I totally agree with you guys. I feel like when you definitely have a crush on someone, you automatically jump to the conclusion that they're too good for you, and that you're out of their league.. Sigh...
Britany Cheung retweeeeet😫 like how can u tell if that's how the other person thinks too???? (like you're out of their league bc they're psyching themselves out??) struggle bussss
"If you like them, it's either a yes or no. But if you don't even ask them, it's automatically no. There's zero chance of it being a yes. " - Mike Bow 2017
"If they reject you, they are the one actually out of your league" ...All the girls have been out of my league then... should of known my fat ass was handsome all along
Im so proud of myself out of 114 lunch breaks that Ive watched today's the first time Im watching your show during lunch while eating my lunch. *pats self at the back*
When I was very young, I had an older brother. Every time my Mother introduced us to people, she would point to my older brother and say, "He's the first born. He's the good looking one". Then she point to me and say, "He's our second born". Because of that, I thought I was ugly and grew up extremely shy. I thought I was too ugly for any girl to talk to me. I every night I would pray to God, "Please make me look like some else". Every morning, I'd look in the mirror and be disappointed. There were only 2 girls I would ever talk to. My sister and a girl I've known since I was 2. Any way, when I started school, there was a girl named Rachel who would chase me around during recess and lunch trying to kiss me. I dreaded those times till her family moved to New York. I got my first "crush" in Junior High. Her name was Eileen. I thought someone like her could never like someone like me. While grocery shopping for my Mother, Eileen was there with her Mother and said "Hi" as we past. It was too far beyond my comprehension to imagine she would talk to me so I ignored it and walked on. There was a school formal in the evening so my Mother made me go to chaperone my older brother. While I was sitting there watching every one dance, a group of girls from my class walked up and said Eileen wanted to dance with me. I thought they were teasing me and said no! So 4 girls grabbed me to drag me over. I broke free and jumped out of the nearest window. I sat outside till the dance was over. I carried that "crush" all the way through High School. I would never look at another girl. My first day of College, I walk into class and across the room, I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She was laughing and smiling while 3 guys were crowded around listening and talking to her. I imagined she must have been the mos popular girl in her High School, probably the Prom Queen. I hate popular girl so I made up my mind I didn't like her. Halfway through the semester, another girl in class who was White, asked me to have lunch with her. Funny, I never noticed her or talked to her, yet she wanted to have lunch together. While talking, I learned she had a boyfriend so I couldn't understand why she wanted to have lunch with me. After that, we always hung out together. When Summer rolled around, she dumped her boyfriend and asked me to be her boyfriend. After College, we married but it only lasted 3 years. I became a street racer so we never saw each other and we mutually decided to end the marriage. I had several girls I dated until my roommate set me up with his Boss's daughter. My roommate liked her girlfriend so he needed me as a wingman. I could stand the girl but he begged me to go along. One month later she moved in without asking. A month and half later, I told her to get out. From my first day of College, 20 years later, I ran into the girl I thought was too beautiful for me. She asked me out to dinner and married a year later. We are 66 now, retired and couldn't be happier. I don't know what she sees in me so I asked. She said I make her laugh,,,so I guess looks aren't everything.
Damn that's a hell long of a story (literally). At first I was like, yeah he must be a teenager, then... ok maybe highschool.. college? yeah 30s maybe... 66? Well that escalated quickly! Thanks for sharing, sir!
I decided to click the read more button expecting that it would just be a short story. Yup! it is long but I have learned something from it. Thanks for sharing Sir Rick!
From the first few lines about your mums saying your older brother cut out all the middle bit. Talk about the girl you thought was too hot for you then eg ( I dated loads of girls that didn’t work out). Then skip to the part “ 20 years after college”
It's all relative! The question you should ask yourself is, "Is He or She in my league?" If you can answer this question truthfully, you will be able to find more dates. Try this. It works. Take care and happy dating. 😁❤
Kev C I wasn't being picky but I asked this girl out who I thought was in my league. Like you said, she is more my type and I was being very realistic with myself and not just ask the prettiest girl out. As long as you are being honest with yourself, this does work. Than you so much.
love these dating advice lunch breaks LOL. i think we forget to remember that we have great traits that other people are trying to improve on. we each have something desirable in us that is worthy of someone's attention.
