Women Check for Those Quiet Men

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @ShermSuite
    @ShermSuite 3 года назад +275

    I love being quiet. It low key let’s women know I won’t run my mouth when they give me some.

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 3 года назад +20

      Fax

    • @CalvinCarter1989
      @CalvinCarter1989 3 года назад +18

      Agreed.

    • @kailjones6868
      @kailjones6868 3 года назад +51

      I'm a women and I totally agree because me and my co-workers talk about the men we would get with at work if they didn't talk soo much!

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +25

      True. A female once told me while were conversing "Never Talk Yourself Out Them Legs".

    • @bigcoop3717
      @bigcoop3717 2 года назад +25

      It's funny everywhere I am be it school or work, I always would be the center of attention and conversation because I was just reserved. The women try to figure me out so bad I had alot of hate from other dudes constantly even when I wasn't financially stable, they would try and Outmacho me.

  • @user-ub8uc8gq7r
    @user-ub8uc8gq7r 3 года назад +150

    The old saying goes,
    “silence is confident & insecurity is loud.”

    • @marlinking7078
      @marlinking7078 3 года назад

      Yeah!

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +4

      @@TheOriginalCryptoPimp American Gangster Denzel said that to one of his people in a movie scene.

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 2 года назад +4

      @@TheOriginalCryptoPimp You must remain low key at all times. Ghost resembles that keeps people guessing including Tariq feed them what you want.

  • @tmot6714
    @tmot6714 3 года назад +196

    As an introvert, I’ve always attracted more outgoing women. Being on the quieter side, some women mistake it for weakness which is why it is important to maintain that Masculine frame.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +66

      There are many quiet Thugs they don't make that mistake with.

    • @jasoncrooks8406
      @jasoncrooks8406 3 года назад +35

      "Some women mistake it for weakness" - It might be what you're non-verbally communicating to them.
      1. Do you look physically weak or average?
      2. Your personal style of dressing, what does it communicate about you?
      3. Do you know if your body language is confident enough? Do women think that you're a confident man before they hear you speak? Do you avoid eye contact? Your body language is always projecting a message about you; people are always trying to read you & create a narrative about you.
      4. When you speak, women in the room are observing. What assumptions do they make about you from what you say? Do they think you're charismatic or dull?
      5. When you interact with other men, women are observing. Would they observe that you're a dominant man that doesn't speak much OR a quiet beta male with no women.

    • @mrjacolby108
      @mrjacolby108 2 года назад +6

      @@RomWills Ong they don’t try bullshit wit me😂

  • @TrillBill
    @TrillBill 3 года назад +73

    Quiet Man with Loud Masculinity 💯

    • @drehill1276
      @drehill1276 4 месяца назад +2

      No doubt. Either they are intimidated or curious. Men and women alike.

  • @KingGreatnessKG
    @KingGreatnessKG 3 года назад +100

    Women are also intrigued by the quiet guy aka the lowkey guy because the women are wondering why he's not showering her with attention like most guys are.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +26

      Very good point.

    • @marlinking7078
      @marlinking7078 3 года назад +27

      The man with loaded testosterone IS a lone wolf, so its not just intrigue: they're seeing that he don't value conversating with the women--especially if he sees the woman is a bubble head, a butch, a dum dum chicken little, a gossip, a pass around, etc. Women know after so many observations that he's serious about his business, looking at his posture, his deep voice and vocal inflections, how he speaks, his stroll, his dress, and how he handle his business.

    • @Rawyalty220
      @Rawyalty220 2 года назад +1

      @@marlinking7078 facst

  • @shanel624
    @shanel624 3 года назад +122

    The quiet guy will constantly be on her mind cause she can’t figure him out. The mystery intrigues her.

    • @JC-gq2lo
      @JC-gq2lo 3 года назад +2

      Sometimes he's quiet because he can't keep up with his lies

    • @shanel624
      @shanel624 3 года назад +13

      @@JC-gq2lo good point. Being quiet is not always a positive thing. It’s possible he could be hiding something.

