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  • @lcall4619
    @lcall4619 2 года назад +175

    “This family has standards”
    I feel like we might have heard that exact quote from when Rory first went to dinner with the Huntzbergers…

    • @kaledadam3955
      @kaledadam3955 Год назад +10

      yep in that situation, it was rory and basically, all the Gilmore family who were put in their place

  • @amandakerr1607
    @amandakerr1607 3 года назад +421

    This makes me think of when Logan’s family criticizes Rory.

    • @chanaberlove8720
      @chanaberlove8720 3 года назад +46

      Logan's family was nicer than this.

    • @xtxpxhx
      @xtxpxhx 3 года назад +19

      He's just a teenage boy

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 3 года назад +22

      @@chanaberlove8720 no they where not. Telling Rory she wasnt good enough for their family is not being nice.

    • @rogueryder3285
      @rogueryder3285 2 года назад

      @@chanaberlove8720 no, they were cruel in a more bougie way. Richard was just bring an angry dick

    • @DaughtersofLilith52
      @DaughtersofLilith52 2 года назад +5

      @@lauriecarson6483 well Logan’s sister didn’t get pregnant at 16 he’s just protective

  • @dayschange2
    @dayschange2 10 месяцев назад +47

    You know you're in trouble when even Emily is trying to help you out.

  • @bibliofiliafull
    @bibliofiliafull 3 года назад +147

    Aside from the drama, I just love that now Emily knows what to give to Rory and how she indulges her nerdy side. I just remember the first episodes when she didn't know the basics about gift giving and how to conect with her, and one can see that even though she doesn't quite like Dean she's doing her best to make the evening enjoyable.

  • @Kashish4Eijaz
    @Kashish4Eijaz 3 года назад +142

    Poor Dean I think he wanted to eat more but Richard's glare scared him so he just kindly refused.

    • @RuinedStillWetMascara
      @RuinedStillWetMascara Год назад +5

      The food must have been delicious :(

    • @oooh19
      @oooh19 Год назад

      what about high class manners?

    • @tiffanygrever8092
      @tiffanygrever8092 Год назад +7

      One of the few times I felt sorry for dean, Richard was totally out of line.

  • @actaemazantor9558
    @actaemazantor9558 3 года назад +144

    1:18
    "So, Dean."
    *°everyone turn their heads in panic°*
    XDXDXD

  • @PhilospherDjPsychologist24
    @PhilospherDjPsychologist24 3 года назад +72

    I love that when Richard talks about his Job he in no way said anything which gave you an idea what is his job actually DOES

    • @logancomics
      @logancomics 3 года назад +5

      Dude, he’s in the insurance business

  • @SandyMcInnesMagicMemories
    @SandyMcInnesMagicMemories 3 года назад +71

    “Am I crazy? That’s supposed to be us, right?”

  • @adeel-eh7xq
    @adeel-eh7xq 3 года назад +237

    The irony "Rory is special". Fast forward the later seasons and reboot and see what she becomes. If only they didn't inflate her ego so much she might have turned out different.

    • @isabel_lima
      @isabel_lima 3 года назад +14

      she was special at the time. they can't see the future. they were talking about Rory in 2000, not rory in 2016

    • @adeel-eh7xq
      @adeel-eh7xq 3 года назад +50

      @@isabel_lima ​ The point is she was told she was exceptional a bit too much, that's why she was so disappointed all of those years later when she was told journalism was not for her. That's why she spiraled downwards and made terrible mistakes. To be honest, they did lay on the praise a bit too thick. In the first season we were told that she was like some kind of Disney Princess.

    • @isabel_lima
      @isabel_lima 3 года назад +6

      @@adeel-eh7xq yeah. With that I agree

    • @theocratickingdom30
      @theocratickingdom30 3 года назад +1

      It is only a tv show. If she actually did become an international journalist, there would be no show.

