Waiting To Exhale (1995) The Desperation Was Real!
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- Waiting to Exhale is a 1995 American romance film directed by Forest Whitaker (in his feature film directorial debut) and starring Whitney Houston and Angela Bassett. The film was adapted from the 1992 novel of the same name by Terry McMillan. Lela Rochon, Loretta Devine, Dennis Haysbert, Michael Beach, Gregory Hines, Donald Faison, and Mykelti Williamson rounded out the rest of the cast. The original music score was composed by Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds. The story centers on four women living in the Phoenix, Arizona area and their relationships with men and one another. All of them are "holding their breath" until the day they can feel comfortable in a committed relationship with themselves.
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Classic film. Shout out to Forrest Whitaker for directing the hell out of this movie. He made them look so beautiful, without overly sexualizing them.
Exactly!
I was pleasantly surprised that I paid attention fog the opening credits and saw that he directed this . I agree so much with this comment .
RIP Witney and Gregory Hines.
I was a young girl when my mom took me to see this is the movie theater.. like about 12. I still remember the lessons that I learned.
#1 Don't sell yourself short for ANYONE
#2 Love yourself
#3 Throw oranges, not glass🤣
#4 keep your girls around
#5 You're never too old to find new love
One of my favorite movies. Great review♥️
#3 is my favorite
My personal takeaway:
1. Gloria found the love of a man when she thought she wasn’t worthy of it
2. Robin sought so much approval/affection from men but she found the love of being a mother
3. Savannah found self-satisfaction
4. Bernie found true friendship in another man (being able to trust again) as well as self-sufficiency apart from being a man’s support system
What do you mean robin found that love in her child was enough? She didn't have any kids.
@@keoshahenry Did you even bother to watch the movie to the end, love? Lol
@@keoshahenry She was pregnant by the end of the movie.
@@keoshahenry Robin had an abortion before.
Im late again, but I can say that we will never have the soundtracks that we had in the 90s.
Facts sis
Savannah's mom was a whole pick-me. She pissed me off so much in this movie! Ugh!😳🤡
I am 24 and I have such a soft spot for this movie. Also, Loretta and Lela had a mini reunion on her show "Family Reunion". It was amazing!!
omg what episode
@@katrinamack444 It was one of the most recent episodes. The one with the sororities
"Now I'm the keeper at the damn zoo." I love that line.🤣
Same here!
Grrrr...
@@akingoct1995 Hahaha😅
"Grrrr huh?"
🤣
12:40 the fact that the whole scene of her get yo shit get yo shit and GET OUT!!!!! Was a improv by Mis Bassett makes it even more impressive.
I love that scene so much Miss Basset is a queen in everything she’s been in 🔥❤️
Mykelti Williamson played the BEST cokehead ever! He was HILARIOUS!🤣🤣🤣
I love this movie and your review! You really know a lot of the scenes word for word and I was right there with you! 😂 I did the little slow motion bonding moves with you at the end, too! Although I'm new to your channel as of today, I've already watched several of your "reviewz". I really enjoy all of you that you share with us. 🥰 If you haven't already, please consider doing a watch party. I'd love to join. Take care and keep up the fun-loving great energy!
Thank you and I definitely will I crack myself up ALONE! 🤣😭
@@StruggleReviewzTV - yup, me too. 😂
Shut up Allstate! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey struggle remember the show girlfriends and sex and the city and tyler perry sisters because they took all of that from that movie because they aways have four single woman and relationships problem with men
And I still got the bootleg tape
😂😂😂 not the vhs!
As a now 40 year old black man, this movie hits way different than when I saw it as a teenager. Obviously it was too "adult" for me at the time, but after going through, witnessing all the things my grandmother and mother both had to deal with when it comes to relationships, the complicated relationship i had with my negligent/alcoholic father, the themes in this film just hit at a whole other level. Looking back on it now i agree it's much more than a "man hating" film which is what i wrote it off as 20 some odd years ago. Yes there are some exaggerated negative portrayals of black men in this film, but it's like people forget the good ones in the film (Wesley Snipes, Gregory Hines).
I actually resonated with Loretta Devine's storyline the most with her being a single mother and having her son's relationship take the place of a mate. I dealt with that and it absolutely stifled my growth as a young adult. I was one of the lost late bloomers, living at home in my early 20's with no reason to leave type dudes because my grandmother created a co-dependent environment.
Anyway, classic film and the soundtrack is pretty much Babyface' Magnum Opus in my book. If anyone ever questions who was the King of R&B music in the 90's (since alot of people will say R. Kelly), if Babyface is your argument than this soundtrack is your proof.
