abuse, beat up and hammer the shit out of and she will still say " we ok".....too dumb to think straight too greedy to leave. So arrest her and she might get smart.

    • kiss me
      kiss me 4 months ago

      She doesn't want to lose her 6'0"+ man who makes millions, you would have done the same not everyday you get a 6'0"+ man that plays in the NFL you hear.

    • Shahasa al Isra
      Shahasa al Isra 5 months ago

      @Virtuous She got bruises alright; and that's why she keeps knockin' on his door ,so she can get some more🐱🐱 meowmeow.

    • j slack
      j slack 5 months ago

      @D.E. SIGNS 💯‼️

  • I0sweeper0I
    I0sweeper0I 9 months ago

    This situation where both parties need separate from each other, and get anger management help and therapy.

  • LOVE & LIGHT...!
    LOVE & LIGHT...! 3 months ago

    Come on ladies or men.. speak up,, next time it happens if you escape the first incident,, you may have a different outcome. Might be the coroner being called..don't be foolish,, speak up..your life may depend on it. Life was not meant to be taken for granted!!

  • B.Y.O.P.
    B.Y.O.P. 9 months ago +1

    You are NOT a man when you put your hands on a woman in an abusive manner. Plain and simple. Just got out of a toxic relationship myself after a decade with the same person. Never once laid a hand on her but I received quite a few hits from her, in and out of public. Things are never the same once a situation becomes physical. Best to just move on.

  • A 4 Anonymous
    A 4 Anonymous 9 months ago

    It's just this simple. If anyone in the relationship is caught lying, cheating, stealing or abusive behavior of any kind on any level - LEAVE!!! 🙄

  • shadesofpink
    shadesofpink Year ago +2966

    His big linebacker ass beating up on a little woman. He doesn’t deserve to be on any team.

    • Gregory Wash
      Gregory Wash 9 months ago

      @Maria Parra we , you , me nor , I .... Witness anything!!!!... And while you nor I have no poor!!!! I don't agree with any man or woman beating on anyone!! Other than to protect themselves from harm!!!!!! If need be!!!!! But it sounds like you are just another black male wants be basher of black men!!!!!!
      If what you say is true about all men, are just all muscles and weak, what does that say about your own father and parents!! Or anything children you may have!!!!??????
      Your just another lonely narcissistic
      Female that like blaming others for your own (fk'ed up) choices in men!!!! The facts lye with those two individuals, that were inside that home!!!!!! And you need to get a life. !!!! Your miserable as fk!!!!!! And can keep a Man!!!!!!!!!

    • smhatnation11
      smhatnation11 9 months ago

      No one got beat. She went threw his phone and went off. If he would have left his house it would have been worse

    • Jeremiah Boafo
      Jeremiah Boafo 9 months ago

      Are you a good girl your self. Do you know how to be humble ,are you respectful to your own man. Or you don't care

    • Technoninja8088
      Technoninja8088 9 months ago

      Exact thought! 💭 on my end also

    • Delano Blanco
      Delano Blanco 9 months ago

      So why she still there?

  • Felicia Thornton
    Felicia Thornton 9 months ago

    Why go through the phone then get mad at what you find. She knew it would start an argument and potentially a physical fight. If you gotta do all of that then you already know the answer before you go through it. It’s a reason you don’t trust him🤷‍♀️

  • Darius Deberry
    Darius Deberry 9 months ago

    What's wrong with these professional football players ruining their life over a girl. If you have to fight her then you don't need her. Anytime anyone gets violent with you it's time to end the relationship. That goes for men and women because abuse is abuse no matter who is committing the act. Don't get it twisted and think that women are always right because women can be abusive also. Abuse is an action and not a gender. Anyone who is detrimental to your life or your career needs to be left alone. Block them on your phone, on social media and everywhere else. Cut off all connections and start a new healthy resourceful life. Life is too short, too precious and too valuable to be wasting time fighting with someone no matter what it is. LET THEM GO!!! There's plenty of fish in the sea.

  • John Smith
    John Smith 9 months ago

    He needs to get rid of that girl before he ends up in prison, some times in your life you need not be in a relationship to find out who you are so you don’t get so angry about little things

  • mije Johnson
    mije Johnson 9 months ago

    Wow,,she is scared of him, look at the way she looks at him when she came outside, Wow these lawyers will believe or do anything for a dollar, her blood needs to be on their hands

  • C.C.C
    C.C.C  9 months ago

    I rather be alone and on my own than to deal with a toxic/abusive person.

  • Iowa Nowhere
    Iowa Nowhere 7 months ago

    She looked fine. It’s a shame that something like this can get you kicked off a team. There’s literally zero evidence anything happened and the woman clearly was acting when the police showed up. He was kicking her out of his house.

  • I'mSoo Shook
    I'mSoo Shook 9 months ago +1

    "It never got physical"
    "Gee, I don't know, her hair kinda looks like it got pretty physical."🤨

  • Alexis-jean Noble
    Alexis-jean Noble 9 months ago

    Thank you for calling the police.