I love that this topic has Ashley in it! Her special something something's username is LeagueBoyy. So her catch phrase is, "Not so out of my LeagueBoyy." Just sayyying #Notsooutofmyleagueboyy
I unfortunately learned the hard way that the guys I've dated where never on the same level as me. And everything changed when I learned to love myself. Now it's super difficult to find someone who is actually worth my time and effort. I can't settle for B.S. and I won't settle for B.S. I have goals that I'm working towards and if we can't help each other to be better and to do better, there is no point in me trying anything with you. I'm all for love and affection but as my parents always say, "Love don't pay the bills."
After being in China, I've realized $ is more important than looks for men. A man with $, can get a pretty Chinese bride. You can be handsome, but you won't get a bride out there. In North America, it's all about what they say as 'confidence'. Confidence is having self worth and having high self-esteem. A confident person doesn't need to 'front' to make a great first impression. A healthy self esteem and a decisive person who doesn't make any hesitations or regrets for his/her actions such as making that first date move is what women want in North America. Let's face it, majority of us guys in North America gotta still make the first initiation of greeting, then asking for follow up, then date and then finishing off with a move to confirm intentions. League is like hype, it's all a facade.
as a 22 yr old when i see a girl i find attractive with a very successful occupation it makes me feel like shes outta my league when i know i shouldnt feel that way D: great vid again tho wongfu!
Hey Wong Fu Crew! I've been binge watching both of your channels for the past week, and with all the crazy transitions in my life right now, I want to thank you for cheering me up with your funny, insightful, and uplifting videos. Your storytelling is so heartfelt and moving, and has brought me some much-needed laughs and positive energy. Thank you, Wong Fu!
I think you're absolutely right about how each person has a different definition of what is a "league" and that it's important that the other person makes you want to be a better version of yourself. My bf, who I see as someone out of my league, pushes me to further my career and education. In return, he says I push him to enjoy life more and spend more time with his family and not be 120% focus on just his career. It really balances us out.
So do u guys believe (like what they've talked about in how I met ur mother) that in relationships there's a reacher and a settler? So someone who is in a higher league who's with someone in a lower league? And like that has nothing to do with their attraction to each other but it kinda makes a dynamic of the relationship, like the settler typically doesn't get jealous easily (love y'all I wish I had food right now XD)
that definitely does exist but less frequent in healthy long lasting relationships. or if it does exist it exist both ways where both people think they are reaching and their partner is settling.
Sabrina Thai I'm late to this vid/conversation but I thought your question was excellent so I felt the need to respond. I do agree that there are reachers and settlers, however my personal take is that in a healthy relationship that particular element is very fluid. I believe that people have strengths and weaknesses and hopefully the person that you partner with enhances your strengths and provides a positive impact to encourage you to improve your weaknesses... in a relationship you are reaching and settling. I don't buy into the concept that good relationships are 50/50 or 100\100. More ying and yang on many levels. I believe when the relationship is unhealthy then one partner is either reaching or settling the vast majority of the time.
a guy did a "pentakill" on my self-esteem when he said I wasn't good enough for him. Honestly, found the love of my life soon after. Everything happens for a reason :P
Phil and Mike, I feel like you two started it off with what most of us think and feel about it and got to the core reasons behind "leagues", and both Ashley and Taylor had unique insights on what subconsciously goes into those thoughts. Great discussion :)
ok in fairness i'm only halfway so idk what they'll say more about this, but need to comment before I forget -- I believe there is such thing as a 'league', and in my personal opinion this usually comes down to how mature or sure of yourself are you. when people are 'out of my league' I often feel like they're already in a different level of maturity (much better) than me and wouldn't want to bother dating someone as myself who's still figure out different things in life.
When Ashley looked up at 2:20 and said ugh those people suck idk why but I burst out laughing. Such a relatable sentiment that can be applied to so many situations
could you guys do an episode where you talk about the concept if indians not being considered asian? i would really like to see you guy's thoughts on the subject
1) Phil mentions needing humor, 2) says something about Taylor needing a girl who laughs at his jokes, 3) Ashley laughs at Phil's joke. Hmmmm? What could this mean???
did you guys change the motto / phrase on the team page of the website?? xD i checked it after seeing the screencap in the video, and it's not the same!!!! hahaha
That Brown Guy that's not true. Think of Honey Boo boo's mom or something, I'm sure you're waaaay out of her league (I'm not sure if I'm helping or making it worse)
Maybe one could see it more from the point of being on the same wavelength than in the same league? League has a negative connotation to it considering it is used as a sports term. In that sense, you have to work your way up to be in that league but in social relationships its more of a 'do our interests align at some point.'
