I've been watching your channel for some time. I look forward to your monthly videos as you are one of my favorite flosstube hosts. I agree with some of your commenters that it is time to talk to a lawyer. Neighbor 1 has not followed your agreement and, while I'm not a lawyer, it sounds like she has defrauded you. Lawyers and litigation are expensive but I think you can use your agreement to tie up the land in litigation. If the land is tied up, no one else can buy it and Neighbor 1 may cave because she is still responsible for the taxes. If she doesn't cave, your lawyer maybe able to get the land as payment to you for not abiding by your agreement. The one reason they want a bank load is it will be one payment and done. The land agent probably is stretched too thin bailing out Neighbor 1 and justs wants out. Time maybe to play hardball. If you get an injunction to keep them from selling the land until the court case is heard (years from now unfortunately), you might get the time you need.
Oh wow! Thank you that's really helpful! And yes of course she is still responsible for the taxes that if we get an owner finance agreement in place she will still have to pay. I did't think of that. I am happy to pay the taxes on the land obviously. Thank you for this perspective xx
I'm stitching on a mystery SAL by Fox and Rabbit. This month's part has a word "hope" in it. I'll keep your hopes in mind while stitching it, so that hopefully it turns out to be what you expect it to. 🤞🏻
Hi lovely Holly, I'm so glad you shared this with us. I'm praying for you and that this situation is resolved beautifully soon. It's totally understandable that you can't think straight or sleep . You are an amazing strong lady and I'm so pleased your Dad is supporting you through this. Keep moving forward in faith and take one day at a time. All the very best to you, Claire
Thanks Claire. I am so blown away with all the lovely comments. I'm so lucky to have such a wonderful stitching community to talk through issues. I can only do one day at a time right now lol. My energy levels are on the floor from all the emotion.
I'm late watching this Holly but sending you lots of love and prayers. I really hope you can work this out. And on difficult days, remember .... these things too shall pass xx
Omg Holly, I'm praying things work out for you. You are such a lovely, sweet lady who soldiers on regardless and have done so well. I really hope your situation improves quickly. Thanks for sharing. Take care and happy stitching 🎉
I'm so sorry to hear about the rough times you are going through at the moment! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please remember this is only a season and it will pass. I am in a tough season too and I know it will pass. As usual your stitching is beautiful!
I have followed your journey from the beginning. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and I’m praying it all works out for you. Hang in there. We are in your corner 💙
Thank you lovely, I am hoping to do a stitch with me so I can put you all out of your misery, when I know i'm out of mine 😘. There has been some development (not on the land) but with other areas, however, it is not set in stone yet, so I'm just waiting until it's signed sealed and delivered xx
Your crossword stitch: I think if you take out the letters in the blocks, you may be able to turn the fabric and keep the blocks. If the crosses are the wrong direction just do all the blocks in that direction and everything else the right way.
Thank you lovely. I did, and he wanted $25k retainer. I just don't have that kind of money unfortunately. He said we don't have a strong case because we never got the owner financing in writing That's because I trusted though.
Holly I am praying that everything will work out with the land. Stay strong and have faith that it will work out the way that it’s supposed to. We love you ❤
Oh, I think we could all see right away that something was amiss & I’m so sorry, Holly, that you are under such a lot of stress! You certainly don’t have to apologise for being sad & we are all telekeeping our fingers crossed for you, I’m sure🥰! Take good care of yourself, Holly 😘😘😘
Thank you lovely. As I've said to other people, I am so lucky to have such an Amazing stitching community here. I am overwhelmed by how lovely everyone is xx
Well I’ve caught up with your videos finished at 10.45pm uk time Sorry to hear this news as I’m a month behind I’m hoping that some revolution has come up for the land if not I’m praying you will have an answer soon I’ve always been told by my parents that if you are meant to have something sometimes it may take time and emotional energy/upheaval to get it so fingers legs toes arms are all crossed for you hun 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️😍😍👍👍
My 16 year old niece just told me she wants to be an equine massage therapist! If you can't surge or sew your edges on Sans Soucis, I would put some Fray Check on at least the narrow edge pronto, so your 2.5 inch edge doesn't get even smaller. I have used it on all my projects for years with no issue so far. Good luck, and the yellow is lovely!
