Appalachian Man interview-Zach

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  • @zachdynamiteoakes5195
    @zachdynamiteoakes5195 3 года назад +6164

    Reading the beautiful things you all have said has made me cry happy tears and made me think about my worth alot more. Your all beautiful souls and i appreciate the love and support and kind words !!❤

    • @vjc25
      @vjc25 3 года назад +140

      You seem like a great guy and father, Zach. Much love ❤️

    • @markhamblin1112
      @markhamblin1112 3 года назад +179

      Hang in there brother! I'm from Whitley County Kentucky brother I left there at 18 came to Cincinnati went through a plumbing apprenticeship for five years and to make a long story short I now own my own business with 11 employees..
      I came from nothing if I can do it you sure as hell can't do it my man! Keep your head up!

    • @mikehood5210
      @mikehood5210 3 года назад +83

      Zach, you remind me of so many folks I was around here in Louisiana back in my 20's. Man, your head is on straight but not without some rough patches. Its not where you start the race but where you finish, and brother, you are finishing strong. Keep it going man.

    • @hoot9819
      @hoot9819 3 года назад +47

      Hang in there, remember you can only control your actions, not the actions of others. You have the power to do whatever you put your mind to. Continue to be an awesome daddy to your baby and keep your head held high knowing you beat the beast that is taking everyone else out. You beat it.

    • @monetisisife2488
      @monetisisife2488 3 года назад +54

      Young man, you are an inspiration to so many! We are all proud of you. Keep up the good work in your life. You are blessed and your son has a great father!

  • @jaeboston9228
    @jaeboston9228 3 года назад +2914

    Being a black man born in the 50s, I never realized that my caucasian cousins had such rough lives until I taught school in Columbus, Ohio. In the 1990s, I had white middle school students whose only dream was to be the first person in their families to graduate from high school. I had thought all caucasians finished high school. As a child and onwards, my perception of whites was Leave It to Beaver, and Father Knows Best and The Brady Bunch. Never in my wildest imagination could I have envisioned lower class caucasians. Old men on the porch in their wife beaters leering at young prepubescent girls walking to scool and with 40 ozs of beer to boot. I didn't know that class of whites existed until I was in my mid 30s.
    Today, I realize it is not a race thing. The struggle is real for so many. Get educated, be strong, productive and please don't do drugs.

    • @pritchardhall
      @pritchardhall 3 года назад +94

      Jae, thank you for your comments. Appalachia, and many places in America, are hard places to live and your insights are very valuable.

    • @mapexzildjian6361
      @mapexzildjian6361 3 года назад +71

      There is a narrative about all of us and it's usually false. Narratives are a multipurpose tool. I know many white and black that believe what they're told regardless of what they see and experience.

    • @buck546
      @buck546 3 года назад +100

      I grew up in a very poor rual area and you sir are right. Poverty crosses all racial lines. My dad had a six grade education and my mother only had a third grade education. But they had survival skills you don't learn in school. I firmly believe that if everyone started life out poor we would have no racial problems.

    • @madmikemackas
      @madmikemackas 3 года назад +75

      Poverty is the devil. You are invisible when you’re poor

    • @buck546
      @buck546 3 года назад +29

      @@madmikemackas Invisible to whom? My whole county and most of my state were poor and we certainly were not invisible. We had love and lived life, we just did it with less and I am richer today as a result. Money will buy you a lot but it will not buy love, happiness or peace of mind. I had all these things a a child, I do not as an adult.

  • @stacy3448
    @stacy3448 3 года назад +538

    As a Mom, this interview really got to me. When I heard the pride in Zach's voice about being a high school graduate - I wish I could have given him a hug. This young man has not had an easy life, but he really seems dedicated to keeping himself on the right track. Keep going, Zach ! You have your whole life ahead of you!

    • @joygernautm6641
      @joygernautm6641 3 года назад +21

      Absolutely this part tore at my heart. I’m from a family where if you don’t get a least a bachelors degree you’re considered “uneducated”. It makes me aware of the privilege I had being from an unbroken home, with a stay at home mom and a dad with a secure job. Some people are just given a handicap from day one through no fault of their own. Getting a high school diploma was probably very hard in his situation and I’m happy for him and I hope he continues his education.

  • @bryanmallen
    @bryanmallen 2 года назад +84

    The dude was so proud to say that he was a high school graduate. To most that’s not a big deal but to people that we’re dealt shitty hands like this young guy, it’s an amazing feat. Being abandoned by his mom and losing his dad in 9th grade is some heavy heavy shit for a guy that age. The emotional burden that puts on you is unimaginable for most. School becomes secondary because I’m sure survival was his goal. The fact that he kept grinding and finished is impressive to me.
    Hope he’s able to keep grinding and can eventually find success. He’s obviously got potential.

    • @FrankGlover-k9b
      @FrankGlover-k9b 10 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, I'm very successful but I quit school in 8th grade at 16 yrs old and went straight to work. It's been 40 yrs of hard work in construction. This guy is quite the dude to have went all the way through school and graduated, it makes me jealous that I never graduated.

  • @deborahs2593
    @deborahs2593 2 года назад +217

    Man, Zach is something ELSE. His wisdom comes from his experience- not theories. The struggle isn't with others, it's with ourselves. He KNOWS that. May he continue on his way, stay strong and resilient.

