Kim D - Our First, Last & Only Statement on Kim D's Exit & Rumored Reconciliation w/ Teresa (Part 2)

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
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    There has been so much speculation, gossip and on line chatter about Teresa Giudice and Kim D’s rumored reconciliation. Today we break our silence on what we know, clarify whether these two have actually spoken or this is all just a fabricated internet rumor, Melissa’s involvement and likelihood this would, could and will ever lead to Kim’s much desired return to RHONJ. Next, we detail how this “reconciliation” led to Kim’s tossing us aside like a stale crust of bread, her constant twenty four seven disses, angry video rants and how, now that this serves as our official statement, it is something we will ever speak on again regardless of comments, clap backs, and more angry and bitter statements from her camp. Finally, in retrospect, we analyze the bias’ we allowed this podcast to be subjected to, talk the future - RHOBH (Nov 1), RHOP (Nov 5), RHOSLC (Next Week!) and apologize to several RHONJ cast members. All this and more. Cue the music….
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    Kim D - Our First, Last & Only Statement on Kim D's Exit & Rumored Reconciliation w/ Teresa (Part 1)

Комментарии • 301

  • @Bravadoh
    @Bravadoh Год назад +90

    The argument goes both ways. If she shouldn’t have showed up every week if she wanted payment, if she was irrelevant, why did you ask her back every week? Be the bigger person and make it nice, apologise. She showed up because of your friendship.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +21

      and now she Is lying about me and trashing me. im shocked at her lies

    • @Bravadoh
      @Bravadoh Год назад +22

      @@behindthevelvetrope i would speak to her directly, as she thinks you are doing the same. Cut the middle people out and make amends. Not many people would commit time to your business like she did. And you obviously enjoyed her company as you spent free time together so salvage it and then this public spat stops as well

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +16

      the spat is over. I welcome her to keep talking about it 24/7 and often. it makes her look bitter and crazy. as I stated - after today I will never speak on it again ever @@Bravadoh

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      you haven't listened to the Patreon episode? I am so sad
      www.patreon.com/posts/kim-d-s-teresa-88426499?cid=116651738

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +11

      ok well you tube is free and I will keep posting here. thank you for watching @@cali-tm1ec

  • @barbraw-backtoeden7419
    @barbraw-backtoeden7419 Год назад +20

    You don’t lose friends because real friends cannot be lost. You lose people masquerading as friends, and you are better for it.

  • @HRaeN
    @HRaeN Год назад +21

    I have always said that when friends have a falling out and 1 of them is running around telling anyone who will listen, that says more about them than it does about you. But it's hard not to defend yourself when someone is slandering you. She already has a reputation of being messy, so most people won't give a shit what she's on about anyway.

  • @BlackCatBonkers
    @BlackCatBonkers Год назад +14

    What tells me a lot about you, David, is that you read the comments, and respond to your viewers, which makes people feel not just heard, but valued.
    I’m standing by you.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +6

      THANK YOU. it takes a lot of time but I very very much appreciate everyone and am thrilled when people have an opinion that differs from mine. As long as someone does not go below the belt I welcome all sides and comments here

  • @amber88565
    @amber88565 Год назад +14

    Honestly I couldn’t handle all the dogs barking and then her hollering at the dog to stop barking in the middle of someone else speaking. Just a horrible listening experience

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +3

      thats what everyone is saying here. I used to get 100s of DMs telling me that and I stuck up for her. what a fool I was

    • @MsEazypeazy
      @MsEazypeazy Год назад

      Omg..just wrote an entire message about that and then read this. Lol. It made me nutz and cancelled patreon

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      WELL go BACK TO PATREON. NO MORE DOGS and no more Kim @@MsEazypeazy

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      @@videovixens it’s NOT Kim OR Rachel. It’s david with many many guests coming. I’ve always got a plan when it comes to biz. Trust the process

  • @andrewesposito50
    @andrewesposito50 Год назад +10

    From a long time listener, I felt you both elevated each other.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      Love that u are a king time listener 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @SarahConnorIE
    @SarahConnorIE Год назад +11

    She wants payment for sitting in her PJs having a chat while surrounded by aggravating barking dogs? She’s not worth your time nor energy. All she did was interrupt you. Bye, Kim

  • @iamtheicycle
    @iamtheicycle Год назад +7

    If she really thinks Teresa will be her friend after trashing her / Louie and even the daughters at times, she’s more delusional than we thought! She talked so much garbage about these people now tossing a friend to run back to Teresa that she hates so much. She’s friend to no one. Now we know this is what she did to Tre, she’s friends to no one. And Tre does give 2 shits about her lol she’s not on her radar at all so GOOd LUCK KIm

  • @kriskross21
    @kriskross21 Год назад +6

    I honestly think Kim was letting these so called “friends” get in her head and steer her wrong. I think she should have just addressed her issues with you privately. Wishing you both continued success.

  • @kandykaye9981
    @kandykaye9981 Год назад +10

    I watched Kim because she happened to be on this show, not the other way around. Also, I always know what she is going to say, David often surprises me.

