Foolish Games- Jewel with lyrics

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  • Опубликовано: 9 янв 2025

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  • @randyjohnson3412
    @randyjohnson3412 4 года назад +60

    Jewel is a gem. Such a heavenly voice and such a great song writer.

    • @marysaxton7778
      @marysaxton7778 Год назад

      I see what you did there..she is a gem...

  • @angelabtessier4826
    @angelabtessier4826 Год назад +43

    Whose listening to this gem in 2023? One of the best written songs in history.

  • @robertbox7666
    @robertbox7666 4 года назад +132

    Having been loved, and loved again, only to loose everything, and now to find a love greater than the others. It only takes a lifetime.

    • @loricochran8398
      @loricochran8398 3 года назад +3

      When I'm 40 lol

    • @dawnmorning
      @dawnmorning 2 года назад +5

      Took he and I 17 years to begin our journey together.

    • @loydhornsby423
      @loydhornsby423 2 года назад +2

      A 90's hit. Awesome song.

    • @limelily77
      @limelily77 2 года назад +2

      Someday, I hope.

    • @charmaineparmstrong8774
      @charmaineparmstrong8774 Год назад +7

      I lost the love of my life at 27 and 28 years later i too found another love greater than the first. To have loved and been loved once is amazing. To love and be loved a second time in life is something short of a miracle....dedicated to my darling husband

  • @raymondjokerst2860
    @raymondjokerst2860 9 лет назад +190

    she makes her voice sultry, crying, silky, growlin.... just luv this lady for many years.

  • @dawnmorning
    @dawnmorning 2 года назад +14

    Thank you for playing this foolish games for 17 years with me. Here is to the next 17 years with you by my side.

  • @kraftykat1048
    @kraftykat1048 4 года назад +85

    I'm in love with someone that doesnt love me and is stringing me along. I finally truly feel and understand this song.

    • @cornbreadfedkirkpatrick9647
      @cornbreadfedkirkpatrick9647 3 года назад +6

      Yes, and all this time I thought my family loved me they never did.

    • @gonaddabarbarian
      @gonaddabarbarian 2 года назад +4

      The power of love, is a curious thing, make one man weak, make another sing, change your heart to a little white Dove, more than a feeling, that's the power of love.
      And it don't take money, don't take fame, don't need no credit card to ride this train, It's strong and it's sudden and it's cruel sometimes, but if i just saved your life....that's the power of love!

    • @brandoncherry432
      @brandoncherry432 2 года назад +3

      I understand exactly what you’re going through. She is still stringing me along. I try to stop caring it’s impossible.

    • @cherb8038
      @cherb8038 2 года назад +1

      Me too sis

    • @kevinholeman8123
      @kevinholeman8123 2 года назад +5

      Learn and take the positive moments with you but move on. There is someone who wants to love and appreciate you for who you are

  • @saints3824
    @saints3824 7 лет назад +75

    Jewel and Adele can capture feelings with words, music and their voice. It's really something perfect. Seconds in this infinite time

    • @l.adodg3r70
      @l.adodg3r70 3 года назад +7

      Adele 🤮

    • @terimueller3647
      @terimueller3647 2 года назад +3

      Adele sounds like nails on a chalkboard to me. she is not even close to the same caliber as Jewel

    • @templeton3504
      @templeton3504 2 года назад +1

      4yo comment and it still ain't right. Let's put this into relatable terms...if success was a tall building then Jewel is that smokin'hot secretary on the top floor. Adele, well she gave you a valet ticket and parked your car.

    • @marfauzamatjusoh8198
      @marfauzamatjusoh8198 Год назад +1

      There is one more female who has the same talent. She is Fiona Apple.

    • @moryveraval6249
      @moryveraval6249 10 месяцев назад

      @@templeton3504 - 😅

  • @Zewaldi0007
    @Zewaldi0007 12 лет назад +44

    I am listening to this and I still remember the very first time i heard this song like 15 years ago, and it still draw strings inside of me, her voice, and her feeling that it transmits. this song is epic!

