The prophet (sws) himself did not give a small amount. He gave around 400-500$ (considering current currency) , even though he lives himself modestly. We should as Muslim take the exemple of our beloved prophet (sws), so do the same. So it shows that the teaching of our prophet saying "the best dowry is the most modest" has a context. And stop trying to have excuses to not pay the proper amount of mahr. If you can afford the amount of mahr asked, and mentally abuse and gaslight the future bride saying "The best dowry is the most modest", you're just greedy. The more modest the best , but it depends on cases and intention of the groom. This Hadith serve to remind the future bride not ask the mahr just to be greedy, and to consider the groom situation. But it's still a choice for the bride to follow this advice or not to follow , considering her situation. Plus the concept of modesty in finance changes according to the person wealth. Something seen as modest by a rich person, can be seen as wealthy by a poor person. If by using this Hadith, you're intention is being a cheap stake and just save money, then you ignored all of the other prophetic teachings. Y'all just take what arranges you. And you keep talking this way about Muslim scholars, like Nouman Ali Khan, that always has good intentions in his teaching, as if you exposed him. I swear you're eating your brother flesh.
If divorce they are saying wife have to return the mohor (gift to wife)! Nowadays, that we’re getting divorced and we should get no mohor. Lol. Who returns gifts! I read in Quran where Allah said do not take their mohor nor hold.
@@oxord1111 No no no…. You’re right. Respect husbands. Our “lord” who makes no mistakes. Disrespectful toward him… Go to hell. Husbands are our door to the heaven and giver of our beautiful lives! Oh. And their mothers even bigger lord!! Chill. I’m kidding!
@@maesua4425 I feel like now adays they are scamming husbands to marry their daughters for the sole purpose of mahr. If they truly cared about thier daughter they would ask for a reasonable and low amount of mahr in order for the husband to have some money to provide and please his wife for this dunya. Or if she knew this world isn’t all about money then caring and providing simple needs like shelter and food, and heat should be good enough. If it’s not enough than she is into materialistic things this world can offer her. I guess that’s what I’m trying to say lol. But not everyone is perfect so if I what I said doesn’t make sense I am willing to understand other point of views
@@oxord1111 Unfortunately, our society is either forced to marry or can’t hold the desire to marry and ends up marrying wrong. As Allah said in Quran, made in pair. We should wait for the right one to arrive. Women get pressured to marry which should be stopped. We need to wait for our soul mates cause minds knows. Our subconscious are powerful when used right or we listen to it. May Allah help us.
Please guide me.. Can I get my haq maher amount exchanged with another currency with my husband? As he earns in dirhams and we are looking forward to exchange my haq maher amount into dirhams now? Is it persmissib???
Brother how can I communicate or write to you please. I want to seek advice share a personal account just briefing about divorce , niqaah & Maher. After divorce.
There is a world of difference between this Nouman and the current one. Almost a totally different person. Bitter experiences in life and backstabbing from the community has changed this Nouman to what he is today. Ironic!
What if a girl got divorced after nikkah and she has no physical relationship with her husband, will it still obligatory for the man to pay haq mehar ? Please answer and guide me 🙏
@@greatestalive2938 I’m not sure what the islamic reason for it is, but to me it makes sense. if there are no strings attached then both of you go your separate ways and he can keep the money to give to his next wife.
I got married last month, it was not given at that time should I ask my husband for it now? Although he gifted me gold ring just after our marriage worth the same as the mehr money should I count it as mehr or should I ask him the proper mehr in monetary form?
