Dear 🐝: Confronting the Hypercritic

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

Комментарии • 24

  • @fanntsy
    @fanntsy 4 месяца назад +3

    you're such a bright and flowy soul! glad to find your channel!

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      Such a kind thing to say. I really do appreciate it. The hypercritic resists, but is slowly being drowned out. Bye bye hypercritic!! 👋
      🏔️✨ 🌱 🌻 💛 🐝

  • @blakewentley
    @blakewentley 4 месяца назад +1

    These videos will be so valuable to you in the future. And you never know whose life they'll touch, and who you'll remind that we're not in this alone. Keep doing what you're doing. It's all a process and it only gets better.

  • @angelaconnielee
    @angelaconnielee 4 месяца назад +3

  • @Peasham
    @Peasham 4 месяца назад

    To be completely honest I'm not sure why I originally subbed to this channel, but I can tell ya this much, stopping oneself from hypercriticism might be hard, but it's absolutely doable. You've got this, pretty lady!

  • @Luna.D.Atlas333
    @Luna.D.Atlas333 4 месяца назад +1

    hey there, sweet bee. Aii! Thank you for sharing this video. I have been in a similar place and I feel as though I can see myself clearly now because you have so candidly shared yourself. Your strength and purity is clearer than clear, your soul shines through your eyes and resonates with your authenticity. You are strong and gentle, brave and earnest. You are not alone, sweet honeybee. We are here with you, sister. It gets heavy, the days when we have no one to hold but ourselves, the days we wonder how a single heart could weigh more than two. But your pain is proof of your power. You have opened yourself up to connection through the vulnerable exposure of your heart. Because of that, I know that I'm not alone.
    The ego is not villainous, it's not the enemy. I too have been on a cycle of perpetually killing myself, surrendering to the flame of rebirth before I had a chance to live. The ego only becomes an obstacle between us and divinity when we identify inextricably with the mask. We are having the human experience. You are so incredibly lucky to learn what it is to be your human just as I am mine! These selves we have found ourselves inhabiting are here to teach us and we are here to love them through peaceful observation. You are a manifestation of spirit, of god, of love, whatever word you feel most connected to. There is no difference between you and a flower, a rainbow, a bird, a bee, the seas or the skies. You are love that is lucky enough to realise it, you are conscious love ! So yaaa! Let's create selves that we like, that we love! Let's dress them up and play, let's honour God through playing as these glorious selves knowing with grateful hearts that none of it means anything, that whole and empty are the very same thing.
    I'm getting a wee bit carried away I just felt so moved by your little video and wanted to extend a thanks big enough to maybe feel like a hug. You're doing wonderfully, perfectly. You are doing exactly what you should be. You are exploring what it is to be alive. Thank you. I hope you release into a deeper sense of ease and open yourself up to more and more magic. Thank you for this message xxx

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      Sending so much love back your way 💛 So happy to have brought even one small moment of happiness to your life. How cool is it that we are on the same wavelength, so many miles and years later on aye? 💛🌻💕✨
      💋

  • @Mirinmusic
    @Mirinmusic 4 месяца назад

    I feel like I finally found someone who takes the word out of my mouth..I love you even though I don’t know you ❤

  • @ethanprescott4683
    @ethanprescott4683 5 месяцев назад +4

    No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell

  • @rowmen
    @rowmen 4 месяца назад +1

    looking forward to more diary entires :)

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      I’ve got more sitting in my phone… been some cool developments that the past two vids foreshadowed haha. Thanks so much for your time 💛

  • @nicosanchez_music
    @nicosanchez_music 4 месяца назад +1

    I believe in you, what you’re saying is something I tend to do when making videos or posting and even my own music. Just full send it! There is no loss that you can take by putting yourself and your work out there. Send it forward!

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks man, really encouraging to hear. Especially from someone at a skill level I aspire to have one day. Send it forward my bro! 🎸 ✨

    • @nicosanchez_music
      @nicosanchez_music 4 месяца назад +1

      @@BeetheBardlingthat’s sweet of you. I encourage you to put what’s on your storage out there. I straight up almost didn’t start my band, now 2 years later and we have 2 albums out and have met so many ppl along the way. There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain by sharing your work and even sharing your thoughts. Ppl want to listen :)

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад +1

      @@nicosanchez_music alright bro next one is 4 u

  • @liliaeleana1302
    @liliaeleana1302 4 месяца назад +2

    Randomly came across this and it feels like a sign. You should read the book of she by sara stover, it’s all about accepting your divine femininity and becoming conscious as a woman💞 cheers to the journey 🐿️ 🌍

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      I’ve come across that title in the shadow work I’ve been doing! Is on my radar 😍 Thank you 🙏

  • @cstechnologic9539
    @cstechnologic9539 4 месяца назад

    I am sorry but all i am hearing is.. "I am a victim" and "its not really my fault"? "I am terrible", "i am so bad,... Look i havent washed my teeth, look i havent taken a bath, look my skin is terrible.. but look i have issues, thats why i dont take care of myself" You also talk about your issues as if there are no solutions to anything. Its ok to talk about your problems but like why does it feel like you are trying to justify yourself for treating yourself so badly to others? You dont need to justify anything. You are not bad, you just keep hurting yourself because you hate yourself. You keep hurting yourself and bring yourself down because you hate yourself, then you feel bad because you feel broken or useless and the circle repeats. Break the circle, ask for advice, seek solutions. Dont just complain about your situation. Dont just excuse the part that you are responsible of, you are being terrible to yourself, admit it. Treat youself better.
    edit: nevermind you said it yourself even, i watched the first half of the video and commented and then the other half is basically you following my advice above. Keep at it!

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      What an interesting comment. Lol. Well, I respect you watching the video to its conclusion so thank you for doing me that justice 🙏

    • @cstechnologic9539
      @cstechnologic9539 4 месяца назад

      @@BeetheBardling no problem, it seems you are already in the path of recovering... apologies.

  • @Broken_robot1986
    @Broken_robot1986 4 месяца назад

    You gotta brush your teeth. The dentist is so expensive. After spending two years of paying dentist bills I've revamped my entire dental hygiene routine. I do not even play around anymore. I should have them paid off in a few more months now. I've been completely disconnected from any success I've achieved, i don't even feel them at all but constantly put myself down for everything. I'm trying to stop the negative self talk. Love you, stock up on mouthwash and brushes and toothpaste and floss.

    • @BeetheBardling
      @BeetheBardling  4 месяца назад

      Hahaha don’t worry, I brush my teeth properly and have great dental hygiene 🪥 I was referring to the moment we all share everyday after we wake up when our teeth are not brushed yet, hehe. Good advice, tooth health is very very important.

  • @justbruh2
    @justbruh2 5 месяцев назад +2

    lots of love and support from us