  • @bunnybunny3536
    @bunnybunny3536 Год назад +22

    The two of you were magic together, and I’m saddened this happened. I hope some time can pass, some talk can happen, and the magic can return at some point.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +4

      never say never as the kids say

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад

      Kim will be back once it backfires. However, she won't take any of the blame. She will blame it on people you planted the idea.

  • @user-gy8kx2tg7k
    @user-gy8kx2tg7k Год назад +4

    David, please keep going, I can see the hurt, but remember your podcast was first and always remember people love you!

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      Awe thank you!!! I’ve got 4 huge interviews for sept - 2 already happened

  • @elanefields1836
    @elanefields1836 Год назад +8

    I think Kim felt like David should have offered her more money since he was getting so much money from the podcast.

  • @SSBB4
    @SSBB4 Год назад +3

    I do agree its hard to believe that Kim as a business woman for a few decades would be such a pushover as to not be paid when she needed the money. Shes tougher than most HW on any franchise

  • @texan903
    @texan903 Год назад +2

    Outsiders started getting in Kim's ear, saying she could strike out on her own for more profits. As friends, she should've had a private conversation with you to express her concerns. It's unfortunate that this mess became public.

    • @MySweetAriane
      @MySweetAriane Год назад +1

      Yes exactly but Kim made a mistake because the Saturdays with her and David and the live shows were so good. She left a good thing and she could have kept doing this while doing her own podcast.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Yes exactly

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Correct

  • @camagwinibazi2614
    @camagwinibazi2614 Год назад +3

    Kim D only wanted to do RHOJ catch ups only!! I wish this could’ve been addressed behind closed doors, I love and respect you both. I hope you guys can collaborate in the future.

  • @deee3950
    @deee3950 Год назад +6

    I think this is all a rouse and she is headed back to RHONJ. I think she needs clean breaks for bravo to consider hiring her

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      yup she tossed me aside for teresa. I find it disgusting. as far as going back to RHIONJ I guess time will tell

  • @loveylove337
    @loveylove337 Год назад +1

    David please know & I get that I’m no one special but I’ve been a paying customer of your Patreon for a very long time. I think since the beginning & I am sending you nothing but my love & respect from TN because your show has brought much joy to daily work commute for around 3 or 4 years. I’m not the only one! No one is leaving! Your couldn’t be more correct about that. I have EVERYDAY a hour each way to & from work & you travel with me 😉

  • @HRaeN
    @HRaeN Год назад +5

    I can't believe that anyone is saying they won't watch because Kim D won't be on anymore. I mean seriously? 😂 Like Kim is some big get or something. Please...

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      LOL and like who is really saying that. Patreon numbers are THOUGH the roof today and the main show on apple downloads are higher than ever. and yes re Kim. LOL. as IF. do not listen to the fake news. and those that say that will RUN when Kyle is here - LVP - think of the actual interviews I am capable of and have coming up. they are not gonna come when people like that are on? lol

  • @rvegas81
    @rvegas81 Год назад +4

    You’ll be fine David! I enjoy you guys both. Can’t wait for new stuff from you.

  • @stefaniaponitz5738
    @stefaniaponitz5738 Год назад +8

    I'm sorry this happened to you David.

  • @RobMathMiller
    @RobMathMiller Год назад +7

    It sounds like Kim got paid. If she did not like the amount she should have taken it up with her employer, I.e., David.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      Exactly. And please note not that it’s anyone’s biz but every time she asked for a raise which was MORE than once a year, she got one. How often does corporate America give raises? As a former head of HR, I promise you once a year. Sounds like she had a great deal over here.

  • @ahmedmohomed4338
    @ahmedmohomed4338 Год назад +2

    Lol kim d showed everyone who she is 12 years ago. Believe her already

  • @holly_wood26
    @holly_wood26 11 месяцев назад +1

    David - don't worry and don't let this take up anytime in your mind. It's not worth it. I feel like a lot of people feel they're underpaid. I'm a teacher and tutor on the side. I surely charge less than my value, but I don't blame the parents, if that was a fee I set - lol. Also for Kim to say this is what I pay my cleaning lady. I find that extremely disrespectful toward cleaning ladies. She's basically saying she is better than a cleaning lady. We're all equal and should be respected and truth be told the podcast is better now. I actually unsubscribed on RUclips b/c it was just too much. David - good news...I'm back :) Have a blessed weekend! :)

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  11 месяцев назад +1

      OMG welcome back. Yes I thought that was so so disrespectful to cleaning ladies too. I’m so glad you are back

  • @dmvnative90skid63
    @dmvnative90skid63 Год назад +1

    David will be fine! Will Kim be missed, yes! But the show must and will go on!

