On behalf of South American/Latin American women... oh what a sweet summer child he is if he thinks we'll be a) nice and sweet and submissive, b) impressed by him, lmao
I was kinda thinking the same. LOL Married into a Filipino family, and I have no idea where these delulu passport bros got the idea that Asian women are "docile/demure" or "submissive." Ay naku!
The poor girl in Story 4 must have pretty low self esteem if shes willing to put up with that kind of childish behavior. Hope she realizes she deserves alot better in life.
Agreed. I got a lot of red flags about her self esteem, and wonder about her family situation.That's not mentally healthy behavior. I'm not blaming her for that "nice" guy's behavior, but it made me worried about her in general.
Imagine thinking it’s perfect acceptable for your 39 year old son to harass a 17 year old for not wanting to date him and even defending his behavior when confronted by the kid’s parent. Holy hell.
OP sounds either young or that she’s being jaded by another person and that’s why she was so apologetic at first. Like the whole “please, don’t hate me” sounds as if she had a not so good relationship with a person that blowed up at the smallest inconvenience
This woman is sick. And this man is making her feel guilty for being sick. He doesn't like her. He just wants an opportunity to get physically intimate.
Post 1: Good Lord, this dude literally had the green light for a second date, and he tantrum-ed himself out of a date because she didn't go out precisely when he wanted to go out. This was literally like a football player getting a kickoff, streaking down the field untouched, then throwing the ball away on the one yard line.
I suspect some of these guys do it on purpose so they can run to their incel friends and show off how 'mean' women are so they can validate their stupid worldview. Then again I suppose one should never underestimate how stupid entitled man-children are at their cores 🤔
I actually didn't realize they switched to story 2 (only like 75% paying attention) and thought it was the mom of the guy from story 1. Couldn't figure out at first why no one in the comments seemed to be taking about it 😂 I'm now just choosing to believe that's the case
The guy from post 4 made me so angry. No sympathy for OP being sick that's something out of their control. Forget bullet, they dodged a missile with this dude. Sheesh.
She's trying so hard to get in the path of that bullet though... I really hope she's learned to respect yourself and to listen when people tell on themselves like that. :(
All because she wouldn't go on a date with him on New years...i think he wanted to do some New Years kiss with her like some rom com and was pissy she couldn't go out with him on New Years
The funniest thing about "nice guys" is that they're *not actually nice.* They think that just because they aren't acting on every single awful thought in their heads 24/7, that somehow equates to being nice. It does not! A lack of violence is not kindness - it's actually the bare minimum of being a normal human being!
I find it rather annoying that they've ruined the word nice. I know quite a few men I would describe as genuinely nice, but I have to either add the "genuinely" or else find some other words for it (helpful, considerate, reliable, gentle...) if I don't want to accidentally insult them..
@@GusBried If it helps, an alternative to "nice guy" I've found acceptable is "decent man." There's also "good man," but that one can have other connotations in different regions/countries.
Fr they put the bar so low it's a tripping hazard in hell. They live in a completely surreal narrative of their own making, where women are a hive mind and they're misunderstood champions of value and virtue. Absolutely bonkers.
Post 3: PLEASE PLEASE always report creeps like that to their bosses. The claim "My boss doesn't care" is often a lie to discourage people talking to the boss. Most (if not almost all) businesses care and they do not like or tolerate that behaviour.
14:36 the way I wouldn’t have even made it this far in the convo. Once he started trippin about her being sick, I was over it. I hope she is too. She sounds unbelievably sweet and jerks especially love to use and manipulate thoughtful and caring women like her. He can kick rocks. Seriously, Bye forever? Thank god!
Post 4 OP, honey, darling, you need to stop apologizing so much. You sound like you're scared of never finding love. This guy is NOT it. Super glad you told him off though.
My ex did that to me after i lost my best friend (she has this mentality that I only should mourn for a day) but her thing was playing dumb or being tone deaf and I called her out and stopped talking to her
Story 4: OMG... why didn't she block him very early on? "Sorry you felt disrespected." Dude, GFY. I wouldn't have continued that conversation, and I don't understand why she did.
