Rich Wilkerson Jr. - Make or Break: Break Up or Break Down

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  • Опубликовано: 17 фев 2019
  • For a rose bush to flourish, it requires pruning. Removing parts that inhibit growth allows the bush to reach its fullest potential. John 15:1-4 says we're the vine and God cuts off weak branches so that we may be more fruitful. You can’t produce if you are not pruned.

    Continuing the “Make or Break” series with the talk, “Break Up or Break Down," Pastor Rich Wilkerson, Jr. shows that it’s time for some personal pruning for our relationships to flourish.

    Sometimes we make the mistake of breaking off the wrong things. We hurry to quit the person rather than the thought patterns that got us into our mess in the first place. But we ought to break up with the fairytales. The fantasy of “love at first sight” or “happily ever after.”
    If we want successful relationships, we should skip mystical thinking and odd superstitions. We must get a clear sense of when feelings are in the way and we start to treat love like a trend rather than a commitment. And while failures are disappointing, they don't mean we should give up on relationships for good.
    Love is a decision. If you want your relationships to begin anew, you may need to break up with the thinking that breaks them down.
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Комментарии • 76

  • @ChachiF
    @ChachiF 5 лет назад +56

    "You're not Jesus, you're not called to save your partner you're called to WALK with your partner" 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 5 лет назад +55

    - Happily ever after is not a destination; it's a journey!
    - If love is nothing more than a feeling, then love will be nothing more than a trend. Trends go in & out of style.
    - Choose a spouse based on patterns, not potential.
    ahh! Thank you, Pastor Rich!!

  • @swatigaikwad4368
    @swatigaikwad4368 3 года назад +5

    Relationships, they are always going to require us to trust again, to believe again, to hope again, to risk again!!!!!!

  • @sarah_cary
    @sarah_cary 5 лет назад +48

    Clapped real hard at "Trustworthy, Determined & Honest."

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 лет назад +29

    I can't stop smiling cuz my little nephew was listening Rich and clapping every time lol
    Children are like Angels. They can't lie 😉

  • @Fasted.carnivore
    @Fasted.carnivore 4 года назад +3

    Oh God, thank you Lord for this sermon. Bless this church and Pastor, in Jesus' name.

  • @siboesithole4671
    @siboesithole4671 4 года назад +4

    I am feeling so blessed.. Thank you Lord for speaking to me in this sermon...

  • @beatrixt2499
    @beatrixt2499 4 года назад +9

    "if you don't break up with fairytale, fairytale will break you down"

  • @shonteljaneese6843
    @shonteljaneese6843 5 лет назад +14

    Jesus! This spoke to my soul, right when I needed it. ❤️

  • @raymartinezjr7235
    @raymartinezjr7235 5 лет назад +4

    Wow. Awesome service. This is what this generation and a lot of people really need to hear.

  • @LoveAcrossAmerica
    @LoveAcrossAmerica 5 лет назад +6

    Wow! That was incredible, with a perfect ending. Praise God!!

  • @beatriceben8611
    @beatriceben8611 5 лет назад +7

    What a great message God Bless You Pastor..

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 лет назад +6

    Keep changing the World 🙏

  • @imsojoo3388
    @imsojoo3388 3 года назад

    what an amazing service...the timing of it too is so perfect...God is too good

  • @sarahhdaoud
    @sarahhdaoud 5 лет назад +8

    So thankful for this message. It really resonated with me. ♥️🙏🏽😩

  • @longtibuchem959
    @longtibuchem959 5 лет назад +4

    Got so blessed. Thank you pastor..and thank you Jesus!

  • @simplydriven4196
    @simplydriven4196 4 года назад +1

    Just why is it that this man who looks like he’s 30 probably grew up listening to the Backstreet Boys has taught me more about healthy relationships than a combination of my preacher Sunday school teachers church friends mother grandmother and all my friends? Because he made a point to do so.

  • @n.meadow1313
    @n.meadow1313 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks pastor rich
    This message is so encouraging.

