I’m so heartbroken now but this video genuinely made me happy and smile after such a long while. Thank you. I love your videos. Helping me a lot right now.
So trust was broken in the relationship, we decided to try agian and everything has been pretty good for almost two years. Then she wanted to break it off because shes not sure if she can get over the broken trust and is unsure if she can move past it.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick is there a video on how to show you have changed and can be trusted? Do u think time apart and space could do that coupled with individual growth?
If there were such a video, it wouldn’t help. Trying to show someone how you’ve changed would suggest you’re doing it to prove it to them, or to gain their validation. Therefore, you’re doing it for them, not yourself and that my friend will always fail. Do it for you! If they come back, okay great. If they don’t then who gives a fuck? You levelled up and your ex no longer meets YOUR minimum requirements for a relationship!
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I appreciate the honesty, and yes I agree it has to be for myself, but I'm wondering if it will be something she sees as well? I agree it's a win win but I'm just not sure how someone can see change in someone they no longer see on the daily.
If dumpers hurt too then why isn’t there much videos for dumpers specifically? Don’t get me wrong Channels like yours, Craig Kenneth, Rory’s etc are wonderful and I think it’s an amazing one. I used to listen to it all the time and they’ve helped a lot of us But none of them have much videos for dumpers. So is dumper remorse or things like “dumpers hurt too” are they just a comforting words? I’m just asking please don’t take this as a hate It’s purely out if curiosity :)
Because content from the dumpers point of view doesn’t do well on RUclips. That’s the main reason. RUclips 101 is to make content people will click on.
My theory is, that dumpees have all the feelings at once. So they "have to" search for a solution to deal with it and from there on it generally goes upwards. Dumpers on the other hand experience this feelings over a long period of time. Maybe sometimes for the rest of their lifes (if they regret the decision but its too late to fix it). A therapist (friend of mine) told me she has way more people that have issues to deal with a break up in the long run that dumped someone than dumpees.
Well, the content is for both men and woman, but men put women on pedestals because we’re conditioned to. Check out a book called no more mr nice guy, by doctor Robert Glover.
According to my own experience as a dumper and dumpee. As a dumper, I cannot remember almost any good memory with my ex dampee with whom i had been with together for 8 years ! He still hunts me in my dreams as either I wanna divorce him or dump him again. As a dumpee it was my recent breaku, it was a 7 year relationship. I thought everything went well when I got dumped . I asked him recently if he thinked about our good memories from time to time, he said no (sincerely, not angry or what). Well, I do ! As movies that play in the background of my mind . Maybe he still in the “enjoying freedom “stage, after a few months maybe he will miss our good moments. I don’t hold the breath since as a dumper , I still don’t remember any good memory with my ex dumpee after 8+7=15 years .
I’m so heartbroken now but this video genuinely made me happy and smile after such a long while. Thank you. I love your videos. Helping me a lot right now.
My pleasure. I hope you’re feeling better today. 😊
Lmao this is my favorite fucking “love coaching” channel on RUclips istg, you’re so real
Thank you.
My breakup recovery book is coming soon. It’s a very real book. 😊
Just got dumped 4 days ago. Your videos is definitely making me feel better thanks.
Sorry to hear that man, thats brutal. I am glad i can be of some help. I hope you feel better.
4:31 jesus christ 😂 I may just overthinking then 😂😂
Love the video, the intro made me laugh. Nice to get a few laughs in during these tough times
Appreciate it, buddy. I hope you’re feeling better.
Excellent arguments
Thank you 😊
I hope you’re well.
Thank you!
My pleasure, I hope you’re well.
Thanks for the reminder. My fish are overdue for a bath
😂😂😂
If they become my ex it's a no brainer. I don't care if they remember me or not I've moved on.
😂😅Great speech!!!
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So trust was broken in the relationship, we decided to try agian and everything has been pretty good for almost two years. Then she wanted to break it off because shes not sure if she can get over the broken trust and is unsure if she can move past it.
That’s rough, buddy. I’m sorry to hear that.
I hope you feel better soon.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick is there a video on how to show you have changed and can be trusted? Do u think time apart and space could do that coupled with individual growth?
If there were such a video, it wouldn’t help.
Trying to show someone how you’ve changed would suggest you’re doing it to prove it to them, or to gain their validation. Therefore, you’re doing it for them, not yourself and that my friend will always fail.
Do it for you! If they come back, okay great. If they don’t then who gives a fuck? You levelled up and your ex no longer meets YOUR minimum requirements for a relationship!
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I appreciate the honesty, and yes I agree it has to be for myself, but I'm wondering if it will be something she sees as well? I agree it's a win win but I'm just not sure how someone can see change in someone they no longer see on the daily.
If she decides to come back, she’ll see the change buddy. 😊
If dumpers hurt too then why isn’t there much videos for dumpers specifically? Don’t get me wrong
Channels like yours, Craig Kenneth, Rory’s etc are wonderful and I think it’s an amazing one. I used to listen to it all the time and they’ve helped a lot of us
But none of them have much videos for dumpers.
So is dumper remorse or things like “dumpers hurt too” are they just a comforting words?
I’m just asking please don’t take this as a hate
It’s purely out if curiosity :)
Because content from the dumpers point of view doesn’t do well on RUclips. That’s the main reason.
RUclips 101 is to make content people will click on.
It okay to choose ourselves first. I would argue that’s essential for a healthy relationship, but she also must choose the relationship.
My theory is, that dumpees have all the feelings at once. So they "have to" search for a solution to deal with it and from there on it generally goes upwards.
Dumpers on the other hand experience this feelings over a long period of time. Maybe sometimes for the rest of their lifes (if they regret the decision but its too late to fix it). A therapist (friend of mine) told me she has way more people that have issues to deal with a break up in the long run that dumped someone than dumpees.
But even if your ex remembers you if there never gonna come back it makes no difference really
I agree, but i get asked everyday “will my ex remember me”. That’s i was addressing.
Ok
Best one yet mate how the fuck do you bath a fish gonna have to google that
Bathing a fish was the best joke I could think when writing this piece! 😁
Your right in what you say though I don't know why us men think that women are better than us
Well, the content is for both men and woman, but men put women on pedestals because we’re conditioned to.
Check out a book called no more mr nice guy, by doctor Robert Glover.
@TheLoveFix-Nick cheers mate I take a read of that I do think I was that guy Mr nice guy to behonest mate think iam better of on my own
Here’s the thing. Most nice guys are not nice.
The nice guy syndrome is a real thing and it messes us up. Life changing book.
They remember you, but not the good memories
According to whom?
According to my own experience as a dumper and dumpee. As a dumper, I cannot remember almost any good memory with my ex dampee with whom i had been with together for 8 years ! He still hunts me in my dreams as either I wanna divorce him or dump him again.
As a dumpee it was my recent breaku, it was a 7 year relationship. I thought everything went well when I got dumped . I asked him recently if he thinked about our good memories from time to time, he said no (sincerely, not angry or what). Well, I do ! As movies that play in the background of my mind . Maybe he still in the “enjoying freedom “stage, after a few months maybe he will miss our good moments.
I don’t hold the breath since as a dumper , I still don’t remember any good memory with my ex dumpee after 8+7=15 years .
Thanks for sharing 😊