Xykk ! I was molested by my foster dad, he didn't goto church, he drank, he smoked, so your comment is a bit voided, he would molest me when my foster mom was at work, I still remember the last time he did it to, it was during a Broncos vs raiders game, and for every time the broncos scored, he would drink a beer, he got so plastered, he thought my foster mom was at work, eventually he came upstairs and started to hurt me and I screamed to the top of my lungs for my foster mom, you want to know the worst parts of it all? Well, they had a daughter before they became foster parents, he hurt her to, and that last day they had me, he told the police officers that the reason he did it was he thought I enjoyed, one of the police officers pulled me aside and asked me that very question, what kind of police officer would ask a child that, but even through all that, not everyone is a child molester, there are people who genuinely care for kids, I know I need to be careful around kids, I wouldn't want anyone thinking this about me, because I know how much it hurts a person, I've had it happen to me, I've seen too many people who have had it happen to them, how much it changed our lives, keep in mind, for those who have been molested, you may be the victim, but in the end, you get looked at like it was your fault because of it, I got that look all the time, even through I did nothing wrong, thank God I haven't had that for a long time now, people would tell me, usually when you are molested, you turn out that way, not in all cases I say, alike I said, I see how much it changes people, how much it hurts them, plus I would love to have my own kids someday, whether adopted or with my future wife, well see how that goes, but as a wise man once said, its hard enough having kids, but how can you argue with the fact of loving one that's already here, I also believe in God, despite everything that has happened through out my life, no, I'm not a church goer anymore, so again, your comment is that much more voided, does this mean I'm a good person? You may ask, no I'm not a good person, no where near, but I'll be damned if I even think to hurt anyone, now, does this mean you're totally wrong? No it doesn't, there is hurtful people on all sides, even if they don't drink or even goto church, let it also be know, if you take all the child molesters out, more will come, you take them out, more will come, not to mention, there is a group out there that is trying to legalize it, called heart progress I believe the name is, not to mention, if you did go after child molesters, you gotta make sure they are a fault or guilty, hate to break of any of you, but not everyone who was been commuted of this crime, to actually be guilty, so if you take the person out not knowing, you may have just token out a innocent person, but here's an idea, instead of harming them, which will ultimately put you in their shoes, try getting the person same help, make sure there are no kids around them, instead of hurting them, which can land you in a heap of trouble, call someone to remove them, and also, take away their capability of reproducing, so that they don't end up having their own kids, this is just a thought, even so, more will come, some of them may something severally wrong with them, maybe even some sort of surgery may be the way to go, anyways, sorry for this long comment, God bless.
Ok, I typed the word "sometimes" for a reason. I typed this comment because my dad drinks and smokes but really does try to be a kind and loving father. My mom left us when I was 2 so my dad has to (and still does) care for me.
At 8 yrs of age,I was touched inappropriately by a relative of mine. Though I knew nothing about sexuality then, I had the gut feeling that what was happening was not okay.I told my mom and she told that I should keep this a secret from everybody ..even from my father and I did! She seemed to value the relationship with her relative more than me! Then I told one of my friends and then she told that I might get pregnant by that touch!! My world was completely broken hearing that! And I believed that my mom is not there for me even in my worst of conditions! I had and still have a lot of anger towards my mother regarding this issue.I felt so worthless more due to my mom's actions than his.
FindingMyself Bless your heart. My mother didn't help either. Family wanted to keep it quiet. It hurts when your mom is not there for you. I know. My heart breaks for you. I am here IF you need anyone to talk to. You ARE NOT alone!
A1zWestcoast I can see signs in mostly men all the time because I lived thru it. You have a God given intuition abt It! I can't believe how some parents let their small children roam around in stores and even go to the restroom by themselves! I keep an eye on things like this to make sure they are safe! It only takes a second or 2 for your child to be gone or molested!
So sad that I who have taught children horseback riding lessons and truly care and love kids can't be trusted because of the deviants and depraved predators who copy our caring behavior, for perverse abuse. Very sad that really you cant trust anyone.
Yeah I usually get strong gut instincts then get shut down told I'm paranoid and over the top but be careful of those people saying that too . .. the gut is usually is spot on
That's my step father n my mom just laugh n giggle as if it's cute when he sucks my lips in front of her saying he loves me 😔😢 like y can't she see Its inappropriate
@@taylorfirst9475 - OMG honey. I am so sorry to hear you say this. Your feelings are completely true. It is very innapropiate for him to do that to you. Please, express to your mother that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and you know is innapropiate. Tell him to stop or you will tell.
@ I SP I once told my mom about it when I was like 16 that he touched my breast n pressed my nipples n that really hurt me physically and mentally cos I felt so violated like I couldn't erase the way he touched me cried myself to sleep every night but mom was like he talked to him then a couple days later she told me that my step dad said I don't love him I hate him why would I think his trying to hurt me he would never do that 😔 he complained to my mom and my matter was not solid it was just pushed aside n unheard
I don't know what I have done to this man but his like a demon that won't let me live in peace sadly his my step father n everyone in the family sees him as an angel n they speak highly of him... Mom once said that the way his so generous he'd never hurt a fly
@@taylorfirst9475 I am so sorry sweetheart. I totally understand you. It is a shame that your step father has managed to manipulate your mom and the people around him. Most child predators make sure that their outer image is impeccable, and they appear perfect to the world. It makes it easy for them to discredit any victim who decides to speak out about their abuse. Next time, you should tell your stepfather that if he continues to touch you inappropriately, you will tell someone on the outside of his social circle - like a teacher or a counselor. I strongly encourage you to tell someone you trust, outside of your family, about this. You do not deserve to be abused in any way by this man. First, you can try to talk your mom again, but this time, advise her that if she doesn't do anything about your stepfather's behavior, you will report him to the authorities. I know this is a difficult process. I don't personally know you, but you can count on my support. Take care of yourself and be strong.
My now adult son has multiple disabilities, he couldn't speak very much when he was little. I had a former Lutheran Priest who took a special interest in my son, after my husband left us. At first, I felt that it was completely harmless, but one day I just had a feeling, I did not stick around long enough in that Church for a few reasons, but that day, that I had that feeling, was the last time I allowed my son around that man alone. I am a severe abuse survivor. I didn't want to project this onto this man, but regardless, I was not taking any chances, these predators are EVERYWHERE, and years later I heard others who also felt weird around this priest with their children as well. MANY men prey on single mothers with children. My son's inability to communicate made him a very easy target whether anything happened or not was not important. I felt "better safe than sorry" was the best mind set to implement.
They are everywhere as you said. Wonder how the pandemic affected them? SOULLESS Mules of the darkness. They KILL you and everything. They don't CARE. Keep shining your light and we shall share this on fb and such. Thank you for educating us. Thank you for sharing. WE all need to protect each other.
This is why even though my son is non verbal and could benefit from therapies at special ed preschools or daycare I refuse to send him. He wouldn't even be able to begin to tell me if something had happened to him. I just do my best to teach him on my own. I know that children with disabilities are something like 3x more likely to be abused than non-disabled children and this just breaks my heart.
Dude we need to speak up about the women who do this though because they’re out there and way more of them than people realized. I was a victim of two different female predators, one when I was 4 she was my babysitter. Would rub me down there and have me do the same and the second was my own mother’s best friend who slept with me from 15-17 warping my mind on how I viewed women and sex. I was almost a nympho for years thanks to this abuse, it might sound like a joke but it’s not. Like many of the abused I went on to become a sexual deviant, thank goodness I never continued the cycle of child abuse though
It made me shy away from virtually every child I wasn't related to or knew the parents well. When I was in church, I always made sure that there was another adult nearby to hear and see what was going on. ( I never went into any room alone with a child. I either waited outside, had someone to keep tabs, or had more than 1 additional child with me ( 3 total). It was a safeguard that prevented me from having to deal with skeptical parents.
Literally. I work with kids and it breaks my heart that in a position of power and meant to help children you would do so much harm to them. it genuinely hurts.
Like he said in the video, he is ONLY talking about abuse that is not perpetrated by a family member. Of course fathers and uncles are usually married or partnered.
@@philiptilden2318 Never said they did. Obviously some uncles are children who will not be married. My point is that most adults in the world at one point or another have a partner.
Why is that? Im a female and i play with my kids niece n nephews hide n seek alone... And the only time id gladly go jail if a adult hurt my kids. If i had power id tatoo all pedo with words CHILD RAPIST on their foreheads put them all in one prison and torture them for life!!!
Yeah and I am a 15 year old(probably one of the least trustable age ) and my big cousin trusts me to babysit her 6 year old niece and 2 year old nephew.
My gut instinct kicked in numerous times when I was a little girl(7-10). My headteacher watched me change for PE and swimming , offered to help me on several occasions and led me to his office for a sticker when he could have and should have given it to me in the classroom... my teacher didn't say anything so he took me. Sooo glad I listened to myself because I felt uncomfortable and scared to be alone with him . I told him I needed to get back to class after what felt like an endless endurance of standing in front of him with his gaze fixed on me, smiling a creepy and almost sinister smile. Well, he was charged years later of child abuse! 17 years too late but nevertheless... justice has been sought(I think and hope). Edit: he is in prison now!
jamiebellwolf I agree can also be a woman, and sometimes the woman is not the perpetrator but helps the perpetrator to obtain victims equally disgusting 😡
Charities in london do it. It also happens in schools. I know an olympic gold medallist who was sold as a sex slave. The elites would visit her all the time.
I was having problems being mentally and emotionally abused by a full-grown father and his son I was fooled because when the little boy, his son was small, he seems a very nice and very wise when he grew up it was different and he started telling me I had too many rocks in my yard he was going to take some he only threatened me three times and then kept acting horrible for years I had no proof I just found out today from a sweet little girl she's now not so little she's going to have a baby that he's a pedophile and that she was bothered by him when she was a child that's the son of the father that has been abusing me am no one seems to have any support groups for me to go to and I always have to worry if I go out the door if they're going to get in and they have they kept hanging around in my attic I'm a senior but I'm very alert smart thinker but I'm really tired of this the other two threats were that he was going to steal my identity and use fear and control over me the very last threat I had decided to go to a hotel to get away from his negative energy is there any kind of support I can get?
there a man like that in my church in his 40s, on our first date he spent 70% of the time talking about young men he mentors. As time went on, my gut instinct told me he was grooming these young men for sexual encounters. There was zero emotional connection between us. Paedophiles are very very calculated, he caught on that i knew his secret. He quickly ended our relationship, hes now travelled to africa for wife.
I am thankful for the many resources online to help me spot the warning signs! I suspected the intent of a former boyfriend I was dating when he seemed too interested in being with my child without me present. Also he seemed divisive in his way of communicating, as if I didn't care for her. I thought this was especially a red flag. The final straw was when he watched Leon the Professional with her without me. She is 11! Oh and he was suggesting sleepovers! He is a pillar of the community type.
@@NeverIsALongTime she was 11 not 5. She was an outspoken child. I just wanted someone to make sure she ate a healthy lunch while I finished a group project at my college on Sunday afternoon. Otherwise she eats all snacks. She's 19 now and she is fine. Maybe there are some children that really need to be saved out there, because mine are fine.
Never thought I would ever find myself looking up this type of video. All I can say is thank God the person responsible is locked-up now. Just wish I new of the signs earlier.
Yes Its like there seems like there are no warning signs but do you know why? Because it was always taboo to talk about it. People would never dare to report it in years gone by. Even in the nineteen eighty's truth was denied and it was like the victim did something to provoke it. Times have changed but at the same time there are some who may be blamed and set up. That is not ok. Reminds of days when public trials without evidence like when Jesus was accused and Baribus was released instead of Jesus. We must choose Jesus as savior our God. Praise God always. Only God can save us.
JoeyJr702 your kids have a dad who spends time with them (I saw some of your vids) so they’ll be pretty strong and resilient and if you raise them in the Lord Jesus Christ they will have a firm foundation and he can heal their heart and give them purpose in life. Too many kids today have no purpose and no will to live. God bless you and your kiddos in Jesus name. ❤️
@@LindaBeaudoin You had a fantastic comment until you brought religion in. What was God thinking when he made these types of people? Pedophiles are BORN with those predilections, yes there are massive amounts that were victims turned perpetrators, but where was God when it first started. Where was he when little Johnny was being sodomized by his priest? Where was God when Johnny was crying out to him, praying with all of his 9 year old might to make God stop the abuse? By all accounts, God is omnipresent so he was DEFINITELY there during the abuse, watching and not doing a damn thing. Where is God when the diocese pass a known predator from church to church? Where is God when none of the priests boss' stand up for the victim? But everything happens for a reason, right? God has a plan, right?