    • @wisethescholar5779
      @wisethescholar5779 3 года назад +8

      Sigma males in the house

  • @ThaDocta_Evans97
    @ThaDocta_Evans97 3 года назад +135

    People really do sleep on us “ Introverted / don’t say much “ brothas , my philosophy has always been be quicker to listen & slower to speak, “ silent move makin and less jaw & gum shakin “

    • @kartierbitness7890
      @kartierbitness7890 3 года назад +7

      @@frivolousarguments8578💫facts family😁🤛🏾!!

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +1

      @@frivolousarguments8578 why waste time chatting up nonsense. Which is why i stay reserved and quiet.

    • @tre_4
      @tre_4 2 года назад +1

      @@Addictedtoachievements , blab about nonsense @ that

  • @Larry-qz3es
    @Larry-qz3es 3 года назад +66

    Law 4 (from the 48 Laws of Power) "Always say less than necessary." A person who talks too much is less believed than a person who is quietly going about their business, it adds more mystery to their character.

  • @jlavoninfinite
    @jlavoninfinite 3 года назад +60

    Strong & Silent

    • @Misericorde9
      @Misericorde9 3 года назад +4

      The only thing I would add to this is that strong and silent goes a lot further if you can also throw in a wicked sense of humor.

  • @WhathehadasSole
    @WhathehadasSole 3 года назад +69

    She know that quiet guy can probably bring the heat when provoked. Cough *Kwame Brown*

  • @marlinking7078
    @marlinking7078 3 года назад +106

    The testosterone levels in a man is going to automatically make him quiet and his energy is going to do the talking for him. A man is going to unconsciously ignore most women that don't catch his attention, especially if he's focused on important matters that requires his immediate attention. Working out truly does wonders!

    • @thethinker9701
      @thethinker9701 3 года назад +2

      This is interesting 👍
      Can you elaborate on to this?

    • @marlinking7078
      @marlinking7078 3 года назад +25

      @@thethinker9701 I won't elaborate because testosterone does way too many things for men who harness it. Research the benefits of healthy testosterone levels, and I recommend you listen/read CH11 Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, and Outwitting the Devil (Napoleon Hill) I believe its CH10 Self Discipline. BOTH will raise your eyebrows.

    • @thethinker9701
      @thethinker9701 3 года назад +5

      @@marlinking7078 thank you brother

    • @marlinking7078
      @marlinking7078 3 года назад +9

      @@thethinker9701 You Welcome. When I found out about this info, I went NUTS because I lost my energy over time being married, and my ex wife told me she was attracted to me--because she liked how fast I moved and strong I was for my size as a delivery man unloading a 48 foot trailer by myself. Her female co-worker gave her a run down about me and told my ex: she feel sorry for the woman I knock down because I will wear her out royally. At the time I was 28--2months out of a 6yr relationship and I was NO FAPPING not knowing at that time what it was until 2yrs ago; with my focus on getting a condo, getting a pickup truck, and plotting to take the vacations I was procrastinating on, because I was living with a single mother with two daughters playing house before I met my ex wife. YOUR ENERGY IS VERY IMPORTANT!

  • @princessr6051
    @princessr6051 2 года назад +19

    True, I like, quiet guys, coz to me it shows you are confident and accomplished enough, you don't have to prove it by talking too much (word salad)

  • @mkingISTP
    @mkingISTP 3 года назад +75

    I can tell Rom is an introvert just off of how deep he goes into topics. They say girls don’t like shy guys etc but I always got girls just off of being quiet. I’ve never had a girl lose attraction from me being quiet. Even guys will think I don’t get girls because I’m quiet and act surprised when I get more women than them with no effort on my part

  • @tomibally6546
    @tomibally6546 3 года назад +35

    Real G’s Move In Silence, That’s Why Women Love Thugs.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +18

      That's what many people don't seem to understand.

  • @fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102
    @fitnesshigherselfhealthand7102 3 года назад +43

    Women definitely like the quite one, I always been the live, loud one but I’m learning that quite is the best way. The cold approach usually doesn’t work, in the right environment just fall back, shine and they’ll mostly come to you.

