Jackie Phamotse's Bare spills the dirt on transactional sex

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 181

  • @sinethembadosini956
    @sinethembadosini956 6 лет назад +219

    I am so grateful at how I'm truly not obsessed with what every one is obsessed about: The weaves, money, cars etc. It makes me feel special and unique that I don't like what everybody likes, It feels good too not going with the crowds, I wish many young girls could just know that feeling.

  • @urshiharris9025
    @urshiharris9025 4 года назад +44

    For all the people saying she should “name & shame”, surely you people understand that her life will be in grave danger seeing that they are politicians and business men. Besides that, she has invited the Hawks publicly to come and talk to her. She is a woman with integrity and self respect and has a pair of balls to write this book in the first place, although it has been published as fiction. I applaud and admire her for stepping up.

  • @arthursibande8669
    @arthursibande8669 4 года назад +55

    This is the reason why GBV and human trafficking won't be solved in SA, cos the people who are involved in this are the ones who are supposed to solve it..

  • @pumziletracywilbon7963
    @pumziletracywilbon7963 6 лет назад +70

    Of all the content I've sifted through today, this is about the only post I'm grateful to have spent a good portion of my time watching. Thank you, Jackie, for your story and your courage. I'll be getting your book this week.

  • @jayak8217
    @jayak8217 6 лет назад +24

    Jackie, you're my people's girl. I try to stay away from things that are negative, but if I see your book in the book store, I will buy it just to support you for your bravery.

  • @londiwelanga6714
    @londiwelanga6714 6 лет назад +30

    What a brave and beautiful soul. Jackie you are saving lives with ever word you speak!!! Siyabonga sisi, May your ancestors form a wall of strength and protection around you.

  • @yingisanimaimela889
    @yingisanimaimela889 6 лет назад +15

    Her book is so amazing I have learned a lot from that book and it helps me to be alert and careful and respect people's dad

  • @heywearenotthesame2720
    @heywearenotthesame2720 4 года назад +48

    Only seeing this 2 years later and wow im hook💔 so many things are making sense now

  • @ksway8471
    @ksway8471 6 лет назад +22

    This woman is brave and blessed, see most people wouldn't have lived to even make such an interview

  • @davidmabatle-makoala337
    @davidmabatle-makoala337 4 года назад +15

    Yu shud be a motivational speaker at school and on TV just like these false prophets. Well-done Lady keep telling.

  • @acceptinglife6491
    @acceptinglife6491 6 лет назад +13

    your honesty is so appreciated, these conversations are tough but they need to be had👏

  • @paulholsey2754
    @paulholsey2754 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m an older American man and I applaud her for just pointing out the wrongs that are going on. Because all of us world wide is trying to protect our youth, our future from this material world of manipulation selling your flesh and soul

  • @prudencesimnikiwejacobs1759
    @prudencesimnikiwejacobs1759 3 года назад +3

    thank you for mentioning the fact that we all need to know ourselves in terms of spirituality, identity and passions amongst other aspects of livelihood before being in a relationship with anyone

  • @mlulekideandladla
    @mlulekideandladla 4 года назад +75

    Damn, as guy who wants to be a father one day. I'm really scared for my kids.

    • @tsepisoramosela1210
      @tsepisoramosela1210 4 года назад +1

      I know what you mean. I am not sure if I even want some anymore.

    • @nigelarcani
      @nigelarcani 4 года назад +6

      Me I'm leaning towards not having kids, with the way the world is progressing feels like a cruel thing to do

    • @sandilevamdlalose5579
      @sandilevamdlalose5579 3 года назад +1

      Most of the women who fall for this are girls without a father figure in their lives and not getting love and financial support when they are brought up. They are easily attracted to these men since they have never experienced the love of a father and a support from a male figure

  • @uplift56
    @uplift56 4 года назад +3

    Wow, this is a leading lady, to stand out and bold for awareness 🕵🏾‍♂️!

  • @Lulu-pj5ln
    @Lulu-pj5ln 6 лет назад +24

    Well done girl some body has to speak out and education othes.

  • @tshenomotlhankana8695
    @tshenomotlhankana8695 6 лет назад +30

    Thank you for this interview.