Coaches. Priests. Scout leaders. Youth pastors. Teachers. Step-fathers or boyfriends who prey on divorced or single mothers. I will add, older cousins, older brothers and sisters. Older friends even. Babysitters and day care providers are suspect as well. The thing is, until your child can speak, they are the most vulnerable. After they can speak, you still need to watch them like a hawk and limit who can and cannot be around them unsupervised. I know this sounds completely paranoid but, as a parent, you should be. I know also, that a lot of people are forced to rely on and trust different providers for their kids because they have to work. I would seriously recommend moving to a place that you can afford more, be it a town or house or apartment, that would enable you to raise your children and still pay your rent. Also, if you are lucky enough to have both parents available and even further, lucky enough to jockey your shifts where one person is home while the other is at work and vice-versa, you should do it. Child molestation is a crime of opportunity driven by perversion. You are a parent now. Your life is changed forever. You have a job to do. It’s not about you anymore.
@@Catlily5 so true. So sad but so true. Some very evil parents, moms and dads, out there to be sure. I was trying to give guidance to the parents who were maybe a little confused as to what to look for/watch out for. But you’re right. Parents definitely molest their own kids. What a horrific world we live in at times. I keep looking for 500 acres with a moat around it.
#1 clue, in my opinion, is men who are overly interested in children - other than their own. Normal men just aren’t that interested in other people’s children.
@@julianacheriza1575 Depends on how often and what they're doing. There's no 100% way yo stop sexual predators, but you can give children their best odds.
I had a woman who tried to grroom my toddler. Dont trust women either. I dont know if she was trying to do it gor her or her husband. They were both in their 60s. She asked to watch my kid unattended. I told her fuck no and blocked her number. Horrible trash these ppl are. She was really nice and used her grandkid to get close to my daughter then got mad when i told her i dont leave my daughter alone without a family member present. They have zero interest in the parent is what i noticed
When I was 12 years old I used to go to an arcade and I was never molested or abducted but there were a lot of adult men there eventually they closed down the arcade because the owner was arrested for molesting children
I knew of one. He would always be outside with the neighborhood kids or have long 20 minutes conversations with them. Another thing is he would have a bunch of little kids clothes even though he didn't have kids. He had other behaviors like he was always going through everyone's stuff, spying, getting on other people's computers when they weren't around. He finally got caught in the act & is currently serving 2 life sentences consecutively.
This is my greatest fear as a parent. My rule of thumb is I treat every male around my daughter as a potential “bad guy”. Which means I never leave her alone with a man (family or otherwise) and I scrutinize every male that is close to us. I’m sure most of them would never hurt her but I don’t want to give anyone the opportunity to ruin her for the rest of her life.
Binge Thinker Not nearly as often as men and they are less likely to molest a female. Trust me, I know the stats and where the dangers are. I am choosy as to who I leave my child with. It’s hard because it leaves me with very few options but I feel it’s important.
@@madelinewhitley14 it's the simp culture, I am a user I truly can not give unto another for what meant to exist is around us all already, for this nature I truly can not give but a user until I exist no more, logic in reality the creator created garbage thats meant to be and exist too
But it's often the parents who sexual abuse their children, or the child's uncle, aunt, grandparents, or sibling. Most abuse, sexual, emotional, physical or neglect is undertaken by family members. Strangers abusing children is relatively rare in comparison. Similarly the people you lock yourself in your home with at night are the ones who are statistically more likely to harm you. I day this as a,child protection social worker of over 20 years.
It wasn’t until #Metoo that I was willing to talk openly about being sexually molested by a prominent Rabbi, and a Hebrew school teacher. We need to get the non violent drug offenders out of prison and give child molesters life without! We don’t need to wonder if they will stop, it’s a compulsion, they cannot control. No child or family needs to risk these monsters having a second chance at destroying lives.
'We need to get the non violent drug offenders out of prison and give child molesters life without!' Maybe both positions are correct, but they are unrelated topics.
@@finished6267 'I hope it didn't destroy your life or love for your religion and culture.' Maybe she (I assume that the poster is a female) should hate her religion and culture, given that it is what enabled the attack on her to happen in the first place.
My family used to be Catholic but ever since some of our family members came forward about being sexually abused by priests, we've completely abandoned the church. It's not so much that they were abused by priests that really hurt, but rather the cover up done by the church is what hurts more than anything. Instead of throwing them in jail, they just transfer them to other churches so they have a clean slate for a reputation and a new slew of unsuspecting kids to diddle. We have no affiliation with Catholicism now. A church with bad roots makes the whole damn tree rotten.
I was molested by a priest when I was a kid. Never really spoke anything because I" was afraid to be punished by God " didn't know any better. I still have nightmares of me getting raped.
@@jaimepolanco7320 I'm so sorry that happened to you. 😞 I was also assaulted by a friend of the family from ages 13-15 and it took me decades to come forward about it. I actually googled the guy and found his number and contacted him to confront him. It was a very empowering thing to do (for me). He was speechless and apologized and I've been able to slowly heal
@@jaimepolanco7320 I left a comment on a different channel about child assault and someone actually commented to me that it was my fault. He said I must have been coming on to the guy and that it's normal for grown men to not turn down an attractive teen girl. I explained to him that his response is exactly why it takes victims years to come forward - we fear people will think it's our fault. I do believe your predator is paying in the afterlife for eternity. Sometimes we want justice now but God always has a just plan for the afterlife.
@@monicapyle I'm still a Catholic, since I believe that's the Church of Jesus Christ. At the same time, I'm absolutely furious at the structures which cover child abuse, this should never happen. I just hope that when it has come out, people will be more careful with their kids and more predators will be punished
My mom had gotten molested as a child, so she was super careful with me & thank God I avoided it. But it’s weird & sad but necessary to be a kid & grow up looking at every adult wondering if they’re safe
As a single guy with no kids... I have zero interest in children and certainly would not want to watch a child unless I had to. I have shit to do... Any man who shows an interest in your child has an ulterior motive ladies. Sometimes it’s to get your attention or sometimes it’s to gain trust. Now that being said every now and then there is a precocious little kid in a store who’s adorable and I’ll tell the parents that.
So if a woman shows an interest in your child that's just kind motherly instinct? Dude this kind of sexist gender profiling is just plain wrong dude. Women can just as easily be predators/abusers (of all the different kinds). Toxic femineity is every bit as much of a problem as toxic masculinity, even if the former doesn't get nearly as much attention as the latter.
Thank you for doing this. There are a lot of pedophiles that adopt children as well. As well as many in the Foster system as Foster parents. The only foster parent I ever seen accused and investigated for it, was one of the few that weren't.
Don't get the term pedophile and child molester mixed up, pedophillia is an attraction, child molesting is a feeling. Not all pedophiles are child molesters and not all child molesters are pedophiles
@@josan2741 no I will never subscribe to that. Grooming a child is abuse. This whole it's a sexual orientation BS, I will kill first before I subscribe to that POS beliefs. If you are attracted to children, you need to unalive yourself. Research has showed you will never be able to stop. You are a horrible monster for trying to pedal this crap.
Interesting, So pedophiles aren’t necessarily the problem since it’s merely an attraction but child molesters are since it’s an act of causing harm regardless if the victimizer is attracted to the victim?l or not?
I was abused by an elder of the jehovahs witnesses. He was married and she knew all about it. I was 4 and would cry and reach out for her to take me from him but she would just smile and watch
@@serenagh2135 I am so sorry that you had no one to reach out to in which to turn to to help you to feel safe with as a 4 year old little child. The woman was contributing to the sexual violation. I hope you are living safely now. May Angels walk with you, always.
What sucks is when someone has innocent compassion, but are looked at sideways. I suspect all my brothers were abused as minors, all exhibited behavior of someone who was sexually abused, such as a fixation on bodily functions (urine, feces) developing stomach issues (which can also be stress based) and chronic pain, including pelvic.
I had a guy in high school--head of the Christian youth group--grab and kiss me. Big guy. Fortunately there was another guy there--my age--and I could get away. 25 years later I'm on the beach and I see that same guy staring at a group of high school guys playing volleyball. I stopped and stared at him. He turned and gave me a sick grin. Right out of a horror movie.
This also happens alot because many parents don't care about they're kids and let them do whatever with whoever and don't supervise them too much. They put work and everything else first which also heightens the chances not only of them being abused but them seeking out love and attention at a really young age!
It's not a hard & fast rule Jodie. I'm a grandma and have toys & crafts for my granddaughters when they come over to visit. You have to use discernment.
Im 41, I collect Hotwheels. I play with my toy cars too. I don't want kids seeing my toys, because I might have to share them lol.😜😛😝 I hate child molesters. And I think toy cars are great.
I loved what you said about your gut reaction. I heard one woman whose children were abused say your stomach is a 2nd brain, and it doesn't rationalise things. Thankyou so much for your advice.
I wouldn't like it if ANY adult took too much interest in my child. Male of female, married or unmarried. No long unsupervised time with any adult. Period.
make sure you teaching ur kids ... trust me u don't want anything to happen to them , because it's happened to me and my life distroying and am distroying others and self hating and think about to kill that one who distroies me ... please be more careful and let your kids understand seek for help if u don't know anything about parenting ... 🌇 idk
It's a shame that as a single male I have to closely monitor my own behaviour around children to not appear suspicious or get publicly accused mistakenly. How ironic that in doing that, I bahave exactly like a predator.
I get what you mean. My Dad has the same concerns. He’s a good man, if he sees a kid walking to school (where we live, it’s a long walk to school), he feels inclined to pick them up so they’re not walking for two hours. But he can’t do that because people will accuse him of being a ped. Likewise, he’s really good with babies but even that’s suspicious because only women are ‘supposed’ to be good with kids. I get what you mean, I really feel for you. It sucks.
I had to come here today because I had an incident that scared me to death but I went into mama bear mode quickly! I took my child to a birthday party. The kids had a blowup water slide so everybody were in swim wear. The grandfather introduced himself to me but was a little to close to me. THAT PUT MY GUARD Up IMMEDIATELY! He later came back over when my daughter was talking to me. He kept saying how pretty she was and she had beautiful hair. He started to raise his hand to touch her hair and I jumped up told him very low “do you want to die today? Don’t touch my child. “ His eyes bucked and I sat her down in my chair behind me before I said that. He walked away so fast LOL. My neighbor noticed and called her daughter over to put her shorts back on. I made every girl that came with us to put a cover up on or shorts! I told them stay away from him, don’t take nothing from him, don’t go in the house without us, and watch out for each other. I watched that man like a hawk! He sat and watched every little girl at that party. When it was time to eat everybody went in the house but me and my daughter stayed outside with a couple of little girls. He never moved from his spot UNTIL 3 11 and 10 yr old girls came of the slide while the parents were inside. I got up to talk to the girls about school just to block him. He went in the house after that. We finally decided to go and the host were thanking us for coming but he walked over too. I stood up with my arms crossed blocking my group from his view. I told him everyone said thanks for inviting us and they need to dry off so we can go. He smiled and walked off. Nasty pervert! I didn’t feel comfortable saying anything to the host at a kids party. One thing for sure my child want be playing with that little girl unless it’s in my yard where I have 6 cameras. The party was at the grandparents house 30 minutes away but the little girl stays down the street from us. I no longer trust my child riding her bike with her or playing in her yard. NO MA’AM I saw all I needed to know at that party!
There are women who touch little boys and little girls it's just that the courts don't believe them but that happens it is still devastating to the child, they say a woman don't have time for that but some women do if a woman has time to just scroll on Instagram and lay down and go to sleep they have time to do something like that and if a whole bunch of women can brutally abuse their children than a whole bunch of women do have the ability to harm child in such a way
This is so true!!! Narcissist/Sociopaths seek power and vile acts over ANYONE. Men, women, children, even animals! They’re attractive and charming too! Masters of disguise. The trick is seeing through the cracks in their masks to catch them because many are situational offenders that wait for the perfect opportunity.
Right! We have read about so many pedophile women, so many rapist women, so many women beating up men etc etc etc…. Let’s face it: men are WAY MORE sexually dysfunctional than women. Deal with it, man!
Smart men would never be alone with children these days. F that, watch your kids while you run errands? No way in hell! Kid look lost or hurt? Call 911 or a woman. You couldn't pay me enough to be a teacher or work with kids.
damn right. I was doing handy man work at an apartment complex, cutting sheet rock with the door wide open. These little kids peeked in and took off screaming. Then, a group of about 30 people form outside all focused on me. Finally, the owner pulls up saying a tenant claimed I was in there with a knife. I'm like, because I was cutting sheet-rock. The owner knew this & nothing ever happened luckily.
Of those molesting a child under six, 50 percent were family members. Family members also accounted for 23 percent of those abusing children 12 to 17 years (Snyder, 2000).
