The version of the song you hear in this video is the first version from October 2015. Some months later I fixed the drastic volume change and the overall muffled tone where you can hear better what's going on. If you're interested in a cleaner sounding version of "her" you can find it here sadnessmusic.bandcamp.com/track/her . Thank you for feeling the music
You are truly a mastermind, never had I thought music can touch me this way, nor that someone understands all I've been through the last few years. Truly the most heartfelt piece of music my ears had the privilege to experience. Thank you for creating this.
elkiensad October 2015... My 18th birthday... It was a coming of darkest times. I'm pretty damn better today! This music is the anthem of a broken relationship.
I was homeless, had lost my job due to covid lockdowns. It was winter i had no job or will to live. Almost about to end it all. By chance she happened into my life and we kinda struck a chord. From there we did everything together. I walked 30 miles to her town to see her. I got a job and saved up money for an apartment. Finally got to take her home , felt amazing. Life was simple and i felt content and happy. One day she just disappeared and never said a word. Never saw her again. I still remember kissing her goodbye at 415 that morning on my way to work and feeling like i had the whole world. I came home she was gone. I couldn't contact her. I felt hopeless. Still feel that way. Shes gone but i wonder now, a couple years later, does she think of me? I miss her. I cant find anyone else like her. Fucl im foreman on a construction crew nowand ive moved up in life greatly. But i need her back
She helped you in your worst moment you ever had, as guy sayed before i did-she was and Angel, never give up, i had 99% same situation, i fell you. Evertything will be fine, and during time, you will remember this comments with a sweet smile. Never give up, Godspeed you!
But everything comes to a end. Even our own lives and those around us who we love dearly. Cherish those around you. Even for the short moments they may never remember. Life isnt about who else remembers who you are. Life is about you remembering who you are. And eventually you will be left alone with the memories of a choice between the holy ghost and the unholy ghost of the devil and his lies. She loved you well. So much that you will come to love yourself one day. She loved you well. She gave you a meaning to what love is. They say love hurts. They say it kills and its something humans are not allowed to fathom. Do you understand how lucky you are to have had her? Dont curse her! Dont spit on her! Dont disgrace who you love! Be proud! Be strong!! Dont forget that the everything is temporary. Even the roses in the garden and the bright cherry blossoms in the spring time. And remember that you cannot hate the person that once made you smile my beloved.
She's the only person I'll ever love. Even now, five years later, I still love her and want the best for her. I feel her everywhere - see her everywhere. In the ripple of a shadow on a lake, in the starless night sky, on a warm summer's wind. Her eyes, a winter storm. Her skin, an alabaster moon. Even if she never responds to me, even if she never thinks about me, she made me a better person, and gave me the hope and strength to keep living. At least we sometimes exist together in my dreamscapes, in otherworldly planes.
All the men who posted here, you have just shown me a side of being a real man that stays so hidden in the everydays. Respect for your support for one another. This life or another, your connection is real. Hold onto love, that is all we are.
The reason the song has no vocals is because there are no words to describe the loss of someone you care about. Whether it is a breakup or a death. Look at the comments here. Nothing I say matters, my loudest scream isn't even a whisper in this ocean of agony. Knowing others go through the same thing doesn't help, it only makes me feel worse. I have never felt this hopeless or helpless before in my life.
@@coryleblanc I can't help but disagree. The pain of loss is vastly worse than the lack of knowing the loss in the first place. Sometimes its simply better to never know what you're missing.
She used to give it to me, I had the best years in my life, until the day she told me she had no feelings for me anymore and only loved me as a friend from that point, then my world was shattered, dreams were the only place I could find solitude, and it made me wonder if I'd been living a lie all this time
I thought I was in a bad spot, but holy crap I did not expect this comment section to be like this. Stay strong fellas, and try to not think about the past too much. Also I come here pretty often, this is an absolute masterpiece of a track.
When she left it was like the world stopped existing for me. And even now six years later all I can think about is her and if she is happy now. And countless times I think about writing her but then I remember that she is probably happy now and does not remember me anymore. Knowing that she is better off without me breaks me every time I think about it but I just cannot forget her no matter what I do and I really tried hard. But knowing that she is happy now is the only thing easing the pain because she was the love of my life and even though it destroys me not having her by my side anymore I still want the best for her. But maybe that is what love is all about: Enduring the suffering and the pain so that your loved one can be happy. At least I hope so. I miss you V...
I still come back to this song now its been 20 years that she passed on I miss her I still can't get over her this is the best song love u Rose ann Aguirre 2 21 2000
I posted on this video 5 months ago my wife when she passed away in 2000 I still can't get over her I see my two kids my son and my daughter im her it just hurts me so bad but you know what I have to live on every day without her I miss her so much I wish she was here every day with me but I can't hurt myself or harm myself cuz of my kids right now cuz they are going to be parents now and I'm going to be a grandfather from them and I can't do it I do it for her to stay alive so that way I can see my second generation live on
It may sound crazy, but have you tried speaking to her? When you’re alone, in the mornings, just like you’d pray to god, try talking to her and see if it helps Tell her how you feel, what you’ve been thinking lately, how much you miss her, tell her what’s been going on in your life and the kids lives lately For all we know, she can hear
Man this hurts inside to listen to. It's so beautiful. She is gone from my life, but I cannot just simply forget those simple moments and wonderful memories of just us alone.
The worst part of love is when the person you love most leaves, it’ll destroy you. The day the love of my life dies is the day I die emotionally forever. She’s the only one that understands me, cares about me more than anyone I’ve met, puts up with me when I’m difficult and I’m the same for her. Our ups are more powerful than the few downs we’ve had. But the fear of the inevitable of losing her is what hurts my heart and I know the day she passes it’ll destroy my soul. She’s my everything and I’m her everything. I’ll do everything in my absolute power to protect her and care for her. My best friend for 6 years and the love of my life for a year and a half now. She’s the one who showed me light when my world was dark. Thank you my love
It's a good thing I don't have anyone to think of while listening to this cause that would be like 10x sadder. I feel bad for the other people in here though.