@Insomniink I'm sorry OP, I just reread this and realized that you probably meant that your cat passed away, not ran away. If that's the case, my condolences to you. I lost my cat of 16 years last month myself. It's hard. Hope it gets better.
I'll preface this by saying that I'm past grandfather age, so my sensibilities may be old-fashioned. That said, isn't talking about marriage and children in he first few messages to someone (whom you know nothing about), the ultimate in cluelessness and desperation? Perhaps only topped by begging for racy pictures. Commodifying people is no way to live your life, son.
I'm playing Ocarina of Time and am currently in the Shadow Temple, which has always made me nervous. Listening to Vincey helps calm me down a bit. Thanks!😅
Man that brings back memories. I played OoT many times as a kid, and I would always procrastinate doing the Shadow temple because it scared me too. Sometimes I could convince my brother to help, but not always. Good memories 😅
For story 4: Hopefully OP got some comments telling them about the types of behavior to look out for and the reassurance that it's okay to put your foot down and say "I deserve better!" Holy moly. Op deserves better.
#4 is super creepy. The fact she talks about her mom getting her skirt from the laundry room and taking her to the doctor, she sounds like a teen, and he texts like he's over 40 with the "ex" and all the... ellipsis points... which are usually only used in texts by older people.
Part 5: "Heres a list of material items I own, why won't women date me? What do you mean personality? Are you psychotic?!" It's truly just transactional every time, hes looking for a sex doll with a pulse in exchange for basic amenities and a small bit of status. He thinks thats all a relationship is and has gone the passport bro right of thinking "women over here will submit to me better". Heres the thing, the women who would be interested in this kind of transactional relationship have WAY higher standards than what hes complaining about and the ones that want a normal, loving relationship, aren't impressed by Toyota Tacoma's because personality comes first. This guy cant find anyone because hes rotted to the core.
Passport bros like him are so racist and then act they think their overgeneralizations and stereotypes aren't racist because they think it's a compliment
So, the guy in story 4… they barely knew eachother and he kicked up such a fuss… I… I think it’s better for OP’s safety that she missed that date. I… I think very not good things would have happened if she had attended.
As an Italian Argentinean who has been fetishized by weird hippie white guys who want Spanish tail, and who also just ate pasta before her salad for dinner - I HAVE NEVER FELT MORE SEEN BY A VINCEY VIDEO, AND THAT IS SAYING A LOT. 😂❤
Man i feel sorry for the woman in story 4 she was so sweet and apologetic to a guy that she knows for 2 DAYS. I would have reassured her a thousand times that there are more important things than a meetup. holy shit she deserves better
First post: She's not really that into you, but likes you enough to reach out for a second date down the road. If you like her, take it if you are still single at that point, and see if you can improve her opinion as she gets to know you more. If she doesn't seem worth all that, move on and find someone that likes you more. No big deal, and no need to be hostile.
That wannabe passport bro in story 5 though … why do all of these men/nice guys/incels think that things like house, fitness, work etc are important things and should “attract” women?? They are completely neutral elements or the bare minimum, but they are certainly no reason to date them! A reason would be more something like a shared passion, good character traits, chemistry, compatibility, sense of humour, kindness, those kind of things. Why is this so hard to grasp for those people?
I genuinely love your videos. I watch them all the time on my lunch breaks at work, it gives me every bit of the internal rage I need to fuel the rest of my day. Wish me luck in this next 7 hour stretch!! 😂😂
The first guy had a green light for a second date, but raged himself out of it because he chose to believe his own assumptions about her more than her. I say she dodged a bullet there 😅
"Bro, you're thinking about a situation that isn't real and letting it upset you!" - Vincey, 2024. In all seriousness though, I feel that summarises the main problem in many of these stories very well 😅
If the dude is getting that upset over her being sick, I would say screw it and risk him getting sick too if I didn't know that he would blame that on me too somehow.
I was yelling so loud at Post 4... my room rung with the noise. God it was frustrating. I hate this subreddit. But I really like Vincey.. so it's a lose lose situation.. The only positive is the wholesome memes after that but my god these guys are horrible.