  • @GraceAya
    @GraceAya 6 лет назад +10

    I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

  • @AyaSeka
    @AyaSeka 6 лет назад +4

    I just read the book in 2 weaks ago , and I applause Phomotse for writing such insightful book.

  • @geraldinegowar3776
    @geraldinegowar3776 2 года назад +1

    Yes angel..this is the time for us girls to love ourselves more so that we able to stand live and speak our truth..blessings indeed..stay blessed in love and light

  • @zezetumcenge2914
    @zezetumcenge2914 6 лет назад +7

    This is such an eye opening book. Thank you sisi

  • @zikhonangobo5944
    @zikhonangobo5944 6 лет назад +20

    This book opened my eyes😱... it's disgusting how men in power use women's body as their playing tools

  • @ericmalatji5459
    @ericmalatji5459 6 лет назад +8

    thank you Jackie, for telling females to get their own....go patela go pusha le mavuso a lapisa, le ma 2000 bawa batla, FMPM must fall, its draining.

  • @deethomas6699
    @deethomas6699 6 лет назад +50

    I doubt this will ever end,as long we still have lazy young South Africans,then all these dirty deeds will continue.

    • @pargeantntshalintshali4507
      @pargeantntshalintshali4507 6 лет назад +4

      Great awereness Jackie. Thank you. Can the law act seriously on this. We've spoken many times. The law needs to do something . And girl may we listen hlee.

    • @deethomas6699
      @deethomas6699 6 лет назад

      Pargeant Ntshalintshali 🎯💯

    • @2melo194
      @2melo194 5 лет назад +9

      People are hungry. Its not just being lazy

    • @nonto_
      @nonto_ 4 года назад +12

      400 000 unemployed graduates, highest youth unemployment in the world girls seeking out sugar daddies is because of poverty not greed, the greedy ones are the sugar daddies who lure poor young women

    • @mantumasibe9455
      @mantumasibe9455 3 года назад

      It's not laziness it's more spiritual

  • @kekem6517
    @kekem6517 6 лет назад +6

    My woman you truly brave...true inspiration ♡♡

  • @keneilwemohlabane1288
    @keneilwemohlabane1288 4 года назад +11

    May the ALMIGHTY GOD DISPATCH ANGELS TO ENCAMP AROUND YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY TO ENSURE THAT NO WEAPON PLOTTED AGAINST YOU EVER PROSPER, UNTIL IT'S YOUR TIME TO BE CALLED HOME JACKIE. I PRAY THAT YOU CAN WILLINGLY ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR PERSONAL SAVIOUR, I'M NOT TALKING CHURCH, BUT I'M TALKING A PERSONAL SAVIOUR, HEALER, PROTECTOR AND RESTORER IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE. GOD LOVES YOU SWEETHEART🙏❤️👏

  • @mickowkomani9247
    @mickowkomani9247 4 года назад +7

    By a powerful man rich, rich men are dirt I'm happy i ran away for my son and my life

  • @egbomsfamily3229
    @egbomsfamily3229 4 года назад +1

    Keep on going girl, expose the evildoers. The Lord is by your side

  • @joycerichards2288
    @joycerichards2288 4 года назад

    May God keep you and guide you Jackie......we need young women like you....
    Luv you dear.

  • @love.yolani
    @love.yolani 4 года назад +1

    We support you, may God protect you

  • @mbuyavedlamini3068
    @mbuyavedlamini3068 3 года назад +1

    I wish all our sisters can listen to this.

