Does the world hate confident women? | The Unpopular Opinion UG

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024

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  • @linahtee1010
    @linahtee1010 Год назад +24

    BTW theres also a good number of just abusive rude women being bullies and they pass it off as being them just bring real and being confident.
    A confident woman doesn't need to put others down or humiliate others just so they can feel confident and powerful . To know the difference is the most important

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for sharing this

  • @mirembevictoria4205
    @mirembevictoria4205 Год назад +20

    The problem is we have too many bullies who work so hard to suppress the confident women.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад +1

      There’s a lot of truth to this. Thank you for sharing

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today Год назад +12

    This sitting arrangement is so good for your connection. Not too far apart. Also, Clair, keep saying what you said "We have money." By doing so, you're speaking into your lives. The show will continue because you will have money to pay your videographer, etc. Great job ladies. BRAVO 👏.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      Thank you so much for your kindness and support

  • @marthanakittossekitto1921
    @marthanakittossekitto1921 Год назад +8

    Lydia's comment that Prim is referring to," If personally you're comfortable within the confines of the cages you've chosen for yourself, it's going to annoy you that I'm free"🙂

  • @arindaviola-io8hg
    @arindaviola-io8hg Год назад +4

    I'm a student somewhr but because I have confidence to ask why things are done a certain way or try to explain myself, I'm branded badly behaved because we are raised in a way of letting things pass in silence but me, I won't keep quiet n so I'm a problem... My confidence beats people.... Again I used to work somewhr and once someone left for other stuff, the remaining staff would talk about how so n so quit the job but is there suffering, not doing better.... So whatever you ladies are saying is really true.

  • @marthanantaba7174
    @marthanantaba7174 Год назад +4

    Thank you ladies for this❤ To add on a little to the people who give oba back handed compliments, especially women please stop. It's so dehumanizing telling a person,"you are beautiful but you would be alot more beautiful if you had a different nose,if you had a big butt,if you were light skinned,if you dressed more feminine,if you sounded more like a lady,if you put on make up,if you had big boobs,if you did this or that!" It would be better not to say anything at all. Thank you for the topic ladies

  • @nadegechiragarula2506
    @nadegechiragarula2506 Год назад +6

    Oh wow I have really loved this conversation, I have enjoyed every part of it and I love that as women we are talking about it. Thank you so much ladies! Sending you so much love from Congo 🇨🇩

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      Oh thank you beautiful. All the way from Congo. We send you love

  • @mbayarodha508
    @mbayarodha508 Год назад +1

    Today @Prim came with receipts. ❤ love you guys. All the way from 🇰🇪

  • @nyambolillie4284
    @nyambolillie4284 Год назад +2

    This conversation has reminded me of when my friends told be I had grown to be so sensitive because I told them off when they said some stuff that didn’t sit right with me, they totally gaslighted me and I sat there and asked myself what to do next because I knew the friendship was over.
    Reposting this on my Instagram story btw!
    👏🏾😭❤️
    Here’s to a healed and supportive community of women 🥂

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      It must have been so hard for you to walk away, but brave of you to . Cheers to you sis.

  • @TSSAfrica
    @TSSAfrica Год назад +4

    Great!! Lifting people up and each other is the only way we truly win

  • @mabzm9363
    @mabzm9363 Год назад +3

    You guys just keep getting better❤❤❤❤. I love your convo's. Really there is nothing controversial about being u. A Ka litro story. Once i was told don't over contribute for a wedding as a woman men will fear you. Meanwhile this was for my bros wedding.. another woman told me this. Banange the limits we put on our selves as women ....not nice. But teaching delivers so💚🔥💯 for teaching us to do and be better

  • @horohelen1084
    @horohelen1084 Год назад +4

    Claire...I love your take on life and acceptance of yourself

  • @anastasiannanono
    @anastasiannanono Год назад +1

    Hi Claire,you are drop dead gorgeous!!! One minute into the video and Iam swooning…thank you for existing

  • @DeDollyshow
    @DeDollyshow Год назад +5

    You ladies look stunning and the topic is much needed❤

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      It’s important, we had to have it

  • @veekay6142
    @veekay6142 Год назад +6

    Clare I love how you said you love to make money, you seem to know alot about money business and so on, Omg! Fiona looks very pretty when she gain weight. Prim has really done the work, she is looking really good .

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      You’re very kind and we appreciate you

  • @levineakampa9432
    @levineakampa9432 Год назад +1

    There is a misconception that being confident means being rude. You can be confident and be humble and nice and cordial.

  • @horohelen1084
    @horohelen1084 Год назад +7

    I remember the cup of tea comment. Was so unamused. Like who asked you

  • @norahnayebare5313
    @norahnayebare5313 Год назад +8

    I like Clairez honesty and vulnerability ❤

  • @RachealBua
    @RachealBua Год назад

    Guyssssss this really hit home! Good job guy's for speaking factsss!