Obligatory algorithm support. “ah shit, here we go again.” It’s posts like the first post that shows how bad NiceGuys(tm) are 😂. Now we need r/NiceGirls for the equality lmao
Story 5: why do so many of these guys think that having a car is impressive? I know that wasn't the most disturbing part of that story, but weirdly it was the thing that jumped out at me.
“Asian women are so sweet and tender” what a sweeping generalization. Hes clearly never had a Filipino mother
😂🩴💨
On behalf of South American/Latin American women... oh what a sweet summer child he is if he thinks we'll be a) nice and sweet and submissive, b) impressed by him, lmao
@lifesyphon1 or heck, I've heard of the "tiger mom" stereotype. That's far from "sweet and tender."
I was kinda thinking the same. LOL Married into a Filipino family, and I have no idea where these delulu passport bros got the idea that Asian women are "docile/demure" or "submissive." Ay naku!
The poor girl in Story 4 must have pretty low self esteem if shes willing to put up with that kind of childish behavior. Hope she realizes she deserves alot better in life.
I’m more pissed at her..she should have blocked him many texts ago
Agreed. I got a lot of red flags about her self esteem, and wonder about her family situation.That's not mentally healthy behavior. I'm not blaming her for that "nice" guy's behavior, but it made me worried about her in general.
Imagine thinking it’s perfect acceptable for your 39 year old son to harass a 17 year old for not wanting to date him and even defending his behavior when confronted by the kid’s parent. Holy hell.
Story 2: This grown man went out of his way to go and crying to mommy because an 18 year old girl rejected him, gross. (His mother no is better)
17 at the time!
@@hedgiehogdudeu_u406Yes! She wasn't even a legal adult yet, and he was the same age as OP's own mum. Talk about Icky, Icky, Gross, Gross, Yuck!
Post 4 is so painful to listen to, I was like, "Block him!!!!" The whole time
Unfortunately she's fallen for the emotional manipulation that Nice Guys rely on to keep people bound to them.
Yeah, any normal guy would say, "I'm sorry to hear that. Let me know when you're feeling better and we'll reschedule."
AGREED.
I wanted to gently shake OP's shoulders.
There's more and better people out there and I hope they realize they're worthy of that.
OP sounds either young or that she’s being jaded by another person and that’s why she was so apologetic at first. Like the whole “please, don’t hate me” sounds as if she had a not so good relationship with a person that blowed up at the smallest inconvenience
Me too! That guy has no sympathy for someone who is ill. I'd block him immediately
Story 4: she should show up and see him just long enough to barf on him and then leave.
I would be petty enough to do that 😂
This woman is sick. And this man is making her feel guilty for being sick. He doesn't like her. He just wants an opportunity to get physically intimate.
IIRC, it was revealed that the nice guy was actually pretending to be his mother to "shame" the woman who wouldn't date him.
@vagabondrepertorytheaterco8431 that's a different story
Post 1: Good Lord, this dude literally had the green light for a second date, and he tantrum-ed himself out of a date because she didn't go out precisely when he wanted to go out.
This was literally like a football player getting a kickoff, streaking down the field untouched, then throwing the ball away on the one yard line.
I suspect some of these guys do it on purpose so they can run to their incel friends and show off how 'mean' women are so they can validate their stupid worldview. Then again I suppose one should never underestimate how stupid entitled man-children are at their cores 🤔
Where is the logic and stocism of r p xys? Was that it?
I actually didn't realize they switched to story 2 (only like 75% paying attention) and thought it was the mom of the guy from story 1. Couldn't figure out at first why no one in the comments seemed to be taking about it 😂 I'm now just choosing to believe that's the case
Story 2:,Lock them up
LOCK THEM UP NOW!!!!!!
Cue Law & Order sound effect...
@@Aries73Dun - dun.
That mom really said "Don't not date me or my son ever again" send these people to double prison.
The guy from post 4 made me so angry. No sympathy for OP being sick that's something out of their control. Forget bullet, they dodged a missile with this dude. Sheesh.
But hey, she didn't put in the work to reschedule... her illness? Truly inconsiderate of her!