  • @jasonlau8970
    @jasonlau8970 2 года назад +11

    I am an old man but I am still listening….it brings me back to my youth days…

  • @greendayzed27
    @greendayzed27 12 лет назад +10

    "This is my heart bleeding before you, this is me down on my knees" ...So Raw and Powerful

  • @janedough1994
    @janedough1994 12 лет назад +18

    This song never gets old and always relevant throughout the years and stages and relationships of my life! Perfect lyrics! Timeless

  • @Christiana_Seva
    @Christiana_Seva 11 лет назад +26

    These foolish games are tearing me apart,
    And your thoughtless words are breaking my heart...

    • @kdy1274
      @kdy1274 6 лет назад

      the best part ...i love this song, these verses, the feeling, the pain in every word...it hurts, it really hurts

  • @kathaiti
    @kathaiti 5 лет назад +149

    I really miss the 90s. The music was sooo great.

    • @jemimahkendall6579
      @jemimahkendall6579 5 лет назад +5

      Everything was better, this 2019 buisness sucks

    • @justanother4367
      @justanother4367 4 года назад +1

      Plus one

    • @taraflanagan6876
      @taraflanagan6876 4 года назад +2

      Any good ideas on some good oldies like late 90s?

    • @Christopher-Lenz
      @Christopher-Lenz 4 года назад +3

      @@jemimahkendall6579 lol it doesn't get any better in 2020

    • @josieposie9969
      @josieposie9969 3 года назад +2

      @@Christopher-Lenz And 2021 isn't any better, but here's to a better future.

  • @KandeeCrystalJasmin
    @KandeeCrystalJasmin 13 лет назад +11

    "You were always the mysterious one, with dark eyes and careless hair." Thanks to you and your foolish games my heart is broken.

  • @TheIllustratedChristian
    @TheIllustratedChristian 12 лет назад +5

    And your thoughtless words are breaking my heart...
    Those lyrics are so relatable. Thanks Jewel for this beautiful song!

  • @mustafa2010ism
    @mustafa2010ism 2 года назад +10

    Wow, stunning. Legendary. What a voice.

  • @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557
    @lokinggoodbrowneyegirl9557 4 года назад +14

    I'm fighting Breast Cancer and I feel like this cuz it breaking my heart. Don't let a man make you feel this way. It's on him losing you.

  • @patriciasullivan2641
    @patriciasullivan2641 7 лет назад +14

    A song of raw emotion and vulnerability, of being that much in love, without reciprocation. It embarrasses me to admit that I once was that much in love...alone, apparently.

  • @SuzzieMarieRose
    @SuzzieMarieRose 10 лет назад +22

    You took your coat off and stood in the rain,
    You're always crazy like that.
    And I watched from my window,
    Always felt I was outside looking in on you.
    You're always the mysterious one with
    Dark eyes and careless hair,
    You were fashionably sensitive
    But too cool to care.
    You stood in my doorway, with nothing to say
    Besides some comment on the weather.
    Well in case you failed to notice,
    In case you failed to see,
    This is my heart bleeding before you,
    This is me down on my knees, and...
    These foolish games are tearing me apart,
    And your thoughtless words are breaking my heart.
    You're breaking my heart :"(

  • @judesbeard
    @judesbeard 10 лет назад +56

    this is one of the best songs ever written

  • @lrojas1993
    @lrojas1993 12 лет назад +16

    I love her voice so much. She's always sings with such emotion, it just always moves me so much. :)

  • @michaelglickman1300
    @michaelglickman1300 7 лет назад +19

    For those wondering, the other musicians are guitarist Tim Pierce, bassist Craig Young, drummer Omar Hakim, and pianist Robbie Buchanan.