  • @JahThaGod12
    @JahThaGod12 3 года назад +85

    personally i believe if you’re into metaphysics you can actually create an aura around you thru mental exercises that people can literally feel and “see” . mix that with being quiet and having confidence about yourself, they’ll notice your light 💯💯

    • @HYPNOTiK_
      @HYPNOTiK_ 3 года назад +6

      Yup because how you feel (emotions) and your thoughts (lights) about yourself, others are able to pick up on it subconsciously/spiritually!

    • @JahThaGod12
      @JahThaGod12 3 года назад

      @@blizzard5287 i’m 22

    • @thematrix5115
      @thematrix5115 2 года назад

      Care to share some of these exercises?

  • @torachan23
    @torachan23 3 года назад +60

    A quiet man with loud money sounds like a killer combination

    • @60NXNP09
      @60NXNP09 3 года назад +2

      That's right!

    • @blackshadexl
      @blackshadexl 3 года назад +2

      It is lol

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +41

      A man has to be careful with his money. Many women are checking for Tricks.

    • @Misericorde9
      @Misericorde9 3 года назад +25

      @@RomWills “Money talks, wealth whispers.”

    • @weareit9530
      @weareit9530 3 года назад +6

      @@Misericorde9 I gotta take the quote brother man

  • @joseph6243
    @joseph6243 3 года назад +61

    There's a lot to be said for quiet guys and introverted game. I say it all the time: confidence + masculinity + body game + sex appeal makes the difference between the shy guy and the strong mysterious type. I'd rather let my presence speak for me. I think you found a new niche as a sex coach Uncle Rom.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +15

      My books focused more on sex. Other people called me a dating coach.

    • @joseph6243
      @joseph6243 3 года назад +8

      @@RomWills I don't really think of you as a dating coach, I think sex coach or a men's self development coach fits your persona better. I like your content because you keep it real and as an introvert I'm more interested in the internal/sexual side of game anyway like body game, sexual magnetism, transmutation, sex appeal, authenticity, etc.

  • @sjiii8595
    @sjiii8595 3 года назад +88

    The energy is heavy coming from a quiet man who's about his business as opposed to the loud mouth sucka seeking attention all the time..real women are attracted to that..their curiosity can lead that man they're interested in to kill that "cat"! Lmfao!! Great drop right here Brother Rom Salute!💯

  • @Carlon847
    @Carlon847 3 года назад +19

    I’m very similar uncle rom. I’m reserved, I just sit back & observe. But if there’s something to be said I’ll be the first to speak.

  • @mcjrocker
    @mcjrocker 3 года назад +52

    Women can really put up a hassle with quiet guys, a lot of them automatically assume he can’t lay pipe. I love when you actually get the draws and then they’re surprised and hooked. Then her friends find out and wanna see 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sostdm617
      @sostdm617 3 года назад +5

      💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💯💯💯

  • @deckerh.7620
    @deckerh.7620 2 года назад +25

    The whole "why don’t you smile" thing happened to me 24/7 in high school I swear, multiple women would say that to me but they would choose me at the same time. It’s like I was the standout from all the corny dudes so to speak. You speak the truth Rom💯💯

  • @theastrobuddhist4348
    @theastrobuddhist4348 3 года назад +25

    Once women have all figured out you've lost the attraction.

  • @mr.wright7803
    @mr.wright7803 3 года назад +20

    As a quiet guy I can attest to this message.

  • @agentm83
    @agentm83 3 года назад +12

    I'm a quiet introverted type too. There's sometimes power in being the strong silent, mysterious guy.

  • @muscularclouds
    @muscularclouds 3 года назад +14

    "Don't Try" Harness the cool factor!

  • @akh5131
    @akh5131 3 года назад +15

    I learned that women are fluent in body language, ion need my mouth to do the talking. If you truly confident you let em know with your energy.

