Omg there's also something like this on tiktok, the failed "Tried to kiss my best friend" challenge. The amount of friendships that burned to the ground in seconds was hard to look away from
About the violinist and the wedding proposal also in Brazil, it's hard to understand what she is actually saying but you can hear "I told you, I told you not to do this", probably he got dumped and tried the ultimate return shit
I agree. Like something serious could have happened between them that caused that rejection and youre just saying boo to that without knowing the full story.....
@@rohanspen7236 Yes, I could totally see a manipulative partner try this as one of their last stunts when they start realizing you aren't blindly into them anymore but starting to see through their abusive bs, I know an abusive ex of mine could 100% have tried to pressure me into staying with him by making a public proposal and counting on me not having the balls to say no and make an embarassing scene... Like for all you bystanders know, one of them may have just dumped the other not long ago and the other one is now desperately trying to force them back together, and like you do not want to root for toxic shit like that
@@rohanspen7236 yes, I'm ok now, happily engaged to the best woman ever (I made a semi-public proposal only half a year into our relationship, whoops xD it was at our local pride event but in a typical sapphic manner we had discussed marriage and kids and such early on in our relationship so we were on the same page on those things and when they would happen (and we had deemed we could get engaged after over half a year of dating, and now we are already approaching our 4-year anniversary) and it did not come completely out of nowhere and she was not too embarrassed but moreso happy on how adorable it was :D) and I'm going through my trauma about him with a therapist, and I probably luckily will never have to see him again as he is in and out of prison (for sadly doing even worse things to later gfs and other people) and in a different city than me, and I'm over here, living my best life with my gf, our cat and dog, studying biomedicine to become a scientist like I always wanted :)
i have anxiety so i would totally freak out but when u think about it, if they r so blind to ur situation then ur probably better off not marrying them anyway
I don't understand how a couple hasn't had some form of conversation about marriage to know where your partner stands with things. It confuses me greatly.
It's pretty predictable that a couple that had zero healthy communication about what the other wants & marriage, would definitely propose when that's not gonna go well.
@@incogcheeto9322 Of course they don't, but you'd think you'd have discussed it with your partner to have some awareness of whether or not that's something they want before publicly proposing to them.
Simply, people are idiots. I'm not against marriage at all but I think people watch too many rom coms and think that a proposal should be a TOTAL surprise, which is a terrible idea. The time and place can be a surprise, but not the idea.
I have actually experienced this personally 😖 I flew to see my cousin for her birthday and heard my boyfriend's "ex" girlfriend in the background. So imagine my surprise to see my (newly) ex boyfriend at the airport gate when I flew home. Then, to my horror he got down on one knee in front of me. People all around me were staring and smiling. I wanted to die. I whispered under my breath "what do you think you're doing?" and he said he loved me and he was going to show me how he didn't want anyone else blah blah blah bullshit... so I said I would let him drive me home, we could fight in the car if he would JUST GET UP AND WALK! And I started trying to push past him and the stupefied mass of people with my suitcases. Everyone was staring daggers at me, and I even heard a lady say "What a bitch!" That was one of the worst moments of my life. That whole relationship was like a clip show of worst moments if I actually think about it..
@@Trisbreya Thanks 😊 It sucked, but I'm proud of myself for not giving in to the pressure of the situation. Saying yes would have been the only way to make that day worse 🤣
Why this only got 99 likes? Including mine. I'm so sorry I would have killed him! And that lady probably just been rejected and thinks everyone who turns everyone down is a "bitch" well wishes my friend!
My partner asked me out my saying the same thing with a masterball haha! We have been together for 5 years now, we want to get married but we both agreed not to because it's far to expensive
We've been together almost 8 years now. I wanted to elope cause im cheap but he insisted we have a "big" wedding. I still found ways to make it cheap lol
The person who says no never should be shamed. They're being asked to spend life with this person and they realize they probably can't commit to that :/ No one should be shamed for saying no
Had a teacher at my school who proposed very publicly in a bar to his girlfriend, also a teacher at our school. She said "yes" in public to get out of the situation and "hell no" in private. Next day, the whole school knew. Worst part of the story: he did it again.
Look, I love my husband. He proposed ”publicly” on a dark bridge we were walking on in the middle of the night on Halloween. So there was probably someone there, but not a damn crowd. It was just outside, and we happened to have our first kiss on that bridge many years ago, so it was perfect. I said yes (obviously since I refer to him as my husband :P), but if he had made a public spectacle with a crowd etc., I would’ve definitely said no, or at the very least ”I’ll have to think about it”. No matter how much I love the man, making a spectacle in front of a huge crowd is soooooo manipulative that it’d make me seriously reconsider the whole relationship. It would also have shown that he either didn’t know me at all (I have social anxiety) or didn’t care. I just hate the so-called ”romantics” who boo when the woman says no to a public proposal. You don’t know shit. The proposing partner could literally be an abuser holding the other one hostage. They might have just broken up and the proposing one started stalking her etc. Just… stay out of it! And if some of your friends want to propose publicly with a huge spectacle… get them to reconsider.
I find it super rude that people will put their partner on the spot like this with a very public proposal. I would hate that! My proposal was very chill, and we got married in 10-15 minutes in Vegas, by the Grim Reaper. Our reception was dinner at Tournament of the Kings, with jousting and pyrotechnics. Loved it
Wow okay so now I have new wedding goals?!?! Thanks for the mad cool inspo 😂 fucking dope, “screw Elvis, I’m getting married by the Grim fucking Reaper” is some real boss energy right there
Apparently it's called that because it looks like an egg on a vine when it startes to fruit. And also states that the Europeans made that name up. Sooooo it stuck here in the US I guess. Plus idk why the emoji is used to insinuate a penis. If a penis looks like that then they need to get checked like asap.
I was married for nearly 14 years, we eloped, after his family and my family decided they wanted to dictate how we spent our money what we had planned as a very small 10 person wedding. 10. By the time they all had discussed it, it was 150 people they wanted there but didn't want to pay for it. Elope, young ones, ELOPE! Spend money on a nice dress you can wear again, buy a starter ring and enjoy a stress-free day with the person you want to be with forever. Sincerely, your random comment older Sister and or Aunt and or Mom depending on your age.