Es improbable que alguien lo lea realmente. Solo que al escuchar esta canción por primera vez con detenimiento me trajo recuerdos que aun no sanan. Hace tres años conocí a una chica maravillosa y la mas hermosa que conocí. Cuando comenzamos a reflexionar sobre como actuamos no podemos cargar con tal culpa al principio. Lo peor es que ella siente mas dolor que el que nosotros sentimos y es lo mas difícil de llevar. Creo que siempre un momento para realmente llorar desconsoladamente como un niño puede calmar un poco las nubes.
Truth is this. I love her. Only she can ever have access to my heart. Even if she hurt me, I'd always forgive her because I well and truly with all my heart love her. The first time we spoke was the moment my life changed. She was and is perfect to me. I can never love anyone else, only her. I love you always and forever.
RomanWarrior man i feel you brother , you made me cry , you are such a nice person i hope you are doing good and i hope someone who makes you feel that again brother , greetings and remember , dont give up
i could say so much about her, i could say that i need her in my life, her smell, her smile, her kiss and her hands holding mine, her voice while she's saying good moring or when she's screaming at me. I know that only her love can make my life worth living. but i'm afraid of not having this, afraid of lonliness, afraid of...just being afraid
This MUSICAL SADNESS reminded me of what erodes me: the EMPTY and EXTREME PAIN of wanting and never being able to be / make someone happy, and also of the people I LOVE but maybe I will NEVER have in my fragile arms, thank you ...
Sometimes all that is left are tears. Tears that not even alcohol and coke can cure. Im not sure I have found my "her" but I have tried and sadness has remained and my youth is leaving me
In school i was bullied in a number ways, i planned to commit suicide one day until she appeared, she was the only one who was my friend at school, until the end of eight grade, where we saw ourselves for the last time and 3 years later i still miss her, she was the only girl who made me happy.
I miss her. I should’ve tried harder to help her. But I didn’t, and now she’s gone. If her over protective older brother wouldn’t have tackled me thinking I was gonna hurt her, I probably could’ve saved her. All I wanted to do was save her from herself. But I didn’t try hard enough in the first place, so I lost her. Even though she told me to forget her, I never really did. I can’t forget her, I refuse to. I miss her. May we meet again in the after life. I’ll wait an eternity just to be with her again.
A part of her will always live in me. Even tho it's over, I'm over it too, this still remains true, and I would feel empty if I didn't have that drop of memories of unique times that will never come back. it's fine this way.
Depression > anger > all motherfuckers around want to destroy your dreams and moral with their bullshit > more anger > you want to destroy them (I’m here) >you starting to destroying them
I feel this comment on a spiritual level man. 1.5 years without the person I cared about the most, my mother; I don't see myself scratching even the surface of the 5th stage.
She has been the only one person in this world that made me really happy. When I was with her, I felt real happiness. I only want the best for her. Meanwhile, I still crying cause of I lost her after 2 years of relationship...
I used to have a friend with whom I was in love. That was until I fell in love with another girl who didn't turn out to be special to me. I had my chance with my friend after that until I fell in love with another girl, and it was the same case with the last one. My friend and I don't talk to each other anymore, but it was only at the end, when I'm alone and depressed, that I realized she was my "Her" this whole time. Every time I listen to this song, my heart aches for her instead.
Damn. I know this feeling. I can find someone and get a little feeling for them, but just isn't what I got from my 'her'. I don't know how to get her back. I don't want to live with this fear that I won't find someone else. I'm scared that even if I do, they'll always live in the shadow of what she was to me.
Sitting here right now listening to this, bringing up so many memories, when i had the break-up those cold dark winters ago. music like this keeping me going. i have found a new someone again after many long years without it and hoping it stays around awhile. Sobbing so so hard right now, the pain is almost unbearable, cried even more last night. She is gone again and i cannot stand it. She came by my place last night right after i came home exhausted (no invite) from working and with tears in her beautiful brown eyes Told me "there is someone better out there for us both." Still healing from this but doing better, I miss her so so much. I know i will run into her again at a concert and we will see what happens....The riff at 6:58 is so powerful, it's like a knife hurled straight into the heart and soul...
Known her more than half of my life & I loved her from the very beginning, the first encounter. Thru all the years,all the good,all the bad & all in between...I'll still love her til' I'm dead & probably in the next life. Never knew how much it hurts to care for someone.But I'd be a bastard avatars of I walked away when things got dicey. I'll always love you Rachel
A very good friend suggested this song, i have never heard anything more beautiful. It brings all raw emotions to the surface which would be otherwise trapped inside... it demands to be released and felt by the listener... truly extraordinary.
Hoje faz 3 meses que tudo o que virou memórias... O que me consola é saber que dentro de mim ela ainda existe e nossos corações pulsão em um só ritmo. Eu não vou te esquecer, penso em ti todos os dias quando acordo e todas as noites em claro. Você me ensinou o prazer das pequenas conquistas e da beleza em pequenos gestos. Eu não irei te esquecer, você esta viva em mim... Te dediquei meus poemas, te dediquei minhas músicas... te dediquei a minha vida enquanto você esteve aqui... Agora devo seguir meu caminho sozinho, mas tudo parece tão difícil sem você por perto.. espero que não esteja sofrendo mais. eu te amo.
This song is very sad. I think Damián only is a living person because he can put all of his emotions into his songs. I really wanted to be friends with him, or at least watch him play those damn songs on a piano without him realizing I was there.
It´s like... Somehow i can still feel her... at this same room where i am now... I will look back to my bed and she´s gonna be there, smiling. But she isn´t there anymore
It will never pass... But, with time, everyday it will hurt less, the pain will got easier to carry and, maybe on a walk home by your work, you will realize that you forggot how it felt and move on
I was there for you on the lonely cold nights when you needed me. You were there when I felt lost . You bled in my arms. I thought I was going to lose you , for when you first held me back.. Your scars grew but you became distant; cold and distant. I miss you , but you chose Her. She took you from me, when I still loved you. I hope she loves you and heals the scars I couldn't.