    • @stayinsouthernupnorth5586
      @stayinsouthernupnorth5586 2 года назад +4

      Yes, he has wisdom from life experiences. From a southwest Virginia native, thank you for recognizing this. We didn’t chose to live this way. It’s how we were raised and how our elder generation was raised.

    • @masonrogers6806
      @masonrogers6806 2 года назад

      @@stayinsouthernupnorth5586 wasn’t talking ab u nigga

    • @sublimesamoyed
      @sublimesamoyed 2 года назад

      So well said, Deborah. The struggle in this life is with ourselves and the demons we wrestle, not with others. I never really thought of it that way. I found Zach deeply touching and wise as well.

    • @shanemobley5825
      @shanemobley5825 2 года назад

      @@sublimesamoyed Ephesians 6:12

  • @pumpthebrakes
    @pumpthebrakes 3 года назад +933

    This guy has hope, he’s smart and articulate. Good luck buddy, set a good example for your boy. He needs you.

    • @elainew2230
      @elainew2230 3 года назад +11

      Yes, surprising how articulate and smart he seems in spite of the conditions he grew up in.

    • @maryjancsar3767
      @maryjancsar3767 3 года назад +4

      Keep your child in your sight,and in your heart,l'ma be praying for you young man.MUCH LOVE

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +2

      🌹

    • @vivianhayes6865
      @vivianhayes6865 3 года назад +1

      Cool dude❤

    • @Stigstigster
      @Stigstigster 2 года назад +1

      Indeed. I feel bad for thinking what he'd be like from seeing his picture (prejudice I know it's called), mentally speaking, rather than just waiting to listen and see how how he was. He is a bright young man.

  • @joannekerr3
    @joannekerr3 3 года назад +357

    This portrait is one of my favourites! I love that his son is in it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with working at Wendy's. You are doing what you have to do to support yourself and your son. You are demonstrating responsibility, accountability and responsibility for your little boy.

    • @go.touch.some.grass.or.whaaaat
      @go.touch.some.grass.or.whaaaat 3 года назад +17

      1000% there is not small job

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +10

      Great 👍🏻 job on his part in everything it took to pull himself out of all that. And your right, working at a place like that shows how very much he wants to fix his issues and his huge potential in a well paying career. He deserves it. 🌹

    • @cruzin54321
      @cruzin54321 3 года назад +8

      Zach - restaurant management can take you far!

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +9

      @@cruzin54321 ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍 and the #HOSPITALITYINDUSTRY is SO much fun. I absolutely adore feeding people. Who isn’t happy serving another’s most basic human need to survive. They are starving and you are satisfying them with completely animalistic hunger satisfaction. #💚💚 #BLISS #💙💙

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +6

      This man is my favorite recovery ❤️‍🩹 case I have ever encountered.

  • @mzchristinaz
    @mzchristinaz 3 года назад +515

    I'm so impressed with him. He should be extremely proud of himself - especially considering how he grew up and his environment even now. I hope he continues on this path. 💜

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +3

      Right! 💯 %

    • @zachdynamiteoakes5195
      @zachdynamiteoakes5195 3 года назад +21

      Thank you so much i try to be the best i can!!

    • @notize8246
      @notize8246 3 года назад +1

      I can’t stop watching Seven Hunnid on RUclips 😭😭check him out

    • @babayaga3866
      @babayaga3866 3 года назад

      It doesn't take Much to impress you does it.

    • @SJ-ni6iy
      @SJ-ni6iy 3 года назад +1

      He needs to look into being a drug counselor. He is an inspiration to others.

  • @megjmonahan
    @megjmonahan 2 года назад +89

    The intro shot is how folks from here are often depicted. I’m so glad I kept watching! What a heart & mind on this man. I hope he knows he’s breaking generational dysfunction everyday. His son will benefit in ways most never get the chance to. Thank you for the inspiration 🙏

  • @candacebenson3786
    @candacebenson3786 2 года назад +49

    This was one of the best you’ve done. Kudos to this young man. He has the wisdom that some of older generation will never have. ❤️❤️

  • @victoriadiesattheend.8478
    @victoriadiesattheend.8478 3 года назад +248

    I can see he is trying to ensure his son doesn't suffer the same ways that he did. There is a practical honesty to him that I like.

  • @stephensmith6660
    @stephensmith6660 3 года назад +438

    I can't help but like this guy. Articulate, and I think he is Mentally stronger than he might believe.

    • @jaydkay30
      @jaydkay30 3 года назад +11

      @Stephen Smith - I thought the same things. He’s been through the ringer, but still has a positive outlook and seems to have healthy priorities, goals, and focus (his son). ❤️

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +4

      So awesome. 🌹

    • @313-v9k
      @313-v9k 3 года назад +7

      The common theme of these vids is.....stay off drugs.

    • @nunyabizwacks6711
      @nunyabizwacks6711 3 года назад +4

      im pretty sure he knows hes mentally strong considering he quit drugs and everything, not to mention organized fighting, etc. He didnt come off as a person that doubted himself to me

  • @R4CHEL__
    @R4CHEL__ 3 года назад +173

    I’m glad he’s gotten his life together. You can tell he cares about his life and the people around him dearly. He knows life is too short.

  • @AcaciaBieberLove
    @AcaciaBieberLove 2 года назад +14

    the picture of him and his son made me tear up. sweetest thing i’ve ever seen. so happy he was able to get sober for his son, for himself, and for his friend. proud of you zach

  • @danieldickey4958
    @danieldickey4958 2 года назад +85

    I love that he says “I’ve never started a fight I’ve only ended them.” I was raised with my father teaching me the exact same thing. He even worded it the same way.