She's trying so hard to get in the path of that bullet though... I really hope she's learned to respect yourself and to listen when people tell on themselves like that. :(
1st story: This is what happens when you let the Red Pill cause you to fumble the ball at the 5-yard line
All because she wouldn't go on a date with him on New years...i think he wanted to do some New Years kiss with her like some rom com and was pissy she couldn't go out with him on New Years
The funniest thing about "nice guys" is that they're *not actually nice.* They think that just because they aren't acting on every single awful thought in their heads 24/7, that somehow equates to being nice. It does not! A lack of violence is not kindness - it's actually the bare minimum of being a normal human being!
@@KorilD exactly! 🤣
amen!
I find it rather annoying that they've ruined the word nice. I know quite a few men I would describe as genuinely nice, but I have to either add the "genuinely" or else find some other words for it (helpful, considerate, reliable, gentle...) if I don't want to accidentally insult them..
@@GusBried If it helps, an alternative to "nice guy" I've found acceptable is "decent man." There's also "good man," but that one can have other connotations in different regions/countries.
Fr they put the bar so low it's a tripping hazard in hell. They live in a completely surreal narrative of their own making, where women are a hive mind and they're misunderstood champions of value and virtue. Absolutely bonkers.
Post 3: PLEASE PLEASE always report creeps like that to their bosses. The claim "My boss doesn't care" is often a lie to discourage people talking to the boss.
Most (if not almost all) businesses care and they do not like or tolerate that behaviour.
Yep. I knew a guy that worked at a gym signing people up for memberships. He would get a woman’s info and stalk her. He was creepy asf.
14:36 the way I wouldn’t have even made it this far in the convo. Once he started trippin about her being sick, I was over it. I hope she is too. She sounds unbelievably sweet and jerks especially love to use and manipulate thoughtful and caring women like her. He can kick rocks. Seriously, Bye forever? Thank god!
“You lost yourself a really good guy, bye forever!”
Zelda from Wand of Gamelon: “Good.”
"You wouldn't know a good guy if he hit you with a bus" really just. sums it up, doesn't it. x'D
You go for Chad, but Chad would never hit you with a bus, would he?
These are so infuriating, self sabotage, or just plain unhinged
Perfect 😂
And that’s how the trash takes itself out.
Stpry 3:"I'm just trying to make friends" he said
Yeah man,Say that to your boss
Lmao 😂
And hr and higher ups
Unsurprisingly, oil change guy did get fired in a later update.
@terriwetz6077 anything else good from the update?
W chicken action and change of pace from AITA,Amithedevil
Story 1:"Stop wasting my precious time" he said
Look in the mirror,guy
Exactly. The irony 😂
This subreddit never fails to give me the ick. Wholesome memes very needed after this lol
Post 4 was painful, she put up with him for waaaaay too long, and kept apologizing, I hope she learns that she deserves so much better than that. 😣
Post 4 OP, honey, darling, you need to stop apologizing so much. You sound like you're scared of never finding love. This guy is NOT it. Super glad you told him off though.
I would definitely be in OP’s shoes. But I agree 😅
My ex did that to me after i lost my best friend (she has this mentality that I only should mourn for a day) but her thing was playing dumb or being tone deaf and I called her out and stopped talking to her
@@Chuck_EL Very glad she's your ex.
Not her business how long you "should" mourn for.
Oil change one. Girl, check your car for air tags. People like that are unhinged!
The mother in post 2 is... Concerning.
Story 4: OMG... why didn't she block him very early on? "Sorry you felt disrespected." Dude, GFY. I wouldn't have continued that conversation, and I don't understand why she did.
Hey Vincey, I lost my cat last night unfortunately and seeing your upload is a really nice distraction. Thank you so much for all you do
Hope you find your cat ❤️🩹
@@ZenoSsj4Hero I hope so too
Poor kitty, I pray that you find them soon. Let us know if you do find them
Sorry for your loss, it's never easy
@Insomniink I'm sorry OP, I just reread this and realized that you probably meant that your cat passed away, not ran away. If that's the case, my condolences to you. I lost my cat of 16 years last month myself. It's hard. Hope it gets better.