    • @adeel-eh7xq
      @adeel-eh7xq 3 года назад +12

      @@theocratickingdom30 It might have been just as good. She would have travelled to different places. That could have been interesting for the show. Also, being 'special' doesn't mean that she should have become a famous journalist to validate her specialness. It's just how they made her seem so exceptional and extraordinary when she did such basic things like cheat on all of her bfs and throw bratty tantrums. If she was truly 'special', she would have risen above all of that entitled crap.

  • @alexanderzack3720
    @alexanderzack3720 Год назад +48

    rare to see that emily is the friendly host and richard is the passive aggressive one

    • @r.g6170
      @r.g6170 5 месяцев назад +4

      richard was actually so much more ruthless than emily. when he scolds lauraleigh it is always because of the insult she caused his family name while emily scolds her because lauraleigh didnt want her in her life.

  • @maisiesbooks
    @maisiesbooks 3 года назад +103

    Oh my god Richard made me so mad in this scene

  • @rogueryder3285
    @rogueryder3285 2 года назад +48

    This is one of the things I hated the most about Richard and Emily when it came to Rory. They keep treating her like she's the "Do-Over Lorelai" just because she's still a kid and nicer to them than Lorelai is, and because she a well educated person. She is not their daughter. As grandparents, their job is to spoil her, not treat her the way they treated Lorelai. Just because some pretty boy comes their way, they act like her whole life's gonna go to hell and she'll end up pregnant. No matter what they think, she is not a Do-Over Lorelai. She is her own person, and is proud of it. If her mother's trusts her, shouldn't that be enough? Richard and Emily both need to learn that they agreed to this arrangement to get to know Rory, and be financially in charge of her high school education, until Lorelai pays them back. Not so they could co-parent her themselves, and bulldoze over how she lives her life, or whom she chooses to live it with

    • @Ariana-wv4pf
      @Ariana-wv4pf 8 месяцев назад

      "Grandparents are supposed to spoil not coparent"
      Says who?
      Rory is a very immature and already spoiled 17 year old who needs a wake up call once in a while. And since her mother is too busy being her funny and relaxed friend, somebody has to be the parent and spit out the cold facts. Because you can't be both, gotta pick. And Dean (the way they wrote him later on) wasn't good enough for Rory. She had major ambitions, to be this great journalist, travelling the world, Dean was still bagging groceries and had no future plans. He also wanted a housewife or at least a woman who is home every night waiting with the dinner on the table, which obviously Rory couldn't be. So it's only natural for Richard to be afraid Dean might derail Rory from her great future, might get her pregnant or convince her to drop out. Sure, they were also great snobs who of course wanted Rory to marry well, into some old money family, like Logan's.
      But I don't think Richard was out of line. However, he was incredibly rude and crass to Dean, he could've discussed this in private with Rory. But I guess he really wanted to show Dean he did not approve of the relationship.

    • @rogueryder3285
      @rogueryder3285 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@Ariana-wv4pf a lot of people say that grandparents need to spoil. That's why they're grandparents. Their jobs as parents are towards their own children and Rory isn't their daughter. And her rotten behavior later on has nothing to do with the elite snobbery her grandparents were consumed with in the earlier seasons. They were too hung up on the past to give Rory and Dean the respect they deserved as a couple instead of having flashbacks to how they failed with Lorelai. Not only did they apologize to Rory but they still should have apologized to her mother. Rory didn't deserve that outburst from him and neither did Dean. And doing it in front of Lorelai was even more rude. Teens don't randomly have protected/unprotected sex for nothing. Most of them do it for comfort because they can't find it in their own homes. And Lorelai never felt comfortable with Richard and Emily. They raised her differently than she did Rory. They outtapay attention to facts

  • @roseredmayne
    @roseredmayne 3 года назад +51

    Richard cares for Rory and so does Dean but they are two personalities that'll clash

  • @avanilondhe7187
    @avanilondhe7187 3 года назад +39

    but when rory had to go through the same thing with Logans family Richard was fuming.....u get what u give

    • @rustjones385
      @rustjones385 5 месяцев назад +1

      Richard deserved to taste his own medicine, but it's a slightly different scenario. Richard socializes with Mitchum and knows his whole family. They are in the same circles, so it's kind of messed up for the Huntzburgers to insult the Gilmores and low class behavior. They were trash talking the Gilmore's family name behind their back. Richard did it to Dean's face. And ironically, Rory was better than 98% of women that Logan could possibly bring. She's classy, beautiful, actually loves him, smart, and comes from a very good family. There might be wealthier women but it will end in divorce if they don't love each other and the Huntzburgers have more than enough money. It's also ironic coming from Shira(Mitchum's wife) since she's a literal nobody.