My husband and I knew we wanted to be married within 6 months of knowing one another. We were 18 and 19. We waited 7 years to get married because my parents didn't think we were "ready"/they didn't like him. 3 years long distance/500 miles apart, 3 separate attempts to plan a wedding, 12000+ miles of driving in one year to finally do the thing. We wanted 25 people max at our home church. It was a fiasco, and the whole time my fiance kept suggesting we elope. I'm glad that we had a lovely wedding. It all worked out in the end and my folks did pay for a good chunk of it. It was very memorable and I don't regret the day itself (just the DJ lol). But it just cemented how much my wedding didn't belong to me but to my parents. And that was really stressful. They'd already had theirs...let me have mine? I told them I didn't want them to pay for anything and they kept pushing to pay, which meant they had control over some part of it. And if I'd waited this long for their approval and to not break my relationship with them, then I had to go that extra mile, too. (Woooo anxiety and wanting to please...) I'm glad we didn't elope, and they are so much more accepting of me and my husband now, which is a huge relief. (Somehow becoming a Mrs. made me a proper human being??) But I so wish things had gone differently. If the people in your life won't listen to you, then start thinking about what matters the most to you and what you are willing to sacrifice to get it. And trust me, I know how hard it is when you feel trapped. Talk with your partner and people you trust! They'll be your lifeline.
That's exactly what my husband and I did. We got married at a local park on the bridge, with our kids and siblings there. That's it got my dress for like $20 and we didn't even have our rings yet 🤣 been together almost 12 years and married 6 of them
They're confident their S/O will say yes, but they're also putting them in a position where they -can't- say no, which adds to their confidence. It's gross
It's just peer pressure. I let my boyfriend know, before marriage was even a thought, that if he proposed infront of other people I would be PISSED. So he didn't. Epilogue, we've been married for 3 years/together for 12. Communication is key.
Ah Jake, thank you for this. Agree with your points on Americans and weddings. Also, for whatever reason if you've been in a committed relationship for a few years and haven't gotten married *points at self*, a lot of people seem to think there's something "wrong" or you're not actually that committed. So far from the truth.
Most of those people are religious assholes who think you need to get married after u date for 2 days or think you need to get married as soon as your an adult. Unfortunately I have to live with this every single day of my life. Getting scoffed at when I say I don't want to marry or have kids saying I'll change my mind. It fucking blows.
@Pastel Hot Mess I don’t want to have kids, but there’s seems to be a lot of pressure for women to. It’s scary and disheartening honestly, I don’t feel comfortable being forced into such a potion.
@@pastelhotmess9299 Ohh yes... And the absolute worst is if you do get married but don't want kids. I've seen so many stories on r/childfree of people being told that their marriage is pointless because they're not breeding. Like damn Sharon, I'm sorry you don't love your husband and only got hitched to have someone's semen demons to incubate because you were terrified of how close you were getting to 30
I feel a lot better, after reading these comments. Don't want kids, and as fun as a fancy schmancy wedding sounds, I'm not quite interested in tying myself to someone on so many legal levels, that I could wind up getting fucked in all the wrong ways if I'm not careful (I trust my current partner not to purposefully mess me up, but he's not quite as financially stable as I would prefer, either). It gets SO. FUCKING. *ANNOYING.* When people ask why we're not married, yet, and say that I *might* change my mind about not wanting kids in the future. Fuck off with that shit, I DON'T WANT IT! If my siblings decide to marry and procreate, I've no problem being the auntie...but I don't want the burden that comes with marriage and kids. I'm happy just dating and living with my chosen partner. ♥️
My hubby wanted to propose to me when I got off work. I could read it in his face and was like "don't you dare do this in public, if you are serious about it ask me at home", so he asked me as soon as we closed the door behind us, I said yes and three years later we got married. BUT I HATE BIG GESTURES OF LOVE IN PUBLIC. If he had proposed to me in public I surely would have said no,just because I would have felt pressured.
Yes, marriage is very industrialized here in America. Everything is very expensive and ruled by businesses. I absolutely hate it and I never plan on having a wedding.
Yeah, if I get married we're doing it at the courthouse and maybe going to a bar or restaurant with family/friends. Like everything here in the US is expensive for no reason
I'm always on the proposee's side. Public proposals like these are always so humiliating and if you look at like 99% of the women they always look like the type that would prefer something small and out of the eye of hundreds of people. As you said Jake, most of the time they're to embarrass the proposee into saying yes. Two week girl looks like the kind of girl that would murder the guys cat for him saying no. However I feel like that was fake.
And no offense to the proposees but they often seem underdressed to he proposed to, I think the violin one and probably the basketball game was the only one were the girls were put together enough to be proud of looking back on their proposal video. Like please, give them a reason to dress up a lil bit at least(their version of put together). If you arent even considerate enough to do that, maybe that's a sign you arent ready for marriage.
14:30 Fun Fact (although I'm ten days late): Out of about 10 thousand participants in a survey about proposals, only about 5% of the women surveyed favored long-lasting proposals and 10% liked a more extravagant one, as opposed to the overwhelming 45% who would rather prefer their significant other to just ask them and get to the point. For reference, the second most preferred way to propose only reached 15%. Although not a direct answer, it's still related, so I though it was worth mentioning.
I'm convinced many of the women who ran away did it because they were scared SHITLESS of answering the question in front of such a big crowd. I know I would!
I have the same situation. I’m very happily unmarried to my partner. It irks me when people ask why we haven’t married. I always say “we can just love each other. No need to get the government involved”
It's so stupid isn't it. One of the last things my Grandpa asked me before he lost the ability to speak was that and I told him the truth, "Grampa I don't even have a partner."😂 I think he believed that future happiness and 'security' was always tied to marriage but I think he also secretly wanted the big party!
I'd rather be shamed by strangers than be legally bound to one of my exes potentially forever Also I was petting my dog while watching this, so my karma is redeemed
I've seen a guy propose to a woman publicly she said no and she started yelling at him because he already had a girlfriend who was pregnant and the girlfriend ended up showing up and startes beating the guy and the crowd booed the woman who said no but once they found out what was going on they stopped
He always does that though. I don't get why people are so obsessed with him and Kaya getting married. The guy already is pretty much against societal norms so why do people keep pushing? It is clear with his little talk at the beginning that he and Kaya are likely not for marriage. They have been together for 10 years... A little piece of paper won't change anything.