What advice would you give to a young man in a Co dependent relationship w/ his mother?
It’s hard to see so much potential just wasted
@@starcherry6814 First off, I would ask what stage of life are you in? How old are you? Are you currently working? I'm asking because these are all things that would help determine what your next steps should be. If you are still living at home, I'd say start taking the proper steps to get into a position to move out. Even if that means finding a roommate to do it with (which btw, there's nothing wrong with). The dynamics of your relationship will change vastly once you're not under their roof anymore.
Now they'll be some resentment at first, even anger and a sense of betrayal. I dealt with all that with my grandmother at first. But in the long run your relationship will become stronger.
I hate to say this, but if your situation is anything like mine was, then truth be told your mother doesn't respect you. She may love you I have no doubt, but there's a difference. She especially doesn't respect you as an adult. In fact I'm willing to bet she doesn't even see you as an adult. That's just cold honesty I'm sorry. Moving out and (again, if possible) is the first major step in changing the dynamics of your relationship.
if that's not possible right now, at the very least (and again I don't know your financial situation), you should contribute something financially. Whether that means rent money, paying a few bills, or even groceries. Something that says you contribute to the living situation. Even in my early 20's living at home i paid rent (doesn't matter how much just as long as you both have a mutual understanding), the cable bill, and my part of the car insurance (yea I was under her insurance still). These sorts of things will speak to your growing independence. Again, only do what you can afford but it's a sign of your growth in the right direction.
@@anthonyanderson9303 If you must know I am asking advice for my 26yr old brother in law who still lives at home and depends on his mom to mange his finances
I just feel bad for him you know? She's stifling all of his growth and he's going to waste the best years of his life under her
Good advice. I will try to pass it on
@@starcherry6814 Another thing I'd add is watch the company you keep. There's a saying that goes "show me your 5 closest friends around you and I'll show you the kind of person you are". He needs to associate himself with other men who are making something of themselves. Not saying they gotta have money or anything, but drive and direction. If he's hanging around a bunch of loafers with no ambition, then ultimately that's what he'll be as well.
And furthermore, no female worth their salt will want anything to do with him either you know? I went through my phase of bad women before I met my wife. Of course if and when he does find "the one", his mother will be threatened by her as well and most likely bad mouth her cuz in her mind he's replacing her.
Well said.
Growing up with 3 older sisters who controlled the tv most of the time made me grow to appreciate films like this that I probably wouldn't have ever had any interest in watching otherwise...its definitely one of the reasons I reject the idea of "chick flicks today"
See this would sound great on your channel ❤️🤣
@@StruggleReviewzTV lol I am 100% working on it...I have to buy a new laptop to get the proper editing software but it is in the works...thank you for pushing me to get it together💯
@@SpeakinThaTruth69 you already starting off well…. editing software…. laptops…… sounds foreign to me 🤣
@@StruggleReviewzTV the fact I just got a notification about this comment the same day I did my first test reaction is crazy lol
Don't understand how anyone can see this as just a male bashing movie. Yes it was sorry men in this movie, u can argue James n Marvin were good men with Tariq having much potential. I have 2 say I can kinda relate 2 Bernadine's story. My 12 year marriage came 2 n end. Yes I felt the hurt, the anger, the feeling of did u really love me. Then meeting someone that let u know life goes on. If u love woman @ all, then had 2 be happy 4 these women. I have say tho, Savannah's mom was doin 2 much. I believe her intentions were good, but a married man? As they say on sports radio c'mon man.
“Leather wearing in the summertime” somebody had to say it 🤣
This is not a male-bashing film. If people think that it is...well they're in their feelings for a reason...🤔
You did an awesome job reviewing this! Got me looking for my old VHS tape to watch it again lol. Keep up the good work. Can't wait till you start a patreon.
Thank YOU!😂❤️ And when I get over that 2,000 subs hump I’m definitely gonna do that!
Love love loved this review!!!! I'm cracking up!!!!! My girlfriends and I went to Scotsdale and drove to Sedona. Arizona is BEAUTIFUL!!! We played the Waiting To Exhale soundtrack the entire time! Such a classic album... timeless and oh so good!!! My favorite scene, outside of all things Bernie, was the scene with Robin and Troy at her balcony! Lol!!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂
I saw this movie when it first came out and I was a tender, naive 19 year old girl…. Fast forward 28 years later ….. living life…. All I can say is wow… watched the movie again today since I only saw it that one time and I loved it as much as the first time I saw it. Excellent review ❤❤❤❤❤❤ oh, Scottsdale, Tempe is gorgeous in real life… my daughter is in college at ASU.