    • @vinniep9562
      @vinniep9562 2 года назад

      I was brought up the same way. Always taught to walk away, but if push came to shove, be the last man standing.
      Fortunately, (knock on wood), it's never quite come to that, but I've never backed down either.

  • @Brynowyn
    @Brynowyn 3 года назад +95

    He is an old soul. Wise beyond his years. Great interview

  • @GJames007
    @GJames007 3 года назад +262

    This guy isn’t dumb, he’ll do well if he stays motivated

    • @sanmarcosSD
      @sanmarcosSD 3 года назад +5

      Him and crazy bird in the beginning of the video are boxing on Barstool Sports PPV events

    • @FrozenBlood67
      @FrozenBlood67 3 года назад +5

      Agreed. That’s all that I could think, watching this video. He speaks well and is in touch with his emotions. He just has to apply himself and move forward.

  • @thebestseason5034
    @thebestseason5034 3 года назад +144

    Look at that sweet little boy just loving on his Dad’s arm. If there was ever a reason to live and work hard, that’s it. This guy is smart and can accomplish whatever he sets his mind to. Please continue to do right for your precious boy. If this channel has taught us anything it’s that raising your kids in a stable loving home can change the world.

    • @bigone5757
      @bigone5757 3 года назад +4

      Right.. I cried when I saw his sons facial expression.. Pure love

  • @KayFabe87
    @KayFabe87 2 года назад +194

    Amazing how our initial perceptions of someone can be influenced solely by a first impression. If you watch only the first few seconds of this interview you can come away with a completely different perception of Zach than if you watch the whole interview. The kid seems very perceptive and seems like he wants to do right by his son and himself. I wish him the best.

    • @loubonaparte5063
      @loubonaparte5063 Год назад +1

      BINGO... I thought for sure this was going downhill quick... He will be OK barring unfortunate BS life tends to throw at us..

  • @shawnahathaway4762
    @shawnahathaway4762 Год назад +10

    His soul is much older than 25, he's so self-aware... what a beautiful heart ❤️

  • @jaydkay30
    @jaydkay30 3 года назад +71

    I still see the little boy who needs his mama in his sweet face. 💔

    • @meredithlinzay823
      @meredithlinzay823 3 года назад +8

      Me too💛

    • @cathyroberts9155
      @cathyroberts9155 3 года назад +3

      Mee tooo...i also live in Nitro

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +4

      I know right! Don’t you just want to give him a hug and help him like a mom does.

    • @zachdynamiteoakes5195
      @zachdynamiteoakes5195 3 года назад +11

      I wish she was here but it made me who i am today. I see her every once in a while but we act as strangers to one another. Its okay. Life is life guys.

    • @meredithlinzay823
      @meredithlinzay823 3 года назад +1

      @@zachdynamiteoakes5195 good luck and God bless Zach💛

  • @dedekae2863
    @dedekae2863 3 года назад +116

    It's almost the 10 year anniversary of him losing his dad. This guy has been through a lot. He seems like a strong person. I wish him all the best.

  • @brandithomas5737
    @brandithomas5737 3 года назад +306

    Zach, I've seen you at your lowest &' I couldn't be more proud of how far you have came. You really are an inspiration to people. Keep pushing man &' NEVER give up! I'm beyond proud of you

    • @donrotten4791
      @donrotten4791 2 года назад +9

      When I watched this interview I thought that man has a chance at being great.

  • @crystallivas9376
    @crystallivas9376 2 года назад +33

    Of all the interviews I've watched, Zach moved me the most. At first I thought- who is this nutty guy. But then... What a wise man at such a young age. A hidden jewel. He could teach us all a little something about our humanity. What a lucky little boy to have such a father. I'm very impressed Zach, that you took what you've learned and used it as a tool to be better. So many use the past as an excuse to behave badly. Bless you and your son.

  • @Jbwooten571
    @Jbwooten571 2 года назад +16

    The picture of you and your son is priceless. Beautiful.
    My son was born when I was 18. He owns my heart.
    God bless you, brother.

  • @carolhanley9469
    @carolhanley9469 3 года назад +322

    I hope Zach is reading these comments and can see how people find him to be a very endearing and a good person. He's doing an awesome job of working, raising his son and staying sober. I'm sure he's a great example to many!

    • @marieclark9925
      @marieclark9925 3 года назад +5

      Me too! I hope he sees them ❤️ I haven’t been touched this much in a long time and I’ve watched TONS of these videos 🙂
      He is so smart!

    • @sassisilver
      @sassisilver 2 года назад +4

      Look at the pinned comment, he read them!

  • @JamesonsTravels
    @JamesonsTravels 3 года назад +708

    Smart young man. I hope he gets out of the cycle of drug use. I am along the Ohio River in the Appalachian area. I see it daily but unfortunately, it's all over the country. Zach, you have a lot to offer the world and your son. Make something of your opportunities.

    • @kpopeye1692
      @kpopeye1692 3 года назад +17

      Sounds like he’s working to make something of himself now. Said he’s been clean over 2 years.

    • @JoeMaxFpv
      @JoeMaxFpv 3 года назад +10

      Hey Jameson. Love your channel. Sadly these kids need to confront their demons to break the cycle. Keeping all that raw emotional stress bottled up leads to a self destructive anger angry lifestyle that will keep a man/woman from seeing the simple happiness in day to day life. It’s like a cancer that overtakes your mind.

