Handling Difficult Relationships
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- The question is that you teach us to see all beings as divine especially mothers. I live with my in-laws. My mother in law is cruel and wicked, always complaining, judging and harsh. It is difficult to feel love towards her due to her opinions and wickedness. Do wicked people exist? If we are to see ourselves in all beings then am I also wicked and cruel?
It is not easy. The greatest attachment, it is arguable but is quiet realistic that the greatest attachment a mother has to her children. And now when they get married and they come home and everything is different, suddenly everybody is expecting perfection. Mother in law is expecting that my daughter in law should be perfect. The daughter in law is expecting the same from her husband and her mother in law. But, what they forget that it is something new for everybody and if you at least from your side don’t say hurtful words.
Now, we are brought up in an environment where we are not taught patience. We are not taught that okay if somebody is elder, maybe just for a moment you don’t have to really show what all you know and maybe just be quiet at that moment or maybe you may have to speak.
Listen to this insightful discourse by Om Swami on how to handle family relationships.
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I love you Swamiji. It is said true that a disciple finds Guru when she is ready. You helped me a lot during this time of Intense Sorrow in my life.
Awesome Swamiji. Complex topic explained with a lot of humour. Radhey Radhey Govinda Radhey
What a divine personality is😇🙏
So light hearted but immensely serious discourse on such a sensitive issue. Gratitude Swami Ji and Jai Mata Di🙏🏼
Parnam Swami Ji. You are so lucky to escape first hand experience 😊. Wish met you before and would also have proudly declared my lack of experience😃. Jokes apart a very meaningful and thought provoking post to ponder over for people of my age who may soon be entering this beautiful relation. Grateful as always. Jai Shri Hari🙏🏼
Thankyou Gurudev. Charan sparsh 🙏🙏🙏
Super you made the topic very light and humour! Yes 💯 change happens to all those are in this situation. Spreading love is Divinity
I agree a 100 % what you say Swami ji !
Pranams !
Indeed one 🥺🥺
Thank you so much for shading light 🙏🙏
Thank you very much Swamiji for such a lovely and valuable insight .....Please shower your blessings.....koti koti pranam to your lotus feet
Pranam gurudev
Ati utam explanation
Param pujya mere priye swami ji pranam🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🙏🙏🙏
@@meeraom2522 aap ko bhi koti koti pranam didi🙏
We can't resist ourselves when u laugh
Oh Gurudew,, how do you get these funny and nice stories, remembered my father who used to tell these, a crore thanks and smiles my Lord.
Thank you so much🙏
Guruji sadar charan sparsh
Swamiji, प्रणाम we can change our self with love, and change anyone with love, the world is beautiful nature take care everybody swami ji u explained beautifully, we all r lucky u r in our life swami ji. Pranam
Koti Koti Pranam Swami ji
Pranam Swamiji 🙏
wow swamiji thanks this very useful and valuable answer thanks 🙏🏽 again.
Amazing answer 👏🏻
Pranam Swami ji🙏
Thank you swamiji
I love the way u smile.. laugh..
Aapke Charno me koti koti Naman SWAMI JI.
Is great to listen to dear Om Swami. Greatful🙏🪻
Oh my god!!! I was just thinking about it,how to handle such a relationship...got an answer.. thank u Swamiji
So beautifully explained. Thank you so much 🙏
Beautifully explained, thank you Swami ji 🙂
Beautiful😍
Pranam Swami ji
Swami ji i m trying to improve some one through my love... but some time i got confused becaue it is not an easy thing.. peoples who are wrong are very tough and full of ego they dont want to accept what they have done.. but i understand it will work on long run.. koti naman prabhu.
I read your comment and though it was directed to Swamiji , couldn't resist responding. Some people don't change. And change can happen only when that person really wishes to change. So set some timeframe...if no change happens let your expectations go...