  • @angelaneri1904
    @angelaneri1904 Год назад +3

    Rachel’s right, Kim’s using this as a platform to promote her new podcast. Disgusting, I only ever listen for you David

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      She is disgusting. Trashing me to promo a podcast and no one will listen. Thank you. And thank you for listening to my show

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад

      Kim suddenly woke up and decided to get to work after she saw David stepping up his game.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      correct. I work 24 hours a day 7 days a week. I love you all and will always provide content for ya @@MiaMixx

  • @bgbg2921
    @bgbg2921 Год назад +1

    Some micro aggressions coming from KimD were apparent some months back when she was still on. Round about towards the end. Disrespectful to you David and I’m not surprised to see this sad reveal. U still be getting me eyeballs.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      yes and she plans to talk about this 24/7 on her new show LOLLL. reveal info etc. when you are very successful - have a loyal audience - and succeed at anything in life people wanna tear you down. its that simple. the ratings for the shows on apple are as good as ever - no one has left the Patreon and its biz as usual. we wont respond when she talks about this 24.7 - its clear she has NO content except this which with no respinse how long can she talk about it/ LOL. mind you she is talking about the wrong Teresa did to her 10 years late so she will be talking about this for 24 years I am sure

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      and yes she was very awful to me. as a biz person I put up with it cause I was too busy to fire her but the great thing about this is forced me to focus on the problem and regroup in 24 hours and now have a great plan fro every week

  • @benbelzer8303
    @benbelzer8303 Год назад +3

    💯, Exactly. Kim will eventually move on from Dana. She will NOT have Teresa's back! She jumps and jumps and jumps!

  • @Angeleyes-mz6bc
    @Angeleyes-mz6bc Год назад +8

    David, You were dealing with a housewife that thrives on drama. I’m surprised that you’re surprised that this happened. I’m happy because now I can hear everything you have to say and I don’t have to hear her interrupt with her loud obnoxious voice.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +4

      I guess I am not surprised. I was warned by everyone about her but defended her hard. Maybe the joke is on me and I had blinders on. I am glad you willl mow listen to everything

    • @user-wz7zr8vs8e
      @user-wz7zr8vs8e Год назад +1

      Yes!!!’ A thousand %

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      wow@@user-wz7zr8vs8e

  • @Misskittycatcat
    @Misskittycatcat Год назад +4

    Too much talking Rachel.

  • @leonard2880
    @leonard2880 Год назад +1

    I agree with this girl, Kim has a right to feel that her compensation wasnt enough, but if she was your friend she should have come to you with that privately.
    That being said ...she switched sides so often I am not suprised that she did it to you. It was an indication of who she really is as a person.
    If she is treating you badly to be friends with Theresa......it might get her some where, but it will be short lived,. In the end Thetesa will leave her dead in the water just like she left her family.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      Yea and personally I don’t even think there has been any communication with Teresa. I think that’s another huge lie. That’s my opinion from what I was told. Which makes her behavior even more reprehensible to me

  • @VioletReign
    @VioletReign Год назад +3

    Money really is the root of all evil .... But at the end of the day Behind the Velvet Rope was created by you David & you worked your ass off to get to where you are today! I watch this show because of you & I really enjoy you & Sarah ... you 2 make me laugh & the chemistry between you two is so real & genuine! Keep going David, you got this

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Thank you and I’ve got some insane interviews coming in Sept

    • @Insatiableshirin
      @Insatiableshirin Год назад +2

      It’s the LOVE of money that’s the root of evil not money itself per say

  • @karenglaicar5486
    @karenglaicar5486 10 месяцев назад

    Love your show David. I thought she was a good friend. Thanks and take care.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for loving the show 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @er985327
    @er985327 Год назад +5

    I watch for you and will continue to watch for you! Just keep doing you!

  • @LoveCisse
    @LoveCisse Год назад +5

    I did like you both together but as time went on she seemed to get more aggressive with you. I knew she would do this honestly. The way she would dog Teresa sometimes was cringe especially when she said Teresa would borrow her clothes. After that I knew she was not a good friend to anyone. She started sounding bitter. You would even defend Teresa at some point. Kim always wanted to be on that show so she did just that. Those ladies will never trust her even Teresa and honestly I don't blame them. The show will use her just like before. I honestly believe you both were thriving and had big opportunity coming for this channel. Now she will just have to watch.
    Keep you head up Better day's are coming

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      Thank you. And thank you for watching

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад

      Agreed. Kim really shot herself in the foot by leaving prematurely. She could've done much more to promote herself.

  • @suzycreamchez123
    @suzycreamchez123 Год назад +4

    No worries. I'll still be listening, David. I wondered why she wasn't on, and then I came across her talking shit on Dana Wilkey's show. I thought maybe you got tired of her over talking you. I notice she does that with everyone. I enjoy Kim, but shut up and let someone else make a point. This all seems really stupid. It's something that could have been handled with a phone call, but it sounds like she let other people wind her up. 🤷‍♀️ Don't let it get you down. Isn't there some saying about "some friends are around for a season...." Whatever, girl, go on.

  • @PT-tw6kg
    @PT-tw6kg Год назад +2

    I never watched because of Kim, do you, and move on. She's being sloppy and dirty.

  • @sherrislocumb9244
    @sherrislocumb9244 Год назад +10

    Kim D repeated her self very often. She became predictable! David, I am sorry you lost a friend, but I am not surprised because of Kim’s track record with friendships!
    I personally will not miss her!
    I watch BTVR the other days of the week and found Saturday’s to be the same old same old…
    Looking forward to your new guests and insights!

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      OOH well NOW you can watch on Saturday's also. I am so excited to have you back Saturdays. Thanks for your kind words. Losing a friend is never ever easy.

  • @coffeecake1803
    @coffeecake1803 Год назад +1

    You both very entertaining! ❤️ and Light!