I know a 40 year old man that never seems interested in doing anything with people his own age. He's constantly hanging out with teenage boys. When I found out he dated a 19 year old young man I got really alarmed. Because he's also always sort of adopting young boys and playing this fatherly figure role thing. He says they don't have a dad and he feels sorry for them. Every time he wants to hang out with me he always brings some young 13 year old boy that isn't his. He was referring to him as his nephew when they are not family at all. I finally blew my lid and called him out on it. I dunno what he's doing...maybe nothing...but it doesn't look good and makes me uncomfortable. I been his freine since we were kids and I never stopped being his friend when i found out he was gay. I've been very tolerant and open minded about despite the fact I'm a very straight masculine right wing kind of guy. I believe in freedom and how he chooses to live is his freedom. But I've hit my limit it. Something stinks and doesn't add up. So far all I've done is tell him not to bring teen boys...whether 13 or 19...around me. It makes me uncomfortable and im setting a boundary. But I'm really concerned how he puts so much errors and time into the underage boys he runs around with claiming he's just helping them and being a dad figure. Says he loves them like his own kids. Something just doesn't sit right in my gut about it and I dunno what to do. He's been my friend for 30 years but something ain't right
Hey, I think I am like your friend but I'm in my early 20's. I know I am damaged person. But God has been so kind to me. I was a xesually maladaptive kid and teenager. I was never treated for it because I never said anything and was never caught. I was embarrassed and couldn't express what I did or process it. When I was 19, after a suicide attempt, I confessed to the authorities what I did and was taken to jail and 2 years later was under house arrest/probation. I was supposed to be 10+ years under probation but only did 6 months. It was a miracle. One thing I wish I had was treatment. I still struggle with the guilt of what I did but also attraction to boys 16-20. It's like I want to "father" and give advice but the xesual feelings get in the way. I've cried out to God and begged Him to take these homosexual feelings away, He told me his grace and mercy is enough. The example of His son is there. I have to be like Jesus said, to abandon myself and take up my stake of torment. I will suffer with these feelings but I won't give in to them, the future prize awaits and God will reward anyone who follows the example of His son with everlasting life. I also do not follow any politics because the Bible already mentions what will happen to all those who put their trust in men/governments and what will happen to these short lived reigns of men. Only Jesus Christ is the rightful king.
We had a neighbor who took special interest in my brother and even paid for his college. He was a single man. I always felt he was a molester. My brother won’t talk about it.
I’ve never been in this situation, but I have a gut feeling about a relative. So I though I’d be safe rather than sorry if he starts showing any signs.
They come in ALL forms. Single and attatched. In all areas of work. Just be careful with you children. Protect them always! And keep an open relationship with them so they know they can come to you if something isnt right.
The only reason I’m here is because I think one of my teacher may be one. He always favors me and my friend. Once my friend and I were early for class so we sat down it our seats. It was just us and our teacher. My teacher told us that he wished it was only just us in the class and that he would give us “special treatment and please us”. We thought that was weird but brushed it off as nothing. Then a week later I was talking to the teacher after class and I kid you not he told me “my heart gets warm when I think about you”. I told my dad about that and he said he probably just thought he was trying to find a way to speak to kids and was to “awkward to say anything”. Finally, what really set my friend and I off was, in another period the a small group of kids was joking about the teacher watching porn on his phone because he was always on it. My teacher laughed along with them, but then he said in the most serious tone that “only if it was children’s porn”. Only two people heard this and one caught it on videotape. Now whenever he is overly nice to me I get scared. The only thing that worries me is that he is just an awkward guy and I am accusing him of being a pedophile. Anyone have anything that can help me?
If your parents don't listen tell the school counselor or a different teacher and if that doesn't work tell your family doctor. Have your friend tell his parents. And don't go around him alone. Stay with your friend when you have to be around him
I had a teacher. A gym teacher who always did the two finger lick to me.. I didn't know till I got older.. That he was wanting to eat my pussy. So scary.. I was a freshmen and didn't know why he starred at me so much. Glad he never acted on his nasty mind.
no heck be careful. Jesus loves you, he can protect you if you believe in him and repent of any sin He will hear your prayer and protect you. He loves you. He hates sin. Seek him.
Jesus kid,please make sure you NEVER spend time alone with this guy. It's better to be safe than sorry. If you have a bad feeling about him trust it please X
Nick Butler I don't have "dirty laundry" to hide so don't put the blame on the victim shit head. My comment was to show the pedophiles can be males or females. Plus, it will have a permanent damage on the victim's life. People should look after their kids and trust no one to leave them with specially relatives
You didn't mention lonely OLD neighbors, who prey on quiet and obedient young children, such as myself. He threatened to cut me up into small pieces and throw me in the trash if I told anyone what he was doing to me. Child molesters are not always outgoing and helpful. Many stay to themselves and quietly groom their victims as the opportunities arise.
@@Flyingpaper799 This happened in the 60s. People did not talk about these things. My parents swept it under the rug (what you don't acknowledge, doesn't exist). But I can guarantee you this, unless he repented of these horrid sins, he's in hell right now.
Dumb ass, he qualified it single, have a interest in children beyond their reason for the encounter; ie wanting to coach them outside the group times. If that fits you, probably need to get help
What is truly shocking is, if a child tells his parents and they are not believed. Many many years ago,my friend told me her fatber had been abusing her from a very young age. When she turned 11 or 12yrs she figured that instead of this being fatherly love, it was wrong so she went to her local priest who said she was exaggerating. The Sexual molestation continued so she went back to the same priest who then went to talk to her father and he denied it. She then went a 3rd time to the priest,who then told the father, if he felt 'the urge' to go knock on her brother's bedroom door and just talk to the. The mother knew nothing. As soon as my friend turned 18, she left home. I met her father, a small fat ugly know-it-all kinda man. Hope he is paying for his sins now (in hell). Disgusting man!
1 Samuel 3:11, 18 Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
This is very important information that keeps people alert to the creeps of society. Everyone should know the signs to help rid our society of these vile humans.
Many teacher prefer to just complain about parents. They don't want to get involved. Remember too, sex offenders are either aggressive or passive aggressive. The enjoy the fight and turning the tables on anyone who tries to stop them. This is why these kinds of conversations are so important.
And now we know that these are not always true. They are signal - married teacher kidnapped a high school ROTC student. Female teachers who are good looking and married going after the middle school boys. All 3 teachers in the news, were long time teachers. They didn’t move around, they had behavioral markers that were dismissed cause they just didn’t seem to completely finish the grooming. Now I agree that when going to their home they have toys that attract these kids. That was dismissed cause either they had kids that played the games or a spouse played them. No, what you truest need to look for is that person who pays more attention to that one child. Is your child dependent on this adult for approval, are they trying to please them? Then you have the opposite, are they avoiding this teacher, are grades going down? Are they changing their appearance, trying to look sloppy (baggy clothes) trying to not get noticed? The reasons these people get close to your child is cause your busy and not giving/showing attention to them or in the latter, you dismissed their comments about how a certain teacher gives them the creeps. In high school a new bad teacher (old one retired) started a jazz band. Not many people signed up for it(10 girls, wind instruments - 3 boys drums). The teacher told the boys to leave cause he was just going to work with the girls for the rest of the semester. The guys left (we had an open campus back then) some to the library to study for other classes, some to the store, some Just wondered cause the teacher wouldn’t let them in class. He then lined the girls up by breast size. Made comments and got everyone to judge everyone else. The girl said at her deposition, she tried to tell her mother but was dismissed. She didn’t know what to do cause by the end of the week the teacher had warned them about telling others about the class that he was sure to get the scholarships to college, that they should not tell anyone or the class will be too big to do a good job. The girl wrote all this in her school journal, that the language arts teacher failed to read. Her boyfriend though noticed a change in her. He said something told him to read her journal. And when he did he got so mad he went straight to the teacher and beat the shot out of him. The police arrested the boyfriend. The girl again tried to tell the principal what had happened but the teacher insisted on pressing charges so the boy went to jail. The principal, during all this was handed the journal (not sure if it was the boy or girl that gave it to him), and called the police to have the teacher arrested. Sounds like the right thing to do right? Wrong. The principal was suppose to call the union rep to give them a heads up. Suspend the teacher with pay until an internal investigation could be done. The guy was guilty even said so but he blamed the girls for dressing sexy. During a closed trial (the witnesses talked in school and told people what happened) the union rep argued that because the union was Not notified and the proper procedures were ignored that the teacher should be set free cause his rights were ignored and the Judge agreed. A civil case the was brought against the teacher and not the district that had the teacher found guilty but due to a plea deal from the criminal trial he could keep his state teaching certificate so he could teach in a different district. The lawyers called this a victory. They got their conviction. However it was more a conviction of bad teaching and the district had the right to fire him and not a conviction of improper conduct with more than one minor.
1 Samuel 3:11, 18 Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
I came here to share what I experienced, I am a high school student and I am 16 years old, and one time someone chatted with me and he told me that he likes me, he also wants to meet me in person, and I feel that he looks friendly, after we got along, he started saying sensitive words to me, like he said he wanted to give me babies, But at that time I just ignored it, but I already felt like something was wrong, I had in my mind that if this person spoke sensitive words again, i will be mad. Then I asked him why do you say such words to me? And he said to me, maybe I might like it, and I told him that I don't like what he says to me. Then when I was curious about his personality, I asked if he was still studying And he said that we are same high school students, I told him that a high school student should not talk like that if he/she is in the right mindset. After a few days he is still forcing me to talk to him, and i just blocked him.
Unfortunately, kids are being lured through the internet more and more. One perv was chatting with my 11 year old girl. He was very flattering. He found her through the game Fortnite and started chatting about video games, first. He offered to pay for some of her V-bucks. He said he wanted to meet her. He pretended to be in eighth grade and said he was lonely. She then said she was lonely too. (Of course she is lonely in a lockdown and pandemic).Then he started to ask sexual questions that she got uncomfortable with, but she didn't stop chatting with him. In fact, even though I had informed her of these scum, she lied about speaking with him, after I asked who she was playing the game with. She said it was her friend from school. I almost believed her, but something about the way she said it. So, I told her I was going to call her friend, and that is when she told me she had been chatting with a stranger she met online. I read all of the chats and had a very long discussion with her about why she shouldn't chat with strangers--again!! Then I showed her a whole bunch of police video of creeps that were caught doing the same thing. Grounded for a month without video games, and now she has to have her tech in my living room. They were chatting for 3 months. I reported it to the cops. I also cussed him out in his chat.
@R Jelly. You are awesome. Keep up showing her different outcomes of similar stories of others who were not so fortunate to have a parent who loves them so much. My parents did this with me & it helped me growing up to see that they were being Very Careful= Too Strict sometimes to a kid. But after a few stories my parents regularly told me... I was Thrilled abt their being Too Strict!!!
That is the sad part. There are lots of good men who love children and would never abuse them but because of the sickos out there they are shut out from helping many in need.
When I was in grade school in the 1980s we were taught - as children - to watch out for these exact same behaviors in the adults around us. I just hope kids are still taught this in their schools.
I graduated high school, class of 2020 for reference. I was personally never taught this in elementary or middle school... strangers were the only danger. I wish that that were true. I understand not wanting to scare children of their authority figures, especially in a school where they are meant to feel safe, however avoiding the issue was awful imo
There are many heroes out there that don't wear capes. Superheroes that protect and save the future. Peace and prosperity to Mr. Paul and all Children Right's Activists
im fiercely protective of children. i don't have kids, but i have a fierce need to protect them. i dont remember abuse (other than my mother burning my feet with candle wax and making me kneel on salt with my hands up holding books, or beating my knees with a stick because i talked back to her). i dont know if i was abused as a child and am fighting back in this way of protecting others. as an adult, i dont like people touching me and i feel uncomfortable around a lot people.
someone who pays too much attention to your kid. that's the sign. most people, other than parents, don't truly want to hear what kids say or think. molesters do. sad but true.
Usually, there are. Most people don't notice them. A sign might not be legitimate. Only by observation can you confirm or deny and interview asking very s]specific questions. Remember most work with blackmail. These people murder children to hide their crime so it takes not just trust but proof on your side. That you can follow thru on your part. These abusers are some of the most dangerous people alive. Too many adults envy them rather than depise them. This makes children who talk in a serious need for protection. Never go to their parents with accusations. Deal with the child and agencies that specialize in child abuse like rape crisis or battered women. Even CPS can be a problem in the beginning of a case.
It's a very sick world. I never trust any strangers with my kids. And never will. May Allah grant protection to all our innocent children and make our environments safe.
I know a certain "prophet" who married a 6 year old girl when he was 52 years old. He's the greatest child molester in history because he inspired so many copy cats.
First sign is to have a stupid otherwise naive, irresponsible parent. And I mean it, there are other videos where child molesters clearly say that if the parent seems alert, they would not approach the child. Molesters approach kids that have no one looking out for them.
I'm single, unattached, teach children, and hate every minute of it. I teach with the door open. If a child closes the door when they come in late, l tell them to open the door. I love children to death, and giving them treats. But l have no desire beyond that. I used to be a court appointed child abuse advocate. I try and defend children as much as possible; but *never* to defile them.
Roan, Keller, Burchfield, Golden; 4 baseball coaches that come to mind. All fine gentlemen whom I never felt anything from but concern for my baseball playing. Five decades later, and these men are still in my memory. God bless them; I was blessed to have them in my life. Crossett, Arkansas (home of Barry Switzer an K.T. Oslin) in the late 60s and early 70s.
My wife and I are foster care providers. These predators are EVERYWHERE. ANYONE who wants to work with or spend time "helping" kids or are interested in kids you need to really look at. I evaluate everyone and some are at high high levels. Watch your kids.
