My Body Shaming Story / How I dealt with it

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • How to deal with body shaming, society shaming, depression and lead towards the path of a happy life. Yet another positivity video from my happiness series #HappinesswithMegha
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Комментарии • 274

  • @shwetaprasad5506
    @shwetaprasad5506 4 года назад +22

    i am just like u .i never intertain these kind of people .infact would love to be alone rather having these kind of people around me

  • @shwetaprasad5506
    @shwetaprasad5506 4 года назад +7

    truely said Megha. society keeps on bulling over nd over.it will never change . we r surrounded by these people more than good people around us. so ignoring them is wht one should do

  • @gojiberry7201
    @gojiberry7201 4 года назад +10

    Dear Megha, you are so beautiful, inside and out! And so inspirational! In my late twenties I started gaining weight and even my best friend made snide comments ... I went to a family gathering and my grandmother shouted "You're big!" in front of everyone. Since then I have lost weight, but even at a healthy weight I sometimes feel like I am not good enough. I don't know about India but in the USA there is a big anorexia/bulimia problem among young girls. We all need to love and support each other!! You are helping with that, thank you so much!!

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад

      yes we all should love ourselves :)

  • @yt.bhakti
    @yt.bhakti 4 года назад +9

    This video is very informative ..
    Especially for teenagers..
    I just loved this ..
    Thank you so much for encouraging me ..
    Good luck to you for your best future megha di..

  • @jasnaasrathul8152
    @jasnaasrathul8152 4 года назад +18

    Even I face these kind of things. Honestly this is so hurting. But now I get used to it and i don't care anymore.

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +4

      right decision :)

    • @varshajoshi1965
      @varshajoshi1965 4 года назад +1

      I wish I too stop caring for people who are absolutely not important in life

  • @yaytanishka7124
    @yaytanishka7124 3 года назад +1

    Proud of you megha... feeling much motivated and confident after that...❤️

  • @ShwetaSingh-dl9wc
    @ShwetaSingh-dl9wc 4 года назад +1

    Mere Sath bhi body-shaming Hui Hai abhi main 21 ki hun aur mera weight 60 kg hai so what ignore it I love your life you love your life and all respect your thought

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +1

      just love yourself :)

  • @IndiraTanwar
    @IndiraTanwar 4 года назад

    Thanks for sharing such useful topic.... lot of people follow you and you are a social influencer. You saying such things will make a positive impact on them ☺️

  • @MoumitaBasu23
    @MoumitaBasu23 4 года назад +1

    I have been gone through lots of things in my life... Now at this stage people reaction or words doesn't bother me anymore... I know what I'm and i cant change everyone's mentality nor i can make every one happy... So it's better to make myself happy and avoid them...❤️❤️ Loved your thoughts and advices dear...💝 With love...😘🤗🤗

  • @ruchiapuri160
    @ruchiapuri160 3 года назад

    You are so good.Glad to hear your story.Have been there and done exactly that :)..Glad to hear someone with similar thought process🥰 Way to go!!

  • @abhinetri997
    @abhinetri997 4 года назад +6

    Only take positive things from us and throw the negativity away 😍♥️

  • @swatisahu4114
    @swatisahu4114 4 года назад +1

    I had face the society comments and sometime feel depressed.. but my family is always support me..so m happy now like u

  • @inshayasin6422
    @inshayasin6422 4 года назад

    The best thing is your positive attitude...this postivity encourages many many people ...love the way u handle everything very positively with a sweet smile on your face ..love u di 😘😍❣️❣️❣️

  • @rupnogorparlar5395
    @rupnogorparlar5395 4 года назад

    Kuch to log kahenge...let people talk and you do your work... Work makes people great, be happy with ownself,be your reason of happy,celebrate ownself,you r special and you have to feel u r special, no one is gonna put you up,everyone will put you down only,so celebrate every momont of yourself.. U r special

  • @gunjansingh6066
    @gunjansingh6066 4 года назад +2

    Absolutely right always focus on our goal to achieve better..