  • @cindypowel7517
    @cindypowel7517 Год назад +17

    Coming on in a bathrobe, looking like she just rolled over, yelling at some dogs, & interrupting David, doesn't look like someone who knows what's highbrow! Lol

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +5

      I sure had my work cut out for me

    • @felineexceptional
      @felineexceptional Год назад +1

      ​@@behindthevelvetropeYou really did. All your other guest hosts put the effort in. Their connection ain't glitchy either!! I think the most annoying thing for me is the constant talking over people, particularly when you had high profile guests on. You have honed your interview technique over the years, you know the questions to ask and how to get the interviewee to answer... Kim just talked all over them. I could see how annoying it was for you sometimes...

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      thank you for realizing. @@felineexceptional

  • @karenbourque3492
    @karenbourque3492 Год назад +1

    It's so sad, she is running around to different podcasts saying such awful things about him , friends don't do that to real friends, 😤 just so sad:( i love David and i hope David can just see we all love 💝 him . Xoxoxo 😘

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      Oh I love you too!! Posting more vids soon - a holiday does NOT mean you shall be deprived 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

  • @shannonvanscotter3171
    @shannonvanscotter3171 Год назад +1

    I mean
    is the new drinking game.
    Every time David says “I mean” take a shot.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      I love this game!! Can we play it for every video? I’m being serious

  • @CiaraContent
    @CiaraContent Год назад +3

    can we get a hint about the major thing about RHOBH? 👀👀

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +3

      I mean I have irons in the fire BAB-E

    • @TheBadbitch27
      @TheBadbitch27 Год назад +2

      I’m dying for this tea, wish Kim D well but no one cares. Leave Sarah and I’ll cry

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Sarah can never leave. I have made that very clear to her. She wont. She has a lot going on on her own and an amazing booming life. Thats why it works - we both have a whole thing outside the other and come together cause we want to @@TheBadbitch27

  • @user-vu2ib3xb2w
    @user-vu2ib3xb2w Год назад +9

    IMO, Kim D lacked professionalism. I’m sorry but the constant dog interruptions was a huge distraction from the conversations being had. I seriously saw this podcast as 2 friends speaking on current bravo topics. What employer would deal with all the distractions? Now that the distractions are gone I’m more apt to watch more consistently. Best of luck to you both

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +5

      the dogs were very hard to deal with. I had to edit out the noises for over 5 hours a week to get most of it out so believe it or not what you heard was the edited version of the noises.

  • @donnaharris2192
    @donnaharris2192 Год назад +7

    so sorry about your friendship loss. you have handled this with class. i heard her on two different podcasts and she told two different stories. she could have just said you guys decided to part ways. i felt it was tacky. if she felt she wanted you to cut her in for more $ that is something that could have been talked about privately between the two of you. sad. but she also should have realized this was your podcast and she was a guest speaker the podcast wasn't both of your podcast where you make equal. it's just like in the business world the owner of a business pays their employees a certain wage and he keeps the rest of the profits. maybe one day you guys can talk it out. wish you the best. i enjoy all of your guests and i think you do a great job. i really respect how you get back to everyone it's very nice.

  • @broadzviewcartoons1292
    @broadzviewcartoons1292 Год назад +9

    It's sad when you give someone an opportunity on one or two topics, and they start believing they are beyond their skill level. I feel you on all of it. I prefer you solo. You're a seasoned pro. You do a myriad of interviews on a broad range of topics. Thank you for all YOU do. (I sadly saw her becoming more emboldened, interrupting and overstepping her role on YOUR podcast.) It's not cool when folks squander their opportunity.

  • @doctorcwho3089
    @doctorcwho3089 11 месяцев назад

    That is why I don't trust people. Cause you never the moment someone will blindside you with a wrench.

  • @maurice1263
    @maurice1263 Год назад +5

    David look, I think right now both of you guys are hurt right now, however I think once time passes, I feel u and Kim D can iron stuff out and make amends. Really liked you guys together and thought y’all had good chemistry. Hope you guys can at least get back to bring friends

  • @lunarbluep
    @lunarbluep Год назад +6

    Just awful. Whatever happened needed to be kept private. This was a friendship first and foremost. Shame on Kim for forgetting that. David, keep doing what you’re doing. You have the best interviews, asking the questions we want answers to. Your star is too high for her now anyway, she can’t handle that- that’s on her. ❤ We love you.

  • @dorothyblack8904
    @dorothyblack8904 Год назад +2

    I tried Atlanta and only watched 3 episodes before I gave up. Should I pin my hopes on Potomac? Going to watch slc now that mary is back. My heart has been broken before.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      atl was so good but UGH this past season and the one before were ugh. I agree now that MARY is back I will watch salt lake again. Potomac I like a lot

    • @Jamielooksup
      @Jamielooksup Год назад

      ​@@behindthevelvetropeOMG get Mary Cosby on here. 🙏

  • @palavergirl7450
    @palavergirl7450 Год назад +1

    Oh, hello the lovely Rachel U!!! Loving the regular collab. Face of Princess Radz, voice of Bethenny. Cause NYC proper B Bosses 😎

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      YESSSSSSSS. And I have a lot of ex housewives coming for Patreon. I have a plan

  • @iamheatheranne
    @iamheatheranne Год назад

    Housewives in Bravo are Housewives for a reason. They are dramatic and messy. Kim is no different. I wish her the best with her new chapter and hopefully she'll conduct her business better.