  • @mv7374
    @mv7374 3 года назад +37

    Honestly it was this kind of upbringing as well as getting more chummy w similar students at Yale that got the Rory we have today

    • @katielarsen2630
      @katielarsen2630 3 года назад +12

      True, Rory bought into the classism that Lorelai got away from (mostly)

  • @MiSolesito
    @MiSolesito 3 года назад +71

    So let me get this straight. Logan and Dean both met Richard when he was still alive, Richard got to be rude to both Logan and Dean (even though Richard liked Logan but that's besides the point). While Jess gets out scott free from meeting Richard on several occasions, I really find that really sus because he wasn't there to yell at Jess about his black eye or going to school or going to a university. I feel like creators did this on purpose because they knew Richard would never have approved of Jess for Rory.

    • @blairbrown4812
      @blairbrown4812 3 года назад +3

      BTS or IRL,Drama is the lifeblood of any form of entertainment,let alone TV. If there were any way to integrate a "Richard meets Jess" story that would have blown the ratings through the roof,believe me,the writing staff would have found a way to make it happen. 😳

    • @MiSolesito
      @MiSolesito 3 года назад +1

      @@blairbrown4812 hm I guess I just find it kind of sus ya know and I'm just observing

    • @jaymak_16
      @jaymak_16 3 года назад +8

      You are right, there is a few times I felt that way. Like Max too, how Lorelai handled the engagement affected how R&E are involved in that relationship because the writer never meant for it to last. R&E would have loved Max, but they are suppose to love Christopher.

    • @thefairybug40
      @thefairybug40 2 года назад +11

      I would've adored it if Richard TRIED to grill Jess and made the mistake of starting with literature, only to find that Jess is actually incredibly well-read. Irt would've been hilarious to see him both like Jess's potential and despise the way he wastes it. Honestly, it could've been really fun to see Richard consider whether or not to take Jess under his wing a bit. Obviously such an effort would ultimately fail, but it could've been interesting to see Emily LOATHE him while Richard felt conflicted. Lorelai and Emily versus Richard and Rory in regards to Jess could've been some of the funniest and most dramatic storylines that we never got to see.

    • @MiSolesito
      @MiSolesito 2 года назад +1

      @@thefairybug40 omg fuck yes! That would have been amazing!

  • @pearl_lisha896
    @pearl_lisha896 3 года назад +33

    Lorelei should have told them he was coming. She set him and all of them up for a difficult night. This was instigated but that doesn’t excuse their behavior.

    • @sp691
      @sp691 3 года назад +13

      it's not lorelai's fault that her dad was being a prick

    • @logancomics
      @logancomics 3 года назад +12

      Yeah that doesn’t excuse Richard’s behavior

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 2 года назад +1

      No Rory should of told them not Lorelai. and even if Lorelai did tell them Richard would probably act the same way he did before.

  • @andrediaz2748
    @andrediaz2748 3 года назад +32

    Awww you can tell poor little Richard was the schools punching bag.

    • @logancomics
      @logancomics 3 года назад +33

      As Lorelei said, “That’s because you were always picked last for dodgeball”

    • @andrediaz2748
      @andrediaz2748 3 года назад

      @@logancomics that's my favorite line!

  • @Guesswhosback2814
    @Guesswhosback2814 Год назад +9

    Dean has a family and earns a good living. Rory is so high on her own BS she cant remember to dump the boyfriend she is cheating on. Dean may not be "special" but Im sure hes thankful for that.

  • @RoseLemonade.
    @RoseLemonade. 3 года назад +24

    Damn it, grandpa! I was really curious to see what Twinkies were.

