They don’t think what they did or left behind was wrong. They believe their own lies and that’s how they sleep like babies! They can pretend to be religious, god fearing , civil people but the ones at the receiving end were shown their true colors by God himself. And if that ain’t something! Lying, cheating, no remorse and ZERO integrity. They DID hurt us intentionally and the Almighty knows that. They are being tested, not us. And they are failing miserably! They will get what’s coming for them.
They will never have a happy life and that's why they change women trying to look for happiness, but will never be happy. They destroy themselves, while believing in their own lies.
A smile with dead eyes. My ex did the same thing, his eyes were sad and dead. I broke him and I could see it. Plus he knows she’s ugly af and I’m kinda cute if I do say so myself 😉 so I know he knows I was clowning her and he couldn’t be proud to have her on his arm.
Variant Variant true, their eyes are empty and when angry possessed... I see things in people’s eyes. Eyes flicker. Eyes are a portal to the truth behind a soul. That’s why I say, they always will live a life of sorrow and pain. You indeed can break a narcissist, be aware you don’t take yourself down in the proces love, a super empath can go far and adopt narcissistic traits. Practise that will affect you too ❤️ and you need to clear that energy too. You deserve better
So they're demons walking the earth basically. 🤔 never thought about this but maybe the victims they chose are more of a threat to them and this is why they try to break us. Especially empaths. I questioned so many things with him and it irritated him, he would always say " I hate repeating myself, why dont you ever listen " I would always say if something doesn't sit well with me I cant let it go. I think he saw I was starting to wake from my haze.
@@Snicoleliving yes this was so me. After my ex narc cheated on me and I genuinely tried to forgive and let it go quite a few times. My spirit began to constantly wrestle with me. Feelings that I could not ignore. It's as if the universe was screaming HEYYYYYYY he's a cheater and a liar. I just couldn't walk away. A super empath and co dependent. I had lost myself in him and in the person I so desperately wanted him to be when I first met him. The more and more my feelings bothered the more I questioned him and the more the more angered and irritated with me I became. His anger would turn into rage and hate. I could literally see evil in his eyes when I looked at him. Even in those moments I still wanted to understand him and love him. He told me I was crazy. He would say he know he hurt me and that hurting me hurt me and he would never do it again. That the feelings I was having was a result of me not letting go to.the previous inflictions of pain he had caused on my heart. He would threaten if I didn't learn to let go of the past and move on I would never have a happy relationship. He would he just wanted to be in peace and be happy and he couldn't do that with my constantly questioning him and not trusting him. I know now a sensible healthy person would've took him for face value and just left him when he kept cheating, but of course I lived by the everyone makes mistakes philosophy. Not realizing the difference between mistakes and character flaws. I spent 3 years with him. We were engaged..now being out of the relationship I realize even the proposal was a hoover tactic to get my full trust and love back.because I had once again caught him cheating. I mean we were in the middle of me trying to.break.up with him when he fell to.his knees and proposed my gut told me then it was bullshit and to.say no. Of course not wanting to be alone and the embarrassment of what others would say kept me with him and accepting the apology. He left me 3 different times during the relationship each time staying gone longer than the others. When he would.leave he would always go back to the city that what most familiar with him. This place was also the place my spirit felt most uncomfortable with him being. Even though he always told.me when we met that he didn't date women from there because most of them were what we would call whores I didn't believe it. This was his stomping grounds but he never took me around ANY of the people he spent majority of his.time with any time we went there to.visit we stayed no more than 2 hours. Anyone who really knew his personality or he was it's like he wanted to.keep me away from.these people. When I met him, him.and his.mother were not speaking they had a terrible relationship. She tried to.warn me about her son and the.numerous of broken women he already left in his path. She told me, " my son doesn't come around me or this side.of his family because he knows I won't condone that ignorant behavior. He goes where that is accepted and he won't be held accountable. Everything all made sense after a while. He last discarded me May 27th and.on June 5th he was in a new relationship. My intuition tells.me this woman has been around I just didn't catch him this time. It hurt to see him so quickly move on I kept questioning maybe I was really the problem..maybe he did stop cheating and my constant questioning pushed him away, but if I was wrong why would I continually get the feeling not to trust him everytime that I would try. I ultimately think he left me because my blinders start coming off. I refuse to.just give him my trust or the same treatment he was once used to. He couldn't maneuver how he wanted to play with his various supply. So he got rid of what stood in the way which was me but not until he had someone else to torture me with. Everyday for.me is a battle of the mind. Knowing I'm not crazy and yes my feelings were right. I won't stop fighting and I will.win.
J All Day! Well, I can tell you this much, there is a spiritual theory that enlightened people will be attacked by evil spirits, usually have a hard knock past life and are destracted from their purpose... do I personally believe this? Yes I do. Is it true? Rationally in the vortex everyone is pure, narcs are who they are because of to little or to much hugs in their childhood so if it’s true on a psychological level... that empaths want to help narcs is a natural feeling but then again, if you help a person who is in a bad place (doesn’t matter spiritually or psychologically) you need to keep your own mental health in check. I wouldn’t recommend staying in a relationship with a person who you do not feel safe with. That is not your soulmate. And more importantly, you will loose yourself in the process. Look, healthy relationships is something big, a lot of people including myself get and stay in relationships who are similar to what you’ve experienced in childhood. As an empath I do hold myself accountable for my part in my experience with a couple of narcissist, lack of boundaries, with someone for the wrong reasons, no high standards. And as an empath you want to save the world so if a person in need (a narc) meets a person strong enough to safe that world ( because we can) you have a match made in hell. I repeat. In hell. The devil is real and I’m spiritual on a universal level, it might not go by the name devil but everything has a contrast and the contrast of good is? Don’t give your strength away. You need it for your life’s purpose. If he was your purpose? You wouldn’t feel this way I’ll promise you. 🙏🏽❤️
Indiah Indiah you know that’s the devil The narc I was with was covert with me I told him from the beginning Our lifestyle is God first So he couldn’t play that with me
I listened to my spirit, which told me my ex-husband's friend of 30 years wanted him, and he played cat and mouse with her for years. No good reason why I was never introduced to this "friend" other than them being exposed. Well, they are finally together. He didn't even boss-up. She is a jack-toothed, no-edges, Allie-Cat who dug in the trash after I told him to get his stealing, game-playing, lying, ghetto-ass out of my life. Of course, they skipped down Narc Road and posted the Narc-Facebook pics, for everyone to see, and then he sent me a friend request a day later - to make sure I saw the pics (LOL). I DM'd him; Have a nice life and no thanks. They deserve each other. They are both wicked and sick. I couldn't wait to get that demon out of my house for good! #BoyBye #Peace&Tranquility
Shana Bishop Popcorn and soda ready. But, truth be told - they’ve known each other for so long over the years they have both thrown each other under the bus, with their belongings! They both thrive off drama and negativity. We’ll see...
I was devastated hearing the narc tell me he was doing everything i asked him to do when we was together with the new supply.Then I foundout it was all a lie.He was exactly the same person he was with me.Just wanted me to fall for it and take him back.They dnt change and if they do they get worse not better.We all need to understand that we are lucky to not be the supply anymore.It hurts but not as bad as looking into their dead evil eyes.Or worse that creepy narc smile when they plotting against u secretly.U lay in bed thinking u love them and they lay in bed thinking what can i do to hurt her next.
ExNarc knows they couldn’t break me Empaths can take a lot of pain and pressure Narcissist know this But remember if you weren’t the best supply they ever had they wouldn’t try to destroy you You are not the trash The trash took itself out Isn’t that wonderful to know they know you’re too good for them Believe it or believe it the devil wants to sift you as wheat or flour Use this to better yourself Do something positive Open that business Buy yourself flowers and chill Draw something Write something But most of all watch these videos Only the positive ones Try speaking to other Empaths Don’t go on dating sites they’re a cesspool of Narcissist Trust me I know Lol
Yes I agree with you cut the narcissist off stop giving them fuel (supply) go no contact I went total blackout delete all social media accounts change phone and email moved to another state. Watch alot of RUclips videos on narcissism, codependency, and trauma bonding. Also helps to read self help books Boundaries when to say yes how to say no by Henry Cloud and Robert Townsend Codependent No More by Melody Beattie The Search For Significance by Robert McGee Healing The Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw False Intimacy by Harry Schaumburg
ATP forever..ANOINTED TO PRAISE 👍 GIRL I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT KEEP GROWING AND KEEP LEARNING, SURVIVING AND KEEP BEING YOU, MY BEAUTIFUL NS !!!!!!!!
As a daughter of God, I am worthy of love and all else good. That demon son of satan knew exactly what he was doing and how he hurt me as well as others. He saw my purity and wanted to destroy it. He even tried to use God against me. That is the biggest mistake he made and it woke me up. I am naive no longer. The new supply knew he was taken but she still entered his realm. I don’t pity the NS; she chose to cheat with him. She will learn the hard way. In Jesus name, I will continue healing and progress beyond surviving to thriving.