The soundtrack, Babyface did his thing.
I was a senior in high school when I first saw this movie. And I saw it one or two more times at different stages in my early adulthood, and I really couldn't fully appreciate the genius and depth of this movie and what it represented. Life experiences play a huge role in perception. I plan to watch this movie again at this point in my life and see what my new takeaways may be. This was/IS truly a Beautiful and important movie in so many ways. Thank you for this review.
I read the book after seeing the movie. I stayed up all night and read that book in one sitting. So good and better than the movie--way more details!
It's you calling this man All-State like that's an actual name that's got me weak. 🤣🤣🤣 But yes, everything about this movie is beautiful, the women, the scenery, the friendships and their personal growth, and that masterpiece of a soundtrack! One of the top 5 soundtracks of all time to me. I first saw this as a child and it hits so different watching it as an adult but the nostalgia is everything and I will always love this movie.
Aahhh….Waiting to Exhale. Good movie, great soundtrack. I HATE (sorry, dislike 🙄) Not Gon’ Cry (Sorry Mary J)! Can’t turn it off fast enough. I’m sure I’ll get backlash for that. 😆 You said my favorite line from the movie. Yes he’s watching girl! Loretta Devine - Love her! Love it lady. Keep it going!
Thank You and that song works my nerves too😂
😂😂😂 Hi Mrs. Williams I can hear you through this message 💛💛💛
@@shauniiec Hey lady! I’m so glad to hear from you. I hope you’re doing well. Gotta be real on the comments. 😝
@@shauniiec awwww reunion!
I am doing lovely. I miss you 🥰 hope all is well 💛
Shoop shoop shoop shooby dooo 🎶 Lol. This made me want to watch the movie again, i dont think ive seen it since it came out. Now that im around the age of the women in the movie, maybe i can relate to it now.
Speaking of Soul Food, I once read that the part of Terri was going to be cast with Whitney Houston but they went with Vanessa Williams
“Sorry I never been on Oprah”whew that scene broke me
I went the store, had lunch .. Let me kick off my shoes and relaxed my feet, to this
*vibe* 😎
The soundtrack to this movie tho!!!!! Can play it straight through 💯
This is hands down my favorite movie! I love each one of the characters and their storylines.The soundtrack is unmatched! Thank you Babyface. And, I watch it fairly often. I can recite each scene. You're right about it being the blueprint to ALL female shows/movies(Living Single, Sex & The City, Girlfriends, Run the World, and Harlem). Cult Classic for real. I've never read the book, but during the pandemic/shut down, I read the sequel "Getting Back to Happy". It was quite disappointing. I mean, it picked up where Waiting to Exhale left off, but the outcome of each character was disappointing. Great review as always!
Great review ! Not only are you funny but you hit on a lot of good details of movies ! My favorite line of .. well one of my faves is the girlfriend hanging out in the living room talking about men and Robin says after Savannah’s says where they hidin, says yeah and they ugly and they want you to spank it!! And yeah they ugly! 🤣 LMfao every time!
Gloria: "got little dicks and can't fuck."
Robin: "Some got big ones and still can't fuck." 😂😂😂
And when Whitney said after that “you ugly on the inside you ugly on the outside.” That scene is still hilarious. This was an excellent adaptation it knew exactly what to trim and what to include the only thing I wish was still in from the book is Tarik coming home the morning after the birthday finding them all passed out all over the house including his bed and just laughing and covering them with a blanket.
Chileee this movie got me through one of my hardest breakups and is thus one of my all time favs. Great review! So glad I found your channel, love seeing diverse reviewers. #Subscribed🙌🏾
Thank you and welcome! 🥰
Love your reviews! I need you to review Tyler Perry’s “For Colored Girls.” There is A LOT to unpack with this film!
Loved this review, love your channel! Also, that soundtrack is all time top 10 favorite albums of all time❤️
Thank You! ❤️❤️❤️
Ok, I officially love Struggle Reviewz. Lol. New subscriber. 💗
The kid is the same kid from Soul food.
It Had 3 Actors From Soul Food, Him, Michael Beach & Jeffrey Samms(Kenny).
Thank You SO MUCH for your reviews!!! They’re simply amazing!!!