  • @SylKx0
    @SylKx0 Год назад

    lol!! @she interrupted you all the time, and either way she makes no sense. Its true You did give her a platform for so long, seems ungrateful & super shady. Glad you got to speak your truth 💜 also agree with Rachel

  • @SylKx0
    @SylKx0 Год назад +1

    " Im a Gemini, I got to squash the emotions and move on" epic, (fellow Gemini)

  • @cindycasal-zack5335
    @cindycasal-zack5335 Год назад

    Will Teresa be telling Kim D what and what not to say? I never believed what she said anyway

  • @shondawakefield1322
    @shondawakefield1322 Год назад +4

    As a RUclips listener… everything David is saying is absolutely TRUE!!! ✌️❤️

  • @SammyCamilleKyle
    @SammyCamilleKyle Год назад +12

    I LOVE RACHEL!!! She is such a good cohost with you!! I love her interactions with you the same way I love you and Sarah together. I feel like this is going to be a whole new era for Behind the Velvet Rope 💕💕💕

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      It is and trust I have MANY ex housewives that are also in the mix. Kim being on Patreon took a slot away from many many many ex real housewives who asked non stop to do what she was doing for other franchises. now we have time for them and dont have to be a RHONJ only patron. this is the best news for this channel lol.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      and both Rachel and Sarah are very very loyal friends

    • @lbarretoable
      @lbarretoable Год назад

      She reminds me of Patti Stanger the matchmaker.

  • @jola9403
    @jola9403 Год назад +5

    David you are the only You Tube Channel and Podcast I actually search for. I enjoy your content and guests and you are a great interviewer. I’ll continue to listen and watch. Having said that I think this happened for a reason, with all due respect, I think the reason is to humble you a little - over time your boasting about houses, travel, wealth, money and success has become a little obnoxious. In Australia we are living with high costs of living and rising interest rates…not sure about USA - so I feel you have become a little over the top. Apologies for my opinion but you said you like to hear both sides. Really hear what Kim is saying - sounds like you took a bit of advantage of her. Sit down and talk with no microphones and you will work it out.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Thank you for searching for the channel and watching everyday. 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️💣💣

  • @letgo2217
    @letgo2217 Год назад +9

    It's unfortunate that you and Kim D have fallen out but sadly I am not surprised. The episode where she discussed possibly starting her own podcast because she was being told to do that is when the seeds were laid for me that she wouldn't be on the show for much longer. And in the last several episodes she was featured on I'd felt the energy shift in your dynamic. I do think she was very entertaining at times and had a lot to say on RHONJ, with that said I also think it was clear that she was new to podcasting and wasn't familiar with interviewing etiquette etc. Like Rachel said being on this podcast provided her with a platform and she likely learned a lot from being on weekly. I think she will have to hire the right team of people to successfully launch and maintain any future podcasts she may make because at least to me it seemed clear that she wasn't familiar with the ins-and-outs of running a weekly podcast like this. I always got the impression that she was told what time to show up and log on and she did just that, but I never got the impression she was a part of the actual behind the scenes work of prepping the episodes (aside from watching the discussed shows of course), editing, promoting, etc. Either way it is what it is there is nothing else that can be done except to each say your peace and move on as you said.

  • @MsEazypeazy
    @MsEazypeazy Год назад

    Also, her and Jacquelyn and Teresa I believe have talked to get her back on show to take Margret and Melissa down. Period. Simple

  • @jennifercandela181
    @jennifercandela181 Год назад +2

    Please u and Kim d are my favorite 😍🙏🏽

  • @natalienewnom8243
    @natalienewnom8243 Год назад

    Did either of you two actually speak!!???

  • @jamiebenzin3754
    @jamiebenzin3754 Год назад +3

    Am I missing something , who shows up for work and it seemed to be 1 hour on Saturday, and sits in a bathrobe distracted by their dogs. And no one shows up for work , even if you are friends week after week and accepts no payment. I wish Kim the best and I think she would be great back on Jersey even part time to help take Margaret down. And honestly I think Joe Gorga and the way he speaks to women is disgusting. It bothers me that Bravo allows that and brought him back. And women like him. Their should be a petition by women about his unacceptable behavior. I want Kim on her podcast to stand her ground because at times she flip flops. Just don’t disparage each other and move on. It’s not a good look. Maybe Kim could have Teresa on and they can talk things out. And David , you’ve done great interviews. People need to watch them if they have t seen them. Juicy Joes was great because he is authentic. And Bo Dietal, whether he is your cup of tea or not has great stories. He has lived a life. And people need to watch Melissa Rivers once a month with you David. Maybe you could have her more because she is intelligent.Room for everyone!

  • @doctorcwho3089
    @doctorcwho3089 11 месяцев назад

    Kim D wanted an excuse to start a podcast so she used the nonpayment as a clout for her new podcast and as an excuse to leave David's podcast

  • @joshbelcher7691
    @joshbelcher7691 11 месяцев назад

    Rachel is very beautiful, but I have to say this, respectfully. She looks like Kelly Dodd & has Bethenny Frankel's voice.