Same she knew about me. I tell you He was single when I met him. The old supply had left him a little over a year before meeting me. That says alot about the new supply and how cheap she is.
They like "cheap". The NS knew about me too. She told me, after we met. This fool said, "I found a pair of your panties in the bed one night." I asked her, "And you still got in it???' I would have burned the bed down to the ground!! The NS, who has stuck around through his marriage, engagement and me...called my job more than once. She did all kinds of stuff. So, what she gets, she deserves too! She even told me that when he was engaged before me, that she and him would go to hotels to see each other! May they both live in hell together!
I feel you I don’t have no more sympathy for them pieces of 💩💩💩💩 2020 is exposing. I’m tired of being a emotional doormat I got my armor on in fight back mode. Enough is enough
And I am tired of those making excuses for them say they must have gone through difficult childhood. They not the only ones that went through that but some of us are not going around hurting people. They were born evil the bad childhood just happened to ignite it but the thing is anything could ignite it in there life. These people are not human I almost lost my life.
Exactly, I told my ex he love portraying himself as a family man at home but outside he’s a different person being in everybody’s face his eyes got big like he was shocked I said it! Nothing but attention seekers🙄
I do. My ex narc was addicted to Facebook, since she left she never uploaded anything. Three months. The new victim has put a few posts and photos together looking happy with himself. But still single status. Quite strange. She lives with him. But she is back in town looking sour. She ghosted me when she left. Blocked me on messenger. I told her exactly what and how she did the devaluation and discard. I would love to know whats going on in her head.
That part , new supply is supply without boundaries 🎯💯. I know that’s true because I was once new supply without boundaries. No more to God be the Glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@mrsnolongergiveafck4658 IT WILL happened sure ENOUGH it will be so LIBERATING. FOR YOU WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN KARMAS A BITCH STAY STRONG GOD WILL NEVER BLESS THE WICKED 🙏🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼
Lord have mercy. Went thru the discard after finding out i was being cheated on by the forever supply. Thought she was new but sis had bn around yrs before me. Now it all makes sense- the random attitudes and mood changes. The random silent treatments... when i exposed that fool, it was lights out for his ass. Almost a full month NC. These days feel so long but healing is upon me. All thanks yo Christ, and thank you Hario. Thank you for clarifying and confirming I’m not crazy.
It’s sooo weird to see and read my exact situation but lived thru others lives. Same exact story but with my narc ex gf. All the classic phases , love bombing , future faking and shortly after devalue and discard. I lived and watched this rerun of life for 3 almost 4 years till I just had enough and Went NC and it’s hard af due to this pandemic and quarantine.....we cohabitate so I’m counting down days and forming my way out. Be blessed and thank you for sharing. 🙏
Joey Nelson i stayed a bit longer than 2yrs. We never lived together and now i see why- his hands were full with his harem. And you’re right- quarantine makes things that more difficult. When i struggle to find a means to distract myself, i turn to my Bible or virtual church. I’m sure it’s hard cohabitating but find some positive distraction in the meantime. God bless you as well.
Teri LaRue Thank you and indeed you are right. I won’t front it gets tricky a lot of times and days but she crossed a line that made me supernova and for the past few days around her I feel on fire not with anger though. Like all my senses are heightened and I feel arrogance around her. She gives blank stares like she is biting her tongue to speak but can’t. It’s a funny exchange because the moment she does talk again (discard phase #30 something) I’m ready to rip her mask off and give her what I have been holding back and in for the longest. Quick and sharp straight to the point realism on who she is, how long I’ve known and how I know I can conjure this spirit in her anytime I want and also injure her more than she does to herself already. I took and charged sooo much to life and dealing with her that it’s time I open up and spill onto her what she has been spilling onto me. I appreciate you for sharing and telling because it’s enlightening to see I’m not alone in this. Have a good day and thank you again beauty 🙏
My female nex cheated with her forever supply(ex husband also a narc) from the jump of our relationship. She even told me in not so many words but when you know their mind games you learn that they are telling you who they are cheating with. Her story was "my ex and I booked the same Marriot(they were attending a white coat ceremony for their daughter's acceptance into medical school) but it was a coincidence". Complete BS they booked the hotel knowing they were going to cheat. Her ex was engaged at the time and a year later he married the other woman but neither the ex's fiance' or I were invited. Very convenient. She also cheated with her ex's best friend who is married to one of her best friends and former college roomates. They always sleep with people right in their circle. She even introduced me to the new supply 3 weeks before we broke up although she never actively did so. We just conveninently ran into this person on our morning walk. The walk route was carefully selected and was the most common route we took her dog on so this joker could see us together and she was using me to make him jealous. Believe me it would not have worked the other way around, this guy is older than me dumpy unattractive and a pathetic doormat. I am nearly 100% certain this was the person she was with before me because she has lived in this neighborhood since 2014 the year her divorce was final. Once you understand how narcs operate it becomes very clear what they are doing. Oh he took out my trash and he can keep her! LOL
Everytime he with supply don't answer calls block me 😤 I call all other side pieces that I recall 😂 its several 😂 then they call him 😂 then he mad top flight😡🤷
Indiah Indiah I saw my van last week goofy girl was driving it he was on the passenger side but guess what I was doing at the time With the contractors and my new executive director of operations at the building that I’ve been claiming for 8 years for my funeral home He knows that I claimed it every time I would pass it everyday On my way! To school I don’t want that van he’s not paying the note
When my ex narc left after 20 years together, it was like a big weight had lifted off me. Thank you Lord I’m finally free! Now I’m stronger, wiser and better! I can finally breathe and I’m now living my BEST LIFE!!!! ♥️🤗
"A narc is only effective if you don't know who they are" ... After a 6 year long relationship I still don't know who was living in my house with me, sleeping next to me. It's the most violating realization I have come to after 1 year no contact.
My Nex ran back to the dude she was messing with (that she discarded for me), and is acting like all is gravy. Yet behind closed doors...the story is a mess. I wouldn’t want to be in her shoes for $500B dollars. She left a trail of lies and deceit, has hurt several people (children included). She can post all she wants about this new guy...while I heal and be the man and father I need to be for our little girl. That’s my purpose. God/Universe/Karma will deal with my Nex.
Oh my goodness 😱 the same thing just happened to me. How can they do that to their kids. They think its burger king out here "have it your way" or at their convenience they can be parents. It's nice to hear that there are stand up dads out there. I'm a proud single mom. My kids are a blessing and a joy. I'm never looking back. Keep fighting the good fight. You deserve to be happy and you are competent, responsible, and with dignity. Put God 1st and forgive her.
been there myself. they self destruct.. found out last year who my ex really is and it only gets worse. stay away and dont trust them ever again. they are rotten
My narc husband did it too me on our job.After 11yrs together and walking around now on the job with his chest stuck out like he did something Talking about he at peace now. 4 months after our ten year wedding renewal and discarded me and they live together now We're not legally separated or divorced. But he scraped the bottom barrel with this sewer rat. No joke!!! The woman envied our life style
Wendy Clark same story but I was discarded 2 weeks after our 10th year anniversary The supplies / harem garbage watched it /exnarc go from the gutter to the church with suits and cars and clean cut lifestyle single home I met this trashy demon on a bike and 170 lbs to 3 cars new off the lot and 240 lbs and new teeth dentures Now it’s back to cracked dentures snag teeth same clothes I bought a year ago We Empaths have kept them looking like somebody They couldn’t keep up the cleanliness because demons can’t stay in the spirit of love ❤️ it’s too pure Be Encouraged God did us a favor Take your power back live on!!!
@@atpforever..anointedtoprai3284 I also cleaned up his trailer park tell from Alabama, I'm a Georgia peach. He didn't have anything and I realized he targeted me and gas lighted me. I saw the signs or red flags, but I loved him truly in spite of, wishing and praying that the light inside of me would jump into his evil 11yrs of cheating ass. He always went low never on his wife level. I say towards them nothing from nothing equal Nothing.
Be strong. Stay out of the gossip and drop. You are good. Pray for the other supply. Please, please protect you and yours. Dont let your children hear ANY OF IT. The narcissists poison will hurt your children if they hear about any of it. In this way, he has hurt you and yours. Just shut him out!
@@atpforever..anointedtoprai3284 We must NEVER SEE THE POTENTIAL. THEY NEED TO DO THAT BEFORE COMING INTO OUR LIVES. They are users with only fake giving. Every kindness from them is backed by the darkest evil and resentment. Everything they do has a big secret motive: destroy you. Everything. Even replacing a lightbulb. Everything. And if they if something nice, it is because they are rewarding you for you not knowing that they just slept with someone one else. Trust your gut! Trust me.