How many times I will end up here? Always sad, always hiding behind my rage? How many times I will switch musical genres, find new friends and still be the same? I don't want this emptiness anymore. Help me. God, please give me relief.
after chaning countries even and asylums too, different medications, im still here.. You will always find me here. I will never be the same. End me please. I will pay for my own killing even, just do it without me knowing. I will pay. I can't suicide, I am a pussy. Do it without me knowing, I will pay. Reply to my comment.
Soufiane Artwood I started writing a comment but then i changed my mind and unintentionally i left the "t" LOL By the way the title of the song got me here, and oddly this song was exactly what i've expected it to be.
This is so sad im crying for no reason, this song, and this picture, so cold. I have never been in a relationship but i can feel this deep in my middle ear bones
Lads , dont feel sorry or bad that you dont have your loved one anymore , you have to be grateful that this makes you think of someone , make you remember a moment , the smiles , the laugh , the voice , the face . Yes we all have someone in our mind , that you will carry forever , but that just means that you had once in your life love , and you loved someone . And yes i have someone i fucking miss so much that it makes me feel bad and keep me awake at every night remembering the good moments , i do feel all of u that miss someone
her whom I love , trust she was there with other guy in relation pain depression cold feeling inside me became my friend , my hope and my heart withered her .... her .... her
hey dont worry babe someday u'll find someone who will love u till the and trust me p.s. im an otaku too ;') p.s.s. sorry for my bad English ;') i just read ur comment and i wanted to tell u something... so...
otaku 666 Dude almost the same story,but don't worry,we will find the ones who will trust and love us.But for now we have to live with the pain in our hearts,and memory of them.I still love that girl more than anything but i belive that we will find the better ones.Cheers dude,and keep your head high.
i feel you, we are all on the same boat...i don't want to lie to you, but there's nothing to do about, trust me, i'm suffering from depression since 3 years and nothing is changed yet
9 years have passed now, went through a lot. been with 30+ people now, denied all of them because none of them actually deserved me. stopped craving for my ex years ago, she was a shitty person. half a year before met this special person that actually made me feel happy, just got denied. i'll still be friends with her but i don't think i understand people anymore. it's all manipulations, games and taking advantage of. it's all a weird limbo we're in. to anyone that actually reads this, try to love yourself no matter how hard it is. hope it gets better for you because in my case no matter how hard i try it's just not happening though i'll keep trying. can't really break promises
Esta canción me recuerda tanto a ella, fue corto el tiempo a su lado y pese a como se dio todo y la despedida jamás ocurrida, no puedo olvidar cada momento a su lado. Esto me volvió fuerte en muchos aspectos, con todo el dolor causado, sólo espero que le vaya muy bien y alcance la felicidad en su vida que tan esquiva le ha sido, lo merece. Donde quiera que el destino te lleve, se feliz Pequitas.
She wasnt a lover she was my grandma and my best friend I took care of her for her last 8 months and it's been 5 years. I'm still feeling lost without her.
A piece of me will be missing. I’m honestly scared of the day I lose my grandmother that’s why I cherish that she’s here now and I’ll take of her like if she were my mother.
Never thought I could love again after what my ex put me through... All the pain emotional torture hurt and sadness. All I had were drugs and alcohol. And then I met her a year later still knee deep In shit. She showed me love again. She showed me life. I remember when you kissed me at that train station all those years ago. Then after a year of not seeing you, you came back.... as beautiful as ever. It was like we were ment to be. And you kissed me again and again each day we grew stronger we fell in love... now you don't want to see me again. If only I could cuddle with you in your car again like we used to and just kiss under the moonlight at the beach. Fuck I miss her and just want her back my dudes
May we meet again. Somewhere far away. In a dream. In the light. Above the darkness. In-between the beatings of my heart. Your heart. There lies the spaces of where we shall meet. And talk of wonders. Wonders of what we were. What we became. And what we are. Eternity.
This comment section is the saddest thing i've seen in a long time, everyone shares their pain and agony towards the loss of their lover i feel all of u and i trully hope you all find your peace and true love one day
For her, I'm a friend. For me, she's the girl I love the most. I never told her, and I probably never will. This drowned love will ever be stuck between my heart and my throat. Acting like she is just a friend, talk with her with all this feelings that I can't say is so hard, it hurt. I almost hate her for don't loving me like I love her, then I hate myself : if she don't love me, it's not her fault, maybe mine.
You gotta tell her man, how do really really know she doesn't feel or will feel something for you? Don't leave it in the "what would have happened?". Talk to her, tell her calmly what you feel, at least she will know, and if nothing happens it's ok...it's not like the end of the world you know. If she doesn't want something beyond that, tell her you still want to be friends and that your friendship means a lot to you. Come on, just tell her...don't be afraid...I am with you, bro!
@@aldomorales92 Wow, I've forgot about this comment. Happy end my friend, 2 weeks ago I decided to send her a message to tell her what I feel after a month of self questioning and a growing doubt about my capacity to avoid my feelings anymore, and she replied that she is felling the same way, she was hiding her feelings too. Happiest thing that happen to me. I feel a lot more self confident since. Now, I know that I can do anything if I really want it :)
@@acouphene01 That's great, man! Congrats!! Lol that's why we need to tell what we feel, so the other person knows it. Glad you took the first step. Bless in all things you both do, bro!