    • @zachdynamiteoakes5195
      @zachdynamiteoakes5195 3 года назад +35

      I plan to brother thank you!!

    • @michellehitt1976
      @michellehitt1976 3 года назад +7

      @@zachdynamiteoakes5195 Thank you for sharing your story hun. Please be careful when your doing the fighting. Brain injury happens so easy. 🤟💞

    • @cosmicninjaSN8
      @cosmicninjaSN8 3 года назад

      Definitely all over the country

  • @IIIIIIIBenIIIIIII
    @IIIIIIIBenIIIIIII 3 года назад +266

    The kid is trying, best of luck to him.

  • @Otka7ali
    @Otka7ali 2 года назад +22

    The pocture of him and his son was absolutely heartwarming. As a mother to a young son I can vouch for how important that bond is. God bless this young man.

  • @sublimesamoyed
    @sublimesamoyed 2 года назад +10

    Zach, your final words were very touching and gave me something to think about. I'm 30 and also a person in recovery from alcohol addiction, my mom left me when I was a small child due to drugs, and my single dad raised me and just moved over 1,000 miles away. I'm a nurse and I just rearranged my schedule to be able to fly to go see him every couple of months because I know the money comes and goes but we are not guaranteed time. Thank you for the reminder that I need to cherish my few loved ones deeply, invest in them earnestly, and spend our precious gift of time with them.

  • @diaspo
    @diaspo 3 года назад +213

    Seems like a clever guy. Hope he throws off the shackles of his upbringing and makes a happy future for himself and his son.

  • @ehmadore
    @ehmadore 3 года назад +109

    This guy has so much potential.

  • @DrSyl
    @DrSyl 3 года назад +195

    Don’t always trust your first impressions. I’m a doctor interested in psychiatry. The comparison between the superficial testosterone fuelled energy in the first scene and the calm dark and honest reality of the interview is such a powerful example of how there’s so much more than meets the eye.

    • @goldielocks8231
      @goldielocks8231 3 года назад +1

      Son a psychiatrist why don't you go into that field???if your a dr.? Just curious I do agree with you!!

    • @triedntru8049
      @triedntru8049 3 года назад +3

      @@jodimichelleschoenherr It’s **you’re** ..but since you have that big expensive bachelor’s degree, you must already know that, right?? 😉🙃😆

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +2

      @@triedntru8049 normally I’m really picky about my grammar… Distractions ya know. 🙃🤪😇

    • @nunyabizwacks6711
      @nunyabizwacks6711 3 года назад +2

      @Septic Tank bro the comments on these videos are some of the worst ive ever came across. Ive never seen so many Naive Karens' in one place that literally have almost 0 life experience and offer up their "advice" or their fake ass caring comments, etc. And 85% of them are basically the same comment, maybe worded slightly different, on every video. Ignorant ppl dont realize they are ignorant and it can be seen a mile away. Sure, like they always wanna repeat here, "dont judge ppl" (which they do in the same breath) but its actually interesting how much you can sometimes tell about people from a simple little comment of written words. And the mindsets they have are some of the easiest to peg down. I wish there was a way to filter out all the bullshit comments like that so one could easily find the more real/realistic comments from ppl who actually know a lil sumpn about life. Just check a box that removes all comments from middle age women that sit at home on the internet all day who've never faced a struggle in their life. Also, i truly enjoy when these ppl try to crucify me in the comments, maybe its a guilty pleasure, many calle a troll, which is fine, and ignorant too, because i dont consider being real and serious as being a troll, but these days ppl call others "trolls" when they dont agree with them. I just enjoy interjecting a little reality, in a sea full of fake ass ppl

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад

      @Septic Tankno woman wants to mother their man. If they want to “fix” said man that’s ludicrous. The woman know want nothing of the sort. PS - Leisure is the father of philosophy. ✅😀👍🏻

  • @elliottclarkcrawford
    @elliottclarkcrawford 2 года назад +33

    My heart goes out to this young man. So much suffering, yet so much strength.

    • @lisamichelle9425
      @lisamichelle9425 2 года назад

      Strength comes from suffering. Where he lives, are some of the finest people on earth. They see a lot of tough times, but they love hard and are fiercely loyal. West Virginians are mostly Irish, Scottish, and Italian.

  • @garyleach2345
    @garyleach2345 2 года назад +14

    So well spoken, so full of wisdom beyond his years. This guy is a true inspiration. His positivity is infectious. I believe if he continues with that positive outlook and the confidence in himself and his decisions, once he is an old man with little time left, he can and will look back on his life with pride, serenity and acceptance!

  • @alicesuna.croskey6930
    @alicesuna.croskey6930 3 года назад +78

    Seeing a young Appalachian man with his life together makes me so happy! Zach, we are all pulling for you!

  • @kpopeye1692
    @kpopeye1692 3 года назад +26

    I listened to this one without watching. Went back to see his photograph and glad I did. Such a beautiful shot of father and son. ❤️

  • @HMCaldwell
    @HMCaldwell 3 года назад +142

    What a beautiful soul. Not one note of bitterness or resentment for his losses or hardships. You are capable of great things, Zach! God bless!