@@wendyclark1002 well...you sound like you could start a Non Fof Profit business helping people. Maybe staging their homes for sale. You have do much to offer.BUT REMEMBER: Donf throw your pearls before swine. Bible.
The new supply is just the next victim. Never feel jealous of the temporary kindness your ex narc is showing the new (or previous and now renewed) supply. Put it into perspective, your narc will NEVER be happy, it’s not possible. Being content and happy doesn’t exist in their world.
Yessss he actually admitted he never likef me .....he married me three yrs into our relationship then .....acted the fool totally began to disrespect me i just want to win ,i left town got a degree to be a flight attendant i left a 20+yr nursing career im a women of great price a Christian ,my spirit yesss knows the truth the word said dark and light cannot walk together omg this one is good for me
They use the victim card as their ace in the hole!!! Your absolutely right about them not wanting to be held accountable! Listening & being led by my spirit & intuition! Been no contact 8 months!
Hello Hario! I heard the Lord tell me on Tuesday that I was in the fight of my life, but I know God is in control. I know God is bringing me out of my marriage of 17 years to a narc. Everyday I find myself getting stronger and stronger. Thank you for all the good info you give. Be blessed Hario!! I DECLARE WAR ON THE NARCISSIST!!!!
Thank you so much ❤🙏 My abusive ex and his new supply truly have tortured me and God knows I've held onto my faith because man does it hurt to have her pick up MY SON from MY HOME. Heartbreaking tbh I feel his hands around my neck all the time still, his secret has shamed ME and I feel so broken and like I'll never be the same. In the name of Jesus thank you for this message!
Mine evil narc, lies, steals and cheated on me for so long but ignored the red flag 😢🙄🤭 no contact for 4 months now. Thanks so much for this awesome video. You’re so amazing and great therapy for me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It’s my birthday today 54 years old!! I’ve been no narc since 2018!! I’ve been in this crap all my life!! I’m a bit drunk lol. Cause I’m celebrating 3 years !! No control no worries no control no contact yeyyy💪💪 no one will ever control my body or mind ever again!! ❤️
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. This is my favourite quote to ponder when I think of narcissists; oh! I meant demons, the human kind! Great video! 🧿🙏💖
My ex and his new supply are both gaining up on me to hurt me, especially on social media. They try to hurt me to get reactions so they can justify the destruction they’ve caused. They want to use me as camouflage for their crazy by trying to make me look crazy. Now that I’m stepping back, their issues are starting to come to light.
they dont like to see you leveling up... they know you can move on so they try to hurt you to be attached forever, when in all honestly they hope you never leave
Hario after learning the word "NARCISSIST" (DEVIL) and subscribing to your channel I started listening/believing "MY" spirit and RAN LIKE HELL!!! I left the Narc after 10 years 3 months ago the lying, cheating, deceit, abuse and disrespect because they truly don't change...FACTS!!! Pray for my strength to NEVER look back!
We now know who NOT to give our hearts to, or permit our hearts to be stolen. We must be in better control if our OWN lives. Narcissists are slave owners to their targets. We must take and keep our power. When we need love so bad that we overlook the horrible pain that they put on us, we are not loving ourselves as God wants us to. There are good, pure people who DO NOT LIE, LIE, AND LIE AND CHEAT. THERE ARE!
No Lie TOLDED! They Just Like NARCS as Parents... Who Set U Up To Fail. Give Enough to Try And Keep U A Codependent CHILD Like State. So They Can Boss U Around At Anytime.
Your absolutely right the behavior You might fail once but you will gain power over your emotions and fight back with this Important information. Thank you!
After being hurt many times in my life I actually turned into something different... I have look at my recent past and gotta say I am really disappointed in myself I have let myself down, but more important let god down. I was so broken and numb and acting out it seemed I forgot who I was and shamed by my actions. I stopped what I was doing, and now on my knees asking for god to forgive me forever ready to serve him with everything I am. Please, please dont try to get revenge on someone who hurt you... because when you look in the mirror you may not recognize yourself😢 although I know I am no monster I started to look like one. God forgive me please 😭😭
Wow! I soo feel this. It’s a quote that says you live long enough to become the hero or the villain. I have had to ask God to forgive me as well. Be encouraged...when we confess our short comings God forgives us and restores us ❤️
I'm right there with you! I did the same thing! We will be ok. God reads the heart. He knows why we acted out. We are already forgiven, in Jesus name...Amen!
I soooo understand and relate to you on this . The final straw for me was after he fell asleep I snuck his phone, went into the bathroom and started going thru his phone to see if he was cheating on me again ( I had good reasons to check , as he cheated on me a few times, and also used online hook ups 🤮) But then I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and I looked like a crazy person - it scared me so much, I decided right then and there I did not want to play Columbo police lady anymore - I didn't look in the phone , I quietly put it back in his pants pocket . He woke up , had dinner , and left . I stayed calm, shut the door and cut him out of my life for good . It's been two years, and it still hurts , but I'm soooo much better . Don't beat yourself up for " bad " things you did - that narc drove you nutts and ITS NOT YOUR FAULT ! I can't tell how many times I either wanted to kill myself or him - his evils made me feel like using his kind of evil to guard myself . All you were doing was trying to teach him, or acting out from being so abused by him . The best thing you can do is be grateful he didn't kill you, you didn't kill him or yourself and you got out of this thing alive . Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will feel better ❤️ stay strong 💪
@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thanks hun it was so hard for me to type all that, but it's been 2 years since and I started waking up around the holidays in 2019. I realised that I was not being myself and was looking for validation with others who could possibly have issues as well. I was married 19 years then ran into a couple after.. 1 that I stayed with for 1 complete cycle before I understood the same old pattern and got out before a year and that was brutal ( kinda like I the first relationship was the thousand needles over many years and the last one was like he just came up and ripped my heart out) I went around like a zombie and no feelings at all for over a year then started to realise I didnt look the same and was doing some of the stuff that was done to me to others (with no ill intent) but all the same needed to stop. So I thought I was fine and got over it all... little did I know 😢
They better be incredible, cos I'm happy now, I just met my new class mates today and my new life has already begun. I'm free within my spirit and mentality is so good - also my energy is up.
Love it when they say I know I got issues I'm trying to change but when you call the issues out you get total denial. I got hooked by the sad childhood story in the beginning.
Omg so did I. Smh... but in that seven years of Hell in this crazy off-and-on relationship with this devil I discovered who I was that I wasn't as afraid to be alone as I thought I was and the biggest thing is that I had codependency because of my childhood trauma. I would have never figured that out if this narcissist didn't come into my life. I knew that I was off and something was wrong that I couldn't say no to anybody all I want to do is make everybody happy even at the cost of my happiness and I couldn't identify what it was but being in this kind of demonic entanglement. I learned a lot about myself and my strength. This experience also brought me closer to God.
This video is truly beyond words. Thank you, Thank you for making it. I feel like I’m in my living room going over with my parents my situation with my children’s narc father. Everything you have said in this video they have said! You sir are doing your purpose on this earth from The Most High!!!
New supply contacted me! Treats her the same!! Wow. If not worse 😲. I told her everything I have learned. She is severely trauma bonded...spent awhile with her. She ran right back to him. I've done all I could.
I love your videos the most...out of all the coaches who teach on this topic. You are so needed here. Thank you for the work you do. God bless you. "People who are truly happy don't have to cheat, they don't have to lie, they don't have to steal."
I Don't even know where to begin However I'll start with Thank you I was married to a narcissist for 7 years and we dated for 3 years before getting married. Everything you have said is absolutely on point i am one of the Lucky ones to have made it out in one piece. Divorced going on 3 years and as of this year I can Honestly say I've never been happier with my self. Self Love is the key and since finding that I've found strength and inner peace and have put my focus on me. I use to think What is wrong with me? Even the asshoes leave me however it wasn't me it was the narcissist who broke me down and not just for his own self glorification but for any man that would come into my life after him.
I exposed him in Court, to my Abuse advocate, To my Lawyer that specializes in abuse victims , To everyone... He tucked his tail and Judge awarded me All!!! I received high Support monthly and half.
A real relationship doesn't need this much confirmation and re-confirmation that it's a good relationship. The only reason the narc and new supply seem happy is because it's built on lies. When the lies are exposed, it's a whole other "story" errr more lies. Count yourself lucky to be away from that mess.
Exactly it’s not someone new they’ve already started grooming long ago.. and with several, all in rotation adding more as they discard those that figure it out..
Its a hard thing to accept that nothing or very little was actually real or even anything at all.. Truth is, hindsight perhaps, they been showing you, probably even told(warned) you... Whether by accident, subliminally, in parable,, or even directly... It feels really good to reclaim your spirit.. Best of luck to you all
A narc is only effective if you don't know who they are. They want you because you are a thinker and not lead by your spirit. So many great points! Good video!!!