1:26 he’s shooting himself in the foot what the hell
I'll preface this by saying that I'm past grandfather age, so my sensibilities may be old-fashioned. That said, isn't talking about marriage and children in he first few messages to someone (whom you know nothing about), the ultimate in cluelessness and desperation?
Perhaps only topped by begging for racy pictures.
Commodifying people is no way to live your life, son.
VINCEY NICEGUYS IS BACK I REPEAT VINCEY NICEGUYS IS BACK
I'm playing Ocarina of Time and am currently in the Shadow Temple, which has always made me nervous. Listening to Vincey helps calm me down a bit. Thanks!😅
Man that brings back memories. I played OoT many times as a kid, and I would always procrastinate doing the Shadow temple because it scared me too. Sometimes I could convince my brother to help, but not always. Good memories 😅
For story 4: Hopefully OP got some comments telling them about the types of behavior to look out for and the reassurance that it's okay to put your foot down and say "I deserve better!" Holy moly. Op deserves better.
Snatching defeat from the jaws of victory 🤦🏻♀️ Dudes need to chill
#4 is super creepy. The fact she talks about her mom getting her skirt from the laundry room and taking her to the doctor, she sounds like a teen, and he texts like he's over 40 with the "ex" and all the... ellipsis points... which are usually only used in texts by older people.
Story 4: Please, OP! Stop talking to this guy!
11:27 People get sick on their own wedding day.
*
People get sick on inconvenient days, it happens. 😂
Part 5: "Heres a list of material items I own, why won't women date me? What do you mean personality? Are you psychotic?!"
It's truly just transactional every time, hes looking for a sex doll with a pulse in exchange for basic amenities and a small bit of status. He thinks thats all a relationship is and has gone the passport bro right of thinking "women over here will submit to me better". Heres the thing, the women who would be interested in this kind of transactional relationship have WAY higher standards than what hes complaining about and the ones that want a normal, loving relationship, aren't impressed by Toyota Tacoma's because personality comes first. This guy cant find anyone because hes rotted to the core.
Passport bros like him are so racist and then act they think their overgeneralizations and stereotypes aren't racist because they think it's a compliment
These stories always make the hairs on my skin go up like how can someone understand someone may not be into them !
Man,This subreddit is really....."nice"
Yay! I've missed you covering this subreddit.
We've got the gentlemen back; let's goooo!
I have missed these videos
We're so back, baby!
Always lovely to have some classics in the channel ✨
Holy crap, this is the most unhinged sub you check in on by far. Story 2 is sending shivers down me spine (and apparently turned me into a pirate).
Oh, I have missed the Nice Guys posts. Like, misses in a weird way, but I missed them.
So, the guy in story 4… they barely knew eachother and he kicked up such a fuss… I… I think it’s better for OP’s safety that she missed that date. I… I think very not good things would have happened if she had attended.
It's been a long time coming for this one
Yay, back on r/NiceGuys! Wait....
(i do like the AITA vids but it was fun to come back here)
Story 4: after the Dr visit, I'd go vomit on his car door handle to make sure he caught the same bug.
YES!! Missed the nice guys so much!
As an Italian Argentinean who has been fetishized by weird hippie white guys who want Spanish tail, and who also just ate pasta before her salad for dinner - I HAVE NEVER FELT MORE SEEN BY A VINCEY VIDEO, AND THAT IS SAYING A LOT. 😂❤
Number 2 is giving Nigel Berbrooke and Daphne Bridgerton 😂 "All but ... 5?"
Long time no watch! I missed you, Vincey!
I love that Vincey is this super chipper happy guy, and he reads the most horrifying, bottom of the barrel of humanity parts 😂
It just feels bad how people fumble their bag so bad. The first guy had a chance in the beginning
Man i feel sorry for the woman in story 4 she was so sweet and apologetic to a guy that she knows for 2 DAYS. I would have reassured her a thousand times that there are more important things than a meetup. holy shit she deserves better
once again I feel immense relief that I'm a lesbian lol
Awesome ❤
It helps but it won't entirely save you from those guys either
First post: She's not really that into you, but likes you enough to reach out for a second date down the road. If you like her, take it if you are still single at that point, and see if you can improve her opinion as she gets to know you more. If she doesn't seem worth all that, move on and find someone that likes you more. No big deal, and no need to be hostile.