Thank you for watching 💕
Girl I LOVE your channel! I love your narration and your description of my fave movies! You're so eccentric!! You got my subscription! 🙌🏽🙌🏽love you!! Oh can you do a review on The Jacksons: An American Dream?? I can't wait to hear it 🤣
As an adult , watching this is such an eye opener, whew !
Can you do a Thin line between Love and Hate ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I enjoyed this very much
She did a review to this already…explore her channel (:
I never watched this movie as a child, so it has no nostalgic feelings for me. So while watching as an adult. I utterly hate it. I hate that the female characters constantly engaged with married men while the movie demonized Bernadette’s husband’s affair. I hated that it was so hyper focused on white women, for example Bernadette’s husband leaving her for a white woman, Bernadette’s bar guy being married to a white woman, and Troys speech about why “hood brothas” like white women. Meanwhile white men nearly don’t exist in the movie, and it’s as if the women’s only option are black men, specifically black married men. Gloria is the only character who seemed to have autonomy but was just too pressed for her ex husband. The rest of them, I genuinely do not know why they chose to just bind themselves to dust. It’s hard to watch obviously beautiful women with unlimited options be portrayed as so limited and desperate.
Girl it was the 90's
Tyra you so funny 😂. Repeating all those legendary lines lol
I love your reviews! I can never find people who review old movies anymore
Love this movie.. especially the soundtrack🙌🏾🌺🌺thank you Queen for the review
At 34 I finally understand this film. ❤❤❤❤
I know this video is old, but if you have not read the book PLEASE DO. You also should read "part 2" Getting to Happy. You won't be disappointed!
Yo I'm on the woman side how you going tell the woman that help get everything you got, that shit pisses me off Julian McCullers.
I’m so late but Omggg how I love this movie ! One of my top favs for years !! I love the many points you made and even though the characters were not depicted in the best light and may have came across as desperate or foolish this movie however will forever be timeless because you can find a little bit of yourself in each character. I also feel some people have to remember this is a 90’s movie don’t completely watch this from a present day kind of lenses or era. It was different times of course back then but still I think most people can still resonate with this film hints why it’s so timeless. ✨ A couple of things I love about this movie is the Excellent acting. You literally forget The Whitney Houston is starring in this movie because of how well she played her role. And of course Angela basset with the iconic scenes that will forever be talked about and praised! The important deep rooted conversation, topics, and emotional traumas that were brought up in this film was so well put together to where it didn’t feel to over whelming or too hard to understand. You could actually empathize with the characters to an extent. Another great thing about this film was the sound track my God is so good & nostalgic to listen too ofc if you like that kind of genre of music. The outfits and hair beautiful. But overall I think the main moral of this story was based on sisterhood and not so much having to hold your breath waiting on the perfect love story to come because when you have your Sistas by your side there’s nothing you can’t do. They all had there own issues and problems they were going through but at the end of the day when they needed a shoulder to cry on or someone to lift them up they always had each other no matter the disappointment they faced in there love lives with men. The song ‘ Count on me by Whitney Houston’ was a great song that was created for the movie because it described the sister hood the characters had with each other well. Will forever love this movie. Of course everyone has different perspectives and views things differently I just respect the movie in its entirety and the times in which it was made. Classic 💋♥️
Can you do a review on disappearing acts? That movie is good as well.
🗣So much material there lol all the toxicity! 😂🤦🏾♀️
I literally watched Waiting To Exhale this past weekend after not seeing it for at least 5-6 years and I'm cracking up at your commentary!! I was thinking the same thing while watching it!! I was a sophomore in HS when it came out but didn't get to watch it until it hit cable and didn't understand it until I was a bit older. I love this movie but damn was it cringy asf to watch after my thought process has changed over the last few years. Lol
You should do a review on Jason’s lyric next. That movie has the best song in the world “U will know”.
I love that movie !
Aww one of my fav movies!
It’s a hidden gem 💎
Love that song!
When I first heard that song it stayed on repeat for several days/weeks! 90s was peak musical talent
I love watching this Movie i even read the book Thx Terry McMillian and I love the soundtrack . Great video ❤
This something I gotta rewatch as an adult
It’s an experience girl! 😂
I've heard you break down three movies these past few days but listening to you break down THIS (while I clean up for New years) was like laughing with a homegirl over a classic. The quotes and 🤤 sounds got me rolling 😂. I immediately had to subscribe. Have a great 2023
I heard Phylicia Rashad wanted to play in the movie but Forest wouldn't even see her which role do you think she would have played
Definitely Savannah 😂
@@StruggleReviewzTV 🤔🤣
I don't know why I was thinking Bernardin...but could she pull off the car fire scene
When you mentioned Phylicia Rashad, Lynn Whitfield’s face popped in my head lol cuz I definitely think that Whitfield could kill the role of Bernadine too lol
@@estherbalogun8092✅✅✅
You're adorable but Living Single and Golden Girls started it all
I meant in film
@@StruggleReviewzTVYeah, It's Revolutionary/Original Too.