  • @bekkylove742
    @bekkylove742 Год назад

    So sad -- the greed! She needs a drama to stay 'viable.'

  • @shondawakefield1322
    @shondawakefield1322 Год назад +2

    Honestly though…. I’m not sure how David ever trusted Kim D. as much as he did??? I grew to like her, after listening to dozens of podcasts, but I’ve always felt a little leery of her?? Oh well, stay clear of it ALL. Just stay with bygones ✌️

  • @jaquelinedavies4220
    @jaquelinedavies4220 Год назад

    OMG Why doesn’t anyone let David speak

  • @aharri941
    @aharri941 Год назад

    Mhhmm makes you wonder now that she is on good terms with Teresa, I wonder if that had anything to do with it.

  • @toyakh2620
    @toyakh2620 Год назад +1

    She is now on Dana Podcast saying stuff. I was saying to myself why? I understand her going on the other podcast but she keeps dragging it why not just address it once and leave it.

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад

      Kim is joining all the podcasts that are at odds with BTVR to complain and promote herself

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      it makes her look so bad. obsessed. I am addressing it today and only today; after ill never speak on it again. the thing is I am working lining up actual content for the show everyone loves so I am too busy. she can mention it every day - I agree it looks bad

  • @jacquelinewilson2279
    @jacquelinewilson2279 Год назад

    Duchess Kimbo and Duke David had chemistry - the magic that is so entertaining for us. It's a bit sad. That chemistry is gonna be hard to replicate. That's all I'll say on it.

  • @Rebeccaw812
    @Rebeccaw812 Год назад +1

    I had no idea Kim was saying such things about you. I am so sorry, it never feels good when a friend for lack of a better term betrays you. You both seemed like such good friends and understood one another. Professionally you will be all right. You are such a pro at what you do and as everyone stated I always listened for you as you are a pro at interviewing and relaying info, Kim was just a bonus. As far as personally I hope you heal if you haven’t already, and I’m glad that you have other good friends in your life, who will prop you up. I am a faithful listener, and always will be keep on doing you.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      yes I have a huge huge plan for sept and oct and we are more than fine with out her

    • @Rebeccaw812
      @Rebeccaw812 Год назад +1

      @@behindthevelvetrope glad to hear and I will be listening in 😀👍

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      yessss @@Rebeccaw812

  • @laura.0704
    @laura.0704 Год назад +1

    Ahh... What really happened? What did miss? It went from Jill Zarins Hamptons party where Kim was ready to go fight Margaret for getting in Davids face to now? I wonder who said what to Kim and got her doubting this platform with David. I'm sure feelings are hurt but I felt this was a real friendship. I'll still listen here I don't follow anyone on patreon. If you come to Texas I'll definitely go see you! I love all the gossip. Makes me forget my reality. Just please don't go back being friends with Margaret or Meliar) 😀❤

  • @venecapop2548
    @venecapop2548 Год назад

    And btw, Kim went to the other girls podcast I heard it and they confront her with what she said before and Kim lie to their faces 💀💀💀

  • @missverieri253
    @missverieri253 Год назад

    Omg- its like, Mum & Dad are fighting & I want it to please stop 🫣 Also want to remind everyone that Mercury (planet of communication!) is in retrograde until the middle of September 🪐 I’m sad for you both 😢

  • @SSBB4
    @SSBB4 Год назад

    Can we ask why this all of a sudden became a problem?

  • @violetsLight
    @violetsLight Год назад +2

    Was just a matter of time!

  • @destinyotano5430
    @destinyotano5430 Год назад +1

    No offense no one cares about juicy joe 😂😂😂 but loved you and Kim and she’s how I found you and loved the rhonj tea but I always said god forbid something happens it would be crazy cause both you and Kim d go in the gutter at times

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +3

      juicy go has almost 1 million downloads on apple everyone cares

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад +1

      Don't play with Juicy, he is holding the cards to Gorga's fate. He is keeping quiet and playing nice because he wants to come back into the country.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      yes@@MiaMixx

  • @dianepioch801
    @dianepioch801 Год назад +4

    What is Kim G up to? 😉

  • @user-wz7zr8vs8e
    @user-wz7zr8vs8e Год назад +2

    Kim D showed up for the exposure!!! She’s been irrelevant for ions!! Aaaannddd. Kim always interrupted David. She’s narly and hard to look at😬
    Good riddance to baaad rubbish.
    I love, love your shows!!
    Everything you do is great!! I hope you get paid huuuuge for all your hard work.
    IMO Kim D hung on to your coat tails💥

  • @angelastcyr1781
    @angelastcyr1781 Год назад +3

    Kim was an added bonus but I think most of us definitely watches for David, not her.