All he told me was how he was going to make the new supply so much better than me !! I opened up my own business I started traveling I take good care of me and the narcs son and when I’m out and I see them she looks so broken and lost her clothes are cheap she doesn’t have her own apartment car nothing but him ! and she thinks she’s winning HA!
Same thing mines just told me but I already got my own business & own everything so they have to catch up I keep telling him I always was the mastermind & the bread winner never needed u especially if it ain’t from the heart
My ex left me and my daughter for his “new supply” he was messing me with drying OUR relationship. The one he told me not to worry about. After 3 years. He recently got her pregnant only after talking to her for 8 months. He lied, cheated, twisted everything I ever said or did to seem like I was a bad person to everyone in our life including her and her family. Had them thinking I was the crazy one! My best friend, his mother, his friends and even the new supply was thinking I had did so much wrong when it was really him! I recently exposed him and told MY truth that he wants no one to know about which is how he acts. Who he really is. I’m so happy to have found these videos. It really has helped me realize things for what they were. It wasn’t me. Always played blame game and manipulated me into thinking I was a this bad girlfriend no one would ever want. WRONG! It’s only a matter of time before the new supply realizes what she’s dealing with.
Everytime we got back together and runs into my friends or family member he act uncomfortable sort of scared at times commenting that he knows I talk bad about him with them already!With reference to this topic I really believed he was a changed man with the new supply taught they were really really happy and he was contented seeing that he left me for her and invited her to move in with him!Until he contacted me asking to see me!AGAIN. I see them doing stuff I wish we did .They're always together she even called me and told me Shouting and laughing that her man don't want me and to leave him alone it was so funny I just smiled for I know the end of her rope is drawing nigh. I wish them alllll the best!
Exposed my ex narcissist. I posted a Facebook status about him which I deleted bc it brought me out of character. But I've put a restraining order on him, completely blocked him, taken him to small claims court for money he owes me, and filed for child support and full custody. Holding him accountable for every terrible thing he's done to me.
Oh yeah the narc that I dealt with came up with the cliche telling me that the love that I want is a fairy tale and all I wanted was respect communication love affection and honesty and faithfulness all the things a narcissist is incapable of doing the moment you defend yourself they will punish you further more worse what this man is saying to y'all is true they are abusers they are evil narcissist is just a dressed-up word
This is spiritual warfare. Narcissist are lies, cheaters, thieves, no integrity, nasty, lowdown, trifling demons. They are not capable of love nor commitment. Men/women run don't walk away from these fools. I declare war against these Narcissist. Empaths, we win. Thanks hario. Keep keeping it real.
I'm so glad we have brothers who is standing up and being bold against wicked and evil people it's time for these narcs to get their karma they are liars and manipulators don't feel sorry for these narcs they didn't feel sorry for you when they did you dirty your absolutely right my brother call these narcs out!
Hang in there. I’m 2 weeks in of putting him out of my house. I put all of his clothes and shoes out and put a sign out that says free clothes and shoes. All of my neighbors took everything. Listen to Avril Lavigne song Keep Holding On. God sent that song to me. I was sleeping and my phone was playing the song. I have no idea how it was even playing because I didn’t touch my phone all night. I’m finally getting my appetite back because of the stress but I know in my heart that I made the right decision. God bless you
@@andriajohnson4741 it will get better time alone watch RUclips videos on narcissism, codependency, and trauma bonding. It hurts now still because you're still trauma bonded it's like the narc is a drug. You're was never in love with the narcissist just addicted to them. What helped me was watching RUclips videos on narcissism codependency and trauma bonding and reading self help books and going total blackout delete all social media accounts and change my phone number
I sent him to his NS a week ago and I'm crying too. It's what's best. I listen to these videos, pray and put one foot in front of the other. Moving on hurts in the beginning but it's worth it.
Thank you once again for helping me keep sane. My boyfriend of 13 years told me when he left that the person was someone from before. Just like you said. I was so attractive when he met me and at the end I was like a run down battery. I failed to take care of myself. My spirit was right the whole time and I didn’t listen.
36 years marry and he told me why I don't find some one new, because he already had a new supply, I think if I had find someone new for me, he won't felt guilty can I be right with this answer.
I really don’t understand that they really think they can move on and have a perfect life after all the dark energy and hell they did to people
Yes, he now wants to marry and start another family after 17 years wreaking havoc on me and our daughter/family.
@Eternity With Christ scary as hell but true!
They don’t think what they did or left behind was wrong. They believe their own lies and that’s how they sleep like babies! They can pretend to be religious, god fearing , civil people but the ones at the receiving end were shown their true colors by God himself. And if that ain’t something! Lying, cheating, no remorse and ZERO integrity. They DID hurt us intentionally and the Almighty knows that. They are being tested, not us. And they are failing miserably! They will get what’s coming for them.
Yup. Dark triad devil fr HELL!!
They will never have a happy life and that's why they change women trying to look for happiness, but will never be happy. They destroy themselves, while believing in their own lies.
If the new supply was so wonderful
They wouldn’t Hoover you or try to hurt you
👏👏👏
amen
The comment I needed to see. So must be true.
@@haleylucas3538 just getting started study more then the hoover watch how people act all around you.
@@Snicoleliving use my picture and another account stay pretty. tell him your boyfriends a goat farmer from down under. stay focused.
“They took a picture and smiled on it”, someone noticed narcissist don’t smile often in general? If they do? It’s fake.
A smile with dead eyes. My ex did the same thing, his eyes were sad and dead. I broke him and I could see it. Plus he knows she’s ugly af and I’m kinda cute if I do say so myself 😉 so I know he knows I was clowning her and he couldn’t be proud to have her on his arm.
Variant Variant true, their eyes are empty and when angry possessed... I see things in people’s eyes. Eyes flicker. Eyes are a portal to the truth behind a soul. That’s why I say, they always will live a life of sorrow and pain.
You indeed can break a narcissist, be aware you don’t take yourself down in the proces love, a super empath can go far and adopt narcissistic traits. Practise that will affect you too ❤️ and you need to clear that energy too. You deserve better
So they're demons walking the earth basically. 🤔 never thought about this but maybe the victims they chose are more of a threat to them and this is why they try to break us. Especially empaths. I questioned so many things with him and it irritated him, he would always say " I hate repeating myself, why dont you ever listen " I would always say if something doesn't sit well with me I cant let it go. I think he saw I was starting to wake from my haze.
@@Snicoleliving yes this was so me. After my ex narc cheated on me and I genuinely tried to forgive and let it go quite a few times. My spirit began to constantly wrestle with me. Feelings that I could not ignore. It's as if the universe was screaming HEYYYYYYY he's a cheater and a liar. I just couldn't walk away. A super empath and co dependent. I had lost myself in him and in the person I so desperately wanted him to be when I first met him. The more and more my feelings bothered the more I questioned him and the more the more angered and irritated with me I became. His anger would turn into rage and hate. I could literally see evil in his eyes when I looked at him. Even in those moments I still wanted to understand him and love him. He told me I was crazy. He would say he know he hurt me and that hurting me hurt me and he would never do it again. That the feelings I was having was a result of me not letting go to.the previous inflictions of pain he had caused on my heart. He would threaten if I didn't learn to let go of the past and move on I would never have a happy relationship. He would he just wanted to be in peace and be happy and he couldn't do that with my constantly questioning him and not trusting him. I know now a sensible healthy person would've took him for face value and just left him when he kept cheating, but of course I lived by the everyone makes mistakes philosophy. Not realizing the difference between mistakes and character flaws. I spent 3 years with him. We were engaged..now being out of the relationship I realize even the proposal was a hoover tactic to get my full trust and love back.because I had once again caught him cheating. I mean we were in the middle of me trying to.break.up with him when he fell to.his knees and proposed my gut told me then it was bullshit and to.say no. Of course not wanting to be alone and the embarrassment of what others would say kept me with him and accepting the apology. He left me 3 different times during the relationship each time staying gone longer than the others. When he would.leave he would always go back to the city that what most familiar with him. This place was also the place my spirit felt most uncomfortable with him being. Even though he always told.me when we met that he didn't date women from there because most of them were what we would call whores I didn't believe it. This was his stomping grounds but he never took me around ANY of the people he spent majority of his.time with any time we went there to.visit we stayed no more than 2 hours. Anyone who really knew his personality or he was it's like he wanted to.keep me away from.these people. When I met him, him.and his.mother were not speaking they had a terrible relationship. She tried to.warn me about her son and the.numerous of broken women he already left in his path. She told me, " my son doesn't come around me or this side.of his family because he knows I won't condone that ignorant behavior. He goes where that is accepted and he won't be held accountable. Everything all made sense after a while. He last discarded me May 27th and.on June 5th he was in a new relationship. My intuition tells.me this woman has been around I just didn't catch him this time. It hurt to see him so quickly move on I kept questioning maybe I was really the problem..maybe he did stop cheating and my constant questioning pushed him away, but if I was wrong why would I continually get the feeling not to trust him everytime that I would try. I ultimately think he left me because my blinders start coming off. I refuse to.just give him my trust or the same treatment he was once used to. He couldn't maneuver how he wanted to play with his various supply. So he got rid of what stood in the way which was me but not until he had someone else to torture me with. Everyday for.me is a battle of the mind. Knowing I'm not crazy and yes my feelings were right. I won't stop fighting and I will.win.