2: 235. *And there is no blame upon you if you indicate them for the marriage during their waiting period or keep that in your hearts itself, Lord Allah knew that indeed you will remember them; however, you shouldn’t make a secret promise with them except speaking them the words of Justice, don’t confirm the marriage contract until the prescribed waiting period expires. And You should know that indeed Allah is knowing what is in your soul, so beware of Him; and you know that indeed Allah is the Forgiving, Forbearing.* The addressees of this verse are the brothers of the deceased husband. Today the soulless and worthless Arabic Quran reading Fujjar all over the world who read these verses are not testifying any verse. They are involved in evils with the widows by giving fake marriage hopes to them. Due to all these, they are the Mujirims mentioned in 52 places such as in 7: 40; 55: 43; 68: 35 who are serving Satan and are following his footsteps. Verse 25: 58 ends as: “Lord is enough to acquaint the offenses of His servants”. Verses 17: 17, 30, and 96 ends as: “Lord is enough as the acquainted Observer with the offenses of His servants”. See explanation 1: 3 and 2: 28-29 and 5: 16. *From Adhikr-the Best Interpretation of Lord's Book* www.straightpathonline.com
I wonder why Allah didnt put in limits, I need to research the Quran again. Im quite sure Allah didn't intend to burden either gender, there must be something stated in-directly.
Nobody gon give you all those services without money and wife Meher is the most cheap and halal way the rest is your choice.... Hire women to satisfy you (haram) , one for household work,one for food,one to carry your children ,one to listen you ...
@@ammadasif1771 what if it’s already done… then the wife comes and she doesn’t want to listen to the husband or respect him? She decides what she wants to do and doesn’t let the husband have a say? Does he get anything back or is it all gone?
Give mehr not more than 10 dollars, it is just for formality sake only. It is man who gets dowry from woman and it would give good intentions towards a woman. If the woman or her family demands more mehr, then they are to be considered as prostitutes who keep on asking money all the time when intimacy happens. People who give birth to female child considered that child as a waste thing and loss of money and time and so they killed the female child or sacrificed that female child to false Gods and Goddesses, and to save female child from such people mehr was given to her parents at the time of marriage by bridegroom's family, so that atleast the woman will be alive and not be killed by her parents.
It should take place in mosques or either anywhere the nikah but the imam and the witness is important during the nikah time otherwise it should take place where ever they both agree Allah want to make it easy for us and Allah is the one who forgive if somethings happen by mistake or not by mistake either but important is to ask for repentance always from Allah subhana wataaala and Allah loves the humans 70 times more then a mother love her child may Allah guid us on the right path
GREAT TALK BRO!! you LITERALLY didnt answer anything. how is anyone supposed to take what you just said and actually figure out the amount???////?????????????? these women and their parents are delusional
The Mahr (مهر) is a contract fee paid for by the groom to the bride in an Islamic marriage (see The Meaning of Nikah). Its purpose within Islamic law, as shown through the Islamic texts themselves and the rulings of fiqh, is to compensate the woman for the privilege of consummating the marriage through sexual intercourse with her. The mahr is an obligatory part of Islamic law. In the abscence of a mahr, the marriage is not valid [1]. The custom itself comes from pre-Islamic tribal times. In those times, the mahr would be paid from the bridegroom to the wali or guardian of the bride. Islam's laws change this custom by specifying the the mahr belongs directly to her. It is thus sui generis unlike the dowry or dower from western arranged marriage traditions. Islamic law has specifications about how and when it is to be given, and how these arrangements are to be made and taken care of in all cases, and there are many hadith traditions relating the prophets example on the subject. Although the explanations of the subject vary, the purpose of the mahr as explained by the Islamic texts is clear; it is a payment from a man to a woman; payment in full for the future sexual relations (nikah) the bridegroom will enjoy with her. This is illustrated by the requirement for a mahr in temporary "marriages", the statements of Prophet Muhammad, and the fact that a mahr cannot be taken back (except under extenuating circumstances) because the man has availed himself of the service for which it was payment [2].
@@kojo2773 sex is a mutual activity when enjoyed by both the partners involved. When you have sex with a slave or you visit a prostitute do you think it's mutual or paid service. Another great practice was Mutah still some deam it right. According to Shia Muslims, Muhammad sanctioned nikah mut'ah (fixed-term marriage, called muta'a in Iraq and sigheh in Iran), which has instead been used as a legitimizing cover for sex workers in a culture where prostitution is otherwise forbidden.
