9 tips: 1) Don't interrupt. Ask to interject if it is important. 2) Don't dismiss people's comments. Instead, acknowledge with a neutral comment. 3) Don't get aggressive. Wait your turn. Then, express yourself in a mellow tone and diplomatic message. 4) Keep your word. 5) Avoid bad behavior in life and on the phone. Return calls. 6) Master I'm sorry. 7) Don't talk over people. Instead listen as it will prevent talking over people. 8) Arrive on time. 9) Don't ignore the people you are talking to even though they are boring. Lut them know you have an appointment to go to and acknowledge them.
Thank u so much for your videos. I have Asperger's syndrome and I had trouble learning interpersonal skills until i found your youtube channel. I used to get into trouble for being rude to my coworkers all the time. Now people tell me that i'm great with clients and i get along with my coworkers better because you explain everything in an easy to understand manner. 😊
Great video, its really help me a lot bc i am always rude unknowingly and many people hurt by me .At the moment i didn't know why people always try to keeping me distance. Now i realized. Thanks you very much.
You're so great at giving expressions, the way you talk, makes the other person feel like going on listening to you and looking at your expressions. You're an amazing person. Thank you so much for your video. It was a great help.!!
Thank you for this video. I have autistic tendencies to not being able to read the room or understand non-verbal cues. There are things that I personally dont find rude even when someone were to do it to me bcs i dont take things too personally. It helps when you explain it from psychological perspective
I think it can be challenging at times not to be rude, but we really need to give others more of the floor instead of making it “all about me!” We as a society are becoming “all about me,” in this fast paced world. 🙏🏻
Rema is the best teacher .. i would like to learn more from you because the way you explain and the way you speak is very polite and acceptable to me to understand. so only you continue it...
please make a vedio on how to react if someone is really interested in talking about the other person in a negative way at the work place and you dont wana be a part of it by doing the same and at the same time you dont even wana hurt or come across as ignorant to the person who has chosen you to talk to you.
Hi Reema, I'm Prathima, I like this video and it is so interesting. can you please make a video on how to overcome the situation when the other person is rude and keep on telling about their interests without giving importance to our speech.
Madhuri Soni I think it's important to make your point but not rudely , if people are being rude just explain your point and after that feel free to ignore their reaction .
Pretty good!! Thank you very much ! I've learned a lot from this video, I hope you will make more and more video about some skills that help us have good relationship
while recording this session a lot of disturbance from another room so, re-record this session again,and I like to hear rema session again and again because she speaks English very nicely, 1s it was seen the video it will impact in my mind
it is really very nice lesson. all teachers of let's talk are impressive. everyone has different style of speaking.. and accent as well... am I right?... even i want to improve my accent. could you please tell what is mean by neutral accent ... and what is Indian accent?
I was Searching for videos on 'AVOIDING FILLERS WHILE SPEAKING' and i landed on this page. @Rima i liked the way you are presenting it. thumps up for that.. On the other side you are using a lot of "YOU KNOW' "YOU KNOW' 'YOU KNOW' - that is a filler phrase according to my knowledge. Kindly avoid those and you are better than this then. :-) Regards...
Hey Rima, loved your thoughts on the topic, its always great listening you. Quick point on the presentation, use your speaker wire in some other way, looks little annoying in the video.
How to address someone that other people have made angry. Example co-worker did not do their job correctly and the person will miss out on services. These services just cannot be offered to them at all.
IT IS AWESOME YOUR PRESENTATION,IT IS VERY USEFUL , ONE MORE THING I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU THAT, IT WOULD BE VERY NICE IF YOU TAKING CARE OF THE SUBTITLE THAT YOU ARE UPLOADING WITH THESE VIDEOS,I THINK ITS NOT EXACTLY LIKE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.THERE ARE SOME MISTAKES. I DID NOT NOTICE IT IN OTHER VIDEOS, PLEASE TAKE A LOOK ON THAT AND DO SOME NECESSARY ACTIONS.
ur vedios are really helpful thank you so much.But there is a suggestion I would like to make,can you please talk a little fast...coz I feel like you drag the words....a little longer
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9 tips:
1) Don't interrupt. Ask to interject if it is important.
2) Don't dismiss people's comments. Instead, acknowledge with a neutral comment.
3) Don't get aggressive. Wait your turn. Then, express yourself in a mellow tone and diplomatic message.