    • @AmplifiedBluesHarmonica
      @AmplifiedBluesHarmonica 4 года назад +1

      Michael Glickman
      Thank you to these guys for helping make me feel... which is what we were born to do.

  • @pierretravis3217
    @pierretravis3217 7 лет назад +3

    The emotions she puts on this song is soooo amazing. One of my fave female artist in the 90's..until now.

  • @lilian4901
    @lilian4901 8 лет назад +124

    I don't know why, but this song has a great effect on me.. It makes me feel moody, I always imagine a grey scenery, like it is autumn, it's raining and the atmosphere is romantic and a little dark.. ALWAYS the same image comes to my mind..

    • @tylerbach1877
      @tylerbach1877 8 лет назад +1

      ughh 😓

    • @janhotz9039
      @janhotz9039 6 лет назад +2

      Hliana Papa ~well, it makes perfect sense to me. I mean, if you're going to be so terribly depressed you absolutely MUST have the dark, gloomy weather to go with it, right?

    • @ghostlyme
      @ghostlyme 6 лет назад

      Hliana Papa same here

    • @mzzmjqueenofhearts3407
      @mzzmjqueenofhearts3407 5 лет назад +1

      Hliana Papa your sign has to be a Pisces?

    • @Dinachan84
      @Dinachan84 5 лет назад +2

      I was in the 7th grade when I first listened to this song, and when I was walking in the school yard during the recess, I suddenly imagined the scenery would be black and white and Jewel's song is played, so yeah I guess this song gives such feeling. By the way, I didn't see the clip back then

  • @AdamBryantCraSHTesT
    @AdamBryantCraSHTesT 5 лет назад +4

    Your voice absolutely mesmerizes me. I literally stop everything i'm doing every time i hear you singing. Doesn't matter what song it is. Nor where i happen to be at the time. My world stops when you sing for me.

  • @karendarling1
    @karendarling1 11 лет назад +58

    Beautiful song no one sing this song like Jewel!!!!!
    Love this song!!

  • @jmverhoef80
    @jmverhoef80 5 лет назад +7

    Had not heard this in years. How beautifully and emotionally sung.

  • @mandyrampton6289
    @mandyrampton6289 11 лет назад +25

    have you ever stood infront of someone you want only to connect with on a level of mutual respect and their response is they feel embarrassed? songs like this serve to remind one of these experiences? PS connecting with others is tricky, thank goodness for the melody in songs like this x0x

  • @brettsoyars4341
    @brettsoyars4341 2 года назад +3

    Still listening in 2022, Still one of my favorite singers from the 1990's!

  • @lorigorham534
    @lorigorham534 8 месяцев назад

    The voice is magnificent. This is my heart . Your foolish games tear me apart. Our thoughtless words break my heart. I absolutely love this song in every way.

  • @thefireinside24
    @thefireinside24 3 месяца назад +3

    Still listening in 2024!🎉

  • @noneyabeeznez
    @noneyabeeznez 2 года назад +2

    Her first album pieces of you is definitely connected to my heart because what I was going through when it came out. Having just left my daughter's father getting over the heartbreak while raising a baby on my own. I adore jewel I wish she would do more music like this.

  • @MichelleJ817
    @MichelleJ817 8 лет назад +461

    its a horrible feeling the moment you realize you've never been loved

    • @beccabutterfly7317
      @beccabutterfly7317 8 лет назад +7

      +Michelle Lynn :'(

    • @sedinmagic1591
      @sedinmagic1591 8 лет назад +10

      I know what you mean

    • @The25Sister
      @The25Sister 8 лет назад +17

      The ultimate betrayal. I have no words for the pain.....being used, chewed on and spit out again..

    • @THEREALCANNA
      @THEREALCANNA 8 лет назад +17

      I wish I was loved again....

    • @kimidestony
      @kimidestony 7 лет назад +5

      Add me to the club

  • @bethemery7526
    @bethemery7526 5 лет назад +1

    I've been with my husband for 18 years. We listened to this CD at his house on our first date. I can still remember his old apartment and the candles he lit in his kitchen.