Well, in the states there's benefits to marriage. If your partner is in the hospital you don't get any say so about their care without legal documentation. You could be with someone 30 years and if you don't have legal rights you don't even get updates if they're alive or dead from staff so its more than "just" a piece of paper. But that being said there's no reason to have a wedding or tell people or change your name if you don't want to. I have no desire to do those things but going to the courthouse and tossing down $50 so I'm not legally in the dark if something happens to me or my partner is worth it.
Chill, chill. I didn't push an agenda. I know he does that a lot... it was just the way everything combined. Not to be rude, but I have no interest in their relationship. It was just a cute smile I noticed, at a cute time. 🤷♀️
@@lhp_penguin3712 yeah but in other places there is such thing as common law. Where if you are living with someone for more than a certain amount of time... You are considered "married". I can't remember off the top of my head but I am pretty sure that also includes hospital issues.
The second that girl said “it’s only been two weeks” my immediate reaction was RUN, it’s been two weeks and she’s asking you to marry her? SHE IS CRAZY RUN BITCH DONT LOOK BACK JUST RUN and then she started attacking him and I was like that’s what I thought
Jake calling the violinist an asshole for smiling at the dudes rejection when knowing good n well, Jake would be laughing like a hyena making a scene from laughing at his rejection ...yea... so would I jake...so would i..😂😂😂🤷♂️
It’s Jessica megannn His immediate connection of "this is Australian....I'm being bamboozled" was just great 😂😂😂 I love that that is the reputation we have
I'm on the side of the ones getting proposed to. Totally feel like the proposers are basically holding them hostage by those crowds to get a yes like you said.
I’m personally on the woman’s side in the video with the commentators in it. That place wasn’t a good place to do it. She is under a lot of pressure and if she says no, she is, as you said, made out to be the bad guy in that situation and immediately shamed by everyone in the arena as well as the commentators. In my opinion, the guy proposing to her should have picked a calmer setting, or, a place which is special to both partners in the relationship.
When I was seventeen or eighteen years old, the person I was dating insisted on trying to propose to me in a public setting despite the fact that I tried FOR SEVERAL WEEKS to end our volatile relationship. For a brief while, I lived with my brother on the opposite side of the city and, when I moved back to the house I lived in during secondary/high school: he started stalking me. (I'd leave to walk to school in the morning and he'd be at the end of the alley, standing there. Waiting.) It got to the point where I simply, outright, said "I don't think we should be together" and he STILL tried to arrange a proposal at a film premiere. I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
That whole high-pressure thing is real. I know quite a few guys who think this way, especially when the relationship is getting a bit rocky to begin with. They think they can save it by proposing out in public with tons of witnesses around. Problem is that it doesn't work. I had one friend do it in a fancy restaurant, really quiet but plenty of patrons. She said yes to avoid public embarrassment for both him and herself, and then when they left she blew up on him and broke up with him right there in the parking lot. I warned him NOT to do it but apparently I was the only one of his male friends whose testosterone doesn't govern my every decision. Even his own father, uncle and cousins told him it would save their relationship. SMH
Jake:" In goes the ear pieces I will be using to listen to the actual, physical, audible sound of these men's hearts breaking." also Jake: *insert huge grin at end of sentence* (〃 ̄︶ ̄)
My fiancé and I have been together for just over 5 years and we just bought a house together. Weddings are so freaking expensive in the U.S. and we thought our money was better spent on a home. We might get married eventually.
I’m with the runners, lol... don’t put me in a public situation to try to influence my answer... yeah. No. Girl with the roses was probably pissed that he tried to make a food court a romantic setting, lmao
Im with Jake, these huge displays n shit are for just pressuring them, and them making her seem like a bad person if she says no. Nah, she can put all the signals out there but we guys either dont see them or decide to not see them and not acknowledge them.
Personally I think if you're manipulative enough to propose in front of a huge group of people (therefore making it a lot harder for your partner to say no) you get what you deserve lol.
Gender reveal parties are an excuse to have another party, eat cake, etc. At least, that's what mine were. It's fun to have people guess at the party and then you have an indoor popper or a colored cake to reveal. Nothing too fancy or out there... just all in good fun. I guess people taking it WAY too far ruined it all.
“You Americans” i love it 😂 and you’re right marriage is 1000000% industrialized. It’s all about who has the biggest prettiest ring and dress, the biggest venue, etc.
You know, my husband asked me if I wanted it to be in a public place or not and I said no 😂 It was at night near a lake with no one around, it was beautiful 😊 much better then people hooting and hollering
In the one where she's yelling at him while the guy plays the violin, she is seen leaving with another woman. I wonder if maybe he cheated or something and she knew about it, so she turned him down, and the woman she left with was who he cheated with/on or whatnot.
I like how is Jake freaking out about that girl wanting to marry her boyfriend after only two weeks of dating meanwhile in many countries around the world ( Including my country ) people don't do dates, have sex or anything of the sort before marriage. Here you get married to the person first then get to know them afterwards. Like you can't even know if they have an interesting personality, if they are good at sex or not or overall a good husband / wife material until you're already stuck with them in one house and that's way way way more messed up honestly. Pretty much why I would rather die than get married like that...
I hate gender reveals it’s so annoying like ok we get it your having a baby plus sometimes when the gender reveal is over and it was a girl but when she delivers it’s all of a sudden a boy like ok now we got to explain that it’s a boy now ;-;
This color looks really good. The dye picks up differently depending on how light or dark the hair is before dying. I bleached my hair and tried to dye it Rose Gold. My hair turned out a Rose pink color. I had to use a different color in order to fix it
I have honestly seen a public proposal where the guy did it as an "apology" and "proof he is serious about them" after cheating....so that's a thing...and I totally think that's the mall one where she got mad like that's what happened there
I can actually confirm the proposal on the footy show was fake, while I can't provide you with a link since it happened so long ago, I remember it was reported in the newspapers at the time that it was a stunt to fool the host (nicknamed fatty) for his 50th b'day. So the host wasn't in on the joke.
I’m on both sides. I can feel the pain of the people proposing, and also the awkward guilt of the one saying “no”. It’s an awful situation for both. It’s made even worse by the fact that both are in public when it happens. I hope that my future husband can understand the signals that I’m sending, and that we can communicate well enough that nobody gets hurt.