Im here again because yesterday Sun 10 Jan 2021 i lost a person who gave me hope , who showed me how to be a human , who cared with all her heart , who opened my eyes to many things , who taught me that life isnt that bad , the only person that i would give my life for , she didnt want to leave because she doesnt love me anymore , she wanted to leave because she wants to feel safe , she live far away from me and she wants to find home , i only get to see her 7 times maximum a year , and i failed to keep her safe , i tried i swear i did , but all the stress from her parents , she doesnt want them to know because they would start making trouble for her and her life isnt fine to begin with, yesterday we listened to music , we cried together, i can still hear the sorries that she was saying while crying out her eyes and heart , i wish i could a be better lover , i wish we could go to a place that no one would find us and that we could take care of each other until the end of time , but im not going to stop here and i’ll try to find a way to be her home and be by her side again and care about her and feel her warmth forevermore , thats my only wish now
I miss her. But it is what it is, sometimes you have to move on, even if it feels like you world is ending, like you have no choice in life, like you've lost the battle for the only thing you've ever wanted, for the only person you've felt worth fighting for, sometimes you're just not wanted, and that's okay, maybe one day we can find someone who wants us as much as we want them. Someone who'll always be there, someone who can fill this void inside me.
tantos recuerdos, tantas cosas que nos faltaron hacer , recuerdame porfavor , si encuentras a alguien con quien seas feliz, recuerdame, me dejaste con un corazon partido hecho añicos pero aun asi te amo aun sigo esperandote hasta el ultimo segundo de mi vida, porque sé que no tendre la misma conexion con alguien mas, no eras ni eres perfecta pero me recordaba que bonito era la vida , me llenabas el corazón y ahora lo desgastas y sufro por ti porque soy asi, porque no sufres como yo lo hago por mi acaso no me amas? no me amaste? se que ha pasado tanto tiempo pero aun sigo sintiendo todo lo que prometi hacerlo hasta el final , prometi y ahora no puedo romperlo, perdon por el daño que nos causamos los dos con amor vicente
I listened to this song back in 2017 when I was heart broken never thought I'll love someone again i was wrong had the most wonderful relationship for 2 ywars and my mental health got in the way it's been 8 or 9 months since we split everyday i miss em i dream of them now here I am back to 2020 even worse now can't deal with the fact that there with someone else that's not me I don't know what to do anymore
Love is the best part of the human experience. Losing it however... It's the worst. I know no one cares, everyone wallows in their own misery here, but I've been dealt pain and I've given it right back. We're all terrible, and we're all great. We're all human.
I met her at a language school in Spain. At first, we couldn't talk well, but we were strangely attracted to each other. And we were always together. However, she told me that we were not destined to be together because of her financial problems and human relationships. I told her that we were destined to be together. I told her that I would wait forever for her. She said that if she waited for 10 years, she would come to me. We talked about it while crying in the park. After I returned to Japan, we were torn apart by the COVID-19 pandemic. Then my business failed, I became depressed, and I was hospitalized for a suicide attempt. Now I am recovering little by little, and I want to do business in Spain after training in Japan. It has already been six years since that promise, but I intend to wait for her for more than 10 years. If not in this life, I will wait for her in the next life. I love her forever. I miss her so much.
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The version of the song you hear in this video is the first version from October 2015. Some months later I fixed the drastic volume change and the overall muffled tone where you can hear better what's going on. If you're interested in a cleaner sounding version of "her" you can find it here sadnessmusic.bandcamp.com/track/her . Thank you for feeling the music
You are truly a mastermind, never had I thought music can touch me this way, nor that someone understands all I've been through the last few years. Truly the most heartfelt piece of music my ears had the privilege to experience. Thank you for creating this.
elkiensad October 2015... My 18th birthday... It was a coming of darkest times. I'm pretty damn better today! This music is the anthem of a broken relationship.
elkiensad this is one of the most beautiful songs in the world. Thank you for this gift.
You are my new favorite musician. I hope one day i can be as talented and creative as you.
Your music is beautiful 🖤
My wife left me n my two kids when they were babys its been 18 years now i still see her in my kids i miss her so much rest in peace my love
im sorry
Thank u but I'm still lost from her
May she rest in peace!
Dude...
I was homeless, had lost my job due to covid lockdowns. It was winter i had no job or will to live. Almost about to end it all. By chance she happened into my life and we kinda struck a chord. From there we did everything together. I walked 30 miles to her town to see her. I got a job and saved up money for an apartment. Finally got to take her home , felt amazing. Life was simple and i felt content and happy. One day she just disappeared and never said a word. Never saw her again. I still remember kissing her goodbye at 415 that morning on my way to work and feeling like i had the whole world. I came home she was gone. I couldn't contact her. I felt hopeless. Still feel that way. Shes gone but i wonder now, a couple years later, does she think of me? I miss her. I cant find anyone else like her. Fucl im foreman on a construction crew nowand ive moved up in life greatly. But i need her back
It was just an angel.
She helped you in your worst moment you ever had, as guy sayed before i did-she was and Angel, never give up, i had 99% same situation, i fell you. Evertything will be fine, and during time, you will remember this comments with a sweet smile. Never give up, Godspeed you!
Tears in my face, her voice in my head...
;__; holy fuck I started crying, so relatable
I just can`t listen to it without tears in my eyes. Deeply touches the heartstrings in me.
I dont want it to end.
But everything comes to a end.
Even our own lives and those around us who we love dearly.
Cherish those around you.
Even for the short moments they may never remember.
Life isnt about who else remembers who you are.
Life is about you remembering who you are.
And eventually you will be left alone with the memories of a choice between the holy ghost and the unholy ghost of the devil and his lies.
She loved you well.
So much that you will come to love yourself one day.
She loved you well.
She gave you a meaning to what love is.
They say love hurts.
They say it kills and its something humans are not allowed to fathom.
Do you understand how lucky you are to have had her?
Dont curse her!
Dont spit on her!
Dont disgrace who you love!
Be proud!
Be strong!!
Dont forget that the everything is temporary.
Even the roses in the garden and the bright cherry blossoms in the spring time.
And remember that you cannot hate the person that once made you smile my beloved.
Thank You...
She's the only person I'll ever love. Even now, five years later, I still love her and want the best for her. I feel her everywhere - see her everywhere. In the ripple of a shadow on a lake, in the starless night sky, on a warm summer's wind. Her eyes, a winter storm. Her skin, an alabaster moon.
Even if she never responds to me, even if she never thinks about me, she made me a better person, and gave me the hope and strength to keep living. At least we sometimes exist together in my dreamscapes, in otherworldly planes.
CasualPoster ='(
CasualPoster don't give up bro, i really hope you find someone who makes you feel loved and cared for , hope you are doing fine
Beautiful words, man.
CasualPoster you make me cry bro...