J All Day! Well, I can tell you this much, there is a spiritual theory that enlightened people will be attacked by evil spirits, usually have a hard knock past life and are destracted from their purpose... do I personally believe this? Yes I do. Is it true? Rationally in the vortex everyone is pure, narcs are who they are because of to little or to much hugs in their childhood so if it’s true on a psychological level... that empaths want to help narcs is a natural feeling but then again, if you help a person who is in a bad place (doesn’t matter spiritually or psychologically) you need to keep your own mental health in check. I wouldn’t recommend staying in a relationship with a person who you do not feel safe with. That is not your soulmate.
And more importantly, you will loose yourself in the process. Look, healthy relationships is something big, a lot of people including myself get and stay in relationships who are similar to what you’ve experienced in childhood. As an empath I do hold myself accountable for my part in my experience with a couple of narcissist, lack of boundaries, with someone for the wrong reasons, no high standards. And as an empath you want to save the world so if a person in need (a narc) meets a person strong enough to safe that world ( because we can) you have a match made in hell. I repeat. In hell. The devil is real and I’m spiritual on a universal level, it might not go by the name devil but everything has a contrast and the contrast of good is?
Don’t give your strength away. You need it for your life’s purpose. If he was your purpose? You wouldn’t feel this way I’ll promise you. 🙏🏽❤️
The devil is trying to take as many people souls as it can
He told me don't no body wanna hear gods words in tv snatch the remote and changed it 🤔 devil 😈
Indiah Indiah you know that’s the devil
The narc I was with was covert with me
I told him from the beginning
Our lifestyle is God first
So he couldn’t play that with me
He can have my ex
ATP forever..ANOINTED TO PRAISE The devil is just allegory disguising narcissism. Which really means side stepping truth.
@@WhitneyAbrina he told me to go live with my son So I then he was seen riding pass my son's hse😮🤔🤷🤦🙏
the true definition of sleeping with the enemy
I listened to my spirit, which told me my ex-husband's friend of 30 years wanted him, and he played cat and mouse with her for years. No good reason why I was never introduced to this "friend" other than them being exposed. Well, they are finally together. He didn't even boss-up. She is a jack-toothed, no-edges, Allie-Cat who dug in the trash after I told him to get his stealing, game-playing, lying, ghetto-ass out of my life. Of course, they skipped down Narc Road and posted the Narc-Facebook pics, for everyone to see, and then he sent me a friend request a day later - to make sure I saw the pics (LOL). I DM'd him; Have a nice life and no thanks. They deserve each other. They are both wicked and sick. I couldn't wait to get that demon out of my house for good! #BoyBye #Peace&Tranquility
Bev Wright Allie-Cat took me all the way out!
@@safehaven3949 LOL!
He gonna really where her ass out cause she ain’t hitting on shit just sit back with a bag of popcorn😉
Good for you
Shana Bishop Popcorn and soda ready. But, truth be told - they’ve known each other for so long over the years they have both thrown each other under the bus, with their belongings! They both thrive off drama and negativity. We’ll see...
I was devastated hearing the narc tell me he was doing everything i asked him to do when we was together with the new supply.Then I foundout it was all a lie.He was exactly the same person he was with me.Just wanted me to fall for it and take him back.They dnt change and if they do they get worse not better.We all need to understand that we are lucky to not be the supply anymore.It hurts but not as bad as looking into their dead evil eyes.Or worse that creepy narc smile when they plotting against u secretly.U lay in bed thinking u love them and they lay in bed thinking what can i do to hurt her next.
Exactly
ExNarc knows they couldn’t break me Empaths can take a lot of pain and pressure
Narcissist know this
But remember if you weren’t the best supply they ever had they wouldn’t try to destroy you
You are not the trash
The trash took itself out
Isn’t that wonderful to know they know you’re too good for them
Believe it or believe it the devil wants to sift you as wheat or flour
Use this to better yourself
Do something positive
Open that business
Buy yourself flowers and chill
Draw something
Write something
But most of all watch these videos
Only the positive ones
Try speaking to other Empaths
Don’t go on dating sites they’re a cesspool of Narcissist
Trust me I know
Lol
Yes I agree with you cut the narcissist off stop giving them fuel (supply) go no contact I went total blackout delete all social media accounts change phone and email moved to another state. Watch alot of RUclips videos on narcissism, codependency, and trauma bonding. Also helps to read self help books
Boundaries when to say yes how to say no by Henry Cloud and Robert Townsend
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
The Search For Significance by Robert McGee
Healing The Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw
False Intimacy by Harry Schaumburg
Love this thank u for sharing
Sean Campbell thank you
ATP forever..ANOINTED TO PRAISE 👍 GIRL I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT KEEP GROWING AND KEEP LEARNING, SURVIVING AND KEEP BEING YOU, MY BEAUTIFUL NS !!!!!!!!
Preach that Amen Amen Amen🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔💯
I declare war on the narcissist
They close you off so they can make room for the old/new supply
This is exactly why they ghost people
U r the best most encouraging right on of all of many I've heard!!
They want you to be okay with all the bad things they do to you so sick
As a daughter of God, I am worthy of love and all else good. That demon son of satan knew exactly what he was doing and how he hurt me as well as others. He saw my purity and wanted to destroy it. He even tried to use God against me. That is the biggest mistake he made and it woke me up. I am naive no longer. The new supply knew he was taken but she still entered his realm. I don’t pity the NS; she chose to cheat with him. She will learn the hard way. In Jesus name, I will continue healing and progress beyond surviving to thriving.
Amen huh
Same she knew about me. I tell you He was single when I met him. The old supply had left him a little over a year before meeting me. That says alot about the new supply and how cheap she is.
They like "cheap". The NS knew about me too. She told me, after we met. This fool said, "I found a pair of your panties in the bed one night." I asked her, "And you still got in it???' I would have burned the bed down to the ground!! The NS, who has stuck around through his marriage, engagement and me...called my job more than once. She did all kinds of stuff. So, what she gets, she deserves too! She even told me that when he was engaged before me, that she and him would go to hotels to see each other! May they both live in hell together!
Amen out there God is is with you.
Peace and light💫💖
Same here that's happened exactly as y said 🙏💔
I feel you I don’t have no more sympathy for them pieces of 💩💩💩💩 2020 is exposing. I’m tired of being a emotional doormat I got my armor on in fight back mode. Enough is enough
Shayleia Lawson yesss!!!full armor of God!!
ATP forever..ANOINTED TO PRAISE Exactly without his guidance there is no way to defeat that demonic jezebel spirit.
You’re absolutely right, Stop feeling sorry for these evil narcissist no more 😡
And I am tired of those making excuses for them say they must have gone through difficult childhood. They not the only ones that went through that but some of us are not going around hurting people. They were born evil the bad childhood just happened to ignite it but the thing is anything could ignite it in there life. These people are not human I almost lost my life.
Amen!!
"A narcissist wanna be in everybody's face!" Drop the mic! Whew!!
Exactly, I told my ex he love portraying himself as a family man at home but outside he’s a different person being in everybody’s face his eyes got big like he was shocked I said it! Nothing but attention seekers🙄
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yesssss 😂😂😂😂😂
A narc said he doesn’t believe in the devil biggest 🚩 ever!! No contact also means don’t look at your ex narc or new supply social media!! Ever!
You right . I don’t care what either one are doing
I do. My ex narc was addicted to Facebook, since she left she never uploaded anything. Three months.
The new victim has put a few posts and photos together looking happy with himself. But still single status.
Quite strange. She lives with him. But she is back in town looking sour.
She ghosted me when she left. Blocked me on messenger. I told her exactly what and how she did the devaluation and discard.
I would love to know whats going on in her head.
That part , new supply is supply without boundaries 🎯💯. I know that’s true because I was once new supply without boundaries. No more to God be the Glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
You r right on
They are living everyday in torture.. And they are mean to the new supply because they aren't u.. Like mister did to cellie over shug
That’s a great example. Thank you
Exactly Right Quinn Washington!! 💥🕊
Amen
And Ike did Tina plus Rkelly did those girl's 🤭
Thank you for your encouragement
The new supply is against you automatically the narcissist used them against you and gained sympathy from the new supply...