Totally agree. We desire people that we hold above ourselves, we see their traits as the things we want to have in our lives. And completely agree that relationship should help us grow and inspire us to be a better version of ourselves. On the side note, Phil will you go out with me? Let's be better together 😂😂
When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he told me that he thought he was out of my league. At the time, I was really confused and dumbfounded that he saw me that way. Many people tend to put themselves down and think we're not good enough for the person we like. But in reality, maybe we are seen as amazing in that other person's eyes. I def agree that in the end, the leagues that people make up are totally subjective and that these leagues shouldn't let us get in the way of being happy and being with a person.
Taylor's comment about liking what we don't have is totally me. For whatever reason I like all the guys "out of my league" that I have no chance with, while I'm indifferent to the guys I do have a chance with. (P.S. Guys out of my league also unfortunately include you Mike 😭)
I'm still in high school and for us there's sort of a league or more of a class thing where you're grouped by age or by grade like senior, junior, sophomore and freshmen. It's like if a freshmen were dating a senior then the freshmen would be sort of looked up upon by their peers almost. Also there's a sort of league for the different schools. Like you know which schools are better by their look, by how big they are but also by their sports. For us we see this one school as great at everything, academics and sports and if you were dating a person from a particular school then they could be out of your league.
What do you think about things like education level (college graduate vs not) and socioeconomic background (family/class) and "status" (lawyer/doctor v waiter/barista)? Do you think those are valid deal-breakers - particularly if there is a wide gap between the two people in those aspects? You mostly discussed whether you should try to date "above" your league... But do you think you would be keen/willing to date "below" your league? Also: does it matter to you how your parents would react if you brought home someone from a very different upbringing (mainly economic rather than cultural), particularly from a less well-off or educated family? Asking for a friend... 😂 HELP ME But really this is a very interesting topic - thanks for a thought-provoking discussion!
You ever listen to someone talk, hear the references they use and see their humor and think, "this person is just like me. I have said that exact same thing. I use those references too, all the time!" Yeah, that's me with Phil lol the way our minds work are crazy similar and we have never met. Whoa!!
Yeah, it's not really about looks, it's more about the other person's whole social situation and how they handle it. You can meet a super rich, successful and handsome guy, but if he's all chill and down to earth, he won't be out of your league.
it sounds like a lot of what they were describing comes down to status, which would make sense. I agree with Phil, that it's all in your mind and you shouldn't let it hold you back. ultimately, "leagues" are just like other social constructs and don't truly exist unless you believe it. I don't believe in leagues, I think it's just a matter of what your personal standards are, and if it's a good fit. I wouldn't care if someone had less money or was in a "lower league" if our personalities were a good fit. if someone is going to be quick to judge you for not "being in their league" then you don't want to be with them anyway.
I can relate to what Phil is saying about not being good enough for the family. One of the reasons why the guy I liked turned me down is that his family will never accept the relationship as I do not share their nationality and religion.
League story। I used to like a guy in 10th actually, I called him doll eyes because I thought they were very beautiful and he helped me in maths during the break, he was a pretty smart person actually and just like two months back I got to know he liked me around that time which really surprised me because I really thought that there is no way a smart guy like him would like a girl like me who was bad at maths etc but yeah now that his best friend told me about this I'm actually contemplating to just come clean at farewell since I'm in my senior year and see if he wants to I dunno go on a date maybe. Obviously I am dreading it and I don't even know if I should give it a shot but I'm sure I'm still attracted to him but then again I wonder if he would want to or not since we don't talk that much anymore। Dkkfkf either way wish me luck lol kdkfkf
Not that Tae isn't handsome or anything, but I'm SO glad my perception of beauty isn't aligned with everyone else's, lol. I mean if you youtube search "Kim Taehyung" one of the vids that come up is "Is Kim Taehyung perfect?" and we all know how he's basically an embodiment of most Korean and not only beauty standards... And I'm like "I don't see the appeal..." lol. But I just can't stop staring at random people that are not at all famous or better yet random people on the streets like "YOU. DAMN." :D I mean I can't imagine if someone notorious for their looks had MY favorite aesthetics. That would feel somehow... lonely, exactly because everyone else also thinks like me. I'm far more content saving random people's photos that noone knows of, that I just found on the internet searching for something else. :D
I've thought about this, but I've stopped labeling it as "league," so I was surprised this was really relatable... damn, I've always thought they were out of my league...