  • @yandisamngonyama5266
    @yandisamngonyama5266 4 года назад +14

    Me too soon i will be releasing my own book called " loving never gave me a home "
    we are a sad generation that post happy emojis i agree with Jackie we don't like the truth

    • @artofscripture5320
      @artofscripture5320 4 года назад +4

      interesting topic very interested

    • @yandisamngonyama5266
      @yandisamngonyama5266 4 года назад +1

      @@artofscripture5320 yes that's what i wanted from the first place
      for people to find my book very attractive and interesting to them

    • @utubehelps2267
      @utubehelps2267 4 года назад

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    • @Ladyle4ever
      @Ladyle4ever 10 месяцев назад

      Wooow... what a beautiful title "loving never gave me a home"

  • @karabo_t07
    @karabo_t07 5 лет назад +13

    But Jackie is just intelligent ....and smart

  • @kholofelomakhafola2692
    @kholofelomakhafola2692 6 лет назад +3

    Worth a read... love it

  • @weightlossjourneywithretha7156
    @weightlossjourneywithretha7156 4 года назад +15

    I understand the male shaming,but ladies sometimes we are too gullible. We expose ourselves to such.... Let's work on making money for ourselves. Try stay away from this costly lifestyle.

  • @mickowkomani9247
    @mickowkomani9247 4 года назад +9

    I'm still reading this book it was hard reading the parts where she got raped killed me cause i relate aswell

  • @joandebeurges3216
    @joandebeurges3216 4 года назад +2

    Wow this is so brave but so so necessary as the abuse is shocking for young innocent girls. They need to be protection. So sad

  • @morongwatshabalala8087
    @morongwatshabalala8087 6 лет назад +13

    I READ THIS BOOK ITS SO CRAZY AND HORRIBLE WHAT THESE GIRLS GO THROUGH AND DO. THIS BOOK SHOWS ALL SIDES OF THE STORY

    • @skywalker7778
      @skywalker7778 6 лет назад +5

      Morongwa Tshabalala Agree, but its still a choice. Many women dont go this route..

    • @sinethembamguni8273
      @sinethembamguni8273 6 лет назад +4

      Morongwa Tshabalala i read the book.i think if she really wanted to shame and is totally concerned about this issue then she should have gone the name and shame route.there are no names ,shes using unbrella terms.even poor amd low class people do the rituals,spoil the girls at the level thwy can afford.this ia not a neq angle for me.i dont see the solution in her story.she has got tje benefits of doing that and now shes turning against it.shea got money now,she has a book now.isnt it the reason girls go after money for material things....i think she must give solutions.

    • @morongwatshabalala8087
      @morongwatshabalala8087 6 лет назад

      i get what you are saying

    • @morongwatshabalala8087
      @morongwatshabalala8087 6 лет назад

      true

    • @carylsfaithchats359
      @carylsfaithchats359 6 лет назад +9

      After naming and shaming then she should go pick a coffin and tombstone. And start planning for her own funeral don't you think? What she wrote is very helpful. Naming the people that she knows will actually make people avoid those particular people not knowing there are still others out there who she doesn't know of. What women need to take from this stories is stay away from married men. Politicians and blessors and the problem is solved.

  • @siphoshekwa3309
    @siphoshekwa3309 3 года назад

    Wow! May God bless you and keep you.

  • @ColaBling
    @ColaBling 4 года назад

    This is exactly why l keep some of my interviews with A list videos up on my channel. Allowing younger women to realise that entertainment industry and rich materials are all hype. People in these circles have not much decency nor manners. To know family life and friendships with others with morals and genuine love is the best riches to have.

  • @PM-xd6nv
    @PM-xd6nv 4 года назад +1

    Hectic stuff bro💔💔... I wish to read all her books 😭😭

  • @tebogobaldwin5456
    @tebogobaldwin5456 6 лет назад +4

    I would like a copy of this book

  • @annewanjiru1194
    @annewanjiru1194 4 года назад +3

    How can I get the book...Am from Kenya

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 4 года назад

    Bought this book yesterday on take a lot.. I bet I'm gonna finish it within a week

  • @mpupintoane7090
    @mpupintoane7090 4 года назад +1

    Wow!! This is the world we are living in. I am scared as a woman and as a mother.