Hi Angela, thank you. Yeah I think I need to do that, or at least pop some clear nail varnish on it. Your neice is more than welcome to message me if she has any questions about it. Happy to help 😀
Thanks so much, I'll let her know. Hang in there with the land stuff, some day this will all be a memory that you think of from your future that is everything you never even imagined it could be!
Oh Holly what a stressful situation you have been dealing with. I know you're feeling down about it but tomorrow is another day! You have your dad on your side and hopefully things work out for you. I just want to say even though you've had all this stress to deal with you still got over 5k stitches in, massaged a bunch of horses and are working so hard on your tumeric business which is such an inspiration. Like most people facing all that stress would shut down but you just strap your boots on and keep going, honestly though you may not feel it right now you're so strong. I really hope things go well for you, i'm keeping you in my thoughts. You've got this girl You're gonna get through this, much love and hopefully i'll see you next month, but if not I'll be here when you do post xoxo
💜 thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way! I also want to hug you 🤗🤗 You are such a beautiful person. Don't let the turkeys get you down ❤
Aww thank you Denise. I've really needed some hugs lately I tell you. I find the hardest thing being here on my own, and not really having anyone to talk to xxx❤️
I’m so sorry you’re going through this stressful situation. I am saying prayers that it all works out for you! Love all your stitching. I started Alternative Reality on 18 count and loving it. Seeing yours makes me want to work on this today!
I really hope it works out for you. Its understandable that it is stressing you out its your vision and it sounds like you have been played and you need to talk to a professional. Sending you some love ❤
My goodness you are having such a journey! My heart, prayers and hugs go out to you. I know that you have ordered from Alliexpress before and there are 2 kits that I’m looking at getting but 1 kits in particular I need for another project. There seem to be several listings on Alli for this kit and I’m concerned. How do you order from them and not get scammed? Do you have any good advice or can you help me with my search? This pattern seems to be a complete bear to find and it’s mostly on printed canvases but I need the paper pattern because it’s going on different fabric. I appreciate your help and May God Bless You!
Hi lovely, thank you for your kind comments. Firstly, I have never had any issues with Ali Express. They take pride in companies not scamming customers so if you have an issue with anything, contact them, and they will open a dispute. You can trust Ali Express. With regards to the actual pattern, you can look at the shops reviews, and make a decision from there. Good luck 🥰
Oh dear Holly, there are no words……it is devastating that people can be so devious. The word integrity that you used sums it up. It is sad that we cannot trust our fellow neighbours. Where money is concerned, friends, family and acquaintances sadly can’t be trusted. I was ‘stabbed in the back’ by a very close relative some years ago and have never got over it but life goes on……this too will pass. Praying that this is resolved very soon. Xx
Holly i am sooooo sorry people can be such D...heads! I hope and pray thenext update isa good pne,you totally deserve this, you have worked sooooo hard ❤
Love your stitching x Regarding your neighbour.. I would be careful since the owner is not trustworthy since you paid her a deposit and then shes not sticking to the original agreement! I would be afraid that if you did pay regular money to her that she will do something similar later and you lose your money and the land. I hope it all works out for you. I hope your Tumeric goes well once the advertising kicks in 😀
Thanks Renae. I would only enter in said agreement with contracts drawn up by lawyers. But you're right, she is so devious and deceitful. Hopefully karma will kick in. Xx
Holly, sorry you are going through all this. I'm assuming your business is registered with the state, so maybe you could get a loan through the business.