  • @Larsami1
    @Larsami1 11 лет назад +5

    I love the feelings Jewel puts in her songs.

  • @79dimitris
    @79dimitris 12 лет назад +4

    there is some melodies that you can't forget i love this track...from my deep of my heart

  • @jbro8934
    @jbro8934 7 лет назад +20

    1998. Smoky bars and old friends. Grunge.

  • @christinahill8259
    @christinahill8259 11 лет назад +33

    one of the saddest songs I have ever heard

  • @mamasoul4630
    @mamasoul4630 6 лет назад +6

    Been about 10 years sense i have herd this... Still makes me cry. Sooo beautiful.

  • @YodaWhat
    @YodaWhat Год назад +1

    Early JEWEL was so soulful and heartfelt, she awed me. This song breaks my heart, as it echoes the common human tragedy of armored people not quite connecting, thus missing out on the wonders of what might be termed _spiritual union._

  • @stormdcw
    @stormdcw 11 лет назад +27

    99% of the Beautiful songs out there. Have a Piano in it.. Someway some how. Look back.. You'll notice.

  • @ninjawhelk01
    @ninjawhelk01 12 лет назад +1

    She sings from the heart, she plays from the heart, she presents herself beautifully. Jewel i someone that I stumbled across and I'm very grateful that I didi!!!

  • @bulabula51
    @bulabula51 12 лет назад +120

    16 years later.. the lyrics finally hit, as an adult..smh

    • @sarahrussell9808
      @sarahrussell9808 3 года назад

      Agrees....

    • @nickotrisatrya7581
      @nickotrisatrya7581 3 года назад +1

      Exactly

    • @bulabula51
      @bulabula51 3 года назад

      @Angie Ball I'm sorry you're going through it right now babygirl. I'm sorry you gave your heart to someone hoping that it would be a dream and he screwed you over. My hope for you, you lovely heart, is that you find a way to give yourself peace and happiness, love and adoration and to know that eventually your love will find you.

    • @bulabula51
      @bulabula51 3 года назад

      @Angie Ball I can hear that in you! We got thisss

    • @bulabula51
      @bulabula51 3 года назад

      @Jason Montague lol. Well.. still playing foolish games.. more of an adult now.

  • @roseq88
    @roseq88 10 месяцев назад

    Not sure why this song just popped up in my head-I haven’t heard it in years.. But just as melodic and smooth today as ever, and now I’m listening on repeat.. can’t explain it-I am just really feeling jewel right now!!

  • @aaliyahrose2755
    @aaliyahrose2755 5 месяцев назад +4

    Who’s listening in 2024? (7-15-24) I’m broken hearted and this song hits just right 😔

  • @moryveraval6249
    @moryveraval6249 10 месяцев назад

    The best song ever of unrequited love. Jewel paints such a vivid picture with her words, her song. She's magical.

  • @lesliegarza7170
    @lesliegarza7170 3 года назад +3

    There was a time I thought love could endure all, conquer all. And the truth is, it cannot conquer someone who does not care enough to see the faults in their actions. Damn, I loved my narcissist and he left me a shell of myself. This song is the one song the perfectly describes what its like to love one.

    • @YodaWhat
      @YodaWhat Год назад

      I hear you. This song breaks my heart, as it echoes the common human tragedy of armored people not quite connecting, thus missing out on the wonders of what might be termed _spiritual union._

  • @KimPrattvirtualwarriorprincess
    @KimPrattvirtualwarriorprincess 10 лет назад +4

    Another old favorite - I miss Jewel's original music...

    • @Kahmayee
      @Kahmayee 10 лет назад +1

      Don't you hate how the music industry tears the soul out of the music?

