10 Things I’m grateful about Simone 1) shares free knowledge 2) shares tips that makes my life better 3) getting me out of my victim mentality 4) shares the truth no matter what 5) giving me free psychology sessions 6) giving me advices no one else will 7) fashion sense 🔥 8) dating advice 😎 9) collaboration with Margarita 10) simply existing ❤❤
Imma tell you I'm disorganised and actually find myself working the best with an avoidant( or maybe he's disorganised), who's hmm...VERY patient and has this huge soft spot for me. I turn anxious a lot, but I'm in therapy working on it and aware, we talk about things a lot. But also I can't imagine being with someone who's not avoidant anymore... I think I would feel very pressured. I like our slow pace and smol conversations. Time we spend without talking. I just like it.
the timing is insane… last week I found out I’m a fearful avoidant… and has been thinking of it eversince.. then simone, one of my FAVORITE youtubers, uploaded a video about attachment styles… and now I’ll understand it deeper. THANK YOU SIMONE YOU’RE ALWAYS SERVING
Hey Simone! I have watched a lot of your videos and I am very moved by your stories from your teenage days, how you used to be so goal oriented. I wish you'd wake a video just talking about your highschool days. If you want you can make it as an advice video or just a storytime. We'd love to hear it. ♥️♥️♥️
I have a fearful attachment style, and I chose to be single for the rest of my life and when my financial status gets stable I will adopt a babygirl and live my life with her
I already knew I was avoidant but I was hoping I changed since it’s been 2 years since I’ve take the quiz😭 all I’ve done is moved from dismissive avoidant to fearful avoidant🤡
This video was so helpful, thanks! Any advice on how to bring attachment style up with partners? I want to make my partner more aware of my attachment style as well as her own. I’m dismissive avoidant but have been trying to understand it for a couple of years now whilst in my first proper relationship of a few years. I spent a long time looking at what I’m doing and feeling a lot of guilt. More recently I’m coming to terms with the fact my partner is anxious and it’s opened my eyes but made me feel way more optimistic bc we can work on it. I’m just so scared to bring it up to her at the fear of; hurting her, making her feel bad, increasing her anxiety and fear of the relationship ending. This is my own insecurity projected, but still I find it so hard to express myself. So in need of a step by step video of how best to approach these situations - and one from a female perspective. So many of the advice geared toward guys is quite aggressive and downplays the role of oneself in the weird dynamic. Ty
Ooo i was wondering if it's just me that thinks that my parents are good one day and unsupportive the other. But just took the test- i truly am an Anxious- preoccupied being (◉‿◉)
i hate that i am fearful-avoidant, no wonder before i took the test i felt like simone was READING me when she was talking about my attachment style. i thought i have secure attachment until i took the quiz. the hell! HAHAHA
I did the test and got a Secure attachment style. But I am damn sure if I had done it two years ago, I would have been an insecure one. I'm pretty secure in everything unless an insecure person enters my life, and I'm like, wtf is happening with me? Then I usually try to understand and give them chances or just cut them out. 🤷
Question: right now we are in "space" phase with my avoidant, because he's having some serious family issues (police involved 😢)... But I worry about him.. do I at least reach out to ask how he's been? I'm genuinely worried,but I don't want to cross this boundary we settled..