  • @kgaokgao595
    @kgaokgao595 6 лет назад +6

    I'm gonna get the book my sista

  • @sylviasibeko4644
    @sylviasibeko4644 4 года назад +1

    Brave girl god bless u and keep u safe. Xx

  • @thembitabata3079
    @thembitabata3079 6 лет назад +5

    Jackie uyayaz nguban osnika lento😌 yes gurl

    • @bulalingcayicibi3062
      @bulalingcayicibi3062 4 года назад

      Damn!!! Your comment is underrated and deserves more likes.😂😂😂

  • @masilelaluckyg
    @masilelaluckyg 6 лет назад +9

    I thought you were going answer to Berry Roux

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 6 лет назад +12

    “They auction themselves” yoh 😭

  • @nigelarcani
    @nigelarcani 4 года назад

    I want the book, hope i find it in Zim

  • @sindiswamnyanda8216
    @sindiswamnyanda8216 6 лет назад +6

    Politicians and Pstrs.... I know for sure

  • @LadyNoRa_scorpio
    @LadyNoRa_scorpio 2 года назад

    On MacG you said that you were introduced by house mate / friend to this lifestyle 🤔

  • @ThePerfectdisciple
    @ThePerfectdisciple 4 года назад

    Sometimes it's good to keep life simple. Sad world in many places.

  • @lukhanyisotena4481
    @lukhanyisotena4481 6 лет назад +10

    Weird how you keep saying that these girls are lured into th I lifestyle kodwa bayaziyela.

  • @lloydmpofu4359
    @lloydmpofu4359 6 лет назад +6

    The Interviewer Looks like Sonti Mogongwa from Skeem Saam.

    • @Bennylebea
      @Bennylebea 4 года назад

      Lmao! So u jst here to check out the women wena Zulu boy

  • @nomvuseleloluthuli7525
    @nomvuseleloluthuli7525 2 года назад

    I pray for the Lord's protection over your life Jackie

  • @kamogelokola8835
    @kamogelokola8835 6 лет назад +1

    thank you so much Jackie

  • @sbonisonkambule4259
    @sbonisonkambule4259 4 года назад +8

    this young ladies sleep with this blessers and after that they go to sleep with their young boyfriends. this so painfully because innocent young mans are infected

    • @kimkardashian6149
      @kimkardashian6149 4 года назад +4

      How does not putting your own sexual safety first equate to innocence?

    • @ZzZukairo
      @ZzZukairo 2 года назад

      She said man also do it it's not just women

  • @leratosharon103
    @leratosharon103 6 лет назад +2

    I read da book😪😨I’m aware of everything

  • @stanchauke7332
    @stanchauke7332 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for your advice.But i don't think they will listen to you.Women they love money is their nature you wont change them.

  • @OMagadla
    @OMagadla 6 лет назад +6

    lol low throwing subs at Linda "PR companies, communications companies, latest cars and international trips" i mean

    • @raemashao2200
      @raemashao2200 6 лет назад

      olwethu magadla thought so too😉

  • @funimax4236
    @funimax4236 4 года назад +10

    "......Girls like playing dumb....."

  • @leratomacatsha2138
    @leratomacatsha2138 4 года назад +1

    Very smart woman

  • @paulholsey2754
    @paulholsey2754 11 месяцев назад

    Also there is no need to name people, it’s about saving people

  • @IAm-gv1wi
    @IAm-gv1wi 6 лет назад +3

    Wow! This was very insightful. Where can I get the book?

    • @nomhlepokwana8536
      @nomhlepokwana8536 6 лет назад +1

      Asavela Kakaza Protea book store

    • @MsDimakatso
      @MsDimakatso 6 лет назад

      Exclusive bookstore

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      @utubehelps2267 4 года назад

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  • @twananombiza836
    @twananombiza836 6 лет назад

    I read the book too good

  • @luyolomify
    @luyolomify 6 лет назад +11

    I’m sure she meant “prevalent” not “frivolent”. Great story nonetheless.

    • @thembitabata3079
      @thembitabata3079 6 лет назад +8

      Cartoon Master ummmm thanks Captain English

    • @phopcorn5114
      @phopcorn5114 6 лет назад

      Cartoon Master I was wondering if that's what I heard lol

    • @stormybillie
      @stormybillie 4 года назад

      You do know that English is not her first language so I don't know what you were trying to do.

  • @sanelenxele1079
    @sanelenxele1079 6 лет назад +11

    I'd take anything I read from her book with a pinch of salt.

    • @vincentmothapa2421
      @vincentmothapa2421 6 лет назад

      M Bison why?