  • @DavidalelulaDavid84
    @DavidalelulaDavid84 6 месяцев назад +3

    2024 still listening foolish games

  • @kengill4147
    @kengill4147 12 лет назад +1

    Wow!! The lyrics from this song are just so poignant and delivered with depth and emotion!! She pierced my heart at a time that it matched what is going on in my life!!

  • @scottkrackersurface5350
    @scottkrackersurface5350 8 лет назад +4

    Thank you for the jewel- stay her forever... Loved it just the right moment for New Loving Husband !!!❤️🌹😘

  • @debralea72
    @debralea72 14 лет назад

    i write and sing like this. i finally think i found a guy who appreciates me. thank you!!!!!

  • @mar_16_12
    @mar_16_12 10 лет назад +16

    NICE SONG.. O.M.G...THIS SONG IS FULL SENTIMENTAL....I LISTEN IT WHEN I'M THINKING ABOUT SOMEONE SPECIAL.

  • @jesslynne83
    @jesslynne83 13 лет назад +6

    i love this song so much and i used to love singing to it. it's my all time favorite :)

  • @jewelcastro695
    @jewelcastro695 4 года назад +6

    Gracias a esta hermosa canción llevo por nombre Jewel... Al igual que la talentosa artista que la interpreta! 💜

  • @ErinDavis-f9t
    @ErinDavis-f9t 4 месяца назад +2

    Nothing hurts more than a broken heart 💔

  • @stefanistone4990
    @stefanistone4990 7 лет назад +5

    Chills... Still... After all these years 💟💟

  • @dab7271
    @dab7271 12 лет назад +2

    I remember when this song came out. I was 10 years old. I had it memorized, and literally recited it in my sleep several times.

  • @Dsmjessica07
    @Dsmjessica07 10 лет назад +278

    Jewel needs to come back and save music.

    • @geniuslifetips4767
      @geniuslifetips4767 7 лет назад +10

      agree

    • @sarka4727
      @sarka4727 7 лет назад +5

      Dsmjessica07 110% percent agree to that I would have to make it to her concert I wish she would have just one more just one ugh she's too great!!!!

    • @etxsports5836
      @etxsports5836 5 лет назад

      There's good new music, just gotta find it... like- Red Roses Realm "1000 Scars"

    • @brettsoyars4341
      @brettsoyars4341 5 лет назад +2

      Question is why did so many radio stations stop playing the majority of her songs? I just don't understand.

    • @brettsoyars4341
      @brettsoyars4341 5 лет назад +1

      @@etxsports5836 True. But I would be surprised to find more then 10 songs out there that are worth listening to.

  • @kainecollins4278
    @kainecollins4278 5 лет назад +3

    Very haunting song....I can see through her voice the pain she went through. I wonder how hard it was for her to sing about the man who broke her.

  • @MrChessian
    @MrChessian 11 лет назад +6

    What a melody! Awesome.

  • @aprilrenea
    @aprilrenea 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love this man so much and I really don't think he is on the same level as me... but I don't know how to Walk away. How do you know something is not good for you but you still can't seem to stop Messing with it :( how do you know you deserve better but you still can't help but wonder why you'll never be enough 😢

  • @DrBeeSpeaks
    @DrBeeSpeaks 5 лет назад +3

    Yes!!! These lyrics??? Girl!!! Beautiful sad love song!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @CofeNcard1413
    @CofeNcard1413 7 лет назад +2

    Love ❤️ Jewel beautiful songwriter and singer

  • @missygivens2483
    @missygivens2483 11 лет назад +5

    This is the radio edit. The album versio has an extra line after, "You'd speak of your loved ones, as I clumsily strummed my guitar", she says, "You teached me of honest things, things that were daring, things that were clean, things that knew what an honest dollar did mean. I hid my soiled hands behind my back. Somewhere along the line I must have gone off track with you." They could have cut a chorus instead...what a jip!