The most dangerous ones are the ones that blend in, quite a few of them are married, have kids, nice homes, great careers and sometimes are even pillars of their communities. It's not always the ones you think, it's not always the guy that is quiet, smells bad, usually keeps to themselves. You get the idea
Exactly! It can be high placed and well liked people like politicians, lawyers, doctors, community advocates etc. We have to understand that pedophilia can be a sexual disorder that happens to anyone wether rich, poor, white, black, male or female.
@@elijahwilson1422 Yup it's a sexual disorder and I've met someone like that and trust me these people suffer too. They can never have w truly satisfying relationship in public. They are sometimes very suicidal even though they are succesful and if they are truly intelligent they know it's a defect and a burden. They have to fight everyday against these urges and alot of them fail due to access of money and a passport. They become addicted to cope with their demons. Seriously there should be more research done around pedophilia so that maybe one day there will be treatment or even better a vaccine or something. Ofcourse you have some idiots that are proud to pedophiles but the ones that know it's a disease aren't proud at all.
Hmmm, you can class every single school teacher as a potential child molester... while innocent people who show genuine interest in helping kids are labelled as suspicious... don’t make sense..
This whole video is about how most are NOT strangers! EXPOSE THIS....tell the police....report it....Confront him if you feel you can or get support and do it. They are COWARDS....
I suspect of a priest he has all of those characteristics charming always involved and surrounded by kids all ages he posts pics of kids on his facebook all the time even got one with 2 little girls playing in the bed (he is their uncle) and post quotes like "if you're young I love you" and liked a page about jokes about a sex doll idk maybe it's just me everybody loves him, its a little town he works at a prestigious catholic school idk what to think He go on missions with kids and teenagers to Brazil too and go everywhere with them kids at the School
Yes he definitely sounds like one. Start reporting him to someone and if that doesn't work report to the next person and the next person and the next person until somebody listens. And tell the other kids to stay away
Sounds definitely one to watch .most priests now are extremely careful dont put themselves in situations where they're alone with children. Id not let anyone be alone with mu children ever except in presence of other adults ......
This was helpful because I've had a rising suspicion that my math teacher's aid is a pedo. He says stuff like I'm his favorite student and rewards me often. I have Crohn's so I can't eat a lot of candy, so when he found out I could only have peppermint he went and bought me some. He told me they were in his car and he would give them to me the next day. He said, and I quote, "They're a special kind of mint. I think you'll like them." I am freaking out
Stay away from him and warn others. Then tell your parents, if that doesn't work report it to the police, if that doesn't work report it to the counselor, the principal, and your doctor or another teacher
I do work in a capacity that involves helping inividuals, one on one, through dependancy issues and I can guarantee you, there are men AND women who are guilty of child molestation. It is as this man says: people who are in positions of trust and seem to be a little too enthused about kids or seem to "just happen" to always show up. With the female predator, look for "the mommy" who wants to overly console or mother your kid.
So true!!! If you lack empathy, which is a human trait, it means you are not truly human, so put them down like an animal. Death penalty for child molestation. Non violent drug charges get Two to Three times the jail sentence than someone who rapes children in California. Why? Death penalty for child molestation.
Many many years ago I went to a church carol service arranged by my son’s school. The vicar homed in on my young son saying he must come to ‘my church’and that they had clubs he could join too. Every part of my internal being screamed ‘ keep away from my son’. Hence never went there again. Could have been totally innocent but we have to listen to instinct first.
Warning sign is the not blood grandparent showing up without his wife to take the child to church. From 5 to 7 years was when that happened to me, and an oblivious family that even today will not talk about it.
When I was 15 or 16 back in 1993-1994 Schoolyear I was Molested by 2 guys Both were boys from the FosterHome We lived in. Police were called they took a report then a few months later im in a Lawyers Office To give Testimony to 3 Lawyers As I enter the Office I see the Grandpa of 1 of the boys he looks at me then stares at the floor shaking his head no I felt like he Blamed me that his Grandson was on his way To State Prison. The Lawyers told me it makes them wanna throwup to have to deal with cases that involve sexual assault. They asked me how I feel about offering the 2 boys 6 months in State Prison if they plead Guilty I said fine. They were both teens charged as Adults I feel so bad that there are those who pick on anybody to Sexual assault. 1 boy was 17 the other was 16 but charged as Adults. Does that get wiped clean from the 2 boys record after they turned 18 a few years later or will they be on the Sex Offender Registery?
Jeremiah 23:10 For the land is full of adultery, and it lies under a curse. The land itself is in mourning- its wilderness pastures are dried up. For they all do evil and abuse what power they have. Romans 14:8 If we live, it’s to honor the Lord. And if we die, it’s to honor the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. Revelation 21:8 But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars-they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death. Exodus 22:22 Do not take advantage of the widow or the fatherless. If you do and they cry out to me, I will certainly hear their cry. Ephesians 5:3-5 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. No immoral, impure or greedy person-such a person is an idolater-has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
I think that mothers should show their kids this. I’m only ** but I search this stuff up all the time because its good to be educated and know what to do in this situation
I have a question just read this background information of this person and tell me whether I should avoid this person or if I should give them another chance: I was just wondering because some residence that I live at has some dude who works there who usually stays in a room by himself which has no windows when he is not doing anything. He started talking to me and then I thought he was a pretty cool guy. I lost my basketball ball one day and he was like, “I have it in my room.” I went in suspiciously and he actually had the ball. He went behind me to check my height because I was wondering how tall I was He said, “Oh great because i can check.” He went behind me and pressed his body up against me and checked. He said, “I can check your weight too. Come sit on my lap.” I was kinda worried and I was just thinking, maybe he is actually being truthful. Then everyday when he would see me outside he would ask me to come in so he could check my weight. I noticed that everyday the session would get longer and longer. I also noticed that everytime, before he checked my weight, he would ask me to guess and everytime I guessed randomly, it would some how just be ‘correct’. Does he just want me to sit on his lap? Today he asked me and then I tried to get up from his lap and he was kind of squeezing me and holding me on his lap. Then he said, “Let me check your height again.” While he was holding me. This time I decided to stop screwing around and I kept a serious face. He said, “Are you scaaaared??” I said, “No. -_-“ He said, “Me and you are friends.” He then let me go. Should I go one more time or should I avoid him?
Report him immediately. Stay away from him. Warn the other kids to stay away from him. And when you report it if one person doesn't listen report it to another until somebody does
1 Samuel 3:11, 18 Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
My girlfriend was violated by her father and she couldn't do anything and she still feels like it was her fault because she didn't say anything.. I honestly want to fucking murder him to this fucking day.. Edit: and she was fucking 7 when that happened!!! And now she has a neighbor that is a little too close to her and her family buying her things etc and I told her she should be really careful but she doesn't listen she just says "I'll be fine".. fine isn't something you can just throw around when anything happens in an instant.. I'm so fucking worried about her each and everyday.. I love her and i would die for her I just want to protect her from horrible people like that...
I had an uncle that used to stare at me weird and gave me weird vibes. He lived with us at the time and also my dad wasn’t in the picture. I always mean mugged him . I think he knew he couldn’t do anything to me because I wouldn’t have allowed it and I was already like 11. I told my sister and she told my mom. My mom said we were talking nonsense.
Part of the problem is that a.) We think we know when we can tell someone is a child molester and in reality it can be a guy or gal that does what any "normal" person would do (they're not always that person that is a stranger hiding behind the bushes) b.) we don't know enough when something is not right and using common sense. Yes, we can tell if someone is a creep by their actions and words most of the time but there are just as many that seem normal and can easy fool us and-or has never been caught...those are the ones you have to watch out for as well and there is nothing wrong to being over-suspicious when it comes to your child.
Sometimes the good people are the ones that drink and smoke. Sometimes the bad people are the ones who goes to church and work to help children .
Xykk ! I was molested by my foster dad, he didn't goto church, he drank, he smoked, so your comment is a bit voided, he would molest me when my foster mom was at work, I still remember the last time he did it to, it was during a Broncos vs raiders game, and for every time the broncos scored, he would drink a beer, he got so plastered, he thought my foster mom was at work, eventually he came upstairs and started to hurt me and I screamed to the top of my lungs for my foster mom, you want to know the worst parts of it all? Well, they had a daughter before they became foster parents, he hurt her to, and that last day they had me, he told the police officers that the reason he did it was he thought I enjoyed, one of the police officers pulled me aside and asked me that very question, what kind of police officer would ask a child that, but even through all that, not everyone is a child molester, there are people who genuinely care for kids, I know I need to be careful around kids, I wouldn't want anyone thinking this about me, because I know how much it hurts a person, I've had it happen to me, I've seen too many people who have had it happen to them, how much it changed our lives, keep in mind, for those who have been molested, you may be the victim, but in the end, you get looked at like it was your fault because of it, I got that look all the time, even through I did nothing wrong, thank God I haven't had that for a long time now, people would tell me, usually when you are molested, you turn out that way, not in all cases I say, alike I said, I see how much it changes people, how much it hurts them, plus I would love to have my own kids someday, whether adopted or with my future wife, well see how that goes, but as a wise man once said, its hard enough having kids, but how can you argue with the fact of loving one that's already here, I also believe in God, despite everything that has happened through out my life, no, I'm not a church goer anymore, so again, your comment is that much more voided, does this mean I'm a good person? You may ask, no I'm not a good person, no where near, but I'll be damned if I even think to hurt anyone, now, does this mean you're totally wrong? No it doesn't, there is hurtful people on all sides, even if they don't drink or even goto church, let it also be know, if you take all the child molesters out, more will come, you take them out, more will come, not to mention, there is a group out there that is trying to legalize it, called heart progress I believe the name is, not to mention, if you did go after child molesters, you gotta make sure they are a fault or guilty, hate to break of any of you, but not everyone who was been commuted of this crime, to actually be guilty, so if you take the person out not knowing, you may have just token out a innocent person, but here's an idea, instead of harming them, which will ultimately put you in their shoes, try getting the person same help, make sure there are no kids around them, instead of hurting them, which can land you in a heap of trouble, call someone to remove them, and also, take away their capability of reproducing, so that they don't end up having their own kids, this is just a thought, even so, more will come, some of them may something severally wrong with them, maybe even some sort of surgery may be the way to go, anyways, sorry for this long comment, God bless.
Ok, I typed the word "sometimes" for a reason. I typed this comment because my dad drinks and smokes but really does try to be a kind and loving father. My mom left us when I was 2 so my dad has to (and still does) care for me.
Jack Ryan good god that is pretty harrowing. Sorry to here that bro
@@jackryan8474
S0 true
Maybe sometimes not all times nor mostly.
At 8 yrs of age,I was touched inappropriately by a relative of mine. Though I knew nothing about sexuality then, I had the gut feeling that what was happening was not okay.I told my mom and she told that I should keep this a secret from everybody ..even from my father and I did! She seemed to value the relationship with her relative more than me! Then I told one of my friends and then she told that I might get pregnant by that touch!! My world was completely broken hearing that! And I believed that my mom is not there for me even in my worst of conditions! I had and still have a lot of anger towards my mother regarding this issue.I felt so worthless more due to my mom's actions than his.
FindingMyself yo mom aint shit
FindingMyself Bless your heart. My mother didn't help either. Family wanted to keep it quiet. It hurts when your mom is not there for you. I know. My heart breaks for you. I am here IF you need anyone to talk to. You ARE NOT alone!
Stephenie Hamilton if ppl would listen to you guys instead this dude we would really be able to keep our kids safer...
A1zWestcoast I can see signs in mostly men all the time because I lived thru it. You have a God given intuition abt It! I can't believe how some parents let their small children roam around in stores and even go to the restroom by themselves! I keep an eye on things like this to make sure they are safe! It only takes a second or 2 for your child to be gone or molested!
cut down on the exclamation marks
I was suspicious of a person just based on gut instinct. I was told I was being paranoid... So glad i watched this.
Always go with your gut instinct.
Our gut instinct is so underestimated... We should always trust it
@Tanasha Brown so many are abused by family members or friends of family.
So sad that I who have taught children horseback riding lessons and truly care and love kids can't be trusted because of the deviants and depraved predators who copy our caring behavior, for perverse abuse. Very sad that really you cant trust anyone.
Yeah I usually get strong gut instincts then get shut down told I'm paranoid and over the top but be careful of those people saying that too . .. the gut is usually is spot on
Beware! most child molesters are inside the home!
Talk to your kids and educate them.
That's my step father n my mom just laugh n giggle as if it's cute when he sucks my lips in front of her saying he loves me 😔😢 like y can't she see Its inappropriate
@@taylorfirst9475 - OMG honey. I am so sorry to hear you say this. Your feelings are completely true. It is very innapropiate for him to do that to you. Please, express to your mother that it makes you feel uncomfortable, and you know is innapropiate. Tell him to stop or you will tell.