@@carrad123456 thanks for your reply.. but i have seen people really change but sometimes it takes one full life.but now i think Is this really worth it? I think yes this is what swami ji is doing. He is giving his life for improve us.
@@nonu1401 yes you can try whole life but that is entirely your decision. So you or anyone need to have mindset that how much we get hurt we still try...kind of we destroy our life for it..but at end that person changes you never know. For some even death can't change them. So whatever decision you make make it with rational thought as well not only emotional.
@@nonu1401 also Swamiji isn't doing meditation n prayer for us. If you read his history he is doing that for his own inner desire for self realisation and in that process he is helping us others as well. If I remember his blogs properly and as suggested in another comment as well we all owe to be respected n loved. We all need to make adjustments n compromises as well but no such that we feel suffocated. So it is each person's individual journey. Whichever way we decide preparing of mind for same and accepting it without yearning for if things happened other way helps.....
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So cute Swamiji 🙏🔆🌼🌈🥰😍💕🌻
Hahaha... You are talking about my mother... Expectations and expectations 🤣
Pranam Swamiji🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Pranam
Love you Swamiji my Mahadev
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Guru ji ❤... 🙏🙏❤️...
I love you Swamiji ❤❤❤... jokingggg jokingggggg hehe
Mera dandwat pranam or dhok aapko😄🙏🌹
Thanks swami ji
Sir I listen your all thought wid a great interest... I want more dat based on what should be priority of life for students.. Sir if u r reading my comments sir Plzzz take a session on Dis topic.. Dis is my humble request to you 🙏🙏🙏
There's plenty of his videos on these topics , on this very channel.
Do look it up.
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What a pink ojasvi face you have swamiji..🌺
Swamiji you cannot change narcissists with love
Pranam Swamiji
Aum Namah Shivay Babaji 💐🙏🏼
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Swami.....
@@SimranKaur-bb7hb jai shri Hari......
🌹 💐ॐ स्वामी नमो नम: 💐🌹
🙏 जय गुरुदेव 🙏
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः सर्वे सन्तु निरामया।
सर्वे भद्राणि पश्यन्तु मा कश्चित् दुःखभाग् भवेत्।।
Pranam guru jee🙏
whenever i need an answer i somehow land on one of swamijis video.
No body on this earth has a solution to this " in - laws " problem...!! 😂
Hatts off
🙏🕉🌺Hari Om Sri Om Swamiji🙏🕉🌺🐄
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Swamiji, please give me the way to remove evil thoughts which turned into evil work. Please let me known what can I do. You have that power. I want to do something in spiritual. But I can't maintain celibacy in long time. I am a devotee of lord shiba. What is ajap japa associated with lord shiva. Please swami save me from this evil work and I want to maintain celibacy for longer and longer time.and also let me show the spiritual way and mantras.
Guru Ji 💞🙏💞
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Plz iss video ka summary koi hindi mei bataiye english bahut mushkil hai.
guru ji, why not you give lectures (updesh) in Hindi
Hindi please
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Ram ram swamiji
swamiji kaise hai aap...aap ko bahot miss karate hai
कोटि कोटि कोटि प्रणाम गुरुदेव रक्षा करो
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I wish we could meet.
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Swamiji 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hindi me sunne milega? Main english pura nahi samajh pati
@fire fighter are prabhu tab ghar me jo bade the unhone hi na bola aab 59ki umar me 1 eye me motiyabind me dikkat ho rahi hai wah to bachho ko padhane k sath thoda sikha to pura pravachan samajh nahi aata
Wah wah prabhu maine sirf puchha tha janti hu saral nahin hai lekin puchha toh itna bura sun ne milega pata nahi tha
Swaamiji hote toh aisa sunna padta?
Do you really need to put fake laughs in the background? This is what life comes to...
Do you need to make fake accounts
@@vish-sw9dc why?
These aren't fake laughs.
Fantastic 🙏
Pranam Swami ji 🙏🙏