  • @elvirsonchik
    @elvirsonchik 5 лет назад +1

    The Best Community Ever!!!🤗🤗🤗

  • @suejean6160
    @suejean6160 4 года назад

    Wow! Trustworthy, Determined and Honest

  • @jesusiskingofmyheart
    @jesusiskingofmyheart 3 года назад +1

    This was so powerful! I needed to hear this, thank you Pastor Rich 🙌🏽❤

  • @limongzar7519
    @limongzar7519 5 лет назад +1

    Amen! So Thankful I got to hear this😊

  • @TheNewLifeOfFienie
    @TheNewLifeOfFienie 5 лет назад +2

    THIS WAS SO POWERFUL! WILL SHARE IT RIGHT AWAY ON FACEBOOK!! 🙌🏽❤

  • @riannaHermione
    @riannaHermione 5 лет назад +17

    "Guys.. stop being creepy!" hahhaha... true, though.

  • @jiejie6054
    @jiejie6054 5 лет назад +3

    True.... this is amazing!

  • @janiceleimarie
    @janiceleimarie 5 лет назад +3

    Thank you for this.

  • @naturalepiphaniesco.7332
    @naturalepiphaniesco.7332 Год назад

    Love this message so much

  • @courtneyhorton6059
    @courtneyhorton6059 3 года назад +1

    Preach Pastor Rich🔥🔥🙌🏾❤️❤️

  • @plusjolie20
    @plusjolie20 5 лет назад +2

    What an incredible message! Thank you. ❤️

  • @LoveeNSuccess
    @LoveeNSuccess 3 года назад

    This is exactly what I needed to hear tonight. Thank you!

  • @jessewanderelilimaralda9266
    @jessewanderelilimaralda9266 5 лет назад

    Aún me cuesta mucho entender el inglés pero Rich es genial, tiene un Espíritu para compartir la palabra de Dios Increible!

  • @nickid
    @nickid Год назад

    What a great message ❤❤❤

  • @morrismusyoka501
    @morrismusyoka501 3 года назад +1

    Those vocalist can really sing😊 🙌

  • @kass8692
    @kass8692 Год назад

    Says it like it is 👏🏼

  • @isaacrabin5702
    @isaacrabin5702 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Rich👏👏

  • @corinamaebernardo7178
    @corinamaebernardo7178 5 лет назад +3

    Amazing message!

  • @kaylenalvarez1144
    @kaylenalvarez1144 5 лет назад +3

    Wow, powerful 🙌🏽

  • @vhit5607
    @vhit5607 5 лет назад

    Powerful and uplifting message !!thank you for this words !!

  • @larissaguardado1968
    @larissaguardado1968 5 лет назад +1

    Amazing Just what i needed yo hear❤️

  • @leannaca
    @leannaca 5 лет назад +26

    This was a great message! And I am so looking forward to that series for singles! :)

  • @baylencardenas3115
    @baylencardenas3115 5 лет назад +1

    That sermon had all the juice n hit me like a train

  • @aali98andall
    @aali98andall 5 лет назад +2

    Great message !! #alwayslearning #alwayschanging #thankyouvous

  • @jaritzafigueroa887
    @jaritzafigueroa887 5 лет назад +1

    So good 🙌🏼

  • @justice4all907
    @justice4all907 4 года назад +1

    Look for patterns! Great advice!

  • @ad-df8gq
    @ad-df8gq 5 лет назад +2

    What a message

  • @malusore
    @malusore 5 лет назад +1

    GREAT! GREAT! OH YEAH! WHAT A GREAT MESSAGE! #LOVEMYCHURCH

  • @camillepicard9357
    @camillepicard9357 5 лет назад +4

    Love the message! Keep encouraging us it is amazing!
    Just a little comment about Uber : uber drivers are highly underpaid - at least in France - and the"job uberization" trend is leading to a non desirable working precarity..! :)

  • @sinclair657
    @sinclair657 4 года назад

    Happily ever after is a journey...thanks

  • @mitchellelebani7363
    @mitchellelebani7363 5 лет назад +1

    So good 🔥🔥

  • @blessedhoney
    @blessedhoney 3 года назад +1

    he naileddd that i love him.