This is on HBO max. I am about to watch it again.
I literally love you! I have never met anyone who is as passionate as me when it comes to these 90s classics! It's just like ugh! They are really gems
Golden Girls and Designing Women came before this film. Alot of other ensemble female casts..
Babyface DID this soundtrack and Soul Food!!
Im so glad I have come across your Page. You have Entertained me so much during this Holiday Season. #newsubscriber
Just stumbled upon your channel! I love this! Have you done Two can play that game yet?
Yes!!! That’s one of my favorite movies! I literally have it on DVD for replay value
This movie made me want to move to Az …. I still want too
Black Cinema and TV was more amazing in the 90’s than NOW 2023! ❤😢
Loved the review! One of my fav films
Thank you!
Girl you know you can quote this movie!!
Wow, this was a classic film on sophisticated pickmeism
I just watched this over the weekend 😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yessss! I hope you like the review ❤️
I was drawn to this book, as a young girl and when I fell in love with Scottsdale, AZ. I reread it from time to time. However, yes I need part 2: Getting to Happy, made into a movie or a series.
The soundtrack is chef's kiss 😘.
Ngl to get Whitney Houston Gregory Heins and Loretta Devine to play not only in one movie but TWO is low key a big flex AND BACK TO BACK😂❤ and Robyn with that big ass jug cause she’s pregnant while everyone boutta get lit had me hollering cause ik she was tight inside 😂😂😂😂😂
One of the few movie reaction to this magnificent movie! But only with pictures!!😢😢 Not the actual movie itself.....
They really did have old boy doing all the dirt in these movies!😂😂😂
And the soundtrack was so well put together!
Unsolicited advice (I apologize in advance): I watched a video on YT that said if you put a lamp in front of you it will get rid of the ring light in your frames.
Lol I’ll give it a try ! ❤️
Great review good job young lady
Maybe I should go watch it again 🤔. Great review ✊🏿
Thank You 🥰
Fun fact: the title of the movie in french is "Ou Sont les Hommes?", which means "Where are the men?"
I’m late to your channel but I just have to say I LOOOOOOOOOOVE your commentary!!! The way you recite the lines so spot on is everything!! I do the same thing & everyone tells me I’m super animated. I love it!
So glad I found this!
I juz luv-2-luv me zum " waitin-2-x-hale"😺
The Bernadine character was not a victim,,, women can't have it all.
Yes we can
She started the family business WITH him.
@@marissawilson4644Whoo.
Not shut up All-State 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
react to The Old Settler plssssss
Great review 👏🏾!
Sistaz looking damn good 👍🏿
Amazing review!! I am about to add this oldie but goodie to my watchlist this & Best Man
I loved your retelling but I hate when the photos didn't match up with the character and their story. really through me off
When I was in school this movie was played on a loop especially to hear the soundtrack
Golden Girls
AKA Angry black woman movie 😆
I watch this movie not to long ago
Da 90z waz "da zhit"😺
You are great! 😀❤️
My #1 FAN! ❤️
Nah! You have to give us names! The Strugglers 😂
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@@StruggleReviewzTV 😂😭
Miles leaving Angela Bassett was so overreached and fiction. Never happened in a million years.
I watched a parody of this movie a couple of months ago - except it was all gay Black men! It was hilarious 😂!
The Passport brother is Angela Bassett s son who was raised by his mother in a college preparatory environment. Gone to college raised to love black women but once he started looking for a wife. He was rejected for a thug as a young man. Having being raised to adore and love black women not understanding why the sistas reject him. After decades of being overlooked because his mother taught him to be educated he is professional and childless he decides to go over seas to find a wife because there were no black women engineered for him. This is the Passport brother of today. So when black woman call black men dusty etc. Do you include Angela Bassett s little boy?
No, I think he goes to Morehouse, pledges Alpha and heads to graduate school. Then he marries a pretty Black geek from a small town. She graduates from Howard. You're welcome 😊
Wait what type "sistas " he was approaching in the 1st place?
I find it hard to believe most educated or same environment "sista" will want an thug or poor.
Enjoyable review 🖤
My favorite movie.
❤️