Oh, this made me cry a little
All the men who posted here, you have just shown me a side of being a real man that stays so hidden in the everydays. Respect for your support for one another. This life or another, your connection is real. Hold onto love, that is all we are.
The reason the song has no vocals is because there are no words to describe the loss of someone you care about.
Whether it is a breakup or a death.
Look at the comments here.
Nothing I say matters, my loudest scream isn't even a whisper in this ocean of agony.
Knowing others go through the same thing doesn't help, it only makes me feel worse.
I have never felt this hopeless or helpless before in my life.
Praying for you, I hope things have gotten better since you wrote this.
It took a lot of effort, and it still takes me a lot of effort, but things are looking up.
@@HowieHellbent I'm glad you're still struggling to make things better! Hope the future is bright for you))
better to have lost than to never had anyone
@@coryleblanc I can't help but disagree.
The pain of loss is vastly worse than the lack of knowing the loss in the first place.
Sometimes its simply better to never know what you're missing.
She taught me a lot about love, even if she could not give it to me.
Man, I feel this one.
Koko Nut
So true
She used to give it to me, I had the best years in my life, until the day she told me she had no feelings for me anymore and only loved me as a friend from that point, then my world was shattered, dreams were the only place I could find solitude, and it made me wonder if I'd been living a lie all this time
This is the comment that hurts the most
I thought I was in a bad spot, but holy crap I did not expect this comment section to be like this. Stay strong fellas, and try to not think about the past too much. Also I come here pretty often, this is an absolute masterpiece of a track.
When she left it was like the world stopped existing for me. And even now six years later all I can think about is her and if she is happy now. And countless times I think about writing her but then I remember that she is probably happy now and does not remember me anymore. Knowing that she is better off without me breaks me every time I think about it but I just cannot forget her no matter what I do and I really tried hard. But knowing that she is happy now is the only thing easing the pain because she was the love of my life and even though it destroys me not having her by my side anymore I still want the best for her. But maybe that is what love is all about: Enduring the suffering and the pain so that your loved one can be happy. At least I hope so.
I miss you V...
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I still come back to this song now its been 20 years that she passed on I miss her I still can't get over her this is the best song love u Rose ann Aguirre 2 21 2000
Ty
You are still here, doing your best.
You are strong my friend, keep going.
Never surrender.
I posted on this video 5 months ago my wife when she passed away in 2000 I still can't get over her I see my two kids my son and my daughter im her it just hurts me so bad but you know what I have to live on every day without her I miss her so much I wish she was here every day with me but I can't hurt myself or harm myself cuz of my kids right now cuz they are going to be parents now and I'm going to be a grandfather from them and I can't do it I do it for her to stay alive so that way I can see my second generation live on
STAY ALIVE FRIEND. SEE HER IN THEM.
No matter how much doubt youre in she is with you always
Stay strong brother, very sad. I Feel you.
It may sound crazy, but have you tried speaking to her? When you’re alone, in the mornings, just like you’d pray to god, try talking to her and see if it helps
Tell her how you feel, what you’ve been thinking lately, how much you miss her, tell her what’s been going on in your life and the kids lives lately
For all we know, she can hear
At least you had a wife, I can't get anyone.
Man this hurts inside to listen to. It's so beautiful. She is gone from my life, but I cannot just simply forget those simple moments and wonderful memories of just us alone.
I love and respect everyone in this comments section. The pain links us together.
Rejected love. Loneliness. Undesired. Fallen. Alone. Memories. The past.
Hails brother
Pozdrawiam.
But wait, there are some people with no pain, the people who just feel better and healthier while listening this music
People aren't worth it
The worst part of love is when the person you love most leaves, it’ll destroy you. The day the love of my life dies is the day I die emotionally forever. She’s the only one that understands me, cares about me more than anyone I’ve met, puts up with me when I’m difficult and I’m the same for her. Our ups are more powerful than the few downs we’ve had. But the fear of the inevitable of losing her is what hurts my heart and I know the day she passes it’ll destroy my soul. She’s my everything and I’m her everything. I’ll do everything in my absolute power to protect her and care for her. My best friend for 6 years and the love of my life for a year and a half now. She’s the one who showed me light when my world was dark. Thank you my love
my mind is always with her.. I've faded far from hers...
You disappear from my life,
Forget about all the memories,
Fade away by time,
But the scars will never been cure,
Pain... Till I die
Han pasado los años y no dejo de llorar, me llevaré este sentimiento hasta la tumba
Everyone has a “her” and the beauty of this song is that it helped us to realize it. Thank you for this.
everyone?
everyone?! i´m 26 and never had a "her"
It's a good thing I don't have anyone to think of while listening to this cause that would be like 10x sadder. I feel bad for the other people in here though.
100x not 10x
😂
Same. I don't have anyone to think about just yet. But I know I'm gonna be crushed af when it happens and when I come to songs like this for solace
@@rohanmathurful well I hope it never happens to you, friend
@@goldehh1069 Thanks brother. You too
This is not just a song, it is a way of expressing your inner feelings, feelings that you can't express most of the time.
Es improbable que alguien lo lea realmente. Solo que al escuchar esta canción por primera vez con detenimiento me trajo recuerdos que aun no sanan. Hace tres años conocí a una chica maravillosa y la mas hermosa que conocí. Cuando comenzamos a reflexionar sobre como actuamos no podemos cargar con tal culpa al principio. Lo peor es que ella siente mas dolor que el que nosotros sentimos y es lo mas difícil de llevar. Creo que siempre un momento para realmente llorar desconsoladamente como un niño puede calmar un poco las nubes.
What I find beautiful is that these stories transcend culture and language. An ocean away I carry the same sadness as you, for the same reason.
This song describes how I feel right now perfectly...
About her..., about how she saved my life...
Truth is this. I love her. Only she can ever have access to my heart. Even if she hurt me, I'd always forgive her because I well and truly with all my heart love her. The first time we spoke was the moment my life changed. She was and is perfect to me. I can never love anyone else, only her. I love you always and forever.