  • E
    E 2 years ago +1696

    Yikes! You can hear her screaming inside, “Get off me! Get off me!” :(
    He’s going to kill her, scary.

    • Reginald Mack
      Reginald Mack 11 months ago

      My nephew was telling her to get out, she wasnt yelling get off, thats bad you got two ears and one mouth and still cant hear

    • Mrs Mack
      Mrs Mack 11 months ago +1

      @Darius Slay I can't speak for this particular situation but phone checking doesn't always constitute abuse. People think it's acceptable for someone to use their phone to sneak around, lie and cause problems but then the one checking the phone get called out as the abuse. Smh. If one person is "allowed" to check their partners phone but the other partner isn't allowed then that's a big red flag. But especially if there have been trust issues in a relationship and you're trying to reconcile and be accountable then it can be useful.

    • PharaohII
      PharaohII Year ago

      @emma lu hes telling her to leave and she won't

    • Giggle McGee
      Giggle McGee Year ago +1

      @Warren Carter you're seriously blaming HER for him beating her??? You're special breed of special, aren't you?

    • emma lu
      emma lu Year ago +2

      @Warren Carter are you fucking insane? He’s beating her. Just say you hate women.

  • Zachary Lynn
    Zachary Lynn 8 months ago

    Amazing how you can see one of these videos and on the side of the screen there are plenty of other such "NFL hero" stories. This is the type of person idolized by the masses in this country.... gee I wonder why the country if falling apart.

  • ItzDuckDude
    ItzDuckDude 9 months ago

    It seems like everyone did their part on this. The neighbor calling 911, the police seemed to have taken the situation well, overall this could have maybe stopped a potential murder.

  • Yo Ghetty
    Yo Ghetty 7 months ago

    It's a thin line between love and hate, relationships just ain't worth the drama that comes with it

  • Spiritually Young
    Spiritually Young 8 months ago +1

    He was kicking her ass and she doesn't want to tell on him. Lets teach our daughters to recognize the signs before it happens to them

  • Radah
    Radah Year ago +491

    What people don't realize about DV survivors is that their life is on the line when the police or anyone intervenes, they fear for their lives and the lives of their loved ones including their abusers. Sometimes psychologically theyre trained to say everything is okay to appease the abuser just to ease trouble because trust once any help leaves the abuser gets more enraged and the cycle continues. Once they have the courage to leave and say enough is enough will be the day that this stops. Until then the cycle continues sometimes leading to their own death.

    • mlg mcdonalds land
      mlg mcdonalds land 2 months ago

      Absolutely wrong. Most people don't kill people. ??? Moron

    • victim blamer
      victim blamer 6 months ago

      @Artistry By Erica Dawn my abusive dad once told my mom that in his country husbands slay their wives if they are disloyal, cuz she made a failed attempt at running away from him

    • Artistry By Erica Dawn
      Artistry By Erica Dawn 7 months ago +2

      Very true and if you ever been in a domestic violence situation and seek help or went to a safe home they tell you that's the most dangerous time of your relationship seeking help leaving that's when you're at a high risk of being killed

    • lalalovengun
      lalalovengun 9 months ago +2

      @Amanda H I’m so Sorry you went through that!

    • Amanda H
      Amanda H 9 months ago +1

      @lalalovengun This is bang on. True. I used to work with victims of DV. We would never ever tell anyone to leave, because that is when things get scary and dangerous. People don't realise this. But watch the news next time victims die. There's a pattern. It's when they leave. My own abuser was violent. But the 2 times I left, before I left for good. He nearly killed me. I was battered half to death one time and strangled into unconsciousness the next.

  • Marley
    Marley 7 months ago

    Ladies leave these mentally unstable boys alone. You can help yourself. You don't need a man for their money. Don't loose your life over material things. People that abused others need serious mental help. It will not change if they don't get help.

  • Tae Tae
    Tae Tae 7 months ago

    Smh love yo self and protect yo self before u protect anybody else trust me that abuse shit don’t stop no matter how much he begs and says he’ll change they never do

  • Jaysroyalty
    Jaysroyalty 2 months ago

    The way she looked at him for permission before going to talk to the officer….😕

  • bigheverly
    bigheverly 9 months ago

    🤷🏽‍♂️ sometimes the dude who has enough money to take care of you forever… isn’t good for you and might try to beat you to death… so his wallet or how kind he treats you after throwing you to the floor should be overlooked.
    I think a lot of women get caught up in the bag

  • Andy
    Andy 6 months ago

    Obviously I don't know the story, but I was in a similar situation and don't make people feel like they should go through your phone in the first place.

  • Cathryn Pippen
    Cathryn Pippen 5 months ago +1

    I don''t think he loves her any more .
    She is so in love with him , that she can't see that the relationship is not the same as when they first fell in love !
    He has another woman or he want's some one else .
    It will get worst and will never get better .
    When the police has to come out and it is obvious the woman has been beaten , females or males start packing , because it is over the love will never be the same .!

  • anneshirley duncan
    anneshirley duncan 9 months ago

    The young lady is scared. No doubt he has threatened to harm her more and her family. I pray she gets out while she still can.

