Life in the dorm sounds pitiful for the little ones but certainly there was good training for a child to be independent ! Wonder at this tender age, would there be less resilient children who would find the stress too much for them to bear ?! I personally wasn’t sent to any Boarding School . I started K1 in a Church Kindergarten which was only a 15-min drive from home. It was run by a very good team of teachers from HK and as such, lessons were conducted in Cantonese. The principal was the Pastor himself . That was 72 years ago ! It’s interesting to hear from you, Erica this first-hand knowledge about the Boarding that you were studying in ! 😄 Thank you for sharing this interesting life in the Boarding School with us ! 👍
This is how Japanese parents raise their children, training them to do things for themselves, go to school independently, be polite and considerate to to others, and never molly coddle them. The way Hong Kong parents spoil their children is a ticking time bomb. I once saw a family eating out. Their helper sat beside them and was not offered any food. At the end of the meal, the whole bunch just stood up and walked away, leaving the helper struggling to gather all the shopping bags together and trying to catch up. The children were teenagers, and the parents should have told the kids to help instead of just leaving without a word. Of course we have to use our common sense and do everything in moderation in nurturing our kids. I don't agree with boarding; it is just too cruel and selfish for me. It is perfectly possible to train our kids adequately and well without sending them away with strangers. Of course, lots of people like Erica have survived it and are doing well. I am interested to know if Erica herself would send her own kids to boarding school.
@@janetlee8602 The sad time is that this is the way most of the families in Hong Kong or Singapore treat their helpers, just mean, mean, mean. They seem not to realize, as you say, that it would set a very bad example to their children, or they think it is just the way to treat "inferior" people. My niece's neighbour would call her helper when she return late at night, sometimes as late as 2am, and demanded the poor lady to stand in the cold and rain to wait for her car to arrive. After helping to unload whatever is necessary, the help has to wash the car before going back to bed.
一個富裕環境下長大的您, 要立時六歲就學獨立, 好似係早咗啲, 開始時一定好辛苦, 但苦盡甘來嘛！
我完全明白你感受，因為我6歲個時都去左兒童之家住，因為冇人照顧我，屋企人要返工，係個到咩都要自己學，自己做，所以段練到我今日咩都識做同獨立😜
磨煉造就成長。
今日回顧雖然艱辛但係都係一種成長經歷～
十幾年前開始睇你的片，到宜家做左人阿媽都仲係好鍾意聽你講嘢。無花巧，無廢話，直截了當👍
如果我原本喺屋企嘅小公主，但 6歲就要忽然自立，諗起都好恐怖。 但呢個喺一個好好嘅決定，成就咗妳
今時今日，袁彌明都係一個好可愛嘅女仔，真心 lol
Real Hongkonger 他是毒玫瑰呢，叫人哋有風骨買股票。後來變咗仙估，害死好多人。這樣的人你覺得可愛嗎？
@@simontsan4779 買股票一定有風險，冇可能包賺。
買股票，就要予咗有風險。包賺錢，人人都發達啦。
我在十歲時也曾被送澳門讀寄宿學校達七年之久，過程苦樂參半。寄宿對建立個人生活紀律是相當好的，其他好處也相當多。
無錯，其實6歲小朋友可以做到好多野，因為人就係可以適應吾同既環境。
雖然我地聽返會覺得好心痛，但日後既安全感黎自自己識做好多野，責任感黎自自己必須為自己做係冇人back up。成長後好多野都會好堅強。
我都係呢間學校小一寄宿到小六，啲記憶返晒來
未寄宿過既人完全不會理解⋯尤其是只有5歲 ！點知有幾無助 😭😭😭
袁彌明的經歷正正亦是我的悽慘童年…長達十幾年 ！暑假人人已回家 ，但父母都要上班，睡房廿張雙層鐵牀⋯空洞只剩下一個人那種感受 是無人可傾訴啊！那一刻真係覺得人生無意義、心中常冒出聲音叫我自殺⋯⋯🥶😰。直至高中… 這是我人生，一個最低潮，最無助，最黑暗的段落… 其中有校長的兒子對女孩做出非禮的事情！！！😩 唉！這夢囈…午夜夢廻不絕…。
@ Lily Lee
如果我喺其中家長一定帶埋你返屋企，或者學校也應提供一些幫助。
过去嘅經歷，成就今天勇敢堅強嘅你😊💪💪
你真係好叻呀！
小孩提早獨立係先苦後甜。
咁細個要自己處理咁多事，你真係好叻
獨立幾時都學到 5歲太細個了, 大把人冇寄宿都學到獨立, 你做到係厲害!