You see Islamic religion is completely taking choice away from man. the fact you can't force someone to love you. islam is forcing men to consent when they are not fully aware of the outcome. You can only consent after outcome of something.
Marry widows "because sahaba did so". But don't give a small mahr "just because sahabas did so? You're not sahaba".
nouman ali khan..
He’s a fraud
Yes because sahabas spent all their wealth for islam. They had a Reason. But most of us dont have any valid reason
The prophet (sws) himself did not give a small amount. He gave around 400-500$ (considering current currency) , even though he lives himself modestly. We should as Muslim take the exemple of our beloved prophet (sws), so do the same. So it shows that the teaching of our prophet saying "the best dowry is the most modest" has a context. And stop trying to have excuses to not pay the proper amount of mahr. If you can afford the amount of mahr asked, and mentally abuse and gaslight the future bride saying "The best dowry is the most modest", you're just greedy. The more modest the best , but it depends on cases and intention of the groom. This Hadith serve to remind the future bride not ask the mahr just to be greedy, and to consider the groom situation. But it's still a choice for the bride to follow this advice or not to follow , considering her situation. Plus the concept of modesty in finance changes according to the person wealth. Something seen as modest by a rich person, can be seen as wealthy by a poor person.
If by using this Hadith, you're intention is being a cheap stake and just save money, then you ignored all of the other prophetic teachings. Y'all just take what arranges you.
And you keep talking this way about Muslim scholars, like Nouman Ali Khan, that always has good intentions in his teaching, as if you exposed him. I swear you're eating your brother flesh.
@@Zeniiichan noman ali khan isn't a scholar. And don't be triggered, modern women are nothing but gold diggers
@@Zeniiichan that is a small amount btw, it's an affordable mahr for all of my friends and their friends too.
If divorce they are saying wife have to return the mohor (gift to wife)! Nowadays, that we’re getting divorced and we should get no mohor. Lol. Who returns gifts! I read in Quran where Allah said do not take their mohor nor hold.
Does Allah say the wife can disobey her husband? And disrespect her husband? What if they got divorced cause she wasn’t listening to the husband?
@@oxord1111 No no no…. You’re right. Respect husbands. Our “lord” who makes no mistakes. Disrespectful toward him… Go to hell. Husbands are our door to the heaven and giver of our beautiful lives!
Oh. And their mothers even bigger lord!!
Chill. I’m kidding!
@@maesua4425 that wasn’t helpful at all… I’m glad I heard you say your kidding. Your statement is futile though
@@maesua4425 I feel like now adays they are scamming husbands to marry their daughters for the sole purpose of mahr. If they truly cared about thier daughter they would ask for a reasonable and low amount of mahr in order for the husband to have some money to provide and please his wife for this dunya. Or if she knew this world isn’t all about money then caring and providing simple needs like shelter and food, and heat should be good enough. If it’s not enough than she is into materialistic things this world can offer her. I guess that’s what I’m trying to say lol. But not everyone is perfect so if I what I said doesn’t make sense I am willing to understand other point of views
@@oxord1111 Unfortunately, our society is either forced to marry or can’t hold the desire to marry and ends up marrying wrong. As Allah said in Quran, made in pair. We should wait for the right one to arrive. Women get pressured to marry which should be stopped. We need to wait for our soul mates cause minds knows. Our subconscious are powerful when used right or we listen to it.
May Allah help us.
Please guide me.. Can I get my haq maher amount exchanged with another currency with my husband? As he earns in dirhams and we are looking forward to exchange my haq maher amount into dirhams now? Is it persmissib???
Yes
Mehar is only acctable ,,the currency,,that mention in marriage contract,,,
Brother how can I communicate or write to you please. I want to seek advice share a personal account just briefing about divorce , niqaah & Maher. After divorce.
