that happens to me at shows all the time.. its classified as worst case scenario thinking. for instance, in my mind one bad jump = a completely awful lesson. there are a lot of things that can help with that, but as dumb as it sounds visualization is super helpful. not just visualizing it going well, but actually imagining a problem (like missing to a bigger oxer) and how you need to ride through that and move forward so that if it actually happens your brain is able to move past it and fix the issue. hopefully that helps a bit!
it's definitely about perspective. I have confidence issues too, but just keep reminding yourself how far you've come in the long run. would yourself a year ago today be proud of you? probably! and it's never as bad as you think, the .85's are honestly big to me so i'm impressed with u doing those even though that's a disappointment for you.
omg u literally ate i love you so much u are by far my favorite youtuber and i have watched this video over 10 times u are my biggest inspiration! i hope you keep making vlogs when you show during college and i hope to be as good of a rider as you some day! thank you for being such a great inspiration!
I’m a swimmer and I get stuff like that at meets and a lot of my coaches have suggested sports psychologists to help properly process things that happen in competition❤ Edit: to everyone who knows someone like that don’t try and get them to calm down by saying calm down just let them know that you’re there for them
Yaaay! New video! Loving the long videos. 😍 How are you enjoying the new Samshield? I just bought a One K Avance but I wore a Miss Shield in the past (I did the opposite as you) and don’t know which I like better. I can relate to the riding anxiety. I actually was in sports therapy for awhile after I had a bad fall and got dragged about 20 feet in college. It’s easy to be our biggest critics when everything gets so intense in our minds. You’re a great rider, hang in there!
How long have you been jumping for? I don't mean anything insulting by this btw, I'm just curious because you seem really good (I've only watched a few videos), and i want to be as good as you
@@carokeating that's a lot of dedication! I've been riding for 10 years, but I've never been able to jump before. I'm hoping to start soon though. Thank you for telling me. This should help me make a reasonable timeline for myself
Tu es un beau cavalier! (Am I helping with your placement test? 😂) You ARE good enough! You DESERVE to be there! In you're last vlog I commented that you looked like you been jumping 1.10 forever and I meant it. You got this!!
i have confidence issues in volleyball and what i do is think of all of the good times and everything i’ve come through. if you remind yourself of all of the good things that have happened the bad things seem a little smaller.
Yes GIRLL! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE KENTUCKY HORSE PARK. I was actually there today watching the novice show jumpers and xc. I was going to watch the jr leauge horse show but then I was like, nahhh😭. Anyways, I love your vlogs and you should come to the ky horse park a lot more. It’s so fun to show and compete there, I go a lot because I live in Kentucky and I live about 15 mins away from it. I’m sad I didn’t get to go to breyerfest or the 3 day event, but just coming to the horse park in general cures my depression🤣❤️🩹🤍
hi I will be subscribing to you I just came across your channel and thought you have good vids.😀 I don't know if you take requests for vids not like shorts but vids bc i have some ideas in mind such as.... 1. Pole work with your horses videos (Pinterest have good ideas search pole work for horses). 2. Grooming your horse. 3. Tacking up your horse then going for a ride. 4. Day in a life as owning horses (like if you go to school when you come home you say something like i just got home from school and now its time to head to the barn then show us what you do at the barn) 5. GoPro trail rides/or GoPro anything (if you have a GoPro if you don't then that's fine) If you can't do these then i understand
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Yes gurl we all loose our minds sometime at a horseshow 😋😋
are we ever mentally stable at horse shows.. or ever? 😭 u looked AMAZING 😻
thank youuuu😍 and no…. never
I lose my mind every time anything goes wrong at shows so I feel you😍
that happens to me at shows all the time.. its classified as worst case scenario thinking. for instance, in my mind one bad jump = a completely awful lesson. there are a lot of things that can help with that, but as dumb as it sounds visualization is super helpful. not just visualizing it going well, but actually imagining a problem (like missing to a bigger oxer) and how you need to ride through that and move forward so that if it actually happens your brain is able to move past it and fix the issue. hopefully that helps a bit!
that actually makes a lot of sense! i’ve never tried that before thank you💗💗
“ we’re stable,we’re good,we’re happy.. BLAAAA “ you SERVEDD ON MOST OF THOSE SEXY ROUNDS MHM!!
thank youuuu😘😘😘😛
completely losing my mind is so real 😂❤
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it's definitely about perspective. I have confidence issues too, but just keep reminding yourself how far you've come in the long run. would yourself a year ago today be proud of you? probably! and it's never as bad as you think, the .85's are honestly big to me so i'm impressed with u doing those even though that's a disappointment for you.
thank you sm ik it’s just so easy to get all wrapped up in everything💗💗
the long vlogs devour every time, well worth the wait 🤩
thank youuuu😘😘😘
I love these vlogs so much. You did great despite the issues I love how you bounced back and you’ve inspired me so much. 🩷
thank you so much!! 💗💗
the pic in the thumbnail is SCRUMPTIOUS
agreeeeed cj ate
omg u literally ate i love you so much u are by far my favorite youtuber and i have watched this video over 10 times u are my biggest inspiration! i hope you keep making vlogs when you show during college and i hope to be as good of a rider as you some day! thank you for being such a great inspiration!
aw thank you so much this is so sweet i will definitely vlog anytime i show this year!! 💗💗💗
@@carokeating thank you! i hope you have an amazing time in college!