RomanWarrior man i feel you brother , you made me cry , you are such a nice person i hope you are doing good and i hope someone who makes you feel that again brother , greetings and remember , dont give up
i meant someone makes you feel that again , sorryXD
Her..ghost haunts these walls...
i could say so much about her, i could say that i need her in my life, her smell, her smile, her kiss and her hands holding mine, her voice while she's saying good moring or when she's screaming at me. I know that only her love can make my life worth living. but i'm afraid of not having this, afraid of lonliness, afraid of...just being afraid
This MUSICAL SADNESS reminded me of what erodes me: the EMPTY and EXTREME PAIN of wanting and never being able to be / make someone happy, and also of the people I LOVE but maybe I will NEVER have in my fragile arms, thank you ...
Sometimes all that is left are tears. Tears that not even alcohol and coke can cure. Im not sure I have found my "her" but I have tried and sadness has remained and my youth is leaving me
I wish you luck mate, I'm sure you will find someone one day.
In school i was bullied in a number ways, i planned to commit suicide one day until she appeared, she was the only one who was my friend at school, until the end of eight grade, where we saw ourselves for the last time and 3 years later i still miss her, she was the only girl who made me happy.
I miss her. I should’ve tried harder to help her. But I didn’t, and now she’s gone. If her over protective older brother wouldn’t have tackled me thinking I was gonna hurt her, I probably could’ve saved her. All I wanted to do was save her from herself. But I didn’t try hard enough in the first place, so I lost her. Even though she told me to forget her, I never really did. I can’t forget her, I refuse to. I miss her. May we meet again in the after life. I’ll wait an eternity just to be with her again.
...and then you woke up 😂
@@suffocationgreece1911 Fuck you
@@suffocationgreece1911 clown
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i actually cried through the entire song, never yet have i done this with any dsbm song
it's not dsbm
Hope it made you feel any better.
@@MasterPinti you need to listen to other songs by Sadness
@@aerobolt256 Useless is a great song
A part of her will always live in me. Even tho it's over, I'm over it too, this still remains true, and I would feel empty if I didn't have that drop of memories of unique times that will never come back. it's fine this way.
that picture of the couple is breathtaking
They said that after bargaining and depression, acceptance would come... but I just went back to anger :/ ...
Depression --> anger --> acceptance :)
Depression > anger > all motherfuckers around want to destroy your dreams and moral with their bullshit > more anger > you want to destroy them (I’m here) >you starting to destroying them
I feel this comment on a spiritual level man. 1.5 years without the person I cared about the most, my mother; I don't see myself scratching even the surface of the 5th stage.
@@paletsvedmi based and schizopilled
She left a hole in my heart
yet again she still does 25-11-22
She has been the only one person in this world that made me really happy. When I was with her, I felt real happiness. I only want the best for her. Meanwhile, I still crying cause of I lost her after 2 years of relationship...
I used to have a friend with whom I was in love. That was until I fell in love with another girl who didn't turn out to be special to me. I had my chance with my friend after that until I fell in love with another girl, and it was the same case with the last one. My friend and I don't talk to each other anymore, but it was only at the end, when I'm alone and depressed, that I realized she was my "Her" this whole time. Every time I listen to this song, my heart aches for her instead.
Damn. I know this feeling. I can find someone and get a little feeling for them, but just isn't what I got from my 'her'. I don't know how to get her back. I don't want to live with this fear that I won't find someone else. I'm scared that even if I do, they'll always live in the shadow of what she was to me.
This song reminds me more of what it feels like to be completely numb and empty. Reminds me of feeling lost
Love this beautiful music reminds me of memories!..
Sitting here right now listening to this, bringing up so many memories, when i had the break-up those cold dark winters ago. music like this keeping me going. i have found a new someone again after many long years without it and hoping it stays around awhile. Sobbing so so hard right now, the pain is almost unbearable, cried even more last night. She is gone again and i cannot stand it. She came by my place last night right after i came home exhausted (no invite) from working and with tears in her beautiful brown eyes Told me "there is someone better out there for us both." Still healing from this but doing better, I miss her so so much. I know i will run into her again at a concert and we will see what happens....The riff at 6:58 is so powerful, it's like a knife hurled straight into the heart and soul...
Known her more than half of my life & I loved her from the very beginning, the first encounter. Thru all the years,all the good,all the bad & all in between...I'll still love her til' I'm dead & probably in the next life.
Never knew how much it hurts to care for someone.But I'd be a bastard avatars of I walked away when things got dicey.
I'll always love you Rachel
A very good friend suggested this song, i have never heard anything more beautiful.
It brings all raw emotions to the surface which would be otherwise trapped inside... it demands to be released and felt by the listener... truly extraordinary.
I love my boyfriend... 🖤
He introduced me this beautiful band... 🖤🖤🥀
Magnifique..
Like your face..❤
This song sounds really romantic in it's own way. Love the piano, it's relaxing and has this sad/melancholic vibe to it.
This is the saddest song I‘ve ever heard. Absolutely beautiful
Hoje faz 3 meses que tudo o que virou memórias... O que me consola é saber que dentro de mim ela ainda existe e nossos corações pulsão em um só ritmo. Eu não vou te esquecer, penso em ti todos os dias quando acordo e todas as noites em claro. Você me ensinou o prazer das pequenas conquistas e da beleza em pequenos gestos. Eu não irei te esquecer, você esta viva em mim... Te dediquei meus poemas, te dediquei minhas músicas... te dediquei a minha vida enquanto você esteve aqui... Agora devo seguir meu caminho sozinho, mas tudo parece tão difícil sem você por perto.. espero que não esteja sofrendo mais. eu te amo.
Esse comentário sempre me quebra mano...
This song is very sad. I think Damián only is a living person because he can put all of his emotions into his songs. I really wanted to be friends with him, or at least watch him play those damn songs on a piano without him realizing I was there.
Damian is a master at conveying emotion of all forms. The world is blessed with him in it
It´s like... Somehow i can still feel her... at this same room where i am now... I will look back to my bed and she´s gonna be there, smiling. But she isn´t there anymore
It will never pass... But, with time, everyday it will hurt less, the pain will got easier to carry and, maybe on a walk home by your work, you will realize that you forggot how it felt and move on
I was there for you on the lonely cold nights when you needed me.