  • @danasmith2906
    @danasmith2906 Год назад +2

    David you are better off without her. To be honest with you I would not watch when she was on She never really brought anything new to the stories you were discussing, it was always let me check with so and so and I will get back to you with the receipts and then she never did. The dogs and the screaming gave me a headache

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      I agree with everything. I let her stay cause she was my friend and I defended her against you all. I was played

  • @grasshopper1451
    @grasshopper1451 Год назад +5

    I did listen to that podcast. Kim side shaded. I sat there thinking gurl you ran a clothing business. This isn't your first rodeo. IF she accepted cleaning lady money. Well I guess she had to finally learn her lesson. I'm not on anyone's side. It's a private matter and frankly non of my business. I can't help myself 😂 I think she must have depended on her Big boy friends to do all the thinking for her. She really did sit on your podcast thinking who she thought she was. Over talking you to F-ing distraction. If it was me, I'd have negotiated a little better asking for a percentage of the Patreon fees for the one day a week I worked. Based on views and a similar cut off the RUclips end.
    Then she goes on to publicly outline her Patreon channels model. I can't. IF I had a platform to spring off from you I certainly wouldn't be dumb enough to tell the world what I was going to do. It's tantamount to me deciding to bugler a house and calling to let the homeowner know 😂.
    PS I really like this lady.

  • @well57seasoned
    @well57seasoned Год назад

    While I found some of Kim D's information insightful, her lack of professionalism was distracting. For example, her dogs were always finding a way to distract. There were other interruptions, such as her son or whatever, cell phone drops. If you are going to be a guest or if you are going to be a host, you need to have a professional set-up. Get yourself a decent microphone, camera and a ring light. Put your dogs in another room. She is an amateur who was paid commensurately.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      I agree with everything you said. also not that is it anyones biz but she got MULTIPLE raises during her tenure. aren't you supposed to get a raise ONCE a year in corporate America? who gets a raise every few months just cause they ask? I cant think of ONE company

  • @MiaMixx
    @MiaMixx Год назад +3

    Kim said the main reason for leaving the show were the insults, disrespect, condescending attitude combined with the little payments. When in actuality, she is mad at herself for not being able to capitalize on her own success. She is accustomed to running a brick and mortar business, and hasn't figured the online game yet.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Correct. And I would love examples of insults, disrespect, condescending attitude. She felt I had to kiss her ass and thank her for the platform I created and ran for years before her and years after? She’s gone. Seems the downloads are the exact same as they’ve always been

    • @MiaMixx
      @MiaMixx Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope She took offense to 'earn your keep' comment, disapproved of calling Melissa G. a 'C U Next Tuesday', but feels the attitude change is attributed to your lifestyle upgrade. Someone showed her your Patreon stats. Kim said it all made sense when she went to the Hamptons. She is using the insults to justify her exit but is mad at the financial success.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      lol. NO one has access to my Patreon stats. no one so thats another lie. yes she saw my huge house in The Hamptons that I worked hard for @@MiaMixx

  • @annetteaspinall4279
    @annetteaspinall4279 Год назад

    Some of us have been rhonj from the get go, Kim doesn't understand that you did podcasts daily, so you earn coin.
    David you should have paid her once she was given you deets, I'm mean really paying her, money is the root of all evil.
    People want coin and there is nothing wrong with that.
    I will watch you but I'm not paying nothing.
    I hope you two can fix it.
    On a shady note..... Do you see what Theresa says now??

  • @peacehappyb237
    @peacehappyb237 Год назад +1

    David and Kim D were lovely together. I think there should be a conversation between the two because it seems like there is a misunderstanding. Kim D should invite David on as a guest on her podcast and talk it out. David appears sad about the situation and Kim D seems very disappointed. One thing about Kim D is she seems to love her friends so deeply. So maybe in the moment she might have disagreed with David regarding treatment or whatever.. but didn't want to say it at the time and then those feelings built up over the year. She changed her expectations too which was fine, however, David did abide by the agreement 100%. I personally didn't think that Kim D got paid simply because it was David's podcast; she seemed to enjoy coming on as his friend.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      except instead of speaking to me about her unhappiness she runs to every podcast in town? Now she cannot handle the backlash she is getting which would not even exist if she didnt open her big mouth. She created this mess and now she cannot handle the heat. It is Teresa and Melissa and her getting kicked off the show all over again. THAT SAID - you have many valid points and I very much appreciate your concern and very much appreciate you staying with my channel

    • @peacehappyb237
      @peacehappyb237 Год назад +1

      @@behindthevelvetrope Yes, she needs to tell you - that is something she probably needs to work on- communicating standards and boundaries with her friends instead of getting upset. It reminds me of her getting upset with Tre for the bad treatment she perceived, but I believe she never told Tre she hurt her- instead got very upset with her and was vocal about it. She wants her friends to read her mind instead of telling them how she feels.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      no wonder Teresa hates her @@peacehappyb237

    • @peacehappyb237
      @peacehappyb237 Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope She has high expectations of her friends. She could be a perfectionist and is intolerable to rejection ( perceived or not)..That could lead to her feeling disappointed, hurt, and not feeling good enough. It can damage her friendships. Also, she seems to be easily influenced by third parties. It appears that she truly believes that the way she treats others will be the exact way they will treat her in return- which isn't realistic in many cases. Now the other side feels confused and sad or in Tre's case -didn't have time to care. In your case, you come across as a very logical person( everything is simple and understood); Kim D is more emotional. Being emotional, having high expectations, and not communicating well, can be a disaster.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      I sure did abide by what we agreed upon

  • @michelegraham9044
    @michelegraham9044 Год назад

    It seems like the fans are driving the bus.
    They can get people kicked off shows because they don’t like them.
    The majority don’t seem too bright and can’t see both sides of a story and there are usually 3 sides so Mr & Ms Average haven’t got a chance.
    Look how many fell for the pandemic propaganda and got the shots.
    A lot of them & I’m speaking about another topic where fans believe lies, provable lies, and nothing can change their minds.
    I’ve found a lot of the “super fans “ are batshit crazy & some resort to death threats and having those who don’t like them followed into FBI offices type crazy. The principal has to have money to hire the sort of PR team or principals with enough crazy fans they slip a few bucks to for things to get THAT serious.