  • @chetnaaditi3909
    @chetnaaditi3909 4 года назад

    Thnx megha for inspiring us, ur words can work like miracle for one who is suffering from these type of things!! Like ur posts, God bless u

  • @nishagawade3545
    @nishagawade3545 4 года назад

    U are really brave didi, thanks for guiding so much

  • @parulsrivastava9766
    @parulsrivastava9766 4 года назад

    Very nice Megha....keep it up...

  • @priyankajujare1156
    @priyankajujare1156 4 года назад +1

    Thank u megha di...u r such a nice person ....muje aisa lgta h ki jaise me apse face to face baat kr rhi hu...love u a lottt..

  • @sapnasfoodstation7250
    @sapnasfoodstation7250 4 года назад +1

    Dear...whatever you are no matter coz you r happy wid that ...just only due to hard work u got 1m subscriber.you r Very charming girl n my favorite 😘😘
    Please make series of make up tutorials

  • @omdutt2578
    @omdutt2578 4 года назад +1

    Awesome video tx for making this video 😘😘😘love you dear

  • @crazycreativebishts8758
    @crazycreativebishts8758 4 года назад +1

    Very nice video megha di you are sooo positive person.
    i want to be like u and make my life positive as yours 😊😊

  • @shazi9757
    @shazi9757 4 года назад

    Hope this channel reaches 500k before the new year!
    And about this topic I only keep one thing in my mind I am good the way god made me and those who love me will accept me the way I am.

  • @reginadsouza2007
    @reginadsouza2007 4 года назад

    U r absolutely right meghaji... We should focus on our dear ones and ourselves......

  • @meenulangyan2925
    @meenulangyan2925 4 года назад

    Absolutely rit Megha..u r doing gd job to motivate people through this video..luv u😘

  • @varshajoshi1965
    @varshajoshi1965 4 года назад +1

    I absolutely understand your position. I since childhood was quite obese and was humiliated by almost everyone around me. Same thing happened in college and I literally started keeping myself away from society. I wanted to enjoy with friends. But all of them were slim and beautiful. I was the only big fat ugly duckling.
    Even after joining my bank job the same continued. I used to feel so humiliated when my colleagues used to call me Ae Jaadi very openly. Jaadi means moti. I decided to lose weight and started starving myself. I did lose weight off course. But the hurt of that body shaming still bothers me..... I am just unable to come out f all that even after so many years. I hope I can change my mind set after listening to your video.
    Thank you so much dear Megha...
    Love you dear

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +1

      ignore all negative ppl in life and love yourself unconditionally.

    • @varshajoshi1965
      @varshajoshi1965 4 года назад

      @@Perkymegs
      Yes dear. I'll surely try to. Specially after seeing your motivating video....

  • @aartisrivastava7726
    @aartisrivastava7726 4 года назад +6

    Absolutely agreed with u megha.. I had never followed any other you tuber like u before... U r such an inspiring person.. I will definitely show this video to my 11 years old daughter.. Love u😘😘😘😘

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +1

      thank you so much Aarti

  • @nidhidwivedi4434
    @nidhidwivedi4434 4 года назад +1

    Megha u being slim or chubby doesn't matter u r beautiful person n a very beautiful soul. I can understand wat u must have gone through I have been through same bt such positive ppl like u can help others who r going through all this. Fan of ur fashion video n lot of respect for such inspiring video. Plz make more such video. Love you megha my youtube priti Zinta❤❤

  • @pratibhabhoir8286
    @pratibhabhoir8286 4 года назад +3

    Both my daughter and son are over weight and my close relatives are the one who are commenting and body shaming them Buithe fact is they are trying their best to reduce their weight

  • @dipikapala
    @dipikapala 4 года назад

    Truly very inspirational video.... thanks diii.with lots of ❣️❣️

  • @NehaSingh-oc6wc
    @NehaSingh-oc6wc 4 года назад

    Really Megha I must say that u r such genuine person and I love u ...I also faced some situations where people tried to put me down and the worst part that I got effected ...still I am facing that situation and still I get effected...I m trying hard to deal with such things...I don't know why I care so much abt people...