Hi Holly, I am so sorry to hear all of your news. Its no wonder you are so stressed out and upset about it all. I am like you, I trust people too much. I learned the hard way that in agreements you need to cover any future possible outcomes, which is difficult when you trust that someone will do what they say. I so hope you receive good news from the agent and that some sort of agreement can be reached. I agree with other comments that neighbour 1 has been sneaky and under handed in what she has done in leasing out land she had already agreed to sell to you. I can see that she was in such money dire straits that all she was seeing was money coming into her hands, but she should have spoken to you first and appraised you of the situation. My thoughts are with you and sending virtual hugs. To see the stitching you have done is amazing, given the circumstances. I hope you can find solace in stitching to help you through this time, although I am like you, if my mind is stressing I find I cannot count ten stitches properly and give up. I am so hoping your next update is good news, keeping my fingers crossed for you xx
@hollythecrossstitchaddict83 I am thinking of you and so hoping neighbour 1 sees the common sense in helping you over the obvious lack of payments so far from neighbour 2. Plenty of hugs from your lovely cats can help to bring down stress levels, their purr had a kind of magic effect on body's nervous system. Wish I lived in USA to offer more support meet you for coffee, I'm rooting for you from the UK 🇬🇧 please try not to blame yourself, I know you feel you are to blame and have been foolish, but you weren't you just trusted someone to do what they said and signed an agreement for. I think it is also different in USA to the UK in how people work with agreements. Hang in there as best you can xx
Oh Holly, how i want to be by your side and give you a hug. Its so much to do on your own, yes iknow your dad is at the end of a phone but thats not quite the same. Does the agreement that you and No.1 neighbour give you any security or binding. No.2 neighbour doesn't know that you paid 15,000 dollars down payment! It seems to me No.1 nb is very sneaky. I know you have set it in your mind that you have to have the land and you don't want buildings around you, BUT IF you don't get the land you cant die from that! You maywell be putting your health at risk by worrying about it all. I used to worry constantly over everything, some things cannot be changed no matter how much we worry. I had a similar thing when i divorced my ex. every week something would come up and i nearly chucked my hand in, but things worked out in the end. Trust me. Things will be sorted one way or another👍Things happen for a reason, and life goes on. I try not to worry about things so much and life is much calmer. I am truly sorry for the situation you are in and wish i could help❤️. Going back to the start of video as i jumped to the end because i was concerned as to what the problem was. Much love i shall have you in my thoughts, try to think positively (i know easy for me to say). 🤗🇬🇧
Thank you lovely. I am over whemed at how amazing and supportive my stitching community is. It's really humbling to know so many people care enough to reach out to me xxx
I have been with you since your move to the states. You have endured practically something every month and have made it thru. I do hope you have an attorney to protect your interests. I do think you all will have a sit down face to face if the relationship is has gone this far face to face meetings can show much more sincerely how much this means to you and 15 grand is nothing to be sneezed at all the extra steps taken should also be reviewed. And party 2 should be visited maybe they been being told a different story than what it really is and thru a lack of transparency the vindictiveness is become apparent. You know he said she said kind of crap.Think positive right now you'll get it done. Im dissapointed we have to wait till next month for the news. Be in pins and needles for sure. If you can find time let us know before that with a quick update as all of us are rooting for you and worry about you. I was worried about tornadoes in your area vs this land grab. Be kind to yourself. Do a BBQ and a bottle of wine with your friends. Best of luck too.
Be careful as you will make yourself seriously ill and end up on medication with all of this stress and worry. Your health is the most important thing. You sound very wound up as you are really talking fast in this video. It is just material stuff at the end of the day.. You also don't know other people's financial situation either. Don't trust anyone. Good luck with everything.
Thank you for your comment lovely. I know enough of her finacial situation and enough of her personality to know she's only doing this out of spite and jealousy. Still fighting though. Apologies j was talking fast. I'll make sure I check myself in the next video x😀
I am late to the party here, Holly - but I agree with one of the commentators: Time for you to get legal representation. There is a whiff of fraud against you and neighbor 2 (hence their hostility albeit misplaced against you instead of neighbor 1) and possibly neighbor 3. All of it should be sorted out by a qualified attorney with real estate expertise.
I would definitely be in touch with a lawyer for assistance. She has shown she’s shady and untrustworthy, basically selling land to two people. And neighbor 2 probably has it out for you because she wants to develop the property and make a bunch of money and I bet she thinks you’re going to be wasting the land on horses. I hope it all works out for you! But again, DEFINITELY reach out to a lawyer, this is getting very messy and I don’t want to see you get screwed over
What a mess you are in ☹️ you really don’t need all this extra stress and it sounds like all your neighbors are nothing but hassle. That’s the thanks you get for bailing her out. You should get your money back off her and maybe new neighbors means more business? Everything will work out in the end just do one step at a time. Sending good vibes fingers crossed 🤞
Thank you lovely. It doesn't matter what I do, or how many people I help, I seem to constantly get shat on. I wish we had the agreement squared away before hand. I'm such an idiot! xxxx
Holly you must not sell your body parts that can go so wrong and you need your health. A better bet would be to marry a USA man with great credit. What I have found out about some people over the years they can be flaky; also money talks. You are the better bet on this one it's not rocket science. Regular money comes in and if you miss a payment Number 1 keeps the lot. You have made good on your cross stitch this month so keep stitching. I wish you all the best for things working out and they will. Hang in there.!