Yup!!! Not knowing that he's lying to her. Smh
@@tasha12014 oh they know they are being lied to. They don't care. They are just happy to have a man.
Montrice C straight up ‼️
And it so sad he gone do her bad
It's fun now, but I will be the one smiling.
@@mrsnolongergiveafck4658 IT WILL happened sure ENOUGH it will be so LIBERATING. FOR YOU WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN KARMAS A BITCH STAY STRONG GOD WILL NEVER BLESS THE WICKED 🙏🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼
Lord have mercy. Went thru the discard after finding out i was being cheated on by the forever supply. Thought she was new but sis had bn around yrs before me. Now it all makes sense- the random attitudes and mood changes. The random silent treatments... when i exposed that fool, it was lights out for his ass. Almost a full month NC. These days feel so long but healing is upon me. All thanks yo Christ, and thank you Hario. Thank you for clarifying and confirming I’m not crazy.
It’s sooo weird to see and read my exact situation but lived thru others lives. Same exact story but with my narc ex gf. All the classic phases , love bombing , future faking and shortly after devalue and discard. I lived and watched this rerun of life for 3 almost 4 years till I just had enough and Went NC and it’s hard af due to this pandemic and quarantine.....we cohabitate so I’m counting down days and forming my way out. Be blessed and thank you for sharing. 🙏
Joey Nelson i stayed a bit longer than 2yrs. We never lived together and now i see why- his hands were full with his harem. And you’re right- quarantine makes things that more difficult. When i struggle to find a means to distract myself, i turn to my Bible or virtual church. I’m sure it’s hard cohabitating but find some positive distraction in the meantime. God bless you as well.
Teri LaRue Thank you and indeed you are right. I won’t front it gets tricky a lot of times and days but she crossed a line that made me supernova and for the past few days around her I feel on fire not with anger though. Like all my senses are heightened and I feel arrogance around her. She gives blank stares like she is biting her tongue to speak but can’t. It’s a funny exchange because the moment she does talk again (discard phase #30 something) I’m ready to rip her mask off and give her what I have been holding back and in for the longest. Quick and sharp straight to the point realism on who she is, how long I’ve known and how I know I can conjure this spirit in her anytime I want and also injure her more than she does to herself already. I took and charged sooo much to life and dealing with her that it’s time I open up and spill onto her what she has been spilling onto me. I appreciate you for sharing and telling because it’s enlightening to see I’m not alone in this. Have a good day and thank you again beauty 🙏
Ooh giving them actual proof of the side piece after denying even swearing on a Bible they aren't cheaters.Thats priceless💪🏽
My female nex cheated with her forever supply(ex husband also a narc) from the jump of our relationship. She even told me in not so many words but when you know their mind games you learn that they are telling you who they are cheating with. Her story was "my ex and I booked the same Marriot(they were attending a white coat ceremony for their daughter's acceptance into medical school) but it was a coincidence". Complete BS they booked the hotel knowing they were going to cheat. Her ex was engaged at the time and a year later he married the other woman but neither the ex's fiance' or I were invited. Very convenient. She also cheated with her ex's best friend who is married to one of her best friends and former college roomates. They always sleep with people right in their circle. She even introduced me to the new supply 3 weeks before we broke up although she never actively did so. We just conveninently ran into this person on our morning walk. The walk route was carefully selected and was the most common route we took her dog on so this joker could see us together and she was using me to make him jealous. Believe me it would not have worked the other way around, this guy is older than me dumpy unattractive and a pathetic doormat. I am nearly 100% certain this was the person she was with before me because she has lived in this neighborhood since 2014 the year her divorce was final. Once you understand how narcs operate it becomes very clear what they are doing. Oh he took out my trash and he can keep her! LOL
Lmao! I hollered when you said, “the new supply been there before you!” 😂😂😂😂😂😂 You ain’t nevuh lied 😂😂😂😂
Amen
I Declare War against the narcissist
Everytime he with supply don't answer calls block me 😤 I call all other side pieces that I recall 😂 its several 😂 then they call him 😂 then he mad top flight😡🤷
Once I saw the car he was not in it I faked like I scratched it up 🤭 some girl came out to take a pic 😮 of nothing 😂
Indiah Indiah I saw my van last week goofy girl was driving it he was on the passenger side but guess what I was doing at the time
With the contractors and my new executive director of operations at the building that I’ve been claiming for 8 years for my funeral home
He knows that I claimed it every time I would pass it everyday On my way! To school
I don’t want that van he’s not paying the note
@@atpforever..anointedtoprai3284 Great👌👍😇
When my ex narc left after 20 years together, it was like a big weight had lifted off me. Thank you Lord I’m finally free! Now I’m stronger, wiser and better! I can finally breathe and I’m now living my BEST LIFE!!!! ♥️🤗
Congrats!!!!
All player's get played and then they PLAY OUT!!!!!!!!!
"A narc is only effective if you don't know who they are" ... After a 6 year long relationship I still don't know who was living in my house with me, sleeping next to me. It's the most violating realization I have come to after 1 year no contact.
Me too. I told him that in 6 years together I never knew him
My Nex ran back to the dude she was messing with (that she discarded for me), and is acting like all is gravy. Yet behind closed doors...the story is a mess. I wouldn’t want to be in her shoes for $500B dollars. She left a trail of lies and deceit, has hurt several people (children included). She can post all she wants about this new guy...while I heal and be the man and father I need to be for our little girl. That’s my purpose. God/Universe/Karma will deal with my Nex.
She will be back. Trust me they always find new circus tricks to try to get you to do.
Isn't it hard to believe how wicked a person can be? And worse, is trying to figure out how we let it happen!!
Oh my goodness 😱 the same thing just happened to me. How can they do that to their kids. They think its burger king out here "have it your way" or at their convenience they can be parents.
It's nice to hear that there are stand up dads out there. I'm a proud single mom.
My kids are a blessing and a joy. I'm never looking back. Keep fighting the good fight. You deserve to be happy and you are competent, responsible, and with dignity. Put God 1st and forgive her.
been there myself. they self destruct.. found out last year who my ex really is and it only gets worse. stay away and dont trust them ever again. they are rotten
Let me rewrite, this, Narcissist's dont change every person they encounter they pick up some characteristics of each supply, They are Shapeshifters.
This!!!!
When you said "all of a sudden it was raining trust" I laughed so hard. 🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I sooo Love dis man 😆 becuz Evertime Im listening I just laugh. He is sooo on point and holds back Nothin...Keep it up baby..
The Narcissists are walking curse, with all that Karma and kaoss
My narc husband did it too me on our job.After 11yrs together and walking around now on the job with his chest stuck out like he did something
Talking about he at peace now. 4 months after our ten year wedding renewal and discarded me and they live together now
We're not legally separated or divorced. But he scraped the bottom barrel with this sewer rat. No joke!!! The woman envied our life style
Wendy Clark same story but I was discarded 2 weeks after our 10th year anniversary
The supplies / harem garbage watched it /exnarc go from the gutter to the church with suits and cars and clean cut lifestyle single home
I met this trashy demon on a bike and 170 lbs to 3 cars new off the lot and 240 lbs and new teeth dentures
Now it’s back to cracked dentures snag teeth same clothes I bought a year ago
We Empaths have kept them looking like somebody
They couldn’t keep up the cleanliness because demons can’t stay in the spirit of love ❤️ it’s too pure
Be Encouraged
God did us a favor
Take your power back live on!!!
@@atpforever..anointedtoprai3284 I also cleaned up his trailer park tell from Alabama, I'm a Georgia peach. He didn't have anything and I realized he targeted me and gas lighted me. I saw the signs or red flags, but I loved him truly in spite of, wishing and praying that the light inside of me would jump into his evil 11yrs of cheating ass. He always went low never on his wife level. I say towards them nothing from nothing equal Nothing.
Be strong. Stay out of the gossip and drop. You are good. Pray for the other supply. Please, please protect you and yours. Dont let your children hear ANY OF IT. The narcissists poison will hurt your children if they hear about any of it. In this way, he has hurt you and yours. Just shut him out!
@@atpforever..anointedtoprai3284 We must NEVER SEE THE POTENTIAL. THEY NEED TO DO THAT BEFORE COMING INTO OUR LIVES. They are users with only fake giving. Every kindness from them is backed by the darkest evil and resentment. Everything they do has a big secret motive: destroy you. Everything. Even replacing a lightbulb. Everything. And if they if something nice, it is because they are rewarding you for you not knowing that they just slept with someone one else. Trust your gut! Trust me.
@@wendyclark1002 well...you sound like you could start a Non Fof Profit business helping people. Maybe staging their homes for sale. You have do much to offer.BUT REMEMBER: Donf throw your pearls before swine. Bible.
He knows his stuff .!