  • @susanthomas2631
    @susanthomas2631 4 года назад

    Very motivating and inspiring subject... I also believe that we shud ignore if people around are commenting... Shared it with many people 👍👍👌👌

  • @fathimanajla2692
    @fathimanajla2692 4 года назад +1

    The way you are taking is sooo cute

  • @Mathematician4803
    @Mathematician4803 4 года назад +1

    True and best said..... by u. It's necessary to have a purpose of ur life to keep busy ur mind in something productive rather than thinking all the time about shit people.

  • @komalnuna6441
    @komalnuna6441 4 года назад

    Love youself ..megha u r the most beautiful lady in this world..

  • @sayalinaik7668
    @sayalinaik7668 4 года назад +1

    Love you megha so much, I like all your videos. Be happy always as you are. 👸

  • @supriyasalian4417
    @supriyasalian4417 4 года назад

    Wonderful Video Megha ❤️❤️❤️❤️been through the similar phases but I never bothered what others said about me 😘😘😘😘

  • @shilpaarora7963
    @shilpaarora7963 4 года назад

    Too good megha ji...

  • @nowshinjahan9531
    @nowshinjahan9531 4 года назад +7

    Very positive thought for motivate people, when I was teenage I was also underweight, people always bullying me , I tried unhealthy food for weight gain ,after my marriage I was suffering hypothyroidism and people again bullying me for overweight, now after 2 children i can loss my weight. But people again bullying me that I m not looking good .i was studying MSC in biotechnology but for my kids i left job ,people bullying me. Nowadays people never stop bullying, happiness is for me not others,stay fit and healthy is matter not shape,😊😍

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +1

      yes just focus on yourself n your happiness

    • @nowshinjahan9531
      @nowshinjahan9531 4 года назад

      @@Perkymegs thanks for replying 😍

  • @soniritz2506
    @soniritz2506 4 года назад

    I hardly comment.. Mam I faced same problem but I realized, however we are people need to comment. They think it's there work so just self luv. Helps... I like all ur vedios 😍

  • @arhaanart_2023
    @arhaanart_2023 4 года назад

    I just love the way you told your experience.. I too gone through these things.. I'm a mother of two and working.. plz make video on how a working woman can balance personal and professional life

  • @priyankasoni709
    @priyankasoni709 4 года назад

    Big fan of urs..thx for d video

  • @shubhangimahajan7929
    @shubhangimahajan7929 4 года назад

    Very very good vedio Megha and saying very true. Ignore that shaming in our life then started to next step in life .your information is very good to everyone .you looking very beautiful. Love you so much.

  • @aishwaryapatnekar3809
    @aishwaryapatnekar3809 4 года назад

    Very helpful video Megha.. last few years I gained weight and now in same situation dealing with people..

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад +1

      just love yourself :)

  • @manjulaneelakanta4206
    @manjulaneelakanta4206 4 года назад

    What u r telling that is true meghaji..nice video

  • @pallaviverma5541
    @pallaviverma5541 4 года назад

    One thing PEOPLE will say,taunt ,pass comments wether you are thin ,fat ,short or tall because they do it just to feel better about themselves
    These people are jealous and underconfident ..so juat IGNORE THEM ..😎😎

  • @AnayGlukar
    @AnayGlukar 4 года назад

    Yr aapse Bahut inspiration milta hai 😘😘

  • @anuradhakumar579
    @anuradhakumar579 4 года назад +1

    I really agree on the point of finding happiness post achievement
    You'r so great. Admire you so much 😇