Simone, is it possible to get advice from you? I got fired from my jobs twice this year and I have just graduated from university this summer. I worked as a teacher and as a counselor agent, but none of them are what I am passionate about. I love dancing but, since I live in a conservative country there is not much of an opportunity for dancers. So, I don’t know what to do
Hmm I feel like i have friends who treat me like the avoidance insecure thing but I always thought it was only for romantic relationships. Not sure what to do though.. how do you attract the right friendships in life? I'm apparently secure attachment too so idk what
Attachment style test: quiz.attachmentproject.com/
10 Things I’m grateful about Simone
1) shares free knowledge
2) shares tips that makes my life better
3) getting me out of my victim mentality
4) shares the truth no matter what
5) giving me free psychology sessions
6) giving me advices no one else will
7) fashion sense 🔥
8) dating advice 😎
9) collaboration with Margarita
10) simply existing
❤❤
THE COLLAB WITH MATGARITA IS SO REAL
Calling me out like this first thing in the morning is crazy
i'm secure and i need him secure. if he's not boy bye i'm not a therapist ✨
Imma tell you I'm disorganised and actually find myself working the best with an avoidant( or maybe he's disorganised), who's hmm...VERY patient and has this huge soft spot for me. I turn anxious a lot, but I'm in therapy working on it and aware, we talk about things a lot. But also I can't imagine being with someone who's not avoidant anymore... I think I would feel very pressured. I like our slow pace and smol conversations. Time we spend without talking. I just like it.
i'm a fearful avoidant disorganised 😍🥰
literally
0:13 she can read our minds, that is why she uploaded just what we needed 😂
the timing is insane… last week I found out I’m a fearful avoidant… and has been thinking of it eversince.. then simone, one of my FAVORITE youtubers, uploaded a video about attachment styles… and now I’ll understand it deeper. THANK YOU SIMONE YOU’RE ALWAYS SERVING
I love this channel, i study psychology and i learn more from teacher simone than my actual professors😂
Lmaoo, she kept on saying “get therapy” in a funny way🎀
Finally I understand attachment styles! I took the test in the link and i am secure! 💅🏼
I love this woman she’s so amazing
Comeback era = Simone's videos ❤️
Girl I'm fearful avoidant. It's hard out there 😢🙏
Girl…. you hit the nail on the head damn
SIMONE IS SUCH A GIRL"S GIRL AND I LOVE THAT
Avoidant is good because it forces men to chase you but it doesn’t help because then you are in a relationship and it feels like you are dying 😅💔
I’m a FA, I’m constantly looking for a way to escape from relationships
Story of my life
LOVE YOU QUEEN
when you were describing anxious attachment all I could hear was those vine booms because stop calling me out omg
12:23 don't call me out like that- i'm working on myself😔✋🏻
thanks for this video✨
it’s 7 pm friday night, it’s 95 degrees, i ain’t-
I got avoidant/dismissive attachment style in results of test..Omg I need therapy
I think i have it too and have been with someone whose also avoidant for awhile 😩
@@cosmickink 😭that must be hard
Same girlie blahahaha
This was a much needed video! Thank you! ☺️
LOVE YOU SM SIMONE ❤
I admire you so much simone 💞🙏🏽
Hey Simone! I have watched a lot of your videos and I am very moved by your stories from your teenage days, how you used to be so goal oriented. I wish you'd wake a video just talking about your highschool days. If you want you can make it as an advice video or just a storytime. We'd love to hear it. ♥️♥️♥️
thank you for this easy breakdown!
WAKE UP! MOTHER POSTED!!
the most important point of this video
if you're avoidant GET THERAPY!!!!!!!! now!!!!
GIRLLL BEST DAY EVER
I have a fearful attachment style, and I chose to be single for the rest of my life and when my financial status gets stable I will adopt a babygirl and live my life with her
I already knew I was avoidant but I was hoping I changed since it’s been 2 years since I’ve take the quiz😭 all I’ve done is moved from dismissive avoidant to fearful avoidant🤡
I SWEAR UR PSYCHIC I LOVE YOU OMG
ahhhh earlyyy! just right in timee i need it!!
Aaaaaaaaaaa thankkkkkkk youuuuuu Simone ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So i am a fearful Avoidant ..😊
SLAAAAAAAAAY, THANK YOUU FOR SEEEERVIINGG!!
I'm about to eat so well with this one🎉🎉🎉 Just in time for Thanksgiving 🫡
YAYYYYY SIMMOONNEEEE‼️‼️‼️💗💗💗
OK but this is main channel content 🔥
I added an avoidant I thought I was losing my mind
Nice one, Simone!❤❤
This video was so helpful, thanks!