@ I SP I once told my mom about it when I was like 16 that he touched my breast n pressed my nipples n that really hurt me physically and mentally cos I felt so violated like I couldn't erase the way he touched me cried myself to sleep every night but mom was like he talked to him then a couple days later she told me that my step dad said I don't love him I hate him why would I think his trying to hurt me he would never do that 😔 he complained to my mom and my matter was not solid it was just pushed aside n unheard
I don't know what I have done to this man but his like a demon that won't let me live in peace sadly his my step father n everyone in the family sees him as an angel n they speak highly of him... Mom once said that the way his so generous he'd never hurt a fly
@@taylorfirst9475 I am so sorry sweetheart. I totally understand you. It is a shame that your step father has managed to manipulate your mom and the people around him.
Most child predators make sure that their outer image is impeccable, and they appear perfect to the world. It makes it easy for them to discredit any victim who decides to speak out about their abuse.
Next time, you should tell your stepfather that if he continues to touch you inappropriately, you will tell someone on the outside of his social circle - like a teacher or a counselor.
I strongly encourage you to tell someone you trust, outside of your family, about this. You do not deserve to be abused in any way by this man. First, you can try to talk your mom again, but this time, advise her that if she doesn't do anything about your stepfather's behavior, you will report him to the authorities.
I know this is a difficult process. I don't personally know you, but you can count on my support. Take care of yourself and be strong.
My now adult son has multiple disabilities, he couldn't speak very much when he was little. I had a former Lutheran Priest who took a special interest in my son, after my husband left us. At first, I felt that it was completely harmless, but one day I just had a feeling, I did not stick around long enough in that Church for a few reasons, but that day, that I had that feeling, was the last time I allowed my son around that man alone. I am a severe abuse survivor. I didn't want to project this onto this man, but regardless, I was not taking any chances, these predators are EVERYWHERE, and years later I heard others who also felt weird around this priest with their children as well. MANY men prey on single mothers with children. My son's inability to communicate made him a very easy target whether anything happened or not was not important. I felt "better safe than sorry" was the best mind set to implement.
He probably saw you as a target as well, because abusers have incredible radar for susceptible victims, of any age.
They are everywhere as you said.
Wonder how the pandemic affected them?
SOULLESS Mules of the darkness.
They KILL you and everything.
They don't CARE.
Keep shining your light and we shall share this on fb and such.
Thank you for educating us. Thank you for sharing.
WE all need to protect each other.
This is why even though my son is non verbal and could benefit from therapies at special ed preschools or daycare I refuse to send him. He wouldn't even be able to begin to tell me if something had happened to him. I just do my best to teach him on my own. I know that children with disabilities are something like 3x more likely to be abused than non-disabled children and this just breaks my heart.
Dude we need to speak up about the women who do this though because they’re out there and way more of them than people realized. I was a victim of two different female predators, one when I was 4 she was my babysitter. Would rub me down there and have me do the same and the second was my own mother’s best friend who slept with me from 15-17 warping my mind on how I viewed women and sex. I was almost a nympho for years thanks to this abuse, it might sound like a joke but it’s not. Like many of the abused I went on to become a sexual deviant, thank goodness I never continued the cycle of child abuse though
The gut feeling is always most likely true. Thank goodness you listened
What is sad is that people who genuinely like children will be viewed with suspicion. Such a horrible crime that affects children forever.
It made me shy away from virtually every child I wasn't related to or knew the parents well. When I was in church, I always made sure that there was another adult nearby to hear and see what was going on. ( I never went into any room alone with a child. I either waited outside, had someone to keep tabs, or had more than 1 additional child with me ( 3 total). It was a safeguard that prevented me from having to deal with skeptical parents.
Literally. I work with kids and it breaks my heart that in a position of power and meant to help children you would do so much harm to them. it genuinely hurts.
@laredopotato Same with my high school Ancient History teacher.
@@lavanderwilliams111deviant thoughts?
@@lavanderwilliams111this kind of sounds like pocd, not saying you have it but you can check it out if you haven’t heard of it
Actually, 44% of convicted child molesters are married or have been married. That is not single or unattached.
Like he said in the video, he is ONLY talking about abuse that is not perpetrated by a family member. Of course fathers and uncles are usually married or partnered.
I agree...they use the marriage as a cover.
I think this guy's statistics are wrong ..but the actions sound correct.
@@bobbin321 I’m an uncle and I’m not married. You don’t have to be married or with someone to be an uncle.
@@philiptilden2318 Never said they did. Obviously some uncles are children who will not be married. My point is that most adults in the world at one point or another have a partner.
This is so true. I question this man's credentials.
I have such a phobia of my kids being victimised.
Me too.
Same here ! I was molested so I do everything in my power to make sure the cycle doesn't continue with my daughter
@@almondkissed3794 bless
You should! Ain't nothing wrong with tat
Me too ! Cant even trust their dad , as a victim i cant trust nobody
I didn't let my children go anywhere without me or their father. No one babysat my children except my parents.
There are a lot of cases when grandparent or a spouse is guilty of that. Have cameras in the house / inside car.
Grandparents can do this too. Only You can protect your child
Siblings, grandfathers, aunts, uncles, anyone could be suspect.
I was molested by my older sister when we were little
Another telltale warning sign: Beware of adults who love to play hide-and-seek ALONE with little children.
Why is that? Im a female and i play with my kids niece n nephews hide n seek alone... And the only time id gladly go jail if a adult hurt my kids. If i had power id tatoo all pedo with words CHILD RAPIST on their foreheads put them all in one prison and torture them for life!!!
Yes to get physical contact might start with tickling . Be ready with a mallet to strike them on the head hard .
Yeah and I am a 15 year old(probably one of the least trustable age ) and my big cousin trusts me to babysit her 6 year old niece and 2 year old nephew.
@@gardeniahibiscus1104 hes not talking about mothers
LOL. Ok
My gut instinct kicked in numerous times when I was a little girl(7-10). My headteacher watched me change for PE and swimming , offered to help me on several occasions and led me to his office for a sticker when he could have and should have given it to me in the classroom... my teacher didn't say anything so he took me. Sooo glad I listened to myself because I felt uncomfortable and scared to be alone with him . I told him I needed to get back to class after what felt like an endless endurance of standing in front of him with his gaze fixed on me, smiling a creepy and almost sinister smile. Well, he was charged years later of child abuse! 17 years too late but nevertheless... justice has been sought(I think and hope). Edit: he is in prison now!
@P A U L I N E Thank you so much! I'm now a huge supporter of child abuse charities 🙂
@P A U L I N E Thank you so much for this supportive message! Yes, I'm a mum too so I think that has given me even more reason to be an advocate 🥰
How old are you now? In the old days most kids were hopelessly naive because no one talks about molestation like they do now.
@@SlingTv-uo4wn I realise that. I'm 30 now.
The intelligent ones operate in plain sight they are first and foremost excellent conmen
jamiebellwolf I agree can also be a woman, and sometimes the woman is not the perpetrator but helps the perpetrator to obtain victims equally disgusting 😡
Charities in london do it. It also happens in schools. I know an olympic gold medallist who was sold as a sex slave. The elites would visit her all the time.
I was having problems being mentally and emotionally abused by a full-grown father and his son I was fooled because when the little boy, his son was small, he seems a very nice and very wise when he grew up it was different and he started telling me I had too many rocks in my yard he was going to take some he only threatened me three times and then kept acting horrible for years I had no proof I just found out today from a sweet little girl she's now not so little she's going to have a baby that he's a pedophile and that she was bothered by him when she was a child that's the son of the father that has been abusing me am no one seems to have any support groups for me to go to and I always have to worry if I go out the door if they're going to get in and they have they kept hanging around in my attic I'm a senior but I'm very alert smart thinker but I'm really tired of this the other two threats were that he was going to steal my identity and use fear and control over me the very last threat I had decided to go to a hotel to get away from his negative energy is there any kind of support I can get?
there a man like that in my church in his 40s, on our first date he spent 70% of the time talking about young men he mentors. As time went on, my gut instinct told me he was grooming these young men for sexual encounters. There was zero emotional connection between us. Paedophiles are very very calculated, he caught on that i knew his secret. He quickly ended our relationship, hes now travelled to africa for wife.
Marriage to a woman will give him the family man image so he can continue to molest boys behind the scenes.
I am thankful for the many resources online to help me spot the warning signs! I suspected the intent of a former boyfriend I was dating when he seemed too interested in being with my child without me present. Also he seemed divisive in his way of communicating, as if I didn't care for her. I thought this was especially a red flag. The final straw was when he watched Leon the Professional with her without me. She is 11! Oh and he was suggesting sleepovers!
He is a pillar of the community type.
Did you report or break up with him??
you are an idiot for letting him babysit her
So creepy because that movie really sexualises Natalie Portman's character
@@NeverIsALongTime she was 11 not 5. She was an outspoken child. I just wanted someone to make sure she ate a healthy lunch while I finished a group project at my college on Sunday afternoon. Otherwise she eats all snacks.
She's 19 now and she is fine.
Maybe there are some children that really need to be saved out there, because mine are fine.
@Women Healing from Sexual Abuse w Renee King thanks dear. I appreciate that.
Never thought I would ever find myself looking up this type of video. All I can say is thank God the person responsible is locked-up now. Just wish I new of the signs earlier.
Yes Its like there seems like there are no warning signs but do you know why? Because it was always taboo to talk about it. People would never dare to report it in years gone by.
Even in the nineteen eighty's truth was denied and it was like the victim did something to provoke it. Times have changed but at the same time there are some who may be blamed and set up.
That is not ok.
Reminds of days when public trials without evidence like when Jesus was accused and Baribus was released instead of Jesus.
We must choose Jesus as savior our God.
Praise God always.
Only God can save us.
Yeh sorry you or your child had a bad experience with that sh*t but I guess it just shows how much god can do init. GOD ID GREAT! 🙏
JoeyJr702 your kids have a dad who spends time with them (I saw some of your vids) so they’ll be pretty strong and resilient and if you raise them in the Lord Jesus Christ they will have a firm foundation and he can heal their heart and give them purpose in life. Too many kids today have no purpose and no will to live.
God bless you and your kiddos in Jesus name. ❤️
JoeyJr702 you and me both!
@@LindaBeaudoin You had a fantastic comment until you brought religion in. What was God thinking when he made these types of people? Pedophiles are BORN with those predilections, yes there are massive amounts that were victims turned perpetrators, but where was God when it first started. Where was he when little Johnny was being sodomized by his priest? Where was God when Johnny was crying out to him, praying with all of his 9 year old might to make God stop the abuse? By all accounts, God is omnipresent so he was DEFINITELY there during the abuse, watching and not doing a damn thing. Where is God when the diocese pass a known predator from church to church? Where is God when none of the priests boss' stand up for the victim?
But everything happens for a reason, right? God has a plan, right?
Coaches. Priests. Scout leaders. Youth pastors. Teachers. Step-fathers or boyfriends who prey on divorced or single mothers. I will add, older cousins, older brothers and sisters. Older friends even. Babysitters and day care providers are suspect as well.
The thing is, until your child can speak, they are the most vulnerable. After they can speak, you still need to watch them like a hawk and limit who can and cannot be around them unsupervised. I know this sounds completely paranoid but, as a parent, you should be. I know also, that a lot of people are forced to rely on and trust different providers for their kids because they have to work. I would seriously recommend moving to a place that you can afford more, be it a town or house or apartment, that would enable you to raise your children and still pay your rent. Also, if you are lucky enough to have both parents available and even further, lucky enough to jockey your shifts where one person is home while the other is at work and vice-versa, you should do it.
Child molestation is a crime of opportunity driven by perversion.
You are a parent now. Your life is changed forever. You have a job to do. It’s not about you anymore.
Don't forget fathers. They are high up on the list of most common sex offenders.
@@Catlily5 so true. So sad but so true. Some very evil parents, moms and dads, out there to be sure. I was trying to give guidance to the parents who were maybe a little confused as to what to look for/watch out for. But you’re right. Parents definitely molest their own kids. What a horrific world we live in at times. I keep looking for 500 acres with a moat around it.
@@Homeinmygardenwithmydog Sometimes your partner (male or female) might be abusive.
@@Catlily5 Fathers. Grandfathers. Uncles. Brothers. Cousins.
@@stoverboo Them too. And more rarely women as well.
#1 clue, in my opinion, is men who are overly interested in children - other than their own. Normal men just aren’t that interested in other people’s children.
Problem is the "person" most likely to abuse IS a family member....NOT a stranger!
Men can’t like their nieces or nephews?
@@julianacheriza1575
Depends on how often and what they're doing. There's no 100% way yo stop sexual predators, but you can give children their best odds.
I had a woman who tried to grroom my toddler. Dont trust women either. I dont know if she was trying to do it gor her or her husband. They were both in their 60s. She asked to watch my kid unattended. I told her fuck no and blocked her number. Horrible trash these ppl are. She was really nice and used her grandkid to get close to my daughter then got mad when i told her i dont leave my daughter alone without a family member present. They have zero interest in the parent is what i noticed
@@julianacheriza1575 Not that they're meant to, but nost guys I know could give 2 shits about their neices and nephews
When I was 12 years old I used to go to an arcade and I was never molested or abducted but there were a lot of adult men there eventually they closed down the arcade because the owner was arrested for molesting children
smh!
