Use code BEA2026 for 20% off at Wild, shop here-shopwildrefill.com/cleanwithbea-2 Also thank you so much to everyone who watched this video and made this clean (and all the cleans that came after it) possible ! You guys are amazing and I LOVED getting to chat to you live on premier! Same time next month?? Hehehe ❤❤❤
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You left the mattress sanitized and bug free and chose to use the $300 make the house feel like home by not leaving it bare and uninviting. I think it was probably nice for him to not walk into a barebones apartment. You left him with a space that didn’t feel like a totally blank slate, which might have felt overwhelming to get filled/stocked with daily use items. You did a phenomenal job. Thank you so much for the work you do
This was my very thought. Buying a mattress is 1 big project. Getting all this interior stuff is 100 small decisions - that can be really a lot for a tired mind. So I agree wholeheartedly, Bea's choice was fine!
Couldn’t agree more! Getting the mattress replaced will be a lot easier on the mind than trying to find decor to make the flat feel more homely. He’ll only have to find a mattress he likes and a company will be able to deliver it and potentially even remove the old one. I couldn’t imagine trying to decide the right things for a blank slate space after being unable to consider the space for a period of time. The right call was definitely made here!
Idk about bug free. Bed bugs are notoriously difficult to get rid of, and just spraying things down with bed bug killer isn't actually that effective. It can take months and even years to actually get rid of them, and there's a lot you have to do to make sure it happens (like vaccuming the room and bed, and washing the sheets like once a week). Speaking as someone who's had them. But yes, what she did was still awesome.
this is to the resident: YOU DESERVE A CLEAN AND BEAUTIFUL HOME AND SO, SOO MUCH MORE. I genuinely wish the best of everything for you. You got this man
Had a similar situation in my early 20's due to depression. I thankfully never let it get that bad, but if the dude ever reads this, you've absolutely nothing to be ashamed of brother. Asking for help as a guy is genuinely painful, as I'm sure many of my fellow dudes can attest to, but it's okay to reach out.
Fr, I may not be a guy and I may not have gotten this bad (yet, knock on wood), but I know how much depression SUCKS. For me it’s always been eating (too little or too much) and having an extremely untidy room, and I always feel horrible and tend to hate people that I normally love. Sometimes I even get close to having a room like his flat, especially with laundry. Sometimes help or a good day is really hard to get but very appreciated.
In the future she might be able to pair up with a flooring person who would take over for those things. That might be years down the line, but a part of the 5 year plan
@Luigisislandofjoyyes! Because, as great as it is to have it cleaned. It would be so much more satisfying to have the floors renewed, and walls painted...
@trellowalkemmyeah but not only the money… the « client » gets someone to clean up years of crap for free in a place that isn’t livable and in which you can’t Even access the bedroom… and somehow once it’s all done stains on the carpet they did themselves would be an issue? 😂
Honestly it’s so fair that you guys don’t replace flooring ! You’re already doing so much as it is, and sometimes the logistics prevent you from doing what you want to do, so you can prioritise what you need to do. You guys are wonderful regardless ♡
I really couldn’t comprehend why she went to the trouble of explaining to the followers why she isn’t doing flooring after removing decades loads of waste that I get tired from watching her clean already.
Bro, if I fell into a slump like this and someone came to clean for me, I'd be ecstatic just to be able to see the floor. I guess the followers ain't thinking of it in first person
Can also imagine a situation where landlord sees nice free clean, free flooring replacement and immediately evicts the tenant. Sure Bea wants to make sure the residents are benefiting and not greedy landlords
that definitely goes beyond cleaning or dep cleaning, they're not renovators. And dealing with local municipality laws and landlords only makes it worse.
Tip from a broke person who battled the dreaded bedbugs-- a cheap bug-proof zipper seal on a mattress can make a world of difference. Like once you've vacuumed and sprayed and sanitized, if you seal the bed, you can starve out anything in there for as long as it takes. My building had an infestation and despite fumigation, my neighbors and I still had problems. Sealing the beds helped because a lot of us were broke college kids. Obv you have to toss what you can, but for things like mattresses which are expensive to replace, sealing it was the next best thing. I can't speak for everyone, but for me, that $25 mattress seal saved my bed.
As an art restorer, this is exactly the method we use when we receive new objects in a museum, it's called anoxia and it is DEFINITELY the way to deal with a bug infestation.
And yet some people still think being depressed is “just being sad and lazy” when clearly it actually means someone is struggling so much they can barely live 😢
God bless you. I cant even afford my own place even doing 168hrs a month in a dementia unit for the last 23 years. Seeing stuff like what you have done warms my heart.
This must have made such a massive difference for the resident, he was in a position that not many people would have been able to help with. Thank you for what you do.
a cleaner is NOT a restorer (as in, replacing the floors). please keep that in mind when y'all watch these videos. 🙏 she's already doing AMAZING work, so criticizing her for not doing more is insulting and unnecessary.
I'm so happy and proud of this man for overcoming the hurdle of just asking for help. As a man, we are basically conditioned from childhood to be self-sufficient, and with the idea that needing help is a sign of weakness and failure. That is so not true. This was a situation that he absolutely needed help to fix, and I'm so glad that he got it. You did amazing work here, and your compassion astounds me. I'm positive that this clean is going to make a huge impact on his life for the better!
I have paranoid schizophrenia. A year or so ago. My symptoms had really gotten bad. And i didnt leave my home because of psychosis. And my apartment was like this. I would just sit in tbe corner of my bed. Out of my mind. I eventually got so psyhotic. The police came and kicked down my door. And i got in a institution. When i came home. The goverment had a guy clean my apartment. I can explain how much having a clean home havw helped me living with my illness. God bless people like you ❤❤ Im subscribing!
@jesuscm1398i am! Finally got medicine that seems to work. And in the process of gettig verified for a goverment aided job. So i can pay back to my country of community for supporting me. And hopefully help others. That you for your kind comment ❤❤ God bless you and everyone. Spread love. Jesus loves us all!
I've been in contracting and property management my whole professional life, so many good people live like this because they can't find a way around the big lift of getting it right again, you're saving lives, literally, thankyou for doing what I can't afford to do for them.
To hear that he made the efforts to get better on is own is REMARKABLE. It took me 33 years of trauma filled isolated life to finally ask for help, and the feeling of that change is so FREEING. So proud of this gent! If you’re reading this, sir… WELL DONE. 🤘🏼
and i'm proud of you. knowing that there are people out there like you who have been dealt shitty hands but still managed to overcome their trauma and their spirals is motivating to me as a youngling with ptsd. i can do it. it wont always be this bad. it will get better.
My apartment was on the way to getting like this. If it hadn’t been that the landlords needed to check the pipes and water heater it forced me to push to clean the place. I feel a lot better now that my place is clean but without that need to have the place clean my depression could have gotten be to that place.
Im so proud of that resident that healed from depression alone. He deserved so much better and I really appreciate you cleaners offering the resident the help they needed.