I do put myself on a league hierarchy and I do see other people on different leagues... this is very unfortunate. However, I did have crushes over girls that my friends did tell me I could do better. I think when you start to think about LEAGUES RANKING when it comes to a girl/boy you would potentially partner with, then it's not real love. In the end, it's about how you click with that person, and a relationship has different stages. Once sparkles fade waway, you have to continue to support each other as someone you would love/support like your family. But of course this rests my case, I would like to know your thoughts on my point of view :)
wow the moment i met this girl in college who i already though was out of my league was the moment wong fu update a video about is she out my league? my answer is yes she's out of my league idk if i even want 2 try i think she really beautiful but i got that feeling i just want 2 be good friends with her
I could definitely score Phil and Taylor coz I'm smart and funny and they both really make me smile and laugh 😉 and I've even maybe have a chance with Ashely........ okay maybe not 😅🤗😘 but Mike is DEFINITELY out of my league!! 🔥😳😍🤤🙈
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I totally agree with you guys. I feel like when you definitely have a crush on someone, you automatically jump to the conclusion that they're too good for you, and that you're out of their league.. Sigh...
Britany Cheung truuuuu
Britany Cheung retweeeeet😫 like how can u tell if that's how the other person thinks too???? (like you're out of their league bc they're psyching themselves out??) struggle bussss
"If you like them, it's either a yes or no.
But if you don't even ask them, it's automatically no. There's zero chance of it being a yes. "
- Mike Bow 2017
Iva Le Word of Wisdoms of Mike 2017
Iva Le "you miss one hundred percent of the shots that you don't take" (sorry Ryan don't hit me)
AndromedaMoon *teehee*
this seems very "Wong Fu"
to quote him from earlier in this video ;)
why you hitting me with logic
Phil brushing Taylor's hair back 😂 I kept rewinding and watching it again...
I thought it was really cute HAHA
Yeah I came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed that.
It's also funny because this sin't the first time this has happened lol
Dude! I know! Omg, I was flipping out, especially because nobody said anything or even acknowledged it! Hahaha. Just kept eating lunch unphased
because he like showing affection to his homies/bros like i do with my guy friends LOL even doe we all straight
"If they reject you, they are the one actually out of your league" ...All the girls have been out of my league then... should of known my fat ass was handsome all along
Jack Illest LOL... looking at the glass half full 😂
Linda, holla at me
#1 laugh at your jokes
I knew someone would comment this :D
Im so proud of myself out of 114 lunch breaks that Ive watched today's the first time Im watching your show during lunch while eating my lunch. *pats self at the back*
Josef Hojas you did it. You finally did it!👏🏼👏🏼
Lol Wong Fu does do a lot of stuff about relationships and dating, but that's part of their appeal, it's relatable
When I was very young, I had an older brother. Every time my Mother introduced us to people, she would point to my older brother and say, "He's the first born. He's the good looking one". Then she point to me and say, "He's our second born". Because of that, I thought I was ugly and grew up extremely shy. I thought I was too ugly for any girl to talk to me. I every night I would pray to God, "Please make me look like some else". Every morning, I'd look in the mirror and be disappointed. There were only 2 girls I would ever talk to. My sister and a girl I've known since I was 2. Any way, when I started school, there was a girl named Rachel who would chase me around during recess and lunch trying to kiss me. I dreaded those times till her family moved to New York. I got my first "crush" in Junior High. Her name was Eileen. I thought someone like her could never like someone like me. While grocery shopping for my Mother, Eileen was there with her Mother and said "Hi" as we past. It was too far beyond my comprehension to imagine she would talk to me so I ignored it and walked on. There was a school formal in the evening so my Mother made me go to chaperone my older brother. While I was sitting there watching every one dance, a group of girls from my class walked up and said Eileen wanted to dance with me. I thought they were teasing me and said no! So 4 girls grabbed me to drag me over. I broke free and jumped out of the nearest window. I sat outside till the dance was over. I carried that "crush" all the way through High School. I would never look at another girl. My first day of College, I walk into class and across the room, I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She was laughing and smiling while 3 guys were crowded around listening and talking to her. I imagined she must have been the mos popular girl in her High School, probably the Prom Queen. I hate popular girl so I made up my mind I didn't like her. Halfway through the semester, another girl in class who was White, asked me to have lunch with her. Funny, I never noticed her or talked to her, yet she wanted to have lunch together. While talking, I learned she had a boyfriend so I couldn't understand why she wanted to have lunch with me. After that, we always hung out together. When Summer rolled around, she dumped her boyfriend and asked me to be her boyfriend. After College, we married but it only lasted 3 years. I became a street racer so we never saw each other and we mutually decided to end the marriage. I had several girls I dated until my roommate set me up with his Boss's daughter. My roommate liked her girlfriend so he needed me as a wingman. I could stand the girl but he begged me to go along. One month later she moved in without asking. A month and half later, I told her to get out. From my first day of College, 20 years later, I ran into the girl I thought was too beautiful for me. She asked me out to dinner and married a year later. We are 66 now, retired and couldn't be happier. I don't know what she sees in me so I asked. She said I make her laugh,,,so I guess looks aren't everything.