I knew of one. He would always be outside with the neighborhood kids or have long 20 minutes conversations with them. Another thing is he would have a bunch of little kids clothes even though he didn't have kids. He had other behaviors like he was always going through everyone's stuff, spying, getting on other people's computers when they weren't around. He finally got caught in the act & is currently serving 2 life sentences consecutively.
This is my greatest fear as a parent. My rule of thumb is I treat every male around my daughter as a potential “bad guy”. Which means I never leave her alone with a man (family or otherwise) and I scrutinize every male that is close to us. I’m sure most of them would never hurt her but I don’t want to give anyone the opportunity to ruin her for the rest of her life.
N B WOMEN molest too!!!
Binge Thinker Not nearly as often as men and they are less likely to molest a female. Trust me, I know the stats and where the dangers are. I am choosy as to who I leave my child with. It’s hard because it leaves me with very few options but I feel it’s important.
@@NB-ky5ol that's true but my offenders were All female. Good bless you.
I did the same thing with my son
@@NB-ky5ol did you know that 80% of statistics are wrong
This is spot on. Not sure why there are 29 thumbs down because this is truth. This is exactly what my abuser did.
@@Banjo85I would be cautious but don’t jump to conclusions.
Watch out for people who go above and beyond to do things for you and/or your kids.
Doesn't mean that they are ALL bad.
@@madelinewhitley14 it's the simp culture, I am a user I truly can not give unto another for what meant to exist is around us all already, for this nature I truly can not give but a user until I exist no more, logic in reality the creator created garbage thats meant to be and exist too
The best thing a parent can do is have one stay home with their children, while the other works. Then, you minimize exposure to outside influences.
In this culture and time both parents have to work to keep their heads above water. Also many homes are single parent homes.
@@paulabrown6840 And whose fault is that?
But it's often the parents who sexual abuse their children, or the child's uncle, aunt, grandparents, or sibling. Most abuse, sexual, emotional, physical or neglect is undertaken by family members. Strangers abusing children is relatively rare in comparison. Similarly the people you lock yourself in your home with at night are the ones who are statistically more likely to harm you. I day this as a,child protection social worker of over 20 years.
@@constancegoodwill2416 Child abuse is like all other crimes in that most of it goes on between people who know each other.
@@electric0618 Paula didn't do it lol
It wasn’t until #Metoo that I was willing to talk openly about being sexually molested by a prominent Rabbi, and a Hebrew school teacher.
We need to get the non violent drug offenders out of prison and give child molesters life without! We don’t need to wonder if they will stop, it’s a compulsion, they cannot control. No child or family needs to risk these monsters having a second chance at destroying lives.
Unfortunately these community leader positions are full of molestors. I hope it didn't destroy your life or love for your religion and culture.
'We need to get the non violent drug offenders out of prison and give child molesters life without!' Maybe both positions are correct, but they are unrelated topics.
@@finished6267 'I hope it didn't destroy your life or love for your religion and culture.' Maybe she (I assume that the poster is a female) should hate her religion and culture, given that it is what enabled the attack on her to happen in the first place.
Well the Talmud is full of pedophilia, doesnt come as a surprise?
My family used to be Catholic but ever since some of our family members came forward about being sexually abused by priests, we've completely abandoned the church. It's not so much that they were abused by priests that really hurt, but rather the cover up done by the church is what hurts more than anything. Instead of throwing them in jail, they just transfer them to other churches so they have a clean slate for a reputation and a new slew of unsuspecting kids to diddle. We have no affiliation with Catholicism now. A church with bad roots makes the whole damn tree rotten.
I was molested by a priest when I was a kid. Never really spoke anything because I" was afraid to be punished by God " didn't know any better. I still have nightmares of me getting raped.
@@jaimepolanco7320 I'm so sorry that happened to you. 😞 I was also assaulted by a friend of the family from ages 13-15 and it took me decades to come forward about it. I actually googled the guy and found his number and contacted him to confront him. It was a very empowering thing to do (for me). He was speechless and apologized and I've been able to slowly heal
@@monicapyle it took me many years. To get over it. Never could confront i him. He passed away many years ago. I hope God made him pay.
@@jaimepolanco7320 I left a comment on a different channel about child assault and someone actually commented to me that it was my fault. He said I must have been coming on to the guy and that it's normal for grown men to not turn down an attractive teen girl. I explained to him that his response is exactly why it takes victims years to come forward - we fear people will think it's our fault. I do believe your predator is paying in the afterlife for eternity. Sometimes we want justice now but God always has a just plan for the afterlife.
@@monicapyle I'm still a Catholic, since I believe that's the Church of Jesus Christ. At the same time, I'm absolutely furious at the structures which cover child abuse, this should never happen. I just hope that when it has come out, people will be more careful with their kids and more predators will be punished
My mom had gotten molested as a child, so she was super careful with me & thank God I avoided it. But it’s weird & sad but necessary to be a kid & grow up looking at every adult wondering if they’re safe
@jobecker4381 It's called "survival." You were loved, safely shielded.
They also pray on single mothers
@ms.bomagain67 Yes, they do prey on single-parent's with children. It's a UGLY truth in life.
As a single guy with no kids... I have zero interest in children and certainly would not want to watch a child unless I had to.
I have shit to do...
Any man who shows an interest in your child has an ulterior motive ladies. Sometimes it’s to get your attention or sometimes it’s to gain trust.
Now that being said every now and then there is a precocious little kid in a store who’s adorable and I’ll tell the parents that.
You sound healthy
So why you here you sound suspect and trying to learn ones child .
Exactly kinda weird bro, I'm an uncle who loves his nephews and nieces and I have no kids due to medical conditions
So if a woman shows an interest in your child that's just kind motherly instinct? Dude this kind of sexist gender profiling is just plain wrong dude. Women can just as easily be predators/abusers (of all the different kinds). Toxic femineity is every bit as much of a problem as toxic masculinity, even if the former doesn't get nearly as much attention as the latter.
I listen with my eyes 👀 any body come around an talking to much I start to look at them closely ... There action don't lie .....
jamiebellwolf literally what he said.
Thank you for doing this. There are a lot of pedophiles that adopt children as well. As well as many in the Foster system as Foster parents. The only foster parent I ever seen accused and investigated for it, was one of the few that weren't.
Don't get the term pedophile and child molester mixed up, pedophillia is an attraction, child molesting is a feeling. Not all pedophiles are child molesters and not all child molesters are pedophiles
@@josan2741 no I will never subscribe to that. Grooming a child is abuse. This whole it's a sexual orientation BS, I will kill first before I subscribe to that POS beliefs. If you are attracted to children, you need to unalive yourself. Research has showed you will never be able to stop. You are a horrible monster for trying to pedal this crap.
@@josan2741
they are all perverted child groomers
@@josan2741could molesting isn’t a feeling it’s an action
Interesting,
So pedophiles aren’t necessarily the problem since it’s merely an attraction but child molesters are since it’s an act of causing harm regardless if the victimizer is attracted to the victim?l or not?
Many of the ones I've seen convicted are ones who had wives that knew they weren't right. Not single.
I was abused by an elder of the jehovahs witnesses. He was married and she knew all about it. I was 4 and would cry and reach out for her to take me from him but she would just smile and watch
@@serenagh2135 I am so sorry that you had no one to reach out to in which to turn to to help you to feel safe with as a 4 year old little child. The woman was contributing to the sexual violation.
I hope you are living safely now. May Angels walk with you, always.
What sucks is when someone has innocent compassion, but are looked at sideways.
I suspect all my brothers were abused as minors, all exhibited behavior of someone who was sexually abused, such as a fixation on bodily functions (urine, feces) developing stomach issues (which can also be stress based) and chronic pain, including pelvic.
I had a guy in high school--head of the Christian youth group--grab and kiss me. Big guy. Fortunately there was another guy there--my age--and I could get away. 25 years later I'm on the beach and I see that same guy staring at a group of high school guys playing volleyball. I stopped and stared at him. He turned and gave me a sick grin. Right out of a horror movie.
Jeezo that's so creepy
Oh god
This also happens alot because many parents don't care about they're kids and let them do whatever with whoever and don't supervise them too much. They put work and everything else first which also heightens the chances not only of them being abused but them seeking out love and attention at a really young age!
My 83 year old mother and I 55yoa live together and have games and things for children. We are not child molesters
It's not a hard & fast rule Jodie. I'm a grandma and have toys & crafts for my granddaughters when they come over to visit. You have to use discernment.
Im 41, I collect Hotwheels. I play with my toy cars too. I don't want kids seeing my toys, because I might have to share them lol.😜😛😝 I hate child molesters. And I think toy cars are great.
Sigh....No one ever said everyone who loves children is a molester...BUT ALL MOLESTERS ACT LIKE THEY LOVE CHILDREN!
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@@misterhatley5894 sorry if this sounds odd, but that is soooo cute ^^
I loved what you said about your gut reaction. I heard one woman whose children were abused say your stomach is a 2nd brain, and it doesn't rationalise things. Thankyou so much for your advice.
The stomach is the FIRST brain and the brain inside the skull evolved later. Humans are a stomach tube who grew a cortex.
The gut and the brain are connected very much...
This is why people have mental illness symptoms when they have a gut filled with petrified crap!
Our molester was low key.Not any of these tips existed. No weird feelings for us or weird out if place actions.
Normal guys are so fearful of the pedo accusation that they won’t allow themselves to be alone with a child.
I wouldn't like it if ANY adult took too much interest in my child. Male of female, married or unmarried. No long unsupervised time with any adult. Period.
make sure you teaching ur kids ... trust me u don't want anything to happen to them , because it's happened to me and my life distroying and am distroying others and self hating and think about to kill that one who distroies me ... please be more careful and let your kids understand seek for help if u don't know anything about parenting ... 🌇 idk
It's a shame that as a single male I have to closely monitor my own behaviour around children to not appear suspicious or get publicly accused mistakenly. How ironic that in doing that, I bahave exactly like a predator.
I get what you mean. My Dad has the same concerns. He’s a good man, if he sees a kid walking to school (where we live, it’s a long walk to school), he feels inclined to pick them up so they’re not walking for two hours. But he can’t do that because people will accuse him of being a ped. Likewise, he’s really good with babies but even that’s suspicious because only women are ‘supposed’ to be good with kids. I get what you mean, I really feel for you. It sucks.
I had to come here today because I had an incident that scared me to death but I went into mama bear mode quickly! I took my child to a birthday party. The kids had a blowup water slide so everybody were in swim wear. The grandfather introduced himself to me but was a little to close to me. THAT PUT MY GUARD Up IMMEDIATELY! He later came back over when my daughter was talking to me. He kept saying how pretty she was and she had beautiful hair. He started to raise his hand to touch her hair and I jumped up told him very low “do you want to die today? Don’t touch my child. “ His eyes bucked and I sat her down in my chair behind me before I said that. He walked away so fast LOL. My neighbor noticed and called her daughter over to put her shorts back on. I made every girl that came with us to put a cover up on or shorts! I told them stay away from him, don’t take nothing from him, don’t go in the house without us, and watch out for each other.
I watched that man like a hawk! He sat and watched every little girl at that party. When it was time to eat everybody went in the house but me and my daughter stayed outside with a couple of little girls. He never moved from his spot UNTIL 3 11 and 10 yr old girls came of the slide while the parents were inside. I got up to talk to the girls about school just to block him. He went in the house after that. We finally decided to go and the host were thanking us for coming but he walked over too. I stood up with my arms crossed blocking my group from his view. I told him everyone said thanks for inviting us and they need to dry off so we can go. He smiled and walked off. Nasty pervert! I didn’t feel comfortable saying anything to the host at a kids party. One thing for sure my child want be playing with that little girl unless it’s in my yard where I have 6 cameras. The party was at the grandparents house 30 minutes away but the little girl stays down the street from us. I no longer trust my child riding her bike with her or playing in her yard. NO MA’AM I saw all I needed to know at that party!
There are women who touch little boys and little girls it's just that the courts don't believe them but that happens it is still devastating to the child, they say a woman don't have time for that but some women do if a woman has time to just scroll on Instagram and lay down and go to sleep they have time to do something like that and if a whole bunch of women can brutally abuse their children than a whole bunch of women do have the ability to harm child in such a way
This is so true!!! Narcissist/Sociopaths seek power and vile acts over ANYONE. Men, women, children, even animals! They’re attractive and charming too! Masters of disguise. The trick is seeing through the cracks in their masks to catch them because many are situational offenders that wait for the perfect opportunity.
Right! We have read about so many pedophile women, so many rapist women, so many women beating up men etc etc etc…. Let’s face it: men are WAY MORE sexually dysfunctional than women. Deal with it, man!
I was molested by two men and 2 women ehen I was a child
❤so sad to hear❤❤may you find comfort and healing in the arms of Jesus
So please get counseling you are Not to Blame
Smart men would never be alone with children these days. F that, watch your kids while you run errands? No way in hell! Kid look lost or hurt? Call 911 or a woman. You couldn't pay me enough to be a teacher or work with kids.
damn right. I was doing handy man work at an apartment complex, cutting sheet rock with the door wide open. These little kids peeked in and took off screaming. Then, a group of about 30 people form outside all focused on me. Finally, the owner pulls up saying a tenant claimed I was in there with a knife. I'm like, because I was cutting sheet-rock. The owner knew this & nothing ever happened luckily.