呢個系列好正👍🏼👍🏼
真係好記性！
這是一世都記得的事。
我差D都入這間小學做插班生，我覺得學校好靚，但最後冇入到去。我覺得如果我入到就可以訓練獨立!
好鍾意聽你講既野, 特別係學做人
寄宿其實都幾好。好過依家成日依賴工人的小朋友
你未寄宿過…尤其是只有5歲 ！點知有幾無助 😭😭😭
袁彌明的經歷正正亦是我的悽慘童年…長達十幾年 ！暑假人人已回家 ，但父母都要上班，睡房廿張雙層鐵牀⋯空洞只剩下一個人那種感受 是無人可傾訴啊！那一刻真係覺得人生無意義、心中常冒出聲音叫我自殺⋯⋯🥶😰。直至高中… 這是我人生，一個最低潮，最無助，最黑暗的段落… 其中有校長的兒子對女孩做出非禮的事情！！！😩 唉！這夢囈…午夜夢廻不絕…。
@@lilylee3062 5歲6歲要寄宿太細了，你的慘情可以想像。
@@lilylee3062，我都覺得八九歲開始會易適應啲～
睇過電影😁你講到好似😁 監獄 風雲，👩🏻😁但咁細個真係好辛苦同可憐😥😫但現在幾好，又獨立👍身苦過後好幸福，值得👍
羨慕你咁幸福喎😛！
多谢分享
我最愛嘅港姐🥰🥰🥰
Life in the dorm sounds pitiful for the little ones but certainly there was good training for a child to be independent ! Wonder at this tender age, would there be less resilient children who would find the stress too much for them to bear ?! I personally wasn’t sent to any Boarding School . I started K1 in a Church Kindergarten which was only a 15-min drive from home. It was run by a very good team of teachers from HK and as such, lessons were conducted in Cantonese. The principal was the Pastor himself . That was 72 years ago ! It’s interesting to hear from you, Erica this
first-hand knowledge about the Boarding that you were studying in ! 😄
Thank you for sharing this interesting life in the Boarding School with us ! 👍
靓女！
阿明好好记忆力
靓女
超强記憶力
Thank you 😊
School bullying is part of the life experience..once got through will increase your confidence forever
唔好意思我off topic， 今日呢個妝好得！請問你用咗邊隻粉底？
我發覺你好鬼o力，自細巳經咁獨立，唔怪得你而家咁o力!
I have to show this video to my girl , thanks for sharing
Thx for the recap
一集太短啦😆
少少苦楚, 等於激勵, 吃得苦中苦, 方為人尚人. 我都做過寄宿生, 因此, 不自覺地學識與同學在苦悶中尋找趣味, 互助, 探索. 有效地抵抗了離開家人的無助感, 當然, 偶有曳曳的時候. 都喺一種人生的學習.
It’s nice training my dear 😂
This is how Japanese parents raise their children, training them to do things for themselves, go to school independently, be polite and considerate to to others, and never molly coddle them. The way Hong Kong parents spoil their children is a ticking time bomb. I once saw a family eating out. Their helper sat beside them and was not offered any food. At the end of the meal, the whole bunch just stood up and walked away, leaving the helper struggling to gather all the shopping bags together and trying to catch up. The children were teenagers, and the parents should have told the kids to help instead of just leaving without a word. Of course we have to use our common sense and do everything in moderation in nurturing our kids. I don't agree with boarding; it is just too cruel and selfish for me. It is perfectly possible to train our kids adequately and well without sending them away with strangers. Of course, lots of people like Erica have survived it and are doing well. I am interested to know if Erica herself would send her own kids to boarding school.
寄宿係一個成長經驗，亦學會不倚賴。
@Hazel Kong
This family treat the helper this way is heartless, will set a very bad model to their kids.
@@janetlee8602 The sad time is that this is the way most of the families in Hong Kong or Singapore treat their helpers, just mean, mean, mean. They seem not to realize, as you say, that it would set a very bad example to their children, or they think it is just the way to treat "inferior" people. My niece's neighbour would call her helper when she return late at night, sometimes as late as 2am, and demanded the poor lady to stand in the cold and rain to wait for her car to arrive. After helping to unload whatever is necessary, the help has to wash the car before going back to bed.
香港人加油💪
I wish I can send my kids to boarding school.