  • @Maatkara1000
    @Maatkara1000 2 года назад +13

    This man has much more intelligence than what his vocabulary allows him to show. He deserves much better in life, and I really hope he manages to achieve it. He is so young, he has lived so much in so little time, and I really hope he has a bright life ahead

  • @theotherkangaroo
    @theotherkangaroo 2 года назад +6

    "Lack of stability" -- so true! Very meaningful interview. Zach will reach so many through his drive, honesty & love for his son & knowing how important his presence is. 💗

  • @ajkeyes4230
    @ajkeyes4230 3 года назад +509

    I grew up throughout middle school and high school with him and graduated same year as well. His dad was one of poca little leagues football coaches. If you really talked to him ever you would know Zach is a great guy that sadly didn’t have it as good as the rest of us . I really hope he gets everything he needs in life and can use his experiences to make great decisions moving forward. You can never undo your past , but you can always set up your future . Zach , I believe in you brother just keep on pushing and never settle for less than what you’ve set your mind to & I’ll keep you in my prayers brother .

    • @MaLouh143
      @MaLouh143 2 года назад +14

      Nice quote.. let's do it through GOD's grace!

    • @Trish....
      @Trish.... 2 года назад +3

      Wow! Such a kind testament to this young man's fortitude! I think he has excellent character for seeing the perils around him, & choosing to rise above! Anyone who turns their life around like that has a purpose, & it becomes greater than themselves! For him, I think fatherhood is his catalyst for change, growth, & positive choices in life. I, too, hope he succeeds!
      I grew up in NC, & saw many friends waste away, & a lot of ppl didn't make it. Sometimes the only thing to do in a rural area is to get in trouble, & do stupid, irresponsible things. Now, most everyone I went to high school w/has kids, & most seem to be doing really well! But, time catches up w/all of us, so time will tell how this young man's decisions have changed his circumstances. I hope for the best, & that he raises his son to become a good man w/a heart like his Dad's

  • @melissabennett8431
    @melissabennett8431 3 года назад +143

    A man that's trying to do right by his kid, trying to succeed at his job, more than I can say for most men. I'm impressed. Keep at it buddy, you're doing amazing!

    • @nunyabizwacks6711
      @nunyabizwacks6711 3 года назад +5

      or most women

    • @REDSHlFT
      @REDSHlFT 2 года назад +2

      What you really mean is "most men I choose to deal with". 'Most men' do try to work hard any do what's right, maybe you're just not on their level.

  • @kmfox4982
    @kmfox4982 2 года назад +8

    Wow Profound wisdom. I was laid back when he said time..at 25. I'm 55 and just now understand that. I would love for this interview to be shown in schools. Praying that his life is filled with nothing but beautiful things and love from here on out. He has the heart of a warrior.

  • @SteepedinHistory
    @SteepedinHistory 2 года назад +7

    Zach, there is nothing shameful about having a job in fast food. Management is management when other jobs look at your résumé. One day at a time. Make the next right choice. Keep your son at the center of your actions, and you’re going to be just fine. I’m proud of you for how far you’ve come. Keep going. ❤️

  • @kathleenwyatt563
    @kathleenwyatt563 3 года назад +68

    Zach breaks my heart! So glad he was able to stop the meth. Good for him and his son. He is such a smart guy and realized what is important in life…and in time to make a difference in his life. I wish him and his son the very best!

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +3

      And anyone with any history of addiction and self destructive behavior knows how incredibly hard and nearly impossible it is to fix yourself. So strong and impressive. I just adore him!

  • @jcspider7259
    @jcspider7259 3 года назад +46

    Zach, you are an intelligent, kind, ethical, well spoken, wonderful human being. Your son is lucky to have you as his father, and our planet is a better place for having you as a part of it.

  • @realdealguereca7944
    @realdealguereca7944 3 года назад +39

    Thank goodness the Appalachian interviews are back!

  • @jessicam.3539
    @jessicam.3539 2 года назад +54

    That picture of him with his son resonated with me. His son clutched his hands. He held his son in such a comfortable “this is our life” way that changed my heart on him. I genuinely, with all my heart, hope this man keeps his sobriety and takes his son under his wing and teaches him how to do the things differently that he wishes he could have done. Zach, love your son. Keep fighting for him. Don’t let him end up like the friend that changed your life.

  • @hkb1467
    @hkb1467 2 года назад +12

    Zach, you’ve got an awful lot of people rooting for you, including me. And thanks for the reminder about time, love and life.

  • @k_roc200-32
    @k_roc200-32 3 года назад +35

    When the video first started I didn't expect much but I like this guy, he's well spoken and has more potential he realizes.

  • @amberk5320
    @amberk5320 3 года назад +8

    I from West Virginia born and raised. I am five years and six months sober from heroine and meth. It is possible!

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад

      That’s fantastic. Great job! 🌹

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад

      That takes a very, very strong person to be able to overcome.

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 3 года назад

      Amber, you're awesome and do not EVER forget that! Congratulations on your sobriety ✌😁🤞

  • @ebonydix7069
    @ebonydix7069 3 года назад +21

    Incredible the types of ppl that we meet through this channel.

  • @amb817
    @amb817 2 года назад +40

    I could’ve listened to him talk for another hour. He seems like such a nice guy, charming, and very intelligent

  • @judithbg5588
    @judithbg5588 2 года назад +4

    Zach deserved so much better - he’s smart, articulate, has a loving heart. May his life go well from here on.

  • @sandife4nandes365
    @sandife4nandes365 3 года назад +44

    I'm proud of Zach for doing what he should. Staying clean and raising his child.