  • @lakerfiona8388
    @lakerfiona8388 Год назад +1

    Enjoyed this conversation! Yes to women being their authentic selves and not having to shrink or over perform to fit into some random standards that are constantly changing🤎🫶🏾

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      We have done it for so long and I am so glad that we are getting to a place where we are stopping .

  • @fahimasworld5957
    @fahimasworld5957 Год назад +2

    Have been waiting for this topic 🎉🎉🎉

  • @nanozianitah8027
    @nanozianitah8027 Год назад +1

    Hey, ladies, your hairstyles & makeup 😍🥰are up there 100%, ooh I love each and every one of you. stay blessed

  • @nanyunjageraldine8169
    @nanyunjageraldine8169 Год назад +3

    Whatever she read from barbie movie comment is soooooo true.......I AM FACING THAT AT MY PLACE OF WORK RIGHT NOW
    I need help or to leave
    BUT ALL IN ALL.....LIFE WILL NEVER BE FAIR TO WOMEN.....AND IT MIGHT NEVER BE UNFORTUNATELY

  • @Daniela-ij4fr
    @Daniela-ij4fr Год назад +4

    Fiona😍😍😍 u look so BEAUTIFUL!! It is just mind blowing 🤩🤩🤩

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад +1

      Oh doesn’t she ?? She’s absolutely beautiful

  • @wenahardware71
    @wenahardware71 Год назад +1

    Awesome set!

  • @margaretnannyanzi735
    @margaretnannyanzi735 Год назад +3

    Happy that you're back. We missed you

  • @EuventerDaisy
    @EuventerDaisy Год назад

    This episode resonates well with what iam currently going through, it's sad that most of the time we women are our own enemies especially in corporate. How I wish we get to understand how powerful co-operation is vis-a-vis competition. Hopefully we'll get there someday.

  • @noelinenamuyomba164
    @noelinenamuyomba164 Год назад +2

    Damn!! At the end of this I realized how harsh it's been going a week without watching a vlog from you guys 💃💃
    Am in a season of not ignoring feelings brought by certain situations just like Fiona said

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      Oh I’m so happy for this season that you’re in . ❤

  • @hopenamanya6141
    @hopenamanya6141 Год назад +3

    Welcome back ladies .

  • @HawaMayanja
    @HawaMayanja 10 месяцев назад

    Tell a man he’s wrong and the labelling will start”you’re difficult,challenging “

  • @stellaayebare6846
    @stellaayebare6846 Год назад +2

    What Claire said about the societal roles Vs the economy not favoring women is so true and very many women are suffering silently.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      It’s exhausting, times are so bad

  • @edithwangui2750
    @edithwangui2750 Год назад

    Oh my God, this is excatly the struggle I have been going through with people. Now I understand everything. I will never stop being confident.

  • @mwebazacharity1240
    @mwebazacharity1240 Год назад

    What a great sticky topic...introspecting myself..thank you Ladies

  • @lilianemugenyi9268
    @lilianemugenyi9268 Год назад

    Great episode ladies. I love you all. Each one of you has something I need and inspirational❤❤

  • @cynthiaomollo977
    @cynthiaomollo977 Год назад +4

    In reality people fear confident women.

  • @arinaitwebridget4741
    @arinaitwebridget4741 Год назад +4

    i like Claire's personality and they way she loves to make money .... i love you girl ....

  • @lilianemugenyi9268
    @lilianemugenyi9268 Год назад

    Saw this late. But bullies always are fighting battles within themselves and bullying others helps them escape their own prison by focusing their attentio to what they desire to be or have.

  • @kupewataaka6917
    @kupewataaka6917 Год назад

    Hey do you mind sharing , the psyco therapists socials maybe🙂🙃? The one Kemi talked about at the start.

  • @kukundasm0034
    @kukundasm0034 Год назад +1

    The folks are always walking, y've not heard them at night, folks and spoons are always moving😂😂 but Prim ahaa🙌

  • @lelianankunda9357
    @lelianankunda9357 Год назад +1

    Ladies, you look fabulous!!!🤩

  • @namulindageorgette.m6243
    @namulindageorgette.m6243 Год назад +3

    Banange atee in girl groups kisuka. Some girls don't want anyone to be better than them.

  • @hadijahnakaweesi5460
    @hadijahnakaweesi5460 Год назад

    Is that what they call gaslighting? First heard of from Namusisi Sharifah.
    Thank you ladies for sharing with us your knowledge about life.

  • @nakabuyeclaire4839
    @nakabuyeclaire4839 Год назад +2

    Wow wow wow 💯 👌 👏 welldone lovely ladies 🥰

  • @mwajumaali2123
    @mwajumaali2123 Год назад +1

    Beyonce said it in her intro in the song flawless listen to it why r women always the ones to compromise

  • @kyohirwevictoria3761
    @kyohirwevictoria3761 Год назад +1

    Missed you ladies

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      We missed you too. Thank you for passing by !