Essentially my entire state is on FIRE because of a freakin gender reveal party...like WHY?!?!....it’s been a grand time in Cali... how is everyone else doing
Pretty good since I've been unable to breath for the past couple of days without my nose burning, because of the smoke that was carried by the wind over to where I live. Thankfully it's started to clear up, and I actually don't smell smoke anymore :P
Imagine the kid when they finds out that it was their dumb ass parents who caused that deviation. What would make it even better is they are Trans 😁. Gender reveal parties are just genitalia reveal parties.
It’s awful! I can’t breathe at all and I’m in what they call the “Central Valley” so it’s all just stuck here, terrible air quality! Closest fire to me is an hour away and our sky is so dirty looking.
My husband and I were in a costume contest my freshman year of college. We were goth 1920s Dresdin Dolls. We were second to last to go. There were at least a hundred people on looking. A mixure of students, staff, and locals. We look up, hand in hand we walk the 7 foot long runway, and strut the looks I threw together because we needed the monetary prize for 1st place. At the end of the walk, he drops my hand and is on one knee when I look his direction. A loud "awe" stretched from one side of the auditorium to the other. I said yes, not because of pressure, because he is my one. Still is. This was almost 8 years ago. I have photos that I wish I could share! 🖤🖤🖤
Coming home to a video after being absolutely angered by a teacher comparing her students to her 6th grade son is 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 and I enjoy this. Laughing at other people's fails makes me absolutely happy
Omg there's also something like this on tiktok, the failed "Tried to kiss my best friend" challenge. The amount of friendships that burned to the ground in seconds was hard to look away from
He should totally react to those!!
ooh i need to see a reaction to that please!!!!
@Jake Munro please react to these videos!!!
yess i wanna see a reaction to that
That would be funny ✨
About the violinist and the wedding proposal also in Brazil, it's hard to understand what she is actually saying but you can hear "I told you, I told you not to do this", probably he got dumped and tried the ultimate return shit
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He did do a reaction to those I'm pretty sure. It was a girlfriend edition
I don’t understand when crowds boo for a failed proposal. Like, that’s not your relationship, you don’t know why she/he is refusing. Stay in your lane
I agree. Like something serious could have happened between them that caused that rejection and youre just saying boo to that without knowing the full story.....
I agree to both of those points, I hate it when people do that it’s so annoying 😡😡
@@rohanspen7236 Yes, I could totally see a manipulative partner try this as one of their last stunts when they start realizing you aren't blindly into them anymore but starting to see through their abusive bs, I know an abusive ex of mine could 100% have tried to pressure me into staying with him by making a public proposal and counting on me not having the balls to say no and make an embarassing scene... Like for all you bystanders know, one of them may have just dumped the other not long ago and the other one is now desperately trying to force them back together, and like you do not want to root for toxic shit like that
@@hillomunkkiseni Yes, exactly 😔
P.S I hope you’re okay now and done with that ex.
@@rohanspen7236 yes, I'm ok now, happily engaged to the best woman ever (I made a semi-public proposal only half a year into our relationship, whoops xD it was at our local pride event but in a typical sapphic manner we had discussed marriage and kids and such early on in our relationship so we were on the same page on those things and when they would happen (and we had deemed we could get engaged after over half a year of dating, and now we are already approaching our 4-year anniversary) and it did not come completely out of nowhere and she was not too embarrassed but moreso happy on how adorable it was :D) and I'm going through my trauma about him with a therapist, and I probably luckily will never have to see him again as he is in and out of prison (for sadly doing even worse things to later gfs and other people) and in a different city than me, and I'm over here, living my best life with my gf, our cat and dog, studying biomedicine to become a scientist like I always wanted :)
Imagine having social anxiety, and your partner still doing this cus it's "cute".
It happened to me. Of course the poor dude was devastated (I sprinted out of there), but all this could have been avoided if he just listened a bit!!!
Eww
i have anxiety so i would totally freak out but when u think about it, if they r so blind to ur situation then ur probably better off not marrying them anyway
Bye. That's how that would go.
I would freak out. And stare at all the people in embarrassment
I don't understand how a couple hasn't had some form of conversation about marriage to know where your partner stands with things. It confuses me greatly.
It's called a red flag.
It's pretty predictable that a couple that had zero healthy communication about what the other wants & marriage, would definitely propose when that's not gonna go well.
No one HAS to get married.
@@incogcheeto9322 Of course they don't, but you'd think you'd have discussed it with your partner to have some awareness of whether or not that's something they want before publicly proposing to them.
Simply, people are idiots. I'm not against marriage at all but I think people watch too many rom coms and think that a proposal should be a TOTAL surprise, which is a terrible idea. The time and place can be a surprise, but not the idea.
I have actually experienced this personally 😖
I flew to see my cousin for her birthday and heard my boyfriend's "ex" girlfriend in the background. So imagine my surprise to see my (newly) ex boyfriend at the airport gate when I flew home. Then, to my horror he got down on one knee in front of me. People all around me were staring and smiling. I wanted to die. I whispered under my breath "what do you think you're doing?" and he said he loved me and he was going to show me how he didn't want anyone else blah blah blah bullshit... so I said I would let him drive me home, we could fight in the car if he would JUST GET UP AND WALK! And I started trying to push past him and the stupefied mass of people with my suitcases. Everyone was staring daggers at me, and I even heard a lady say "What a bitch!"
That was one of the worst moments of my life. That whole relationship was like a clip show of worst moments if I actually think about it..
Omfg I am so sorry but on the positive side, you are now free of him and it sounds like that was a very good thing. Hope you are going well now!!
@@emmad4308 Thank you! Yes!! Being free of him is one of the great accomplishments of my life!
Holy sh*t that was an awful thing to do. I'm so sorry you went through that.
@@Trisbreya Thanks 😊 It sucked, but I'm proud of myself for not giving in to the pressure of the situation. Saying yes would have been the only way to make that day worse 🤣
Why this only got 99 likes? Including mine. I'm so sorry I would have killed him! And that lady probably just been rejected and thinks everyone who turns everyone down is a "bitch" well wishes my friend!