One thing to point out is that if you ask for the landlords permission they would likely want to know why. It could also lead to a much bigger issue of a landlord wanting to just evict someone. Sort of creates a whole new can of worms lol
Yup. And the landlords she’s dealt with have been horrible even with things as simple as keeping a mini dumpster in the hallway for a day. I can’t imagine how awful they’d be about flooring repair
I doubt anyone asking for help who is in such a bad circumstance is really expecting a full renovation, top to bottom, as well as the clean. I imagine most are looking for a starting point that seems doable. Asking for help with painting or new rugs or moving furniture in is now something he can do without fear of judgement/mockery/shame from those around him.
I agree! He can now have a flooring person come in and take measurements in a clean decluttered home. It’s going to be the new beginning. Plus he saved so much money, 42 hours of cleaning for free is such a gift. ❤
You all both work wonders ❤, to help someone who desperately needs it!! .. u have given him a new start, I hope that he doesn't take it for granted? God bless him to take a new life ahead. ❤
As someone who has suffered from depression from time to time, I can say from experience it gets to the point where you feel totally worthless and you develop that internal monologue of tearing yourself down. Ironically, what helps with that is doing for others/acts of service like volunteering. That makes it so you are redirect your thoughts and focus on others instead of yourself and how miserable/worthless you feel. Eventually that becomes a habit and you can slowly get better.
Even these little bits of decor and new plates/cutlery are enough to lift the spirits of the residents. On top of that, everything is clean. The bed not being new is not an over sight on your end. The next time you’d like to make improvements to the bedding but lack the budget, I recommend getting a mattress topper. It’s cheaper than buying a whole new bed, but makes the whole thing feel brand new.
I agree, a mattress protector is a great investment to protect a new mattress. Looking at the prices on Amazon, a queen sized topper is around $40 and a protector being around $20. A new mattress+protector would be ideal, but when the budget is tight a topper could give the existing bed a new lease of life and give the resident a comfortable space to rest, while leaving remaining coin for homely bits.
What I used to detest about loving in rented accommodation as a teenager was the state of the mattresses- oh my goodness, so foul! I bought blankets to covet the mattresses as back then there weren't protectors. I hope landlords now treat their tenants better, and replace mattresses between tenants. {They certainly didn't used to do this}. I think the landlords bought the cheapest, nastiest mattresses available from second hand shops, we were lucky that there were no bedbugs at least! 😆
i dont think a mattress topper is going to override the feeling that the resident is sleeping on a mice infested bed though. I'd be worried the mice come back, especially since they are definitely still living in the walls
@paytonsmith8358 Everything has been disinfected. The resident will not be sleeping on top of any infestations. There are multiple precautions the resident can take to prevent the mice from coming back, a completely cleaned and disinfected home is a great start to that. Since the resident has expressed their motivations to work towards further life improvements, I’m sure he will buy a new mattress when he sees fit.
Don't underestimate the value of decor for making someone feel better. Yes a mattress may have been more of an "essential" but mentally having a space that feels good to be in is huge.
I think it was also logical to leave something like picking out a mattress to him. What if she ended up wasting her money because she bought a mattress that wasn't comfortable for him and he had to just go buy a new one anyways? Those sorts of purchases are better left to the person, so they can go to a mattress store and test a few out to get an idea of what works best for them
I dont know if the resident is watching and reading the comments, BUT if you are: You are WORTHY of care and comfort and nice things and everything in between. I know im just a stranger but i know how difficult that voice can be to shake, i just hope a fresh home could give you some safety and comfort, and that you are able to feel that safety without feeling guilty for it ❤❤❤
Absolutely you definitely deserve this and more for all your hard work on mental health, Congratulations 🎊. I hope you continue to grow and you're loving your new safe home ❤
@noob78 because 90% of the time, people who have homes this dirty, are struggling. Mental health is a common reason for this. I even struggle to be hygienic sometimes due to it. He definitely deserves to be happy with this change
@RainyorCloudy No one deserves anything, especially if they put in zero effort. This is years of absolutely not caring at all. Ill give him a pass if he's schizo or something, but if thats the case he clearly needs a social worker or to be institutionalized.
today has been a really hard day with my ptsd and ive been sinking low into a depression but jesus the care and love and hope in this video made me sob so hard and filled me with a sense of hope that i cant even begin to express. the mental image of this guy being able to take a nice hot shower in a clean bathroom and then go lay in his bed and get cuddled up with a smile on his face, feeling rested and content and complete and clean. thank you, bea for giving that to him
That's amazing and as a fellow pro-sufferer my thoughts and love are with you ❤️ remember focus on the tiny wins through the existential dread... It will get better and the way you observe and imagine proves you are a good person❤
Sending you much love from New Zealand! Despite your struggles you've kept your heart tender towards others. Hold onto the spark of hope and kindness you feel watching this. Things will get better.
Aw Kayla I wish I could give you the biggest hug 😞 I’m sorry that today has been rough but I promise the good days will come back, and you deserve every bit of peace, love, and happiness when they do. ❤ Please be gentle with yourself. You are loved, your life matters, and there is always hope, even on the bad days ❤❤❤
My favourite song says "carry on, let the good times roll. Sail along, let your path unfold. It won't be long, won't be long, won't be long... you know it's gonna get better." ❤ We love you, cute little stranger on the internet. I don't need to see your face to wish you a happier tomorrow to come when you're ready to embrace it, you just really need it ❤
This is my first time donating to someone on youtube, I truly believe you're doing an amazing thing here. Not just the cleaning but the way you care for the client and inspire others (like me) by creating these vidoes. Thank you for that, keep it up with the passion for helping others that is so hard to find sometimes!
@BiguniTik What do you mean? A donation isn't meant to be done for recognition. Even if it's small, that $10 he gave will help in her being able to do the cleanings, which help others.
2 dollars is still alot, if 10 ppl give 2 dollars suddently it's 20 dollars😊 don't downplay your generosity. Giving at all is still kind and not everyone has alot of extra money to give away😁
@sforza209 When people see donations on RUclips, they're more likely to donate themselves, so maybe it 'has to be' this way. However, I agree that 30% is crazy excessive .. 5-10% seems much more reasonable.
I get really bad anxiety when there’s a cup in the sink. I can’t imagine letting my home get so dirty. But through my own experience of dealing with depression and anxiety, I understand how it takes away from your ability to live the basics. Luckily, I clean to cope . It’s so sweet of you to help people in this way. I hope they are so grateful to you
Research shows that people who watch someone being kind are inspired to be kind in turn. By showing these videos and telling the residents' stories, Bea is spreading her kindness and inspiring the rest of us to help others.
@SDMNKhan Common sense. It is a topic that has been extensively researched, and as usual, it ties into us being a social species. Empathy, and witnessing empathy being done unto others makes most people more likely to engage in similar behavior afterwards.
@SDMNKhanI'm not aware of the research but I know I have seen evidence of this effect based on people in the comments saying how inspired they are to help others because of these kinds of videos.
your positivity, drive, work ethic, compassion and personality are a bright ray of light in these weird times we're living in. badass bea and hardcore harry to the rescue!!!!