1:15:56 Holly - I live in GA and if you want to send me the purple fabric with the LDS, i would gladly frog the stitches to safe the fabric for you. I will email you my address if this is an option. Neighbors can be a real pain and cause so much stress. Hoping things work well for you. Patricia
I've been watching your channel for some time. I look forward to your monthly videos as you are one of my favorite flosstube hosts. I agree with some of your commenters that it is time to talk to a lawyer. Neighbor 1 has not followed your agreement and, while I'm not a lawyer, it sounds like she has defrauded you. Lawyers and litigation are expensive but I think you can use your agreement to tie up the land in litigation. If the land is tied up, no one else can buy it and Neighbor 1 may cave because she is still responsible for the taxes. If she doesn't cave, your lawyer maybe able to get the land as payment to you for not abiding by your agreement. The one reason they want a bank load is it will be one payment and done. The land agent probably is stretched too thin bailing out Neighbor 1 and justs wants out. Time maybe to play hardball. If you get an injunction to keep them from selling the land until the court case is heard (years from now unfortunately), you might get the time you need.
Oh wow! Thank you that's really helpful! And yes of course she is still responsible for the taxes that if we get an owner finance agreement in place she will still have to pay. I did't think of that. I am happy to pay the taxes on the land obviously. Thank you for this perspective xx
I'm stitching on a mystery SAL by Fox and Rabbit. This month's part has a word "hope" in it. I'll keep your hopes in mind while stitching it, so that hopefully it turns out to be what you expect it to. 🤞🏻
Aww that's lovely. Thank you so much. Everything is crossed 🤞🤞 xx
Sending a hug your way. Thank you for sharing. sometimes that helps ❤
Thanks Charlotte. Sometimes it's easier to share personal things to people you don't really know rather than family. 🥰
Hi lovely Holly, I'm so glad you shared this with us. I'm praying for you and that this situation is resolved beautifully soon. It's totally understandable that you can't think straight or sleep . You are an amazing strong lady and I'm so pleased your Dad is supporting you through this. Keep moving forward in faith and take one day at a time. All the very best to you, Claire
Thanks Claire. I am so blown away with all the lovely comments. I'm so lucky to have such a wonderful stitching community to talk through issues.
I can only do one day at a time right now lol. My energy levels are on the floor from all the emotion.
I'm late watching this Holly but sending you lots of love and prayers. I really hope you can work this out. And on difficult days, remember .... these things too shall pass xx
Thanks Linda, means alot. Hope everything is good with you. I saw the note you put in your bricks. What a lovely idea 🥰
Omg Holly, I'm praying things work out for you. You are such a lovely, sweet lady who soldiers on regardless and have done so well. I really hope your situation improves quickly. Thanks for sharing. Take care and happy stitching 🎉
Thanks so much Sandi. I am in a hole which ai can't get out of right now 🥺
I'm so sorry to hear about the rough times you are going through at the moment! My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please remember this is only a season and it will pass. I am in a tough season too and I know it will pass. As usual your stitching is beautiful!
Aww thanks Julie, you ate so right. I hope what you're going through isn't too awful. I'll be praying for you too 🥰
I have followed your journey from the beginning. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this and I’m praying it all works out for you. Hang in there. We are in your corner 💙
Thank you lovely, I am hoping to do a stitch with me so I can put you all out of your misery, when I know i'm out of mine 😘. There has been some development (not on the land) but with other areas, however, it is not set in stone yet, so I'm just waiting until it's signed sealed and delivered xx
Your crossword stitch: I think if you take out the letters in the blocks, you may be able to turn the fabric and keep the blocks. If the crosses are the wrong direction just do all the blocks in that direction and everything else the right way.
Hi Lori, that's a good idea! Thanks so much x
So sorry that this has happened to you, Holly. Prayers that everything will be settled soon.
Me too. Thanks so much xxx
I hope this situation will get solved soon, what a huge amount of stress.
Me too. Everything is crossed I can see away through. xxx
I am sending positive thoughts about your situation. I truly would consult with an lawyer as well.
Thank you lovely. I did, and he wanted $25k retainer. I just don't have that kind of money unfortunately. He said we don't have a strong case because we never got the owner financing in writing
That's because I trusted though.