Everything he says ! Straight facts
I love you man. You're helping with every video. Thank you brother
The new supply is just the next victim. Never feel jealous of the temporary kindness your ex narc is showing the new (or previous and now renewed) supply.
Put it into perspective, your narc will NEVER be happy, it’s not possible. Being content and happy doesn’t exist in their world.
Yup!! I feel sorry for his new supply. She has no idea. She don't even know that he is after her money. Same cycle different person. Smh
Don’t be jealous of the new supply instead send them a card or flowers for taking over the narc problems from narc
@@nancylasavath5992 RIGHT CELEBRATE THROW A PARTY!!!🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉👏👏👏 👏
@@nancylasavath5992 ha ha ha new supply is in for a long ride to hell
"Your watching this because you been around a lying cheating thief" 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I don't care 🤷 what happens to him...I'm free and you reap what you sow.
Yessss he actually admitted he never likef me .....he married me three yrs into our relationship then .....acted the fool totally began to disrespect me i just want to win ,i left town got a degree to be a flight attendant i left a 20+yr nursing career im a women of great price a Christian ,my spirit yesss knows the truth the word said dark and light cannot walk together omg this one is good for me
Wow ! My ex narc she got drunk one night and told me she actually hated my guts but she needed me!!!😆WTF PSYCHO!!!!
He put me out I leave then he comes looking for me🤔🤷🤦🙏
Nursing is hard as f! You are lucky to leave it. My god they take advantage of women in nursing, esp in nursing homes. Good luck in new career.
Narcs prey on nurses, because we have high compassion, empathy
@@janicemontecalvo110 mine wanted me to nurse him and no one else..👁️🗨️🗨️👎
They use the victim card as their ace in the hole!!! Your absolutely right about them not wanting to be held accountable! Listening & being led by my spirit & intuition! Been no contact 8 months!
People going to need help after they leave a narcissist they crazy get away Soon as you can 💯
Hello Hario! I heard the Lord tell me on Tuesday that I was in the fight of my life, but I know God is in control. I know God is bringing me out of my marriage of 17 years to a narc. Everyday I find myself getting stronger and stronger. Thank you for all the good info you give. Be blessed Hario!! I DECLARE WAR ON THE NARCISSIST!!!!
Thank you so much ❤🙏
My abusive ex and his new supply truly have tortured me and God knows I've held onto my faith because man does it hurt to have her pick up MY SON from MY HOME. Heartbreaking tbh I feel his hands around my neck all the time still, his secret has shamed ME and I feel so broken and like I'll never be the same.
In the name of Jesus thank you for this message!
Mine evil narc, lies, steals and cheated on me for so long but ignored the red flag 😢🙄🤭 no contact for 4 months now. Thanks so much for this awesome video. You’re so amazing and great therapy for me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
25:00 mark.... The biggest trick the Devil ever pulled was the belief he doesn't exist. 🤔
Say it!
And that’s why my fav Bible verse is Ephesians 6:12
Yes! He is the father of lies.
They play wicked games. Just like the song. It’s time to fight back.
💪🏾💪🏾
I believe people can change however I don’t think narcs can 🤣😭
Rare asf but can happen
They can change but for how long lol
Exactly because narcs aren’t people they are abominations! Demons! 😂
THEY NEVER CHANGE THEY ONLY CHANGE VICTIMS
It’s my birthday today 54 years old!! I’ve been no narc since 2018!! I’ve been in this crap all my life!! I’m a bit drunk lol. Cause I’m celebrating 3 years !! No control no worries no control no contact yeyyy💪💪 no one will ever control my body or mind ever again!! ❤️
Caroline Ash,you deserve better 🙏🙏🙏🤙
Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. This is my favourite quote to ponder when I think of narcissists; oh! I meant demons, the human kind! Great video! 🧿🙏💖
Omg!!! Are you looking into my life?? I needed this!!
Great break down, Hario! Educate the people so that they can cut their losses.
Another Classic!
My ex and his new supply are both gaining up on me to hurt me, especially on social media. They try to hurt me to get reactions so they can justify the destruction they’ve caused. They want to use me as camouflage for their crazy by trying to make me look crazy. Now that I’m stepping back, their issues are starting to come to light.
they dont like to see you leveling up... they know you can move on so they try to hurt you to be attached forever, when in all honestly they hope you never leave
Lmao
The narcissist never stops being the narcissist
ATP forever..ANOINTED TO PRAISE Never;next one will suffer more,they have to lern
You said it
Hario after learning the word "NARCISSIST" (DEVIL) and subscribing to your channel I started listening/believing "MY" spirit and RAN LIKE HELL!!! I left the Narc after 10 years 3 months ago the lying, cheating, deceit, abuse and disrespect because they truly don't change...FACTS!!! Pray for my strength to NEVER look back!
Stealing your ❤️ was suppose to been a good thing to say but these narcissistic ones took that too the ultimate level😡🙃
We now know who NOT to give our hearts to, or permit our hearts to be stolen. We must be in better control if our OWN lives. Narcissists are slave owners to their targets. We must take and keep our power. When we need love so bad that we overlook the horrible pain that they put on us, we are not loving ourselves as God wants us to. There are good, pure people who DO NOT LIE, LIE, AND LIE AND CHEAT. THERE ARE!
What’s up Hario Ovadtop
Thanks Bruh for being consistent God Bless you🙏🏽👍🏾👍🏾
Church failed exposing evil, run from evil,We were taught to love evil,,,,wrong!!!
No Lie TOLDED! They Just Like NARCS as Parents... Who Set U Up To Fail. Give Enough to Try And Keep U A Codependent CHILD Like State. So They Can Boss U Around At Anytime.
FAX
I've been exposing so many narcissist. Also, low vibration individuals. Master your energy, dont match theirs! These are people with issues.
Your absolutely right the behavior
You might fail once but you will gain power over your emotions and fight back with this Important information. Thank you!
I had to watch this again. I emailed it to myself. I am watching this every day!!
First red flag...how he flirts with a waitress in front of you on a first date. Once he see you ok with that..well its game on..dirty sob.
That’s exactly how that makes you feel at the time.. feel as something that you worked so hard for is being stolen right before tour eyes...
After being hurt many times in my life I actually turned into something different... I have look at my recent past and gotta say I am really disappointed in myself I have let myself down, but more important let god down. I was so broken and numb and acting out it seemed I forgot who I was and shamed by my actions. I stopped what I was doing, and now on my knees asking for god to forgive me forever ready to serve him with everything I am. Please, please dont try to get revenge on someone who hurt you... because when you look in the mirror you may not recognize yourself😢 although I know I am no monster I started to look like one. God forgive me please 😭😭
Wow! I soo feel this. It’s a quote that says you live long enough to become the hero or the villain. I have had to ask God to forgive me as well. Be encouraged...when we confess our short comings God forgives us and restores us ❤️
I'm right there with you! I did the same thing! We will be ok. God reads the heart. He knows why we acted out. We are already forgiven, in Jesus name...Amen!
Montrice C Amen!
I soooo understand and relate to you on this . The final straw for me was after he fell asleep I snuck his phone, went into the bathroom and started going thru his phone to see if he was cheating on me again ( I had good reasons to check , as he cheated on me a few times, and also used online hook ups 🤮) But then I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and I looked like a crazy person - it scared me so much, I decided right then and there I did not want to play Columbo police lady anymore - I didn't look in the phone , I quietly put it back in his pants pocket . He woke up , had dinner , and left . I stayed calm, shut the door and cut him out of my life for good . It's been two years, and it still hurts , but I'm soooo much better . Don't beat yourself up for " bad " things you did - that narc drove you nutts and ITS NOT YOUR FAULT ! I can't tell how many times I either wanted to kill myself or him - his evils made me feel like using his kind of evil to guard myself . All you were doing was trying to teach him, or acting out from being so abused by him . The best thing you can do is be grateful he didn't kill you, you didn't kill him or yourself and you got out of this thing alive . Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and you will feel better ❤️ stay strong 💪
@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thanks hun it was so hard for me to type all that, but it's been 2 years since and I started waking up around the holidays in 2019. I realised that I was not being myself and was looking for validation with others who could possibly have issues as well. I was married 19 years then ran into a couple after.. 1 that I stayed with for 1 complete cycle before I understood the same old pattern and got out before a year and that was brutal ( kinda like I the first relationship was the thousand needles over many years and the last one was like he just came up and ripped my heart out) I went around like a zombie and no feelings at all for over a year then started to realise I didnt look the same and was doing some of the stuff that was done to me to others (with no ill intent) but all the same needed to stop. So I thought I was fine and got over it all... little did I know 😢
They better be incredible, cos I'm happy now, I just met my new class mates today and my new life has already begun. I'm free within my spirit and mentality is so good - also my energy is up.
Good stuff!!👍👍
Shift Hario, expose these demons!!!