  • @nicolehines162
    @nicolehines162 Год назад +1

    She used you David.... She got on my nerves... We love David

  • @Roques-rage1706
    @Roques-rage1706 Год назад +1

    David you knew she wasn't loyal. This is why Yeresa cut ties. She is a proud snake. You still have great Chanel. Im not jumping ship. Especially not for her.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +3

      THANK YOU. I did know she was not loyal but she really convinced me it was different with me. I fell for it. I should have called Teresa and listened to her. THANK YOU FOR NOT JUMPING SHIP. I have so many good things planned

    • @Roques-rage1706
      @Roques-rage1706 Год назад +1

      @@behindthevelvetrope Love you! I can't wait!

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      love you too. THANK YOU FOR being loyal and staying with us@@Roques-rage1706

    • @Roques-rage1706
      @Roques-rage1706 Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Roques-rage1706
      @Roques-rage1706 Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope nobody is going to pay to watch that hagg

  • @marciecaimona-ez3vo
    @marciecaimona-ez3vo Год назад

    It was you, David we come to listen to it wasn’t her

  • @ZeeshanKhan-wq3tw
    @ZeeshanKhan-wq3tw Год назад +3

    You should bring Kathryn Edwards on instead of Kim D. She can be a good co-host. Also Carol Radziwill.

  • @wendy-kt3lc
    @wendy-kt3lc Год назад

    Don’t worry David, you’ll be fine. Still listening. Kim D wants back on rhnj. Can’t stand her. Never listen when she was on your podcast.

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      well NOW you can listen an extra day of the week and spread the word. a lot of people said they didnt listen the day she was on - In the DMs and the comments. I am glad you will now watch my channel that I worked so hard creating over the past 4 years

    • @wendy-kt3lc
      @wendy-kt3lc Год назад

      Support always from the UK🇬🇧

  • @jeffwillet5713
    @jeffwillet5713 Год назад

    I would rather listen to David then Kim

  • @bellab2919
    @bellab2919 Год назад

    David im not going anywhere, she the one who lost

  • @MsKris0808
    @MsKris0808 Год назад

    Kim D is an opportunist...she causes TROUBLE all 5he time. I'm so over all of the housewives...5hey need to see how people in REAL LIFE LIVE

  • @gracefinnerty2981
    @gracefinnerty2981 Год назад +1

    Thank God she is gone❤❤❤

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +2

      Oh wow. I seriously didn’t realize so many people felt this way about her.

    • @gracefinnerty2981
      @gracefinnerty2981 Год назад

      Yep we don't care for her.👍👍👍✌️✌️✌️

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад

      wow I guess I had my head in the sand for all these weeks and weeks she was on @@gracefinnerty2981

  • @groovytuesday5867
    @groovytuesday5867 Год назад

    I won’t be listening to Kim D She’s so 2 faced

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      Thank you for staying with BTVR

    • @groovytuesday5867
      @groovytuesday5867 Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope I smell a 🐀

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      better to find out now. I would be in HUGE trouble if I did not have content coming out my As$ for ya. the opposite is true - I cannot even keep up. lol. so thank gawd for that @@groovytuesday5867

  • @KaeMae_
    @KaeMae_ Год назад +2

    I stopped watching because of Kim d. Will start watching again

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      well NOW you can listen an extra day of the week and spread the word. a lot of people said they didnt listen the day she was on - In the DMs and the comments. I am glad you will now watch my channel that I worked so hard creating over the past 4 years

    • @KaeMae_
      @KaeMae_ Год назад

      @@behindthevelvetrope I always listened for ages but then Kim d was on all the time and I found half truths in the things she said. She was too arrogant with the "I know all the jersey info" no u don't Mrs d. U are a local gossip and quite cringe. And now proving her arrogance and cringe even more by talking smash about you.

  • @bellab2919
    @bellab2919 Год назад

    David she just use u

    • @behindthevelvetrope
      @behindthevelvetrope  Год назад +1

      correct. I am so so glad you stayed with our channel and see her for who she is

    • @scottietoohottie5273
      @scottietoohottie5273 Год назад

      how so? how do I get a life in the point that u, I surmise want to feel like a insider, and I am asking you for a legitimate real not a shady and bitchee question, like Rachel is saying as I type this, what get u so invested on others problems? also mainly how u conclude Kim D used Dave? trying to understand ur frame of reference. I said to Dave in friendship battles the truth is somewhere in between each side of the 2 coins.. he agreed. u have certain knowledge everyone doesn't have enough clout to receive?! love Dave and hope they mend the relationship. . starting in line for a Cher concert lol