Damn that's a hell long of a story (literally). At first I was like, yeah he must be a teenager, then... ok maybe highschool.. college? yeah 30s maybe... 66? Well that escalated quickly! Thanks for sharing, sir!
I decided to click the read more button expecting that it would just be a short story. Yup! it is long but I have learned something from it. Thanks for sharing Sir Rick!
bro this is too long... shorten this shit lmao
@@tha1ne lmao how you shorted a story of a 66 year old you dumb dumb
From the first few lines about your mums saying your older brother cut out all the middle bit. Talk about the girl you thought was too hot for you then eg ( I dated loads of girls that didn’t work out). Then skip to the part “ 20 years after college”
It's all relative! The question you should ask yourself is, "Is He or She in my league?" If you can answer this question truthfully, you will be able to find more dates. Try this. It works. Take care and happy dating. 😁❤
Kev C - Yo, I just asked this girl who I thought was in my league to meet for coffee and it worked. Thanks, bro!
This should be top comment. There is no such thing as league. We just need to get over the fear and embarrassment of rejection.
Or even: "Do I like this person enough where I'm willing to take a risk and be brave and just say something?"
Kev C I wasn't being picky but I asked this girl out who I thought was in my league. Like you said, she is more my type and I was being very realistic with myself and not just ask the prettiest girl out. As long as you are being honest with yourself, this does work. Than you so much.
"'You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky' - Michael Scott" - Mike Bow
Only slightly disappointed this had nothing to do with League. I thought they'd relate everything to LoL somehow. 😂
UnderscoreBrian YO SAME LOL
CSGO to hell
UnderscoreBrian Same I saw the thumbnail and got excited hahaha
love these dating advice lunch breaks LOL. i think we forget to remember that we have great traits that other people are trying to improve on. we each have something desirable in us that is worthy of someone's attention.
I love that this topic has Ashley in it! Her special something something's username is LeagueBoyy. So her catch phrase is, "Not so out of my LeagueBoyy." Just sayyying #Notsooutofmyleagueboyy
SHE DON'T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE!
TyeMaiShuPLEASE 😂
I literally thought Phil caressed Taylor's hair because of what he said. Like "Yes, good TayTay! That's beautifully phrased.." 😂😂
Taylor is out of my league. He will never notice me...
iwillgiveyouapassion same
Sup 😎
Taylor Chan STILL OUT OF MY LEAGUE
Isn't he already accounted for?
iwillgiveyouapassion if taylor is out your league does that mean Phil is out of mine 😞
luuuuuunch break!! *does the hand thing by myself*
I unfortunately learned the hard way that the guys I've dated where never on the same level as me. And everything changed when I learned to love myself. Now it's super difficult to find someone who is actually worth my time and effort. I can't settle for B.S. and I won't settle for B.S.
I have goals that I'm working towards and if we can't help each other to be better and to do better, there is no point in me trying anything with you.
I'm all for love and affection but as my parents always say, "Love don't pay the bills."
Tay is out of everyone's league. 😢 That's just how awesome he is.🤙
After being in China, I've realized $ is more important than looks for men. A man with $, can get a pretty Chinese bride. You can be handsome, but you won't get a bride out there. In North America, it's all about what they say as 'confidence'. Confidence is having self worth and having high self-esteem. A confident person doesn't need to 'front' to make a great first impression. A healthy self esteem and a decisive person who doesn't make any hesitations or regrets for his/her actions such as making that first date move is what women want in North America. Let's face it, majority of us guys in North America gotta still make the first initiation of greeting, then asking for follow up, then date and then finishing off with a move to confirm intentions. League is like hype, it's all a facade.
as a 22 yr old when i see a girl i find attractive with a very successful occupation it makes me feel like shes outta my league when i know i shouldnt feel that way D: great vid again tho wongfu!