Hi ..can i use your videos and translate it into my language and reshare it into my channel ?seriously it will help my surrownding people
I guess you can, it´s not him talking anyways
yes.sure
Assalamualaikum i agree this but could you please provide me with a Qur'an or hadith reference.
There is a world of difference between this Nouman and the current one. Almost a totally different person. Bitter experiences in life and backstabbing from the community has changed this Nouman to what he is today. Ironic!
What if a girl got divorced after nikkah and she has no physical relationship with her husband, will it still obligatory for the man to pay haq mehar ? Please answer and guide me 🙏
He only has to pay for half, but it is advised to the woman and her family that the pious thing to do is not accept it. Allah knows best.
@@sara200zone thank you for your answer 🙏🏻and why shouldn't the woman accept it ? Like if his paying half
@@sara200zone and what if he don't pay anything? Not even half or quarter and he denied
@@greatestalive2938 Then this is wrong because it is in surah al-baqarah that if the marriage ends before consummation he must pay half of the mahr
@@greatestalive2938 I’m not sure what the islamic reason for it is, but to me it makes sense. if there are no strings attached then both of you go your separate ways and he can keep the money to give to his next wife.
I got married last month, it was not given at that time should I ask my husband for it now? Although he gifted me gold ring just after our marriage worth the same as the mehr money should I count it as mehr or should I ask him the proper mehr in monetary form?
ask him the proper mahr
can husband give more than mehar. if she promised1/2 of property but at the time can i give her the whole property in return of mehar?
Yes
@@razamughal9095 Thanks
Thank you.
2: 235. *And there is no blame upon you if you indicate them for the marriage during their waiting period or keep that in your hearts itself, Lord Allah knew that indeed you will remember them; however, you shouldn’t make a secret promise with them except speaking them the words of Justice, don’t confirm the marriage contract until the prescribed waiting period expires. And You should know that indeed Allah is knowing what is in your soul, so beware of Him; and you know that indeed Allah is the Forgiving, Forbearing.*
The addressees of this verse are the brothers of the deceased husband. Today the soulless and worthless Arabic Quran reading Fujjar all over the world who read these verses are not testifying any verse. They are involved in evils with the widows by giving fake marriage hopes to them. Due to all these, they are the Mujirims mentioned in 52 places such as in 7: 40; 55: 43; 68: 35 who are serving Satan and are following his footsteps. Verse 25: 58 ends as: “Lord is enough to acquaint the offenses of His servants”. Verses 17: 17, 30, and 96 ends as: “Lord is enough as the acquainted Observer with the offenses of His servants”. See explanation 1: 3 and 2: 28-29 and 5: 16.
*From Adhikr-the Best Interpretation of Lord's Book*
www.straightpathonline.com
What are you talking about ?
Can I deduct the value of jewelry from Haq Mehr amount?
no
عاجل is urgent not late 🤔🤔🤔
I wonder why Allah didnt put in limits, I need to research the Quran again. Im quite sure Allah didn't intend to burden either gender, there must be something stated in-directly.
Nobody gon give you all those services without money and wife Meher is the most cheap and halal way the rest is your choice....
Hire women to satisfy you (haram) , one for household work,one for food,one to carry your children ,one to listen you ...
@@goldenxyoon702you mean a woman is getting all that sex love children for free?? What sort of logic is this.
@@goldenxyoon702 cheap? You still have to work your ass off to pay rent, foods, commodities, HER jewelry, HER travels etc forever.
Mahr e fatimi is the best way
For mehir the Maximum I’m paying is 2k
Really. I’ll pay less than that. I don’t need marriage with a women who ask more than £200 pound.
@@ammadasif1771 mhmm Ik that’s right
These days it’s around 50K
@@oxord1111 then you should move on
@@ammadasif1771 what if it’s already done… then the wife comes and she doesn’t want to listen to the husband or respect him? She decides what she wants to do and doesn’t let the husband have a say? Does he get anything back or is it all gone?