Holly I am praying that everything will work out with the land. Stay strong and have faith that it will work out the way that it’s supposed to. We love you ❤
Thank you Lynn. I really really hope so xx
Oh, I think we could all see right away that something was amiss & I’m so sorry, Holly, that you are under such a lot of stress! You certainly don’t have to apologise for being sad & we are all telekeeping our fingers crossed for you, I’m sure🥰! Take good care of yourself, Holly 😘😘😘
Thank you lovely.
As I've said to other people, I am so lucky to have such an Amazing stitching community here. I am overwhelmed by how lovely everyone is xx
Well I’ve caught up with your videos finished at 10.45pm uk time
Sorry to hear this news as I’m a month behind I’m hoping that some revolution has come up for the land if not I’m praying you will have an answer soon
I’ve always been told by my parents that if you are meant to have something sometimes it may take time and emotional energy/upheaval to get it so fingers legs toes arms are all crossed for you hun 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️😍😍👍👍
All the feels on this one sweetheart. Sending a virtual hug to surround you.
Thanks Chrissie x everyone has been so sweet xx
My 16 year old niece just told me she wants to be an equine massage therapist!
If you can't surge or sew your edges on Sans Soucis, I would put some Fray Check on at least the narrow edge pronto, so your 2.5 inch edge doesn't get even smaller. I have used it on all my projects for years with no issue so far. Good luck, and the yellow is lovely!
Hi Angela, thank you. Yeah I think I need to do that, or at least pop some clear nail varnish on it. Your neice is more than welcome to message me if she has any questions about it. Happy to help 😀
Thanks so much, I'll let her know. Hang in there with the land stuff, some day this will all be a memory that you think of from your future that is everything you never even imagined it could be!
Oh Holly what a stressful situation you have been dealing with. I know you're feeling down about it but tomorrow is another day! You have your dad on your side and hopefully things work out for you. I just want to say even though you've had all this stress to deal with you still got over 5k stitches in, massaged a bunch of horses and are working so hard on your tumeric business which is such an inspiration. Like most people facing all that stress would shut down but you just strap your boots on and keep going, honestly though you may not feel it right now you're so strong. I really hope things go well for you, i'm keeping you in my thoughts. You've got this girl You're gonna get through this, much love and hopefully i'll see you next month, but if not I'll be here when you do post xoxo
You are the sweetest. Thank you so much!! One day at a time!!
💜 thinking of you and sending positive thoughts your way! I also want to hug you 🤗🤗 You are such a beautiful person. Don't let the turkeys get you down ❤
Aww thank you Denise. I've really needed some hugs lately I tell you. I find the hardest thing being here on my own, and not really having anyone to talk to xxx❤️
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Sending you well wishes, I have faith that everything will work itself out in your favour xxx
Thank you lovely, me too. Praying! 🙏 xx
Thoughts and prayers are with you and that you get some positive news soon.
Thank you so much hun xxx
🤗 oh Holly you need a hug. Fingers crossed it works out. Keep stitching to try and take your mind off it. X
Thank you lovely xxx
I hope everything works out for you! I’ll send positive vibes your way!
Thank you lovely. Hope this all ends soon x
I’m so sorry you’re going through this stressful situation. I am saying prayers that it all works out for you! Love all your stitching. I started Alternative Reality on 18 count and loving it. Seeing yours makes me want to work on this today!
It;s great isn't it. I am so glad I did it on 18 count. It's looking great!! xxx
I will pray for you that your situation resolves in your favor. Hang in there!
Thanks Fancypants, I'm hanging!!. Love your youtube name 🤣
Sending Prayers your way!🙏♥
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
I’m hoping you get a good outcome, I’ve everything crossed for you as you deserve it x
Thank you lovely. I may just have to walk away from it. And be done. But time will tell. If it's meant to be, it will be. Xx
praying for you to get everything worked out! Ugh I feel for you, what drama
Thank you loively xxx
I really hope it works out for you. Its understandable that it is stressing you out its your vision and it sounds like you have been played and you need to talk to a professional. Sending you some love ❤
Thank you Gemma. I really hope we get this sorted soon xx
I will be praying for a good outcome for you
Thank you so much for keeping me in your prayers xx
My goodness you are having such a journey! My heart, prayers and hugs go out to you. I know that you have ordered from Alliexpress before and there are 2 kits that I’m looking at getting but 1 kits in particular I need for another project. There seem to be several listings on Alli for this kit and I’m concerned. How do you order from them and not get scammed? Do you have any good advice or can you help me with my search? This pattern seems to be a complete bear to find and it’s mostly on printed canvases but I need the paper pattern because it’s going on different fabric. I appreciate your help and May God Bless You!