  • @Tommibalogun27
    @Tommibalogun27 3 года назад +22

    This overlooked but I have noticed that most players tend to be more the quiet side.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +8

      Many are low-key.

  • @darlingtonobi3324
    @darlingtonobi3324 3 года назад +58

    Especially in a work setting. Usually I come into work do my job and go home mind my business keep it to a hello and goodbye. Little did I know it makes women curious, annoyed, and frustrated.
    Funny enough I actually got more attention because I was quiet and carried myself well.
    It was also funny when my female work colleagues saw me out with with a women.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +32

      That's how men need to be on a job.

    • @kevmersa6578
      @kevmersa6578 3 года назад +8

      Facts!

    • @eeeeeaase1036
      @eeeeeaase1036 3 года назад +12

      @@RomWills I thought I was the only one who thought that, some people just love to talk.

  • @KenThinkIN
    @KenThinkIN 3 года назад +25

    Being quiet communicates that you can practice proper discretion. I will attest to being able to get with women that were deemed out of reach by just being quiet in situations and letting my true self speak in action. Thank you Bro Rom for your wisdom

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 2 года назад +3

      I have heard of that as well. By being discreet makes the ladies want too creep all while staying out of reach.

  • @jzonqelliswashington7981
    @jzonqelliswashington7981 3 года назад +31

    The quiet guy lives in the future. Women are interested in what’s next however the quiet guy says nothing what’s next is her move weather she moves away from the future or towards it she won’t be the only one choosing.

  • @mo2heaven704
    @mo2heaven704 2 года назад +15

    Being quiet I definitely attract more outgoing women, whom happen to be more honest and open which I prefer. Some women definitely get insecure at times and sometimes attack my quietness because it makes them feel like something is wrong with them cause I simply don’t have much to say in the moment

  • @sniper11n.d.34
    @sniper11n.d.34 3 года назад +18

    Especially women tell me you need to smile more. Why always so serious? Well lady I am a serious cat. 🙂

  • @kevinfowlks7351
    @kevinfowlks7351 3 года назад +8

    Not everything requires or deserves a response

  • @kwamd.1461
    @kwamd.1461 3 года назад +25

    Lol I can relate to you Unc, I hate being bothered when I’m eating or when I’m chilling by myself. Also, you are right, there are some women who do find quiet guys attractive. Me personally, I’ve always been a quiet guy by nature. I can be extroverted to a certain extent, but for the most part, I stay to myself. It has worked to my advantage when it comes to women. Good stuff Unc, I really liked this joint💯

  • @u.s.6909
    @u.s.6909 3 года назад +15

    Years ago I was listening to some PUA talking about being the life of the party and being loud. I just couldn't do it, never resonated with me.

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +3

      Same here even with approaching it just isn't my cup of tea. So I go with the flow.

  • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
    @GokuBlack-sn5dr 3 года назад +17

    I still got that video, "game for introverted men" still to this day the only video I ever paid for on YT

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +3

      Thanks for your support.

    • @bwheel2962
      @bwheel2962 3 года назад +1

      Me too lol

  • @merinajalaya740
    @merinajalaya740 3 года назад +35

    I had two male coworkers that wanted me one was hilarious and full of charisma and he would have me cracking up in tears and the other one was stoic and quiet but it was a silent aggression.
    Both of the men were buff and considered attractive by society. I wanted the quiet man with the more serious tone.
    The funny guy thought he had a shot but no.
    The calm cool collected guy would have had a shot with me. But I resisted temptation 😩 ...barely.

  • @blackindemand3248
    @blackindemand3248 3 года назад +22

    Glad I came across you at this age (17) . I found your channel from Kevin Samuels with you on his live stream about Select men 2yrs ago....Keep on pushing the message 👍🏿

    • @TSoCozy
      @TSoCozy 3 года назад +9

      Been watchin almost 2 years graduate high school friday. stay gamed up n keep grinding

  • @TrusttheJourney33
    @TrusttheJourney33 2 года назад +8

    I’m my 27 years I always listened to wealthier individuals and they would say the loudest in the room isn’t the one you pay attention too. I remember Uncle Rom mentioned the quiet ones are the people you pay attention to because they might know something or try to shoot ya!! Haha
    But I’ve always listened more than I spoke because I’d rather be seen not heard!