29:47 you gave him the most important thing, a clean place to be and to grow and heal. Thank you for your hard work. (Also please never pretend to lick a toilet brush again lmao)
@cleanwithbeawe are the supporters, you are the Distractor That is a saying from dandys world the supporters help and support/heal and the Distractor is NEEDED and very important because if there was no supporter or Distractor the team would likely be struggling a lot
Depression is one of the most silent and deadly killers out there. It saps your will to live and do anything and isolates you from the world untill you either survive it or make it stop permanently. Depression really needs to be more talked about seriously not only because of how rampent it is, but how devistating and lonely it is
This might also be the first video of yours that breaks through the algorithm, because this is the first I'm seeing you. Very noble to do this for folks. This is the kinda shit that makes the internet awesome. You're awesome.
And then nobody takes personal accountability because theres always someone to clean it for you for content. There's no responsibility taken by the guy who left his house like this for a year. The person who made the video made 20x what they would've charged bc the house is such a dump. You're very naive. The homeowners are lazy and the cleaner is getting paid regardless whether they said they charged the customer or not.
@willhurley1589an imperfect world is one where everyone is as negative as you, though im afraid we are already on such a path. Misery loves company, after all.
@willhurley1589 ? u hv no clue what the owner went thru tho there r probs stuff they dont want publicly disclosed... also yeah so WHAT if she made 20x what she would've charged by making the content...she is doing free cleans for people who feel like its rock bottom and now can no longer manage the mess, which is a really good deed on her behalf to help ppl, but everyone needs to make a living somehow u cant live off being nice...so her getting money from content is the perfect way to make a living while still being able to offer free service to these ppl struggling
@PlagueeugalPwe've all seen these before where it's literally the person just being lazy... That being said I could be wrong. He could be going through some life threatening thing we don't know about but chances are he's not so... Odds are he's just a slob
One thing I've learned from your cleans is that when you don't know where to start or you feel overwhelmed - grab a trash bag and get to throwing out the garbage. Even a cluttered home will feel better when the garbage is gone. Even if that's literally all you can manage, keeping the garbage at bay will give you some peace. Bless you for the work you do helping these people. You're an angel.
yup. Same thing with trying to study. Starting anywhere is better than nothing. You'll find the motivation and the groove as you go. The key is just to start.
As someone who deals with depression, gets incredibly overwhelmed very easily and who’s room is in a constant state of mess, I can absolutely vouch for this. If I can manage to round up a bag of trash (mostly empty soda bottles/cans, candy wrappers, and old papers), then I can already tell a difference in my mental state.
I don’t understand why people have anything bad to say about you. You are an absolute angel and are helping people who need and deserve help. Mental health problems and illness can happen to anyone. I can’t imagine feeling anything but sympathy and sadness that they are living through this. I think that recognition that they need help without anybody shaming is the way to treat others. I believe in the saying, but for the grace of God there go I
When I was in the military, I was in a really bad slump (Ending it all type of bad) House was a mess, career felt like it was going nowhere, no friends, family legit states away. No kidding, the first step I took to getting help and pulling myself out of the situation was cleaning my apartment. Being in a clean environment made me feel in control of something and it was slowly uphill from there.
Exactly 💯 I have gone through very hard times in my life while alone and while responsible for my children at some points I felt like I was going to snap or like I couldn't keep going anymore, making myself clean something or even a little thing like making my bed and brushing my teeth every morning kept me on track to feel like I had some control in my chaotic life. I don't understand how some ppl let their house get to what we are seeing in this video that alone would make me go crazy to the point of no return....
@8888RFHow do you make yourself clean something when you’re in the hell of depression? Sleeping is difficult, feeling tired and overwhelmed even when you do get some sleep still doesn’t feel like you have enough energy to get up and move into the day. It’s knowing that you need to go to the bathroom, but you wait and wait some more until you finally move to the bathroom. It’s a struggle to shower, brush teeth, and eat something that even interests you. Letting someone else come into your space and see the full sink, a floor that needs sweeping, etc is a big step in reining in the messy areas before they really get out of control.
I just found this channel, and I wanted to say thank you so much for what you guys do. The world is struggling enough as it is and it makes me so happy to see people like you doing what you can to make it better for everyone on it.
I accidentally ended up working as a cleaner when I was 19. One of the houses I used to clean had 5 kids (2 adopted) and like 6 pets. The husband passed away, and the mom shut herself in her room and never came out. It was super sad, and the house was a WRECK! But it was really impactful, the kids were super sweet and deserved a safe and clean environment to grow up in. I really hope the mom was able to recover since and be there for them…
As a child I had 33 pets (not including puppies), 26 dogs 6 cats and a bird. I know the pain of having a disgusting house all too well. Now that I am an adult, I do not have a single pet. It's so peaceful...
After my partner died unexpectedly, I became completely unable to care for myself let alone anyone else for at least 4 months. The fact that the mom you worked for managed to hire someone to clean shows she was using what little she had left in her to make sure the kids and pets didn’t end up in squalor. I was so grateful my partner and I didn’t have kids because I knew I’d be useless to care for them during that time, no matter how much love there is. She was probably even more depressed knowing the pressure of being left with so many kids to raise on her own, and kids that themselves were grieving. That’s so overwhelming. I appreciate you being there for a family after their loss, knowing what it’s like to be that widow, but without nearly as much responsibility, thank god. I’m sure she greatly appreciated it too, and at least speaking from my experience, I do think she was able to be a mom again after a while. With time, we don’t heal per se, but we re-learn to survive and can get back to at least a basic level of functioning.
You did a wonderful thing for the entire family of 5 children & the mother who was too depressed to get up & be w/her children, as children do need attention, meals, clean clothes, clean house, & 1 on 1 from mom. That cleaning I’d be willing to bet is what the mom needed. It’s a great Jump start.
I simply cannot ignore the good you're doing for other people. I resonate with the man's state of mind and how it got to that point. Please never stop doing this !
You've gotten the apartment back to a point where the tenant can maintain easily. The likelihood is, he'll now feel more excited about taking care of it and finding a way to replace what needs to be replaced without being knocked down by that feeling of overwhelm.
@nazift.3728 Listen to the video again. She talked about how the resident has been working to improve himself, but by that point the apartment was too much to handle on his own. Which, considering how much she had to bring to get it back to a decent state, is understandable. This is not a job the average joe can just prepare themselves for, and it'll be far easier to maintain the apartment now than cleaning it was before.
Crazy to see how this person could be me if my life had diverted by even a single percent. Make sure to appreciate people that are there for you, cause if you don't, one day they won't be.
You are such a good hearted person both of you, don’t feel sad that you can’t 100% replace everything you already do so much more than 99% of people out there. Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity a little with so much evil out there it’s a nice change!
Wow Bea, you and your partner crushed it! 👏One small idea that might make the work easier is that using a trash grabber or shovel could makes pickup way easier and helps avoid cuts from cans or other sharp stuff hiding in the pile. Hope that helps!