My husband threw a masterball at my head and said "i choose you"... I ended up with a black eye.... And who said romance is dead 😂😂😂😂
Woah what a coincidence?! I just talked with my boyfriend about this type of proposal yesterday! 😳 What are the odds?!
Lol thats awesome!
A man of culture I see 👏👏🤣
My partner asked me out my saying the same thing with a masterball haha! We have been together for 5 years now, we want to get married but we both agreed not to because it's far to expensive
We've been together almost 8 years now. I wanted to elope cause im cheap but he insisted we have a "big" wedding. I still found ways to make it cheap lol
The person who says no never should be shamed. They're being asked to spend life with this person and they realize they probably can't commit to that :/ No one should be shamed for saying no
Had a teacher at my school who proposed very publicly in a bar to his girlfriend, also a teacher at our school. She said "yes" in public to get out of the situation and "hell no" in private. Next day, the whole school knew. Worst part of the story: he did it again.
To the same teacher, or...?
You think he’ll do it again?
@@naranciaisbestboi125 yep, same teacher 😂
@@pyrokineticfantasies8964 honestly, probably 😂
@@sarahd1298 How the hell did he not learn after the first time?
Look, I love my husband. He proposed ”publicly” on a dark bridge we were walking on in the middle of the night on Halloween. So there was probably someone there, but not a damn crowd. It was just outside, and we happened to have our first kiss on that bridge many years ago, so it was perfect.
I said yes (obviously since I refer to him as my husband :P), but if he had made a public spectacle with a crowd etc., I would’ve definitely said no, or at the very least ”I’ll have to think about it”. No matter how much I love the man, making a spectacle in front of a huge crowd is soooooo manipulative that it’d make me seriously reconsider the whole relationship. It would also have shown that he either didn’t know me at all (I have social anxiety) or didn’t care.
I just hate the so-called ”romantics” who boo when the woman says no to a public proposal. You don’t know shit. The proposing partner could literally be an abuser holding the other one hostage. They might have just broken up and the proposing one started stalking her etc. Just… stay out of it! And if some of your friends want to propose publicly with a huge spectacle… get them to reconsider.
I find it super rude that people will put their partner on the spot like this with a very public proposal. I would hate that! My proposal was very chill, and we got married in 10-15 minutes in Vegas, by the Grim Reaper. Our reception was dinner at Tournament of the Kings, with jousting and pyrotechnics. Loved it
Everyone's different chill
FFS- your wedding sounds so rad.
@@kayteebarga9694 I share her sentiment.
Being put on the spot like that is one big NOPE from me!
Cool wedding
Wow okay so now I have new wedding goals?!?! Thanks for the mad cool inspo 😂 fucking dope, “screw Elvis, I’m getting married by the Grim fucking Reaper” is some real boss energy right there
Jake, you should do a Goth Reacts to thrist comments about yourself. The cringe be delightful. Plus theres plenty to choose from.
Omg yess
Great idea!!! Yes please x
I second this!
Your impression of “eGgPLAaNT” was incredible so correct
Apparently it's called that because it looks like an egg on a vine when it startes to fruit. And also states that the Europeans made that name up. Sooooo it stuck here in the US I guess. Plus idk why the emoji is used to insinuate a penis. If a penis looks like that then they need to get checked like asap.
@@bellasusana8282 🤣for real! Or take the 🐓 💍 off cause its been on way to long!
I was married for nearly 14 years, we eloped, after his family and my family decided they wanted to dictate how we spent our money what we had planned as a very small 10 person wedding. 10. By the time they all had discussed it, it was 150 people they wanted there but didn't want to pay for it. Elope, young ones, ELOPE! Spend money on a nice dress you can wear again, buy a starter ring and enjoy a stress-free day with the person you want to be with forever. Sincerely, your random comment older Sister and or Aunt and or Mom depending on your age.
Best comment I've ever read on youtube in the past 13 years.
This. We had around 15 people. It was fun and cute.
My husband and I knew we wanted to be married within 6 months of knowing one another. We were 18 and 19. We waited 7 years to get married because my parents didn't think we were "ready"/they didn't like him. 3 years long distance/500 miles apart, 3 separate attempts to plan a wedding, 12000+ miles of driving in one year to finally do the thing. We wanted 25 people max at our home church. It was a fiasco, and the whole time my fiance kept suggesting we elope. I'm glad that we had a lovely wedding. It all worked out in the end and my folks did pay for a good chunk of it. It was very memorable and I don't regret the day itself (just the DJ lol). But it just cemented how much my wedding didn't belong to me but to my parents. And that was really stressful. They'd already had theirs...let me have mine? I told them I didn't want them to pay for anything and they kept pushing to pay, which meant they had control over some part of it. And if I'd waited this long for their approval and to not break my relationship with them, then I had to go that extra mile, too. (Woooo anxiety and wanting to please...) I'm glad we didn't elope, and they are so much more accepting of me and my husband now, which is a huge relief. (Somehow becoming a Mrs. made me a proper human being??) But I so wish things had gone differently. If the people in your life won't listen to you, then start thinking about what matters the most to you and what you are willing to sacrifice to get it. And trust me, I know how hard it is when you feel trapped. Talk with your partner and people you trust! They'll be your lifeline.
That's exactly what my husband and I did. We got married at a local park on the bridge, with our kids and siblings there. That's it got my dress for like $20 and we didn't even have our rings yet 🤣 been together almost 12 years and married 6 of them
They're confident their S/O will say yes, but they're also putting them in a position where they -can't- say no, which adds to their confidence.
It's gross
Perfect description.
and they make the proposal about themselves and their image and that's so selfish. i hate that
17:35 "Why is she yelling at him?" Probably because he proposed in a mall food court!
Right... absolute trash and tacky....all the tables and random people...not a fleeting thought to do it somewhere else....
EXACTLY!!
Jake: wHaTs ThE pOiNt Of GeNdEr ReVeAl PaRtIeS?!?!
Me: Catching California on fire
As a native of California i'm so fucking done with these fires 😤
Yeah it’s unfortunate
Now all California knows it's a boy.
@@GothHoneyBee84 I’m sorry I know that I’m not supposed to laugh but that got me 😂
After that fire I didn't want to see another gender reveal party ever again, califorina native here.