Hey Wong Fu Crew! I've been binge watching both of your channels for the past week, and with all the crazy transitions in my life right now, I want to thank you for cheering me up with your funny, insightful, and uplifting videos. Your storytelling is so heartfelt and moving, and has brought me some much-needed laughs and positive energy. Thank you, Wong Fu!
I think you're absolutely right about how each person has a different definition of what is a "league" and that it's important that the other person makes you want to be a better version of yourself. My bf, who I see as someone out of my league, pushes me to further my career and education. In return, he says I push him to enjoy life more and spend more time with his family and not be 120% focus on just his career. It really balances us out.
For every relationship, there's the "reacher" and there's the "settler." I'm clearly the "reacher" with my wife LOL.
So do u guys believe (like what they've talked about in how I met ur mother) that in relationships there's a reacher and a settler? So someone who is in a higher league who's with someone in a lower league? And like that has nothing to do with their attraction to each other but it kinda makes a dynamic of the relationship, like the settler typically doesn't get jealous easily (love y'all I wish I had food right now XD)
that definitely does exist but less frequent in healthy long lasting relationships. or if it does exist it exist both ways where both people think they are reaching and their partner is settling.
Sabrina Thai I'm late to this vid/conversation but I thought your question was excellent so I felt the need to respond. I do agree that there are reachers and settlers, however my personal take is that in a healthy relationship that particular element is very fluid. I believe that people have strengths and weaknesses and hopefully the person that you partner with enhances your strengths and provides a positive impact to encourage you to improve your weaknesses... in a relationship you are reaching and settling. I don't buy into the concept that good relationships are 50/50 or 100\100. More ying and yang on many levels. I believe when the relationship is unhealthy then one partner is either reaching or settling the vast majority of the time.
a guy did a "pentakill" on my self-esteem when he said I wasn't good enough for him. Honestly, found the love of my life soon after. Everything happens for a reason :P
Phil and Mike, I feel like you two started it off with what most of us think and feel about it and got to the core reasons behind "leagues", and both Ashley and Taylor had unique insights on what subconsciously goes into those thoughts. Great discussion :)
Taylor, I am one who will laugh at all your jokes!❤️
Awe how sweet
Wong Fu + Mike Bow = Always the best episode/story/everything!!
ok in fairness i'm only halfway so idk what they'll say more about this, but need to comment before I forget -- I believe there is such thing as a 'league', and in my personal opinion this usually comes down to how mature or sure of yourself are you. when people are 'out of my league' I often feel like they're already in a different level of maturity (much better) than me and wouldn't want to bother dating someone as myself who's still figure out different things in life.
Got trapped by the league pic
If Taylor and Mike could finally get together as a couple, that would be great.
THUMB NAIL IS GREAT
And Taylor bringing it up at the start
did you guys see Phil's love for Taylor at 7:32-7:35....guys, this is the kind of work friends you wanna have.
When Ashley looked up at 2:20 and said ugh those people suck idk why but I burst out laughing. Such a relatable sentiment that can be applied to so many situations
Lowkey thought there was also gonna be leagueboy cuz of the title lol
Name same
could you guys do an episode where you talk about the concept if indians not being considered asian? i would really like to see you guy's thoughts on the subject
1) Phil mentions needing humor, 2) says something about Taylor needing a girl who laughs at his jokes, 3) Ashley laughs at Phil's joke. Hmmmm? What could this mean???
did you guys change the motto / phrase on the team page of the website?? xD i checked it after seeing the screencap in the video, and it's not the same!!!! hahaha
This is How We Never Met league version. "She's cute. She's out of my league." "He's cute. He's out of my leaghe."
Awwwww I wish they will have a project or a sketch to work with Osric Chau >
Yep, *every* girl is out of my league
That Brown Guy that's not true. Think of Honey Boo boo's mom or something, I'm sure you're waaaay out of her league (I'm not sure if I'm helping or making it worse)
Flynn Rider
I think you just made it a tad worse, yeah definitely a lot more worse
That Brown Guy sincerest apologies, I'll do better 😁
What rank are you?
Flynn Rider "Honey Boo boo's mom" you had me laughing so hard, I forgot about her 😂😂😂
Maybe one could see it more from the point of being on the same wavelength than in the same league? League has a negative connotation to it considering it is used as a sports term. In that sense, you have to work your way up to be in that league but in social relationships its more of a 'do our interests align at some point.'