Of those molesting a child under six, 50 percent were family members. Family members also accounted for 23 percent of those abusing children 12 to 17 years (Snyder, 2000).
When it’s a family member, the incident is more likely not to be reported. I’d suggest those stats are conservative.
I know a 40 year old man that never seems interested in doing anything with people his own age. He's constantly hanging out with teenage boys. When I found out he dated a 19 year old young man I got really alarmed. Because he's also always sort of adopting young boys and playing this fatherly figure role thing. He says they don't have a dad and he feels sorry for them. Every time he wants to hang out with me he always brings some young 13 year old boy that isn't his. He was referring to him as his nephew when they are not family at all. I finally blew my lid and called him out on it. I dunno what he's doing...maybe nothing...but it doesn't look good and makes me uncomfortable. I been his freine since we were kids and I never stopped being his friend when i found out he was gay. I've been very tolerant and open minded about despite the fact I'm a very straight masculine right wing kind of guy. I believe in freedom and how he chooses to live is his freedom. But I've hit my limit it. Something stinks and doesn't add up. So far all I've done is tell him not to bring teen boys...whether 13 or 19...around me. It makes me uncomfortable and im setting a boundary. But I'm really concerned how he puts so much errors and time into the underage boys he runs around with claiming he's just helping them and being a dad figure. Says he loves them like his own kids. Something just doesn't sit right in my gut about it and I dunno what to do. He's been my friend for 30 years but something ain't right
Hey, I think I am like your friend but I'm in my early 20's. I know I am damaged person. But God has been so kind to me. I was a xesually maladaptive kid and teenager. I was never treated for it because I never said anything and was never caught. I was embarrassed and couldn't express what I did or process it. When I was 19, after a suicide attempt, I confessed to the authorities what I did and was taken to jail and 2 years later was under house arrest/probation. I was supposed to be 10+ years under probation but only did 6 months. It was a miracle. One thing I wish I had was treatment. I still struggle with the guilt of what I did but also attraction to boys 16-20. It's like I want to "father" and give advice but the xesual feelings get in the way. I've cried out to God and begged Him to take these homosexual feelings away, He told me his grace and mercy is enough. The example of His son is there. I have to be like Jesus said, to abandon myself and take up my stake of torment. I will suffer with these feelings but I won't give in to them, the future prize awaits and God will reward anyone who follows the example of His son with everlasting life. I also do not follow any politics because the Bible already mentions what will happen to all those who put their trust in men/governments and what will happen to these short lived reigns of men. Only Jesus Christ is the rightful king.
Give them cops a hint about your friend
We had a neighbor who took special interest in my brother and even paid for his college. He was a single man. I always felt he was a molester. My brother won’t talk about it.
Sure it happen
I think you are right about your gut feeling. Why would this man randomly pay for your brothers education?
Nothing in this world comes for free.
I’ve never been in this situation, but I have a gut feeling about a relative. So I though I’d be safe rather than sorry if he starts showing any signs.
I was molested by two people; one was a woman. An old widower, too.
Pimp daddy
bruh
@@dwaynelewis7809 ayyooo wtf
They come in ALL forms. Single and attatched. In all areas of work. Just be careful with you children. Protect them always! And keep an open relationship with them so they know they can come to you if something isnt right.
The only reason I’m here is because I think one of my teacher may be one. He always favors me and my friend. Once my friend and I were early for class so we sat down it our seats. It was just us and our teacher. My teacher told us that he wished it was only just us in the class and that he would give us “special treatment and please us”. We thought that was weird but brushed it off as nothing. Then a week later I was talking to the teacher after class and I kid you not he told me “my heart gets warm when I think about you”. I told my dad about that and he said he probably just thought he was trying to find a way to speak to kids and was to “awkward to say anything”. Finally, what really set my friend and I off was, in another period the a small group of kids was joking about the teacher watching porn on his phone because he was always on it. My teacher laughed along with them, but then he said in the most serious tone that “only if it was children’s porn”. Only two people heard this and one caught it on videotape. Now whenever he is overly nice to me I get scared. The only thing that worries me is that he is just an awkward guy and I am accusing him of being a pedophile. Anyone have anything that can help me?
If your parents don't listen tell the school counselor or a different teacher and if that doesn't work tell your family doctor. Have your friend tell his parents. And don't go around him alone. Stay with your friend when you have to be around him
I had a teacher. A gym teacher who always did the two finger lick to me.. I didn't know till I got older.. That he was wanting to eat my pussy. So scary.. I was a freshmen and didn't know why he starred at me so much. Glad he never acted on his nasty mind.
no heck be careful. Jesus loves you, he can protect you if you believe in him and repent of any sin He will hear your prayer and protect you. He loves you. He hates sin. Seek him.
Jesus kid,please make sure you NEVER spend time alone with this guy.
It's better to be safe than sorry.
If you have a bad feeling about him trust it please
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I got molested by three different people one of them was a woman. Until this day my parents don't know about it
Oroba Ahmed im sorry that happened to you. 💚
Oroba 1990 stay strong bby
am sorry
Oroba 1990
tell your parents immediately, holding it in wont do you any good. don't air out your dirty laundry for the world to see
Nick Butler I don't have "dirty laundry" to hide so don't put the blame on the victim shit head. My comment was to show the pedophiles can be males or females. Plus, it will have a permanent damage on the victim's life. People should look after their kids and trust no one to leave them with specially relatives
You didn't mention lonely OLD neighbors, who prey on quiet and obedient young children, such as myself.
He threatened to cut me up into small pieces and throw me in the trash if I told anyone what he was doing to me.
Child molesters are not always outgoing and helpful. Many stay to themselves and quietly groom their victims as the opportunities arise.
Sweatheart♥️ i hope he got in prison as he deserves hell
@@Flyingpaper799 This happened in the 60s. People did not talk about these things. My parents swept it under the rug (what you don't acknowledge, doesn't exist). But I can guarantee you this, unless he repented of these horrid sins, he's in hell right now.
I'm angry that single people are being maligned. If I were a child molester, first thing I'd do is marry someone as cover.
Dumb ass, he qualified it single, have a interest in children beyond their reason for the encounter; ie wanting to coach them outside the group times. If that fits you, probably need to get help
Uhhhh
Yup! Many child molesters have girlfriends/wives.
Someone I suspect has a girlfriend but I'm pretty sure he's into young boys.
What is truly shocking is, if a child tells his parents and they are not believed. Many many years ago,my friend told me her fatber had been abusing her from a very young age. When she turned 11 or 12yrs she figured that instead of this being fatherly love, it was wrong so she went to her local priest who said she was exaggerating. The Sexual molestation continued so she went back to the same priest who then went to talk to her father and he denied it. She then went a 3rd time to the priest,who then told the father, if he felt 'the urge' to go knock on her brother's bedroom door and just talk to the. The mother knew nothing. As soon as my friend turned 18, she left home. I met her father, a small fat ugly know-it-all kinda man. Hope he is paying for his sins now (in hell). Disgusting man!
1 Samuel 3:11, 18
Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
When you’re in a relationship with one it’s like you can feel it because sometimes they even try to molest you as an adult!!
WHEN ITS A FAMILY MEMBER, THEY GROOM THEM FROM AN EARLY AGE.... THE THINKJS THIS IS NORMAL, @THEY R SPECIAL FOR AWHILE!!! PLEASE WATCH UR CHILD.....
This is very important information that keeps people alert to the creeps of society. Everyone should know the signs to help rid our society of these vile humans.
did I watch something to get recommended this, or is youtube tryna tell me there's a molester around me
Yes
Why don't schools have meetings with the parents to tell give them this information??
Because the schools are protecting the molesters. Teachers Union is the worst thing to happen to our children.
Many teacher prefer to just complain about parents. They don't want to get involved. Remember too, sex offenders are either aggressive or passive aggressive. The enjoy the fight and turning the tables on anyone who tries to stop them. This is why these kinds of conversations are so important.
And now we know that these are not always true.
They are signal - married teacher kidnapped a high school ROTC student.
Female teachers who are good looking and married going after the middle school boys.
All 3 teachers in the news, were long time teachers. They didn’t move around, they had behavioral markers that were dismissed cause they just didn’t seem to completely finish the grooming.
Now I agree that when going to their home they have toys that attract these kids. That was dismissed cause either they had kids that played the games or a spouse played them.
No, what you truest need to look for is that person who pays more attention to that one child. Is your child dependent on this adult for approval, are they trying to please them?
Then you have the opposite, are they avoiding this teacher, are grades going down?
Are they changing their appearance, trying to look sloppy (baggy clothes) trying to not get noticed?
The reasons these people get close to your child is cause your busy and not giving/showing attention to them or in the latter, you dismissed their comments about how a certain teacher gives them the creeps.
In high school a new bad teacher (old one retired) started a jazz band. Not many people signed up for it(10 girls, wind instruments - 3 boys drums). The teacher told the boys to leave cause he was just going to work with the girls for the rest of the semester. The guys left (we had an open campus back then) some to the library to study for other classes, some to the store, some Just wondered cause the teacher wouldn’t let them in class. He then lined the girls up by breast size. Made comments and got everyone to judge everyone else. The girl said at her deposition, she tried to tell her mother but was dismissed. She didn’t know what to do cause by the end of the week the teacher had warned them about telling others about the class that he was sure to get the scholarships to college, that they should not tell anyone or the class will be too big to do a good job.
The girl wrote all this in her school journal, that the language arts teacher failed to read.
Her boyfriend though noticed a change in her. He said something told him to read her journal. And when he did he got so mad he went straight to the teacher and beat the shot out of him. The police arrested the boyfriend.
The girl again tried to tell the principal what had happened but the teacher insisted on pressing charges so the boy went to jail. The principal, during all this was handed the journal (not sure if it was the boy or girl that gave it to him), and called the police to have the teacher arrested.
Sounds like the right thing to do right? Wrong.
The principal was suppose to call the union rep to give them a heads up. Suspend the teacher with pay until an internal investigation could be done.
The guy was guilty even said so but he blamed the girls for dressing sexy.
During a closed trial (the witnesses talked in school and told people what happened) the union rep argued that because the union was Not notified and the proper procedures were ignored that the teacher should be set free cause his rights were ignored and the Judge agreed.
A civil case the was brought against the teacher and not the district that had the teacher found guilty but due to a plea deal from the criminal trial he could keep his state teaching certificate so he could teach in a different district.
The lawyers called this a victory. They got their conviction. However it was more a conviction of bad teaching and the district had the right to fire him and not a conviction of improper conduct with more than one minor.
1 Samuel 3:11, 18
Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
I came here to share what I experienced, I am a high school student and I am 16 years old, and one time someone chatted with me and he told me that he likes me, he also wants to meet me in person, and I feel that he looks friendly, after we got along, he started saying sensitive words to me, like he said he wanted to give me babies, But at that time I just ignored it, but I already felt like something was wrong, I had in my mind that if this person spoke sensitive words again, i will be mad. Then I asked him why do you say such words to me? And he said to me, maybe I might like it, and I told him that I don't like what he says to me. Then when I was curious about his personality, I asked if he was still studying And he said that we are same high school students, I told him that a high school student should not talk like that if he/she is in the right mindset. After a few days he is still forcing me to talk to him, and i just blocked him.
Sometimes it is very difficult to know. Never trust anyone!
Some people get molested by their own family members.. People they know neighbors all kinds of stuff
Unfortunately, kids are being lured through the internet more and more. One perv was chatting with my 11 year old girl. He was very flattering. He found her through the game Fortnite and started chatting about video games, first. He offered to pay for some of her V-bucks. He said he wanted to meet her. He pretended to be in eighth grade and said he was lonely. She then said she was lonely too. (Of course she is lonely in a lockdown and pandemic).Then he started to ask sexual questions that she got uncomfortable with, but she didn't stop chatting with him. In fact, even though I had informed her of these scum, she lied about speaking with him, after I asked who she was playing the game with. She said it was her friend from school. I almost believed her, but something about the way she said it. So, I told her I was going to call her friend, and that is when she told me she had been chatting with a stranger she met online. I read all of the chats and had a very long discussion with her about why she shouldn't chat with strangers--again!! Then I showed her a whole bunch of police video of creeps that were caught doing the same thing. Grounded for a month without video games, and now she has to have her tech in my living room. They were chatting for 3 months. I reported it to the cops. I also cussed him out in his chat.
11 is too young to play video games with strangers when there are chat functions. It's asking for trouble.
You sound like an awesome mum!
@R Jelly. You are awesome.
Keep up showing her different outcomes of similar stories of others who were not so fortunate to have a parent who loves them so much.
My parents did this with me & it helped me growing up to see that they were being Very Careful= Too Strict sometimes to a kid. But after a few stories my parents regularly told me... I was Thrilled abt their being Too Strict!!!