I’m a swimmer and I get stuff like that at meets and a lot of my coaches have suggested sports psychologists to help properly process things that happen in competition❤
Edit: to everyone who knows someone like that don’t try and get them to calm down by saying calm down just let them know that you’re there for them
thank you!! im looking into it rn 💗💗
@@carokeatinggood luck ❤
new sub! i love your videos theyre so inspiring
thank you!!
Your riding is so good❤ this was so fun to watch!!!
aw thank you💗💗
Yaaay! New video! Loving the long videos. 😍 How are you enjoying the new Samshield? I just bought a One K Avance but I wore a Miss Shield in the past (I did the opposite as you) and don’t know which I like better.
I can relate to the riding anxiety. I actually was in sports therapy for awhile after I had a bad fall and got dragged about 20 feet in college. It’s easy to be our biggest critics when everything gets so intense in our minds. You’re a great rider, hang in there!
i’m lovinnnngg the samshield!! and thank you💗💗
He looks half asleep 😂
56 seconds! can’t wait to watch ❤
thank youuu!!
How long have you been jumping for? I don't mean anything insulting by this btw, I'm just curious because you seem really good (I've only watched a few videos), and i want to be as good as you
10 years!
@@carokeating that's a lot of dedication! I've been riding for 10 years, but I've never been able to jump before. I'm hoping to start soon though. Thank you for telling me. This should help me make a reasonable timeline for myself
Tu es un beau cavalier! (Am I helping with your placement test? 😂) You ARE good enough! You DESERVE to be there! In you're last vlog I commented that you looked like you been jumping 1.10 forever and I meant it. You got this!!
lolllll merci!😘 thank you so much hopefully we can get back there soon!!!
Don’t cry, you did very well. It’s ok to be sad but you’ll do better next time. You are so brave !
thank youu!💗💗
1:00 your eyes look soooooo pretty i love brown eyes in the sun i have brown eyes too ❤
stawwp thank youu💖💖
i have confidence issues in volleyball and what i do is think of all of the good times and everything i’ve come through. if you remind yourself of all of the good things that have happened the bad things seem a little smaller.
hi caroline when you do you overviews of the day can u say what you placed on each trip!
i basically never check cuz i dont stick around for the end of the class but if i know my place ill usually say it
@@carokeating ok
Yes GIRLL! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE KENTUCKY HORSE PARK. I was actually there today watching the novice show jumpers and xc. I was going to watch the jr leauge horse show but then I was like, nahhh😭. Anyways, I love your vlogs and you should come to the ky horse park a lot more. It’s so fun to show and compete there, I go a lot because I live in Kentucky and I live about 15 mins away from it. I’m sad I didn’t get to go to breyerfest or the 3 day event, but just coming to the horse park in general cures my depression🤣❤️🩹🤍
we are def planning to come back next year!
@@carokeating you should totally come watch the grand prix next Saturday!
Will you be at culpeper horse show at commonwealth park on July 9 - 14 2024
nope
I will literally pay you to give a motivational speech on a day I’m not riding well
am i qualified to do that - no… will i - duh
@@carokeating Also I think you’d do a great job voicing over our rounds lol
You did soooo good ❤❤
thank youu!!
QUEEN SLAYINGGG
thank yewwwwwwwww
Should I get a samsheild? There absolutely gorgeous but really expensive 😅
ehh you don’t need one but like def a good option they are pretty safe and very stylish
Yay ❤❤ new vlog
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@@carokeating love the new profile pic btw 🔥
hi I will be subscribing to you I just came across your channel and thought you have good vids.😀
I don't know if you take requests for vids not like shorts but vids bc i have some ideas in mind such as....
1. Pole work with your horses videos (Pinterest have good ideas search pole work for horses).
2. Grooming your horse.
3. Tacking up your horse then going for a ride.
4. Day in a life as owning horses (like if you go to school when you come home you say something like i just got home from school and now its time to head to the barn then show us what you do at the barn)
5. GoPro trail rides/or GoPro anything (if you have a GoPro if you don't then that's fine)
If you can't do these then i understand
thank you!!😘😘😘😘😘
@@carokeating Np! Keep up the good vids
Where is your orange belt from??!!
GhoDho!
I think I just watched a video of myself at a show. I swear this is me vlogging rn 🙉
no it might be you
Btw the 0.85s are terrifying to me 😂
girl me too sometimes
I think your Samshield is a lucky helmet ❤❤
lowkeyyyy
I think someone from my barn was in the same class as you and CJ!!
they probably beat me 😻😻🫶
@@carokeating stop thats the funniest reply ever
you u moved up!!!! you doing so good! what did u place on the first day with leo and cj
thank you sm!! they were both clear round blues the first day!!
@@carokeating good job
You ate this show!!❤❤ -might be first lolll-
thank youu😘😘💝
I live for your vids 😻😻😻
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WOOOOOOOO MY FAVE
MY favvvvvvvvvv
yess
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Horse shows and I have a love hate relationship 😭
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Yasss!!!! New video!!!❤❤❤❤
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Will you be going to Culpeper July 9 - 14
nopee
love how real you are! love crying mid course
we’ve alll been there
yayay hi caroline
hiiii!!!
29:42 i think he knocked it lol 😂
no scope no hope 🤪
i’m going to culpepper too
Same lol
i am no longer :(( too hot
I am going too so sad you are not but huge fan
1ST!!! ❤❤
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