I’ve never watched a video like this in full. From the passion, thorough cleaning and narration, I’m sure the resident is extremely grateful. You are doing God’s work!
The world needs more people like you. Your work is life-changing for these people in desperate need. So good to see someone using social media to make the world a better place.
THANK YOU people really feel think they did the work and can ask for more help, she’s an angel already by still being active cleaning for free to this days
I think one of your first videos was deep cleaning a mattress. So I have every faith that you did that. The problem with buying new matresses is that people need different things from them, particularly if they have health conditions. So as long as it's clean and usable, you're absolutely fine. x
He is so brave for actually asking for help and wanting to improve his life. If he watches these videos and sees this, you’re amazing dude. I hope that you get everything you want out of life, and I hope everything goes well for you from here on out
"brave" What nonsense, its laziness and you know that other people live next to him, creating problems for others too, so it would only be a matter of time before people would start complaining if they haven't already called institutions that often just shift the problem from one to another
@FoxSky-md1ulyou’re honestly a terrible person. This is not laziness. Laziness is someone who does not want to clean, people with mental illnesses like depression want to have a clean space, they lack the chemicals in their brain that make them get up and clean. Be grateful and blessed that you think this way because you obviously have never dealt with a serious problem like this. I hope you have a great day even if you don’t deserve it.
@Channel13Static na, hypocritical people like you are terrible who don't know how to praise the real values or work, you are just phony who knows only to act for likes but not actually help. And you know what i have dealt, everybody dealt with soem type of depression or had serious problem, but they dont wai for others or do nothing they keep fight and ms not for themself only, but for others you dont deserve nothing hypocritical phony
You are a gem. Not only taking on the massive task of cleaning this much for this long, but also the mental load of putting your needs aside to support a struggling stranger. You’re making a huge difference in the world, in the most special way. Sending love
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Please remember to offer yourself the same compassion you offer your clients.
You do amazing work and you are literally keeping people alive.
I'm not cleaning my clients house. Sorry
@ztjtexas?? What?
@ztjtexasHuh
Agreed🥰
@ztjtexasI think you’re on the wrong comment
You left the mattress sanitized and bug free and chose to use the $300 make the house feel like home by not leaving it bare and uninviting. I think it was probably nice for him to not walk into a barebones apartment. You left him with a space that didn’t feel like a totally blank slate, which might have felt overwhelming to get filled/stocked with daily use items. You did a phenomenal job. Thank you so much for the work you do
This was my very thought. Buying a mattress is 1 big project. Getting all this interior stuff is 100 small decisions - that can be really a lot for a tired mind. So I agree wholeheartedly, Bea's choice was fine!
Couldn’t agree more! Getting the mattress replaced will be a lot easier on the mind than trying to find decor to make the flat feel more homely. He’ll only have to find a mattress he likes and a company will be able to deliver it and potentially even remove the old one. I couldn’t imagine trying to decide the right things for a blank slate space after being unable to consider the space for a period of time.
The right call was definitely made here!
Good mattresses cost a lot more than $300 and finding a good used one would be his responsibility. I liked the bonsai.😊
Idk about bug free. Bed bugs are notoriously difficult to get rid of, and just spraying things down with bed bug killer isn't actually that effective. It can take months and even years to actually get rid of them, and there's a lot you have to do to make sure it happens (like vaccuming the room and bed, and washing the sheets like once a week). Speaking as someone who's had them.
But yes, what she did was still awesome.
This.
this is to the resident: YOU DESERVE A CLEAN AND BEAUTIFUL HOME AND SO, SOO MUCH MORE. I genuinely wish the best of everything for you. You got this man
Just you saying that makes me feel like I can clean without making a huge deal of it
he could clean it himself
@T@TeeEllohwhydee They have mental problems they cannot clean it themselves and it is very dangerous so they need a professional
@Tee@TeeEllohwhydee he literally cannot
It’s to dangerous for them
Had a similar situation in my early 20's due to depression. I thankfully never let it get that bad, but if the dude ever reads this, you've absolutely nothing to be ashamed of brother. Asking for help as a guy is genuinely painful, as I'm sure many of my fellow dudes can attest to, but it's okay to reach out.
Bingo man! Nail on the head
Fr, I may not be a guy and I may not have gotten this bad (yet, knock on wood), but I know how much depression SUCKS. For me it’s always been eating (too little or too much) and having an extremely untidy room, and I always feel horrible and tend to hate people that I normally love. Sometimes I even get close to having a room like his flat, especially with laundry. Sometimes help or a good day is really hard to get but very appreciated.
21:22 replacing carpet or any kind of flooring is part of construction or remodeling, not cleaning. You are good, Bea!
In the future she might be able to pair up with a flooring person who would take over for those things. That might be years down the line, but a part of the 5 year plan
@Luigisislandofjoyyes! Because, as great as it is to have it cleaned. It would be so much more satisfying to have the floors renewed, and walls painted...
@Luigisislandofjoya flooring company could be a great sponsor too
People love to nitpick these sorts of things, but her cleaning up will allow someone else who can replace the carpet to do so
Facts. She did not need to explain herself. Absolute angel. Happy I discovered this channel right before a million subs
Brave, charitable, and fantastic.
Say no more, take my money.
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that pfp is a selfie this is the real son goku donating
THANK YOU FOR YOUR CHARITY MY GOOD MAN 🍷
Wow, god bless ❤
It is people like you both that make a difference 💚
Wow! What a generous donation to Bea to pay forward. Blessings
Bless you! Such a kind soul
anabarberom, you are one of those people making a difference too! May you live long!
holy shit ur awesome man
Thank you beautiful xx
People like you make me happy to be a human. We should all aspire to be as good of a person as you are.
The audacity of people complaining that you don t replace carpets 😂😂😂
people think this shit is free or sum
@trellowalkemmyeah but not only the money… the « client » gets someone to clean up years of crap for free in a place that isn’t livable and in which you can’t Even access the bedroom… and somehow once it’s all done stains on the carpet they did themselves would be an issue? 😂
cmon bro that carpet prob invested with every bacteria
@HolySlap112 sorry to be that guy but.. *infested
@HolySlap112did you not hear her say they double and triple sanitize it? It doesn’t look great but it is clean
Honestly it’s so fair that you guys don’t replace flooring ! You’re already doing so much as it is, and sometimes the logistics prevent you from doing what you want to do, so you can prioritise what you need to do. You guys are wonderful regardless ♡
I really couldn’t comprehend why she went to the trouble of explaining to the followers why she isn’t doing flooring after removing decades loads of waste that I get tired from watching her clean already.
Bro, if I fell into a slump like this and someone came to clean for me, I'd be ecstatic just to be able to see the floor. I guess the followers ain't thinking of it in first person
Yeah, they're cleaners, not renovators. You wouldn't hire someone to mow your lawn and expect them to put new hedges in
Can also imagine a situation where landlord sees nice free clean, free flooring replacement and immediately evicts the tenant. Sure Bea wants to make sure the residents are benefiting and not greedy landlords
that definitely goes beyond cleaning or dep cleaning, they're not renovators. And dealing with local municipality laws and landlords only makes it worse.