  • Brady Brunette
    Brady Brunette 9 months ago

    Really bothers me when I see people wearing a cross ( 2 min. in ) and acting the complete opposite of Jesus. I pray for repentance and healing for the both of them.

  • Colby Maynor
    Colby Maynor 2 years ago +2888

    “Let him go without charges...weeks later Foster would be arrested once AGAIN for domestic violence.” ???

    • nun urbusiness
      nun urbusiness 8 months ago

      @H4SN2 ?! yea retarded democrats like u🥱🥱

    • Dino Senpai
      Dino Senpai 8 months ago

      @Nagato972 slow

    • NijahovaWorld
      NijahovaWorld 9 months ago

      Thank you !

    • C LOM
      C LOM 11 months ago

      Lock them BOTH up. Everyone including the cops shouldn't have to keep going through this. Women need to be held accountable also for going back. It's sick and overused.

    • Ihana Kaunotar
      Ihana Kaunotar Year ago

      Often the victims refuse put on charges. So it just keeps going or they move on to someone else.

  • Faize Wolf
    Faize Wolf 9 months ago +2

    They went out of their way to try to get him 🤣

  • Sammy Lacks
    Sammy Lacks 9 months ago

    I ve been a Alabama fan for years and Rueben was one of my favorite players. I hate to see anything like this and hope he can get bsck on a better path. I m not making excuses for him and don t really know what went on here but he got off to a rough start when just a child.
    I will always remember how hard he could hit during his years playing for the Tide. I ll keep praying for him.

  • Davida Jones
    Davida Jones 9 months ago +1

    He's abusive and strong. She's afraid of him. How dare y'all victim shame this young lady talking about she afraid to lose that bag?! How disgusting are you?! Are you in her shoes? Do you or have any of you lived her life? Why don't you go to a couple of domestic violent shelters and talk to some survivors of this crime and get better educated before you start throwing darts of accusations you know nothing about! Foolishness!....

  • SkyflowerFisher
    SkyflowerFisher 5 months ago

    Ik I’m a female but..some can get scared and not say anything when they really need to, for those out there, never be scared to speak up for your self

  • Off Mask
    Off Mask 10 months ago +518

    As a man that was physically abused by my exgirI friend I walked away completely . It is not worth the destruction. Simply walk way for good.

    • Jah_53rd
      Jah_53rd 3 months ago

      @Liggma Bawls ong

    • Denise Jefferson
      Denise Jefferson 6 months ago +2

      And his family and your family may not know the full story but walk and then run the heck away from there. The life you save will be yours...and your children.

    • Kimberly Mayes
      Kimberly Mayes 7 months ago

      Bravo 👏👏👏👏❤️

    • Just another girl
      Just another girl 7 months ago

      @Ant oh yeah my bad

    • Corinacc
      Corinacc 7 months ago +1

      Good for you 🙏🏻

  • Cessca
    Cessca 9 months ago

    God bless neighbours who care enough to call police

  • Sam Sawyer
    Sam Sawyer 9 months ago

    Thanks God for neighbors who actually cares about their own safety and piece of mind, cause those two didn't cares about living

  • Donna Cowles
    Donna Cowles 9 months ago +1

    Attorney: they were going out of their way to try and find marks to arrest him
    Me: Yup and if they didn't, and she ended up beat up, or maybe even dead later, then they would be treated bad, for not looking closer into it.
    So STF up Poop smear

  • W Hayes
    W Hayes 6 months ago

    Keep your hands to yourself. At this point he deserves what he gets. Women stop covering for these abusive people. (I use the term people because an abuser can be a woman or a man) They are not caring about you. Your well-being is more important.

  • Danni Brandon
    Danni Brandon 2 years ago +3621

    The way she breathing you can tell he was beating on her.

    • Justin Carloz Maxino
      Justin Carloz Maxino 10 months ago

      is that your psychic powers or something?

    • Keke
      Keke 10 months ago

      Or she was just pissed at what she found on his phone, and they’d been yelling?...

    • Thabiso Khumalo
      Thabiso Khumalo 10 months ago

      @mistah ozzy Another abuser

    • Mother Twinkles
      Mother Twinkles 10 months ago

      It's sad. He's a punk!

    • Ceez B
      Ceez B 11 months ago

      She also had her chance in court to put him in jail and she recanted… I know a lot of women don’t speak up because they are afraid (rightfully so). But since he was already arrested & she could’ve kept him there, she failed herself.
      He’s a pro player, maybe she put up with it for that reason. But hopefully more women look for ways to leave situation right away before they lose their life. Speak up, get help, run away.
      A coward abusing you ain’t worth it.

  • RuaWaterwalker
    RuaWaterwalker 9 months ago

    These guys have been doing this kind of stuff for years & years! & because they are football players they get away with it!

  • Velvet IE
    Velvet IE Month ago

    This made me cry because she's stuck in the cycle of abuse.

  • Diana yale
    Diana yale 9 months ago

    That's a Trauma Bond. Scariest place to be with a Narcissist and/or an abuser. God be with her.