Hi lovely, thank you for your kind comments.
Firstly, I have never had any issues with Ali Express. They take pride in companies not scamming customers so if you have an issue with anything, contact them, and they will open a dispute. You can trust Ali Express.
With regards to the actual pattern, you can look at the shops reviews, and make a decision from there. Good luck 🥰
Oh dear Holly, there are no words……it is devastating that people can be so devious. The word integrity that you used sums it up. It is sad that we cannot trust our fellow neighbours. Where money is concerned, friends, family and acquaintances sadly can’t be trusted. I was ‘stabbed in the back’ by a very close relative some years ago and have never got over it but life goes on……this too will pass. Praying that this is resolved very soon. Xx
Thanks so much Pat xx hope you're well 🥰
That’s entirely due to you being such a lovely person, he, he!!!
Or stupid, one of the two xx
Holly i am sooooo sorry people can be such D...heads! I hope and pray thenext update isa good pne,you totally deserve this, you have worked sooooo hard ❤
Hi Michelle, thank you so much for your kind comment. I'm still working on it. I hope we have something sorted by the end of this month! Xx
Love your stitching x
Regarding your neighbour.. I would be careful since the owner is not trustworthy since you paid her a deposit and then shes not sticking to the original agreement! I would be afraid that if you did pay regular money to her that she will do something similar later and you lose your money and the land.
I hope it all works out for you. I hope your Tumeric goes well once the advertising kicks in 😀
Thanks Renae. I would only enter in said agreement with contracts drawn up by lawyers. But you're right, she is so devious and deceitful. Hopefully karma will kick in. Xx
Holly, sorry you are going through all this. I'm assuming your business is registered with the state, so maybe you could get a loan through the business.
Hi Anna, it is registered with the state, I'm not allowed a loan through the business though. E2 stipulations that the business cannot have a debt xxx
@@hollythecrossstitchaddict83 Well, that sucks! Sorry.
Hi Holly, I am so sorry to hear all of your news. Its no wonder you are so stressed out and upset about it all. I am like you, I trust people too much. I learned the hard way that in agreements you need to cover any future possible outcomes, which is difficult when you trust that someone will do what they say. I so hope you receive good news from the agent and that some sort of agreement can be reached. I agree with other comments that neighbour 1 has been sneaky and under handed in what she has done in leasing out land she had already agreed to sell to you. I can see that she was in such money dire straits that all she was seeing was money coming into her hands, but she should have spoken to you first and appraised you of the situation. My thoughts are with you and sending virtual hugs. To see the stitching you have done is amazing, given the circumstances. I hope you can find solace in stitching to help you through this time, although I am like you, if my mind is stressing I find I cannot count ten stitches properly and give up. I am so hoping your next update is good news, keeping my fingers crossed for you xx
Thank you so much. I am so lucky to have my amazing stitching community with me xxx
@hollythecrossstitchaddict83 I am thinking of you and so hoping neighbour 1 sees the common sense in helping you over the obvious lack of payments so far from neighbour 2. Plenty of hugs from your lovely cats can help to bring down stress levels, their purr had a kind of magic effect on body's nervous system. Wish I lived in USA to offer more support meet you for coffee, I'm rooting for you from the UK 🇬🇧 please try not to blame yourself, I know you feel you are to blame and have been foolish, but you weren't you just trusted someone to do what they said and signed an agreement for. I think it is also different in USA to the UK in how people work with agreements. Hang in there as best you can xx
Oh Holly, how i want to be by your side and give you a hug. Its so much to do on your own, yes iknow your dad is at the end of a phone but thats not quite the same. Does the agreement that you and No.1 neighbour give you any security or binding. No.2 neighbour doesn't know that you paid 15,000 dollars down payment! It seems to me No.1 nb is very sneaky. I know you have set it in your mind that you have to have the land and you don't want buildings around you, BUT IF you don't get the land you cant die from that! You maywell be putting your health at risk by worrying about it all. I used to worry constantly over everything, some things cannot be changed no matter how much we worry. I had a similar thing when i divorced my ex. every week something would come up and i nearly chucked my hand in, but things worked out in the end. Trust me. Things will be sorted one way or another👍Things happen for a reason, and life goes on. I try not to worry about things so much and life is much calmer. I am truly sorry for the situation you are in and wish i could help❤️. Going back to the start of video as i jumped to the end because i was concerned as to what the problem was. Much love i shall have you in my thoughts, try to think positively (i know easy for me to say). 🤗🇬🇧
Thank you lovely. I am over whemed at how amazing and supportive my stitching community is. It's really humbling to know so many people care enough to reach out to me xxx
Holly, my prayers are for you, (((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))))))
I have been with you since your move to the states. You have endured practically something every month and have made it thru. I do hope you have an attorney to protect your interests. I do think you all will have a sit down face to face if the relationship is has gone this far face to face meetings can show much more sincerely how much this means to you and 15 grand is nothing to be sneezed at all the extra steps taken should also be reviewed. And party 2 should be visited maybe they been being told a different story than what it really is and thru a lack of transparency the vindictiveness is become apparent. You know he said she said kind of crap.Think positive right now you'll get it done. Im dissapointed we have to wait till next month for the news. Be in pins and needles for sure. If you can find time let us know before that with a quick update as all of us are rooting for you and worry about you. I was worried about tornadoes in your area vs this land grab. Be kind to yourself. Do a BBQ and a bottle of wine with your friends. Best of luck too.