Tip from a broke person who battled the dreaded bedbugs-- a cheap bug-proof zipper seal on a mattress can make a world of difference. Like once you've vacuumed and sprayed and sanitized, if you seal the bed, you can starve out anything in there for as long as it takes. My building had an infestation and despite fumigation, my neighbors and I still had problems. Sealing the beds helped because a lot of us were broke college kids. Obv you have to toss what you can, but for things like mattresses which are expensive to replace, sealing it was the next best thing. I can't speak for everyone, but for me, that $25 mattress seal saved my bed.
It’s called a mattress encasement, if anyone needed to look it up online
Thank you for that advice. ❤
Great suggestion, I used waterproof/zipper mattress covers on all my beds, better safe than sorry 😊
As an art restorer, this is exactly the method we use when we receive new objects in a museum, it's called anoxia and it is DEFINITELY the way to deal with a bug infestation.
I also got box spring bed cover too. I hope it works
And yet some people still think being depressed is “just being sad and lazy” when clearly it actually means someone is struggling so much they can barely live 😢
Bro, I was depressed for like 5 years but I never lived like this. The only thing that was inhumanely dirty was my Desk
Amazing work! Hope you can keep it up for a long time. The world is in dire need of people like you!
What a good deed, let’s continue to fund these cleans.
(If u can,ofc)
You know RUclips keeps a big chunk of what you SUPERCHAT the creator ‼️‼️‼️
Just paypal them😊
God bless you. I cant even afford my own place even doing 168hrs a month in a dementia unit for the last 23 years. Seeing stuff like what you have done warms my heart.
The universe is in dire need of people who clean up their own messes.
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This must have made such a massive difference for the resident, he was in a position that not many people would have been able to help with. Thank you for what you do.
God bless you!
a cleaner is NOT a restorer (as in, replacing the floors). please keep that in mind when y'all watch these videos. 🙏 she's already doing AMAZING work, so criticizing her for not doing more is insulting and unnecessary.
Fr, haters still boosting the vid
exactly, like the haters are boosting it up the algorithm, they’re doing her a favour
but you know who is a restorer,
JESUS CHRIST.
@acefong2615 😂
not the time bro
I'm so happy and proud of this man for overcoming the hurdle of just asking for help. As a man, we are basically conditioned from childhood to be self-sufficient, and with the idea that needing help is a sign of weakness and failure. That is so not true. This was a situation that he absolutely needed help to fix, and I'm so glad that he got it. You did amazing work here, and your compassion astounds me. I'm positive that this clean is going to make a huge impact on his life for the better!
I have paranoid schizophrenia.
A year or so ago.
My symptoms had really gotten bad.
And i didnt leave my home because of psychosis. And my apartment was like this.
I would just sit in tbe corner of my bed. Out of my mind.
I eventually got so psyhotic. The police came and kicked down my door. And i got in a institution.
When i came home. The goverment had a guy clean my apartment.
I can explain how much having a clean home havw helped me living with my illness.
God bless people like you ❤❤
Im subscribing!
God bless brother, hope you're doing better right now
@jesuscm1398i am! Finally got medicine that seems to work. And in the process of gettig verified for a goverment aided job. So i can pay back to my country of community for supporting me. And hopefully help others.
That you for your kind comment ❤❤
God bless you and everyone.
Spread love.
Jesus loves us all!
All the absolute best to you.
love u bro
Why should tax payer aka the government have to pay to clean your home sick mentally ill or not
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Amazing work, inspiring. Hope this helps a bit with future cleans
theres a starman
what a champ!
What a chad.
Only 3 replies omg
this needs more recognition. thank you for the donation.
I feel like men have an even harder time saying they need help. So happy you stepped up to help him.
I agree- of all the application forms I receive only 6% are submitted by men 😔 ❤ I just hope they know they don’t have to struggle in silence
they certainly have a harder time being hygienic
@n@niamhc6312at is genuinely so rude, like why would you even say that. What went through your brain when you typed that out?
@Mieko_misa hatred went through their brain. Its no secret that men have it harder to ask for help in this society. Nobody should struggle alone.
@cleanwithbea You truly are an inspiration, and a very kind person. You and your Partner are Cleaning Angels!
I've been in contracting and property management my whole professional life, so many good people live like this because they can't find a way around the big lift of getting it right again, you're saving lives, literally, thankyou for doing what I can't afford to do for them.
Here's a little bit to fund your very necessary energy drinks on the next clean! 😂
Wow you are so kind! ❤ God bless
@personthatexistanceThank you!
:) very considerate of you God bless
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How do I fund you? If it’s frequently posted on sites, I’m more likely to send some money your way.
To hear that he made the efforts to get better on is own is REMARKABLE. It took me 33 years of trauma filled isolated life to finally ask for help, and the feeling of that change is so FREEING. So proud of this gent! If you’re reading this, sir… WELL DONE. 🤘🏼
Also, a cute little parallel, the turning point in my healing was done on a solo trip to Glasgow from the U.S.
and i'm proud of you. knowing that there are people out there like you who have been dealt shitty hands but still managed to overcome their trauma and their spirals is motivating to me as a youngling with ptsd. i can do it. it wont always be this bad. it will get better.
@tobyandahalfI am sure it will. Good luck to you in your future.❤
My apartment was on the way to getting like this. If it hadn’t been that the landlords needed to check the pipes and water heater it forced me to push to clean the place. I feel a lot better now that my place is clean but without that need to have the place clean my depression could have gotten be to that place.
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There is no perfect world, but with kind souls like you we might get a few steps closer to one.
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ur one of those souls btw
the “souls like” being a blue comment is funny as hell 😭
@TwoPoundCrawfish i noticed that too lol 😂
Im so proud of that resident that healed from depression alone. He deserved so much better and I really appreciate you cleaners offering the resident the help they needed.
No free cleaners on yt replace carpets! You change people's lives, you do more than enough
One thing to point out is that if you ask for the landlords permission they would likely want to know why. It could also lead to a much bigger issue of a landlord wanting to just evict someone. Sort of creates a whole new can of worms lol
Yup. And the landlords she’s dealt with have been horrible even with things as simple as keeping a mini dumpster in the hallway for a day. I can’t imagine how awful they’d be about flooring repair
Exactly! Especially in countries like Scotland where there is a housing crisis and housing is in high demand!!
I doubt anyone asking for help who is in such a bad circumstance is really expecting a full renovation, top to bottom, as well as the clean. I imagine most are looking for a starting point that seems doable.
Asking for help with painting or new rugs or moving furniture in is now something he can do without fear of judgement/mockery/shame from those around him.
I agree! He can now have a flooring person come in and take measurements in a clean decluttered home. It’s going to be the new beginning. Plus he saved so much money, 42 hours of cleaning for free is such a gift. ❤
I agree. It's not a home design channel. They dream of their own place, that is livable. The rest they can handle on their own, step by step.