  • @reshamfashionhouse763
    @reshamfashionhouse763 4 года назад

    Thank you so very much for this vd Megha di.. thanks thanks thanks a ton.. stay blessed always

  • @meghaseth7080
    @meghaseth7080 4 года назад

    Mam u r so sweet don't worry about that negative people ....
    People who judge others they did show how therir parents taught them so ignore

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад

      yes I ignore all negativity :)

  • @shree22020
    @shree22020 4 года назад

    Very inspiring video megha....
    I also have that typ ppl around me..
    Love u. tkcr dear😘

  • @ShwetaDiary
    @ShwetaDiary 4 года назад +2

    You are very beautiful by heart and inspiration for all fatty girls like me.. Loved your video ❤️
    Thanks for sharing 👏

  • @swethabangali4884
    @swethabangali4884 4 года назад

    So Inspiring 👌🏻Want More Such Videos ..

  • @rutikaparihar107
    @rutikaparihar107 4 года назад +1

    Mam i love your smile nd your way of talking .... ❤️

  • @samatapatel06
    @samatapatel06 4 года назад

    I love you Dear👍🥰😘😍 U r confident,beauty with brain and Inspiration for many . I am also fat but I never get affected by them. You are doing really well 👍👍❤️❤️❤️

  • @gsuniverse6772
    @gsuniverse6772 4 года назад

    U r the best megha

  • @drsabinasanansingh
    @drsabinasanansingh 4 года назад

    Thanks for making this video

  • @shikhapandey2920
    @shikhapandey2920 4 года назад

    Megha di u r vry confident n vry beautiful person💕....i understand dis happens in d society...but true we should ignore dose ppl... We Lv uuhh💓

  • @hemanegi6043
    @hemanegi6043 4 года назад

    Useful video

  • @homecornerbyRahi
    @homecornerbyRahi 4 года назад

    क्या फर्क पड़ता है लोग क्या कहते है. सबको ईश्वर ने बनाया है और हर इंसान खूबसूरत है अगर उसके पास एक खूबसूरत दिल है. और वो अच्छा इंसान है. लोगो की इंसानियत ही उसे बेहतर बनती है.

  • @smilewithranatv5953
    @smilewithranatv5953 4 года назад

    very informative video
    big like

  • @hirnipatel7397
    @hirnipatel7397 4 года назад

    Hi I live out of India. You know what we have learned to speak and interact in English, want to show everybody we are advance but the fact is our mindset is very shallow. We learned to copy foreign culture but after coming to foreign country I feel we should learn to accept and appreciate everybody

  • @soniakumari1969
    @soniakumari1969 4 года назад

    Much needed video....good di

  • @Megh6675
    @Megh6675 4 года назад

    Nice one... Can u also talk about how to stay stressfree n positive during illness or avoid unknown fear n negative thoughts of illness...

  • @gungun609
    @gungun609 4 года назад

    I am 31 still a jobless...I badly wanted to do job...I am well educated..I don't know when my dream will come true...😢

  • @sahiba1896
    @sahiba1896 4 года назад

    You create positivity anytym and anywhere..✌️your # made me Happy..😊

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад

      I am so glad you feel that way :)

  • @Mamata_Ontamuri
    @Mamata_Ontamuri 4 года назад

    I have gone through the same... i was 45 kg till i got married at 27 age.. then hypothyroidism hit me am overweight... people pass comments

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад

      just ignore them. Focus on good things in life :)

  • @vijayamishra5951
    @vijayamishra5951 4 года назад

    You are very positive person dear

  • @nikitagambhir
    @nikitagambhir 4 года назад +1

    Please share the link of earrings you are wearing plzz

  • @sanchalishukla152
    @sanchalishukla152 4 года назад

    I love your mix and match type of video...