You were there when I felt lost .
You bled in my arms.
I thought I was going to lose you , for when you first held me back..
Your scars grew but you became distant; cold and distant.
I miss you , but you chose Her.
She took you from me, when I still loved you.
I hope she loves you and heals the scars I couldn't.
How many times I will end up here? Always sad, always hiding behind my rage? How many times I will switch musical genres, find new friends and still be the same? I don't want this emptiness anymore. Help me. God, please give me relief.
same, here man, it always comes back, but keep strong, there os always an exit out the hole
after chaning countries even and asylums too, different medications, im still here.. You will always find me here. I will never be the same. End me please. I will pay for my own killing even, just do it without me knowing. I will pay. I can't suicide, I am a pussy. Do it without me knowing, I will pay. Reply to my comment.
that explosion
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Criminal Alien t ?
Sorry
np , what you wanted to say ? and thats man you reminded of this amazing track and band
Soufiane Artwood
I started writing a comment but then i changed my mind and unintentionally i left the "t" LOL
By the way the title of the song got me here, and oddly this song was exactly what i've expected it to be.
This is so sad im crying for no reason, this song, and this picture, so cold. I have never been in a relationship but i can feel this deep in my middle ear bones
Lads , dont feel sorry or bad that you dont have your loved one anymore , you have to be grateful that this makes you think of someone , make you remember a moment , the smiles , the laugh , the voice , the face .
Yes we all have someone in our mind , that you will carry forever , but that just means that you had once in your life love , and you loved someone .
And yes i have someone i fucking miss so much that it makes me feel bad and keep me awake at every night remembering the good moments , i do feel all of u that miss someone
her whom I love , trust
she was there with other guy in relation
pain depression cold feeling inside me became my friend ,
my hope and my heart withered
her .... her .... her
hey
dont worry babe
someday u'll find someone who will love u till the and
trust me
p.s. im an otaku too ;')
p.s.s. sorry for my bad English ;') i just read ur comment and i wanted to tell u something... so...
otaku 666 Dude almost the same story,but don't worry,we will find the ones who will trust and love us.But for now we have to live with the pain in our hearts,and memory of them.I still love that girl more than anything but i belive that we will find the better ones.Cheers dude,and keep your head high.
Im in that situation right now, i know how it feels..... I've lost all hope about this so called "love"....
Omladinac14 Naravno brate moj,verujem da ce biti bolje :)
i feel you, we are all on the same boat...i don't want to lie to you, but there's nothing to do about, trust me, i'm suffering from depression since 3 years and nothing is changed yet
Exactly one year has passed, been with others yet I still crave for her. 5 years are too much to break up so easily, shitty feelings
I am in the same boat. Hang tight, my friend.
the girls are bitches
@@mrcrafts7236 careful there, mgtow!
9 years have passed now, went through a lot. been with 30+ people now, denied all of them because none of them actually deserved me. stopped craving for my ex years ago, she was a shitty person. half a year before met this special person that actually made me feel happy, just got denied. i'll still be friends with her but i don't think i understand people anymore. it's all manipulations, games and taking advantage of. it's all a weird limbo we're in. to anyone that actually reads this, try to love yourself no matter how hard it is. hope it gets better for you because in my case no matter how hard i try it's just not happening though i'll keep trying. can't really break promises
21 years on February 21 I fucking miss u n this is the best song to play when I'm thinking of u
Love is a lie beneath the tears
A feeling which is drasticly kills a person day by day
I'm dead to her, I don't know why.
Esta canción me recuerda tanto a ella, fue corto el tiempo a su lado y pese a como se dio todo y la despedida jamás ocurrida, no puedo olvidar cada momento a su lado. Esto me volvió fuerte en muchos aspectos, con todo el dolor causado, sólo espero que le vaya muy bien y alcance la felicidad en su vida que tan esquiva le ha sido, lo merece. Donde quiera que el destino te lleve, se feliz Pequitas.
Eye of Prima flashed me, now checking everything else :)
She wasnt a lover she was my grandma and my best friend I took care of her for her last 8 months and it's been 5 years. I'm still feeling lost without her.
A piece of me will be missing. I’m honestly scared of the day I lose my grandmother that’s why I cherish that she’s here now and I’ll take of her like if she were my mother.
Never thought I could love again after what my ex put me through... All the pain emotional torture hurt and sadness. All I had were drugs and alcohol. And then I met her a year later still knee deep In shit. She showed me love again. She showed me life. I remember when you kissed me at that train station all those years ago. Then after a year of not seeing you, you came back.... as beautiful as ever. It was like we were ment to be. And you kissed me again and again each day we grew stronger we fell in love... now you don't want to see me again. If only I could cuddle with you in your car again like we used to and just kiss under the moonlight at the beach. Fuck I miss her and just want her back my dudes
Mood
What a beautiful song.
This song makes me cry knowing someday I might lose her
Great song from start to finish!
Jerry Villa Agree!!
knew as soon as this started it's gonna be a good one and remind me of HER
Ty for this beautiful song February will be 21 years that she has left us kids r now Parents and me a grandfather or 3
❤
Hope you're doing well bro.
I all ways come to this song every time when I'm down n thinking about her
@@aguirreernest ya son muchos años sin olvidarla estoy enloqueciendo
May we meet again. Somewhere far away. In a dream. In the light. Above the darkness. In-between the beatings of my heart. Your heart. There lies the spaces of where we shall meet. And talk of wonders. Wonders of what we were. What we became. And what we are.
Eternity.
I miss her.
This comment section is the saddest thing i've seen in a long time, everyone shares their pain and agony towards the loss of their lover
i feel all of u and i trully hope you all find your peace and true love one day
Yes...
I've been looking for this song for so long, but it found me instead in my home page.
she will always be. in my heart forever❤💔❤
My god. This is so Beautiful...