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You all both work wonders ❤, to help someone who desperately needs it!! .. u have given him a new start, I hope that he doesn't take it for granted? God bless him to take a new life ahead. ❤
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So nice of you to clean Asmongold's home.
lmao
😂😂😂😂
Thought this was your mums place...
Broooo 💀😭
@FJB2020 so original and so funny brandon.😊
As someone who has suffered from depression from time to time, I can say from experience it gets to the point where you feel totally worthless and you develop that internal monologue of tearing yourself down. Ironically, what helps with that is doing for others/acts of service like volunteering. That makes it so you are redirect your thoughts and focus on others instead of yourself and how miserable/worthless you feel. Eventually that becomes a habit and you can slowly get better.
Even these little bits of decor and new plates/cutlery are enough to lift the spirits of the residents. On top of that, everything is clean. The bed not being new is not an over sight on your end. The next time you’d like to make improvements to the bedding but lack the budget, I recommend getting a mattress topper. It’s cheaper than buying a whole new bed, but makes the whole thing feel brand new.
When one buys a new mattress, buy a mattress protector at the same time. Cheaper than a topper {Ik ea sell good and affordable ones}
I agree, a mattress protector is a great investment to protect a new mattress. Looking at the prices on Amazon, a queen sized topper is around $40 and a protector being around $20. A new mattress+protector would be ideal, but when the budget is tight a topper could give the existing bed a new lease of life and give the resident a comfortable space to rest, while leaving remaining coin for homely bits.
What I used to detest about loving in rented accommodation as a teenager was the state of the mattresses- oh my goodness, so foul!
I bought blankets to covet the mattresses as back then there weren't protectors.
I hope landlords now treat their tenants better, and replace mattresses between tenants. {They certainly didn't used to do this}. I think the landlords bought the cheapest, nastiest mattresses available from second hand shops, we were lucky that there were no bedbugs at least! 😆
i dont think a mattress topper is going to override the feeling that the resident is sleeping on a mice infested bed though. I'd be worried the mice come back, especially since they are definitely still living in the walls
@paytonsmith8358 Everything has been disinfected. The resident will not be sleeping on top of any infestations. There are multiple precautions the resident can take to prevent the mice from coming back, a completely cleaned and disinfected home is a great start to that. Since the resident has expressed their motivations to work towards further life improvements, I’m sure he will buy a new mattress when he sees fit.
Don't underestimate the value of decor for making someone feel better. Yes a mattress may have been more of an "essential" but mentally having a space that feels good to be in is huge.
Just sayin, doesn't do much for men. That's largely a woman thing.
I think it was also logical to leave something like picking out a mattress to him. What if she ended up wasting her money because she bought a mattress that wasn't comfortable for him and he had to just go buy a new one anyways?
Those sorts of purchases are better left to the person, so they can go to a mattress store and test a few out to get an idea of what works best for them
@kimberlyrichardson5943 what if he doesnt like the decorations
What you do is just beyond amazing. This is the type of people we should support on social media.
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🥺🥺🥺 Bea you have such a beautiful soul!!! You do so much good for people who are struggling!!
I dont know if the resident is watching and reading the comments, BUT if you are:
You are WORTHY of care and comfort and nice things and everything in between. I know im just a stranger but i know how difficult that voice can be to shake, i just hope a fresh home could give you some safety and comfort, and that you are able to feel that safety without feeling guilty for it ❤❤❤
Absolutely you definitely deserve this and more for all your hard work on mental health, Congratulations 🎊. I hope you continue to grow and you're loving your new safe home ❤
Why does he deserve it? I don't have time to watch it all, I just love the before and after.
@noob78 For being, you know, a human being
@noob78 because 90% of the time, people who have homes this dirty, are struggling. Mental health is a common reason for this. I even struggle to be hygienic sometimes due to it. He definitely deserves to be happy with this change
@RainyorCloudy No one deserves anything, especially if they put in zero effort. This is years of absolutely not caring at all. Ill give him a pass if he's schizo or something, but if thats the case he clearly needs a social worker or to be institutionalized.
today has been a really hard day with my ptsd and ive been sinking low into a depression but jesus the care and love and hope in this video made me sob so hard and filled me with a sense of hope that i cant even begin to express. the mental image of this guy being able to take a nice hot shower in a clean bathroom and then go lay in his bed and get cuddled up with a smile on his face, feeling rested and content and complete and clean. thank you, bea for giving that to him
That's amazing and as a fellow pro-sufferer my thoughts and love are with you ❤️ remember focus on the tiny wins through the existential dread... It will get better and the way you observe and imagine proves you are a good person❤
Just a small message to send support, you both sound like amazing people
Sending you much love from New Zealand! Despite your struggles you've kept your heart tender towards others. Hold onto the spark of hope and kindness you feel watching this. Things will get better.
Aw Kayla I wish I could give you the biggest hug 😞 I’m sorry that today has been rough but I promise the good days will come back, and you deserve every bit of peace, love, and happiness when they do. ❤
Please be gentle with yourself. You are loved, your life matters, and there is always hope, even on the bad days ❤❤❤
My favourite song says "carry on, let the good times roll. Sail along, let your path unfold. It won't be long, won't be long, won't be long... you know it's gonna get better." ❤
We love you, cute little stranger on the internet. I don't need to see your face to wish you a happier tomorrow to come when you're ready to embrace it, you just really need it ❤
This is my first time donating to someone on youtube, I truly believe you're doing an amazing thing here. Not just the cleaning but the way you care for the client and inspire others (like me) by creating these vidoes. Thank you for that, keep it up with the passion for helping others that is so hard to find sometimes!
May you be blessed❤️
This is so sweet!! Going to an actually good cause
I appreciate you donating to someone who is thoughtful, caring, kind and a responsible. may god bless your kind soul!
First donation and she doesn't even press Like on your comment.
Literally money down the drain.
@BiguniTik What do you mean? A donation isn't meant to be done for recognition. Even if it's small, that $10 he gave will help in her being able to do the cleanings, which help others.
The guy kept his job through that.... he deserves a medal. As do you guys
Commenting just as a boost, I know $2 isn’t much but I hope it helps at least a little !!
2 dollars is still alot, if 10 ppl give 2 dollars suddently it's 20 dollars😊 don't downplay your generosity. Giving at all is still kind and not everyone has alot of extra money to give away😁
@liljekrokkodilje1186I know right. Now can I please have $2.
@_abhaynigamCan i get my phone battery fixed
Thank you for doing what you do, you are helping people not only improve their physical health but their mental health too. 🙏
such a kind soul
226 likes but 1 reply?!?,
You both are so beautiful and kind. Hope this helps with replacing items for folks.
May god bless you. Very kind ♥️
God bless you! May you live long and prosperous days full of peace, success, great health and joy. Amen!
FYI, RUclips takes 30%. Direct donations would be more economical.
@sforza209 When people see donations on RUclips, they're more likely to donate themselves, so maybe it 'has to be' this way. However, I agree that 30% is crazy excessive .. 5-10% seems much more reasonable.