It's just peer pressure. I let my boyfriend know, before marriage was even a thought, that if he proposed infront of other people I would be PISSED. So he didn't. Epilogue, we've been married for 3 years/together for 12. Communication is key.
Ah Jake, thank you for this. Agree with your points on Americans and weddings. Also, for whatever reason if you've been in a committed relationship for a few years and haven't gotten married *points at self*, a lot of people seem to think there's something "wrong" or you're not actually that committed. So far from the truth.
Same thing with having kids...it just seemed so forced. Like you don't HAVE TO, but its like so pressuring....
Most of those people are religious assholes who think you need to get married after u date for 2 days or think you need to get married as soon as your an adult. Unfortunately I have to live with this every single day of my life. Getting scoffed at when I say I don't want to marry or have kids saying I'll change my mind. It fucking blows.
@Pastel Hot Mess
I don’t want to have kids, but there’s seems to be a lot of pressure for women to. It’s scary and disheartening honestly, I don’t feel comfortable being forced into such a potion.
@@pastelhotmess9299 Ohh yes... And the absolute worst is if you do get married but don't want kids. I've seen so many stories on r/childfree of people being told that their marriage is pointless because they're not breeding. Like damn Sharon, I'm sorry you don't love your husband and only got hitched to have someone's semen demons to incubate because you were terrified of how close you were getting to 30
I feel a lot better, after reading these comments.
Don't want kids, and as fun as a fancy schmancy wedding sounds, I'm not quite interested in tying myself to someone on so many legal levels, that I could wind up getting fucked in all the wrong ways if I'm not careful (I trust my current partner not to purposefully mess me up, but he's not quite as financially stable as I would prefer, either).
It gets SO. FUCKING. *ANNOYING.* When people ask why we're not married, yet, and say that I *might* change my mind about not wanting kids in the future.
Fuck off with that shit, I DON'T WANT IT! If my siblings decide to marry and procreate, I've no problem being the auntie...but I don't want the burden that comes with marriage and kids. I'm happy just dating and living with my chosen partner. ♥️
My hubby wanted to propose to me when I got off work. I could read it in his face and was like "don't you dare do this in public, if you are serious about it ask me at home", so he asked me as soon as we closed the door behind us, I said yes and three years later we got married.
BUT I HATE BIG GESTURES OF LOVE IN PUBLIC.
If he had proposed to me in public I surely would have said no,just because I would have felt pressured.
When Jake said “one more time for daddy.” I actually melted 😂
I'm embarrassed to have had the same reaction
Im too much of a top to melt for that -Ash
@@JacksonH8r bet u said it to your bottom lol
I replayed it a few times! Haha 😂 😛
@@kaitoi138 You can ask my partner, i am a top -Ash
"I feel like America has made an industry of it.."
Yeaaah. That's, uhhh... That's our motto.
Yes, marriage is very industrialized here in America. Everything is very expensive and ruled by businesses. I absolutely hate it and I never plan on having a wedding.
I'm eloping with my fiancé and just doing the courthouse ceremony.
Yeah, if I get married we're doing it at the courthouse and maybe going to a bar or restaurant with family/friends. Like everything here in the US is expensive for no reason
Which is why I made a decision to not get married and 16 years later we are still together. Don’t have to get married to spend your life with someone
Hoodie i dont think any one would even date you
Shoto Todoroki ...?
Jake: "The violinist is still smiling! What an asshole, look at him."
Also Jake: **Has been laughing this whole time**
I'm always on the proposee's side. Public proposals like these are always so humiliating and if you look at like 99% of the women they always look like the type that would prefer something small and out of the eye of hundreds of people. As you said Jake, most of the time they're to embarrass the proposee into saying yes.
Two week girl looks like the kind of girl that would murder the guys cat for him saying no. However I feel like that was fake.
And no offense to the proposees but they often seem underdressed to he proposed to, I think the violin one and probably the basketball game was the only one were the girls were put together enough to be proud of looking back on their proposal video. Like please, give them a reason to dress up a lil bit at least(their version of put together). If you arent even considerate enough to do that, maybe that's a sign you arent ready for marriage.
14:30
Fun Fact (although I'm ten days late):
Out of about 10 thousand participants in a survey about proposals, only about 5% of the women surveyed favored long-lasting proposals and 10% liked a more extravagant one, as opposed to the overwhelming 45% who would rather prefer their significant other to just ask them and get to the point. For reference, the second most preferred way to propose only reached 15%.
Although not a direct answer, it's still related, so I though it was worth mentioning.
I'm convinced many of the women who ran away did it because they were scared SHITLESS of answering the question in front of such a big crowd. I know I would!
Me: own a home, live with SO, have kids with SO and are very happy.
Parents, in laws and society: wHeN aRe YoU gETtInG mArRiEd?!?!?!
LEAVE US ALONE!
@@lemonwedge5209 8
I have the same situation. I’m very happily unmarried to my partner. It irks me when people ask why we haven’t married. I always say “we can just love each other. No need to get the government involved”
It's so stupid isn't it. One of the last things my Grandpa asked me before he lost the ability to speak was that and I told him the truth, "Grampa I don't even have a partner."😂 I think he believed that future happiness and 'security' was always tied to marriage but I think he also secretly wanted the big party!
I'd rather be shamed by strangers than be legally bound to one of my exes potentially forever
Also I was petting my dog while watching this, so my karma is redeemed
I've seen a guy propose to a woman publicly she said no and she started yelling at him because he already had a girlfriend who was pregnant and the girlfriend ended up showing up and startes beating the guy and the crowd booed the woman who said no but once they found out what was going on they stopped
Hope she stomped his ass
😳
That lady is a legend. He deserved to get beaten.
Okay but even if the man didn't cheat that's fucked up that they'd boo her for not wanting to make such a big decision like that what- 🚶🏾♀️😐
My boyfriend proposed in the car while driving on the highway. And my reaction was "okay yeah, keep your eyes on the road please"
Did anyone else notice the big smile on Jake's face when the girl was proposing? How he grabbed his finger and rubbed his ring......🖤🖤😊
He always does that though. I don't get why people are so obsessed with him and Kaya getting married. The guy already is pretty much against societal norms so why do people keep pushing? It is clear with his little talk at the beginning that he and Kaya are likely not for marriage. They have been together for 10 years... A little piece of paper won't change anything.