  • @skeelo6219
    @skeelo6219 3 года назад +9

    Cheers to the Silent Ones, I'm also a subscriber to that society 🥂

  • @briantorres6600
    @briantorres6600 3 года назад +12

    “Make sure your sauce is good”
    -Rom Wills, 2021

  • @TeamNjabc1
    @TeamNjabc1 3 года назад +14

    Your rising sign has a part to play with how you should approach women. My sun and moon is in Capricorn so I have a laid back mind & tend to think befor I act. My rising sign is in Aries though so how I approach life is very aggressive. I don’t like waiting for anything. I honestly think “waiting” for choosing signals is effeminate. Im a go-getter/ hunter so I’m the initiator in interactions. That’s what works best for me. Even though I do have females approach me from time to time and get “choosing signals”. My best approach is to be aggressive in the situation. As a a man you need to lead the interaction to where you want it to go. You can’t be waiting for a female to make the moves

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +1

      I'm the same way observe before taking action.

    • @nicekix3038
      @nicekix3038 3 года назад +1

      I’m Virgo rising and I have crippling anxiety 😢

  • @cboy-ou2hr
    @cboy-ou2hr 3 года назад +6

    As a quiet man I can verify what you say is the truth rom women definitely check for quiet men they definitely trying to figure you out before you open your mouth

  • @stxcks23
    @stxcks23 3 года назад +7

    Can't talk my self out of the ...

  • @maravilloso002
    @maravilloso002 3 года назад +6

    I must give off the weird creepy vibes or I intimidate ppl that much.

  • @michaelcoates8191
    @michaelcoates8191 3 года назад +12

    Walk up slowly lmao

  • @markyamamoto9208
    @markyamamoto9208 3 года назад +6

    We been Saucey in the Bay for years Rom. It’s a Hyphy thang

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад

      You know it takes a while for to catch up.

  • @levisnclarks380
    @levisnclarks380 3 года назад +15

    Never quiet in pursuit of a love interest.A closed mouth don't get fed.I will let yall lie about women throwing themselves at you.You wouldn't be here.I mean I'm not walking around with a bullhorn proclaiming my greatness.But Im never afraid to raise my voice when needed.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +35

      Now brotha you know some dudes get play thrown at them. Others have to be more aggressive. Everybody has to find their own style.

    • @swdelamentay4802
      @swdelamentay4802 3 года назад +3

      Not. Everyone wants to voice themselves in public same goes with approach. Look at 007 James Bond his demeanor is the silent masculine aura as soon as he walks in the Ladies can feel his energy same goes with James St Patrick from Power. Nothing needs to be said with those guys its the energy period.
      Yes I know these are factious characters from shows but the energy between these men hits different with women.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +24

      @Bryan Do a search through my archives for the terms, "Shadow World" and "Mr. Goodbar." Also ask yourself why teachers are throwing sex at students. Ask yourself why women are paying male exotic dancers and having sex with them, Ask yourself why women are traveling across the world engaging in sex tourism. Just because you haven't personally experienced something doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

    • @x97s
      @x97s 3 года назад

      @Bryan get out more

    • @eversonharris9749
      @eversonharris9749 3 года назад +11

      @Bryan Like Rom said you have to catch their eye first. I’m an introvert and have been able to pull plenty of chicks that guys lose sleep over. With no effort. All you have to do is have your body right, keep a clean appearance, and have a calm demeanor. That combo drives women crazy.

  • @tevinheath3997
    @tevinheath3997 3 года назад +7

    Thank you, uncle Rom well needed. I had to purchase Black Male Nerds and Relationships and the new video on Vimeo.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for your support.

    • @tevinheath3997
      @tevinheath3997 3 года назад +2

      @@RomWills No problem, will there be an advanced version of the new video either way, looking forward to the upcoming Vimeo videos. I am starting to settle down soon and your video helped me be a man amongst boys.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +1

      @@tevinheath3997 I'll get around to it.