Totally agree. We desire people that we hold above ourselves, we see their traits as the things we want to have in our lives. And completely agree that relationship should help us grow and inspire us to be a better version of ourselves.
On the side note, Phil will you go out with me? Let's be better together 😂😂
When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he told me that he thought he was out of my league. At the time, I was really confused and dumbfounded that he saw me that way. Many people tend to put themselves down and think we're not good enough for the person we like. But in reality, maybe we are seen as amazing in that other person's eyes. I def agree that in the end, the leagues that people make up are totally subjective and that these leagues shouldn't let us get in the way of being happy and being with a person.
omg Phil is such a Dad™ these days... first that thing with Jen and wanting to third wheel on her phone conversations and now fixing Taylor's hair
i ordered Chinese food while watching this video. i hope u r happy about urself
"I actually heard a story... about a girl giving a guy a chance. I was like 'What? That's so interesting!'"
I just watched this ep and realized...Phil like a dad to Taylor. so cute^^ BTW pls come to Bangkok :]]
This lunch break is at my top!
Thank you Wong Fu
Haven't been on yt for like a month but no hesitation watching this video first out of my excessive watch later list
That hair slick though. Like Phil does it all the time.
Taylor's comment about liking what we don't have is totally me. For whatever reason I like all the guys "out of my league" that I have no chance with, while I'm indifferent to the guys I do have a chance with.
(P.S. Guys out of my league also unfortunately include you Mike 😭)
I see Mike Bow and Tay Tay and I am already excited
Taylor didn't even move a bit when Phil stroked his hair 😂
I was hoping for tons of LoL puns. I am utterly disappointed.
Keno What puns? I think it was just a cowincidence.
I feel like every guy I have been attracted to is out of my league ^^"
I'm still in high school and for us there's sort of a league or more of a class thing where you're grouped by age or by grade like senior, junior, sophomore and freshmen. It's like if a freshmen were dating a senior then the freshmen would be sort of looked up upon by their peers almost. Also there's a sort of league for the different schools. Like you know which schools are better by their look, by how big they are but also by their sports. For us we see this one school as great at everything, academics and sports and if you were dating a person from a particular school then they could be out of your league.
You guys need to make podcassttsss I'd listen all day erreday
I love how at first Taylor picks up the chop sticks only to immediately put it down when Phil starts talking lolXD
I love Taylor's words on how we always want someone who has traits that we aspire to have 👍
What do you think about things like education level (college graduate vs not) and socioeconomic background (family/class) and "status" (lawyer/doctor v waiter/barista)?
Do you think those are valid deal-breakers - particularly if there is a wide gap between the two people in those aspects?
You mostly discussed whether you should try to date "above" your league... But do you think you would be keen/willing to date "below" your league?
Also: does it matter to you how your parents would react if you brought home someone from a very different upbringing (mainly economic rather than cultural), particularly from a less well-off or educated family?
Asking for a friend... 😂 HELP ME
But really this is a very interesting topic - thanks for a thought-provoking discussion!
Perfect timing. I just sat down to eat 😊
When Taylor started singing "riff raff, street rat" I literally laughed out loud
You ever listen to someone talk, hear the references they use and see their humor and think, "this person is just like me. I have said that exact same thing. I use those references too, all the time!" Yeah, that's me with Phil lol the way our minds work are crazy similar and we have never met. Whoa!!
Hello I am here, sorry I am late but I am so excited to watch thissss!!!
Yeah, it's not really about looks, it's more about the other person's whole social situation and how they handle it. You can meet a super rich, successful and handsome guy, but if he's all chill and down to earth, he won't be out of your league.
it sounds like a lot of what they were describing comes down to status, which would make sense. I agree with Phil, that it's all in your mind and you shouldn't let it hold you back. ultimately, "leagues" are just like other social constructs and don't truly exist unless you believe it. I don't believe in leagues, I think it's just a matter of what your personal standards are, and if it's a good fit. I wouldn't care if someone had less money or was in a "lower league" if our personalities were a good fit. if someone is going to be quick to judge you for not "being in their league" then you don't want to be with them anyway.
yesss Mike on lunch break :)
I can relate to what Phil is saying about not being good enough for the family. One of the reasons why the guy I liked turned me down is that his family will never accept the relationship as I do not share their nationality and religion.
I am a simple man. I see wongfu talking about dating and the league of legends logo i click video.
Wow, 400plus no dislike. Wong fu fans are awesome.