Any advice on how to bring attachment style up with partners? I want to make my partner more aware of my attachment style as well as her own. I’m dismissive avoidant but have been trying to understand it for a couple of years now whilst in my first proper relationship of a few years. I spent a long time looking at what I’m doing and feeling a lot of guilt. More recently I’m coming to terms with the fact my partner is anxious and it’s opened my eyes but made me feel way more optimistic bc we can work on it. I’m just so scared to bring it up to her at the fear of; hurting her, making her feel bad, increasing her anxiety and fear of the relationship ending. This is my own insecurity projected, but still I find it so hard to express myself. So in need of a step by step video of how best to approach these situations - and one from a female perspective. So many of the advice geared toward guys is quite aggressive and downplays the role of oneself in the weird dynamic. Ty
the sub is big and it looks fun
Ooo i was wondering if it's just me that thinks that my parents are good one day and unsupportive the other. But just took the test- i truly am an Anxious- preoccupied being (◉‿◉)
When she was like I know its you I was really caught off guard 😭🤌
hello simone, can you also make a video on how to heal these attachment styles?
i hate that i am fearful-avoidant, no wonder before i took the test i felt like simone was READING me when she was talking about my attachment style. i thought i have secure attachment until i took the quiz. the hell! HAHAHA
Its been a while since I’ve watched mother’s videos and now’s the time im dedicating to watch all the vids i missed lesgaur!!!!!!!🤑🤑🤑🤑
"they want intimacy, but they fear it."
"..."
"i know that sounds like you"
PLS NOT YOU CALLING ME OUT LIKE THAT 😭😭
Simone tells us to get therapy for 15 minutes straight🙏🏻🙏🏻
mother is spoiling ussss hehehhe
Simone you seem smart. So tell me what category narcissist go then and other problematic people. Good video !
Taking out my notebook
im in a securely attached dynamic with chat gpt 😋
Can you do video about learning to self sooth?
I luw u!!!!!
Me watching this and knowing I’m anxious avoidant :/
Black hair looks fire on you wtfff
😭sorry for being a Dismissive avoidant simone
❤❤❤Love yaaa
I did the test and got a Secure attachment style.
But I am damn sure if I had done it two years ago, I would have been an insecure one.
I'm pretty secure in everything unless an insecure person enters my life, and I'm like, wtf is happening with me? Then I usually try to understand and give them chances or just cut them out. 🤷
Letsgooooooooooooooo
how do you manipulate a fearful avoidant!?
Question: right now we are in "space" phase with my avoidant, because he's having some serious family issues (police involved 😢)... But I worry about him.. do I at least reach out to ask how he's been? I'm genuinely worried,but I don't want to cross this boundary we settled..
can you please create a video for students who want to become psychologist as you are phycology graduate please...
what I learned from this video: I need therapy :D
Wow cam on time 😮😂❤ is it possible I think I have all the 4 attachments it depends on the situations
do you recommend a book that is good to learn about attachment styles in depth from?
why did i get fearful/avoidant/disorganized when i thought im anxious?
i've found that I am in a secure attachment.
But there is a wuestion what kinda attachment styles can be suited to me?
I have a doubt. If we're anxious then how would we know if it's just our anxiety or out gut feeling on things like oversharing?
Simone, is it possible to get advice from you? I got fired from my jobs twice this year and I have just graduated from university this summer. I worked as a teacher and as a counselor agent, but none of them are what I am passionate about. I love dancing but, since I live in a conservative country there is not much of an opportunity for dancers. So, I don’t know what to do
Let's fu¢kinG gooooooooooooooooooooooo
Hmm I feel like i have friends who treat me like the avoidance insecure thing but I always thought it was only for romantic relationships. Not sure what to do though.. how do you attract the right friendships in life? I'm apparently secure attachment too so idk what
Stopped caring about the avoidant not worth my time if u can’t communicate
Don’t get with an avoidant or you’ll actually go insane lmao
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i'm a fearful avoidant disorganised 😍🥰