Give mehr not more than 10 dollars, it is just for formality sake only. It is man who gets dowry from woman and it would give good intentions towards a woman. If the woman or her family demands more mehr, then they are to be considered as prostitutes who keep on asking money all the time when intimacy happens. People who give birth to female child considered that child as a waste thing and loss of money and time and so they killed the female child or sacrificed that female child to false Gods and Goddesses, and to save female child from such people mehr was given to her parents at the time of marriage by bridegroom's family, so that atleast the woman will be alive and not be killed by her parents.
No. Mahr is important, its what they call ‘alimony’ in american english. All over the world women demand alimony after a divorce.
Astagfirullah
Suppose the groom wants to agree to the marriage from the mosque and the woman will have to agree to it from the groom's home . Is it permissable?
It should take place in mosques or either anywhere the nikah but the imam and the witness is important during the nikah time otherwise it should take place where ever they both agree Allah want to make it easy for us and Allah is the one who forgive if somethings happen by mistake or not by mistake either but important is to ask for repentance always from Allah subhana wataaala and Allah loves the humans 70 times more then a mother love her child may Allah guid us on the right path
Yachit 😂
GREAT TALK BRO!! you LITERALLY didnt answer anything. how is anyone supposed to take what you just said and actually figure out the amount???////?????????????? these women and their parents are delusional
hes not gonna give an equation for everyone to apply to their mehr.
then dont marry 'these' women
The Mahr (مهر) is a contract fee paid for by the groom to the bride in an Islamic marriage (see The Meaning of Nikah). Its purpose within Islamic law, as shown through the Islamic texts themselves and the rulings of fiqh, is to compensate the woman for the privilege of consummating the marriage through sexual intercourse with her. The mahr is an obligatory part of Islamic law. In the abscence of a mahr, the marriage is not valid [1].
The custom itself comes from pre-Islamic tribal times. In those times, the mahr would be paid from the bridegroom to the wali or guardian of the bride. Islam's laws change this custom by specifying the the mahr belongs directly to her. It is thus sui generis unlike the dowry or dower from western arranged marriage traditions. Islamic law has specifications about how and when it is to be given, and how these arrangements are to be made and taken care of in all cases, and there are many hadith traditions relating the prophets example on the subject. Although the explanations of the subject vary, the purpose of the mahr as explained by the Islamic texts is clear; it is a payment from a man to a woman; payment in full for the future sexual relations (nikah) the bridegroom will enjoy with her. This is illustrated by the requirement for a mahr in temporary "marriages", the statements of Prophet Muhammad, and the fact that a mahr cannot be taken back (except under extenuating circumstances) because the man has availed himself of the service for which it was payment [2].
@@kojo2773 sex is a mutual activity when enjoyed by both the partners involved. When you have sex with a slave or you visit a prostitute do you think it's mutual or paid service. Another great practice was Mutah still some deam it right. According to Shia Muslims, Muhammad sanctioned nikah mut'ah (fixed-term marriage, called muta'a in Iraq and sigheh in Iran), which has instead been used as a legitimizing cover for sex workers in a culture where prostitution is otherwise forbidden.
But i don't find a word mahr in the Qur'an
I will pay 10 ruppes to bride
Why am I giving mahr when they going to take half my stuff after the divorce …. I’m no clown
That’s a valid point
You see Islamic religion is completely taking choice away from man. the fact you can't force someone to love you. islam is forcing men to consent when they are not fully aware of the outcome. You can only consent after outcome of something.
Can u get married without paying Mehir
You can give a single date or memorise Quran as mahr it does not have to be expensive akhi
@@MU-go1fq ok ty
@@MU-go1fq only a fool would settle for less than CASH.
@@razamughal9095😂
@@MU-go1fqif she ask doe if she don't agree it's useless