  • @anjumanju1464
    @anjumanju1464 4 года назад

    Good video. Really motivational👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @drdevikajain2411
    @drdevikajain2411 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for spreading this msg

  • @misschhetri4714
    @misschhetri4714 4 года назад

    U r inspiration of us megha di... Luv u Lotss 😘😘

  • @shobhashreesabujima6957
    @shobhashreesabujima6957 4 года назад

    It's very helpful message... thanks for this viddo

  • @harshathakur1995
    @harshathakur1995 4 года назад

    I wish perkymegs bhi jldi hi 1m cross kr le

  • @Akn9044
    @Akn9044 4 года назад +1

    Didi pta nhi log kaise kisi ki insult krte h like body shaming...chahe koi kaisa b ho mai abki respect krti hu...nd i love u di. Apse positive waves milti h...

  • @ritu72864
    @ritu72864 4 года назад

    This is a motivational video which I need so much

  • @vasanthivasu1726
    @vasanthivasu1726 4 года назад +3

    Do a video on how ur love life started nd how it helped in cmg to utube.. how it changed ur life

    • @Perkymegs
      @Perkymegs  4 года назад

      checkout this video
      ruclips.net/video/XnruFlGW8H8/видео.html

  • @worldofwishes9409
    @worldofwishes9409 4 года назад

    Awsm video..Megha love u

  • @arkosarkar7671
    @arkosarkar7671 4 года назад

    Ur too honest u look good.. Keep it up.

  • @gaurhari900
    @gaurhari900 4 года назад +1

    Am also facing

  • @shrutichauhan
    @shrutichauhan 4 года назад

    Love to hear u😘

  • @Akn9044
    @Akn9044 4 года назад +1

    Di ... demotivate krne wale yha b dislike krne aa gaye
    ....

  • @JyotiKumari-hu9tu
    @JyotiKumari-hu9tu 4 года назад

    I m feeling so motivated Di after Ur this video thankyou so much

  • @sadhanakshirsagar9826
    @sadhanakshirsagar9826 4 года назад

    😘😘😘😘Looking rocking girl❤️

  • @rashmitiwari828
    @rashmitiwari828 4 года назад

    Nice video megha .... looking beautiful

  • @somamukherjee8895
    @somamukherjee8895 4 года назад

    Love u sis😘

  • @AnayGlukar
    @AnayGlukar 4 года назад

    Pregnancy ke baad mene bhi apni body ko lekar bahut bate sunti

  • @nandnikumar3192
    @nandnikumar3192 4 года назад

    Hi mehga you are amazing
    BTW I love your earrings plz tell where you purchase this plz 🙏🙏

  • @SimpleideasRadhika
    @SimpleideasRadhika 4 года назад

    get going girl..u r extremely beautiful🤗🤗

  • @NehaSingh-oc6wc
    @NehaSingh-oc6wc 4 года назад

    Plz make more videos on this

  • @raazrizvi7990
    @raazrizvi7990 4 года назад

    Maine abhi apki trhh hi shirt phni h bss meri green h apki red 😍😍🤩

  • @garimakeshari5074
    @garimakeshari5074 4 года назад

    Really appreciated

  • @namratasheth9789
    @namratasheth9789 4 года назад

    Bravo dear..👍

  • @riyaawachar6124
    @riyaawachar6124 4 года назад

    Hii di ...Good evening...I had also face the body shaming ...but now I neglect them ...thank for share ung your experience ....it give positive vibe....

  • @paramjyothi7571
    @paramjyothi7571 4 года назад

    Awesome vedio,, I loved your vedio so much it's an interesting and motivation vedio thanks for sharing this video I love you so much 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤💕💕💕💕

  • @palpaloberoi4793
    @palpaloberoi4793 4 года назад

    This was much needed , thx

  • @mamtagadekar123
    @mamtagadekar123 4 года назад

    Lovely video..

  • @archana15788
    @archana15788 4 года назад

    I was body shamed at lowest phrase of my life when I lost my baby at 8 months and after the surgery I gained weight.People are so sick.

  • @arunabihani7075
    @arunabihani7075 4 года назад

    God bless you Megha