4) Keep your word.
5) Avoid bad behavior in life and on the phone. Return calls.
6) Master I'm sorry.
7) Don't talk over people. Instead listen as it will prevent talking over people.
8) Arrive on time.
9) Don't ignore the people you are talking to even though they are boring. Lut them know you have an appointment to go to and acknowledge them.
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Thanks for not making me watch the video
I don't do any of these things, yet people call me rude 😔 I don't ignore anyone and I also listen calmly, what else should I do?
@@Tanisha_0603 Stop caring about they're opinion, you're trying to be better, if they don't see that, then you shouldn't care about what they think
@@favourokoro5111 Yeah you are right 🙂
Thank u so much for your videos. I have Asperger's syndrome and I had trouble learning interpersonal skills until i found your youtube channel. I used to get into trouble for being rude to my coworkers all the time. Now people tell me that i'm great with clients and i get along with my coworkers better because you explain everything in an easy to understand manner. 😊
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they should play this video in high schools great video :)
Completely agree,it should start early
Very Nice Video.
Please keep it up and good work.
Thanks a lot.
The way Reema stresses on certain critical words is effective.
Great video, its really help me a lot bc i am always rude unknowingly and many people hurt by me .At the moment i didn't know why people always try to keeping me distance. Now i realized. Thanks you very much.
You're so great at giving expressions, the way you talk, makes the other person feel like going on listening to you and looking at your expressions. You're an amazing person. Thank you so much for your video. It was a great help.!!
Thank you! Usfrom the working class didn't learn these things.
NEVER SAY “I’M SORRY”, words are powerful, say “I apologize”
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Thank you for this video. I have autistic tendencies to not being able to read the room or understand non-verbal cues. There are things that I personally dont find rude even when someone were to do it to me bcs i dont take things too personally. It helps when you explain it from psychological perspective
ur an english book with life.nowhere it seems u r lacking any aspect of communicative english .awesome
I think it can be challenging at times not to be rude, but we really need to give others more of the floor instead of making it “all about me!” We as a society are becoming “all about me,” in this fast paced world. 🙏🏻
Rema is the best teacher .. i would like to learn more from you because the way you explain and the way you speak is very polite and acceptable to me to understand. so only you continue it...
Thank you !! You're quite polite yourself
please make a vedio on how to react if someone is really interested in talking about the other person in a negative way at the work place and you dont wana be a part of it by doing the same and at the same time you dont even wana hurt or come across as ignorant to the person who has chosen you to talk to you.
Very nice lesson... Agree with your statements and points... We should behave as we like to others 😊
this was really informative and would b applied to our daily activities whether its professional or personal life. Kudussss... really well done.
Love love every point . It's opened my eyes 🤣🤣👁️👁️
Hi Reema,
I'm Prathima, I like this video and it is so interesting. can you please make a video on how to overcome the situation when the other person is rude and keep on telling about their interests without giving importance to our speech.
excellent
Hi Good evening, Its really helping to people,, thanks a lot for your videos and valuable lessons. im very much grateful to you people.
Great job 👍🏼
Thank you very much! That's really helpful.
Thank you, very nice!
my favorite page on RUclips
your voice is so melodious ..it's so beautiful.. it's makes me to listen to you more and more
great video - can you please describe the usage of rather than and instead -;thanks again!
Excellent Reema.. Literally no words. Awesome.
Thank you much reema for a very session on rude in work place
2:00 elavate = elevate
Hi Reema I'm big fan...for voice...when I listen your voice it self I will feel happy and confident... I want you to do more videso...thanks
point no. 06 is my motto now. ty
M rude, angry. I tel anytg directly. I can't control myself evn after watching ds 😟
That time I also believe that you are very caring and kind but it's hard to let people in
Grammarly was very rude by interrupting me with one of their silly ads right when she was telling me to not interrupt!
how to respond if someone is being rude with us?? any one of rude incident from above.
Madhuri Soni I think it's important to make your point but not rudely , if people are being rude just explain your point and after that feel free to ignore their reaction .
Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful tips. Beautiful ideas comes out of those who have beautiful heart and soul! Thanks again.
Very Nice tips!
Thanks a lot.
Your personality is very nice mam it makes your video even interactive and informative
Thanks
thank you so much . This sounds very important to me
thanks u inshaallah I will try it.