@@danigeo83 Preach, it is just a piece of paper
Well, in the states there's benefits to marriage. If your partner is in the hospital you don't get any say so about their care without legal documentation. You could be with someone 30 years and if you don't have legal rights you don't even get updates if they're alive or dead from staff so its more than "just" a piece of paper. But that being said there's no reason to have a wedding or tell people or change your name if you don't want to. I have no desire to do those things but going to the courthouse and tossing down $50 so I'm not legally in the dark if something happens to me or my partner is worth it.
Chill, chill. I didn't push an agenda. I know he does that a lot... it was just the way everything combined. Not to be rude, but I have no interest in their relationship. It was just a cute smile I noticed, at a cute time. 🤷♀️
@@lhp_penguin3712 yeah but in other places there is such thing as common law. Where if you are living with someone for more than a certain amount of time... You are considered "married". I can't remember off the top of my head but I am pretty sure that also includes hospital issues.
The second that girl said “it’s only been two weeks” my immediate reaction was RUN, it’s been two weeks and she’s asking you to marry her? SHE IS CRAZY RUN BITCH DONT LOOK BACK JUST RUN and then she started attacking him and I was like that’s what I thought
Jake calling the violinist an asshole for smiling at the dudes rejection when knowing good n well, Jake would be laughing like a hyena making a scene from laughing at his rejection ...yea... so would I jake...so would i..😂😂😂🤷♂️
jake: *mentions gender reveal parties
me, a person living in califonia: i mean............. same
i'd be the smiling violinist, just out of sheer awkwardness for the situation that's going on
I wouldn't even stop playing and the smile would likely turn into laughter
Jake: “I don’t trust Australia” me an Australian: 😯
It’s Jessica megannn His immediate connection of "this is Australian....I'm being bamboozled" was just great 😂😂😂 I love that that is the reputation we have
The woman- we aren't required to hitch our selves to someone.
Yes that's correct!!! 👏👏✊
The "He's on his toes! He's sprinting!" made me laugh way too hard.
I'm on the side of the ones getting proposed to. Totally feel like the proposers are basically holding them hostage by those crowds to get a yes like you said.
Jake: "Is she saying melly?"
*Ad comes on*
Ad: "Hi, my name is Milly."
👁👄👁
Our proposal:
Me: so, are we going to get married or something?
Him: Yeah, sure.
We're on year 15.
I’m personally on the woman’s side in the video with the commentators in it. That place wasn’t a good place to do it. She is under a lot of pressure and if she says no, she is, as you said, made out to be the bad guy in that situation and immediately shamed by everyone in the arena as well as the commentators. In my opinion, the guy proposing to her should have picked a calmer setting, or, a place which is special to both partners in the relationship.
I mean, you could still dye it purple but rock the red for at least a week.
"Marriage is kind of"
"✨S t i c k y✨"
When I was seventeen or eighteen years old, the person I was dating insisted on trying to propose to me in a public setting despite the fact that I tried FOR SEVERAL WEEKS to end our volatile relationship. For a brief while, I lived with my brother on the opposite side of the city and, when I moved back to the house I lived in during secondary/high school: he started stalking me. (I'd leave to walk to school in the morning and he'd be at the end of the alley, standing there. Waiting.)
It got to the point where I simply, outright, said "I don't think we should be together" and he STILL tried to arrange a proposal at a film premiere. I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
That whole high-pressure thing is real. I know quite a few guys who think this way, especially when the relationship is getting a bit rocky to begin with. They think they can save it by proposing out in public with tons of witnesses around. Problem is that it doesn't work. I had one friend do it in a fancy restaurant, really quiet but plenty of patrons. She said yes to avoid public embarrassment for both him and herself, and then when they left she blew up on him and broke up with him right there in the parking lot. I warned him NOT to do it but apparently I was the only one of his male friends whose testosterone doesn't govern my every decision. Even his own father, uncle and cousins told him it would save their relationship. SMH
Jake:" In goes the ear pieces I will be using to listen to the actual, physical, audible sound of these men's hearts breaking."
also Jake: *insert huge grin at end of sentence* (〃 ̄︶ ̄)
My fiancé and I have been together for just over 5 years and we just bought a house together. Weddings are so freaking expensive in the U.S. and we thought our money was better spent on a home. We might get married eventually.
im on the side of the person being asked the question. doing it in front of a lot of ppl is pressuring the person to say yes. that's not right.
Imo, 3 years isn't enough to dedicate myself to someone for possibly the rest of my life.
I’m with the runners, lol... don’t put me in a public situation to try to influence my answer... yeah. No. Girl with the roses was probably pissed that he tried to make a food court a romantic setting, lmao
i only just found your channel today and i already love you haha
21:37
“one more time for daddy” - Jake
Lmfaooo!!!
I think we all know where you are from my lady 21:37 hahaah
i lost it when you said, "one more time for daddy."😂😂
I'm on that Sandra Bullock chick's side because that fringe game is on fleak
Violinist: *Pulls out the miniscule violin*
The guy moving a whole seat away to get away from the awkwardness is me hahahah
"I feel like America has made an industry of it"
This sentence could fit anything.
Im with Jake, these huge displays n shit are for just pressuring them, and them making her seem like a bad person if she says no.
Nah, she can put all the signals out there but we guys either dont see them or decide to not see them and not acknowledge them.
The way he said “EgG pLaNt” *IM WHEESING* 😂😂🤣
Personally I think if you're manipulative enough to propose in front of a huge group of people (therefore making it a lot harder for your partner to say no) you get what you deserve lol.
Gender reveal parties are an excuse to have another party, eat cake, etc. At least, that's what mine were. It's fun to have people guess at the party and then you have an indoor popper or a colored cake to reveal. Nothing too fancy or out there... just all in good fun. I guess people taking it WAY too far ruined it all.
The hair. The makeup. Everything! Gorgeous!
“SHE HIT THE DECK!” 😭
“one more time for daddy”
adksajaj I CANT
i lost my shit-
That lady struck out harder than any of the baseball players to ever walk onto that field
Since kids get british accents from watching peppa pig couldn't you make them watch Jake so they'll end up with his... Jake accent
I've been watching a fuck ton of UK RUclipsrs lately and I've accidentally said words with a accent plenty of times. It's started 😭
If one of my kids laugh the way he does I'll love it lol
@@lexxdrakkanov4987 his laugh is precious
I lived in friggin' Scotland for a year and I can't hear any accent of his whatsoever... Scottish left me accent-deaf...