For her, I'm a friend. For me, she's the girl I love the most. I never told her, and I probably never will. This drowned love will ever be stuck between my heart and my throat. Acting like she is just a friend, talk with her with all this feelings that I can't say is so hard, it hurt. I almost hate her for don't loving me like I love her, then I hate myself : if she don't love me, it's not her fault, maybe mine.
You gotta tell her man, how do really really know she doesn't feel or will feel something for you? Don't leave it in the "what would have happened?". Talk to her, tell her calmly what you feel, at least she will know, and if nothing happens it's ok...it's not like the end of the world you know. If she doesn't want something beyond that, tell her you still want to be friends and that your friendship means a lot to you. Come on, just tell her...don't be afraid...I am with you, bro!
@@aldomorales92 Wow, I've forgot about this comment. Happy end my friend, 2 weeks ago I decided to send her a message to tell her what I feel after a month of self questioning and a growing doubt about my capacity to avoid my feelings anymore, and she replied that she is felling the same way, she was hiding her feelings too. Happiest thing that happen to me. I feel a lot more self confident since. Now, I know that I can do anything if I really want it :)
@@acouphene01 That's great, man! Congrats!! Lol that's why we need to tell what we feel, so the other person knows it. Glad you took the first step. Bless in all things you both do, bro!
@@aldomorales92 Thanks bro, I wish you the best!
Respect :)
thought invoking overwhelming nostalgic depressive comfort
Beautiful...reminds of how stupid I was to let someone go because I couldn't get my act together...songs says it...reminds me of Her
Прошло 2 года но она всё еще в моём сердце
держись пожалуйста...
@@foxnose1999 пытаюсь
6:51 that explosion of feelings ;u;
wtf is this?! I stumbled upon this and now I am in LOVE.
Im here again because yesterday Sun 10 Jan 2021 i lost a person who gave me hope , who showed me how to be a human , who cared with all her heart , who opened my eyes to many things , who taught me that life isnt that bad , the only person that i would give my life for , she didnt want to leave because she doesnt love me anymore , she wanted to leave because she wants to feel safe , she live far away from me and she wants to find home , i only get to see her 7 times maximum a year , and i failed to keep her safe , i tried i swear i did , but all the stress from her parents , she doesnt want them to know because they would start making trouble for her and her life isnt fine to begin with, yesterday we listened to music , we cried together, i can still hear the sorries that she was saying while crying out her eyes and heart , i wish i could a be better lover , i wish we could go to a place that no one would find us and that we could take care of each other until the end of time , but im not going to stop here and i’ll try to find a way to be her home and be by her side again and care about her and feel her warmth forevermore , thats my only wish now
Thanks for sharing your story; I hope you'll be back with here ny friend.
Man, i hope everything is ok now
I hope you are with her now
Greatly sound engineer. Masterfully composed.
I miss her. But it is what it is, sometimes you have to move on, even if it feels like you world is ending, like you have no choice in life, like you've lost the battle for the only thing you've ever wanted, for the only person you've felt worth fighting for, sometimes you're just not wanted, and that's okay, maybe one day we can find someone who wants us as much as we want them. Someone who'll always be there, someone who can fill this void inside me.
Unrequited love...
tantos recuerdos, tantas cosas que nos faltaron hacer , recuerdame porfavor , si encuentras a alguien con quien seas feliz, recuerdame, me dejaste con un corazon partido hecho añicos pero aun asi te amo aun sigo esperandote hasta el ultimo segundo de mi vida, porque sé que no tendre la misma conexion con alguien mas, no eras ni eres perfecta pero me recordaba que bonito era la vida , me llenabas el corazón y ahora lo desgastas y sufro por ti porque soy asi, porque no sufres como yo lo hago por mi acaso no me amas? no me amaste? se que ha pasado tanto tiempo pero aun sigo sintiendo todo lo que prometi hacerlo hasta el final , prometi y ahora no puedo romperlo, perdon por el daño que nos causamos los dos con amor vicente
Thank you for making music that makes you feel! So immersive. That vibrating thumbnail made me think I was starting to have a flashback though
I listened to this song back in 2017 when I was heart broken never thought I'll love someone again i was wrong had the most wonderful relationship for 2 ywars and my mental health got in the way it's been 8 or 9 months since we split everyday i miss em i dream of them now here I am back to 2020 even worse now can't deal with the fact that there with someone else that's not me I don't know what to do anymore
It’s currently 3AM and I’m sitting on my front porch watching the moon, questioning why I love her so much when we hardly even speak
Hope you're doing well.
Another great song for women in spite they can destroy us inside. For you Blackter whererver you are after 17 yrs.
I love this melody, the climax of Te amé is like a more black metal-ish version of this song.
Beauty!
Aku tau lagu ini karena kamu, dan saat aku dengerin ini itu tandanya aku kangen kamu... Aku kangen bgt sama kamu
Since she left, i can not feel the love anymore, she took me everything, letting behind a huge emptiness
I really like to write my novel while listening to your songs..
greetings from turkey
Merhabaa
The change was insane and i absolutely loved it
That's my new theme song ++++Thanks for sharing!
i dont wanna live without her
You'll find one better than her
@@swas_chak she's the best
but, im tellin u... this is this type of music, i loooove hearing live. epic.
Love is the best part of the human experience. Losing it however... It's the worst. I know no one cares, everyone wallows in their own misery here, but I've been dealt pain and I've given it right back. We're all terrible, and we're all great. We're all human.
I met her at a language school in Spain. At first, we couldn't talk well, but we were strangely attracted to each other. And we were always together. However, she told me that we were not destined to be together because of her financial problems and human relationships. I told her that we were destined to be together. I told her that I would wait forever for her. She said that if she waited for 10 years, she would come to me. We talked about it while crying in the park. After I returned to Japan, we were torn apart by the COVID-19 pandemic. Then my business failed, I became depressed, and I was hospitalized for a suicide attempt. Now I am recovering little by little, and I want to do business in Spain after training in Japan. It has already been six years since that promise, but I intend to wait for her for more than 10 years. If not in this life, I will wait for her in the next life. I love her forever. I miss her so much.