  • @SandyMcInnesMagicMemories
    @SandyMcInnesMagicMemories 3 года назад +23

    “She’s MAKING the Twinkies??”

  • @Squrtile101
    @Squrtile101 2 года назад +13

    I don’t think Lorelei expected her dad to act that way her mom yes

  • @anteroinen4239
    @anteroinen4239 3 года назад +14

    Nobody here was exactly professional. Lorelai clearly just made Dean a surprise, which is not cool, but was by far the smallest infraction. Emily then went on to tease the guy and basically mock his taste in food, by pointedly treating simple dishes as exotic food beyond her comprehension. Still, that was clearly as far as she was going to take it, some snide remarks, but ultimately enjoy the new boy squirm a bit on his unannounced surprise visit. Even Emily genuinely tries to stop Richard, everyone does, but he doesn't. He just pushes so he can humiliate Dean.

  • @khaxjc1
    @khaxjc1 3 года назад +24

    I love the shot down the table from Richards's end from a film perspective but it doesn't seem in line with the established style of the show.

  • @logancomics
    @logancomics Год назад +2

    Looks like Richard thought the same as Lorelai when she first saw Dean “he looks like Christopher.”

  • @MarieMurashko
    @MarieMurashko Год назад +3

    Rory is special! Rory is gifted! I guess I know what have spoiled her...

  • @PhilospherDjPsychologist24
    @PhilospherDjPsychologist24 2 года назад +13

    2:51 I don't know Rich, maybe he'll get a job where he spends all day trying to charm drunk clients into giving him their money and then let his wife do his half job for him by throwing all the networking parties

  • @Beautiful_Redesign
    @Beautiful_Redesign Год назад +2

    That's because you were always picked last for dodgeball! Lol lol 😂😂😂😂

  • @frogradar
    @frogradar 2 года назад +9

    A lot of people show how this is rude to Dean, but can we talk about they dynamic itself.
    Whenever Emily is on the attack, Rory or Lorelai are quick to wit remakr her back or shut her down or argue. Notice how noone is able to do that here. Lorelai is unable to deflect the conversation and she looks visibally stunned at how nothing is wroking to protect something her daughter is interested in. Rory is equally as frozen because her Grandfather, a man who is seemingly always on her side wont hear her.

    • @pennsharon8098
      @pennsharon8098 2 года назад +3

      To him he is seeing history repeat itself with Rory and Dean. Also father’s and grandfather’s are more protective of daughter when it comes to boy/men

    • @Honeybear0488
      @Honeybear0488 2 года назад +1

      @@pennsharon8098 and in this case Christopher is not around so Richard thinks it comes to him to do that.

  • @oooh19
    @oooh19 Год назад +3

    I love that they value academics but don’t bully others

  • @pennsharon8098
    @pennsharon8098 3 года назад +28

    But why did Rory bring dean and not Lane?

    • @bibliofiliafull
      @bibliofiliafull 3 года назад +3

      I wonder the same thing.

    • @logancomics
      @logancomics 3 года назад +4

      Ikr she could’ve avoided this whole freaking fight

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 2 года назад +4

      Cause she wanted Dean to met her grandparents and I doubt Mrs. Kim would let her go.

    • @rogueryder3285
      @rogueryder3285 2 года назад +2

      Her crazy mother would never allow it

    • @pennsharon8098
      @pennsharon8098 2 года назад +1

      @@rogueryder3285 I don’t think so . She always allowed Lane to hang out with Rory if she asked ahead of time

  • @kaledadam3955
    @kaledadam3955 Год назад +3

    Richard predicted correctly why dean and Rory wouldn't last in the future

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 Год назад +1

      Yeah ok

    • @kaledadam3955
      @kaledadam3955 Год назад

      @@lauriecarson6483 well look what happened to them in season 5

    • @BabyLettuce70
      @BabyLettuce70 6 месяцев назад

      First loves rarely last. They were doomed as soon as Rory went off to college. Jess was never going to survive for the same reason.