  • @26nos78
    @26nos78 3 года назад +65

    This man is a smart kind hearted soul, with direction. Alot of people could learn from this guy's story. He's a real man in my book.

  • @courtneyremarks1133
    @courtneyremarks1133 3 года назад +5

    Man as a fellow Appalachian this man's story reminds me SO MUCH of my own. Lost many people young my mom being one,my relationship deteriorated,didn't wanna be here anymore,turned to drugs...mostly h*roin,everyone I know is on drugs( everyone is in WV),lost so many ...ugh. anyway been clean for 9yrs myself now and my kids are my higher power for sure. I admire this dude so much for his strength when I KNOW how much easier it is to just keep using...not having to care...not having to "deal" with the pain and grief! Keep it up man..you're a badass!

  • @paulahartman2889
    @paulahartman2889 2 года назад +8

    This is a Beautiful Avenue of Encouragement and Support for those interviewed and those in similar situations. The humility is refreshing in the comment section and I really appreciate the people who pour out their souls in these interviews. It gives them a Voice~

  • @jonathanharvey5478
    @jonathanharvey5478 3 года назад +6

    I appreciate your story. My mom was from West Virginia. I had the drugs issues too, but you are doing great - happy you are there for your son

  • @gofreely
    @gofreely 3 года назад +236

    Good on you Zach. If anyone’s got a chance from their inner strength, you’ve definitely got it.
    Young enough to have a full life. Wise enough to make a difference. Smart enough to understand your mortality and want to set a good example for your son. I wish you every success in the world.

  • @elizabethsakurai4253
    @elizabethsakurai4253 3 года назад +10

    This young man has overcome so many difficulties yet has spirit and hope. He is an inspiration!! Keep going and enjoy your life and son! You are a winner!!!

  • @julieidema9
    @julieidema9 3 года назад +15

    That photograph of Zach & his son is EVERYTHING.

  • @alexisfarganis9701
    @alexisfarganis9701 2 года назад +7

    He seems like a good man, who fought to get out of the stereotype that he was supposed to be classified under due to his upbringing and childhood. I’m glad he got clean, I’m glad he’s a good father to his son and I’m glad I got to hear his story. May God bless this man, and his family! I wish him all the best along his journey. Sometimes the cards we’re dealt in life are rough, but once you find your poker face and learn how to work with the cards, you can truly transform. He speaks from experience, and he’s right...if your gonna say you love somebody, you love that somebody. Don’t take life for granted! 🙏🏻 ❤️

  • @myreallife6386
    @myreallife6386 2 года назад +9

    The most pure, warrior heart person I’ve seen on here. Some of the women have been just as strong and brave but I think the sexual abuse kills them harder. You’re doing amazing Zach.

  • @donmeador9195
    @donmeador9195 3 года назад +17

    I live down the road from Nitro. Good to see this young man released from the grips of an epidemic he's seen take so many people in this valley. Keep it up, Zach. People near and far are cheering you on!

  • @jodimichelleschoenherr
    @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +39

    I am absolutely so impressed with this young man. He is an inspiration. This interview will help so many people suffering with addiction. He is a ray of hope and I 🙏🏼 for his happiness and security. What a great dad. It’s a prime example of turning horribly bad things into a productive and positive way of being. I just ❤️ adore him. Great 👍🏻 job sweet pea. You truly are amazing.

  • @vesselksjourney
    @vesselksjourney 3 года назад +53

    You're freaking adorable... Soooo likeable and enlightened and light-hearted. I'm proud of you for working and advancing and getting and staying clean. You seem like an amazing father... Keep being exceptional and enjoying life to the fullest. As you've so eloquently articulated .. you only get one.

    • @EkonRekon
      @EkonRekon 3 года назад +3

      Great comment! The South is so misunderstood. Good people live in the South. It isn't a backwards place of hate. It's the opposite

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 2 года назад

      @@EkonRekon As an outsider, my family moved from England to the Southeastern US in the early 80s, and I was shocked and unprepared for the racism I saw. BTW, I am white. I was shunned by a lot the white students because I would speak up whenever I heard a derogatory term used to refer to a minority, mainly black students. I have lived all over the US and I find the South to be the most prejudiced against others for things than have nothing to do with a person's humanity, personality, character, etc. However, the good 'ol boys and gals do love each other.

    • @EkonRekon
      @EkonRekon 2 года назад

      @@B_Bodziak run along rabbi

  • @RikiYamada
    @RikiYamada 2 года назад +4

    Dude. I loved this interview! This gentleman, Zach, is… man, I’m downright so happy for Zach-he’s certainly been added into my mental collection of inspiring humans. I can’t think of a word (nor, do I think it even exists in our American-English language) that defines, to-THE-T, for what I’m abt to say but, here it goes: The word I’d love to have, it’d be a word that means this unique, wonderful, loving, happy feeling that I get, that helplessly just oozes out, when ever I encounter a human being who has done bad things/lived a broken, despairing life, &, they’ve managed to turn their life around-BUT THAT’S A MERE PORTION OF IT-the REAL PART that I LOVE, is when you listen &/or observe THAT said-person of a rough start in life & I can INDUBITABLY believe that the person is speaking genuinely & truthfully & effortlessly b/c this is REALLY the improved & wisened being that he/she has become-LIKE, ZACH! Shit, I forgot what I was … darnit. Sorry for not making too much sense, here.
    Any who, I’m really glad that I got to watch this interview. I’m so grateful that a person like Soft White Underbelly EXISTS. HE FINDS & SHARES AMAZING & UNIQUE PPL & their stories. This 1 & Shannon’s interview, they, both, went thru tragic, rough upbringings & it’s so inspiring & motivational to ME, the fact that they still never completely forgot abt their humility & LOVE & having genuine, positive hopes & aspirations. Thank you for this interview & for showcasing that there are still lots of wonderful humans out there!