對於一個6歲小朋友來說，寄宿生活真不容易
你唔啦，執書包 is hell，孭書包 is hell，孭得多膊頭都側埋，你好好彩啦。
👍👍👍👍
Omg! U didn’t cry in ur first date??!! Genius
蚊帳都要摺好👌
现在香港小朋友太依賴工人！
你好好記性咁細個嘅嘢都記得而且啲細節位都記得曬好犀利
咁折磨好難唔記得lol
無病無痛還好，如果唔舒服，要自己Lan去厠所嘔，嘔完仲要餓一晚....一個六歲小朋友呢種感受可以記一世
咁細個寄宿其實都幾掛屋企㗎喎～
我就唔捨得咁細個畀小朋友去寄宿～
八九歲都好啲……
What a beautiful girl, it's just hard to understand what is being said, I don't understand Cantonese.
✨👍✨👍✨👏✨👏✨💖✨💖✨
讚成袁小姐所講，小朋友個個都好聰明，只要肯教冇話教唔識。
近年，香港實在太多巨嬰，好多廿幾歲都可以冇自理能力，有啲女仔仲以此為傲，覺得自己咁先矜貴🤦🏻♀️，其實係冇家教囉。
Very impressive
縂結我覺一年級太早寄宿學獨立，在家嗲下媽咪也是親子關係難忘日子
起碼中學至寄宿獨立，也一樣可以不會太遲！
3/4年級開始比較好
👍👍👍
Now being a senior in a suppose a good senior home I am experiencing the same.
😂
所以話老人家同小朋友都差不多～
咁如果你有仔女，你會唔會小學就推佢去寄宿？
你讲d嘢令我谂起发哥的监狱风云!😂
背景音樂加首《友誼之光》畀你啦！
😂😂😂
原來你們一家都係圣士提反的🤭👍我仔仔拿到奖学金、升中一💪💪佢以自己身为這间学校学生为荣的🤭🤭还有叫袁叔叔小心安全呀
Sscps/ssc師妹😆 我小6 high table dinner都係你嚟做嘉賓🤓
我要给我女儿看看这个视频
學習個人獨立，需要離開父母的愛，去寄宿學校才能學懂嗎？完全不認同啦！條條大路通羅馬，不同家庭背景有不同的育兒方法。無論如何，能在年輕時期可以享受更多父母的關愛，仍是人生莫大的福氣。
So tough🤯
我細佬都想讀，但考唔到入學試！😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
一啲心理準備都冇就被送入宿舍，好可憐呀
係啦！
應該要同佢講咗先，畀啲心理準備小朋友呀！
你好👋
這麼少就住寄宿學校，父母的責任在哪？
聖士提反書院係最原庄的1903年!😀聖士提反灣女子中學係三年之後成立的😀😀另外一間聖士提反堂中學係山😎😎寨版🤭🤭周慧敏就係這的
聖士提反女子中學!!葉劉的母校
同赤柱監獄好似🤣🤣
😂
加首《友誼之光》！
Yeah, remembered those
days in hell.
以前吾听话D大人就会话捉你入调景岭记宿
2👍
好彩似乎不用燙衫
你都係因為家庭背景成就你今天，唔好再睇唔起人地靠夫幹。如果屋企背景係窮人，公屋，完全冇資源下成功才是真實力。其實有父幹，夫幹，子幹又有什麼問題，這是福氣。
完全無家底同資源下成功往往會犧牲咗自己嘅健康，通常都捱到殘哂好快就百病纏身好快瓜得！
生在那一種家庭背境，是沒得你選擇。無論孩子在那種家庭成長，最緊要是父母怎樣利用自己能力上的各種資源去培育孩子，成為有公德的市民，那管是微職或是專業人仕，都能為社會供獻一番。反觀有很多有錢人的下一代，不可一世，終日都是紙醉金來，玩世不恭。香港和大陸的富二代例子，多得是!
寄宿過會獨立好多
如是这在赤柱坐了十二年。
真係赤柱呀！
😂😂😂
其實你細個有無問過爸爸媽媽,點解要你寄宿的
曾光🐷，培正🐂。😄🤣😂
真光豬真係好出名！
😂
因為真係肥妹，飯堂任食……
係咪好似片中咁樣？你形容嘅衣櫃真係有三架係一邊。我16歲去寄宿已經覺得好慘真係想像唔到六歲就要自己搞掂晒。
ruclips.net/video/d_Ybe1kETa8/видео.html
呢睇新好多。以前得個鐵櫃咋
👍👍👍👍