  • @GambaWithJ
    @GambaWithJ Год назад +4

    I am all hands up for the confident women...

  • @murungiatusasiire9904
    @murungiatusasiire9904 Год назад +2

    Looking good ladies ❤

  • @DoraZ256
    @DoraZ256 Год назад +4

    Am the second to coment❤,, thanx ladies

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      So glad to have you here, with the bell turned on

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere Год назад

    Great conversation ladies, "her career is flourishing but at least she is not married" 🤣 🤣 this killed me but I imagined these thoughts happen in insecure women, very true

  • @norahnayebare5313
    @norahnayebare5313 Год назад +2

    Waw, I love this

  • @namjoon3749
    @namjoon3749 Год назад +4

    Have been camping here

  • @siitavictoria2539
    @siitavictoria2539 Год назад

    Claire, those forks from the shop were the winners 😂😂

  • @atuheireshallon4208
    @atuheireshallon4208 Год назад +6

    Likes for the first comment

  • @cherryblu3681
    @cherryblu3681 Год назад

    no, we didn't know that forks and spoons walk😂😂. it all makes sense now!!!😅

  • @sarahsmrdal7094
    @sarahsmrdal7094 Год назад

    Was really a good topic. Women should stop putting down themselves & each other.

  • @ayikiriizemartha4640
    @ayikiriizemartha4640 Год назад +1

    So Claire, let me ask for a friend, is your brother married? Because this single girl only wants a man that was raised in your household by a feminist father.

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia Год назад

    Claire's last point was everything ❤

  • @kemigishajoan7701
    @kemigishajoan7701 Год назад +3

    The live show was wao

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      Ah it was such a beautiful experience. Thank you for joining us

  • @dinmacancook
    @dinmacancook Год назад +1

    Beautiful ladies

  • @ayikiriizemartha4640
    @ayikiriizemartha4640 Год назад

    Prim’s point of the males we went to school with, males of our generation being more traditional and backward than our fathers is soooo true. I have witnessed it and it blows my mind every single time. You hear them making statements like, “I hate doing laundry, cooking etc, I therefore need to marry.” Or Mbu I can’t be married and eat food cooked by a maid.

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 Год назад

      😂😂😂They still want to enjoy the benefits of the traditional gender roles.

  • @aureliayuktankabebwa5066
    @aureliayuktankabebwa5066 Год назад +1

    My people again❤

  • @irenegloria2855
    @irenegloria2855 Год назад

    ❤❤❤love you ladies

  • @julietkitimbo3963
    @julietkitimbo3963 Год назад

    Ooh just the other day we met women in hijab smoking but staring at us because we were wearing mini shirts 😢like we didn’t mind what they were doing but the way they looked at us asif….. women..

  • @sarahsmrdal7094
    @sarahsmrdal7094 Год назад +1

    Society hates confident women.
    I am very confident , a go getter & hardly have a female friend. But I don't care too much.

    • @anonnona6433
      @anonnona6433 Год назад

      I can imagine 😂😂😂😂 "alpha females" are usually disliked by both men and women 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.

  • @batabeleticia3482
    @batabeleticia3482 Год назад

    It's mostly women but then let's not forget how much our parents mostly mothers try so hard to suppress our confidence I know they have their reasons but 😑😑😑

  • @kimulibonita8768
    @kimulibonita8768 Год назад

    26:38 ...definately! 👐

  • @gloriamn9013
    @gloriamn9013 Год назад +2

    I always like to flip scenarios, can we also speak on how 'confident women' treat other people? I am a confident woman myself and usually when I approach other confident women the pattern i get is they feel like i am there to beg from them or they instead want to tell me how much they have made it in life. Confident women, can we also thrive to be humble?

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад +1

      Uhm this is interesting because I literally understand what you’re talking about . And I’m asking myself if I’ve been guilty of this before. Gosh this is important.

    • @gloriamn9013
      @gloriamn9013 Год назад

      @@nyonyoziprim it is worth self reflecting on how we show up for eachother especially in spaces up there. Do we tend to out strong eachother by showing eachother our resumes first thing we start talking? Do we take time to listen or ask questions to know the others more instead of talking about what we have achieved? nkebyo nkebyo.

  • @berylallando
    @berylallando Год назад

    💯

  • @namjoon3749
    @namjoon3749 Год назад +2

    I'm Jealous of women in real estate 😊

  • @roselynbirungi
    @roselynbirungi Год назад +1

    Naye what is wrong with Claire? Nze I actually like her all the ladies on this programme are excellent in their own personalities.

    • @nyonyoziprim
      @nyonyoziprim Год назад

      Hey, I don’t think anyone said there was anything wrong with her. She’s so great, and thank you so much for your kind words.

  • @lyndahndiwa703
    @lyndahndiwa703 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tabomwangelwa4150
    @tabomwangelwa4150 Год назад

    You just cannot win. The game is rigged. Lol