Sad for those who really are good
People are just kind.cant be to careful with your children.
Thanks Jennifer
That is the sad part. There are lots of good men who love children and would never abuse them but because of the sickos out there they are shut out from helping many in need.
Exactly. Shit is sad. And that can come from OVER analysation.
When I was in grade school in the 1980s we were taught - as children - to watch out for these exact same behaviors in the adults around us. I just hope kids are still taught this in their schools.
I graduated high school, class of 2020 for reference. I was personally never taught this in elementary or middle school... strangers were the only danger. I wish that that were true. I understand not wanting to scare children of their authority figures, especially in a school where they are meant to feel safe, however avoiding the issue was awful imo
No they are not
@@valkyriegracemendoza2113 neither was i
Graduated 2021, we were taught about stranger danger. Simple things like not getting inside of a car of a person you don’t know etc.
In kindergarten I was taught if even mommy or daddy does it you're wrong
There are many heroes out there that don't wear capes. Superheroes that protect and save the future.
Peace and prosperity to Mr. Paul and all Children Right's Activists
im fiercely protective of children. i don't have kids, but i have a fierce need to protect them. i dont remember abuse (other than my mother burning my feet with candle wax and making me kneel on salt with my hands up holding books, or beating my knees with a stick because i talked back to her). i dont know if i was abused as a child and am fighting back in this way of protecting others. as an adult, i dont like people touching me and i feel uncomfortable around a lot people.
Very very good video! Educational. Thank you. This video should be shown in schools, recreational centers...
Most times, there is no signs
someone who pays too much attention to your kid. that's the sign. most people, other than parents, don't truly want to hear what kids say or think. molesters do. sad but true.
@@SunShine-ye6ik damn.
This is spot on.
@@SunShine-ye6ik fuck...
@@SunShine-ye6ik pretend to
Usually, there are. Most people don't notice them. A sign might not be legitimate. Only by observation can you confirm or deny and interview asking very s]specific questions. Remember most work with blackmail. These people murder children to hide their crime so it takes not just trust but proof on your side. That you can follow thru on your part. These abusers are some of the most dangerous people alive. Too many adults envy them rather than depise them. This makes children who talk in a serious need for protection. Never go to their parents with accusations. Deal with the child and agencies that specialize in child abuse like rape crisis or battered women. Even CPS can be a problem in the beginning of a case.
It's a very sick world. I never trust any strangers with my kids. And never will. May Allah grant protection to all our innocent children and make our environments safe.
Most kids are molested by people their parents know and trust, not by strangers.
I know a certain "prophet" who married a 6 year old girl when he was 52 years old. He's the greatest child molester in history because he inspired so many copy cats.
First sign is to have a stupid otherwise naive, irresponsible parent. And I mean it, there are other videos where child molesters clearly say that if the parent seems alert, they would not approach the child.
Molesters approach kids that have no one looking out for them.
I'm single, unattached, teach children, and hate every minute of it. I teach with the door open. If a child closes the door when they come in late, l tell them to open the door. I love children to death, and giving them treats. But l have no desire beyond that. I used to be a court appointed child abuse advocate. I try and defend children as much as possible; but *never* to defile them.
Roan, Keller, Burchfield, Golden; 4 baseball coaches that come to mind. All fine gentlemen whom I never felt anything from but concern for my baseball playing. Five decades later, and these men are still in my memory. God bless them; I was blessed to have them in my life. Crossett, Arkansas (home of Barry Switzer an K.T. Oslin) in the late 60s and early 70s.
My wife and I are foster care providers. These predators are EVERYWHERE. ANYONE who wants to work with or spend time "helping" kids or are interested in kids you need to really look at. I evaluate everyone and some are at high high levels. Watch your kids.
The most dangerous ones are the ones that blend in, quite a few of them are married, have kids, nice homes, great careers and sometimes are even pillars of their communities. It's not always the ones you think, it's not always the guy that is quiet, smells bad, usually keeps to themselves. You get the idea
Exactly! It can be high placed and well liked people like politicians, lawyers, doctors, community advocates etc.
We have to understand that pedophilia can be a sexual disorder that happens to anyone wether rich, poor, white, black, male or female.
@HH-bz6me they are not wired right up stairs and it falls back on that.
@@elijahwilson1422 Yup it's a sexual disorder and I've met someone like that and trust me these people suffer too. They can never have w truly satisfying relationship in public. They are sometimes very suicidal even though they are succesful and if they are truly intelligent they know it's a defect and a burden.
They have to fight everyday against these urges and alot of them fail due to access of money and a passport. They become addicted to cope with their demons.
Seriously there should be more research done around pedophilia so that maybe one day there will be treatment or even better a vaccine or something.
Ofcourse you have some idiots that are proud to pedophiles but the ones that know it's a disease aren't proud at all.
people who volunteer to coach the kids team, but they have no kids. never ever let your kid play on one of those teams.
Hmmm, you can class every single school teacher as a potential child molester... while innocent people who show genuine interest in helping kids are labelled as suspicious... don’t make sense..
What if there is one in your personal life? Not a stranger.
They exhibit the same weird signs.
stay away from them
This whole video is about how most are NOT strangers! EXPOSE THIS....tell the police....report it....Confront him if you feel you can or get support and do it. They are COWARDS....
@@Mftjan2000 yes, they are cowards. True they are pathetic. But the justice system covers them. what to do when you have no evidence but gut instinct?
@@zs2302 Tell as many people as you can to watch out for them.
You do know women sexually offend too, right? Why didn't he give a profile on them?
True. I feel women predators are worse because people normally don’t suspect them.
Good question. Or on married men.
@@rzum81 I agree
No-one needs to babysit. Look after your own.
Babysitters and neighbors are always the second culprits if it's not a family member.
Thank you sir. I hope parents see this. Ive warned my family members about this for years
I need this so I can keep my kid safe from what I never was able to avoid
Anybody else get this in their recommendations?
I suspect of a priest he has all of those characteristics charming always involved and surrounded by kids all ages he posts pics of kids on his facebook all the time even got one with 2 little girls playing in the bed (he is their uncle) and post quotes like "if you're young I love you" and liked a page about jokes about a sex doll
idk maybe it's just me everybody loves him, its a little town he works at a prestigious catholic school
idk what to think
He go on missions with kids and teenagers to Brazil too and go everywhere with them kids at the School
Yes he definitely sounds like one. Start reporting him to someone and if that doesn't work report to the next person and the next person and the next person until somebody listens. And tell the other kids to stay away
Sounds definitely one to watch .most priests now are extremely careful dont put themselves in situations where they're alone with children. Id not let anyone be alone with mu children ever except in presence of other adults ......
There are very few good eggs but most are pedo
This was helpful because I've had a rising suspicion that my math teacher's aid is a pedo. He says stuff like I'm his favorite student and rewards me often. I have Crohn's so I can't eat a lot of candy, so when he found out I could only have peppermint he went and bought me some. He told me they were in his car and he would give them to me the next day. He said, and I quote, "They're a special kind of mint. I think you'll like them." I am freaking out
Furaha Hyena WHAT HAPPENED ARE YOU OKAY???
Stay away from him and warn others. Then tell your parents, if that doesn't work report it to the police, if that doesn't work report it to the counselor, the principal, and your doctor or another teacher
They can even be children's rights advocates. Pretty much anything that can get them in the position of trust with children.
thank you and bless you for that video
I do work in a capacity that involves helping inividuals, one on one, through dependancy issues and I can guarantee you, there are men AND women who are guilty of child molestation. It is as this man says: people who are in positions of trust and seem to be a little too enthused about kids or seem to "just happen" to always show up. With the female predator, look for "the mommy" who wants to overly console or mother your kid.
So true!!! If you lack empathy, which is a human trait, it means you are not truly human, so put them down like an animal. Death penalty for child molestation.
Non violent drug charges get Two to Three times the jail sentence than someone who rapes children in California. Why?
Death penalty for child molestation.
It is NOT just men that do this.. give me a break
I think he’s speaking about the mass majority.
Many many years ago I went to a church carol service arranged by my son’s school. The vicar homed in on my young son saying he must come to ‘my church’and that they had clubs he could join too. Every part of my internal being screamed ‘ keep away from my son’. Hence never went there again. Could have been totally innocent but we have to listen to instinct first.
Warning sign is the not blood grandparent showing up without his wife to take the child to church. From 5 to 7 years was when that happened to me, and an oblivious family that even today will not talk about it.
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I'm sorry
When I was 15 or 16 back in 1993-1994 Schoolyear I was Molested by 2 guys Both were boys from the FosterHome We lived in. Police were called they took a report then a few months later im in a Lawyers Office To give Testimony to 3 Lawyers As I enter the Office I see the Grandpa of 1 of the boys he looks at me then stares at the floor shaking his head no I felt like he Blamed me that his Grandson was on his way To State Prison. The Lawyers told me it makes them wanna throwup to have to deal with cases that involve sexual assault. They asked me how I feel about offering the 2 boys 6 months in State Prison if they plead Guilty I said fine. They were both teens charged as Adults I feel so bad that there are those who pick on anybody to Sexual assault. 1 boy was 17 the other was 16 but charged as Adults. Does that get wiped clean from the 2 boys record after they turned 18 a few years later or will they be on the Sex Offender Registery?
Jeremiah 23:10
For the land is full of adultery, and it lies under a curse. The land itself is in mourning- its wilderness pastures are dried up. For they all do evil and abuse what power they have.
Romans 14:8
If we live, it’s to honor the Lord. And if we die, it’s to honor the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.
Revelation 21:8
But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars-they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.
Exodus 22:22
Do not take advantage of the widow or the fatherless. If you do and they cry out to me, I will certainly hear their cry.
Ephesians 5:3-5
But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. No immoral, impure or greedy person-such a person is an idolater-has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.
I think that mothers should show their kids this. I’m only ** but I search this stuff up all the time because its good to be educated and know what to do in this situation
I have a question just read this background information of this person and tell me whether I should avoid this person or if I should give them another chance:
I was just wondering because some residence that I live at has some dude who works there who usually stays in a room by himself which has no windows when he is not doing anything.
He started talking to me and then I thought he was a pretty cool guy. I lost my basketball ball one day
and he was like, “I have it in my room.”
I went in suspiciously and he actually had the ball. He went behind me to check my height because I was wondering how tall I was
He said, “Oh great because i can check.” He went behind me and pressed his body up against me and checked.
He said, “I can check your weight too. Come sit on my lap.”
I was kinda worried and I was just thinking, maybe he is actually being truthful.
Then everyday when he would see me outside he would ask me to come in so he could check my weight.
I noticed that everyday the session would get longer and longer.
I also noticed that everytime, before he checked my weight, he would ask me to guess and everytime I guessed randomly, it would some how just be ‘correct’. Does he just want me to sit on his lap?
Today he asked me and then I tried to get up from his lap and he was kind of squeezing me and holding me on his lap.
Then he said, “Let me check your height again.” While he was holding me.
This time I decided to stop screwing around and I kept a serious face.
He said, “Are you scaaaared??”
I said, “No. -_-“
He said, “Me and you are friends.”
He then let me go.
Should I go one more time or should I avoid him?
NO! Avoid this man. ( I suggest telling an authority figure, so no one in the future is exploited further.)
Report him immediately. Stay away from him. Warn the other kids to stay away from him. And when you report it if one person doesn't listen report it to another until somebody does
1 Samuel 3:11, 18
Then the Lord said to Samuel, “I am about to do a shocking thing in Israel. I am going to carry out all my threats against Eli and his family, from beginning to end. I have warned him that judgment is coming upon his family forever, because his sons are blaspheming God and he hasn’t disciplined them. So I have vowed that the sins of Eli and his sons will never be forgiven by sacrifices or offerings.”... “It is the Lord’s will,” Eli replied. “Let him do what he thinks best.”
I'm disgusted
My girlfriend was violated by her father and she couldn't do anything and she still feels like it was her fault because she didn't say anything.. I honestly want to fucking murder him to this fucking day..
Edit: and she was fucking 7 when that happened!!!
And now she has a neighbor that is a little too close to her and her family buying her things etc and I told her she should be really careful but she doesn't listen she just says "I'll be fine".. fine isn't something you can just throw around when anything happens in an instant.. I'm so fucking worried about her each and everyday.. I love her and i would die for her I just want to protect her from horrible people like that...
I had an uncle that used to stare at me weird and gave me weird vibes. He lived with us at the time and also my dad wasn’t in the picture. I always mean mugged him . I think he knew he couldn’t do anything to me because I wouldn’t have allowed it and I was already like 11. I told my sister and she told my mom. My mom said we were talking nonsense.
Part of the problem is that a.) We think we know when we can tell someone is a child molester and in reality it can be a guy or gal that does what any "normal" person would do (they're not always that person that is a stranger hiding behind the bushes) b.) we don't know enough when something is not right and using common sense. Yes, we can tell if someone is a creep by their actions and words most of the time but there are just as many that seem normal and can easy fool us and-or has never been caught...those are the ones you have to watch out for as well and there is nothing wrong to being over-suspicious when it comes to your child.