Story 2: The whole family needs to be locked up I think.
Its so nice to see you back on the NiceGuys subreddit, Vincey. I thought you gave it up for a while.
That wannabe passport bro in story 5 though … why do all of these men/nice guys/incels think that things like house, fitness, work etc are important things and should “attract” women?? They are completely neutral elements or the bare minimum, but they are certainly no reason to date them! A reason would be more something like a shared passion, good character traits, chemistry, compatibility, sense of humour, kindness, those kind of things. Why is this so hard to grasp for those people?
I'm never ready for nice guys lol This should be fun though!
He's known her since she was a kid, and decided to try his luck with her when she turned 18? Bro is a borderline sex offender.
Needing to go to the doctor was the best thing.
Story 4 is a narcissist. Instead of making it about him he could give her some ginger tea
Story 1: ah yes, snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. Lmfao.
#5 been on r/passportbros Jesus Christ
Unhinged. The lack of common sense, basic understanding, self-inflicting unhappiness, beyond ignorant is outstanding.
I genuinely love your videos. I watch them all the time on my lunch breaks at work, it gives me every bit of the internal rage I need to fuel the rest of my day. Wish me luck in this next 7 hour stretch!! 😂😂
The first guy had a green light for a second date, but raged himself out of it because he chose to believe his own assumptions about her more than her. I say she dodged a bullet there 😅
When you are the common denominator, you admittingly refuse to believe it. My ex-husband is a perfect example as such C.D.
Yaayy some Nice Guys- Vincey has seen the subreddit 😂😂🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you Vincey for a new NG video!
Story 4: OP IS blind. Red flags are everywhere. OP should see them. (I'm glad to see the comments where she noticed she dodged a bullet.)
Dudes known her less than a week and says he went above and beyond for her. Never even met her. Wtf.
"Bro, you're thinking about a situation that isn't real and letting it upset you!" - Vincey, 2024.
In all seriousness though, I feel that summarises the main problem in many of these stories very well 😅
Ooooooooh, the nice guy posts are back!
Story 5:People,Just don't online date
Or else you'll get people like OP
Self sabotage is real 🤦🤦🤦🤦
"Bye forever" 🤣🤣
On post 2, I thoroughly believe that the son stole his mom's phone and texted all that to her.
Update, I was right.
I thought that too. How could anyone not ?
#1 "I would like to see you again." "HOW F_CKING DARE YOU, YOU TROLLOP!"
Libraries are indeed amazing
Story 4: Block that fool!!!!
This was wild!!
And this is why I have no empathy for those who whine about the friendzone or niceguys finishing last.
so happy nice guys is back
If the dude is getting that upset over her being sick, I would say screw it and risk him getting sick too if I didn't know that he would blame that on me too somehow.
With story 2, we know where the problem stems from.
I was yelling so loud at Post 4... my room rung with the noise. God it was frustrating. I hate this subreddit. But I really like Vincey.. so it's a lose lose situation.. The only positive is the wholesome memes after that but my god these guys are horrible.
Obligatory algorithm support. “ah shit, here we go again.” It’s posts like the first post that shows how bad NiceGuys(tm) are 😂. Now we need r/NiceGirls for the equality lmao
How tf did the first guy get the girl to even initially want a second date?
Excited to watch this Vince! 2nd view!
Welcome to the Vincey Fam!
@@mayawatkins6073 I meant second view of the video, like I clicked on it 20 seconds after it came out haha.
Welcome anyways 😂❤. According to Newest, your the first comment 😅
Story 5: why do so many of these guys think that having a car is impressive? I know that wasn't the most disturbing part of that story, but weirdly it was the thing that jumped out at me.
Chickens!!!
CHIMKEN THIS TIME
Can the nice guy stop that boogy man from getting me?
People let their pasta get cold while they eat their salad?
Wait, did Vincey actually beep himself? That beep was so out the blue, I'm used to Vincey making the word more Vincey-friendly.
Story 5 guy wouldn't want to get into a relationship with a Finn
Woohooo the “nice guys” are back!