  • @gailresources8120
    @gailresources8120 2 года назад +4

    This young man has been through a lot and it’s wonderful to see how smart he is being to stay clean and raise his son. He really gets it. Good job Zach!

  • @vanessawitkowski2251
    @vanessawitkowski2251 3 года назад +26

    He’s making the best he can of a rough hand he was dealt. Very intelligent.

  • @krissy012p
    @krissy012p 3 года назад +16

    What a nice young man. He has come out on top after enduring a lot of heartache and suffering.

  • @jakedemaggio8649
    @jakedemaggio8649 2 года назад +4

    I love that spirit they had in the beginning of the video. “We ain’t going no where!” I hope they Keep that spirit and keep that attitude! It’s good to see people be proud of who they are and where they’re from, and not take any crap from no one. Goodluck Brother, love from Boston ☘️

  • @SCPEACEFUL
    @SCPEACEFUL 3 года назад +11

    Well spoken. He understands that love and time is all we really have. His son is absolutely precious.

  • @bibbleboo6321
    @bibbleboo6321 3 года назад +137

    What an intelligent and good person. Can you just imagine if he had been brought up in a privileged home? He’d probably be successful at anything he wanted to be.

    • @wOwzerzkiddiez
      @wOwzerzkiddiez 3 года назад +8

      Someone needs to inform him about his Confederate flag tattoo. But as you said if he was more privilege he would have gotten a better education. But he has good sense, that combined with the education he could have been a very successful person

    • @Cracktune
      @Cracktune 3 года назад +15

      he already is successful. definitions

    • @grantglow4206
      @grantglow4206 3 года назад +11

      @@wOwzerzkiddiez what's the problem with the flag?

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 3 года назад +29

      @@wOwzerzkiddiez
      Someone needs to inform you, that you shouldn't judge someone with a confederate flag tat

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +7

      @@wOwzerzkiddiez I didn’t notice that! I was so focused on how inspirational he is. He probably regrets it now with his clearer thinking. Close to where I live there’ are many, many people that fly that flag. I would like to think it’s ignorance alone and not hate. It’s confusing to me trying to understand why they like that flag. I think it’s so imbedded with that old way of many people in the Deep South… hmmm

  • @sinewriter
    @sinewriter 3 года назад +16

    The first scene with his mate made him look like a complete goose. But once the interview started it shows an extremely intelligent young man that has had a rough start. If you're reading this Zach, I wish you all the best, you're a smart lad. Take care of yourself, you're a good lad.
    Respect from Australia mate! 🇦🇺

    • @jimbean7652
      @jimbean7652 3 года назад

      Seems like a real goose, people like him wont change

    • @ericaparrott5608
      @ericaparrott5608 3 года назад +2

      They where just putting on, cutting up for the camera.

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 3 года назад +1

      @@ericaparrott5608
      That was my guess

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +1

      Hi Australia! Florida here ☀️ 🌴… I totally agree. 🌹

    • @zachdynamiteoakes5195
      @zachdynamiteoakes5195 3 года назад +3

      Thanks mate! Thanks for showin some love brother!

  • @autumnbritten2280
    @autumnbritten2280 2 года назад +5

    What a kind level headed young man. Bless him. You have to have a strong mind to deal with that kind of childhood, and going adulthood. Keep pushing forward Zach!!!

  • @johanna2059
    @johanna2059 2 года назад +6

    Zach, you're a beautiful person. You've had a tough life but you're an inspiration and your beautiful son will thrive under your loving care. I sincerely wish you everything that's good in this world because you and your son deserve it all. Thank you for sharing your story, it will help people.

  • @terariabros8725
    @terariabros8725 3 года назад +11

    He’s a good man and a good father. He will do well. This is the kind of person the world needs.

  • @robhunter7245
    @robhunter7245 3 года назад +45

    You seem like a good dude. Stay clean, Zach! Take care of that boy, love him more than you think you're capable of. Stay the path, you're smashing that "hillbilly" stereotype.

    • @jodimichelleschoenherr
      @jodimichelleschoenherr 3 года назад +1

      I have a feeling that he doesn’t know how amazing he really is. I hope that he will know how truly special he is. 🌹

  • @rjritch9196
    @rjritch9196 2 года назад +2

    I don't know Zach personally, but much love from a fellow Kanawha Valley boy. I grew up in Charleston, and it means a lot to me to see my peers get the opportunity to share our experience on platforms like this. Well done by both Mark and Zach

  • @tracyhill6166
    @tracyhill6166 2 года назад +3

    He's a very astute person, who is very insightful about why we are all a victim of the human condition. This is one of my favorite interviews because it doesn't feel exploitative, he's not a person to rubberneck at. He's just a man. Born into a different family, with access to higher education he could have been anything he wanted to be. Good looking guy, too. It hurt my heart to hear he wanted his mommy so much that it's a wound that may scar over but will never heal.