Thank you so much. Great video
Thanking you Madam..! great job
I love her personality
Pretty good!! Thank you very much ! I've learned a lot from this video, I hope you will make more and more video about some skills that help us have good relationship
How to express if we change our opinion on what we said earlier and at the same time want to support or say that I meant it earlier?
Thanks!
while recording this session a lot of disturbance from another room so, re-record this session again,and I like to hear rema session again and again because she speaks English very nicely, 1s it was seen the video it will impact in my mind
very interesting and highly appreciated.
Ma’am very good lesson it’s very helpful keep doing this thanks
it was awesome....but in the room there was sound reflection ..
jst wow of ur pronunciation mam..Great tone..
great lesson .thanks a lot
really vryy ase nd helpful fr sur..nd I rlly admr u fr ur wrkkk..👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you
I don't want to be rude,so I say thank you
I have so enjoying This video and prom mice you i am not rode for anyone person ..
Thanks a lots ma"mas
Thanku for such important tips
Awesome expression and feel light after hearing your tips
It was really really helpful
Its just intresting...thank u😘😘😘
this is interesting video...thanks for making such a nice video..
excellent teaching
Very Good !!!!
this video was all about how "we" show up as not to be rude .. what if such things happen with us ? .. how should we react?
Thanks Reema 😃
that's amazing I am not rude when I compared to ur tips..!
Thank you so much I am a new subscriber and I thank God I found you... God bless you so much...
Thanks a lot for uploading this video! Really helpful and liked the way you explain.
Good going
Great video! Unfortunotely, my boss has many of those described behaviors.
Great video about how not be rude
really important for myself thank you
great video madam... thank u for doing this meaningfull lesson for us.... we r waiting for more video speacially from u bcz u are amazing.......
I love your lesson .
Thank you, sooo much
hi rima, will u pls make a v[deo on how to be professional in workplace, in different situations
A great video, and you will enjoy the real benefit once you adopted. Thank you for this great lecture.
it is really very nice lesson. all teachers of let's talk are impressive. everyone has different style of speaking.. and accent as well... am I right?... even i want to improve my accent. could you please tell what is mean by neutral accent ... and what is Indian accent?
Thanks. Nice Video!
I was Searching for videos on 'AVOIDING FILLERS WHILE SPEAKING' and i landed on this page. @Rima i liked the way you are presenting it. thumps up for that.. On the other side you are using a lot of "YOU KNOW' "YOU KNOW' 'YOU KNOW' - that is a filler phrase according to my knowledge. Kindly avoid those and you are better than this then. :-) Regards...
You're very sweet. Thank you for this video.
Very nice.....
Hey Rima, loved your thoughts on the topic, its always great listening you. Quick point on the presentation, use your speaker wire in some other way, looks little annoying in the video.
How to address someone that other people have made angry. Example co-worker did not do their job correctly and the person will miss out on services. These services just cannot be offered to them at all.
thnx.. helpful
very much helping video ,I am facing same problems thank you thanks a lot .also can you please make video on handling the rude Pearson's
Sager Bhanushali Why do you even want to handle rude people?
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thank you for this valuable guidence.Could you please share more about interpersonal skills and mail equity.
Beautiful lesso
IT IS AWESOME YOUR PRESENTATION,IT IS VERY USEFUL , ONE MORE THING I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU THAT, IT WOULD BE VERY NICE IF YOU TAKING CARE OF THE SUBTITLE THAT YOU ARE UPLOADING WITH THESE VIDEOS,I THINK ITS NOT EXACTLY LIKE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.THERE ARE SOME MISTAKES. I DID NOT NOTICE IT IN OTHER VIDEOS, PLEASE TAKE A LOOK ON THAT AND DO SOME NECESSARY ACTIONS.
Your voice is good! and thank you for good lesson.
Thank uuu so much
great video
+Be Yourself #Motivation keep them coming
ur vedios are really helpful thank you so much.But there is a suggestion I would like to make,can you please talk a little fast...coz I feel like you drag the words....a little longer
very effective..& this princples already tells before 1400 yrs ago in islamic books like 'aklaq'. but even in major muslims are ignore about that.
Beautiful!
Nice video Mam i learn a lot from this video
It's amazing
Waiting for the next..
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Good content!! By the way, the audibility of the video is very low, please make sure the audibility is good in the upcoming videos.
It will definitely help me nw