@sforza209 wthhh
I get really bad anxiety when there’s a cup in the sink. I can’t imagine letting my home get so dirty. But through my own experience of dealing with depression and anxiety, I understand how it takes away from your ability to live the basics. Luckily, I clean to cope . It’s so sweet of you to help people in this way. I hope they are so grateful to you
30:18 honestly in tears hearing the email from the resident and his reaction. Hope things are continuing go improve for him.
Saaammee 😭
Samee
Research shows that people who watch someone being kind are inspired to be kind in turn. By showing these videos and telling the residents' stories, Bea is spreading her kindness and inspiring the rest of us to help others.
What research?
ted ed
@SDMNKhan Common sense. It is a topic that has been extensively researched, and as usual, it ties into us being a social species. Empathy, and witnessing empathy being done unto others makes most people more likely to engage in similar behavior afterwards.
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@SDMNKhanI'm not aware of the research but I know I have seen evidence of this effect based on people in the comments saying how inspired they are to help others because of these kinds of videos.
Bea is a cleaner, not an interior designer. She already goes above and beyond.
your positivity, drive, work ethic, compassion and personality are a bright ray of light in these weird times we're living in. badass bea and hardcore harry to the rescue!!!!
29:47 you gave him the most important thing, a clean place to be and to grow and heal. Thank you for your hard work. (Also please never pretend to lick a toilet brush again lmao)
I love that you do this, you give people the chance to turn their life around and I love it
Thank you so much 🥺 none of it would be possible without you guys - you’re just as involved in these cleans as I am!! ❤❤❤❤
@cleanwithbeawe are the supporters, you are the Distractor
That is a saying from dandys world the supporters help and support/heal and the Distractor is NEEDED and very important because if there was no supporter or Distractor the team would likely be struggling a lot
@cleanwithbea I find your videos inspirational. You have strength and resilience.
@NalaIsAdorable love the words
I know is little money but i just wanted to thank and help you.
Keep helping those people! you are amazing.
Brooiiiiioooooo that is 3000 us dollars wdym little money holy
@itz_non_ya_biz its 5K ARS not 5 Million😅
@itz_non_ya_bizit's 3 dollars not 3000. But the fact this person has donated this much money is very generous of them ❤
@itz_non_ya_bizWdym 3000 usd ? where does that number even come from ? 😅 It's argentinan pesos
Any amount is a loving gift!! ❤
Depression is one of the most silent and deadly killers out there. It saps your will to live and do anything and isolates you from the world untill you either survive it or make it stop permanently.
Depression really needs to be more talked about seriously not only because of how rampent it is, but how devistating and lonely it is
Amazing transformation! It's 7 months later and I hope this man is thriving these days.
No idea how I got here bc algorithms? But my goodness you are truly an angel. Thank you for all you do!
I thought the same but loved every minute
No need to apologize. If more people were like you, the world would be a better place.
This might also be the first video of yours that breaks through the algorithm, because this is the first I'm seeing you.
Very noble to do this for folks. This is the kinda shit that makes the internet awesome. You're awesome.
I know this is not a lot but I really wanted to say I appreciate the work you guys do and it's insane that you do it for free
any money is a good amount, its the fact that you even decided to donate your money is what's powerful
@imkarp🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
A perfect world is one where everyone is as kind as the people who make these videos possible
And then nobody takes personal accountability because theres always someone to clean it for you for content. There's no responsibility taken by the guy who left his house like this for a year. The person who made the video made 20x what they would've charged bc the house is such a dump. You're very naive. The homeowners are lazy and the cleaner is getting paid regardless whether they said they charged the customer or not.
@willhurley1589an imperfect world is one where everyone is as negative as you, though im afraid we are already on such a path. Misery loves company, after all.
@willhurley1589 ? u hv no clue what the owner went thru tho there r probs stuff they dont want publicly disclosed... also yeah so WHAT if she made 20x what she would've charged by making the content...she is doing free cleans for people who feel like its rock bottom and now can no longer manage the mess, which is a really good deed on her behalf to help ppl, but everyone needs to make a living somehow u cant live off being nice...so her getting money from content is the perfect way to make a living while still being able to offer free service to these ppl struggling
@willhurley1589Dude you don't know his life, such an ignorant comment
@PlagueeugalPwe've all seen these before where it's literally the person just being lazy... That being said I could be wrong. He could be going through some life threatening thing we don't know about but chances are he's not so... Odds are he's just a slob
One thing I've learned from your cleans is that when you don't know where to start or you feel overwhelmed - grab a trash bag and get to throwing out the garbage. Even a cluttered home will feel better when the garbage is gone. Even if that's literally all you can manage, keeping the garbage at bay will give you some peace. Bless you for the work you do helping these people. You're an angel.
yup. Same thing with trying to study. Starting anywhere is better than nothing. You'll find the motivation and the groove as you go. The key is just to start.
As someone who deals with depression, gets incredibly overwhelmed very easily and who’s room is in a constant state of mess, I can absolutely vouch for this. If I can manage to round up a bag of trash (mostly empty soda bottles/cans, candy wrappers, and old papers), then I can already tell a difference in my mental state.
I don’t understand why people have anything bad to say about you. You are an absolute angel and are helping people who need and deserve help. Mental health problems and illness can happen to anyone. I can’t imagine feeling anything but sympathy and sadness that they are living through this. I think that recognition that they need help without anybody shaming is the way to treat others. I believe in the saying, but for the grace of God there go I
When I was in the military, I was in a really bad slump (Ending it all type of bad) House was a mess, career felt like it was going nowhere, no friends, family legit states away. No kidding, the first step I took to getting help and pulling myself out of the situation was cleaning my apartment.
Being in a clean environment made me feel in control of something and it was slowly uphill from there.
That's amazing! I really hope you're doing way better now.
Glad your still with us.
Chances are your choice to traumatize yourself by joining the military caused your mental struggles.
Exactly 💯 I have gone through very hard times in my life while alone and while responsible for my children at some points I felt like I was going to snap or like I couldn't keep going anymore, making myself clean something or even a little thing like making my bed and brushing my teeth every morning kept me on track to feel like I had some control in my chaotic life. I don't understand how some ppl let their house get to what we are seeing in this video that alone would make me go crazy to the point of no return....
@8888RFHow do you make yourself clean something when you’re in the hell of depression? Sleeping is difficult, feeling tired and overwhelmed even when you do get some sleep still doesn’t feel like you have enough energy to get up and move into the day. It’s knowing that you need to go to the bathroom, but you wait and wait some more until you finally move to the bathroom. It’s a struggle to shower, brush teeth, and eat something that even interests you. Letting someone else come into your space and see the full sink, a floor that needs sweeping, etc is a big step in reining in the messy areas before they really get out of control.
You can’t do everything and just leaving someone with a clean hygienic space is honestly so amazing.
I just found this channel, and I wanted to say thank you so much for what you guys do. The world is struggling enough as it is and it makes me so happy to see people like you doing what you can to make it better for everyone on it.
Thank you for helping people in need ❤ You're a great person miss.