Love it when they say I know I got issues I'm trying to change but when you call the issues out you get total denial. I got hooked by the sad childhood story in the beginning.
Omg so did I. Smh... but in that seven years of Hell in this crazy off-and-on relationship with this devil I discovered who I was that I wasn't as afraid to be alone as I thought I was and the biggest thing is that I had codependency because of my childhood trauma. I would have never figured that out if this narcissist didn't come into my life. I knew that I was off and something was wrong that I couldn't say no to anybody all I want to do is make everybody happy even at the cost of my happiness and I couldn't identify what it was but being in this kind of demonic entanglement. I learned a lot about myself and my strength. This experience also brought me closer to God.
This video is truly beyond words. Thank you, Thank you for making it. I feel like I’m in my living room going over with my parents my situation with my children’s narc father. Everything you have said in this video they have said! You sir are doing your purpose on this earth from The Most High!!!
New supply contacted me! Treats her the same!! Wow. If not worse 😲. I told her everything I have learned. She is severely trauma bonded...spent awhile with her. She ran right back to him. I've done all I could.
listening to your body is one of our biggest tools, Ill never again ignore them. I was right.
Ana Ingles,You got a lovely smile 😊
Don’t feel sorry for the narcissist
I’m watching my family get attacked by the narcissist and training them with the information
I know I'm not in love any more I been mad over three days in a row... super empath must destroy the narc🤦👌🤷
"Y'all not coming to me because I'm so dark, your coming to me because its light over here" whew. A word.
Amen I was broken and now I feel worthless. By the grace of God I will be back wiser and wonderful
Be glad that bird is gone! You can live free, and move onto a healthy love! Be glad that supply has him now. She stuck with that toxic 😈.
I love your videos the most...out of all the coaches who teach on this topic. You are so needed here. Thank you for the work you do. God bless you. "People who are truly happy don't have to cheat, they don't have to lie, they don't have to steal."
You are a breath of fresh air ....Your information is clear and precise. I'm glad I found your channel. Continue to spread awareness.
I Don't even know where to begin However I'll start with Thank you I was married to a narcissist for 7 years and we dated for 3 years before getting married. Everything you have said is absolutely on point i am one of the Lucky ones to have made it out in one piece. Divorced going on 3 years and as of this year I can Honestly say I've never been happier with my self. Self Love is the key and since finding that I've found strength and inner peace and have put my focus on me. I use to think What is wrong with me? Even the asshoes leave me however it wasn't me it was the narcissist who broke me down and not just for his own self glorification but for any man that would come into my life after him.
I exposed him in Court, to my Abuse advocate, To my Lawyer that specializes in abuse victims , To everyone... He tucked his tail and Judge awarded me All!!! I received high Support monthly and half.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽out of the sunken place from the narcissist for two months now and will continue. Thank you for the video
I am almost at the two month notice contact point . 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
A real relationship doesn't need this much confirmation and re-confirmation that it's a good relationship.
The only reason the narc and new supply seem happy is because it's built on lies. When the lies are exposed, it's a whole other "story" errr more lies.
Count yourself lucky to be away from that mess.
Lie lie lies we believe d good in them bt they use our empathy n abuse us
Exactly it’s not someone new they’ve already started grooming long ago.. and with several, all in rotation adding more as they discard those that figure it out..
Its a hard thing to accept that nothing or very little was actually real or even anything at all..
Truth is, hindsight perhaps, they been showing you, probably even told(warned) you...
Whether by accident, subliminally, in parable,, or even directly...
It feels really good to reclaim your spirit..
Best of luck to you all
A narc is only effective if you don't know who they are.
They want you because you are a thinker and not lead by your spirit. So many great points!
Good video!!!
All he told me was how he was going to make the new supply so much better than me !! I opened up my own business I started traveling I take good care of me and the narcs son and when I’m out and I see them she looks so broken and lost her clothes are cheap she doesn’t have her own apartment car nothing but him ! and she thinks she’s winning HA!
Same thing mines just told me but I already got my own business & own everything so they have to catch up I keep telling him I always was the mastermind & the bread winner never needed u especially if it ain’t from the heart
@@Anya_life_subscribe period sis!!!
My ex left me and my daughter for his “new supply” he was messing me with drying OUR relationship. The one he told me not to worry about. After 3 years. He recently got her pregnant only after talking to her for 8 months. He lied, cheated, twisted everything I ever said or did to seem like I was a bad person to everyone in our life including her and her family. Had them thinking I was the crazy one! My best friend, his mother, his friends and even the new supply was thinking I had did so much wrong when it was really him! I recently exposed him and told MY truth that he wants no one to know about which is how he acts. Who he really is. I’m so happy to have found these videos. It really has helped me realize things for what they were. It wasn’t me. Always played blame game and manipulated me into thinking I was a this bad girlfriend no one would ever want. WRONG! It’s only a matter of time before the new supply realizes what she’s dealing with.
Everytime we got back together and runs into my friends or family member he act uncomfortable sort of scared at times commenting that he knows I talk bad about him with them already!With reference to this topic I really believed he was a changed man with the new supply taught they were really really happy and he was contented seeing that he left me for her and invited her to move in with him!Until he contacted me asking to see me!AGAIN. I see them doing stuff I wish we did .They're always together she even called me and told me Shouting and laughing that her man don't want me and to leave him alone it was so funny I just smiled for I know the end of her rope is drawing nigh. I wish them alllll the best!
The narcissist dies a thousand deaths fooling with me.
The devil is a liar
Exposed my ex narcissist. I posted a Facebook status about him which I deleted bc it brought me out of character. But I've put a restraining order on him, completely blocked him, taken him to small claims court for money he owes me, and filed for child support and full custody. Holding him accountable for every terrible thing he's done to me.
Oh yeah the narc that I dealt with came up with the cliche telling me that the love that I want is a fairy tale and all I wanted was respect communication love affection and honesty and faithfulness all the things a narcissist is incapable of doing the moment you defend yourself they will punish you further more worse what this man is saying to y'all is true they are abusers they are evil narcissist is just a dressed-up word
Simon Says Narcissism is the civil clinical word for concentrated and systematic evil in a human being
After I exposed my narc...
He put me through hell.
So be prepared...
And run..
I WIN‼️‼️‼️‼️💪🏾Thank you
This is spiritual warfare. Narcissist are lies, cheaters, thieves, no integrity, nasty, lowdown, trifling demons. They are not capable of love nor commitment. Men/women run don't walk away from these fools. I declare war against these Narcissist. Empaths, we win. Thanks hario. Keep keeping it real.
From the bottom of my heart I thank you. You are literally saving lives ✌️💚🙏
I'm so glad we have brothers who is standing up and being bold against wicked and evil people it's time for these narcs to get their karma they are liars and manipulators don't feel sorry for these narcs they didn't feel sorry for you when they did you dirty your absolutely right my brother call these narcs out!
The pain..just a week got discarded..still crying
@@numberone6266 thank u..but it's hard for now..I'll get over this I knw I can..bless
Hang in there. I’m 2 weeks in of putting him out of my house. I put all of his clothes and shoes out and put a sign out that says free clothes and shoes. All of my neighbors took everything. Listen to Avril Lavigne song Keep Holding On. God sent that song to me. I was sleeping and my phone was playing the song. I have no idea how it was even playing because I didn’t touch my phone all night. I’m finally getting my appetite back because of the stress but I know in my heart that I made the right decision. God bless you
@@andriajohnson4741 it will get better time alone watch RUclips videos on narcissism, codependency, and trauma bonding. It hurts now still because you're still trauma bonded it's like the narc is a drug. You're was never in love with the narcissist just addicted to them. What helped me was watching RUclips videos on narcissism codependency and trauma bonding and reading self help books and going total blackout delete all social media accounts and change my phone number
I cried for a full month straight.
Trust me I you will be ok.
Keep educating yourself and stay NC!
You got this 💪🏼
I sent him to his NS a week ago and I'm crying too. It's what's best. I listen to these videos, pray and put one foot in front of the other. Moving on hurts in the beginning but it's worth it.
Thank you once again for helping me keep sane. My boyfriend of 13 years told me when he left that the person was someone from before. Just like you said. I was so attractive when he met me and at the end I was like a run down battery. I failed to take care of myself. My spirit was right the whole time and I didn’t listen.
I was new supply I'm so sorry I met him
Me too!!
I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS again
I EVEN GOT A GOOD LAUGH
I exposed mines told her d truth it's on her now no contact I'm out!
The Narcs all coming Karma 10 times thank you brother for exposing them i will do the same myself
36 years marry and he told me why I don't find some one new, because he already had a new supply, I think if I had find someone new for me, he won't felt guilty can I be right with this answer.
Exposing a narcissist makes the other people in their life realize what they could not understand about them, “the narc is dying “