HAHAHA the Sonic (haha gotta go fast) got me
If someone proposed to me after two weeks of dating, I’m running for the hills.
SPRINTING FAST AF
@@PleaseForgiveYourself Yes 🏃♀️
Clearly u haven't met wlw
@@dogilolz I have not, never heard of wlw 🤷♀️
Oh wlw (women loving women like example lesbians) it's like a joke between them
“You Americans” i love it 😂 and you’re right marriage is 1000000% industrialized. It’s all about who has the biggest prettiest ring and dress, the biggest venue, etc.
You know, my husband asked me if I wanted it to be in a public place or not and I said no 😂 It was at night near a lake with no one around, it was beautiful 😊 much better then people hooting and hollering
Absolutely lovin the violinist who KEEPS PLAYING through the shitshow. Like the orchestra on the Titanic, playing on in the face of disaster
In the one where she's yelling at him while the guy plays the violin, she is seen leaving with another woman. I wonder if maybe he cheated or something and she knew about it, so she turned him down, and the woman she left with was who he cheated with/on or whatnot.
Maybe the women got together, who knows?
@@ReptilianTeaDrinker that would be amazing
I feel like it’s something they do at the end of a relationship or a in a troubled relationship as a last effort.. so awkward 😬
Jake: I will NEVER dye my hair red
Also Jake: *Dyes his hair red*
Ps: the hair looks amazing and you always make great content
I honestly had to stop myself from doing a welfare check on him because I know how much he HATES red hair....
The violinist is my hero. He just keeps playing and laughing at that dude!
"She hit the deck!"
I like how is Jake freaking out about that girl wanting to marry her boyfriend after only two weeks of dating meanwhile in many countries around the world ( Including my country ) people don't do dates, have sex or anything of the sort before marriage. Here you get married to the person first then get to know them afterwards. Like you can't even know if they have an interesting personality, if they are good at sex or not or overall a good husband / wife material until you're already stuck with them in one house and that's way way way more messed up honestly. Pretty much why I would rather die than get married like that...
The gender reveal party that started the fires make me wanna “REEEEEEEEEEE”
I hate gender reveals it’s so annoying like ok we get it your having a baby plus sometimes when the gender reveal is over and it was a girl but when she delivers it’s all of a sudden a boy like ok now we got to explain that it’s a boy now ;-;
He’s so poetic, I friggin love it
This color looks really good. The dye picks up differently depending on how light or dark the hair is before dying. I bleached my hair and tried to dye it Rose Gold. My hair turned out a Rose pink color. I had to use a different color in order to fix it
I have honestly seen a public proposal where the guy did it as an "apology" and "proof he is serious about them" after cheating....so that's a thing...and I totally think that's the mall one where she got mad like that's what happened there
Definitely an industry in the U.S. when purchasing flowers ALWAYS say "an event." As soon as the W word comes up, price triples.
“One more time for daddy”. Okay daddy 😩
This channel DEFINITELY is my best finding during this quarantine! 🙏
The violinist playing as the shit goes down like a hero.
I can actually confirm the proposal on the footy show was fake, while I can't provide you with a link since it happened so long ago, I remember it was reported in the newspapers at the time that it was a stunt to fool the host (nicknamed fatty) for his 50th b'day. So the host wasn't in on the joke.
I’m on both sides. I can feel the pain of the people proposing, and also the awkward guilt of the one saying “no”. It’s an awful situation for both. It’s made even worse by the fact that both are in public when it happens. I hope that my future husband can understand the signals that I’m sending, and that we can communicate well enough that nobody gets hurt.
The high pitched “Are you serious?!” is a whole mood. 😂
I love the hair🖤
Essentially my entire state is on FIRE because of a freakin gender reveal party...like WHY?!?!....it’s been a grand time in Cali... how is everyone else doing
Pretty good since I've been unable to breath for the past couple of days without my nose burning, because of the smoke that was carried by the wind over to where I live. Thankfully it's started to clear up, and I actually don't smell smoke anymore :P
Man im so sorry for Cali, I still don't understand gender reveals, i don't get why they need an entire shebang thing.
Aye, I'm stuck between the El Dorado fire and Bobcat fire, so you know....fun.
Imagine the kid when they finds out that it was their dumb ass parents who caused that deviation. What would make it even better is they are Trans 😁. Gender reveal parties are just genitalia reveal parties.
It’s awful! I can’t breathe at all and I’m in what they call the “Central Valley” so it’s all just stuck here, terrible air quality! Closest fire to me is an hour away and our sky is so dirty looking.
My husband and I were in a costume contest my freshman year of college. We were goth 1920s Dresdin Dolls. We were second to last to go. There were at least a hundred people on looking. A mixure of students, staff, and locals. We look up, hand in hand we walk the 7 foot long runway, and strut the looks I threw together because we needed the monetary prize for 1st place. At the end of the walk, he drops my hand and is on one knee when I look his direction. A loud "awe" stretched from one side of the auditorium to the other. I said yes, not because of pressure, because he is my one. Still is. This was almost 8 years ago. I have photos that I wish I could share! 🖤🖤🖤
Even my single and bitter about it self had to wince and say "Oooooh" for some of these. I was expecting more schadenfreude, but color me surprised.
I feel so sorry for everyone who gets proposed to in front of so many people 😂😂 That pressure pushes you right into earth's core
Coming home to a video after being absolutely angered by a teacher comparing her students to her 6th grade son is 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 and I enjoy this. Laughing at other people's fails makes me absolutely happy
the way jake said EGGPLANT sounded like sonic the hedgehog saying EGGMAN had me sobbing
Lol
Dude: we meant 3 years ago
Jake: WHEN YOU WERE 12!!
I lost it lol
“You know what else shouldn’t be a big deal, GENDER REVEAL PARTIES!!”
yeah California we’re looking at you.
This is CRINNGGGGE, I love it. Through their rejections, we have found some solace and laughter haha
Your voice is out from the grieving screams of the death of our poor Tum Tum. This last stream was great 🙂