  • @TeenTokwithPhophi
    @TeenTokwithPhophi 5 лет назад +1

    Awesome stuff

  • @sarah00085
    @sarah00085 4 года назад

    wow thank you

  • @ivananatashas
    @ivananatashas 5 лет назад +3

    powerful message!!! omg it speaks to me a lot!!!

    • @thatchindogirl
      @thatchindogirl 5 лет назад

      Ivana Natasha S. spot a fellow Indo here! Haha

    • @ivananatashas
      @ivananatashas 5 лет назад

      haha yessss hello! @@thatchindogirl

  • @refilwetsalaile7647
    @refilwetsalaile7647 5 лет назад +1

    Godly wisdom on a 💯

  • @christiaopris1563
    @christiaopris1563 5 лет назад +3

    AMEN

  • @yani9904
    @yani9904 5 лет назад +7

    You don’t know his credit score. 😂

  • @ChachiF
    @ChachiF 5 лет назад +2

    "You don't know his credit score" 😂😂

  • @brenderomari6339
    @brenderomari6339 5 лет назад +1

    6:50 on wards got me shouting

  • @gabriellacecilia9792
    @gabriellacecilia9792 5 лет назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @alov3world302
    @alov3world302 4 года назад +1

    30:45!!!!

  • @sebacuevas5118
    @sebacuevas5118 3 года назад

    wish i would've seen Rich and his preaches years a go...
    I guess i had to learn from all this, next time i'll produce real fruit :(

  • @melaniemartin4319
    @melaniemartin4319 2 года назад +1

    Oh no!😪😶😶😶

  • @alov3world302
    @alov3world302 4 года назад +1

    16:40 !!!!!!!!

  • @jaydasan9685
    @jaydasan9685 3 года назад +1

    Not then playing non Christian music at church in a sermon 💀, this is really something else.

  • @SenorConrad
    @SenorConrad 5 лет назад +6

    Thank you for all the good work you do in your community & you try to do in the world. I think as I mature as a believer, I don’t grow as a follower of Christ because of self improvement sermons, there is so much being said that is man opinion based but no scripture references. The word of God is what helps you grow. It’s how God speaks to you. Saying Jesus every 5 minutes isn’t using the scripture. I need God’s word to help me and change me. Hearing God’s word, the scriptures it’s based on and knowing I can rely on the word of God in the Bible verses is what helps remind me of what to do when I’m faced with that particular situation. God bless you, keep doing your best, but please give me bible verses not just a self improvement talk. Not just starting the talk off with 1 verse and then go on and on. God bless you.

  • @swatigaikwad4368
    @swatigaikwad4368 3 года назад +1

    If you are tired of starting over, STOP quitting

  • @shanaabraham7049
    @shanaabraham7049 3 года назад

    //break up or bread down//
    john 16: 1-4 “remain in me and i will remain in you”
    - often its not about where you start but where you choose to stop / ecclesiastes 2: 1
    - the season has shifted but you are still holding onto something that no longer bears fruit
    - if you aren’t pruned, you won’t produce

  • @calvertcia4981
    @calvertcia4981 5 лет назад +1

    19:12

  • @filibusterfirework74
    @filibusterfirework74 5 лет назад +5

    I am going to continue listening but I wanted to quickly call out how insensitive the Uber vs Taxi driver example was. There has been a huge uptake in taxi driver suicide in nyc and it’s not quite as simple as those drivers simply switching to Uber. Uber doesn’t give drivers the same kinds of protection. On top of that Uber’s corporate leaders have been call out with accusations of rape and many other things. So yeah don’t expect me to clap for Uber.

  • @jilllingenfelter4682
    @jilllingenfelter4682 Год назад +1

    The right answer is permanent divorce/no reconciliation ever!!!!@Vous Church