    • @sanelenxele1079
      @sanelenxele1079 6 лет назад +4

      +Vincent Mothapa do you really think she didn't exaggerate anything or even got 'creative'? it all sounds like fiction to me.

    • @raemashao2200
      @raemashao2200 6 лет назад +8

      M Bison Reality can be stranger than fiction

    • @vincentmothapa2421
      @vincentmothapa2421 6 лет назад

      M Bison maybe she did, maybe she didn't. Do you have a reason to doubt her stories?

    • @sinethembamguni8273
      @sinethembamguni8273 6 лет назад +2

      M Bison i do not doubt her story but she should have gone full force name and shame.so its not effective persay.we need.solutions.and.who doesnt want material wealth really?shes got the material wealth now but the girls are still poor can we have more of solutions and less narations

  • @floweryvanilla1064
    @floweryvanilla1064 3 года назад +1

    Who is here from Twitter? 😂😂

  • @dwangui76
    @dwangui76 4 года назад

    You mean this has been here for 2 years already?

  • @Aline6I
    @Aline6I 6 лет назад

    My goodness..

  • @mrp.8577
    @mrp.8577 6 лет назад +15

    Always playing the victim when the ca$h runs dry

    • @niwartlhomola3794
      @niwartlhomola3794 6 лет назад

      Mr Tru so true. She says she comes from a military family yet she feels she needs to date someone for money. !!!

    • @sinethembamguni8273
      @sinethembamguni8273 6 лет назад

      i totaly agree

    • @isabelglobe3009
      @isabelglobe3009 6 лет назад +13

      Please read the book first before judging

    • @mpoirafolatsane2102
      @mpoirafolatsane2102 6 лет назад +15

      This comment is so disgusting. I worry about people like you. Pathetic

    • @tsholofelomatshidiso
      @tsholofelomatshidiso 5 лет назад +6

      Read the book before you comment. Talk to someone who has been trapped in that life and ask how it came about before judging. You'll understand that in life not everything is black and white.

  • @joshua_valoi8236
    @joshua_valoi8236 3 года назад

    So she is one of them, i heard she has the oroblem of womb.she said it herself on instagram

  • @virginiadavila397
    @virginiadavila397 6 лет назад

    cook

  • @nkululekomagududlela2680
    @nkululekomagududlela2680 4 года назад

    your girls please stop love money because et the and of the day all of u i going to die for loving money

  • @davidsmith-gz9hf
    @davidsmith-gz9hf 4 года назад

    why judging cos lewena u were part of it

    • @stormybillie
      @stormybillie 4 года назад +6

      Who's judging? She's educating these girls based on her experience. Stop your crap.

    • @GODISLOVE-b4q
      @GODISLOVE-b4q 6 месяцев назад

      She is telling the stories to make people be careful you are calling it judging bc you are a problem.

  • @saraswachingchadra9354
    @saraswachingchadra9354 4 года назад

    😂😂😂

  • @thandodlamini982
    @thandodlamini982 3 года назад

    I just hate this woman for wanting to be rich at the expense of other people's life .if we die we die don't try and be mother TERESA .Find something you can do with your life Phelps you can't tell us all what to do and what's not to Do.If you read too much read but don't be a disgusting person .Our lives are different we come from different situations.IT would be better if you were taking kids to Varsity like Bonang instead of Talking a whole lots of nonsese.it just shows that you have no money now you want fame is a bad way.Our parents do earn us about shut n stuff but the world we live is so dirty to try and clean it with your books n words.Enjoy your fame while it last baby.

    • @sparkle257
      @sparkle257 2 года назад +2

      She is writing about her personal story and experiences. If you dont like her than please stop following her. You have not walked a mile in her shoes. So please.

  • @GraceAya
    @GraceAya 6 лет назад +6

    I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

  • @nkululekomagududlela2680
    @nkululekomagududlela2680 4 года назад +3

    your girls please stop love money because et the and of the day all of u i going to die for loving money

  • @GraceAya
    @GraceAya 6 лет назад +2

    I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

  • @GraceAya
    @GraceAya 6 лет назад

    I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)