  • @Quirkyalonester
    @Quirkyalonester Год назад +3

    This scene shows very clearly they consider Rory a do over. Richards behavior was over the top and have to laugh at the lines of having standards and coming from certain families. Between Rory's father, Tristan, and at times Logan/the Huntzburgers, is much rather be around someone like Dean than the others. Of course Rory's father isn't a terrible person, but he had a lot of growing up to do and really never was the parent he should have been with Rory.

  • @raulbetancourt5795
    @raulbetancourt5795 2 месяца назад

    What a great way to remaind us that Richard is probably more aggresive them Emily.

  • @excellentocholi9057
    @excellentocholi9057 Год назад +4

    She never should have brought him, she should have brought Lane.

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 Год назад +1

      She didn't want to bring Lane she wanted to bring Dean why can't fans understand that. She didn't know her grandpa would go off on Dean. Nothing wrong with wanting to introduce a boyfriend to your grandparents.

  • @jaymak_16
    @jaymak_16 3 года назад +8

    I wonder if Lorelai ever spoke back at her parents at Rory's age cause I feel like one of the many reasons she left was because she didn't have a say over conversations like this one, I mean even here she couldn't even get a word in on behalf of Rory neither could Emily and when Emily is the one going on and on Richard doesn't say anything. These guys tried as grandparents and always fixed their mistakes but as parents they just never wanted to acknowledge their mistakes ever. I hated this episode, I normally embrace all the good moments and bad but this episode nope!

  • @katieking7231
    @katieking7231 4 месяца назад +1

    It is not a crisis for a protective grandfather to grill a teenage boy who comes home with his grand daughter … I’ve seen plenty of great women throw their lives away on boys who didn’t deserve them. He was just being protective - and frankly Dean didn’t scream “I have a great future ahead of me”

  • @yvrmx
    @yvrmx 3 года назад +28

    Paris was special! rory was just a shy awkward selfish girl and once she meet Logan she lost focus and just loved to hang out with rich spoil people

    • @justinaacuriouswanderer1496
      @justinaacuriouswanderer1496 3 года назад +2

      yes & to anyone that doesn't agree, she herself, in the first episode or two, said she was "a self-centered spaz" when it comes to boys, dating & life. It was subtle but they've already warned us 😂😂🤦‍♀️
      It broke my heart seeing Dean hurt like that.. he was literally ready to give his life for her

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 3 года назад +1

      To Richard she was special. Grew up

  • @xxhorror13
    @xxhorror13 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ive had people try to make me feel dumb which is why i hate Richard in this episode
    Also Did anyone notice that Richard treats Dean the same way Logan's family treated Rory when she went to dinner at his house?

  • @jamiegollwitzer8528
    @jamiegollwitzer8528 3 года назад +5

    i don't understand why would richard attack dean?

  • @Haleycarol
    @Haleycarol Год назад +1

    Sounds same exact situation with Luke of how Emily felt of Luke just because they were both poor/ middle class, sure I can understand them both looking after their children or grandchild but everyone can succeed in life without college and without a lot of money

  • @Kovu2004
    @Kovu2004 3 года назад +3

    For all of you hating on Richard i think it’s because you don’t understand his way of thinking

    • @unamed2516
      @unamed2516 Год назад +1

      I mean I get it but he was being too judgmental. He literally doesn’t know Dean at all or what kind of person he could be in the future. So instead of attacking him he should have had a calm conversation with him to understand him better.

  • @RefugeeKLicious
    @RefugeeKLicious 6 месяцев назад

    Dean was so cute *swoon* 😍🥰

  • @rogueryder3285
    @rogueryder3285 2 года назад +1

    4:40 my thoughts exactly 😆😆😆

  • @marioacuna5681
    @marioacuna5681 4 месяца назад

    He looked at dean and Rory and saw Lorelei and Chris

  • @RoPiDe
    @RoPiDe 4 месяца назад

    I love Dean, he's my favourite, i had a huge crush on the guy in my teens and through all the run of Supernatural, but Jesus, that necklace did not help with Richard AT ALL😅

  • @ianbrewer4843
    @ianbrewer4843 2 года назад

    Very informative scene

  • @corndawg15
    @corndawg15 Год назад

    Isn’t beefaroni like goulash?