  • @Jleeluvxxx
    @Jleeluvxxx 12 лет назад

    Omg thank you I was starting to freak out cause I couldn't find that version on youtube I thought I was the only weirdo on the planet with the slowed down version which I honestly love more that this version it doesn't fit as much I find. Thanks again!

  • @Nicandro_23
    @Nicandro_23 5 лет назад +251

    who is listening this music in 2019

    • @maureenreid594
      @maureenreid594 5 лет назад +7

      I am. I'm an old lady, so while I can see why anyone would love this sing. Maybe I'll put on some Clapton then ask my parents why

    • @SuzanneDeniseB
      @SuzanneDeniseB 5 лет назад +1

      ♡♡♡

    • @Jj-uh5ky
      @Jj-uh5ky 5 лет назад +10

      Us people who know great music 💛

    • @that-dude666
      @that-dude666 5 лет назад +5

      This song is on my playlist and whenever it comes on, I turn it up.

    • @aliewood1246
      @aliewood1246 5 лет назад +1

      @@maureenreid594 im 25 and i dont like rap, except from the 90s and early 2000s. But typically for me its opera, classical, 60s-early 2000s

  • @evand2911
    @evand2911 11 лет назад

    I got this single album when I was 4 years old and listened to these songs over and over! I'm 20 now and still remember the words.

  • @communist-hippie
    @communist-hippie 11 лет назад +5

    What makes jewel special. Is she quit beautiful. Good at writing songs. And her genuine wickedness. And some kind of darkness

  • @mskool79
    @mskool79 6 лет назад +2

    Pure poetry. Love this since the 90s.

  • @GroovyGirl1990
    @GroovyGirl1990 9 лет назад +19

    She encompasses my feelings so well. How does she do that

  • @sabien011
    @sabien011 13 лет назад +1

    i love this number so, i've heard it like then thousand times an i just can't get enough of it

  • @laurahendrickson2271
    @laurahendrickson2271 5 лет назад +3

    ❤️ Felt this way more than I can count why I gave up threw in the towel gave up been single by myself for over 2 years now and how I found peace

  • @noemifernandez4666
    @noemifernandez4666 2 года назад +1

    This song has been around for a while, back then it was just an amazing song now its telling my story

  • @disgraceify
    @disgraceify 11 лет назад +3

    I feel like this could possibly be the most emotional song ever written.

  • @deecee4644
    @deecee4644 5 лет назад +2

    This gal's vocals have always given me the chills. I love her.

  • @SuperGolddustwoman
    @SuperGolddustwoman 11 лет назад +4

    no matter how long it has been since u heard it.....if a tune is killer....it will move u

  • @phatbioch939
    @phatbioch939 3 года назад

    I was in love with this boy who was older than me when I was 13... Once, (before this song ever was recorded) he stood in my doorway with nothing to say besides some comment on the weather..... Here over 30 yrs later I think about him standing there and the look in his eyes... he was so darkly beautiful and I never told him....

  • @whomeye2168
    @whomeye2168 5 лет назад +3

    What’s more horrible than never being loved? Thinking you haven’t and unknowingly pushing people away who did love you and realizing it too late. Then truly not being loved by anybody is horrifying! 🥺😩😫😖🥺

  • @twinflamesrobiandcristie1122
    @twinflamesrobiandcristie1122 2 года назад +2

    Love this heard this so long ago and still love it

  • @manoncole3193
    @manoncole3193 7 лет назад +3

    Love this song forever. 🇨🇦😍

  • @kim_pretty6382
    @kim_pretty6382 2 года назад +1

    2022 still awesome 😎

  • @CrustyUgg
    @CrustyUgg 5 лет назад +3

    This song is hauntingly beautiful

  • @TRYHARD_DEMON55
    @TRYHARD_DEMON55 Год назад +1

    I always remember being in the backseat of my parents car listening to this & loving this at such a young age!! I love being a millennial!! Wish they made more music like this now!