Im a simple man, If I see Wong fu and league, I click
I binge watch this series lol
HAHAH success
League story।
I used to like a guy in 10th actually, I called him doll eyes because I thought they were very beautiful and he helped me in maths during the break, he was a pretty smart person actually and just like two months back I got to know he liked me around that time which really surprised me because I really thought that there is no way a smart guy like him would like a girl like me who was bad at maths etc but yeah now that his best friend told me about this I'm actually contemplating to just come clean at farewell since I'm in my senior year and see if he wants to I dunno go on a date maybe. Obviously I am dreading it and I don't even know if I should give it a shot but I'm sure I'm still attracted to him but then again I wonder if he would want to or not since we don't talk that much anymore। Dkkfkf either way wish me luck lol kdkfkf
Boy: you wanna go out?
Me: are you Kim Taehyung?
Boy: who?
Me: exactly *hair flips and walks away*
I'M CRINE
Omg!!!! Why is that me??? But replace him with Jungkook. I love tae but Jungkook is forever my bias.
Me: Are you BTS? Billboard singer?
Boy: Wut
Me: Exactly *hair flips, walks away*
(Because I would literally date any of them. 😂)
Not that Tae isn't handsome or anything, but I'm SO glad my perception of beauty isn't aligned with everyone else's, lol. I mean if you youtube search "Kim Taehyung" one of the vids that come up is "Is Kim Taehyung perfect?" and we all know how he's basically an embodiment of most Korean and not only beauty standards... And I'm like "I don't see the appeal..." lol. But I just can't stop staring at random people that are not at all famous or better yet random people on the streets like "YOU. DAMN." :D
I mean I can't imagine if someone notorious for their looks had MY favorite aesthetics. That would feel somehow... lonely, exactly because everyone else also thinks like me.
I'm far more content saving random people's photos that noone knows of, that I just found on the internet searching for something else. :D
Molly Pop hi fellow ARMYs, and DP twin
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I hope Im in Phils league ☺️😂 Great video!
I keep observing Ash's face bcs this reminds me of her IG caption (Notsooutofmyleagueboy) LOL.
I've thought about this, but I've stopped labeling it as "league," so I was surprised this was really relatable... damn, I've always thought they were out of my league...
The way Taylor holds chopsticks 😂
Can you do a lunch break about home-made bentos? Thanks in advance!
omg why does this remind me of a middle school seminar 😂
But but, I think, no, I know Mike Bow is out of my league 😂😭
Notice- ashley gets closer to mike throughout the lunch
MIKE! MY BOIII HEY WONGFU FAM #snapchatfam
So the next time o see Phil down the street, I'm gonna go ahead and approach him because wongfu said so 😂
Yoooo! Taylor's skin is looking good as hell
Lol I'm sure anyone would be upset if they didn't get to sit next to someone as cool as Taylor ;)
Can you guys do a video where you actually try league?
An idea to bring back failed it or first.
Plz.
The matching hypothesis is a real thing.
Love you guys!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wong Fu for life!
Did anyone else felt that Ash likes Mike?
Agree!!!
Phillip Lee she's dating someone already!!
and funnily enough, her bf's ig is @leagueboyy
Bella Sone Hahaha..He's surely in her league
*LYFE
hello wong fu! its 2:30am over here... #insomnia
7:34 Does nobody care that Phil fixed Taylor's hair for him?!
I do put myself on a league hierarchy and I do see other people on different leagues... this is very unfortunate. However, I did have crushes over girls that my friends did tell me I could do better. I think when you start to think about LEAGUES RANKING when it comes to a girl/boy you would potentially partner with, then it's not real love. In the end, it's about how you click with that person, and a relationship has different stages. Once sparkles fade waway, you have to continue to support each other as someone you would love/support like your family. But of course this rests my case, I would like to know your thoughts on my point of view :)
wow the moment i met this girl in college who i already though was out of my league was the moment wong fu update a video about is she out my league? my answer is yes she's out of my league idk if i even want 2 try i think she really beautiful but i got that feeling i just want 2 be good friends with her
Taylor was so on point in this video. Yes buddy
I could definitely score Phil and Taylor coz I'm smart and funny and they both really make me smile and laugh 😉 and I've even maybe have a chance with Ashely........ okay maybe not 😅🤗😘 but Mike is DEFINITELY out of my league!! 🔥😳😍🤤🙈
Love this!
Did Mike just avoid a fat hair on his food @ 3:02??????
7:32 big props to Phil