  • @soobiesoobieee
    @soobiesoobieee 4 месяца назад

    why would they bring dean here anyway LMAO

  • @sarika811
    @sarika811 2 года назад

    Or be a ballerina lmaoo

  • @bethanybeech5545
    @bethanybeech5545 2 года назад +1

    Me & Emily have a special relationship together we have so much in common together I like to meet you Kelly Bishop I love you Emily

  • @gilmoreedits7060
    @gilmoreedits7060 2 года назад

    I know exactly what I want to do and I am ten too. + I want to go to yale as well. Yikes poor Rory and dean

    • @Kazuki_0
      @Kazuki_0 Год назад

      I wish you well about Yale!

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 Год назад

      I hope that when you become a teenager your thought about Yale is still the same. Cause dreams can change.

  • @stephanieramadhar9585
    @stephanieramadhar9585 Год назад

    Unpopular opinion...Richard was right

  • @justinaacuriouswanderer1496
    @justinaacuriouswanderer1496 3 года назад +7

    Oh yeah we know Dean is special, so special in fact the entire thing should've been about him, but that's why you cheated on him & broke his heart (which led him to make some pretty hasty decisions, blinded by grief).. This show just didn't make sense. The guy was ready to give his life for her.
    I don't want to get in a relationship but I just don't understand some people & how they would fall for a relationship-hosing narcissist instead. it freaks me out some girls are idolizing Jess

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 2 года назад

      Dean also broke up with Rory cause she didn't say I love you back. he is not a saint he has too many red flags.

    • @lxvendar2138
      @lxvendar2138 2 года назад

      SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

    • @Honeybear0488
      @Honeybear0488 2 года назад +3

      @@lauriecarson6483 HE DIDN'T BREAK UP. He was upset that she didn't reply anything, then went off and told people in stars hollow he broke up with her. Did he LITERALLY say it's over? No! He deserved a sensitive response. It takes courage to tell people you love them because many people don't because they are afraid of a mean rejection. He told her he loved her. If she was surprised, it's ok but later she could have talked to him and told him how she felt. I felt bad for him because she made him look like a monster when she lied to him a lot . Then in the end when things fall apart in Yale, she cries on his shoulders, breaks his marriage by sleeping with him KNOWING he's having marriage problems. People with marriage problems are in vulnerable space where they need proper advise. She could have told Lorelei and she could have intervened and helped Dean get back with his wife by keeping Rory out of his mind and sight. 444

    • @lauriecarson6483
      @lauriecarson6483 Год назад +1

      ​@@Honeybear0488 he broke up with her. Dean can't force Rory to say it back. My god Dean fans are so annoyig making excuses for him. Dean had to many red flags for a 16 year old.

    • @RefugeeKLicious
      @RefugeeKLicious 6 месяцев назад

      @@lauriecarson6483pray tell, what were the many red flags?

  • @desireeford92
    @desireeford92 3 года назад +9

    This wasn’t for Lorelai to try and save the conversation. They are standard questions for Dean to answer upon meeting particular parents/grandparents

    • @katepausig8562
      @katepausig8562 3 года назад +23

      These are not standard questions by any means unless you are a weirdo.

    • @MiSolesito
      @MiSolesito 3 года назад +8

      Okay but when you are still in high school and I mean in standard public high school and have no idea what you want to do, its okay not knowing because you shouldn't live up to people's expectations or paces. People have different paces like Rory, Rory is more quicker and smart and knows what she wants to do in life and was sent into Chilton. I'm just saying asking these questions on the first night your meeting someone, maybe should come last after getting to know the person first.

  • @mainecoast3519
    @mainecoast3519 Год назад

    Rory is annoying

  • @TheFrettino
    @TheFrettino 3 года назад +3

    First!! For 16 seconds

  • @osrs.hayley
    @osrs.hayley 3 года назад +3

    Omg I'm the first comment