  • @chadlawrence8888
    @chadlawrence8888 3 года назад +19

    The is my favorite one so far. At the beginning, I was expecting a much more darker story. I was elated to hear the positivity come out. ZACH, you're an inspiration to have faced the struggles, loss, and difficulties you did and come out on top. Quite frankly, you're a bad ass bro! Thanks for having the courage to share your story. You're son has got a awesome role model to look up to. Keep doing it man. Keep your nose to the grindstone!!! It'll all pay off in the end!!
    SALUTE!!!

  • @kath6018
    @kath6018 3 года назад +9

    This has to be one of my most favorite interviews you’ve done yet. Best of luck to you and your son, Zach! Keep pushing.

  • @bonitadiablo
    @bonitadiablo 3 года назад +15

    Love this interview. May your life be blessed Zach. You are a being a good man and example for your son.my Grandpa Harold always said, " Never be embarrassed of any job you have, as long as it is legal. Just do the best you can at it. Eventually your work ethic and integrity will pay off and other doors will open!" Good luck young man

  • @loubonaparte5063
    @loubonaparte5063 Год назад +14

    He's OK in my eyes... considering what he's faced. Solid kid that I'd want in my corner.

  • @michellebarbour5777
    @michellebarbour5777 Год назад +1

    'Do things differently before you can regret not doing things differently' . Zach might just be speaking for every single one of us in the Western world. What a great person. Love this wise man (from an old woman in England x)

  • @4409eliot
    @4409eliot 3 года назад +7

    i had no idea i would be moved to tears by this sensitive young man. i feel like he has enough insight and self-awareness that he has a chance to make it.

  • @annahazlett19
    @annahazlett19 3 года назад +13

    What an incredible young man, he should be so proud of himself to get to where he is after all he has had to endure. I wish him so much love for himself and his son.

  • @bobsacat
    @bobsacat 3 года назад +6

    Zach, I was so blessed last night to watch your interview. It wan't just how clear and articulate you are but how you answered some of the tougher questions Mark asked. I noticed how you looked down briefly when you said you worked at Wendys. Please, please never be ashamed of working anywhere when it's to support yourself and your sweet little man. He' going to be so proud of you someday. You're doing great in this life. You've overcome addiction, you're very intelligent and insightful, you have your own home, a job and it sounds like you have some supportive family and family. You got this Zach, thank you for sharing your story. Your little man looks just like you!

  • @JG-xo5tn
    @JG-xo5tn 2 года назад +2

    HEY ZACH ! YOU BRING MATTER OF FACT TO OUR REALITY. PLEASE KEEP SHARING YOUR LIFE WITH OTHERS…THE WAY YOU CAME AROUND TO LIVING AGAIN AND HOW IT HAS MADE A DEEP MARK ON YOUR SOUL... HOW YOUR SON WILL FOREVER CARRY YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND LOVE THROUGH HIS LIFE. THANKS FOR SHOWING US WHAT IT TAKES TO CLIMB OUT AND SURVIVE BY CHOOSING “LOVE , LIFE AND TIME”. IT HAS BEEN SUCH AN HONOR TO HAVE LISTENED TO YOU TODAY. YOU ARE A TRUE PERSON.

  • @vulcangunner58
    @vulcangunner58 9 месяцев назад

    One of the best interviews Mark has made!...Zachs drive and energy radiates positivity and hope. A great contrast to the many sad stories of the young in Appalachia. Best of luck to Zach, and thanks Mark for this story!

  • @barrycohen6705
    @barrycohen6705 3 года назад +7

    I can’t imagine how hard this man’s life has been. Huge credit to him for making it past everything he has gone through and being able to talk about it. It’s easy to tell how incredibly smart he is through his words in this interview. I met him at Rough N Rowdy and he was incredibly nice and humble. Thank you for making this and allowing him to show us his life.

  • @annawhite1844
    @annawhite1844 3 года назад +7

    As someone who is from Appalachia, I am so proud of Zach for how far he’s come. Beating a drug addiction is MAJOR, especially around here where it’s impossible to escape from.
    Also, glimpse into what jobs around here are like: coal mining, factory, or fast food.

  • @TheNoerdy
    @TheNoerdy 3 года назад +41

    He is very articulate. His world failed him. Imagine if he had the opportunity to go to college or move out

  • @katherinenelson849
    @katherinenelson849 2 года назад +1

    Zach, I just finished watching your interview and I so wish I could give you a great big motherly hug. I am so impressed with the intelligent, principled, and hardworking young man you are. Your son is lucky to have you as an example. It gives me great comfort and hope to know that there are young men like you in the world. You a truly beautiful inspiration. Much love to you!

  • @waytogoraw9965
    @waytogoraw9965 2 года назад +3

    Such a sweet soul..I hope he finds enough love within himself to stay strong.. love this man and all he has gone through. so much respect

  • @MissLady-pq4hc
    @MissLady-pq4hc 3 года назад +12

    I so wish this man the best in life. Never give up.

  • @KimbradleyMasterGardener
    @KimbradleyMasterGardener 3 года назад +6

    Awesome photo, Mark! One of your best!!!

  • @billyjohnson9166
    @billyjohnson9166 3 года назад +9

    Great interview Mark.nice to see someone clean and not on drugs

  • @avigailgorelik9078
    @avigailgorelik9078 2 года назад +3

    Truly an inspirational person. He is a real example that you don’t have to do big things to be a big person. Thank you Zach.