Thank you hun. I will see about doing a stitch with me when I know more. Thank you so much for your kind comment xxx
Be careful as you will make yourself seriously ill and end up on medication with all of this stress and worry. Your health is the most important thing. You sound very wound up as you are really talking fast in this video.
It is just material stuff at the end of the day.. You also don't know other people's financial situation either. Don't trust anyone. Good luck with everything.
Thank you for your comment lovely. I know enough of her finacial situation and enough of her personality to know she's only doing this out of spite and jealousy. Still fighting though.
Apologies j was talking fast. I'll make sure I check myself in the next video x😀
I am late to the party here, Holly - but I agree with one of the commentators: Time for you to get legal representation. There is a whiff of fraud against you and neighbor 2 (hence their hostility albeit misplaced against you instead of neighbor 1) and possibly neighbor 3. All of it should be sorted out by a qualified attorney with real estate expertise.
@@Jasmine-ur1sl Hi lovely, legal representation has been sought. Just waiting to see what the outcome is now xx thanks for your lovely comment xx
Not knowing the specifics of your legal agreement with neighbor # 1, I’d contact a lawyer who specializes in land sales.
Looking at litigators now 😀
I would definitely be in touch with a lawyer for assistance. She has shown she’s shady and untrustworthy, basically selling land to two people. And neighbor 2 probably has it out for you because she wants to develop the property and make a bunch of money and I bet she thinks you’re going to be wasting the land on horses. I hope it all works out for you! But again, DEFINITELY reach out to a lawyer, this is getting very messy and I don’t want to see you get screwed over
Thanks hun. I have an appointment with a litogator, so we'll see xx
What a mess you are in ☹️ you really don’t need all this extra stress and it sounds like all your neighbors are nothing but hassle. That’s the thanks you get for bailing her out. You should get your money back off her and maybe new neighbors means more business? Everything will work out in the end just do one step at a time. Sending good vibes fingers crossed 🤞
Thank you lovely. It doesn't matter what I do, or how many people I help, I seem to constantly get shat on. I wish we had the agreement squared away before hand. I'm such an idiot! xxxx
Holly you must not sell your body parts that can go so wrong and you need your health. A better bet would be to marry a USA man with great credit. What I have found out about some people over the years they can be flaky; also money talks. You are the better bet on this one it's not rocket science. Regular money comes in and if you miss a payment Number 1 keeps the lot. You have made good on your cross stitch this month so keep stitching. I wish you all the best for things working out and they will. Hang in there.!
Hi Daisyrea, lovely hearing from you. You are so right, but they are adamant that they want traditional finacing only. This is killing me!
1:15:56 Holly - I live in GA and if you want to send me the purple fabric with the LDS, i would gladly frog the stitches to safe the fabric for you. I will email you my address if this is an option. Neighbors can be a real pain and cause so much stress. Hoping things work well for you. Patricia
Hi lovely, thank you so much, there is so much to frog though. I would not ask anyone to put themselves through that kind of hell lol xx
I have put myself through that agony time and again so I'm a pro now.😂😂 Patricia
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