  • @trutj22
    @trutj22 12 лет назад +14

    U don't even hear music like that....you feel it

  • @soniael3909
    @soniael3909 11 лет назад +20

    Oh my god this song describes absolutely how i feel..

  • @FishingwithSannah
    @FishingwithSannah 6 лет назад

    your thoughtless words is breaking my heart indeed! all the best in your journey.

  • @normamart718
    @normamart718 9 лет назад +279

    I mistook you for someone else, sobody who gave a damn, somebody more like myself.

  • @muzikaishokolad
    @muzikaishokolad 6 лет назад +1

    So many memories rushing in my head with this song....

  • @jln195399
    @jln195399 9 лет назад +2

    what a voice!!! makes lyrics trivial

  • @diannawilden7329
    @diannawilden7329 4 года назад +1

    Listening in 2020 ..what a babe 👍

  • @zamev
    @zamev 11 лет назад +7

    Wow! I was in my 20's when I heard this song for the first time!

  • @yokohiravideos
    @yokohiravideos 12 лет назад

    i love the way jewel sing this song...like i can feel what she's trying to say...brings tears to my eyes...

  • @nafasuposo5487
    @nafasuposo5487 11 лет назад +10

    Love this song,so sad

  • @chrismoss9060
    @chrismoss9060 2 года назад +1

    This song makes me feel my dad in my heart. He was a beautiful piano player

  • @jhosethdeleon8787
    @jhosethdeleon8787 7 лет назад +5

    hermosa cancion!!! muy a pesar de los años sigue despertando sentimientos......

  • @kevinbane3588
    @kevinbane3588 5 лет назад +1

    How bad thoughtless words can hurt, how judgmental uncaring people can hurt someone that really has a heart.! I believe the true depth of this song can only be understood by few.

  • @horiaa66
    @horiaa66 11 лет назад +3

    Beautiful song !

  • @janedoe7773
    @janedoe7773 6 месяцев назад

    I love this song. It's one of my go-to songs for karaoke. Jewel will forever be my emo goddess.

  • @AnnoyingNewslettersPage6
    @AnnoyingNewslettersPage6 3 года назад +10

    For years I've been listening to the song, and singing along from the perspective of jewel, herself, or at least the the character in in the song, even though the lyrics have always described so much about me.
    But today, was the first time I listened to what she was saying to the other person. And instead of me being the heartbroken one in her position, I realized I've been the one she's singing to all of these years. My last relationship really put that into perspective.
    ”You were fashionably sensitive,
    but too cool to care
    Then you stood in my doorway,
    With nothing to say
    Except some comment on the weather”
    I'm sorry. I'm on both the ADHD and autism spectrums, so while I can talk at people, I don't always do so well at talking to them about what they would want to talk about, especially when it comes to emotions, especially if you want me to do or say something without being asked to do it.
    It's not that I'm fashionably sensitive; it's that while I cognitively understand that certain topics have greater gravity, I don't always give them the level of care, and understanding that I should, in the moment.
    And as far as making that comment on the weather, that wasn't me blowing you off it was me being distracted by said weather. It's coming down like cats and dogs out there don't ya know. 😕
    As far as failing to notice, failing to see, your heartbreaking in front of me, if your heart is breaking because you've decided to end things with me because you just can't take it anymore, that was your decision, not mine.
    I've tried to change. I've tried to understand. I'm in counseling. I'm on medication. But I am utterly overwhelmed, and what you're asking me to do is to unlearn a lifetime of bad habits and to learn entirely new ones to replace them. Cognitive behavioral therapy takes time. And some things, like my hyper fixations can be managed but they likely will never go away.

    • @gbernadette7991
      @gbernadette7991 2 года назад

      Wow that was well e planned.. I am like that also when u said about the weather . I understood thus song in no ember and have been listening since high school I'm 46 now and still Remember the first time I heard this song my best friend at the time was singing it to me she loved it so much then shortly after was listening to it repeatedly
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