  • @dannybaldwin7343
    @dannybaldwin7343 3 года назад +12

    😎🤫Quiet 🤫😎

  • @RelaxedReadz
    @RelaxedReadz 3 года назад +34

    When there is polarity, the kitty will get hot..and when you're being just like her..absolutely not. It can't be faked, you have to be the bait; and if you do it well..she'll want to fix you a hot plate.
    Facts. One.

    • @60NXNP09
      @60NXNP09 3 года назад +3

      Agree! That's my formula

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +4

      Truth.

  • @masculinemindset6509
    @masculinemindset6509 3 года назад +1

    Uncle Rom never disappoints. Salute my brother 💪🏽🙏🏾💪🏽

  • @trex0416
    @trex0416 2 года назад +1

    It always confuse me
    I am 5'9 in height, not muscular, really introverted and weird, I live in the reserved realm
    Yet I some how intrigue women and dudes i don't know want to interact with me and break bread
    How is this happening?

  • @eugenejohnson5589
    @eugenejohnson5589 3 года назад +1

    Salute Rom.

  • @Coldest352
    @Coldest352 3 года назад +4

    Yeah if you strong and masculine like to keep frame but the girl I like I don't mind make the moves closed mouth don't get fed .

  • @ChroniclesofAJ
    @ChroniclesofAJ 3 года назад +9

    Thats perfectly me

  • @Olotv
    @Olotv 3 года назад +1

    🗣Big Facts

  • @11JonPaul
    @11JonPaul 3 года назад +1

    the best real life ideas happen in your sleep

  • @keithhughes5640
    @keithhughes5640 2 года назад

    Uncle Rom, the coolest oom in the game.

  • @DineroDaOne
    @DineroDaOne 2 года назад

    Unc I rock wit your content you’re a like minded individual. Salute 🤝

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for your support.

  • @hillz405
    @hillz405 3 года назад +3

    Uncle rom giving free game lols by nature I’m quite. At work I had this one chick giving me ride to figure me out one white girl I was playing this cat and mouse game at work I had her super Curious to point she came and I hugged Lols free game here aslong I smile and body right say no more

  • @josiahcrew375
    @josiahcrew375 2 года назад

    Love ur videos unc. Same way wit me man. Seeing that BADUNK gotta hunt on that

  • @ishmaaelrahim9242
    @ishmaaelrahim9242 3 года назад

    Peace'N'Blessingz (Rom) Mr.Wills Dropping Lyfe Lessons on That Thi Modern Man Should Game Tight Universally To Eradicate Women Hypergamy Bullshytt ...! Cali Love Frm Thi High Desert (SB) Please Drop mi Line When U Touch Base in L.A. Successful Lyfe A Must...! A'-1 D.C. Brotha-Mann
    🌏🌎🌍🎆🌟🌟🌟

  • @mzmav720
    @mzmav720 3 года назад

    Im the same way Mr. Scorpio 😂

  • @signsofthetimes886
    @signsofthetimes886 2 года назад +1

    My man👀

  • @PutYourselfOn100
    @PutYourselfOn100 Год назад

    💯

  • @jackrabbitbranch7913
    @jackrabbitbranch7913 3 года назад +1

    Sir,
    How can I get a shirt

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад

      It was sent to me as a gift. I would have to find the young man's information.

  • @tre-5-sev259
    @tre-5-sev259 3 года назад +18

    Peace Rom. You sound like a "Sociable Introvert". I've been described this myself.
    Btw you are one of the few people who I hear put emphasis on dealing with females within a social circle/community a guy frequents. This is how guys can effectively aply what you are describing (getting chose-up on). I think it goes over a lot if dudes heads though. Because they are either anti-social or they don't have any hobbies that get them out of their personal bubble. So it seems like they are either heavy into approaching random females (if they that type) or nothing at all.

    • @RomWills
      @RomWills  3 года назад +4

      Very good points.