I accidentally ended up working as a cleaner when I was 19. One of the houses I used to clean had 5 kids (2 adopted) and like 6 pets. The husband passed away, and the mom shut herself in her room and never came out. It was super sad, and the house was a WRECK! But it was really impactful, the kids were super sweet and deserved a safe and clean environment to grow up in. I really hope the mom was able to recover since and be there for them…
As a child I had 33 pets (not including puppies), 26 dogs 6 cats and a bird. I know the pain of having a disgusting house all too well. Now that I am an adult, I do not have a single pet. It's so peaceful...
After my partner died unexpectedly, I became completely unable to care for myself let alone anyone else for at least 4 months. The fact that the mom you worked for managed to hire someone to clean shows she was using what little she had left in her to make sure the kids and pets didn’t end up in squalor. I was so grateful my partner and I didn’t have kids because I knew I’d be useless to care for them during that time, no matter how much love there is. She was probably even more depressed knowing the pressure of being left with so many kids to raise on her own, and kids that themselves were grieving. That’s so overwhelming. I appreciate you being there for a family after their loss, knowing what it’s like to be that widow, but without nearly as much responsibility, thank god. I’m sure she greatly appreciated it too, and at least speaking from my experience, I do think she was able to be a mom again after a while. With time, we don’t heal per se, but we re-learn to survive and can get back to at least a basic level of functioning.
You did a wonderful thing for the entire family of 5 children & the mother who was too depressed to get up & be w/her children, as children do need attention, meals, clean clothes, clean house, & 1 on 1 from mom. That cleaning I’d be willing to bet is what the mom needed. It’s a great Jump start.
I simply cannot ignore the good you're doing for other people. I resonate with the man's state of mind and how it got to that point. Please never stop doing this !
You've gotten the apartment back to a point where the tenant can maintain easily. The likelihood is, he'll now feel more excited about taking care of it and finding a way to replace what needs to be replaced without being knocked down by that feeling of overwhelm.
no lmao he will shit on it again
@nazift.3728 Listen to the video again. She talked about how the resident has been working to improve himself, but by that point the apartment was too much to handle on his own. Which, considering how much she had to bring to get it back to a decent state, is understandable. This is not a job the average joe can just prepare themselves for, and it'll be far easier to maintain the apartment now than cleaning it was before.
@nazift.3728 its called empathy, dude. Look it up.
@eddiematethat's what everyone says before they relapse.
@Nieznamkoekepanrelapse is a normal part of recovery, it’s almost impossible to never relapse again.
Crazy to see how this person could be me if my life had diverted by even a single percent. Make sure to appreciate people that are there for you, cause if you don't, one day they won't be.
Bedankt
You're doing a damn fine job there team ❤️. Much love to you, Harry and your client. He will remember this kindness for the rest of his life 🥲
Hehe I stole ur money(jk)
You treat people without judgement and see beyond the mere facade. The world needs more people like you.
Really felt it when you said the resident was suffering alone, asked for help alone, healing alone, etc
You are such a good hearted person both of you, don’t feel sad that you can’t 100% replace everything you already do so much more than 99% of people out there. Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity a little with so much evil out there it’s a nice change!
Wow Bea, you and your partner crushed it! 👏One small idea that might make the work easier is that using a trash grabber or shovel could makes pickup way easier and helps avoid cuts from cans or other sharp stuff hiding in the pile. Hope that helps!
Hi Snoopy 👋
She still hasn't replied
Her partner is hary
I can't contribute much, but I wanted to give something. To the resident, I wish you the very best!
New Resident Evil 7 kitchen just dropped
Thanks for doing that, from a stranger who had been there
I’ve never watched a video like this in full. From the passion, thorough cleaning and narration, I’m sure the resident is extremely grateful. You are doing God’s work!
Thank you for your amazing work and kindness ❤
The world needs more people like you. Your work is life-changing for these people in desperate need. So good to see someone using social media to make the world a better place.
Sometimes all we need is a little bit of help :)
21:00 you are not responsible for fixing everything in their life. You do a clean - and you do it thoroughly.
True
I agree. She’s already spending so much money and energy on these projects. She dosnt need to make everything perfect
@epiclover1 fr i wouldn't be doing ts for free and the fact she paying for their hotel is crazzyy
THANK YOU people really feel think they did the work and can ask for more help, she’s an angel already by still being active cleaning for free to this days
I think one of your first videos was deep cleaning a mattress. So I have every faith that you did that. The problem with buying new matresses is that people need different things from them, particularly if they have health conditions. So as long as it's clean and usable, you're absolutely fine. x
Made me cry, thanks for the work you do.
250kr er et stort antal af penge. Meget gavmildt af dig.
Keep up ❤
SCOTLAND FOREVER!!!
This broadcast was good for my mental health.
Thanks
This level of care for a stranger makes me think despite all the misery in the world now, there is lots of hope. ❤
I don't understand why people criticize your methods so harshly when you're literally providing a free service to people in need.
If they have an issue with it, they should probably just put their money and time where their mouth is imo
You guys are the best ❤ love from Denmark
God bless you and I hope you’ll live for a long time because of your kindness
don’t you have euros in denmark?
@Brxofficial2000no, we have Danish kroner, DKK
28:13 don’t feel bad, you live and learn and I’m sure the resident as so grateful regardless
Bless you for what you do. You are giving hope to countless people. May you be rewarded richly for this compassion.
You do wonderful work for those in need, making their houses feel like homes again. Keep up the good work!
Nice work!
Hero's dont all wear capes, they wear cleaning suits ❤
Thanks!
Keep doing more of this! This is the type of work that completely redefines people's lives!
He is so brave for actually asking for help and wanting to improve his life. If he watches these videos and sees this, you’re amazing dude. I hope that you get everything you want out of life, and I hope everything goes well for you from here on out
"brave" What nonsense, its laziness and you know that other people live next to him, creating problems for others too, so it would only be a matter of time before people would start complaining if they haven't already called institutions that often just shift the problem from one to another
@FoxSky-md1ulyou’re honestly a terrible person. This is not laziness. Laziness is someone who does not want to clean, people with mental illnesses like depression want to have a clean space, they lack the chemicals in their brain that make them get up and clean. Be grateful and blessed that you think this way because you obviously have never dealt with a serious problem like this. I hope you have a great day even if you don’t deserve it.
@Channel13Static na, hypocritical people like you are terrible who don't know how to praise the real values or work, you are just phony who knows only to act for likes but not actually help. And you know what i have dealt, everybody dealt with soem type of depression or had serious problem, but they dont wai for others or do nothing they keep fight and ms not for themself only, but for others you dont deserve nothing hypocritical phony
@FoxSky-md1ulok pal
@Channel13Static phony
Thank you for your compassion. You and Harry both did a fantastic job.
You are a gem. Not only taking on the massive task of cleaning this much for this long, but also the mental load of putting your needs aside to support a struggling stranger. You’re making a huge difference in the world, in the most special way. Sending love
W comment 🥹🥹
❤
You’re both amazing human beings🥰💐
So many need these sorts of cleans in their lives. 💚 You both have got this!